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txUndE4aYRzyKm4rJDswydrNdbvJcMux | aur1wi | {
"description": "making a deal about my ex-girlfriend coming to my sister's wedding",
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} | WIBTA for making a deal about my ex-girlfriend coming to my sister's wedding? | Some backstory: I dated a girl back in 2016, let's call her A. We lived together fairly early on, and shared an apartment with my sister and her girlfriend. My sister and A got along well, but as far as I knew weren't best friends. Generally, my relationship with A was rocky. I had just come out as lesbian and this was... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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} | WRONG |
aBpkRjKMiqJrzRltDtbJ802BjXvG6356 | av3bmy | {
"description": "not talking much to a friend I was interested in",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | WIBTA if i dont talk much to a friend i was interested in? | I mean we were flirting, but she explicitly said that she is not or will ever see me as such. Like, she still is and would remain a good friend of my mine, but since the rejection, i have been backing off. Its also like, she talks to me about her crush and stuff and it doesnt pain, but still feels wrong to me. If i do... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
GYjf3o0582fd9wF8Teccqz05rekMuJgi | aef107 | {
"description": "instructing my so to avoid taking a jeepney and take a short walk home and instead take a tricycle straight home because there is a serial killer walking around in her area",
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} | AITA for instructing my SO to avoid taking a jeepney and take a short walk home and instead take a tricycle straight home because there is a serial killer walking around in her area? | As you can guess with the jeepneys and tricycle, I'm from the philippines. There is currently a serial killer freely walking around our city and most of the killings happened in my SO's area. I want her to go straight home from school which will cause a bit more money than having to take a jeepney and take a short walk... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
lXnkpV4DJ2DXW9CZGB8vx5EJWopGr55I | ahg8d6 | {
"description": "not apologising to my best friend about disrespecting is dead mom",
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} | AITA: For not apologising to my best friend about disrespecting is dead Mom. | So for some context about the friend, let’s name him Luke (obviously that’s not his real name). He was about 12 yo when his mum died from breast cancer in 2011. And he has opened up to me many times about this over the last couple of years
A little context on me now, I have a twin sister that went to the same school ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
t8EnMNfqKGbBsgLNDs6yfyMrYFnGIsiz | b21i5s | {
"description": "not wanting to game with a friend",
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} | AITA for not wanting to game with a friend? | Over the past 4 years or so, I've developed a really solid friend group. We game together, play dungeons and dragons together, and generally are really close. Most of us are either in North America or Canada, but we have one friend in the Netherlands. Because I'm on the West Coast and the Canadians are closer to that s... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
VHvc0BEr9dC1LtWqA1vXZKffKVx8uBym | 9wnse8 | {
"description": "roasting my friend",
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} | AITA for roasting my friend? | AITA for this?
We were in sports class. My friends and I went to the teacher, so she could fix her grade. She went to the teacher and said that, plus she said 'I want to fix everything' (she wanted to fix more than one grade).
And to that I instantly said 'you can't fix your face'
Everyone went silent and after few... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
rNq73ReBHktcXGXNlAvwsBqp2VEPe9gp | ar6spg | {
"description": "applying to the same college program as my friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for applying to the same college program as my friend? | My friend introduced me to this college after he noticed I was struggling in my applications. I chose the program he applied to when I knew he applied there too. I’m afraid that the atmosphere between us could get weird. I could have chosen from many other programs at this college, but I felt like his program genuinely... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
FBRIFfQMlmAgKAfPoNAiqCL4kixUMgny | b0b7sx | {
"description": "stopping talking to a guy I've been seeing because he's struggling so much",
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} | WIBTA if I stop talking to a guy I've been seeing because he's struggling so much? | Context: I (24f) got out of a 4 year relationship a year and a half ago. It was a bad relationship, I won't get into all of it, but my ex was bipolar and an alcoholic and dealt with a lot of legal troubles throughout the relationship (4 months in prison and then another 2 or 3 years of supervised probation.) I had to h... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
LVwaiZ4nf1w6dn1rxUVx7UTIW3U894wu | a6dsne | {
"description": "being late to come home my girlfriend is a bitch to me so I just dont come home or come later",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA when im late to come home my girlfriend is a bitch to me so I just dont come home or come later | So im a business owner and I have a shop that's 5 miles from home that is like Disney Land for me because I love working on my projects. So I'll come home late and my wife (understably) gets upset so she will just tell me if I'm late don't come at all. Then next morning be more mad that I came even later or not at all.... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 9
} | WRONG |
MSdU95wGX2hOKwIOv5fqR6Bh7auznxYC | b74fw6 | {
"description": "'stealing' food to feed a hungry elephant",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for ‘stealing’ food to feed a hungry elephant? | So me and my sister were at a holiday resort and there were 2 elephants in an enclosure.
It was late at night and I saw that the elephants were swaying their trunks and sort of “dancing”. I quickly recognized that they were probably hungry and this was their ‘day job’ to entertain guests at the resort.
It seemed lik... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
CuiBy7L0T1qNDDL20acrIKiO3bwyi57X | aklqv4 | {
"description": "not letting my roommate park",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For not letting my roommate park??? | This all happened just a couple of days ago. Just to preface the story, I live in a small, older house on the local university campus. I live with three other roommates who I have known for quite some time. Our house has a small driveway that fits four cars if its completely full; every person living here has a car. Th... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
ojxwzOXq4wsEunYjHzdgUnbyevX8lcoP | b8vzvh | {
"description": "not wanting to carpool with husbands dad",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA For not wanting to carpool with husbands dad? | We have a graduation party to go to in June that is a few states over for our niece. After making all arrangements, a few days later husband tells me out of the blue that we are carpooling with his dad. I said ok but I didn’t admit am not interested at all!! It’s like an 11 hour trip. And though it would be nice to spe... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
pvtLitK0UoU3lnfqp2GHTlqDgvX5Qp5X | b36oy4 | {
"description": "not driving 40 minutes to stand by the luggage for 5 minutes at the airport",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not driving 40 minutes to stand by the luggage for 5 minutes at the airport? | My spouse is leaving on a trip at about 4:00 in the morning. I offered to drive him to the airport if he didn’t want to leave his car there during the trip. But he does want to park his car there. So I wasn’t planning to drive him, clearly. The airport is about 20 minutes away, one way. It’s not a large airport. Tonigh... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 12,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
kxqiF7com9QpByEHz9YRGmDvceATQVjM | ab0o40 | {
"description": "not letting my ex see our daughter",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not letting my ex see our daughter? | My ex girlfriend gave birth to our daughter when I was 15 and she was 16. Throughout her pregnancy, she was extremely abusive to me. On three different occasions, she stabbed me with a knife, and on many more with forks, earrings, anything really. She punched, kicked, scratched etc, for reasons as small as me looking a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 12,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
DkbqJl0Pgc4s5SJvlxLRChgMNPvS9QSZ | aif0s3 | {
"description": "not going to my friends house to go to a show that he was invited to",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not going to my friends house to go to a show that he was invited to? | So, typically on Friday nights me and my friend (well call him J) will meet up at our friends house (well call him H) and find something to get into. Last Friday, around 1pm, we get the expected “you guys coming over?” text from H. J and I respond saying we will around 8pm when H gets off work.
Around 6pm, another fr... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
tfetPoKwUm8hI6JUM7wpuFktLvKeac4a | b9a2eb | {
"description": "telling a girl to ''get the fuck off me'' when she touched my hair",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for telling a girl to ''get the fuck off me'' when she touched my hair | I (21M) recently tried something different with my hair. I usually quiff it, but tried growing it out and seeing how it would like. It turns out my hair becomes very curly once it gets to a certain length.
I'm no model or anything, so I'm not claiming that, but I get WAY more attention from girls now, or at least, the... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 19,
"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 7
} | RIGHT |
1mp66FQD0pS4RuDdjkonpG7EP9JQeZ9w | b8wodf | {
"description": "being interested in someone my ex says is her friend",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being interested in someone my ex says is her friend? | I'll try to keep it short. When me and ex broke up we agreed we wouldn't date each other's friends. Simple enough right?
My ex met one of my female acquaintances a couple years ago, I think a total of twice at parties. They never hung out or were in contact after that. After I broke up with ex, acquaintance and I sta... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
tAOkDJdBAutUkjsy1oFdMWQBI0Q7g6cG | ax1d0t | {
"description": "telling my mom I was uncomfortable with eating candy at a restaurant that we bought somewhere else",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my mom I was uncomfortable with eating candy at a restaurant that we bought somewhere else? | My wife, parents and I just went out to dinner at a nice-ish restaurant. Before were got there, my mom suggested we go to a candy store to buy chocolate-covered strawberries. I thought my mom wanted them for after the restaurant.
However, when we got sat, she took out the boxes of strawberries and opened them on the ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
dxUN8d34skPUi4QntArlDxS9POiTnPXa | agdco9 | {
"description": "being angry about the Friendzone",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 11
} | AITA for being angry about the Friendzone? | I'm a pretty normal guy usually, I think Im pretty decent looking and pretty nice, but girl never pay me any attention it seems. Every time I get close to a girl she either has a bf or says Im like a brother and I end up feeling like Ive wasted my time. I feel that I never get anywhere with girls, and that I'm wasting ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 11,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 11
} | WRONG |
24VPZHU9Vw2sp7fiflc5Nuuzy6sGlVDT | a8r849 | null | AITA for my revenge on an old coworker? | On mobile, sorry for the format.
So here is some context, I work in a sheetmetal union in San Francisco and I'm a 1st year Apprentice. Typically apprentices listen and learn from journeymen, and will occasionally follow the steps of a higher tier apprentice. (Ex: 1st year listens to 4th year at jobsite) This guy we wi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
xEUwmsMKGsKIKX7YGfBv5hccTErhrYnu | ajqpao | {
"description": "telling his girlfriend he cheated on her with me",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | WIBTA if I tell his girlfriend he cheated on her with me? | (I know I’m already the asshole for the cheating bit, I’m just trying to make things right)
I got involved with a guy (he initiated) in one of my classes. I heard him talk about his girlfriend before but it had been a while and I assumed he broke up with her. When I found out he didn’t, I still stayed. I’m not in the ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 6
} | RIGHT |
wXGzVbaoxrIjJhYlgBlKf3LD5JvmtLTM | amz7p0 | {
"description": "telling an overweight girl that she is too heavy for a trust fall",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling an overweight girl that she is too heavy for a trust fall? | This girl at my school was fairly overweight and she just out of the blue said to me “Trust fall” and started falling on me. I responded by backing off and telling her that I’m not strong enough to lift her and to not trust fall on me. Her friend told me I’m a dick and my friend told me I was fine. AITA? | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 18,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
pj1OOtQ8HrlvMpRhkmrj13uKI8SKkhin | a1ete5 | {
"description": "speaking up about my eldest sisters husband trying to solicit sexual favours from me when I was 13",
"pronormative_score": 58,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for speaking up about my eldest sisters husband trying to solicit sexual favours from me when I was 13* | *I am now 21
This year I essentially destroyed (my mother’s words) my family by speaking up about my eldest sisters husband trying to solicit sexual favours from me on Christmas Day when I was 13, while everyone else was in their post Christmas feast coma (and didn’t speak up at the time as I was told by him no one wo... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 58,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 58,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
bUts1GTU1QV8lAqAPBZVN55AnkPn4j0U | aqwgtf | {
"description": "being upset at my dad's friend's son for having a sleepover at my house tomorrow",
"pronormative_score": 223,
"contranormative_score": 22
} | AITA for being upset at my dad’s friend’s son for having a sleepover at my house tomorrow? | Sorry for any grammatical errors or formatting problems I’m typing on mobile.
So my birthday is tomorrow and I’m inviting some friends tomorrow to play smash ultimate. I really wanted this party to happen since last year my mom randomly signed me up for a weekend camp trip last year during my birthday weekend without... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 18,
"OTHER": 162,
"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 61,
"INFO": 11
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 223,
"WRONG": 22
} | RIGHT |
9cE536LKpOy131ASfn8wTHS5oEjpurff | axuttq | {
"description": "phrasing a sentence wrong and causing an argument",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for phrasing a sentence wrong and causing an argument? | So this is my first time posting on here so I made an account because I want to hear other people's opinions about what happened just a few hours ago.
So my English is decent but I still make mistakes here and there, which is important.
I've been dating this American guy for around 1.5 years now and lately we've been ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
LhG4FB2KBQGFn7VQBiWB4hcVU9YaVdEK | aj5mpi | {
"description": "causing my roommate to switch dorms",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for Causing my Roommate to Switch Dorms? | I am a college freshman going to school in the Northeast. I dropped the ball on my roommate-pairing application process (as did my former roommate, let's call him William) and we got paired together despite our obvious differences. Our first meeting and the first week or so went well. I learned he had never shared a ro... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 6,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
a1MoMDgeThLhr5KxM1ZWE6p7hqa92Bvt | b9brpu | {
"description": "being kinda salty about my wife getting braces",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 12
} | AITA for being kinda salty about my wife getting braces | My wife’s always wanted braces, her teeth aren’t fucked up beyond belief, there’s just some crowding on the top row that isn’t horrible but impacts her confidence in her smile.
She has a child, a 10 year old, she claims on her taxes. We file separately for a multitude of reasons but she gets the tax break for the kidd... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 11,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 12
} | WRONG |
sXpMYYr40biVjwKdgDv7nf78bnBCK8l8 | b9u3ai | {
"description": "not wanting to use my landlord as my realtor",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to use my landlord as my realtor. | I've been renting for the past 4 years and a local real estate company manages the condo I live in. The owner has decided to sell the condo so I'm going to look into purchasing a house as I no longer want to rent and want to build equity.
The realty company that manages the condo I live in have of ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
UyyHK3DaPQQpDlUn2ROLfFdBfNbl30DZ | ax342b | {
"description": "telling my friend what I thought about his relationship",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling my friend what I thought about his relationship? | So "Jack", "Amy", and I are co-workers/friends. Some time ago, Amy revealed that she had feelings for Jack. Problem is she lives with her long-term boyfriend and Jack just wasn't into her, so end of story right? Well recently Jack revealed to me he reciprocated those feelings, and on top of that, the two of them were p... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
J8XAKC0BnkSregJTfLeLrGpbYXMiLit9 | 9zio3c | {
"description": "shoveling snow onto my neighbors driveway",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA. I shoveled snow onto my neighbors driveway. | When I was a teenager I would shovel snow to make money. One time I was asked my neighbor if I could shovel his driveway. He agreed to pay me $15 for it. So I grabbed my shovel and started. This driveway was cleared completely no snow on it at all. I go to collect my money but my neighbor said I did it for no reason a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
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} | RIGHT |
TLMftk20fJXOXkjY75ywuq9kNeZP33zS | ake3xr | {
"description": "not wanting my girlfriend to go to gay pride",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 241
} | AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to go to gay pride? | About an hour ago I had a full blown argument with my girlfriend regarding pride and other LGBT community events.
I guess I should start by saying I am, by no means, homophobic. I appreciate everyone's right to be who they are unapologetically.
When I first met my girlfriend, she's just got out of a 5 year relation... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 3
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 241
} | WRONG |
9jXxXvg3DG1FlCntaTRd0YOux5A3NUZk | 9vt9mw | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with him",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not wanting to hang out with him? | I recently found out that someone who was a close friend of mine had been talking shut about me to another very good friend.
Apart from that, he has also been very toxic ignoring other people's problems because according to him his life is worse. Not only that, he also plays the victim whenever you make the slightest... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
gI6tHhv2DMmyjjcz4NaZbNJrjsZaKJXC | aidtpp | {
"description": "ignoring a long-standing rule against gift giving",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for ignoring a long-standing rule against gift giving. | This happened ten years ago. But although I don't dwell on it, I do sometimes wonder if I was the asshole or not.
​
Wife and I, married 17 years, had agreed early in our marriage that the only gifts we would exchange were on birthdays and Christmas. On our wedding anniversary, Valentines day, mothers/fathe... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
DvPwxkB0jkIypBHXmRt7qeqayVVS7fut | b07x1k | {
"description": "telling a girl to stop singing",
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} | WIBTA for telling a girl to stop singing | So a little background for everyone here, I'm 30 years old and I'm currently going back to school to be a librarian, I'm also part of the school's gaming club and they meet in the commons of my college. Now I'm pretty introverted and I will admit I have an anger problem that is slowly coming under control. Now onto the... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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7mehPwbOhMhbkByPDdXJn8OWq9EuyDDE | 9t7f1g | {
"description": "not wanting to pay money for the damaged floor",
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} | AITA for not wanting to pay money for the damaged floor? | I am currently living with my housemate 'J' who is also the owner of our house. Last month, our kitchen sink had a minor issue, and we called a repairman. He came and fixed in few hours. However, apparently he didn't fix it properly, and water from the sink started dripping to the floor. We just realized this yesterday... | HISTORICAL | {
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CM0ay9RfWOyssfJNZnodJTbsi7VXDMEL | 9tajyn | {
"description": "not giving my boyfriend what he wants for his birthday",
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} | WIBTA If I didn't give my boyfriend what he wants for his birthday? | We've been together 4 years and I'm the only income in the house. He doesn't have a job even though he says he's looking, I can't verify anything because I'm out working 10+ hour shifts. Our relationship has been straining for the past couple of years because of it, cause I'm getting tired of being the only one putting... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Q0CYTfTVLyNGO8sOf2SHgtGlDPHWzQOB | b9btbh | {
"description": "shouting at my female classmate",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for shouting at my female classmate? | Please, don't read the title and assume things without bothering about the whole post.
Sorry for any errors, but I'm Italian and struggle a bit with writing in English.
I'm in my first year of high school (14-15 years) and I came out of two years of being bullied without being able to do anything about it. The year s... | HISTORICAL | {
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v3I7S1zfIiewWXOPujDYLPQESf7j6gZZ | a00gkg | {
"description": "getting upset with my friend's boyfriend",
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} | AITA for getting upset with my friend's boyfriend? | I was trying to take a friend home for the holidays since we are all college students living far from home, and had a similar destination. I know that they smoke a lot of pot but after asking me several times if they were allowed to smoke in my car (which I said no to) they made me wait 20 minutes for them to smoke a b... | HISTORICAL | {
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Kyovx3SZb8D0m2OACWTN0geOuDZBS2j3 | b6sw3w | {
"description": "hanging out with my friend and not with my best friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for hanging out with my friend and not with my best friend. | Hello everyone this is my first post on this subreddit also English is not my native language so sorry for bad grammar.
So this happen today at school my class, my friend class and my best friend class were send to a large group room were we needed to sit for 3 and half hours while the 12th graders took some test or s... | HISTORICAL | {
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TMta6GZoUsv0QnJNKfG8HurLQNyp3KdR | a5ey07 | {
"description": "joking about getting implants to my gf",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for joking about getting implants to my gf? | So okay, my girlfriend (19f) is very insecure about her breasts because they are fairly small. I have told her many times I don’t care about that and that I think she is beautiful. A while ago she told me that she might want to do implants, but then later said that she doesn’t and that she just want to try to accept he... | HISTORICAL | {
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IBsBaxvYiFyVI11Im1ZPMJpBfKjsNtpp | b6g3cy | {
"description": "telling my grandparents to fuck off after they stop my father from going to hospital",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA For telling my grandparents to fuck off after they stop my father from going to hospital? | So this happened roughly 2 months ago, my father is an epileptic who had just had his medication changed and was having dinner with my younger brother (15) at a restaurant when he had a seizure about 2 minutes before getting in the truck and driving my brother home (which would've caused an accident)
My mother was aw... | HISTORICAL | {
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5rP2g73tO9hBDFuD2QTiu5P74kiNsz0Y | b3e0yd | {
"description": "not participating in company activities",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for not participating in company activities | I am the kind of person where I don't see myself as above others....or at least I try not to see myself that way.
I work for a small to med size local company as their IT guy and it's a known fact that i get nervous around people. My wife thinks I may have Aspergers and this is probably why I act like I do but I tend ... | HISTORICAL | {
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xXr5DlSvsmkN7d7oXNotuomf5bqIZuZh | abrrhy | {
"description": "asking my neighbor to not leave threatening letters on my porch",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for asking my neighbor to not leave threatening letters on my porch? | Long story short: we have 6 backyard chickens that can hop out 4 foot fence and spend time eating all the bugs in my neighbors’ yards and pooping. I have tried clipping their wings and making our fence taller with tree branches so they can’t hop to the top railing and hop down, but neither options has worked. I get tha... | HISTORICAL | {
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IuzGTYRgDHWgSToXh9NdyGSrLHj56A5z | b2rns8 | null | AITA "Friends" argue with GF, now are mad at me for siding with her. |
Hey first time poster,
Today on Facebook a friend accidentally shared a video of a person hurting a cat. My girlfriend commented saying it was rotten and she hopes he gets what's coming to him. Girl I used to be friends with says it looks like me so obviously GF jumps to my rescue saying looks more like her from wh... | HISTORICAL | {
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rUBYF0yQZR80KMAEFztke7E4xqKi25LL | ar3y2b | {
"description": "asking my neighbors to keep their dog on a lead",
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} | AITA for asking my neighbors to keep their dog on a lead? | I had some neighbors move into the townhouse next to me a few months ago and their dog immediately starting shitting in the area between townhouses I have to walk through to get to my back yard and in my backyard itself (which is about 50 square feet). I was annoyed, but being passive aggressive but up a plastic chicke... | HISTORICAL | {
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MUuSUF2SwH97ZfVjOMDcYH3TeIQkij9H | aoin2t | {
"description": "not notifying my mom directly that my husband got a job in my city",
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} | AITA for not notifying my mom directly that my husband got a job in my city? | Here's some background. My husband and I live in different cities because I'm a grad student in a university two hours away from his job. He recently interviewed for a job in my city, and he got the job. I notified everyone on Facebook because, in my opinion, it's the quickest way to send everybody one message.
&#... | HISTORICAL | {
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iyrxr6UQImRU1M7AJUo6jj8EBYg4sD2W | b6g1i9 | {
"description": "just chatting",
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} | AITA I was just chatting. | Ok first of all I'm on mobile so, formatting.
Second of all English is not my first language so bear with me please.
TL;DR At the bottom
I'm a college student in Mexico and I met a girl in a random class like a month ago She has/had a 2 year long relationship with a guy from other random classroom and I have a 4 ye... | HISTORICAL | {
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6idlN0qTiAFsLtrpmUBVG2S3Np1JEEfW | 9th019 | {
"description": "calling out people arguing on reddit as both being assholes, then subsequently Karma Whoring it here",
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} | AITA for calling out people arguing on reddit as both being assholes, then subsequently Karma Whoring it here? | Yes. I am. But I’m still curious to see if anybody thinks I’m not. [This](https://www.reddit.com/r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk/comments/9t6ia5/comment/e8w8i1q?st=JNZIK2O2&sh=2f75d5ee) is the link to my callout, so you can view the whole argument and my comment in context.
Sorry for being an asshole for being too lazy to... | HISTORICAL | {
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AneYBGPBliN7xYowz5F88S6Y9i6DRmJn | a0f9xp | {
"description": "writing my friend a check instead of buying a thoughtful Christmas present",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA if I write my friend a check instead of buying a thoughtful Christmas present | My good friend bought me a ticket to an event for Christmas that we recently attended. I am going out with her next month to celebrate Christmas. I am extremely busy and don’t have time to find a thoughtful gift and I know that if she could ask for anything she would want cash to pay debt. AITA if I just get her a nice... | HISTORICAL | {
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c7PkJWxfF26ov75ntb2nyknLNGCkK7xd | ad3dim | {
"description": "not returning my alcoholic dad's phone calls",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not returning my alcoholic dad's phone calls? | My dad was verbally abusive and is a mean alcoholic who made my and my family miserable until I moved out and my parent's got divorced. I feel that I have forgiven him, but I associate him with the man who emotionally neglected me and done so many hurtful things to us, and I can't bring myself to call him back with all... | HISTORICAL | {
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WInplVFl8hatN8w6tlcwYpFko9gUviCm | akifmg | {
"description": "causing this friendship to fall apart",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for causing this friendship to fall apart | I've been blocked by a friend that I've known for over 15 years, i had grown up with this person as one of my best friends , after i messaged them too much and was acting strange.
To give this some context, i have quite severe abandonment complex and paranoia that i have to treat with medication, i occasionally get se... | HISTORICAL | {
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daQzF7KhBsHhJ7lLJapr5j8pRHZisbNs | aw5flm | {
"description": "getting upset with my roommate for inviting his brother over",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA For getting upset with my roommate for inviting his brother over? | So, for context, I have 2 roommates. One we will call C, and one we will call F. While C and I get along just fine, I find that F and I butt heads a lot. Not that F is a bad guy, he is a clean and organized roommate, just not a great friend.
Now, C has a girlfriend named M, who has never seen Lord of the Rings in her ... | HISTORICAL | {
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KLWw7JeDXWCjxuh8GWqPc6ysLzYZBo5b | ak8dia | {
"description": "not tipping at a self serve frozen yogurt place",
"pronormative_score": 22,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not tipping at a self serve frozen yogurt place? | The yogurt place in question is Froyoland. I used to go there all the time with my dad, but he became a health nut and so we stopped going. I went there the other day with my GF after having not been for months, and they had a new fancy register. This one looked like an IPad and would swivel so that the customer could ... | HISTORICAL | {
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BPcNWTyJ8vtRezsrOCtUe7PMTCUM583y | ag6ewo | {
"description": "telling my (now ex) girlfriend that I can't keep listening to her problems about her parents",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my (now ex) girlfriend that I can't keep listening to her problems about her parents? | So, I (22 M) had a breakup recently (1.5 years), and one of the things she (20 F) cited as a reason she fell out of love with me was that approximately six months in, I had told her that I just couldn't keep listening to her talk about how her family doesn't approve of me and how they're influencing their thoughts.
Ba... | HISTORICAL | {
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TZK8P8FeQybY4KFoQC683r2ABbokWfE6 | axllt3 | {
"description": "not wanting to tell my girlfriend exactly when I watch porn",
"pronormative_score": 92,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for not wanting to tell my girlfriend exactly when I watch porn | So me (19M) and my girlfriend (17F) of 1 year have a disagreement. We only see each other during the weekend. During the week I study in a city far away from the place she lives.
I watch porn during the week. She still dislikes it that I do it, but has grown to accept it. The conversation about porn come up today agai... | HISTORICAL | {
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FzsDeLhvOR60QDxVDe1I6jb1gJokpqKI | ave52w | {
"description": "refusing a ride from my mom",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for refusing a ride from my mom | I'm a mobile user and have an extremely cracked screen so please forgive any spelling or formatting mistakes.
(Also if by some random chance there's a YouTuber reading this please don't post it there because I would much rather have this be contained in Reddit as someone I mention here may see the video.)
My mom isn'... | HISTORICAL | {
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Zp31KmEgtHdKst8V1ppRbyOLJTDxyncP | 9zjrf1 | {
"description": "cutting my sister out of my life",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for cutting my sister out of my life? | A little background. My sister, 28, and I, 24, were very close growing up. Out of our family, she was the only one who shared interests with me, and was one of the only people I was ever close to as a result. Around 7 years ago, she began a habit of white lies that evolved into lying to everyone in her life. I used to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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o26r50iA8TfFtHaHfnPabEBJu0RBwDU2 | 9x7avb | {
"description": "making my boyfriend lose his seat on the train",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for making my [23F] boyfriend [23M] lose his seat on the train? | We were sitting together on the train during peak hour so the train was getting pretty full. Some people were standing up. This lady gets on the train and is standing near me. She is a bit older, maybe in her 50s, and looks like she could use the seat more than me so I offer it to her.
So I've given her my seat now I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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eBw9xwk1q5bC8WVu9OB5Jd5NPRvlPdxX | af4h4p | {
"description": "being mad at my mother because she chose to stay in an abusive and toxic marraige which gave my brother and I mental health issues for life",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for being mad at my mother because she chose to stay in an abusive and toxic marraige which gave my brother and I mental health issues for life? | My dad is an alcoholic, narcissistic and selfish parent. My mother had many chances to call it quits but never did ("because all marriages require effort"). Their fightings and abuse have scarred and damaged my kid brother and me. I absolutely resent my mother for putting up with him. Should I be accepting? Or is this ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5nx2AH6vZfWF0N7iLHZdXLIL8MZh0oDA | b1leb0 | {
"description": "breaking up with my trans gf",
"pronormative_score": 19,
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} | WIBTA if I broke up with my trans gf? | I (22F) have been dating my significant other (22MtF) for 7 years, on and off since high school. At New Years this year, she came out to me as trans. It wasn’t entirely unprecedented, as I had been the more dominant partner and she’d done some feminine things in the bedroom (cross dressing, enjoying being called she, a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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1589M7ogn7EGGA6L6tCuikFIxgyoJ6vx | b3lgi3 | {
"description": "telling an awkward coworker he's coming on too strong",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | WIBTA if I tell an awkward coworker he’s coming on too strong? | I have a coworker that I genuinely think is a good guy, but I don’t think he realizes how he’s coming off. Once he gets started on a topic he’s interested in he will follow you around and go on and on about it. He also says inappropriate stuff sometimes.
The reason I want to address his behavior now though is bec... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 7,
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FiEyBNB0goILWWOehr6nIhsMrKTlCiCQ | ay7q27 | {
"description": "not talking to my gf for 10-12 days",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for not talking to my gf for 10-12 days? | It is impossible to understand this story without context. TL;DR at the bottom
We were both in high school, we met each other through the Science Olympiad tryouts. She was passionate about microbiology and I was passionate about biochemistry, so we covered each other's blind spots during our competitions. Over our fir... | HISTORICAL | {
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MVwmMeKh5XPdk9noYFiymVLnAcQUyw9Y | auv2mw | {
"description": "calling someone out when they tried to advertise in a post that I wrote to advertise my business",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AItA For calling someone out when they tried to advertise in a post that I wrote to advertise my business? | I made an ad for a side business I do in a local community facebook page. Someone commented with a link to their business and I sent him a message telling him that if he wanted to advertise, he could write his own posts instead of trying to hijack mine.
Am I the Asshole here? | HISTORICAL | {
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dkm7mXnxdgVzXskLTVhUQz7GMJoIIPvq | ab9trt | null | WIBTA if ask my dead dad's sisters if he tried to molest them like my mom claims ? |
My dad died when I was 5.(21 years ago)
My mom's ex became very possessive of me after that and prohibited any contact with my dad's family. We was very physically,emotionally, and psychologically abusive. He began molesting me at age 6 and eventually used me as a sexual object until I was 12. I told my mom whe... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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G6VlYoPB3t5tYf4oPDxF2aUOwWRc3aQt | avmvxn | {
"description": "leaving a note for my neighbor regarding his trash",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | WIBTA if I left a note for my neighbor regarding his trash? | So, I live in a fairly nice/expensive apartment complex in a good area. I get along really well with the neighbor in question 99% of the time. For the last week, he’s been leaving his trash bags out on his porch instead of walking them to the dumpster like a normal person. I know it’s not a huge deal, but it’s a big pe... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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FpdP38uyPOoPJpo19IV91QLhUdZLITtc | b8eeda | {
"description": "dealing with a stinky coworker",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 14
} | AITA for dealing with a stinky coworker | I have a coworker who smells constantly. He’s a bigger guy, often late the work and greasy. Constantly sweaty, even though he’s sitting down at a desk the entire day. The smell is pretty bad, people have moved desks and don’t like sitting next to him. It’s common knowledge, and people always talk about it but never con... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 14
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uUxEjM4AqqjjaLafYYij8sIiXgJMbRwv | b6yla2 | {
"description": "denying my co-worker's request to take every Monday off all summer long",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 166
} | AITA for denying my co-worker’s request to take every Monday off all summer long? | A guy who reports to me scheduled 14 consecutive Mondays off as PTO. (Personal Time Off.)
I’m not sure why he thinks that’s okay.
So all summer YOU will have 3-day weekends?
No, sir.
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uNIhNCO1ZhQKQiOtxkHKGHKVC4rtF9Dt | a5d02e | {
"description": "not getting my cousin from the bus station in the middle of the night because I was tired",
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h7z2dgiUwB6IFmMZzNfgR9Lp9qCZ1sFN | a9ilcl | {
"description": "being the stand up daddy",
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} | AITA for being the stand up Daddy? | Earlier this year I found out my three year old daughter was not my biological child. My wife had the affair and made me believe that she was mine from the start and I was over the moon, as I wanted nothing more than to be a father.
The bio-donor didnt want to be a father and let me think I was "Daddy" from the beg... | HISTORICAL | {
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Te4634KTfIQIM6PJbnCh9SuA36NtlL64 | ayxlqf | {
"description": "not telling a guy I'm seeing that I slept with his close friend",
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} | AITA for not telling a guy I’m seeing that I slept with his close friend? | I’ll try to keep this short but its kind of a messy situation. I have been good friends with two guys, Will and John. After about 2+ years of being just friends, Will and I started hooking up. Then a few months in when I tried to figure out what kind of relationship he wanted, Will sort of freaked out, got really depre... | HISTORICAL | {
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k6JhOY867aRr6u3wqRzvpeSuaPuUemq6 | asjexs | {
"description": "telling this kid to get away from my brother",
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} | AITA for telling this kid to get away from my brother? | so, for context, we'll use this organisation system:
k- kid
me- me (duh)
km- kid's mom
m- my mom
b- brother
kd- kid's dad
so there was this kid that visited my family every so often, and to be honest, i liked their family alot. their mom was nice, their babies were adorableee, their dad was serious but chill, and th... | HISTORICAL | {
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uNdy5tKKfO0HXAgZ7aa3LkBAQQhepsre | a26usb | {
"description": "not wanting to get a job with my girlfriend at a place where she hooked up with a different guy (coworker) around the time we met",
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} | AITA for not wanting to get a job with my girlfriend at a place where she hooked up with a different guy (coworker) around the time we met? | So my girlfriend and I have been seeing each other since roughly the end of August 2017. Around that time she got a part time job at an event business with one of her good female friends. Now fast forward to today, we have been talking for a few weeks about me getting a job there also part time just to help with bills ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting my girlfriend to go to frat parties without me",
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} | AITA for not wanting my girlfriend (18f) to go to frat parties without me (19m). | Me and my girlfriend are freshmen in college and although we've only been together four months we're moving quite fast and things have been very serious for at least three of those months. I'm not in a frat and my girlfriend isn't in a sorority but she has friends in sororities and occasionally gets invited to frat par... | HISTORICAL | {
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nuWN5itjEOxYzp3Mgks1qNEZLev6iVy7 | ay7rwu | null | Aita because my mom dissaproves of my freind? | (Obligitory warning for mobile)
So I have a few things to say. Mainly that I love my mom. She's a great person and I love her. However I feel like she overstepped here. This has all blown over now and she's calmed down alot, but I just wanted to put this on the Internet and see what y'all think.
I have a freind (he... | HISTORICAL | {
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ihp32KKT6qkAktPYrA3EnC5HE7P8i3Rk | 9z7ql4 | {
"description": "stopping to talk to my friend after she got a boyfriend",
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} | AITA for stopping to talk to my friend after she got a boyfriend? | Some background is required, because I realise how the title sounds.
​
I (19M) met this girl (19F) last January because we are in the same course and we became really close really quickly. We'd watch movies together, hang out for hours on end and we'd go clubbing with the same group of people.
&#x200B... | HISTORICAL | {
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JihksjRJ5BcwDfIYysSENkm4l6BoXfch | amfxow | {
"description": "going to a bar near spouses bar after agreeing to give them space",
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} | AITA for going to a bar near spouses bar after agreeing to give them space? | Title pretty much.
Spouse and I had a tough week. Not been sleeping well spouse says to me earlier they’re super tired and I have been stressed and complaining about work- SO explains they don’t want to have date night, doesn’t want to hear about my job, says I should still go out. Spouse says “probably going to get ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ja6u1aFB6yV9tBLRsjgEnSe6wN188nuH | a4pfku | {
"description": "wanting to sleep by myself",
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} | AITA for wanting to sleep by myself? | I'll start this off by saying that having personal space is very important to me. I've always enjoyed being able to spend time by myself since, it's really the only way I can relax.
Earlier this year there was a month long stretch in which my (ex) gf was staying at my place every night. I was starting to feel drained... | HISTORICAL | {
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79fbaQwbxw2uZEgRVmBIG3AwmNvs1aQ1 | axa7re | {
"description": "refusing to date co workers even though he pulled some major strings to get me the job",
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} | WIBTAH for refusing to date co workers even though he pulled some major strings to get me the job ? | So I met a guy. After he invited me to his house on our first meet up. I kind of brushed him off under the assumption he just wanted sex.
Fast forward to me getting back from vacation and in desperate need of a job. He reaches out to me after hearing me complain and says he knows a guy who’s hiring. This guys been ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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gzg9CD1KZLQdmXUyqwPDJcDgncGaWxxu | aywkpm | {
"description": "Wanting Leave early",
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} | AITA For Wanting Leave Early | First off sorry about format, im on mobile.
So a little background. I am 20 years old and I dont go to college. Most of my friends do go and this last week was spring break for them. Most of them left today (Friday) but my closest friend leaves in two days (Sunday).
My now ex-girlfriend also goes to college. We can ... | HISTORICAL | {
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p8S7PNGcRqHqko5ofxHFUUc9Cz00LWKv | agyd3m | {
"description": "asking my parents to buy a computer",
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} | AITA For asking my parents to buy a computer? | I mean pretty standard stuff. My parent said a year ago "If you get good grades, we will buy you a computer" And i did.
Well, surprise, i'm not getting a computer. We have money for it but they just say: "No" They're busy buying themselves 2018 model Peugot 508. Makes me think because "Parents are always right" etc. P... | HISTORICAL | {
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o6N5uTASCQYDYfPbH1KptYSm2vrxzrmo | ax7g9y | {
"description": "cancelling a trip with friends to come see me",
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} | AITA for cancelling a trip with friends to come see me? | So me, my BF and a bunch of our friends made plans to come and see us over spring break at me and our Bf's home. These plans were made quite a while ago and that date they are supposed to come is about two weeks from now. However, recently two of our friends said that'd they'd want to bring an extra person, a person we... | HISTORICAL | {
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2YYx197MGEr5X0Pivj17HE5wMBFbHR9X | aekmfz | {
"description": "leaving a job after 3 weeks of training",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for leaving a job after 3 weeks of training? | **Reposted this on a separate account and have friends on the main one so writing on a secondary account**
I've only got a new job after 10 months of being unemployed and living off my parents. I still feel like shit for it. I only turned 20. Today I think the real me, the bipolar and depression has just kicked back i... | HISTORICAL | {
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e8587NgnK0mQxryxCZTdxaMIqc4Nkveu | ag3jm7 | {
"description": "being annoyed by my girlfriend's recent social media habits",
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} | AITA for being annoyed by my girlfriend's recent social media habits? | Hey Reddit, so I've been dating my girlfriend since the end of October. She's fantastic, we get along rather well and see each other often, about 2-3 times a week. Though most of those times it's only for a few hours at most around dinner time, she gets up early to teach and I tend to work late. Most of our recent date... | HISTORICAL | {
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qodHgWX1T6DdCjtT3Bx7qeARkoq80rFn | ahhy5j | {
"description": "wanting my boyfriend to create more distance in his friendship with another girl",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for wanting my boyfriend to create more distance in his friendship with another girl? | For background, BF and I have been seeing each other for a year or so. We have an open relationship, so we both are free to sleep with or hook up with other people. But there are 2 boundaries: always use protection and don't begin a romantic relationship.
BF met G online a few months ago. They were hooking up, which I... | HISTORICAL | {
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4FSA5iC2f0XZUjpLmSfO2ucGPhK6t2jZ | afasyw | {
"description": "not interacting with my mother in a year",
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} | AITA because I haven't interacted with my mother in a year. | This whole situation is short, but pretty messy.
Basically, two years ago I realized I was FTM and I came out at school a few months after that, and then my school, regarding the laws in my home state, were forced to out me to my parents. My dad was the one I came out to first because I knew he'd be better at dealing w... | HISTORICAL | {
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bVt9j5izbAH7pR02mEBhEHFSzLJMRPb0 | b4zdeo | {
"description": "getting angry at my mum over a pair of heels",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for getting angry at my mum over a pair of heels? | This literally just happened but I’ve made sure to calm down first before doing anything. So, basically, my mum had a friend visiting from overseas last week and I hung out with her daughter too so we got along fine and I didn’t mind the visit since it was only for a few days.
During one of the days, they’ve decided ... | HISTORICAL | {
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cWsebLC1XbsxVT9Y6tBu6ujU1fYzwA4w | apkk4h | {
"description": "getting upset over jokes my mother made",
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} | AITA for getting upset over jokes my mother made? | Right off the bat I know the title sounds bad. I'm usually against this "getting offended culture", especially when it's very for very minor things but please hear me out.
​
A bit of background, my entire family is Christian, I was baptized and raised as a Christian as well. I used to go to church and some... | HISTORICAL | {
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l6QeVOljYpC2EZmj4p7SI0H9cj6WhXtG | b0przc | {
"description": "ruining my wedding dress",
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} | WIBTA if I ruin my wedding dress? | On mobile, excuse typos and format.
So, I got married 5 months ago. Everything went great, it was a beautiful day except... our wedding photos are awful, we had a small wedding and planned it in a month, I took a friend’s recommendation about this photographer and... The pictures were messy, no direction at all from h... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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U6uzTr1llskm72pUcHsdmBILah0cRNs4 | aryd7z | {
"description": "yelling at a classmate for talking over the instructor",
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} | AITA for yelling at a classmate for talking over the instructor? | Forgive the formatting, I'm on mobile.
I go to a university and the classes are relatively small. This took place last semester.
The professor a science course I take is an older gentleman in his eighties. He is very soft-spoken and most of the time the room needs to be quiet to hear him.
On this particular day h... | HISTORICAL | {
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ff2VF4yNFo5GdW8ZdjlDMdj9ugAF8qTR | azuktv | {
"description": "telling my friend to stop inviting his other friend who everyone despises",
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} | AITA for telling my friend to stop inviting his other friend who everyone despises | Ok some background there is a group of 10 of us in school (this is a group of 16 year olds) and out of the 10, I have known the one who isn't liked the longest lets call him Dan(We went to primary school together and never got along). Dan skipped a year so his now in the year above us now
So the 10 in group(excluding... | HISTORICAL | {
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ME9YCirWGMaX5X1bvkhWSG3EZ6NAD6Bg | ap8ua8 | {
"description": "asking for a refund over an untracked order that never arrived",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for asking for a refund over an untracked order that never arrived? | Two months ago, I bought a collector's item off of a guy abroad for a little over $130. He offered me to send it untracked for a much cheaper shipping price. As I'm based on the UK and he's from France, I agreed, thinking there was pretty much no chance it'd go wrong, specially since he gave me a big list of previous s... | HISTORICAL | {
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ssrpEGwyZT7Z41jDfqb6Aho5Dy4FpIgQ | 9wikdy | {
"description": "pushing a fisher into the water",
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} | AITA for pushing a fisher into the water | So first of I didn't push him but it was my friends brother who did this. I wasn't with them when this happened so I only have my friends story.
My friend and my brother went fishing in in nearby river and two foreign men also went fishing nearby. Eventually the foreign men caught a big fish. After this he decided to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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fsSejltJ5jXfWJqBUdCRHlqrC9ZhNCBP | argrs5 | null | AITA: Tried selling sister's pet since she wouldn't care for it | This is something that's happened about a year ago. I'm very dense and sometimes have acted like an asshole accidentally just with how I am. This story however, I'm not too sure about.
Just a forewarning TW: Animal abuse or at least animal neglect
​
For this story, I'll be calling my sister, S for short.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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mUlkFy6Fdg3pCsTLZYflC1LLs6osoELW | az0v19 | {
"description": "not inviting my friend to a brewery",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not inviting my friend to a brewery? | My boyfriend and I are involved in a bowling group that we found through my best friend Alice and her husband. There are about seven guys on the team, but only three girls: myself, Alice and Beth (whose boyfriend is also part of the group).
Alice and I have been best friends for years, and one of our hobbies outside o... | HISTORICAL | {
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m75IdCvbq12pKk8KZFjz1kA0IXoGIwDG | aive1a | {
"description": "convincing two of my depressed friends to date only to convince them to break up a few months later",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for convincing two of my depressed friends to date only to convince them to break up a few months later? | Ok, a little backstory first. I have two depressed friends, let's just call them Jane and John. Jane was the new girl in school and became a part of our friend group, which also involved John. John and Jane had a crush on each other and they both told me about it so I was like "hey, you guys should go out". And they di... | HISTORICAL | {
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BwnBZE0ppRzIFLv1dGZoL2zlaST922bo | aj6cts | {
"description": "accepting nudes from people that are not my significant other",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA for accepting nudes from people that are not my significant other? [NSFW] | So, for some context, I'm talking about on this specific Reddit account of mine.
This is my porn account with a username of "PMmeUrNudesPlease", and sometimes when I'm active (and especially if I point out my username) I will receive, well, nudes. I do have a girlfriend, however she does not use Reddit, nor does she k... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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gAG80COWF78EuaBiACTKnZ6KXVxRe2UP | aoar7l | {
"description": "blocking someone because they wanted a \"legitimate reason\" for not wanting to rp",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for blocking someone because they wanted a "legitimate reason" for not wanting to rp? | First time posting, sorry if it's not within rules. So, I'm on Deviantart, and this person sends me a message, asking me to partake in role-play (Don't judge me, okay?) They keep bringing up the same subject even when I say no, and persist to ask me why. My response is "I'm not interested." "Why?"
When I finally bloc... | HISTORICAL | {
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EWLkw0Fqm1Dz8ExKnuVaM6JRwU6hsz9G | aa5wo9 | {
"description": "not always letting my boyfriend touch me when/how he wants? AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for touching me after I've said stop or no",
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} | AITA for not always letting my [24F] boyfriend [29M] touch me when/how he wants? AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for touching me after I’ve said stop or no? | TL;DR If I [24F] don’t want touched a certain way or at all some times, I explicitly tell my boyfriend [29M] of 9 months to stop touching me; this makes him feel unwanted and unattractive. I get angry with him for not adhering to my nonconsent. AITA?
~~~~~~~~
For context:
Sometimes touch is very overwhelming for me... | HISTORICAL | {
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PeaY2ulMXx3u9aXgnQQ8evXnZMYAJKDe | awvnqu | {
"description": "not taking a video game seriously",
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} | AITA for not taking a video game seriously? | One of my classmates at school has been begging me to play overwatch with him since he learned I recently bought it. I agree to play with him and I tell him I’m decent but I’m not the greatest. We start playing and he tells me we don’t have a healer so he tells me to be the healer. Support is what I’m best at and what ... | HISTORICAL | {
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F6GJbIue6W34xbss2efIKTJQSoZnWw1x | apivu3 | {
"description": "not wanting my children to pass out bible verse bracelets for Valentine's day",
"pronormative_score": 126,
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} | AITA for not wanting my children to pass out bible verse bracelets for Valentine's Day? | My husband takes our children (ages 6 and 8) to church on Sunday mornings. I don't go. Although I was raised in the church and it wasn't a terrible experience, somewhere along the way I lost my faith. My husband became a believer after we were married, so this causes a bit of tension in our marriage. Anyway, on Sunday ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
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