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"description": "making up an excuse to break up with my girlfriend",
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} | AITA for making up an excuse to break up with my girlfriend? | TL;DR at the end. Also, I'm new to this subreddit, so if I've overstepped any rules or regulations, please let me know.
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Let me preface this by saying that I was diagnosed with encephalitis caused by chicken pox when I was six years old, which is a condition where my brain swelled and caused me to lose mo... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "telling my wife I don't want my kids photos on Facebook",
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} | AITA for telling my wife I don't want my kids photos on Facebook? | My wife and I are at a crossroads with this. We want to have children but I told her I don't want any photos of my baby on Facebook I feel really uncomfortable about that and I hate Facebook with a passion because of their practices, she says she wants to use it for memories and to share with family.
I told her I'm not... | HISTORICAL | {
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RLvyL4bHTb3yvwFgCwIe0QnogpovBmzX | a85uxs | {
"description": "being more attracted towards certain races in oppose to others",
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} | AITA for being more attracted towards certain races in oppose to others? | Don’t get me wrong, I respect everyone as individuals and as people, and I would never treat any person with bias just because of their race, ethnicity, or skin colour. Am I still a racist if I find, for example, people with dark skin physically unattractive? Like, could I say, “I think he/she is ugly to me because he/... | HISTORICAL | {
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QuFT0lbL0my6WxwHuWpihWFMtXlyBY1r | abx86n | {
"description": "ruining my parent's relationship",
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} | AITA for ruining my parent’s relationship? | Throwaway since it is so personal. Apologies for poor grammar, still fuming.
My dad and I have a very poor relationship. He has this thing about weight and being thin. When he was young, his dad always said that being fit was key and that he was fat etc so my dad took steroids and became a body builder, (he’s a fat as... | HISTORICAL | {
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c4QYD8rLxQMvLEK1ntj0rfLSGEmeJym1 | 9wm7qn | {
"description": "repeatedly brushing off somebody who was definitely interested in me",
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} | AITA for repeatedly brushing off somebody who was definitely interested in me? | Ok, please keep in mind that I am 13, and don't always make the best decisions. Also, I know this might seem really minor, but I kind of want to get it off my chest and see other peoples opinions.
Let's rewind to a few months ago, towards the end of the final semester of my 7th grade year. I sit in the bottom right co... | HISTORICAL | {
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EyC7rGgNXyalIQ6hiiE4WAMRlfr0oj9E | b81j9q | {
"description": "getting annoyed my parents won't deal with my sister",
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} | aita for getting annoyed my parents won't deal with my sister. | So this incident happened about 3 weeks ago.
I made a reddit account just for this.
I was having a chat with my sister (14 years old) and she explained that she doesn't go to classes if she doesn't like the teacher, basically saying she skips classes.
I tried telling her how that can affect our future and she rolled... | HISTORICAL | {
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mwbhbNQX7yFKQAWLrmre3tS9Xvc6d6ie | arz9it | null | AITA bf gives unwanted critique on my twitch layout and hurts my feelings | This is via mobile so idk if the layout will be weird.
So i started streaming on twitch awhile ago and got my affliate, woo go me. And figured out how to add fun pop ups and other cool stuff. And I set it up how i liked it.
Later my BF told me it didnt look good and how I should change it. I hadnt asked if it looked... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not telling my boyfriend his friend was flirting with me",
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} | AITA for not telling my boyfriend his friend was flirting with me? | First off, using a throwaway & typing on mobile so sorry about that. Also TLDR at the end.
Alright, so my boyfriend and I have never been in a relationship before so we're both quite new to the romance department. Im just curious about where I land in this situation.
Background:
My bf and I have a mutual frie... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "worrying about who I'm associated with",
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} | AITA for worrying about who I'm associated with? | So, this video went viral in my area of some girl getting fucked by a dog, which is fucked up, but also, apparently someone I know sort of looks like the girl in the video. I know for a fact it wasn't her, but people are convinced, and so now I'm anxious about it cause I don't wanna be known as the dude who's "friends ... | HISTORICAL | {
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56G0weIqgMVWkbwzH3DWhFYADPW4DlFq | a0ftss | null | AITA? Two people did all the work on a group project. | So to preface this I am in college and we were working on a presentation for the class. There are five members in the group me being one of them. We scheduled a group meeting around a week after we got the project. Fast forward to then I show up with my friend who is also in the group to a nearly complete PowerPoint an... | HISTORICAL | {
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3uy01LZF9LS5T3SZjQYLE0qAikPQGhna | aadp3k | {
"description": "saying I can control my money",
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} | AITA for saying I can control my money? | Because of serious family problems, I’m living with my grandmother. I’m a minor. She doesn’t have legal guardianship.
Now that that’s out of the way...
I want to buy a new phone cuz my current one sucks. I have more than enough money to buy it, but my grandmother isn’t letting me. My money isn’t in a bank or trust fu... | HISTORICAL | {
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aSD8C987ocqhJaljQFnRZo61ckOzofRU | anrdkq | {
"description": "going to management a third time for my neighbor's bass",
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} | WIBTA for going to management a third time for my neighbor's bass? | I definitely feel like TA because I never went to my neighbor in person the first time. The reason for this was because at the same time I heard that he got a new sound system, I realized (smelled) that he was letting his two dogs use the balcony below me as their only bathroom (he's on the second floor and grass is li... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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ECb8SVZGWowHNpHBMEo93Ap98jsAwucm | a3onvr | {
"description": "asking my wife to lose weight",
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} | AITA for asking my wife to lose weight? | I have been with my fiancee for 11 years, we started dating when we were 17, we both became doctors, she is getting a masters degree and I'm a first year resident.
Over the past five years she has been gaining weight, and has gained about 80 pounds. To be fair I have also gained some weight (about 15 pounds over the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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w15vs29gh70ZzPmr7bWSB87nWRBQxcSa | a1uz0m | null | AITA? - BF won't let me have male friends? |
AITA?
My S.O is an absolute angel, but he deals with a lot of insecurity from past relationships - people cheating on him, severe emotional abuse, etc, lots of awful, awful stuff. He does a great job not letting it affect our relationship, sometimes his brain will go down a horrible rabbit hole and he'll think ... | HISTORICAL | {
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hiY9pb1Ow8BvSB6pTsUdt4eiBT0vniGP | axt35l | {
"description": "not eating a meal that I paid for",
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} | AITA For not eating a meal that I paid for? | I went to a restaurant with my girlfriend today and ordered some food and a drink, but when my food came and I took a bite I realized I wasnt hungry. I told my girlfriend this and she immediatley looked at me like I had 2 heads. So I waited for her to finish eating then went and paid and got a to go box for later since... | HISTORICAL | {
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5A1rxvwvi3mFyR0nrkoKqWk75RMDBVI2 | b79qo1 | {
"description": "being upset when my wife calls me rude constantly",
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} | AITA for being upset when my wife calls me rude constantly? | I consider myself a typically blunt person and understand that being misread as rude comes with that and it’s fine, when I began dating my now wife and made it clear that I am a blunt person. Everything was fine she’d mention occasionally that something I said could be taken as rude but never said that what I was sayin... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
qtQC4thXtXOiD2MTmjCl2ZBKpyr3e8eV | aqfh11 | {
"description": "telling my sons dad I won't change my plans on a day my sons scheduled to be with him because of a b-day party he was invited to",
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} | AITA for telling my sons dad I won’t change my plans on a day my sons scheduled to be with him because of a b-day party He was invited to? | I’ll try to make this short. My son lives with me the majority of the time. He goes to school near our home and his friends are all around our home or school. He goes to his dads Friday-Sunday and it’s about 45 minutes away from us . He was invited to a bday party Friday evening, a night he’s scheduled to be with his d... | HISTORICAL | {
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vFHPxTmkY4QYXkBacPigg7N9DRNhlVg8 | b6mbzb | {
"description": "not wanting anything to do with my parents",
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} | AITA for not wanting anything to do with my parents? | Im 18 almost 19 now, and ever since i was around 13 my parents would borrow money from me, it started out in little chunks but when i got my job it started to be a lot. They both live WELL above their means and so the money that i lent them went right to bills. The total of this got to be 4100 around a month ago. This... | HISTORICAL | {
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LJa9bXKDFD2C3qWZ2uXvpenBzW6bh5Bo | ao3bs0 | {
"description": "not wanting to go to a closer school",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to a closer school | I need to take a bus and a train to go to the school i used to go to. But theres a high school 5 mins aways from where i live . Only thing is its worse than my old one.Not to mention i just dont want to go there. The main trump card of theirs is that my ten year old brother cannot walk 400 metres to His school so they... | HISTORICAL | {
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hiBXBAlrOaphNCeHbeDOqQ7LRNekb9M3 | b05i9y | {
"description": "being offended at boyfriend saying this",
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} | AITA for being offended at boyfriend saying this? | Bf and I got into a fight recently over whether or not I need a nosejob. I feel like it would make me prettier and happier, but he doesn't want me to change my features.
After a few min of debate over text, he says "I didn't fall in love with some bitch that got a nosejob."
I was absolutely astonished that he would s... | HISTORICAL | {
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Fogk1RTEzhrSK5NnlpZFx1Ywq6L7bPrx | a925ud | {
"description": "wanting my Gf to ditch her best friend",
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} | AITA for wanting my Gf to ditch her best friend? | So my gf(21F) and I (22M) we’re trying to figure out what to do New Years. I suggest a place with open bar as we’re both of age and I have off work the next day which is unusual for me. She then tells me we can’t cause she spends every year with her friend (20F) who is underage. And she has no other friends to spend th... | HISTORICAL | {
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XiZW5zb5g06iRjjUXOUCxyy6s30Wlqff | b8k1bx | {
"description": "putting my roommate's dirty dishes on their stool in their personal space",
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} | AITA for putting my roommate's dirty dishes on their stool in their personal space? | I have a roommate who almost never does their own dishes, and for the first 6 months my fiancee and I would just do them to keep them out of the way. I then decided to clean ALL the dishes one week and lay the ground rule that *anyone leaving dishes on the counter(where we all prep food in our tiny kitchen) or in the s... | HISTORICAL | {
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bY5r9XqTNlNRd7cl8jynaxaDDEgbR8Ky | am4avg | {
"description": "not wanting to take care of my soon to be Mother/Brother in law",
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} | AITA For not wanting to take care of my soon to be Mother/Brother in law? |
I’m getting married soon, this girl is the love of my life. We have known each other for over a decade and have been together for five years. She moved across the country with me for my new job, she is wickedly intelligent, beautiful and does not have a malicious bone in her body. I have no doubt in my mind I want to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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dzbsCiLe1gsuKLZfCvqKVnnNCW2X4OX8 | a4nrl3 | {
"description": "not wanting to spend time with my family for not letting me hang out with some friends",
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} | AITA for not wanting to spend time with my family for not letting me hang out with some friends | To start off, I'm 17 and I'm aware this is a light subject. I just wanted some feedback.
So it's recently snowed where I live and it's the most snow we've gotten in 10 years, being 12 inches.
My friend lives about 2/3 of a mile down the road from me and another guy was there and we were just gonna hang out and maybe ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zX8zAb48jMYneZQcogRQA7NA6unLj2Zs | b4ryrt | {
"description": "disappointing my friends by \"not being into\" their dinner party",
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} | AITA for disappointing my friends by "not being into" their dinner party? | So I have two good friend who are a couple and every few months they host a dinner party where we drink and eat together pot-luck style.
It makes them really happy and they look forward to it each time and it's important for them. And honestly, I love it too!
But during the last dinner party, I wasn't able to be mys... | HISTORICAL | {
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R5Rmmn8McXEx1vYFOLuUDGmhhVgcIcTc | acymbd | {
"description": "being upset at someone who gives no regards to my personal opinions or property",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for being upset at someone who gives no regards to my personal opinions or property? | Throwaway because I can be ID on my main account
I’ve known this guy since high school. He was pretty cool but after high school we haven’t really spoken with each other since he moved away for college and I stayed around the area. We’re all still in college 18-20 range so while we get fucked up access to alcohol and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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0G8bv9WL3s9yJk9RkCf3ANQcUWiFlQoV | attid5 | {
"description": "not contacting my friends as often as before after I got a boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA For not contacting my friends as often as before after I got a boyfriend? | For context, I have three really good friends, on a level of siblings, gaming buddies that I used to play with. We played only one game, and when that didn't work we rarely played another one. Thing is that since December I got a boyfriend. Long distance. And I have been spending every day with him.
I rarely passed t... | HISTORICAL | {
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4Zd9ybmiS7JPrWx4R71493KzMKJFkqIW | ae6ing | {
"description": "getting mad at my aunt about (kind of?) pushing religion onto my brother",
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} | AITA for getting mad at my aunt about (kind of?) pushing religion onto my brother? | The backstory: my brother is 11, autistic, and very easily convinced of things (gullible.). I’ll call him Jake. My aunt is 60-something and Christian. Let’s call her Sherry.
Me, Sherry, Jake and my mum are all sitting together at the dining table. Jake is on his DS when he asks, “Auntie Sherry, who was the first pers... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
fztLGCxd9H3TeBAxkpzUiFCBXnq2zAxE | aknfvw | {
"description": "writing a fake review of my coworker to improve her work ethic",
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} | AITA for writing a fake review of my coworker to improve her work ethic? | TL;DR - had worst coworker in the world, learned she read our restaurant reviews and was self-conscious so I wrote a fake review insulting her customer service. She improved herself but I'm feeling guilty, thinking perhaps I could've talked to her again and convinced her better.
​
I'm a manager at a small... | HISTORICAL | {
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jv8fF0lL4Pn0CegEnXFyOn2SEExXmw6e | ame668 | {
"description": "kicking a girl who hates me from my Discord server",
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} | AITA for kicking a girl who hates me from my Discord server? | Hi, this is something that has really been bothering me for the past week and I want to know what other people think. I'm embarrassed and insecure about this, so I made the account just for this to not have it associated with my main account so certain people don't see it. This is a long post, and I'm sorry for that, I... | HISTORICAL | {
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WC6UyQPB7GjiCUW3NML2hx1ugWIy9LcH | agmtp8 | {
"description": "telling my mother that my dad cheated on her",
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} | AITA for telling my mother that my dad cheated on her | So my phone's battery died so I had to use my dad's old phone for awhile. For some reason he didn't delete his old messages which I have obviously read. He was sending messages to another women , telling her how he loved her and how he wanted to do "stuff" with her. So I have told on my dad. My mother never could fully... | HISTORICAL | {
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JKZ8PjSusT8OnzWzv7IlSVqYaV4KBuH2 | au41ba | {
"description": "wanting to tell my boyfriend that I'd like us to go on a break when he gets home from his friend's bachelor party weekend tomorrow",
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} | AITA for wanting to tell my boyfriend that I’d like us to go on a break when he gets home from his friend’s bachelor party weekend tomorrow? | My boyfriend’s friends are all really rich and have these really extravagant weekend long bachelor parties out of town. My boyfriend is at one right now, and I know he’s easily spent at least a grand on it. We are both in the special ed field and are obviously NOT rich at all. I’m happy he’s with his friends and having... | HISTORICAL | {
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LSzBHOry9ihwViWTDJv4s9n7QChe0MKz | akq9wg | {
"description": "having feelings for someone other than my wife",
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} | AITA for having feelings for someone other than my wife? | I've been with my wife for 6 years (high school sweet hearts) and we've been married for 2 years.
So, it all started when I found out she was cheating on me with a guy who lives a few states away, but she took my money to go buy a plane ticket to see him.
When I found out about the cheating, it broke me. I gave up ... | HISTORICAL | {
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lawd627eXC2LvUsGNyxpxYvJc3LAn8V9 | a6ozgm | {
"description": "giving my girlfriend a nose ring ultimatum",
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} | AITA for giving my girlfriend a nose ring ultimatum? | I am really grossed out by nose rings, and they make me pretty uncomfortable.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for about two years now (we're in our mid-20s), and we live together. We usually don't have a lot of friction, so the past few days have been very unusual.
After dinner on Saturday, we were talking and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Yl0l95MVQjS7e2tJDIhnhwU1gjIyflh6 | b8uq9s | null | AITA?? Family drama | TL;DR: at the bottom of this fiasco...
So the characters in this story are as follows: brother: B, Sister: S, fiance: F, Me: me
So onto the problem.
Me and my fiance offer to help charge B's batteries every once in awhile, but B now asks us to charge them daily, if not twice a day. I told him our batteries were dead... | HISTORICAL | {
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lg0ZCOmgVdlvzIl18rXqcJybBTKyBZ40 | b524w0 | {
"description": "leaving work early even though I'm sick",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for leaving work early even though I'm sick? | Long, long background that I'll shove into a few sentences. I'm 18F and always sick. I currently see eight doctors. I get very weak at my job and have to leave early constantly. I asked my manager for shorter shifts (like 6 hours) and she responded by scheduling me 8 1/2 to 10 hour shifts on the busiest days while stil... | HISTORICAL | {
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jFUYfF6LsztXCkGbqESpNNNuLpFIqdDc | abtpzu | {
"description": "not speaking with my sister",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for not speaking with my sister? | Sister and I have had a fairly good relationship, shes 6 years younger than me (26M).
Shes been very hotheaded the past few years, and admittedly I was the same way at her age - essentially unable to have a conversation without you storming away upset, and incapable of taking criticism and refuses to ever say sorry.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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7UHJmgaiurjO0cFnFdi1ZYG28IcqxVll | a2ian2 | null | AITA:Cat truouble | This story a happened a few years ago but its still bothering me because i think i was wrongfully accused of being an asshole.
Here goes. I was dating this one girl for about 3 or 4 months,she had a dog which i loved. I am full on dog person. Well one night she picks up this stray kitten from the street and takes it ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ABG84Vw6h1ZznAS0EQr4ARfMd6z1eam9 | b4big5 | {
"description": "not wanting to lend money to my mother",
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} | AITA for not wanting to lend money to my mother | I'm a 23 year old university student and I've been working a relatively well paid part time programming job for the past two years. I try to be financially responsible, so as a result I've managed to save up about 8000 €, which is a decent amount of money where I'm located (eastern Europe).
I'm an only child and I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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vzWmKrgVbTJ9kVpdI3BDeDbVst10Wkmk | 9tvoha | {
"description": "feeling peeved about the whole Diablo fiasco",
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} | AITA for feeling peeved about the whole Diablo fiasco | It is deeply irritating to me the people are getting so upset over something so small. They’re so much trouble in the world, why are we getting upset at a video game company trying to make money? I personally don’t see any reason why a video game should make anyone this mad. Blizzard is not beholden to anybody except t... | HISTORICAL | {
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tos8WMetpzt6tFzHjbwhHXlh9uGRPJvI | a5baqe | {
"description": "being frustrated by my Girlfriends relationship with her ex",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AiTA for being frustrated by my Girlfriends relationship with her ex? | My girlfriend was recently divorced when we started dating. She has assured me that while they do have kids together and she does still love him on that level, she is totally over him. It has become clear that this is not the case, and I wouldn’t expect her to be so soon. I know that she loves and wants to be with me,... | HISTORICAL | {
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vMqmUvYYGnobZIC9DDI96Jj6qSgzZnBC | b2hr8o | {
"description": "keeping my roommate up watching a movie",
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} | AITA for keeping my roommate up watching a movie | okay so under just normal circumstances YTA would be a straight forward no-brainer, but hear me out.
(we live in a dorm, at uni, in close enough proximity to each other to be able to see each other)
​
so I don't usually sleep a lot (I go to bed late and get up early), but I was extra tired so I went to b... | HISTORICAL | {
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5R0ocuhtXh0OhD5hzFq0wcldfHHVYUmI | b9zpyh | {
"description": "not attending my friend's brother's wedding",
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} | AITA for not attending my friend’s brother’s wedding? | So I’ve never been super close with her family, been over to her house a few times, spoken to the brother (at least 10 yrs older) in question... maybe once.
When she first brought up the wedding, right off the bat I asked her, “this is your brother, who I really don’t know that well,’s wedding. Should you really be i... | HISTORICAL | {
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MiCiA7lX5fkL8Pmete5PMuQGEgpP8s8D | b372fb | {
"description": "complaining about bad grammar in a newsletter",
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} | WIBTA for complaining about bad grammar in a newsletter? | My kid's daycare center has been fantastic. The only cringe is the little weekly newsletter my daughter's teacher puts out each week. It's a mess, with terrible sentence structure and punctuation. I'm not perfect at writing... but WIBTA for mentioning it to the director? | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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zOT3mJAP4oQQWKvO4SiWiuDZRCYCs6Xh | 9vd58x | {
"description": "considering my alcoholic husband's (sober) lies a separate \"choice\" from the disease itself",
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} | AITA for considering my alcoholic husband's (sober) lies a separate "choice" from the disease itself? | My husband became an alcoholic about 20 years into our 30 year relationship. He is struggling with recovery. I love him and believe that people can grow if motivated, so I've stayed with him, despite the verbal and emotional abuse that came with the disease. I am used to him lying about drinking when he's drunk--which ... | HISTORICAL | {
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TndITw18O6NLi5rHpj5686RH2v4shPPQ | ay8xei | null | AITA post number two | This story is about my last dog not my current one.
Back in 2015 I noticed a couple of small lumps at the top of my dogs neck under his chin and I asked my mother and father to take him to the vets and they ignored me. Then in early to mid 2017 I asked them to take him to the vets and they said that the vets might ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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wqjFmzmvQ911MQf0TE7jTIk3bPbMqdlG | b5h20q | {
"description": "deciding to cut off a mentally ill uncle for making me feel uncomfortable",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA if I decide to cut off a mentally ill uncle for making me feel uncomfortable? | I have an uncle who has been diagnosed with schizophrenia but he doesn’t listen to family members when they offer advice and he has no filter on what he says a lot of the times. A few months ago around New Years time he had found out that I got a boyfriend. This is my first relationship and most of my family knows it i... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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qbOuTltl27dLXA2iRccOLvx06gVPOOMq | 9z8gbq | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with this autistic dude on my birthday",
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} | AITA for not wanting to hang out with this autistic dude on my birthday. | Little backstory this guy and me went to school together but he was a year-ish younger than me but he for whatever reason latched onto me after either I or he graduated high school and ever since then I’ve been more or less stuck with him always wanting to hang out and whenever his or my birthday is coming up I wanna b... | HISTORICAL | {
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FOCTeYwJpnc0egvQ7cVSSp2KGZgDIW77 | ata1co | {
"description": "not doing business trips with my private car any longer",
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} | AITA for not doing business trips with my private car any longer? |
tl;dr: Boss expects me to do business trips with my new car and won't cover full costs. Providing a car is not part of my contract.
I've been working in a small architecture firm for a few years. When I started there, there was no company car, but the business trips to customers, meetings and construction sites wer... | HISTORICAL | {
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wY5CeVllHdTM31zzzAo7ZBiRyNjDdpRg | au0pjb | {
"description": "making out with someone while I was at a party",
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} | AITA for making out with someone while I was at a party? | Background: I'm F(19), my friend is F(18) and we went to a club party with some of our guy friends.
(Also I'm still pretty drunk so sorry if this is messy)
When we started having fun I saw this guy I had a thing with a while ago and we chatted a bit, but then I continued dancing with my friends.
2 hours later I got to... | HISTORICAL | {
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8QaEFGlbpT0KPeUETDyLq4VmtycFDoY8 | atmdx0 | {
"description": "not continuing to get my hair cut from my sister in law",
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} | AITA for not continuing to get my hair cut from my sister in law? | I wanna preference this off and say that I adore my SIL. She's way too good for my brother, and I care about her and their child greatly.
Here's my problem, she's a hairdresser and owns a salon with a friend of hers. She's been cutting my hair for the last 6 years, and usually tries to not get me to pay (I always do).... | HISTORICAL | {
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OtFr1DG2cmFJbnxkkhdd4gBMO1eBRKjQ | b18enr | {
"description": "telling a teenage boy he smells",
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} | AITA for telling a teenage boy he smells? | I'm a middle school teacher, and one of my 6th grade male students smells bad. Really bad. Worse than "Who's kid shit their diaper?" but not as bad as "Oh dammit, I left that smoothie bottle in the car over the weekend!"
I called his mom in an attempt to be discreet and her response was essentially "yeah I know what w... | HISTORICAL | {
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06IXQDHrjI7gYjfGtno2jfsiv9vNbYxU | ae10fe | {
"description": "making my mom cry over a $50 gift card",
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} | AITA for making my mom cry over a $50 gift card? | AITA? So recently I’ve been experiencing a lot of financial set backs due to a car accident that happened recently. I haven’t had any extra money, meaning my whole paychecks gone towards my car, my bills, and Important stuff.
For Christmas my employer gave me a $50 gift card to Ulta. Great! I loved it! I put it next... | HISTORICAL | {
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RA7YrrSPCXvHCqUivoaWO97MG5ZjuJMu | a6c2fs | {
"description": "not buying Christmas gifts",
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} | AITA for not buying Christmas gifts? | I've never been one to really give gifts out during Christmas, especially not to indirect family/friends. If there's something I know somebody could use or whatever I'll go ahead and get it for them, but otherwise I always feel like I'd rather keep my money to myself. At the same time, I never really know what somebody... | HISTORICAL | {
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wnkXiFINcpBaXJiUeo3YUA81710qlxb6 | acflww | {
"description": "yelling at my mother for hissing and distracting me as I was driving",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for yelling at my mother for hissing and distracting me as I was driving? | Before we begin, I should mention that I’m in the process of getting my license, and have just gotten my permit, so I have to drive with an adult in the passenger. I have less than 10 hours of driving experience and probably 4 hours of on the road driving. Also sorry for weird formatting I’m on mobile.
It’s dark outs... | HISTORICAL | {
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y26cb6GyofKPiMqu6htzyslI7spLdXMq | awav2m | {
"description": "constantly antagonizing one of my classmates",
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} | AITA for constantly antagonizing one of my classmates? | First of all, I really hate him, he constantly calls his friends dumbasses for minor mistakes. He does not shut the hell up. I constantly him annoying and an a stubborn ass. For the treatment of his friends, he constantly buts in and guilt trips them and calls them worthless. And I talk shit about him in front of him a... | HISTORICAL | {
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n58lEKqdjN5O8s95SElLDoQlxRwLVael | b2gipj | {
"description": "breaking up with my boyfriend over text",
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} | AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend over text? | So me (24F) and my ex(30m) were dating for about 8 months.
At the beginning things were pretty good. We spend a lot of time together because he was on break from classes and I was on break from teaching. I eventually had to leave the country for a month for visa stuff (we are both living abroad) and he also had to le... | HISTORICAL | {
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1oUmR4xHiNzw34rZuTNwwVGtGh7SJjYY | avkjfr | {
"description": "wanting to work to pay for my schooling instead of accepting indigenous funding",
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} | AITA for wanting to work to pay for my schooling instead of accepting Indigenous funding? | Relevant information: I'm a 20 year old college freshman finishing up my first year. I'm half Canadian First Nations and half white. I'm located in Vancouver, BC, Canada. I live with my family and pay my mother a reasonable amount of rent to live there.
Ever since starting school last fall, I've been uncomfortable wit... | HISTORICAL | {
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E89wnWqr6GTu9VTHvXXYgHd333Zy5mDR | b6hv3w | {
"description": "recommending a new employee iron her clothes",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for recommending a new employee iron her clothes? | I work in a real estate office, and we recently hired new employees. Among them is a young woman, just out of college. This is her first office gig. She's smart, friendly, happy, eager to learn. While she is not the receptionist, she's customer-facing.
The issue is her appearance. It's... sloppy. She comes in with da... | HISTORICAL | {
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IEEG82XtRmZq2KqD1h8HV7JklVdaAaZs | a3y81n | {
"description": "saying I can't wait forever",
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} | AITA for saying I can't wait forever | I've been seeing this girl for 8 months now. Sadly she suffers terribly from depression and anxiety. Because of these issues we've been unable to make any progress in terms of relationship. She hardly ever wants to get close, the furthest I've ever got is having my arm around her sitting on a bench. This is hard for me... | HISTORICAL | {
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zlAMcLtERrFDl6a7nYgOgm8xOUZlvIbJ | atchcf | {
"description": "asking my mom to tone down the incessant chatter",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for asking my mom to tone down the incessant chatter | My mom is in town visiting me and my wife and our daughter. It always causes anxiety, especially for my wife but not necessarily for the stereotypical mother-in-law stuff. My mom cannot let silence go unfilled, and doesn’t get hints very well that we’re just not constant-chatter-type people. It’s incessant updates abou... | HISTORICAL | {
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bPNER0Pd8VV78Tbvv3kLm7PDTWxBZLKF | ac67ur | {
"description": "telling my mom that she is morbidly obese and endangering her health",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for telling my mom that she is morbidly obese and endangering her health? | Background: My mom is in fact morbidly obese (BMI +40), she's in her mid sixties and had pneumonia a few weeks ago, which she found very hard to recover from. She has also been dealing with difficulties with her breathing for years and I have been having the suspicion that she has sleep apnea. She has multiple health i... | HISTORICAL | {
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XRA5fZedZ72VolwhMUeFwBk7fFwvhtLw | adiu91 | {
"description": "believing that dogs are disgusting diseases",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for believing that dogs are disgusting diseases? | Like, all they do is bark and beg for food. It's disgusting. Dogs are fucking disgusting. Just look at them. Half the time they look braindead and the other half they convince you they're braindead. I literally can't stand their presence. I can't fucking eat because this disease is looking at me. The worst part is that... | HISTORICAL | {
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Kacv6QB1Hea6OLOVq8Xqck39YhfbdOwl | abjzgu | {
"description": "stealing a deaf outdoor tabby cat so it wouldn't get killed",
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} | AITA I stole a deaf outdoor tabby cat so it wouldn't get killed. (Arizona) | I live in Arizona, and I saw a small cat/kitten come right up to me. I had never seen it before, but she was VERY friendly, so I picked him up and took him inside and gave her a little bit of turkey.
I was planning on finding out if she belonged to anyone, but then this conversation happened. Neighbor said hi to me an... | HISTORICAL | {
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GGham0hIaIUwyHUGCqTFZJNWvDnfmJwH | 9ygqx5 | null | AITA | Posting on be half of friend as he doesn't use Reddit.
They have hired a beach house for 9 people at a $300 a for the 5 nights each with food and drink being on top of that and being split evenly afterwards.
Now of the 9 eight are guys and one of them is a girlfriend of one of them. Now one of the other guys girlf... | HISTORICAL | {
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EYyPc2M6Li5aP9LAFxpmKA7jOOmMnPkK | b0kah4 | {
"description": "not alerting a store about a shoplift",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA For Not Alerting A Store About A Shoplift | Okay so this is more of a minor incident and more of a "am I an asshole" situation.So me and my friend just finished school and decided to go to the local store to buy drinks.However,while we were entering,a seemingly mentally ill man nabs a drink of the shelf and runs away,only leaving me and my friend the witnesses.T... | HISTORICAL | {
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JjdJqFTfEaxGPZa3SamSEcQRtBjCH5fs | a449zy | {
"description": "asking someone to take down a joke about me off their Instagram",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for asking someone to take down a joke about me off their Instagram | So this happened about an hour ago and it's been eating away at me. For context I'm a female(17) with a history of anxiety and depression that has been diagnosed by a diagnostic child therapist back when I was 14. I've always had issues with any relationships which is why I'm uncertain if I am the asshole.
There's a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Y4CcLq9oyWv3912HU8tThsJcHngkQRQE | b7u47q | {
"description": "only wanting to work with talented people",
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} | AITA for only wanting to work with talented people? | So my friend and I are both college debaters. This summer, we're setting up a debate camp for high schoolers to improve their skills. We agreed not to do this for money, but because we genuinely love debating. Today, we had a disagreement about who we should let in.
He thinks we should let everyone who wants to in. I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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GGOIcIbWVzqZp1Z30afEG8xqqzrsSjTf | ad27ub | {
"description": "having anxiety on a family trip instead of having fun",
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} | AITA For having anxiety on a family trip instead of having fun? | My parents recently decided to go on a family trip to Las Vegas for my aunt's birthday party. I didn't really want to go since big cities aren't really my place (and because I'd be the only non-adult), but I didn't want to seem ungrateful and I knew they wouldn't let me stay home alone anyways. Things were going alrigh... | HISTORICAL | {
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Za1Hu1g4ycqPnEUTL7fVrEwp454lRx2r | b0zpgj | {
"description": "not trying harder to lose weight",
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} | AITA for not trying harder to lose weight? | Hi,
I (f, 32) have been in a relationship with my husband for 7 years, we've known each other for more than 10 years. My weight has been an ongoing debate in our relationship - I fluctuate between 64-70kg (168cm tall), for you Americans that's 140-154lb (5 ft 6"). That is also the weight I had when I met my husband.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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gameBWQ1t1rMMSCiXpHl0HGc9v5bC8iQ | aq87ir | {
"description": "telling my friend I didn't want to be friends anymore",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA if I told my friend I didn’t want to be friends anymore? | TL;DR I play PS4 and met this guy who I was friends with for a long time, then he left for a couple months, now he wants to be friends again but I don’t want to because I realized I like being alone.
So this starts about April of last year. I met this kid on Overwatch and we hung out for a long time. Fast forward to ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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LQUqzh1TnQz0eroyLWQ1AO8YW5optHMF | ash14e | {
"description": "lying about my sexuality so a guy will stop bugging me",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for lying about my sexuality so a guy will stop bugging me? | For context, this guy would text me for upwards of 4 hours straight a day. If I didn’t respond he would result to spamming me. He’s friends with my ex and it’s really awkward to be around him. Also from what I’ve heard from my ex (we are still on good terms and talk pretty often) he gets really attached to people he’s ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nGvmRL2qamkEYBGD5e9HVJz1A2yZLhUc | b3tr76 | {
"description": "not wanting to move in with my girlfriend unless she gets rid of her dog",
"pronormative_score": 24,
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} | AITA for not wanting to move in with my girlfriend unless she gets rid of her dog? | For reasons unbeknownst to either of us, my girlfriend's dog is absolutely terrified of me. This is the usual routine when we enter her apartment together:
- The dog hears the door open and excitedly runs around the corner to see my girlfriend. As soon as it lays eyes on me, it turns around as fast as possible (you ... | HISTORICAL | {
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VEgijALKOD9sPykQUgE93pUkgyK7FS04 | arn922 | {
"description": "not offering to financially help my mother with a housing issue and reminding her to keep on her caseworker to help her find a place to live",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not offering to financially help my mother with a housing issue and reminding her to keep on her caseworker to help her find a place to live? | My mother currently lives in subsidized housing via a program for people with mental health issues. She's on disability and has mobility issues. About a month ago, she messaged me in a panic saying the people who run the program just informed her they're selling the house she lives in and she needs to move out by April... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ul7bkEUXlECKGh3Zi1qN2Gnyk2ArNLkx | ag4us0 | {
"description": "not wanting to go to church during our girls trip to Vegas",
"pronormative_score": 17,
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to church during our girls trip to Vegas? | My friend from Junior/Senior high school, (all girls Catholic) organized a girl's trip to Vegas for her 40th birthday. While I was raised Catholic, I am now an atheist. The entire group chat has been centered on where and when to go to mass! Would I be an asshole to politely decline? | HISTORICAL | {
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jtYP3dblC1dZy5lxlxo0YAEiYk7pj7Ag | ath66n | null | AITA friend flaked and I lost money. Pissed | So my friends and I were gonna partake in a big trip, I was glad to join in because friends A and B wanted to and I took the cheapest package because I didn’t know where I’d be financially in 6 months. Friends A and B were super excited about a more expensive package and friend a paid down on hers and I was made to ass... | HISTORICAL | {
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WUJX95NFiGrHFa33AC0iwsz3usNLh1At | aeb05n | {
"description": "insisting on sticking to lgbt lifestyle even though our parents are devastated",
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} | AITA for insisting on sticking to LGBT lifestyle even though our parents are devastated? |
Hello team
Before we begin, I know it is easy to go off track on this kind of topic. Please do not turn this into a ‘are trans people/bisexuals/gay people okay and/or are they real’. Also I am very interested in whether or not I’m in the right or if I’m wrong as I don’t know what to think. This is much more relevan... | HISTORICAL | {
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8BbVRdwdgCaJi1xOhzQDF6zq3amfXEBp | apyo3l | {
"description": "not wanting my girlfriend to hang out with my friends",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 17
} | AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to hang out with my friends? | Obviously a throwaway, because my friends know my reddit name.
​
I've been together with my girlfriend for 4 months, and she gets along with my friends pretty good. I dont have anything against it, but this is not the only thing. She sometimes goes with them to a bar, eventhough i cant be there. As well on... | HISTORICAL | {
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sOkipKJFS6KJwaaqlxqgwPitticnFVp1 | a4rfqw | {
"description": "encouraging my girlfriend's art when I don't think it's that good",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for encouraging my girlfriend's art when I don't think it's that good | English is not my first language so I apologize in advance.
My girlfriend has always been into drawing and painting, especially ink work and watercolor. She would love to become a professional, full time artist. She is very committed to this but is also very hard on herself in that she often thinks she isn't good enou... | HISTORICAL | {
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XErBczmcJEOITFqwc5NtSIjLvJhygsZm | b71wer | {
"description": "wanting marry my girlfriend but not act as a traditional \"step dad\"",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for wanting marry my girlfriend but not act as a traditional “step dad” | Together for 3 years. Her child is 9. I always had issues with my step dads growing up and I don’t want to be one but I love her and I want to be with her. At first, I tried to do the step dad thing but I just don’t think I am good at it. He and I were always sort of “meh” even though she encouraged us to do things to... | HISTORICAL | {
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oyhMZY6hH7UVebiWylJb0LTD0uq9dH1F | au7bkn | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend after she came out as bisexual",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after she came out as bisexual? | My girlfriend publicly came out as bisexual around a week ago, and I was really pissed. I told her she should have told me before telling everyone else because I had a right to know first.
We got in an argument about it, and I told her I wanted to break up. Why would she randomly come out as bisexual now? Something mu... | HISTORICAL | {
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RdfO0ArfXSq6DjNZ9TSq85AyHUJEsepX | b5q3km | {
"description": "refusing to go to a show with my mom and my cousins because my mom just threw up",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for refusing to go to a show with my mom and my cousins because my mom just threw up? | A bit of context for you guys:
I am a freelancer in the entertainment industry and I'm traveling around Europe with some artists so I see my cousins only a few times a year. They always have the same wish for their birthdays, a trip to a show with me and my mother. So we gifted them tickets to a show including a train ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
l9zEwT5X4yT96T2b8V7sJWh6LTf9DAd1 | aez8f3 | {
"description": "getting mad that my boyfriend picks the weekend of me getting laid off to go see his brother instead of staying with me",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for getting mad that my boyfriend picks the weekend of me getting laid off to go see his brother instead of staying with me? | Throwaway since he's on Reddit..
I was made redundant this week at work and it has been effecting me pretty seriously. Ive never been fired or made redundant before and it came out of no where.
This was my first real job in my career and is directly connected to my Visa since I live abroad. Since I live aboard my cl... | HISTORICAL | {
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LExd9ENQicLfAeMjlgGurPK60MsocPfZ | b1keng | {
"description": "indirectly profiting off the venezuelan crisis",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for indirectly profiting off the Venezuelan crisis? | Okay, I know how bad that title sounds; bare with me.
I'll be flying from my South American country to the US relatively soon. The flight is 10 hours long, going over many South and Central American countries, particularly Venezuela. Due to the civil unrest there, and in order to prevent another disaster like the \... | HISTORICAL | {
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nI3nFA5fgaugKr4iALHEFmitD6CBx1e2 | arcwsn | {
"description": "putting my roommate's belongings in a pile",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA For putting my roommate's belongings in a pile? | So my roommate was moving out the other month to get more workspace for school, as well as due to some logistical reasons and some personal conflicts. We shared a lot of stuff communally so when it was time to move out we naturally ended up talking about what stays, what goes and how to go about it. We agreed if anythi... | HISTORICAL | {
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L1QZKWQXuzYxa4lAzOKZBh2ekyDoR6AI | b1j1xr | {
"description": "not indulging my husbands cuckold fantasies",
"pronormative_score": 21,
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} | AITA for not indulging my husbands cuckold fantasies? | My husband wants to watch me have sex with other men. I don't want to have sex with other men.
At first, I was pretty confident that I was in the right in denying him his fantasy. After all, why should I do something sexually that I don't want to do? The more I've thought about it though, the less sure I am.
We've t... | HISTORICAL | {
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NiGO6rHD5jaWYYqNRi8EW9TdaxbY8lMM | a07alz | {
"description": "being upset about Slow and Poor Service on Black Friday",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA For Being Upset About Slow and Poor Service on Black Friday? | Thursday night, a few family members and I went Black Friday shopping, as we do every year, and every year we finish our night at the same 24/7 restaurant (similar to Denny's and IHOP). We were prepared for a long wait, since previous years we've had a 30-45 minute wait just to be seated.
This year, however, they were... | HISTORICAL | {
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zvn7N3pGdVwPJ27qW5wqtdkvx6TQANyB | afzwbn | {
"description": "not wanting to go to a pride event with my gf",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to a pride event with my gf? | So I’m gay (I’m 24 Female) and my girlfriend (23 Female) wants to go to a pride event which includes a little parade kind of thingy and some speeches and a few LGBTQ+ films. I’ve never been a fan of these events but we haven’t talked about it before.
So my girlfriend wants to go, because it’s one of the first ones in... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 12,
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R8B7K2IMmH6EwJANA3D3k93r6EBymcu7 | achzjq | {
"description": "shipping timeframe",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA Shipping Timeframe 📦 | I ordered something from Facebook Marketplace on Saturday, December 29th. The seller promised to ship on Monday and send me the tracking number.
I followed up with her on Wednesday, and she said she’d get it in the mail that afternoon.
AITA if I request a refund if not shipped by Saturday? | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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TrPmVm3SLHrijhOmeYZX1wjSMxnvDFph | aswlw8 | {
"description": "wanting my dog after a break up",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for wanting my dog after a break up? | I got a dog while in a relationship. It was specifically discussed that if we broke up the dog would be mine (because I lost a dog in a previous breakup). Fast forward 8 months and me and the girlfriend break up. In the mix of that I find out I am leaving for a deployment. She says she will look after the dog and we wi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 6,
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} | RIGHT |
Awlt1QYjOjNsooOe9X1BlXOVuLETMKWi | akcoin | {
"description": "locking the door",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for locking the door? | I’ve always been the type of person who plays it safe. Growing up, I was always taught to lock the doors at night, even though we were in a safe area. I’m at college now, and I still follow that line of thinking. My room is pretty close to our main door, and even though realistically no one would probably stroll in, I... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 13,
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"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 17,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
6n89WqBAuskGKnbSSzUWqDPReBFQ0yBk | aq1ifd | {
"description": "asking my friend if she was with her ex-boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for asking my friend if she was with her ex-boyfriend? | So I'm a guy in college. So is my friend of 7 or so months. Her name is jamie We both suffer from anxiety, and we've bonded over that among other things. She's always told me her phone line is open if i need to talk. Some more background: she had an abusive ex named daniel who seemed like a shitty person. He made her c... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
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"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
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"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
qbFbQaR0UNszb9Qga15wnZNpke9TDAYB | a7q600 | {
"description": "not getting my boyfriend what he wants for Christmas",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not getting my boyfriend what he wants for Christmas? | My boyfriend and I are currently trying to save for a deposit for a house and, as such, we agreed to skip Christmas presents and just get each other something in January as a joint Christmas/Birthday thing (both our birthdays are in January). Well he came to me today and said he new what he wanted for a Christmas prese... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
y4eRgUJMahWHSJIO76SCjpGyVEMHDFt7 | amuspq | {
"description": "not doing laundry",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not doing laundry | so my wife and i are currently in a heated disagreement over laundry. shes a stay at home mom and I'm active duty military. due to the nature of my job im often at home on stand by. during this time i do almost all of the chores around the house. cooking, cleaning. garbage, laundry, and taking care of the newbord. Toda... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | RIGHT |
dtZrnMcdRUpxuu8N90nZwfhlgyJ66nda | b9rr4l | {
"description": "pursuing my ex for child support",
"pronormative_score": 15,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for pursuing my ex for child support | Long story short, ex and I split custody 50/50 but I make less money. A friend recently pointed out that I could get child support because of the income discrepancy. I am seriously considering it, but I know the “stigma” of going child support. Am I an asshole for seeking payments from my ex because she makes more than... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
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"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 15,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
tTjMZt5giOWOoZesjRZNqMZFNgxv49Ef | apclla | {
"description": "not buying my GF Enough Gifts for Valentines Day",
"pronormative_score": 66,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA For Not Buying My GF Enough Gifts for Valentines Day? | I'm M22, she's F20 been together for a bit over a year now. I'm going on a business trip starting tomorrow for a week so will miss V Day and we did a dinner tonight to make up for it. I got my GF Tiffany Bracelet, huge stuffed bear like 5ft tall bear, box of chocolates from Godiva, a dozen roses a card and paid for din... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 65,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 66,
"WRONG": 6
} | RIGHT |
smzdItCgmAlrIJSv30VZYh4o8TIzm0P8 | b1u67a | {
"description": "not wanting to be friends with my ex",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to be friends with my ex? | My ex-girlfriend of 1 year broke up with me 4 months ago, and said she wanted to be friends. We broke up on friendly terms because she saw me more as a friend and because the love was gone for her. First I agreed and was willing to set aside my pride and feelings. We speak some times over the phone, and catch the train... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 8,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
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9819JD9vMq0EI7DpD3bmaeLnDKB434wP | b442gy | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend he stinks",
"pronormative_score": 16,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for telling my boyfriend he stinks? | So I used to be super attracted to my boyfriend but he’s starting to go like four days without showering sometimes and he’s a big dude with lots of smells. It makes me less attracted to him bc I feel clean and did shower and put in effort and I feel like it makes it all worthless when I am near/on him. I don’t hug ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 16,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 16,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
nIT4cZ55tpEe1GlevllOSaErMgpUDpze | b9750t | {
"description": "wanting to raise our child with a set structure, rather than with improvisation",
"pronormative_score": 16,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting to raise our child with a set structure, rather than with improvisation? | My husband has a 4 yo whom I’ve been the adoptive mother to for over 3 years and we plan on having children once we work out our differences.
To cut it short, he says that I am “too controlling”, whereas I think he is “too flexible” (he gets sensitive when I call it “irresponsible”); as we are raising his child togeth... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 15,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 16,
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} | RIGHT |
7uVuWn2TDjeHFaIm8d6HMHMACyECZO3Z | aylk38 | {
"description": "leaving my fiance over his reaction to me getting a student suspended",
"pronormative_score": 454,
"contranormative_score": 53
} | AITA for leaving my fiance over his reaction to me getting a student suspended | I am a librarian at a prek-12 school. I lead one class every period with the younger kids, and high schoolers are free to use the library at any time during the day.
For any women that teach small kids, you know that they grab your boobs. A lot. It's not intentional, my boobs are just eye level for the kids and they o... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 454,
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} | RIGHT |
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