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{ "description": "not wanting to take a shift for a coworker because of how my boss asked me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to take a shift for a coworker because of how my boss asked me?
I received a text from my boss at about midnight that a coworker of mine won’t be coming into her shift because her aunt passed away. I’m a lifeguard and this specific coworker relieves me when my shift is over. At the end of my boss’ text to me it said “can you help her in her time of need”. My boss is known for u...
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{ "description": "wanting a non-monogamous relationship when my partner doesn't", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for wanting a non-monogamous relationship when my partner doesn't?
I am in a bit of a messy, undefined relationship with a person I deeply love. We've never been in an exclusive relationship, and since the beginning I told him I wasn't ready to be monogamous. He has always made it clear that is what he wants. We have been trying to make the open relationship work, but it is a strain o...
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{ "description": "giving more effort and attention to my girlfriend & Job than my mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA That I give more effort and attention to my girlfriend & Job than my Mom?
I'm 21 and recently got my first girlfriend a couple weeks ago. I also started doing online freelancing work earlier this year teaching myself video editing from scratch and marketing myself. I feel like my life is coming together and I'm working hard at my job to improve, and also treating my girlfriend very special m...
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{ "description": "anonymously letting my boyfriend's friend's gf know he cheated on her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for anonymously letting my boyfriend’s friend’s gf know he cheated on her?
Hi guys. I’m really conflicted here and could use your advice. My boyfriend and I have been together since July 2017, and are a great couple. He has a friend group from college, one of whom (Harry) has a girlfriend Alice that he has been with since early 2017. In November 2017, he went for a meal with his girlfrien...
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{ "description": "pointing out things that were wrong with a Madoka and Homura cosplay", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for pointing out things that were wrong with a Madoka and Homura cosplay?
So I came across a picture on Instagram (I'll put the link to the picture in the comments) and the Madoka was (in my opinion) a recycled Natsuki cosplay so I pointed out things wrong with both cosplays. I'm not going to exactly quote what I said because you can look for yourself on the post, my comment is under the use...
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{ "description": "not knowing about a friend's breakup", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not knowing about a friend’s breakup?
I was texting my friend and mentioned something about his girlfriend. He replied they had broken up, but in a joke way. I apologized for not knowing, or else i wouldn’t have brought it up. I got no response so i made a joke, as his breakup response was in a joke way and tried to change the subject. I figured he didn’t ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend of 5 months that if she moves for work that breaking up is a possibility", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling my (23m) girlfriend (23m) of 5 months that if she moves for work that breaking up is a possibility?
So me and my gf have been dating for a little below 5 months and I love her dearly. She's supportive, caring, affectionate, pretty much everything I'd want in a girlfriend. We were having a discussion about her future with her company and it might have her relocate her job to an area that's around 1 1/2 hrs commute f...
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{ "description": "not believing my best friends girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not believing my best friends girlfriend?
(Throwaway) A little back story for context. My best friend has been dating this girl for probably near 7 years now. We've all started college at this point and all go to the same college. They used to fight physically when they were in junior high but probably since freshman year she's been physically and verbally abu...
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{ "description": "being upset with my girlfriend for cuddling with her Gay friend", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Being Upset With My Girlfriend For Cuddling With Her Gay Friend?
My girlfriend recently got an awesome promotion for work and moved away to a different city. Until she finds her own place, she is staying with one of her good friends(who is gay) that lives in that city. His place is a 1 bedroom apartment and instead of sleeping on the couch, she sleeps in his bed with him. She told m...
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{ "description": "forcing my family to choose between me and our relatives", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for forcing my family to choose between me and our relatives?
I was recently sexually assaulted by a male cousin going to the same college as me. Problem is, my mother's family has a tradition of meeting up for a couple of days after Christmas at my grandparents' property. I refuse to be in the same house as him but I am also not ready to share the reason with anyone in real life...
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{ "description": "having my partner over 2-3 times a week", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having my partner over 2-3 times a week?
So for the past year and a half I've lived with 2 other roommates with generally little to no issue. Roommate A is somewhat controlling and a neat freak which has been fine, I have no issues with cleaning a bit more than I might on my own. There is also a "place" for everything that is largely decided by roommate A. ...
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{ "description": "starting a fight with my friend's sister's boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for starting a fight with my friend's sister's boyfriend?
I've been friends with this girl since highschool, we even messed around a few times, simply put we've been close for a long time. Let's call her Jane. She studies abroad and she came home for the holidays, we agreed to met up at a local pub, at that point I haven't seen her for about half a year. When she came to th...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be a shoulder to cry on constantly", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to be a shoulder to cry on constantly?
Some background - I’m studying for university exams, I broke up with my partner like a week ago, I have to complete the process of buying a house for next year. There’s this girl who I wouldn’t say I’m close with, but we’re better friends than just someone you get along with (hopefully that makes sense), and she const...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take my girlfriend to get takeout when I have food at home", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to take my girlfriend to get takeout when I have food at home.
Firstly, sorry for ant mistakes I didnt catch as I am on mobile. So, we live in Massachusetts and its snowing in our area tonight. She doesn't want to drive in the snow and madenit very clear she wants me to pick her up because he dad is bring her and she doesn't want to drive in the snow. Im currently borrowing a ...
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{ "description": "asking my former maid of honor why I'm not in her bridal party", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA if I ask my former maid of honor why I'm not in her bridal party?
We've known each other for 12 years. About six years ago she moved like four hours away and while we don't see each other very often we do still talk over messenger. About 3 years ago she was in my bridal party and got bumped up to maid of honor due to an accident with my actual MOH. She really stepped up, was there th...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do free paintings for relatives", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for not wanting to do free paintings for relatives
(On mobile and I cannot spell) For some context I'm 18 doing full time college, dog sitting, and trying to get a second job for more pay. Usually I take one art class per quarter in college and this time it's a figure drawing class which has homework sketches that can take up to 5 hours to finish. I also started to mak...
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{ "description": "planning Easter activities with my kid close to a family member's death anniversary", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I plan Easter activities with my kid close to a family member's death anniversary?
My FIL passed on Easter weekend. MIL has trouble moving past it, and still mentioned him on a daily basis. She is also kind of dramatic and immature, and used her loneliness and grief to guilt people doing stuff for her (possibly subconsciously, but I can't be sure). She had not always been kind to me over the years an...
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{ "description": "confronting my mum for trying to manipulate both me and my Gf", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For Confronting My Mum For Trying To Manipulate Both Me And My Gf
This is my first actual reddit post(other than asking the name of a weird orange fluffy ball that I brought because it looked cute) I am also on mobile so this may not be the best post Me(M16) Gf(F16) Named E Okay my family isn't the most fit or skinny, but me and my brother aren't obese by any definition of the wor...
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AITA in this discussion with one of the mods at r/fitness?
So I know this is really petty and probably even stupid, but I feel like one of the mods at r/fitness just deleted my post without reading it, and then refused to admit he/she was wrong so instead decided to just be mean for no reason. This is just my perspective of course, but I really feel like they were being an ass...
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{ "description": "not moving cart in grocery aisle", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA: not moving cart in grocery aisle
Say you're looking at cans of food at the grocery store. It's not a super crowded day, and my cart isn't all the way to the side, but there is barely enough space to pass. Maybe only I can tell because I'm standing closer. A polite but smug woman stops and asks me to move the cart without attempting to get by first, ju...
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{ "description": "sacking off 40th husbands birthday becausse he is an ass", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I sacked off 40th husbands birthday becausse he is an ass
So I think I may be getting a ESH, but I think I just wanted a rant and see that normally people make really good suggestions on how to move something forward. So I live with my husband and little brother (brother since last October Long story) husband is 29 and brother is 28. I have lived with my husband for 6 years ...
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{ "description": "being mad at my preachy and hypocritical friends", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my preachy and hypocritical friends?
No matter how this ends, it's gonna be awkward because one of the friends is my college roommate. Also, this is my first post so here goes. I've been annoyed by how often my roommate rants about even the most slightly controversial things (she's always been doing this somewhat regularly but it's been daily since last w...
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AITA: my mom wants to give my rabbit away for a day for a photo shoot and I'm pissed.
We have big ole holland lop bunnies and we had like 7 at one point but after years they get old. We have 4 left and I do most of the work in then with food and cleaning. Before I had 4 rabbits one that was 8 years old and we had to put it down. So later my mom decided she doesnt want one of my rabbits because it's a ma...
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{ "description": "not wanting to meet my father's new gilfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to meet my father’s new gilfriend?
About 1 1/2 years ago my father packed his stuff and moved in with his girlfriend without saying anything to me (21m). Since then my parents have been going through a messy divorce. I’ll meet with my father for lunch/dinner around once a week or so. He is still supportive of me and pays for half of my college tuition. ...
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{ "description": "buying conflicting plane tickets", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For buying conflicting plane tickets?
I recently bought plane tickets to go home for spring break, but I forgot that the last weekend of my break conflicts with the first weekend some family are in the city of my university. They aren't coming specifically to see me, and there are more days where I will be present than absent while they are there, but my c...
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{ "description": "caring that people forgot my birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Caring That People Forgot My Birthday?
Basically, my birthday came to pass. I have several friends who I thought were close. On my birthday, only my immediate family remembered and said anything, other than one of my close friends P. Well, come to find out, my fiance had messaged P the night before to remind her. I only found that out today and I'm actually...
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{ "description": "ditching my prom date at the door", "pronormative_score": 86, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ditching my prom date at the door?
This happened a while back but it still bugs me to this day, you guys let me know if I'm the asshole. So my mother's cleaning lady and I were friends, when I got home from school we would chat a little bit. She told me a lot about her daughter's boyfriend who was a real POS. In and out of jail, drugs, Etc and apparent...
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{ "description": "not wanting to babysit my niece", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to babysit my niece?
My niece is going on 7 months and I love her to death but every other week for several days straight my older sister drops her off for me and my mom to babysit. She has a job but I do as well and I get no choice if I even want to care for her. I am just expected to babysit during my days off without any pay for several...
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{ "description": "choosing non pregnant cousin over pregnant/single cousin to move in with me", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for choosing non pregnant cousin over pregnant/single cousin to move in with me.
So I (25) recently inherited a 4 bedroom house in a the suburbs not to far from the beach near LA. I own the house outright, so no mortgage or anything. I was very excited about the prospect of getting a little more independence, but at the same time I didn't really want to live alone yet. So, I started looking for a ...
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{ "description": "using the placebo effect as an analogy for hypno-therapy", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for using the placebo effect as an analogy for hypno-therapy?
Like in the title, I think that therapies like meditation and hypnosis are valuable; however, I also believe that they are mostly driven by psychological state rather than an external chemical stimulus like a drug. I got my wife very angry by calmly saying this. I have a PhD in medicinal chemistry so I'm not a layman i...
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{ "description": "not wanting to move back home with my boyfriend of two years", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not wanting to move back home with my boyfriend of two years?
So my boyfriend and I are living in a major city, about a thousand miles away from where we are both from. We dated back in the day for around 8 months when we both lived in our hometowns and parted ways when our lives weren't going in the same direction. Coincidentally, we both moved to the same city a couple years la...
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{ "description": "not paying my temporary host", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not paying my temporary host?
For my summer internship, I needed to go to a different city which meant I had to find a place to live. I was browsing any rooms to rent near the area when I saw a $500 per month post which I was interested and contacted the person. I was shown the place and everything looked fine. We reached an agreement and rented m...
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AITA My dad called a kid a c*nt
I am 16, my dad is 43 I’ve been wondering if my dad is the asshole for a while now. Something u should know is that my dad has pretty bad brain damage that causes him severe depression and anger. He got the head injury in a car crash 14 years ago which makes him be extremely careful when driving Anyway this happened 4 ...
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{ "description": "expecting my girlfriend to do the cooking and cleaning", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 60 }
AITA For expecting my girlfriend to do the cooking and cleaning?
My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 years and live together, but I own the house and it's solely in my name. My salary is about 2x my girlfriend's, so I pay more of the rent/utilities. To compensate, she does the cooking and cleaning. Which has worked out fine for the last two years. Lately, she's been getti...
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{ "description": "hoping my invalid grandfather will die soon", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for hoping my invalid grandfather will die soon?
I have a grandfather who was injured about 50 years ago in a work accident. As he grew into his 70s he grew less able to move and take care of himself. At first my grandmother took care of him and he lived in their place, but they couldn't get along, so eventually my mother offered to take him in. I wasn't really happy...
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{ "description": "revoking the groomsman title and wedding invitation from my brother", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for revoking the groomsman title and wedding invitation from my brother?
I’m 24, getting married in March next year, my younger brother is 20. We never got along until recent years, and it’s still a bit rocky due to him being an “ex” drug addict, and now an alcoholic. 6 months ago he totaled his truck, due to reasons unknown to us, he says the brakes were going out and finally quit when h...
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{ "description": "getting upset over money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset over money?
Last week my boyfriend and I got into it and I just wanted to know AITA for it: ​ One consistent issue we have is him making what I feel are unilateral decisions about our finances. We've had this discussion a few times over the last 4 years. ​ About a week ago, we had a discussion about how t...
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{ "description": "being cold to my parents", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being cold to my parents?
I'm a senior in college right now home for the break. I act pretty cold to my parents, not intentionally but I do acknowledge I don't talk to them like I do friends. I would feel awkward going out to eat with them one on one and I only rarely initiate conversation with them. This is what they're upset about, that I...
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{ "description": "wanting to avoid a shitty ex-friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to avoid a shitty ex-friend?
Back in April I met this guy, AN we'll call him. AN and I hit it off, we start a FWB thing. He introduces me to his friends, one of them, TT, talks to me quite often over insta. Now, AN and I were spending quite a bit of time together and it was clear we were developing feelings. I told him how often TT and I talked an...
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{ "description": "not being able to tolerate my friends boyfriend because of his mental disabilities", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being able to tolerate my friends boyfriend because of his mental disabilities?
My husband and I have a mutual friend who we adore very much, who we will call Charlie. Charlie has been with his current boyfriend for over 3 years. When we met his bf, Paul, we were told he had some mental issues (not specifics) but was mostly fully functional. Charlie also has some issues but we get along just fine....
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{ "description": "not understanding simple things, and always wanting them to be explained to me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
aita by not understanding simple things, and always wanting them to be explained to me?
some things I don't really get, apparently I'm bright but I can't make connections. example, I don't see why having a workspace with all my game cards and other junk next to me. why I shouldn't leave my bed unmade, why I should study really hard. I'm yet to get answers. I always ask my mum about things I don't see the ...
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{ "description": "being angry at my friend bcs he cancelled plans and now Im stuck with a bill he won't pay", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For being angry at my friend bcs he cancelled plans and now im stuck with a bill he won't pay
so me and a couple of friends were gonna go spend new years eve at a club and we had a reserved table at the club, it costs us just short of $500, we were 5 but 2 people backed out and said that they never said ''yes''. while this is true to some degree, they said ''i wanna go'' when i asked them if they wanted to join...
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{ "description": "having some weird driving habits I refuse to change", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for having some weird driving habits I refuse to change?
I've only been driving since February of this year, so I'm still pretty new and not super comfortable on the road yet. I've developed some habits that help me feel more comfortable, but every time someone else is in my car they have a lot to say about how I'm driving "wrong". * I always have the windows down if it's ...
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{ "description": "using tinder despite having a connection with someone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA to use tinder despite having a connection with someone?
Hello Reddit, so I started messaging this girl in mid January. We met on tinder and quickly switched to snap. She’s great and I really like her. We’re from neighboring towns and the same age. Only thing is our schedules haven’t aligned , as we both went back to our separate colleges shortly after first messaging, and...
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{ "description": "telling an ex co-workers wife he's on a dating website", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told an ex co-workers wife he's on a dating website?
Using a throwaway for obvious reasons. I have an ex-coworker (from 7 years ago) that we've remained "friend" on that social media platform that is used to keep in touch. I mainly use it to keep in touch with all my old Army buddies since we're scattered throughout the world now. Anyway this previous co-worker has alw...
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{ "description": "going on a date", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going on a date?
Ok, I know how unassuming the title is, but I guess that's exactly what I'm asking. For privacy reasons, I'm going to change the names of everyone, including myself. To introduce myself, I'll go by the name Allen. I'm a sophomore in high school, and I'm a bisexual trans guy. So, the story all starts in the eighth gr...
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{ "description": "not carpooling with a coworker on a ~4 hour work trip", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA - For not carpooling with a coworker on a ~4 hour work trip?
A coworker and I both have to go testify in a case, with the courthouse being around 4-5 hours of driving away depending on the traffic. My coworker said she isn't a good driver and doesn't like driving long distances, and said she would come along with me while I drive. Not only do I not particularly want to spend 4...
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{ "description": "not considering this to be a sincere apology", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I didn’t consider this to be a sincere apology?
Hey guys, this will explain some context. I was talking to this guy for about a month when one day I explained to him that I was dealing with some depression and other social anxiety issues. No big deal as it really wasn’t his fault whatsoever that I was having difficulties communicating, but I didn’t find it to be fai...
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{ "description": "playing my electric guitar in the middle of the day", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for playing my electric guitar in the middle of the day?
So i’m living in college dorms that don’t have the thickest walls, to be fair. However, when I play it in the middle of the day, at any volumes pretty much (except for approaching and at full blast which I don’t do), my only next door neighbors bang on the wall. Right now it’s 4:00 in the afternoon and I am playing at ...
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{ "description": "telling a friend of for constantly reminding me that I'm not in shape", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a friend of for constantly reminding me that i'm not in shape
Context: I don't have too many friends at my office and it's not because i'm not friendly ,it's just that most of the buddies i had ,have switched to other companies over the past few months. Of the few i still have, two are particularly close, one guy and girl. They are pretty helpful for the most part and we hangout ...
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{ "description": "missing my friend's bachelorette party for a work trip", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for missing my friend’s bachelorette party for a work trip?
I’ll keep it short. This weekend was a close friend’s bachelorette party. The party was in Nashville, and we live in Chicago. The dates of the party were this past Friday through tomorrow, Monday. I was invited several months ago and declined because I have a work trip to London. I’m leaving tomorrow, Monday, and w...
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{ "description": "explaining how our sex drought is affecting ny self esteem", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for explaining how our sex drought is affecting ny self esteem?
Normal account here - usually just lurk but I wanted to ask an honest question here because I really feel like the asshole. So me, and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for about 18 months at this stage. Sex life started out great - fantastic in fact. And we definitely both love each other an endless amount....
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{ "description": "telling my friend to stop making fun of me in front of the class for turning red", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend to stop making fun of me in front of the class for turning red?
Hello everyone! This is my first post ever in this subreddit so I apologize in advance if I break any rules! I also apologize for my grammar as its not my first language. My face is a little bit sensitive and so when it's hot in classes, my face turns red extremely quickly. I sadly cannot control it and thus it goes o...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my bf because he keeps putting intimate time off", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my bf because he keeps putting intimate time off.
My boyfriend and I usually have to schedule sex into our schedules. We don’t live together and work quite a bit. Lately he’s been giving me a day as to when we can have sex and then come that day he will tell me no and say he’s tired and wants to sleep. I get he works a lot but this has been the third day in a row he’s...
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{ "description": "thinking I shouldn't have to pay for my own skincare products", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking I shouldn’t have to pay for my own skincare products?
So I (F14) have acne. I use 2-3 products on my face that are from Walmart so they’re fairly cheap. If I want to try a face mask or something from lush that’s a bit pricey I’ll pay for it on my own but for my everyday products I ask my parents to buy them. My dad is fine with getting them as long as I give him the empty...
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AITA - Indecisive Fiance
So every time my fiance wants to go somewhere to eat or do something, and I say "I'm good", he decides he no longer wants to go or no longer wants to eat. I then feel bad for not just going along anyways as that wasn't my intent. It typically turns into a fight as I then feel bad for not being crappy, I just don't wa...
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{ "description": "changing my neighbors internet password", "pronormative_score": 79, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I changed my neighbors internet password?
Hello fellow asshole enthusiasts. I live in a small apartment building. Above my husband and I lives a single mom. Earlier this year we had the internet installed and set up a second wifi connection for our neighbor on the condition that she pays us $40/month. She approached us with the offer and the amount and my husb...
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AITA for not visitng my family?
Me and my dad have never gotten along. I'm at Uni and this year it was agreed that I would stay with my parents to save money, helping them out with chores, babysitting my siblings and buying essentials when they needed it, I also give them money when they're strapped for cash. This September just gone my Mum was at w...
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{ "description": "lying to my mother continuously for the past 6 years", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for lying to my mother continuously for the past 6 years?
Using a throwaway for obvious reasons as this is a very personal story, I don’t worry someone accidentally finding it as I am the only English speaking person in my immediate “family”. Also sorry for the huge wall of text. To give you the much needed context, this has started about 6 years ago and it is still ongoing...
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{ "description": "ending a good relationship although my GF did nothing wrong", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Ending a Good Relationship Although My GF Did Nothing Wrong?
I broke up with my gf of nearly 3 years last month and I'm still struggling with feelings of guilt and sadness for hurting her. We're both in our early 30s and she was an amazing partner. We made plenty of good memories and rarely had any disagreements, but I felt my attraction to her slowly fade (she wasn't my type fr...
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{ "description": "asking GF to unfollow a guy on Ig who she had an incident with", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking GF to unfollow a guy on Ig who she had an incident with .
Hey guys I was wondering if AITA , my girlfriend had an 'incident' where she for fun danced with a guy friend she barely talks to or know and the guy bent her down and grinned with her for like 10 seconds , she was drunk at the club and did not know what was happening and she soon as she realized what happens she she f...
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{ "description": "being upset that my best friend's boyfriend read our private messages", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset that my best friend's boyfriend read our private messages?
So my friends and I have two different group chats. One with more people, including my best friend's boyfriend, and one with just me, my best friend and two other people I'm close to. I wanted to share something a bit more personal so I told them to check the more private group. My best friend's boyfriend then logged o...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a girl because she belittled a religious person", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for breaking up with a girl because she belittled a religious person?
I am an agnostic but i have some respect for how religion can help people in bad states. My girlfriend and I were walking a Christian preacher who was protesting abortion (I am pro choice but I don’t think pro life people should be belittled). My girlfriend started calling him all sorts of horrible names like “virgin” ...
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{ "description": "saying no to changing gifts", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I said no to changing gifts?
WIBTA for not wanting to exchange gifts? So, my classmate recently asked me if I wanted to exchange gifts in our small group of friends between eachother. I would say yes right away, but that would mean, that I will have to spend money and buy gifts for 4+ people, out of which I only really know 3. Also, my classmate...
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{ "description": "not changing the movie that I chose for my birthday", "pronormative_score": 135, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not changing the movie that I chose for my birthday.
so this happened a while ago and I'm curious if I was the asshole. It was just before my 20th birthday and I decided I wanted to see a movie as my birthday party/gift to myself, I discovered that How to Train Your Dragon 3 was out so I thought id go see it. I posted on the group chat the date and time of the movie a...
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{ "description": "making a fuzz in order to speak to ceo after my manager gave a misleading performance review", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making a fuzz in order to speak to CEO after my manager gave a misleading performance review?
I quit my job Wednesday after having had numerous conflicts with my manager. However I continue to press for a meeting with the CEO to tell my story. Yet my manager is blocking me in several ways since he was to silence me to protect his own position. I work in sales and the core part of me quitting is that I receive...
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{ "description": "following this sub just to call people assholes", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for following this sub just to call people assholes?
Sorry for the half-meta post; I've been doing a lot of self reflection recently pending some career changes, and I wanted to get some opinions. I showed this sub to one of my coworkers and he's all about it, but another one of his friends thinks it's "childish" and "actually asshole behavior." Granted, that's not all I...
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{ "description": "not wanting wife's cum stained prom dress in my house", "pronormative_score": 189, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA for not wanting wife’s cum stained prom dress in my house?
My wife and I met in college, we are 41. I’m not jealous about her past partners. She has had her old prom dress hanging in the back of her closet forever. I’ve never given it any thought. Until, two weekends ago, my wife’s friend came over and they were in the kitchen which is open to the living room where I was, talk...
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{ "description": "not participating in nephew's fundraiser", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not participating in nephew's fundraiser?
I am a divorced mom, with one child. I recently told my sister that my child support had been drastically reduced because my ex-husband lost his job (only has to pay if he is employed). Told her a few of my travails regarding this, including perhaps needing to sell my car, cut costs everywhere I can, selling a few thin...
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{ "description": "being a dick to a pyramid scheme recruiter", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being a dick to a pyramid scheme recruiter?
* She called me at 7pm. Makes me go through a whole phone interview on the spot. * She claims to be from Company A. Sends me a text claiming to be from Company B. * Company B is a pyramid scheme. * I ask her a question about the company and if it's a pyramid scheme and she gets referrals. She tells me that Google...
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{ "description": "not wanting the surprise \"wedding\" that my mother in law planned for me", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting the surprise “wedding” that my mother in law planned for me?
For some backstory, I have a different perspective on marriage and what I think it’s supposed to be about. I’m 28f and got married to my husband (31) about a year ago, and we both agreed it would be more meaningful if we were alone, so that’s what we did. We took our kids to celebrate for dinner the night before. My br...
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{ "description": "telling my friend she might not make it into UCLA and she should have a back up plan", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend she might not make it into UCLA and she should have a back up plan?
I want to try to keep this as short as possible but her I go. I have been friends with this girl for a long time and she is actually who I consider to be my best friend. We will call her Jane. Jane is great except, in my opinion she hasn’t experienced the real word. We’re both the same age and I left home at 18. She’s ...
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{ "description": "talking about my roommate for invasion of privacy", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking about my roommate for invasion of privacy
So I went to Santa Monica with a bunch of college friends who my roommate (someone I've only known for 2 weeks) knows, I do a lot of photography work myself. I happened to have snapped a shot of a girl half naked. When I get back to my dorm, my roommate picks up my camera without even asking me, just goes through my p...
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{ "description": "telling my husband I cant stay at his friends house anymore", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i tell my husband i cant stay at his friends house anymore?
When my husband and I go to visit his hometown, we usually stay at his friends house. His friend has 3 cats, and I'm very allergic to cats and every time I stay at their house I feel like shit. I cough, wheeze, sneeze, my eyes and nose are itchy, it's hard to breathe and my nose is stuffy. It's not pleasant and I find ...
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{ "description": "blackmailing a Police Officer then getting him fired", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Blackmailing a Police Officer Then Getting Him Fired?
I was speeding on the highway, going 100 in a 50 (bad i know). A police officer catches me and pulls me over. I know I'm absolutely fucked so i was panicking and after i pulled over i positioned my phone in the car and started recording. The officer comes up and starts absolutely yelling at me and cussing me out like a...
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{ "description": "someone not following every other car in traffic cut me off I flipped on high beams", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA- after someone not following every other car in traffic cut me off I flipped on high beams
They tried short stopping and slowing down to make me stop, but it was really just confirmation that message was recieved. How hard is the zipper merge? We are doomed as a society if we can't get this
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{ "description": "cheering the road team at my local hockey team's arena", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cheering the road team at my local hockey team’s arena (and booing the home team)?
AITA - Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/goldenknights/comments/ab81ai/opinion_kicked_out_of_vgkcoyotes_game_last_night/?st=JQCV4M3N&sh=ac8d89cd TL:DR - got kicked out of my section at a hockey game yesterday by a power hungry usher for being “too loud and annoying”, security laughed at him and his manager c...
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{ "description": "breaking up with someone because they told me they have felonies", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I broke up with someone because they told me they have felonies.
Recently I reconnected with someone I dated 4 years ago. In that time they moved to a different state and recently moved back. Weve been on several dates over the last 2 months or so and things are going really well. On our last date she told me she hads felonies for drugs and possession of a stolen car ( shes clean no...
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{ "description": "wanting to take my fiancé's last name", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to take my fiancé’s last name?
AITA for wanting to have the same last name as my fiancé? We have discussed marriage thousands of times before he proposed and I just automatically assumed that we were on the same page about sharing the same last name. He is very traditional in many ways such as wanting to get married in a church but when I mentioned ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my mom", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to talk to my mom?
**It's super long but context is important I believe in this case.** ​ I don't know where to begin. Maybe some back story on my mom? My mom is the 2nd youngest of 5 kids. When she was growing up, until 8 years old, my mother and her siblings were abused physically and (the girls) sexually by their drunken...
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{ "description": "refusing to do something and was confronted about doing it but I told everyone I wouldn't do it hours before", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to do something and was confronted about doing it but I told everyone I wouldn't do it hours before?
Title probably sounds dumb and it kind of is, but I'll explain more. Last night my friend invited me and my other friend to go visit his sister in college (not far). I was excited at first but changed my mind during school the next day that I was too tired and just wanted to sleep when I got home. So I told both of the...
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{ "description": "almost dumping my bf over a casual discussion with an ex-friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for almost dumping my bf over a casual discussion with an ex-friend?
First of all, let me give you all some context. I'm dating a guy and our anniversary is two weeks from now, he's very sweet and always is there for me when I need him, our relationship is very healthy. He's also been my only company over these last months, since all my friends forgot about me during vacation (I'm from ...
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{ "description": "not inviting my best friend to an event thrown by the dick she loves", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not inviting my best friend to an event thrown by the dick she loves?
Cast: Me: 'gifted' stoner, in my early 20s, emotionally incompetent and unmotivated. Her: cheerleader type that works hard at everything, very smart and driven. Him: jock with an ego but not dumb Long story but it is required to get to one tiny issue that fucked everything up. ​ The three of us were in...
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{ "description": "answering scam calls and leading on the callers or sometimes just harassing them", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for answering scam calls and leading on the callers or sometimes just harassing them
So I get at least 3 scam calls a day from completely random numbers. My phone is normally silent so this usually doesn’t bother me. Sometimes I will be on my phone and I get a call from a number I don’t recognize and I answer it. The call always starts out as automated and it’s usually talks about lowering health ins...
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{ "description": "not wanting to 'chat' with my co workers when I'm busy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For not wanting to 'chat' with my co workers when I'm busy?
I work as a part time duty manager at a supermarket while I study at university. Basically this means anything the store manager or the 2IC doesn't want to do gets shoved on my plate and I only work in 5 hour closing shifts. Anyway on quietish days I chat with a few people. But lately people keep trying to socialize w...
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{ "description": "choosing his best friend over him", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for choosing his best friend over him?
This situation happened pretty recently my ex broke up with me and I was trying to look for a new person to move on from my dumb ex. I started hanging out with a close friend I had my freshman year of highschool I'll call him E for this story (I'm now a junior(also back then I had a huge crush on him and considered hi...
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{ "description": "attending the symphony when my mother is in the hospital", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for attending the symphony when my mother is in the hospital?
Obligatory Mobile apology So last night my mother was admitted to the hospital because she has an infected joint in her knee. My aunt had bought tickets for the family to go to the symphony tomorrow. My mother has told me to go to the symphony without her as she bought everything for the lunch and everything. So this...
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{ "description": "refusing to take my boyfriend's friend home tonight", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I refused to take my boyfriend’s friend home tonight?
Hey all. Long time lurker here, throwaway because some people know my other user. So, let’s get down to business. My boyfriend does not have a vehicle of his own for reasons that aren’t important. Because of this, I drive him around a lot, including to and from work and his extra curricular activities, but I truly do...
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{ "description": "wanting a hysterectomy", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting a hysterectomy?
Hi, I have had health problems my entire life, including a bout of cervical cancer that was detected very early and successfully treated with a surgery that preserved my fertility in my early twenties. In September I was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma and am undergoing treatment (because my luck is just that awe...
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{ "description": "giving my boyfriend unsolicited advice about our friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving my boyfriend unsolicited advice about our friend?
Hey everyone, Sorry in advance if this is long, it's a bit weird to explain. I ask that everyone is honest with me here, as I would really like to resolve this issue and obviously if I did something wrong I should apologise. I could really use some objective third party advice here. My bf, D (23M) and I (21F), and I ...
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{ "description": "wanting 8 hours of sleep", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting 8 hours of sleep?
My wife and I are going through a really tough time, as we have a few big stressors in our life. We have a 2 month old son and an almost 5 year old, I am going through an extensive job search, but most recently, our landlord is selling the house we rent, causing us to move months before we expect to. This is causing us...
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{ "description": "not answering someone that don't really want to talk with me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not answering someone that don't really want to talk with me?
I would go for a wall text here, but the question is quite simple: I talked with a girl for a whole month, then she started to take 1 or 2 days to answer me, sometimes didn't answering at all. I didn't complained about it, but I got tired and then did the same thing when she replyed me back. Now she keep sending me me...
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{ "description": "kicking a player out of a dnd game that hasn't started yet", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for kicking a player out of a DnD game that hasn’t started yet?
So I am dming a group of a my friends in a game of Dungeons and Dragons and I recently discovered that one of the players lets call him M went over to another player’s apartment we’ll call her C and had a threesome with her roommate. While this isn’t a problem they did it on C’s bed while she was out of town so they co...
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{ "description": "calling out my friend in front of everyone and then kicking him out of the group", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out my friend in front of everyone and then kicking him out of the group?
I'm sorry for any spelling mistakes this text might have, English isn't my native language. My friend, who I will call A, is quite religious and today, in a WhatsApp group a bunch of friends and I have, we argued; he started to talk about how he believes God controls everything, and that he doesn't think it is up to d...
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{ "description": "handling this with my ex-husband like I did", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for handling this with my ex-husband like I did?
Nothing like an early morning argument with your ex to start the day off right! My ex is remarried with two other kids and anytime he has some kind of obligation on his time with the kids, he suddenly needs me to take our two kids back because his wife “can’t handle all four kids”. Well, what exactly did y’all think...
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{ "description": "choosing to a parent's wish to ignore their child over a child's desire to know their parents", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I chose to a parent's wish to ignore their child over a child's desire to know their parents?
When I was about 20 I back to my homeland (we had moved when I was five). I spent quite a while there as I was doing uni there. I met a girl who I bonded with. Sarah and I had a lot in common both being away from our families and main country of residence. We also looked a great deal alike which resulted in a lot of jo...
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{ "description": "visiting my pets at someone else's house in the evening", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for visiting my pets at someone else’s house in the evening?
I have a pet which requires an inordinate amount of care and needed a pet-friendly place when I moved. I located somewhere an hour and a half away. When I told this to a friend, he went away and found me an offer with a shorter commute which did not allow pets. I refused it. He asked: would I take it if *he* kept ‘Sn...
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{ "description": "telling my cousin I won't pick her up late night anymore because she was rude", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my cousin I won't pick her up late night anymore because she was rude?
I have a cousin that stays with my family. She's a freeroam teenager and is always out doing things. I have a car and she frequently goes out places late at night and calls me to take her home at really inconvenient times like at 12AM. Me, trying to be a good person, usually picks her up and gets her home and I don't ...
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{ "description": "looking forward to a recession so that house flippers and other predatory speculators lose their asses", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for looking forward to a recession so that house flippers and other predatory speculators lose their asses?
If you guys want to try and give an economics lesson here that's cool, as long as it's fact based and you don't have an agenda.
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{ "description": "being somewhat smug", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being somewhat smug?
I'm a 21 year-old college student. Last school year, I was 'friends' with a group who gradually phased me out. A couple of the members were absolutely condescending towards me. Some of them I'm still friends with. The way it's looking, I'm going to be the most successful person out of that entire group, and I'm damn pr...
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