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{ "description": "ghosting my friend over a disagreement about a church", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for ghosting my friend over a disagreement about a church?
I've been super great friends with Beryl for ages. 6 years? Maybe longer. She's a Christian who is quite progressive in her beliefs but traditional and fundamentalist in other aspects. It's kinda hard to explain. She's all for SSM and abortion, but no kissing before marriage and careful with your clothing. Not sure ...
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{ "description": "dating someone I wasn't interested in", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for dating someone I wasn’t interested in
A couple months ago, I’d begun losing contact with my closest online friends since the friendships were just stagnating. Eventually, I met someone new online and began relying on him almost entirely emotionally since I was going through a rough patch. Eventually, he revealed he had a crush on me, and I told him that I ...
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{ "description": "making my girlfriend buy expensive concert tickets", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for making my girlfriend buy expensive concert tickets?
One of my favorite rappers has a concert this Friday only like an hour away from where I live. I found out about the concert at the beginning of January and when I told my girlfriend about it she said we could definitely go. It’s a small venue where rappers go when they are getting big but still haven’t blown up yet. A...
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{ "description": "not believing my Mom Suffers Memory Loss", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Believing My Mom Suffers Memory Loss?
I have a complicated relationship with my mom. The simplest way to explain it is we basically had the same relationship as Rapunzel and Mother Gothel in Tangled with physical abuse and an abusive alcoholic stepfather mixed in. It’s been several years now and I’m trying to have some kind of relationship with my mom. My...
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{ "description": "still having sex with a girl who wanted to off herself", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for still having sex with a girl who wanted to off herself.
Holy fuck, I don't know how to say this properly. So there was this girl who I was chatting to and at the time we really hit it off and I thought she really likes me. We eventually got really flirty with back and forth nudes and hook ups. This was entirely NSA FWB style relationship. One day she called me and wante...
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{ "description": "organizing a date with a girl before breaking up with EX", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for organizing a date with a girl before breaking up with EX
So basically I had been seeing this girl (let’s call her F) for a couple of months and honestly I never had strong feelings for her but she was nice we got along and I wanted to give her a chance to see if things could work. At the start of December I met this other girl (let’s call her S) through a mutual friend and...
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{ "description": "busting out laughing at my friend's gaming friend trying to roleplay a drill sergeant ingame", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for busting out laughing at my friend's gaming friend trying to roleplay a drill sergeant ingame
My friend plays a military simulation game with a group of guys who are super into role playing military personnel. I'm definitely not into this sort of thing, but I he invited me to join one night and I accepted. Figured it might be fun. He gave me a basic rundown of the rules including some terminology I might nee...
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{ "description": "expressing \"sincere\" condolences to the mother of my daughter", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expressing "sincere" condolences to the mother of my daughter?
To fully understand whats going on I will summarize the background of this whole situation with timestamps. English is not my first language and I am fucking confused ATM so please excuse any spelling or grammatical errors. TLDR at the bottom. In february 2018 I (M23) had FWB-relation with a girl (F21), let...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend because she was hanging out with someone who liked her more than she was hanging out with me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because she was hanging out with someone who liked her more than she was hanging out with me?
Ok so, I’m only a teenager so a bit of a rookie when it comes to relationships. Anyhow, I was dating a girl in my year level for a solid year and it was going well. Slow, but well. Mid-way through the year I started to notice that she was hanging out with a guy from her class a lot more than she was hanging out with m...
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{ "description": "seeing a therapist behind my GF's back", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Seeing A Therapist Behind My GF's back?
we're both 24 and been together for 2 years, and I just got promoted to a very stressful role in software sales in July and the amount of stress of having to hit targets/quotas per quarter is insane and it was giving me crazy anxiety and making me really sad. I've been feeling this way since I got into the software sal...
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{ "description": "getting mad that my long distance bf didn't call me on NYE", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad that my long distance bf didn’t call me on NYE?
He says that he doesn’t care about NYE, or any holiday, or even his bday. Cool. No problem. I do though. We live 11 hours and an ocean apart right now, and have been doing the long distance dance around the world for two years. Different culture, but still in love? I called him for New Years, he experienced it first, ...
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{ "description": "telling my brother he, more than anyone, needs to help the family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my brother he, more than anyone, needs to help the family?
This one will need a little explanation. In my house, both of my parents works, while me, my older brother and my younger sister are students. Me and my sister are on high school while my older brother is on his last year at a very prestigious and expensive college (1/4 of the monthly household income goes to pay its m...
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AITA if my neighbours built their fences around me and I didn't pay for them?
Ok, so I just moved to a new subdivision, the houses are new construction and nobody really knows the neighbors. I am a first-time homeowner. I am surrounded by houses on both sides and I share the back of my backyard with another neighbor. Because it is new construction, people move-in as their houses are built so e...
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{ "description": "not tipping", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for not tipping?
The common defense of tipping is that it could go away if servers were paid a livable wage, but they're not, so we tip. In Minnesota (and other states, I'm sure), tipped positions still make minimum wage. Minneapolis, specifically, is on its way to a $15/hr minimum wage. The common defense of a $15/hr minimum wage is t...
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{ "description": "cutting off a friend for knowingly dating my stalker", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting off a friend for knowingly dating my stalker?
So in 10th grade, this guy from my school (we’ll call him R) found me from tumblr and started following me around school. It was kinda creepy, but I didn’t think much of it. But one day, R comes to school, guitar in one hand and a bouquet full of flowers in the other, surrounded by all his friends. They push me to the ...
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AITA Close friend/brother Gf goes through all our messages on social media
AITA, So my closest friend who I would call my brother has a girlfriend who I don’t like already, although previous to this I have tried to deal with her and not make it obvious. One day while I was with my friend I noticed a notification on my phone from Snapchat, it ended up being his gf on his snap chat and I notice...
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{ "description": "telling an old friend that I think their new friends are arseholes the way I did", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling an old friend that I think their new friends are arseholes the way I did?
This was in a conversation intended to make me understand our past squabbles a little because it has been bothering me for a while. It was late at night and over the phone (she'd refused to see me in person) so we were both rather tired. I was trying to explain to her how it upset me that she'd chosen people who had wr...
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{ "description": "letting a female walk home 11pm after work because she reeks of cigarettes", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA- letting a female walk home 11pm after work because she reeks of cigarettes?
So Tuesday it was raining and I saw someone walking home from my office. I have never even seen her until this point, but I knew she just came out of my office so I offer her a ride. She smelled like such an old dirty ashtray that I was gagging. Before she got out of the car, she asked me if I could pick her up on the ...
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{ "description": "wanting to set boundaries for my in-laws", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to set boundaries for my in-laws
My wife and I are moving near her parents in the next coming month and while I love my in-laws they are very pushy and are almost expecting that we be over there everyday. I want to set boundaries telling them that we will not be over there every day or have my son over there everyday. They need to understand that we a...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my ex for allowing guy friends to \"jokingly\" slap her butt", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For getting mad at my ex for allowing guy friends to "jokingly" slap her butt
So I dated this girl a while back and it was great and all, however there was one thing I always couldnt stand. So she went to school at a local community college and would hangout in the game room in her free time. Fine whatever, do you, but she said at the very beginning of the relationship that sometimes her guy fri...
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Aitah.. ?? Friends who are rude and wont take your side..
So .. this is 2 parts both issues wondering who is the AH.. The background..a girl I work with lets call her "felicia" who we hang occasionally and have mutual friends and are friendly at work and have gone to lunch before .. and a good friend let's call her "bangs" that I hang with regularly.. I ask felicia to go ...
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{ "description": "retaliating against ex-friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for retaliating against ex-friends?
I had to cut this down a lot. New Year's 2017, my ex (A) broke up with me right before a party we planned. They broke up with me with their boyfriend (B) in the room (polyamory), even though I begged A not to involve him. At the time, it was because I was clingy and overly jealous of B which I agree was an issue. A m...
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{ "description": "walking out on my boyfriend and our friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for walking out on my boyfriend and our friends?
My bf (43 M) - we'll call him Jack - and I (42 F) have been together 2 years. We have a good relationship but communication is not always one of our strengths. A little background information: I have a teenage daughter who recently witnessed a violent crime. She already has mental health issues, and was already suicid...
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{ "description": "continuing to emotionally favor my father over my abusive mother, years down the road", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for continuing to emotionally favor my father over my abusive mother, years down the road?
My parents went through a nasty divorce when I was 12. My mother cheated on my father, then kicked him out of the house. My mom has bipolar disorder and anger problems. She physically and emotionally abused me badly from 12-22, when I finally was able to leave the country to get away from her and thus not see her for h...
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{ "description": "hanging up on someone with an accent I couldn't understand", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I hung up on someone with an accent I couldn't understand?
I've been shopping for cars. Took a test drive recently with a salesman with a very thick accent who was hard to understand. I didn't end up wanting the car and am still looking. I called a different dealership recently to ask about a different car and realized as I held for someone in the sales department that I was h...
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{ "description": "not leaving with my mom to be with my dying grandpa so I can work instead", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not leaving with my mom to be with my dying grandpa so I can work instead
Hey guys! Some background info: My grandfather is 88 and we are not super close. He was not a particularly great man to his family and actually refused to acknowledge me and my brother until we were 6 years old. I care about my grandfather, but none of this situation is making me tearful or particularly sad. When I've...
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AITA for the stance I am taking?
This happened recently, but has also come up on other occasions. For personal reasons, I don't really like being in the presence of drunk, stoned, or otherwise intoxicated individuals. I have made this clear to my SO when we began dating a while back. I told my SO how I felt about these kinds of things, among some oth...
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{ "description": "checking a bag and making a joke", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for checking a bag and making a joke?
A little background first. I'm a cashier at a electronic store that also sells accessories. This black guy is checking out with me. He has just finished paying when, as company policy tells me to do, I check his bag. We do this because we have a theft problem. At the end of this check I joke around that he is "free of ...
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{ "description": "wanting my bf to make a big deal for my 30th", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my BF to make a big deal for my 30th?
I know he isn't a planner or someone who would normally organize something like this, but we've been together for 2+ years, it's my 30th, and when we had been together less than a year, I threw a surprise cookout for his 30th with friends and planned and cooked for a week. I just thought he would want to help make my b...
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{ "description": "not wanting to look after a drunk friend when going out", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to look after a drunk friend when going out?
So I (18F) invited my two good friends (also 18F) to go to a frat party (I know disgusting, I get it) Friday night. When my one friend drinks, she acts very much like a stereotypical drunk girl, not sure how much is due to actually being drunk or her just really playing into it, regardless, she is quite a handful. So w...
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{ "description": "wanting a divorce from my wife because she has a crush on her coworker", "pronormative_score": 122, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for wanting a divorce from my wife because she has a crush on her coworker?
About a month ago my wife asked me if I'm ever willing to try an open relationship. We jokingly talked about this and she told me that she kinda had someone in mind. A very attractive co-worker that reminds her of her fantasy from teen years. She jokingly told me that she wants him to wreck her. I was super pissed beca...
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{ "description": "telling one of my suite mates that I don't want to eat with her", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling one of my suite mates that I don't want to eat with her?
So I (20 M) live with three other people (20 F, 20 F, and 18 F) in a suite. The four of us generally get along pretty well and I get along super well with my roommate. She and I are in year 3 of living together. We're all STEM majors except for the youngest one and she is also the only one of us who's vegan. I don't ne...
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{ "description": "getting upset over having to clean", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset over having to clean?
So I(23) live with my family and recently my sister and her husband moved in with us with their brand new baby while they close on a house to buy. I rarely spend time at home, I work and i go out and really am only here mostly to sleep, shower, and on the weekends when I spend mornings with them. My stepbrother is a ...
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{ "description": "reporting my manager for a whole bunch of shit, if he gives me a bad review", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I report my manager for a whole bunch of shit, if he gives me a bad review?
So I'm changing to a new division, and my manager is giving me a final review. In the past, he gave me positive reviews. But then, he put me on duties that don't match my job function. I have a degree from a good university and a pretty tough-to-get professional license for a specific type of job. This manager is has...
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{ "description": "having the family of a kid with autism thrown out of a coffee shop", "pronormative_score": 54, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for having the family of a kid with autism thrown out of a coffee shop?
So I was eating alone at a coffee shop the other night. Please note that I am generally a reserved and quiet person who always minds my own business, but I am very observant of my surroundings. I was on my laptop, wearing earphones, and doing some work. After about 20 minutes, I noticed a family enter the coffee shop. ...
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{ "description": "almost running over and killing a skateboarder", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for almost running over and killing a skateboarder?
Ok so I'm doing about 40 coming off of my home street onto the avenue that leads to the freeway. Im alerted by my sister suddenly that someone is in the road, and sure enough there was. Only it wasnt a jaywalker or someone else just trying to get across. It was a skateboarder. And where else to be than in the MIDDLE la...
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{ "description": "telling the girl I love that I'm an option", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 39 }
AITA for telling the girl I love that I'm an option?
There is a girl in my dorm at school who is amazing. She's funny, smart, and beautiful but she's also very introverted and the kind of girl who likes to stay in rather than go out drinking and partying. We both are history nerds and really connected on that level when we met. We have interesting and deep talks whenever...
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{ "description": "ratting on someone to the police who just gave me a $20 tip", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ratting on someone to the police who just gave me a $20 tip?
A little background: I am a spray tan tech at a salon and just secured a weekly client. This client (we’ll call her K) came in for her 2nd spray tan this evening. She’s a little rough around the edges, but a very pleasant lady and I enjoy our conversation. As she was paying today, she gave me a $20 tip, which is the mo...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends anymore with my ex fwb/best guy friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends anymore with my ex fwb/best guy friend?
So I’ll try to make this as short as possible with giving as much info as I can. I met this guy-we will call him John- about 5 years ago when we were 16. John and I are similar in every way. I’m the girl version of him. Sarcastic and friendly. We tried dating once and he handled that badly by saying I wouldn’t be good ...
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{ "description": "not letting my brother try to make me make back down from an argument by pretending to intimidate me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my brother try to make me make back down from an argument by pretending to intimidate me
My grandmother passed away suddenly about 2 months ago, it was a very heartbreaking process and it took its toll on everyone. As we were walking through her house my mom told me and my brother separately that we both can have her tv, initially when I found out the mix up I said he can have it, then the next day as we w...
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{ "description": "taking my ps4 with me to my GF's house", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking my PS4 with me to my GF’s house?
To clarify, my girl and I bought it together and are happy to have bought it. However my sister who lives with me says I cannot do that because she wants to play it and I NEED to share it. She justifies it by saying she’s bought me food and stuff before in the past and also brings up how she used to drive me to high sc...
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{ "description": "bring upset my boyfriend said no to attending a work event of mine", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for bring upset my boyfriend said no to attending a work event of mine?
I teach middle school and about once a year I invite my boyfriend to an event. Wednesday, I asked my boyfriend to attend a play my students were acting in, and we never really came to a clear decision. It's Friday and he just got home from work as I am leaving. He told me he didn't want to go. We got into a fight and ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend she can't bring her friend to my apartment anymore", "pronormative_score": 172, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I tell my girlfriend she can’t bring her friend to my apartment anymore?
A little over a month ago my girlfriend and her parents got into a fight so she came to stay with me until they made up. I was really clear that this was just temporary until they patched things up. It was going fine until she started bringing one of her friends over. I had met this girl a few times before. I th...
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{ "description": "getting upset about my ex-boyfriend staying over with a female friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for getting upset about my ex-boyfriend staying over with a female friend?
Ex and I met when I was studying in his country. Towards the end of my time there I moved in with him for four months. I had to leave when my visa expired. But we were getting serious (spent weekends and Christmas with his family) so we decided to stay in a LDR until we figure something out. During the last year, we b...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick my friend out who's still acting like a child after 5 months of my wife and I trying to help her", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For wanting to kick my friend out who's still acting like a child after 5 months of my wife and I trying to help her?
5 Months ago a friend of mine, we'll call her Jane, was approached by her husband who had decided that after 3 years of marriage he wanted a poly relationship. She refused and multiple fights ensued. Jane reached out to a married pair of mutual friends to see if she could move in with them. They didn't have room for he...
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{ "description": "\"showing off\" with money", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for "showing off" with money?
For the last 4 years I (M23) have constantly been trying to get out more and do my own thing during holidays instead of just tagging along with my parents. Nothing too fancy usually. Going to a bar, eating at the 10$ all you can eat chinese restaurant, grill party, paintball, etc. It was also then when I noticed that m...
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{ "description": "making money from a tragedy", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making money from a tragedy?
I trade stocks as a hobby, and have been doing it long enough to know how the market will react to certain news, especially when major events take place. I knew the day after the shooting in NZ that there would be what we call a "run on guns". For those who are unaware, whenever something like this happens and polit...
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{ "description": "pulling out my phone at a customs checkpoint", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for pulling out my phone at a customs checkpoint?
This was on a return trip to the U.S., where I am a resident and citizen. I should also clarify that I wasn't handling the paperwork here; I'm 14 and this was a family trip, I was barely involved. We were passing through a final checkpoint, where some sort of verification was being done involving an officer. Around th...
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{ "description": "telling my gf that her problem is the problem", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my gf that her problem is the problem.
(First off sorry for formatting, mobile) My girlfriend and I have rekindled our relationship recently after hitting a rough patch. She has her friends and I have mine and to get to the point, we are both in the band at the college (she's in the color guard) . And for those who don't know we band nerds change all the t...
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{ "description": "being sick and tired of spending more time with a disabled teen", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being sick and tired of spending more time with a disabled teen
Allright so my parents' friends have a son that has a physical handicap since he lacked oxygen at birth. He is lonely and likes me a lot; he even calls me his bestfriend. My parents always want me to spend time with him, most of the time I get frustrated since we don't share any common interests. On the other hand, I f...
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{ "description": "not letting my brother read my messages on my phone", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my brother read my messages on my phone?
I'm not posting it just for karma. ​ I'm 12, and I like playing games. I have many friends online which I talk to. One good friend, who is 15 years old, didn't come online today, and I got the news he killed himself. ​ It was only me and 1 more person that was told, out of the 9-10. We were di...
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{ "description": "throwing my drink at a car that honked at me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for throwing my drink at a car that honked at me?
My college campus has a Chick Fil A on it, and after class I got some food from there and a sweet tea (aka golden nectar). While I was walking back to my dorm with my food, I crossed the crosswalk in front of an SUV (he had just come up to the stop sign). Right when I was in front of his hood, the driver slammed on his...
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{ "description": "suggesting I vacuum my girlfriend's face", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for suggesting I vacuum my girlfriend’s face?
I was on a date with my girlfriend and everything was going well. She was thinking about purchasing a fancy LED face mask when the conversation switched too their appliances, specifically Dyson products. I jokingly suggested we switch all our appliances to Dyson products, and that we could even replace the LED face mas...
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{ "description": "thinking a vet going shopping in a full uniform may be looking for attention", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking a vet going shopping in a full uniform may be looking for attention?
I realize Remembrance Day is coming up and while I think it’s incredible important we consider those who have made the ultimate sacrifice, I’m also someone who despises war and therefore am probably biased. I can’t help but think there are some people that are out there that seek attention by going out in uniform, begg...
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{ "description": "saying I don't care or need his acceptance of my sexual orientation", "pronormative_score": 131, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for saying I don't care or need his acceptance of my sexual orientation?
My co-worker who I am not very close, nor do I like very much found out I was lesbian because he was eavesdropping into a conversation I was having with another also gay, co-worker (A) a friend of mine. Now I don’t really care if someone finds out I like women- my life at home and my life at work and everywhere els...
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{ "description": "trying to force a gay guy to not like me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for trying to force a gay guy to not like me?
(straight male here) So there is this gay guy at my school and he is known for being very weird and very unattractive.. and I had the misfortune of him liking me. So this guy tried to make sexual innuendos on Instagram and I just say “I’m not gay” and he always stares at me in the halls. He makes up a lot of stuff f...
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{ "description": "leaving boyfriend over gang relation", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving boyfriend over gang relation?
Hi y’all! Made a throwaway since bf(or ex) lurkes reddit. So last night my bf calls me in a rush to talk about some heavy stuff. Basically his little brothers best friend (who’s like a lil bro to him) snitched on some bad dudes who are getting time and everyone knows it was him. My bf(should I just say ex?) called con...
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AITA for suggestion that my boyfriend showers more?
My boyfriend has a physically demanding job, frequently works out, and showers about once every 3-4 days max. The first couple days I don’t mind the musk. He usually smells good to me when I’m just hugging him or whatever. But our bed stinks. And our couch stinks so bad from him sitting in the same spot for several h...
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{ "description": "insisting my brother stay in his room while sick", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For insisting my brother stay in his room while sick?
Some backstory I have a low immune system, I have had one all my life. Its not life threateningly bad but I get sick more often than any other person in my house and when I do, its worse. As a child I had strep throat about 5 times a year and pneumonia at least 3 or 4 times in my life 1 nearly requiring hospitalizatio...
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AITA - my grandmother keeps threatening to disinherit me....
To start of: Money is not really important to me as I now started my own firm and make a good living but I wanted to hear opinions if I am the asshole or Not! So a little history: my grandfather, a really successful buissnes man with multiple companies etc. Died about 13 years back after selling most of the companies...
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{ "description": "making Jew jokes to a Jew", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for making Jew jokes to a Jew?
Im in college. Some dorm neighbors and I were playing Jackbox 2 a few weekends ago (before the Pittsburgh shooting). During a round of Quiplash, I made a couple Jew jokes. Nothing directed directly at jews, but just normal edgelord/makes you laugh at 2 am shit like "Mecha Hitler" and just using the word Jew where it ma...
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{ "description": "replying back to my professor in the same tone", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for replying back to my professor in the same tone?
To preface this, the professor in question teaches a very large college class (easily 300+ students), so attendance is taken via these devices called iClickers, where you just press a button to take attendance. When I checked my grade, I was surprised to see a very low grade for my attendance. I definitely had perfect...
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{ "description": "turning down my wife's advances", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for turning down my wife's advances?
Earlier tonight my wife went to bed and I shortly followed her. I started to feel her up to get things in motion but she denied me nonverbally. I kept going a couple more times before she said she isn't feeling good and to lay off. So I stopped. Not even five minutes later she asks me for a kiss goodnight and I do so,...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for a hotel room that I won't be staying in", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I didn't want to pay for a hotel room that I won't be staying in?
One of my best friends is turning 21 in the coming weeks, and our group of about 7 guys (all 21+) had the idea to rent 2 hotel rooms in downtown for the night, drink, go to a strip club, and maybe hire an escort for the birthday boy for the night. Split between 7 of us for **just the hotel rooms**, the cost would be ar...
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{ "description": "essentially ghosting my friends", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for essentially ghosting my friends?
I've had a group of friends that I'd hang out with for about a decade. A few months ago, I came to the realization that I have been the only one making the plans with them for as long as I could remember (they usually eagerly agree), and I've never been invited by them anywhere, although I see this group hanging around...
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{ "description": "taking advantage of my friend's confusion", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for taking advantage of my friend’s confusion?
To protect this persons privacy, I have changed their name to James. So a little over a year ago I started to have feelings for James. It all started on the weekend after our marching band made it to area. We hung out after that and things went on from there. About two days later, James sent me a text asking for hel...
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{ "description": "telling my mom I won't be going home for Christmas", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mom I won't be going home for Christmas?
So I recently got into a huge argument with my family. It started off as a political disagreement. My brother attended the Trump rally after the Synagogue shooting and I voiced my liberal views. This is a pretty typical argument for my family which is fine, we vary in views and that's okay. This one turned into a dif...
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{ "description": "reporting my friend and coworker to hr", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA for reporting my friend and coworker to HR
I have a coworker who has become my friend over the past couple years but over the past eightish months, some of her behaviour at work is driving me completely insane. Our work has a lunch/break policy where you can either have a 15 min break and a 1 hour lunch or a 1 H 15 M lunch. Most people choose the longer lunch...
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{ "description": "being mad at family", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita for being mad at family.
My sibling recently got married. I wasnt particularly close with her but we got along well. She wanted a small wedding and I was the only one in my immediate family to not get invited. Later she asked why I didnt get her a wedding gift and I said it was because I was not invited. She said I was selfish and being a b...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a plagiarized love note", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at a plagiarized love note?
A little background - Me and my BF have been together 10 years. Over the years I’ve mentioned **several** times how much I’d appreciate a card from him. Just something to let me know how he feels…something sentimental as I’m a bit of a sap who watches way too many rom coms. I’ve never got one, which is frustrating, but...
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{ "description": "cancelling my plans to go on an overseas trip with my friends just because I don't feel like it", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA If I cancel my plans to go on an overseas trip with my friends just because I don't feel like it?
So my friends and I are planning to go on a 5d4n overseas trip in about a month. At first, I wanted it to be 3d2n but they think that its too short and thus its 5d4n. Right now, I'm asking them if it could be 4d3n instead but still I'm quite hesitant to go on the trip. As for why I don't feel like going on that trip, ...
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{ "description": "destroying a Womens Basketball Team", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Destroying A Womens Basketball Team?
We're all in our 20's and I had these 2 girls in my class that are on my schools basketball team. We'd always joke around about how they're so good and how'd they'd beat most average joe's in a 1v1 or 3v3. I always thought they were joking at least, till one day I said that most avg joes would give you guys a run for y...
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{ "description": "wanting to cheat on my homework", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to cheat on my homework?
I'm a freshman in college, and for one of my classes we have to answer multiple choice questions in the textbook every week. The other day, I was looking in the back of the book to see if there was a glossary, and I discovered that the answers were in the back of the book. Would I be an asshole if I used the answer key...
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{ "description": "giving homeless people beer", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For giving homeless people beer?
I have alot of homeless people near where I live. Sometimes ones begging near a liquor store ask me to get them a beer. I appreciate their honesty instead of asking for money for food and get them a couple brews.???
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{ "description": "not asking my boyfriend first", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for not asking my boyfriend first?
I recieved a call off my sister today after not hearing from her in a while. We have a love hate relationship due to a lifetime of issues. Her son, my nephew has recently started nursery. She told me he had recently had fallen off a slide and bust his nose. The nursery hadn't called her to inform her of the incident, w...
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{ "description": "cancelling a date three days beforehand", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cancelling a date three days beforehand
Hi, Less am I “the” asshole because the other person is clearly not an asshole, more am I “an” asshole. I cancelled a date today for this weekend. 1st date, off of a dating app. What happened was I matched with someone even though the physical attraction for me seemed so-so. We had an okay conversation and we eventua...
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{ "description": "planting carnivorous plants near my apiary where bees could get eaten by them", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I plant carnivorous plants near my apiary where bees could get eaten by them?
It's occurred to me that two of my interests- beekeeping and carnivorous plants- might have a conflict, and I'd like your opinion. I'm looking to start both of these as a hobby after I move into a new house with a backyard with my boyfriend. I'm doing all my homework for the legality of both of these, so I'll be regis...
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{ "description": "lending my car", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lending my car
​ My gf would like to borrow my car and drive 250km in the weekend to see her family. She's leaving her own car behind due to leasing-rules etc. I told her a 'thank you' would be ind order for borrowing my car but she thinks not and left angry because "she left a car behind". Guys, am I the asshole for ex...
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{ "description": "being scared of my father for something that happened 8 years ago", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: I'm scared of my father for something that happened 8 years ago.
Before I tell this story, I need to make something clear. My father has never been drunk and does not do drugs. This was the only time he has done something like this. (I'm 13 years old RN) When I was 5 years old, me and my sister kept messing around and my dad kept telling us to stop & we did for a little bit. S...
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{ "description": "not helping my parents", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not helping my parents?
Throwaway cos I’m not sure if my family know my normal account. Backstory: Me and my brother have a strained relationship atm, he’s a bit younger than me and we just don’t get on that much in general. It all came to a head in the last few days and haven’t really spoken much since. My brother has an activity that last...
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{ "description": "wanting to sleep in a different room", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to sleep in a different room?
On mobile sorry if formatting sucks. For context, my boyfriend/fiancé of 5 yrs and I share a bedroom. We are the only people renting our four bedroom house. At night when I go to go to sleep, he stays up sometimes upwards of 4 or more hours on his computer which is in the same room. He insists on keeping the lights on ...
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{ "description": "deleting dead people off my facebook friends list", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I delete dead people off my facebook friends list?
I was just sitting with my friends and got lost in thought. Is it whatever to just delete people off my freinds list who have died, or does it make me an asshole?
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{ "description": "telling my partner she can't buy a new car", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my partner she can't buy a new car?
Hi. We bought a house. Our salaries are different (>2:1 ratio). We had a chat before we agreed on the purchase that as long as we are on the same page financially I would have no qualms spending more on mortgage/bills/renovations. Over the last year I have paid 25% more in the joint account that goes into food spe...
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{ "description": "driving around this guy at starbucks", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for driving around this guy at Starbucks?
Hey first time posting. This happened 2 days ago figured id give this a shot. So i was driving and decided to stop and grab a drink at starbucks. I pull in behind this SUV, the SUV drives around a White Caddie thats parked in the drive thru lane but also next to the door. The Suv drove around the Caddie figure it was...
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AITA: Wife is the only one who wants to move, rest of our family aren't excited about it
So, please read through, this will be a bit of a long one. My wife and I have been living in a house that we have fully paid off for the past 9 years. The house is good, it has almost everything we've ever wanted, but it's missing a few niceties. We have two children, 13(m) and 9(f). Our son goes into highschool nex...
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{ "description": "wanting my husband to kick out his brother and gf", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my husband to kick out his brother and gf?
Without getting into too many details my brother in law & his girlfriend have lived rent free with us for 2 years. My husband and I have been married for 4 years, together for 8. I lived on and off in our 2 bedroom apartment until last fall because he's military and I had an out of state full scholarship. I recentl...
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{ "description": "scheduling a vacation that overlaps with a coworker's and thus cutting hers a nit short", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for scheduling a vacation that overlaps with a coworker’s and thus cutting hers a nit short?
Context—So my coworker and I are technically not allowed to be on vacation at the same time due to us being the only two people in our department, and no one else can do our jobs effectively. I told her ahead of time that I would be scheduling a vacation on the third week of April due to school vacation for my brothe...
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{ "description": "losing interest in a girl because of her dead boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for losing interest in a girl because of her dead boyfriend?
So there's this girl I met on tinder who's really cool and we had fun on our date, but I left it feeling weird. We were having relatively average and first date kind of awkward conversation, when tattoos came up. She has several, two of which are memorial tattoos for a boyfriend who passed away 5 years back. I'd never ...
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{ "description": "wanting my roommate to clean during his turn even though I got some help during my turn", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my roommate to clean during his turn even though I got some help during my turn?
After the thousandth petty argument with my roommate, I figured I should bring one of them over here and see what opinions I can get. Warning; extremely petty. Backstory: I (23M) live with a roommate (23M) in a two-person student apartment. We've known each other since we were kids, and we're currently both studying a...
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{ "description": "cutting my family out of all family celebrations", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting my family out of all family celebrations?
Namely birthdays, but some other stuff as well. Long story short, I was born on NYE and New Year is a fairly big thing in my family. As far as I can remember the only things I'd get for my birthday were a cake and a present with the line "this is for St. Nicholas' Day, Christmas and your birthday." Sometime during mid...
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{ "description": "asking my bf to stop drinking liquor", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my BF to stop drinking liquor?
So about 6months ago, my BF and I kept fighting about his drinking. He can’t just have one drink or a few beers....he always blacked out. I would then stop drinking to make sure we got home with keys/phones/wallets etc. I would be the one to make sure he didn’t fall asleep on the table- yet I ALWAYS got blamed for “wan...
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{ "description": "not helping out around the house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping out around the house?
I was yelled at today for not helping out around the house, but last Saturday I had sprained my ankle and it got re hurt on Thursday night. I was asleep on the couch after I had walked the dogs, but when I woke up everyone was upset with me for not moving stuff off the patio outside. They all walked past me several tim...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my so for not telling me his blood sugar is low when I try calling him or when we have to go somewhere", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my SO for not telling me his blood sugar is low when I try calling him or when we have to go somewhere?
So the title is kinda confusing and I’m sorry for that but my SO has diabetes and has had it since he was younger. In our relationship, idk why but I’m responsible for calling him to get up early in the morning for school or if we have to do something. Sometimes he tells me he’s really sick or doesn’t feel well when ...
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{ "description": "divorcing my wife even though I know we love each other", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for divorcing my wife even though I know we love each other?
# Intro We had a long-distance relationship for 2 years. 4 months ago we got married. A month ago we broke up. In 3 days we're getting divorced. I think I still love her. Or at least I miss her – I think about her every hour, every day. I believe she still loves me. I know she thinks about us, views our photos, at l...
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{ "description": "a angrily calling my apartment complex after the third party construction workers kept using my electricity for other apartments' repair", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for a angrily calling my apartment complex after the third party construction workers kept using my electricity for other apartments’ repair?
So for the past 3-4 weeks there has been a third party construction company replacing doors, stairs, and other external pieces of the apartments. Most of the apartments do not have power outlets outside but mine does and it’s right next to my front door. It’s also on the same circuit as my TV, home server, desktop, a...
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{ "description": "questioning the validity of someone's \"art\" they're selling", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for questioning the validity of someone's "art" they're selling?
Am I the asshole here? So, I have a digital art business, that right now is used mostly for making twitch setups, emotes, badges, portraits, and logos. All sorts of stuff. In my spare time, I like to browse twitter (not fiverr because there's way too many scams and not enough time in the day) and find people who ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to slow down when eating", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my friend to slow down when eating
Today I was at a party and my friend was eating a donut really aggressively, I'm talking about half the donut was gone in one bite. So I jokingly tell her slow down it's not going anywhere cause I've seen people choke like that. I didn't think anything of it and continued on with my day. About 2 hours later after I'm l...
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{ "description": "having a go at my flatmate about his messiness", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For having a go at my flatmate about his messiness?
I live with my flatmate, he is my best friend and I love him. We both study at university and both have part time jobs. He also has an active social life and goes out clubbing or drinking at least 4 nights a week. We live in a beautiful flat, but I am the only one who cleans. I do the washing up, cleaning, hoovering, ...
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{ "description": "blocking my online friend on everything", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for blocking my online friend on everything?
I’m on mobile so, sorry if the formatting is weird. She’s been putting me down a lot lately with a lot of the things I do. I told her I decided to do a birth-week thing for fun with my boyfriends boyfriend, and she made a comment saying “Yikes. You’re one of “those” people”. Everything I do or say is “yikes” with a ru...
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{ "description": "making fun of someone else's dead family member", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making fun of someone else’s dead family member
This has happened about 3 years ago in 9th grade. So me and this girl were pretty good friends. We would roast each other and stuff. She would often out-roast me because she would talk about my mother and sister saying how they are all whores. There was nothing I could do because If I roasted her family I knew she woul...
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