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"description": "cheating on my girlfriend",
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} | AITA For cheating on my girlfriend? | I know the title seems obvious and a little clickbaity, but there is much more nuance to it.
Also as a disclaimer this is something that happened a few years ago, but I still get roasted for it by my friends because it turned into such a big thing, so I am looking to settle this once and for all.
So I was seeing this... | HISTORICAL | {
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CUoZsQ3v4f4Brk3ntv7Mr4Mhfj6m15aD | aiz8a5 | {
"description": "telling a girl I am gay when she is yelling at me for staring at her",
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} | AITA for telling a girl I am gay when she is yelling at me for staring at her? | The nipple showing not telling story made me think of that particular episode.
I was running on the treadmill, minding my own business. After 1h, out of all the possible areas, stretching room included, a girl decides to stretch in front of me.
Now she could have been stretching sideways but no, she had to bend in f... | HISTORICAL | {
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Tp3PD9dvhaTgyW3GWcjx2EUZMjG8xzIj | b4obl8 | {
"description": "leaving a restaurant because of family",
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} | AITA for leaving a restaurant because of family | I'm never good at shorthand titles. So I'll preface this with this: I'm limited contact with most of my family because...well outside of my sister, I pretty much loathe them and hate the fact people tell me I need to keep contact 'because they're family'. I won't get into every detail, but, part of what's relevant to t... | HISTORICAL | {
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gUak4TMKr3yqJQnL8PUmHhBDQRzgg6Mj | 9ztk7u | {
"description": "cutting someone out of my life for being racist",
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} | AITA for cutting someone out of my life for being racist | The someone is my dad and he is very racist he even sympathizes with the kkk and made a very racist joke yesterday that I just snapped at him for and kind of decided I was done. there are multiple other reasons and past things that I won’t get to into but basically this is the last straw but I do feel conflicted as he ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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1PA6PgdFgnyb1zevGTRH8Ha41dUL1KIV | b4kkpu | {
"description": "not being in the mood for sex",
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} | AITA for not being in the mood for sex | I usually tell my SO I am off my period a week after I actually finished bleeding because sometimes I still have some spotting episodes. To just avoid having sex while I'm accidentally bleeding, I just tell him a week later.
On Monday my SO and I had some plans for some sexy time. We were supposed to go two rounds but... | HISTORICAL | {
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hKuVHK8FqsIZPUFXunB5J1EpIFdUl6Op | a21257 | {
"description": "wanting to yell at my sister",
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} | AITA for wanting to yell at my sister? (Really Long Post) | My sister and I have been close since we have gone through a lot of things together (Parents divorcing before either of us were even ten, abusive step dad. etc.) But for the past year or so, she’s been an idiot. Because I don’t want to involve politics, i’ll just say this: If she’s losing a debate, instead of resortin... | HISTORICAL | {
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iiQ4SEgWIHnA8GFovAQ3CRBWiDHbxndn | as3lka | {
"description": "telling my mom I don't like a present",
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} | AITA for telling my mom I don't like a present? | I live overseas. It was my birthday recently and my mom sent me a gift which is not to my taste at all (it's a fur hat, and not only does the fact that it's real fur make me a little sad, the design is kind of ugly).
When I talked to my mom on the phone before now she said she'd spent ages picking it out and she was r... | HISTORICAL | {
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0kmh0HUAQmflCf4XLu2XnPcswd9HHYMY | at6h8b | {
"description": "trying to change the date of a Bachelor Party",
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} | AITA for Trying to Change the Date of a Bachelor Party |
I’m the Best Maid in a wedding tasked with planning the bachelor party. We first discussed a date and threw ideas around about a month ago. At that time the groom was working retail as a manager and said he has a really hard time taking weekends off. As such, we decided to plan the party for a Wednesday to accommod... | HISTORICAL | {
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y33lQtDLjPa52zGcu1xF2SFyWfZ66rY8 | a33itd | {
"description": "leaving my girlfriend after she committed felonies",
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} | AITA For leaving my girlfriend after she committed felonies? | So my girlfriend really wanted a Nintendo Switch for free. So she offered to clean/vacuum our 65-year-old neighbor's house for "free". While she was vacumming, she waited for him to go outside, then stole his wallet and snapped a picture of his credit card. Then she put the wallet back before he could see her.
&#... | HISTORICAL | {
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9TZgw4cOE74dDdueXMaYAKPtnSlPYHOS | aiovdh | {
"description": "going on a vacation on Valentine's day",
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} | AITA for going on a vacation on Valentine's day | I could fill this with background story on our relationship and stuff but I'll cut to the major points and question.
I haven't been on a holiday in 2 years, between work and life i just haven't had an enjoyable time away from work for longer than 3 day weekends or being sick.
This year i wanted to take a vacation and... | HISTORICAL | {
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UzXBJsiz4zi2kFp7mUMft63lJSgOvxIh | b89h25 | {
"description": "venmo requesting my friend money she owed me even though I trusted her to pay me back",
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} | AITA for Venmo requesting my friend money she owed me even though I trusted her to pay me back? | Background: I bought a ticket to a dance before I decided I would be going with someone. This person had an extra ticket and said I was welcome to have it, so my other friend said she would buy my ticket from me. We virtually “exchanged” tickets (we didn’t have physical copies of the tickets, so we just let the person ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
jX0H5Tm4R4sJ75h5ZefSYixUU5ChGSWp | b2ij5u | {
"description": "thinking I should have control over what I do in year 11 from my parents",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for thinking I should have control over what I do in year 11 from my parents? | Sorry if formating is a bit of mobile etc.
Basically I'm in year eleven now and my parents and I, specifically my mother, is extremely controlling about my use of computers and other electronics.
The current rules of the household are I'm not allowed to touch my phone after 5pm during weekdays under any circumstance... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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4dl6xDDwe8Ligm6ouzk3TMzwnjLZo0A0 | 9uoxkr | {
"description": "kicking my husband out of the house after catching him performing oral sex on hiself",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITAH for kicking my husband out of the house after catching him performing oral sex on hiself? |
We have been married for 15 years and I walked in our bedroom and he was performing oral sex on himself. We are very religious and oral sex is considered sodomy and homosexuality is not OK. This happened Saturday and I haven't let him back in the house since. I talked with my pastor and he said that it's sin and he ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
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} | WRONG |
sjAiZPQuDJfSSHyK6I6xdmeqMBBLjpmK | aemb32 | {
"description": "not wanting to be her friend anymore",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting to be her friend anymore? | I've known this girl and her family for about 2, 3 years now. I was in a very dark place mentally when we first met, so I was glad to have made a new friend. When I went to her residence the first time, a trailer, I was shocked. I don't consider myself a neat freak AT ALL, but this place was in absolute filth. I guess ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
IbgwX8GhR0SMtfR7C9EMUlHgyjxobsBx | b0bifu | {
"description": "breaking up with my boyfriend over text while in another state with my ex",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend over text while in another state with my ex? | Backstory: I dated a girl (X) long distance a few years ago and I guess you could say that she was my first love. Well things didn’t work out, but we decided to stay friends. We were still very close to the point where I ended up buying a plane ticket to go visit her over the summer.
Now, some time during the school ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
8k8p3Ahh77nvf7XOQDVdO5qOFQ4hG8c2 | b8iyb8 | {
"description": "writing gay fan fic/RP while Married",
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} | AITA [f25] For writing gay fan fic/RP while Married. | I did read the post about relationship based AITA's and I didn't feel like this fell under the same category. I could be wrong.
So. I write gay fan fiction and participate in gay RPs(Roleplays)(strictly text based). Its MxM and I know it's kinda cringy but it makes me happy. I only Participate in RPs with platonic fe... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | RIGHT |
YsuRUXQrcLqr3sKvVf0pyyAAGFAxPLrX | ascz74 | null | AITA russian mom gets aggressive at me | English is my 3rd language that I learned so hopefully it's not bad.
SoI don't remember it perfectly.
This story takes place in Latvia it happend a year . ago in summer when I was like 11.
There was this park in a forest where me and some friends ussualy went to and that one day I was with my friend lets call hi... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
p7QiLEuxdodRdJnZaDrjLfKrLlfiAK5j | aoq17k | {
"description": "being upset at my so after they sought support from someone after I told them something confidential",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for being upset at my SO after they sought support from someone after I told them something confidential? | I’m a long-time lurker, I just made this throwaway account not too long ago.
Last night, my parents informed me that we’ll have to be putting my dog down this weekend. I felt like my whole world collapsed from under my feet, even though I knew this was coming. I’ve known him for longer than I can remember; he is 13 y... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
SPyBBT3pRsgCFIvsCuO524Eguyc8oGEd | aobpm6 | {
"description": "anonymously reporting my dad to the DMV for his dangerous driving",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for anonymously reporting my dad to the DMV for his dangerous driving? | So back story, dad is getting on in age (77) and whilst he is mentally sharp, inevitably his reflexes have declined and he is not what he used to be.
There has been several instances of late where he has failed to react accordingly, put the wrong indicator on, drift from one lane to other and consistently driving half ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 19,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
g1Ml0dOzGDByg9CGexNDzfPnEfKUXZOs | ayovx0 | {
"description": "not telling my good friend that his ex slept with someone on our sports team",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not telling my good friend that his ex slept with someone on our sports team | For context, we are in a UK university.
My friend (and housemate) had a 2 year relationship with a girl from home that ended in his first year of university, because she was a year younger than him. Their relationship always seemed a bit contentious and somewhat immature, but 2 years is a long time at our age.
Come ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
JS3hkuvwxerDyndOCMpV8AhWAJoIrRPn | a19c7x | {
"description": "not picking up a casual friend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not picking up a casual friend? | Context: I have a casual friend from high school that only ends needs me when he wants a ride! I live in eastern Minnesota and he wanted me to pick him up from a town I barely know 20 miles east of me in Wisconsin at midnight! | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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5IBnI8EkB4jiJYDyPsEYyCxcDv5Z98Rv | aw7o7m | null | AITA: Secretly going to therapy behind my mothers back? | Recently I’ve been struggling with mental health and opened up to my mother about it. My mother is a difficult person but I still love her and I know she wants what’s best, but when I opened up to her about my anxiety/depression and she pretty much replied with “therapists are bullshit” and it was my lifestyle choices ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 21,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
AUdyEHe4Ub1n8czIBZQzZot1JQAIWsdF | ak065a | {
"description": "convincing my boyfriend to go on a trip he doesn't particularly want",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for convincing my boyfriend to go on a trip he doesn’t particularly want? | I’m 16, my boyfriend is 17. We’ve been dating for about 2 1/2 months and we’re still firmly in the honeymoon phase. I know we’re young and it’s a pretty new relationship, but I can really see myself with him forever. Stupid teen thoughts, maybe. But I genuinely do love him.
His mum is lovely. She’s invited me to go on... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 5,
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
vcZEuDtMTePqUkDPvr4DCL2N56C2QwpM | ad013h | {
"description": "not going shopping with my grandmas",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA because I didn't go shopping with my grandmas? | So my grandmas are visiting, and they were going to go to ALDI's and then me, my mom, sister, and her kids were going to meet them at World Market. So they're about to leave, and my mom says, as soon as they're grabbing their purses, "So, Zia2345, do you want to go to ALDI's with them?" While she did this she was winki... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
fcTSPDstV73WSd6gF9Z8vqllT7FjwvZ4 | al6f94 | {
"description": "telling my friend his girlfriend was cheating on him",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For telling my friend his girlfriend was cheating on him? | This happened a few months ago, and as much as I think I done the right thing I have been completely torn about whether or not I was an asshole based on the aftermath of the situation. Sorry this is really long, just want to make everything as clear as possible since this has been tugging on my conscience for a while.... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
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} | RIGHT |
e8OdmxVLcGPEDvtsRgYo7Wwjw5zgPz78 | agg97w | {
"description": "staring at a girl",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA For staring at a girl? | Obviously it's not as simple as that.
After school gets out (I'm in highschool) I wait by the bus stop as my ride home. Up until today I hadn't had any problems with other people even though some of them were incredibly young to start smoking and vaping (that's important later). Today I saw this middle schooler let's ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
HfYNPHwrScgHib1TT2N0wCTDcjXFegWA | b5vgri | {
"description": "losing my patience with a neighbor",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for losing my patience with a neighbor? | I live in an apartment building split into 3 floors. On the bottom floor live my neighbors, 2 women in their early 60’s, who take no care of their health.
This may sound judgey, but they are both very obese, both smoke, and it’s a routine thing that they are bringing home large amounts of greasy junk food that makes t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
NJCBTmYzX9sKfFoLDSq226BGHVryKSZC | b4x6ow | {
"description": "crossing the street when the light changed",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for crossing the street when the light changed? | I live in uptown Denver but often walk around downtown. I sold my car once I moved to the city because public transit was cheaper and I just like walking.
Anyway, this was about a month ago. I had gotten off work and got downtown at about 10:30. I'm 21F and I walk alone, often in the dark because I have to for work. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
8B5XrscQskH1DibIndQ9fDYnmaTx7X93 | asge9x | {
"description": "not joining my family on a long-planned holiday? and instead choosing to stay at home with my friends",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not joining my family on a long-planned holiday? And instead choosing to stay at home with my friends? | So every winter me and my family usually goes to our cabin in the mountains, where we hang out and generally have a good time. As i am not a kid anymore (18), it isn’t always as fun as it used to be.
Especially when most of my friends will stay at home, and have empty houses where we can do stuff that 18 year old boy... | HISTORICAL | {
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v2GqDPXyvmkrL9uJLLqrMVbuTY3FIZbJ | 9u7x32 | {
"description": "not buying a stranger a game",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for not buying a stranger a game? | a couple months ago I was in a discord group chat with 3 people. let's call them Jake and Chris
I was good friends with Jake. 4+ years. chris I had maybe 2 conversations with lasting no more than 10 seconds. jake and chris were good friends. chris lets the chat know about a 15 dollar game that he wanted to buy. keep i... | HISTORICAL | {
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TBGMOJcyeww3PfXcyIYV9wnedojYsXZf | ai0a6q | {
"description": "voicing my complaint about usage of phone during a movie hangout",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for voicing my complaint about usage of phone during a movie hangout? | I feel like this is very trivial, and probably shouldn't be asked on this subreddit, so I will try to make this short:
​
My first asked if i wanted to hangout with her, and I replied with a yes. So I went over, and we decide to watch movies. The movies she picks out are two movies I've never heard of befo... | HISTORICAL | {
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H4uSoYJelrIP739Tlw0eHEqvSpFgXaBz | b8qcmd | {
"description": "telling a girl she doesnt have an ass",
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} | AITA For telling a girl she doesnt have an ass | So me and one of my friends we're joking around when she said i bet your dick is so small you cant even see it. I wasnt botherd by that but i had to get a comeback so i told her who stole your ass, or let me guess someone ate it. Than she broke down crying telling me i was an asshole for saying that. Now i dont know wh... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
9SlpJCtDahZVWTVS7pAXFU609k4M9RFB | a8t5hv | {
"description": "expecting a diabetic with low blood sugar to actively fix their situation",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for expecting a diabetic with low blood sugar to actively fix their situation? | I walked into work to find a coworker shaking and cold, however this coworker constantly points out how much they shake and it was a cold day. I asked them if I could help in anyway but got no response, however this co-worker then pointed something out to me as a walked away. They walked away from their station so I pi... | HISTORICAL | {
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gF2tkPkQpLNDZxdFdeTJZJZ8Zq78GTo9 | an04ab | {
"description": "expressing concern for a young child's constant preventable pitfalls",
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} | AITA for expressing concern for a young child’s constant preventable pitfalls? | I’m a mother of a challenging ‘spirited’ child, and have had my fair share of mini heart attacks. We all have. I’m not perfect, but I can safely say I am extra careful with what I do and say around my kiddo. Parenting her has also taught me to not judge other parents, with an exception.
My old next door neighbor has a... | HISTORICAL | {
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PGrmWyLmcFPCpcHlR4R5PWARgMXosKed | a6ozqa | {
"description": "confronting my employee for raising her voice at me",
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} | AITA for confronting my employee for raising her voice at me | A little backstory first.
I am a (19 m) manager at a movie theater in which we have an arcade.
The employee in question is (19 f), we will call her E, and is the SO to a previous assistant manager that I am still friends with. (He was promoted and now works at a different theater in the city and has the same job ti... | HISTORICAL | {
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skB3ikzGnhGlulAGxkOMuZ9s4aE4t2Rw | b15rlm | {
"description": "being upset that my lgbt friends talk badly about straight people while I'm around",
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} | AITA For being upset that my LGBT friends talk badly about straight people while I’m around? | Let me just preface this by saying I understand the whole idea of “punching down” and “punching up” when it comes to minority groups. It’s more acceptable to talk poorly about the oppressor than the oppressed because kicking someone while they’re down is worse than being spiteful of a priveleged group you aren’t part o... | HISTORICAL | {
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EoUPFqRzsRwKzLlIGqsiYnVz3gG5KrkB | apmjiu | {
"description": "setting a trap for my now ex-gf",
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} | AITA for setting a trap for my now ex-gf? | So my now ex girlfriend has had an ex cheat on her before and you add that to her already existing anxiety she has a lot of trust issues. She would constantly "test" the relationship and spy on me. This would mean going through my emails and my texts when I was asleep and checking my in on me at work through my work la... | HISTORICAL | {
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XiFjED2jRb6OUWYTIySeKAZvbyB9kXER | aswna6 | null | AITA hubs new Rifle | Ordered Hubs an expensive rifle he wanted. Thought I would add an engraving. 6 weeks later he picks up rifle. The engraving is larger then expected and white. I apologize and say I will re buy the rifle ($2200) or get it fixed/removed. Sure enough, I am told it's no problem and it is an easy fix. I send hubs a text tha... | HISTORICAL | {
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TPTc289aYs6fW8FkIuvT75torgwha90A | b6oypn | {
"description": "not letting people play with my ping pong bats",
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} | AITA for not letting people play with my ping pong bats? | At school we have ping pong tables I really wanted to play my friend but the people I was lending my bats to insisted they kept paying I eventually got my bats back. Am I the ass hole? | HISTORICAL | {
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Uye5Sv4N4QOTDOULVBoahYJYVJFvVA9f | b3x6r3 | {
"description": "not wanting to go to a wedding over something that happened 2 years ago",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to a wedding over something that happened 2 years ago? | So there is this couple (28 M & F) that I (21F) have known for several years. We are all part of a large mutual friend group. They are getting married this summer and I am reluctant to go because I am still hurt over a situation that happened 2 years ago.
The story goes my bf (24) and I were hanging out with the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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66iH9WiVP7ahSe9AQIHCJBtt0Pg9fFld | alizw1 | {
"description": "leaving my bf by just taking my things and leaving",
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} | AITA for Leaving My BF (28/m) by Just Taking my Things and Leaving? | Sunday I (26/f) was invited over to boyfriend's house after he had been out the night before at a bachelor party. I hadn't heard from him all night, he claimed his phone died, whatever. I got in touch with him the next morning. He was hungover, so I asked if he was just going to be miserable in bed all day; I didn't ju... | HISTORICAL | {
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sovnWRmhkIBd8owEtmddqpIZtyI2fAYx | az0dj5 | {
"description": "not wanting to talk to my husband when he gets home from work",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for not wanting to talk to my husband when he gets home from work? | I [22f] am a SAHM to my one year old and three year old. My husband [27m] owns a business and works mostly outside of the home. He works by himself so he is usually very chatty when he gets home. It used to be fine but I’m burned out by the time he gets home now.
I’m having an issue with the fact that he will come hom... | HISTORICAL | {
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BtjaK6SdN0qN0rU6C6SLMrRBg095f4O0 | b891gt | null | AITA: For the way I rejected a friend | Basically I'm bi but after HS I decided that I am not compatible guys and my senior bf would be my last. My guy friends are loving assholes and so am I. They are all aware of my high school romantic experience ( Freshman bf, two and a half years of girl craze, senior bf then back to girl craze).
I'm in uni and so are... | HISTORICAL | {
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hmQI5D7ECRHe9p9TR3ljjj37p7eOdugO | amh1mu | {
"description": "asking my parents to stop using Essential Oils around my pets",
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} | AITA For asking my parents to stop using Essential Oils around my pets? | Bit of backstory
Im a 17 year old in college and living with my parents while I look for houses. I have 2 rodents and a cat.
My parents have a cat and a snake.
Recently my Nan has roped my mother into using Essential Oils "they will calm your cats down and make [Dad] love you more!"
So my mother has started buying an... | HISTORICAL | {
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QrBxIyxtizOUx1eIzxuZBteN0o5k0iUL | a47qwl | {
"description": "not wanting to be my brother's ex-girlfriend's brother and roommate",
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} | AITA for not wanting to be my brother’s ex-girlfriend’s brother and roommate? | I think I’m something of a reserved person, and I’m just not used to confronting people, so I feel like what I need to do and have to say about my brother’s ex could be asshole territory so I want a second opinion.
Basically, my brother met his ex a few years ago and she changed his life for the better. Before this,... | HISTORICAL | {
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0q5vr9MCrolD2gdYTR1rLfJZiRo56ESd | b70hcq | {
"description": "not giving a homeless man some chips",
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} | AITA for not giving a homeless man some chips? | This isn’t as dramatic as most stories here, but whatever. I was going home from school one day, waiting for the bus at a metro station and decided to get a snack of a little bag of chips while I waited. I was probably about 14 at the time. Long time ago, but I always cringe at this memory so I’m wondering if I was a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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d9dhnux0MDJfequfaoJSJq6ktQ9WzVvT | b8s36l | {
"description": "stealing from the biodad of my son in order to afford his meds",
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} | AITA for stealing from the biodad of my son in order to afford his meds? | Not so much an am I *the* asshole but rather am I *an* asshole
I took $68.50(yes I even took the change...) from the biodad of my 43 week old preemie son / soon to be ex husband with drug addiction. I don't know how to feel.
Basically this is my inner monologue:
**'he's a drug addict, he would've just used it to g... | HISTORICAL | {
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oBUZ8DeES8JmUIJCvyZZuF41AHBNniyO | ajlld8 | {
"description": "wanting to go and see a movie and get dinner for my birth day",
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} | Aita for wanting to go and see a movie and get dinner for my birth day? | This is stupid so I'll keep this short I'm turning 16 Saturday and i was talking to my friends about going to see a movie and get some dinner but my friends little sisters party is on Saturday day as well. So I'm talking to my friend and we can leave the party after 2 hours go see a movie and get something to eat, thay... | HISTORICAL | {
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TslV8m2lH3RRpr274WGqkjrKtbZvdG25 | b0dx7t | null | AITA: When I was in HS, I would come from gym class to biology. | Once in biology, I would always put on deodorant, and not make any attempts to hide it. The teacher would see me and then scold me for doing so in front of her. She even threatened to give me detention one time when it kept happening. I didn’t see y as a big deal at all so of course I never remembered to stop doing so... | HISTORICAL | {
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cB4Jo39lesbR3OSXajApGJGKRlUvqTvh | als07v | null | AITA - My Chinese coworker has been in the US for 25 years and still can't speak English very well. Am I the asshole for thinking she should by now? | My coworker is from China but emigrated to the US 25 years ago. Her English is nearly impossible to understand, and it drives me nuts. We work in a technically complex field, so communication is key.
I would feel differently about it if she hadn't been here so long, but 25 years is time enough to learn the common to... | HISTORICAL | {
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FYAMrrLuCflTKHNBZft730nYg2ju3tPg | b5k02p | {
"description": "paying for my son to go to college, but not my daughter",
"pronormative_score": 285,
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} | AITA for paying for my son to go to college, but not my daughter? | Before I get judged to quickly, let me explain.
22 years ago, I had a one night stand and accidentally got the woman pregnant. I didn’t want to keep the baby (obviously), but ultimately, she didn’t feel comfortable with an abortion and wanted to keep it. I decided to step up and be a father to my child. Together, we h... | HISTORICAL | {
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pB6xSDJasu1X3YVGVCXwcrF41U8867pz | a9aomy | {
"description": "trying to teach my 7 yo nephew the meaning of the word compromise",
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} | AITA for trying to teach my 7 yo nephew the meaning of the word compromise? | So tonight my whole family came to have dinner at my parents house. Santa arrived and brought so many presents for all the kids that our living room looked like a tornado arrived, everybody was having a good time except for my nephew.
He didn't want to play with his toys and told me that books are lame(he got 1 book, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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9a7GJRUHKNw5ohztAEJw80KfNKpwyl2s | arzlgh | {
"description": "being mad at my friend when he goes over to sellers at the flea market and calls their products \"rip offs\" and \"knock offs\" right to their face",
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} | AITA for being mad at my friend when he goes over to sellers at the flea market and calls their products "rip offs" and "knock offs" right to their face? | There will be stuff from china made to look like airpods or something and he'll just go up to these ordinary people selling them and be like "Oh I see you got the airpod ripoffs" right to their face. I think it's rude, I told him that he's gonna get punched or that it's probably disrespectful to the sellers who are jus... | HISTORICAL | {
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kaseeNGNvddHjIlvOSNeNghAkehxHOFO | axhqqs | {
"description": "leading on multiple girls at once",
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} | AITA for leading on multiple girls at once? | Hang on, the title does seem bad but I have a very convenient excuse. There are 2 girls in real life that I flirt with constantly, nothing major just some light teasing and the occasional proposal (they are rich so I propose to them so I am called the gold digger).
Here's one of the problems, I dont like either of th... | HISTORICAL | {
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eV5Hk2LS0SRqeB6bx3gyQrxGo327fa1x | a3p3xk | {
"description": "tailgating people that drive under the speed limit to tell them to speed up or get over",
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} | AITA, I tailgate people that drive under the speed limit to tell them to speed up or get over. | Exceptions to this rule include people hauling trailers, 18 wheelers, or people passing 18 wheelers.
Edit: damn, I guess I need to chill
Edit 2: I get it, I am a huge asshole that is going to murder a child. I should get a ticket straight to hell for wanting to go a little faster.
In all seriousness, I have recons... | HISTORICAL | {
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MVWRvd8lEZtyNCRAPRi5KNWKnKMWNAH8 | aq2vtu | {
"description": "not waiting on my girlfriend",
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} | AITA For not waiting on my Girlfriend? | So last Thursday was my birthday and I decided to throw a party that following Friday for my acquaintances and close friends and I also planned to go on a hiking trail for just my girlfriend and I that following Sunday.
Now I was more excited for hiking since its about an two hours away and its a popular trail. I lik... | HISTORICAL | {
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Sz6usnbZGuzh08AIq5PldrzqvW2PfVpe | b2rox0 | {
"description": "not wanting to lose my best friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to lose my best friend? | So my closest friend of 10 years has been getting closer to someone else and I'm worried shes gonna stop spending time with me. She's known this guy for less than a year and they're already extremely close and seem closer to each other than my best friend is to me. They mess around and laugh with eachother while I'm ta... | HISTORICAL | {
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2YhWtrqjahR0HwWfTDg3A5Lg7kPyXK48 | az4o7d | {
"description": "taking a job at a competing business to my dad's businesses",
"pronormative_score": 25,
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} | AITA for taking a job at a competing business to my dad’s businesses? | Last month I turned 15, my parents said I have to get a job to pay board, my food, my clothes and to rent my laptop from my parents. I asked my Dad if I could work at one of the fast-food places he owns. He said no that would be called nepotism. I then filled out job applications online but didn’t hear back probably be... | HISTORICAL | {
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QkU6McGY5FdDI63iDVfR7tzhvXbdeC7b | 9zlix6 | {
"description": "thinking that I should be able to go with my boyfriend to Europe",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for thinking that I should be able to go with my boyfriend to Europe? | Hey, I apologize for any spacing issues, I am on mobile. So a little background, my boyfriend (18) and I(18) have been dating for almost a year and we're very happy together. However, he is in college right now, but I am taking a gap year so while he's at school we're long-distance, so we don't get to see each other mu... | HISTORICAL | {
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8kmUcLRhc3QTvwumbPYmLe0Jpfokxwe0 | atumh4 | null | AITA or rather AWTA for not believing my friend talking about his mental illnesses | Some background, we are both 14m, and he lies so often it's borderline pathological, it's always some terminally ill friend or a cheating ex or some bullshit like that and he'll keep it going for months before admitting it was bullshit, and we just give him the benefit of the doubt
every
damn
time
However, recently he ... | HISTORICAL | {
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mJDHPTMjJLUEZbcwIzfDoCKx8mRIdTVO | axifaj | {
"description": "not wanting my roommate to wash his clothes with all-purpose cleaner",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for not wanting my roommate to wash his clothes with all-purpose cleaner? | My roommate has not had any laundry detergent of his own, me and my other roommates usually buy laundry pods every couple of weeks to do our laundry. My roommate hasn't picked up any laundry detergent since moving in in August and when there aren't any pods around or laundry detergent he pours simple green all purpose ... | HISTORICAL | {
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xbohaMrokkX5ulZxtJnxfsNjoNkAlWnk | ah3p0t | {
"description": "wanting to be paid for three days of work even when I live with my parents",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for wanting to be paid for three days of work even when I live with my parents? | My dad needed help doing yardwork, heavy all day labor involving moving logs, out of town for free. I agreed and came without my medication (which I need to take in the morning before I drive, otherwise it’s unsafe) or a change of clothes or a toothbrush or anything. I’m currently trying to apply for a job and need to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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pUV4Ipp3hQYgWkcaX9TDYh5gCqU30bz4 | ba0560 | {
"description": "getting angry at my friend for treating me like shit",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | WIBTA if I got angry at my friend for treating me like shit? | My friend and I hang out a lot, but recently our dynamic has changed. About a month ago I told her I liked her, but that I didn't expect her to feel the same way and I hoped our relationship would remain intact. We have been very close and not much has changed.
Recently, however, she has been treating me like dirt. I ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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DEiVoTJli23voiDMcOJtXPIHmF6XQ71D | aphyc7 | null | AITA for my reaction when leaving my cheating (ex) GF | Recently found out my GF of three years has been cheating on me. For practical reasons we didn't live together but I might as well have lived at hers with her family many weekends and vice versa she stopped with mine, hanging around and helping people out. Both of us work so we'd be around at separate times and re... | HISTORICAL | {
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I5NubFOz8Q82h1BJS5cdSkbXRczyYekO | agdnt1 | {
"description": "wanting to walk out mid appointment at a new optometrist",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for wanting to walk out mid appointment at a new optometrist? | I’ve been here for an hour, for a glasses and contact prescription, he came in for less than 10 minutes and looked at my eyes, asked me zero questions, and then left and said someone else would be in to give me contacts, and then he told his assistant that I want to try contacts.
I’m not here to try contacts. I have ... | HISTORICAL | {
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v9eD0JTYA92GJC86i4rx4I5nWAHdfpUD | 9www4b | {
"description": "ignoring a clingy friend",
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} | AITA for ignoring a clingy friend? | To put it into context, I've been friends with this guy for about 12 years. I've always noticed he's clingy, at first it didn't bother me too much because I was younger and didn't care about hanging out with him all the time. But now I'm 27 and he's 29. He's married and has a child now but he still bugs me to come over... | HISTORICAL | {
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b6orQVEkcIXuJHTd0ss0pKfSOjGlfLYI | atdv1r | {
"description": "calling my best friends gf racist",
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} | AITA For calling my best friends gf racist | I was on the phone with a close friend and he was telling me he loves the show peeky blinders but his girlfriend wont watch it because of the english accents. I asked what he meant and he said "she hates British accents." I luaghed and said bro thats racist. He then got super heated and lectured me for an hour about ho... | HISTORICAL | {
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T2QhBDxvDRrcF73ubMGKVHM5yUwNlZFO | atc61h | {
"description": "not playing with the dog",
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} | AITA for not playing with the dog? | Longtime lurker, mobile, Yadayadayada
I was relaxing on my computer when I started feeling sick to my stomach. I turn off my PC and check downstairs to see if dinner is ready (my room is upstairs) dinner was briskit in a pressure cooker, but wasnt fully cooked for another 10 minutes and then time to prepare so I went ... | HISTORICAL | {
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2w973bjWBonKy180YgYQFdSWfstC4oyt | ayi2jy | {
"description": "being mad at my boyfriend for texting a stripper",
"pronormative_score": 21,
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} | AITA For Being Mad at my Boyfriend for Texting a Stripper? | My boyfriend had planned a trip to Vegas for us to go visit a friend that lived there. I’m in nursing school and unfortunately school got in the way and my sister happened to be visiting that weekend from out of state and I couldn’t go. He was so devastated that I couldn’t go, I had truly never seen him so mad. But, I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 21,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
q4IXHj6eAUgfan7D960IVULZhIKaKnaK | b30u6y | {
"description": "not going to an estranged friend's baby shower",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA if I don’t go to an estranged friend’s baby shower? | TLDR: Got drunk one night, damaged a friendship, tried to repair it. Now they’re finally reaching out... to invite me to a baby shower.
So these friends are married. We’d been friends since high school and I’d known both of them since before they even started dating. I stood next to him at his wedding. I helped him mo... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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Ikqr82PIZJXW1uKFZ1AvSST2dSYHIQST | akpzya | {
"description": "telling my fathers ex-girlfriend to submit a claim through his estate for money she said he owed her after he died",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for telling my fathers ex-girlfriend to submit a claim through his estate for money she said he owed her after he died? | so, first post here, I will do my best.
​
My father died in October of 2018 after a seven day battle with stage 4 cancer. He was a heavy smoker for about 40 years so it wasn't a complete surprise that it happened but we didnt think he would get sick and pass away within a week.
​
The day he... | HISTORICAL | {
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zjOIeh3tCTzaC2RxwBZnyCs9K2n4dS1R | aee40u | {
"description": "wanting to be able bring people over for hookups",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for wanting to be able bring people over for hookups? | A friend of a few years and I are planning on moving out. I've been wanting to move out for years to get more privacy, and so I can start bringing people over. I mentioned to my friend that I was excited to soon be able to bring over an eventual girlfriend or hookups to my room and they got pissed off, saying it was in... | HISTORICAL | {
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FGcf2cTQ4NLL1rJerEJywGlUJStAtYgZ | ar35dc | {
"description": "being upset my roommate changed his plans and messed up mine",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for being upset my roommate changed his plans and messed up mine? | Earlier this week, my roommate and I were talking about Valentine's Day plans. I asked if he was going to stay with his girlfriend (who also lives on campus)? He said he would, but he didn't seem super excited because her roommate was going to be there and he doesn't really like being around her. I asked because I want... | HISTORICAL | {
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1lyCSzbtIlZRspBQ4RtwZ4JqulgPeoME | an496z | {
"description": "choosing not to respect a trans person's pronouns",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 25
} | AITA for choosing not to respect a trans person's pronouns? | Using a throwaway acct.
This happened a year or two ago. This person in one of my middle school classes is transgender, and i don't really have an issue with that. I have made it clear to some people, however, that i won't support their choice by referring to them as their pronoun, even though i generally won't refer ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 25
} | WRONG |
0tpqjuPScz8EXr4wq9jQSBhLspQlfy1D | ay1v4j | {
"description": "getting back at the Bullies",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA?: Getting Back at the Bullies | So let me just address this first, most of my life I have been a "bigger" guy and have most of my life been bullied for it. This would include Kindergarten through high school which is 8+ years of my life. I've never really stood up for myself because I would get made fun of for going to a teacher and telling them what... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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x2ZPf7Bw0IScVHq5RipTHE27iqSKAJiD | b9yngx | {
"description": "not wanting to get matching jewelry with my sisters",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to get matching jewelry with my sisters? | So backstory, my boyfriend got me this really pretty necklace for Christmas, nothing expensive I'm pretty sure it was like 10 bucks. A month or so later my older sister [24F] got this ring that looked super similar to my necklace, like it looks like they're from a set.
I asked her about it and she said something like... | HISTORICAL | {
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80C1ghjnRDAIL77L3ecvpTQvjkBRSB2p | ad4h78 | {
"description": "wanting to stop talking/interacting with the guy I like because of his comment",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for Wanting to Stop Talking/Interacting with the guy I like because of his comment? | So me and this boy I’ve liked for a little while have been talking more recently. I’m not all THAT ugly, but many people specifically the “popular girls” consider me a hoe/whore because of the way I dress and how many people I’ve dated. I tend to go towards crop tops, skinny jeans, but that’s not my entire wardrobe whi... | HISTORICAL | {
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NSDbC19SIsyZFquu3X0i6ZKYmTKzGaMh | b3gdam | {
"description": "not staying friend with a girl",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not staying friend with a girl? | I was wondering if I (21M) am the asshole for not staying friend with a girl (18F) who's not certain about dating me.
​
Little backstory, I met her 2 years ago. It was summer and we were working at the same place. Unexpectedly, she became interested in me and we began to hang out. Problem is, she was still... | HISTORICAL | {
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e1AaFD6awZRPUTUtCwak7ckJUepvB1nx | a5be3e | {
"description": "hating my birthday",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for hating my birthday | First off sorry. This is my first post and I'm on mobile.
Anyways, for as long as I (M20) can remember I have hated my birthday. I dont know what it is exactly but I'm pretty reserved and dont like attention so I'm sure that's most of it. Every year I ask my family if we can do nothing for it, and every year I am tol... | HISTORICAL | {
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qWSbGh8UPnyvisHlf1cvIWs6hNS0tixL | b13bgp | {
"description": "insisting on no smuggled-in booze at my birthday venue",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for insisting on no smuggled-in booze at my birthday venue? | Long-time reader, first-time poster.
​
I'm turning 30 in May. Frankly, I'm blessed to have grown up with the family and support system that I have. It has enabled me to do fairly well for myself and to afford some luxuries.
​
Being as I'm leaving my 20's (and since I love celebrating my birt... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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MwW9gSMI07txxaly8ItkR74KKzOXxlst | alhhwm | {
"description": "being pissed off with my boss for going back on a promise",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for being pissed off with my boss for going back on a promise? | So my job has a rotating day off with every Sunday off too. So it will go Monday one week then Tues then wed ect. I was given a rotate by my boss as she said it was fair and the right thing to do. So I arranged to visit my mum on my long weekend (sat, sun, Mon) as she lives quite far away. I went into work after a long... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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2y5atM6JUV02cZNCbgTPa3JHzoRK87EI | aswehu | {
"description": "not talking to my ex anymore",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not talking to my ex anymore? | My ex (let's call him E) and I had been together for a few years and were friends before that. We ended up calling it off because of some family differences but were still kinda close.
He texted me a few days back saying his family is setting him up with a girl suitable so for him (some people have arranged marriages... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
0lVOVuSwyXqsLHCT9qPgasxYm6ge8bf2 | aiwzu4 | {
"description": "not wanting to break the lease as soon as we move in",
"pronormative_score": 29,
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} | AITA for not wanting to break the lease as soon as we move in? | My wife and I are getting ready to move into a new rental house. We had discussed changing the locks on the new place when we move in just in case the previous tenants decided to make copies of the keys. Today my wife explains to me that he actual intention is to change the locks on the new rental and make it so the... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 29,
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} | RIGHT |
FZxgc7xK3O2rE6nWZZJmLYyFLDoRtg5X | b54ygr | {
"description": "backing out of meeting an online friend after years of talking about meeting up",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for backing out of meeting an online friend after years of talking about meeting up? | I started talking to someone online in high school. He lives on the opposite side of the country. He’s become like my best friend. We talk everyday and have both helped each other through some tough times.
We’ve always talked about meeting. I thought that’s what I wanted. In the abstract “some day” it was alway... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
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"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
6nrj9GLrK13zjFu0EKkePpa2FpgKGIqO | 9yo184 | {
"description": "not remembering plans with my mother",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not remembering plans with my mother? | Long time lurker, first time poster, on mobile, etc.
So background, I work at a car dealership about 45 minutes from my house (on a good drive). As a recent college graduate, I still live with my parents. Tonight, my step-father and his kids are out of town for a ski trip, so it's just me and my mom. She's been a bit ... | HISTORICAL | {
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wBLxhRi95klYBzTXgIiQ9BQvnT9WHRKQ | a0i569 | {
"description": "hanging out with a friend I had sex with once",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for hanging out with a friend I had sex with once? | For some context, me (24M) and my girlfriend(22F) have been together for 5 years and we just moved together this year.
TLDR at the bottom.
Summer 2017 we had some issues because she wanted to finish school at her hometown and I wasn’t feeling a long distance relationship so we decided to break up, she moved and I st... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
WgUKCZ9Nd4Yt82pysNEGpWMtnkeGCSfs | b69acz | {
"description": "sticking up for my so and making his mom cry",
"pronormative_score": 18,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for sticking up for my SO and making his mom cry? | AITA for sticking up for my SO and making his mother cry?
SO and I are in our early 30's. Recently he has been struggling with anxiety/depression. He experiences a lot of guilt as a part of this. As a result, he has mostly stopped communicating with his family because they push him to talk about things that make him a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 18,
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"INFO": 1
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} | RIGHT |
ESFhcXrWqQPDnA9U5lJWkPIe4BLOQv4H | b8twt0 | {
"description": "not telling my mother a joke",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For not telling my mother a joke? | This story happened years ago, around when I was 17, but unfortunately is still in the back of my mind to this day.
a bit of background info. At the time I was, still am, a card (magic the gathering)/ comic nerd, though thankfully I have taken up working out as well. I was living with my mom and younger sister at the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
hkefeAetjWUjc8BkrBb6tMMpcLCqA8SN | apafxz | {
"description": "not being excited for a surprise birthday weekend-long adventure (turning 16) with my mom",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for not being excited for a surprise birthday weekend-long adventure (turning 16) with my mom?? | PLEASE READ ALL THIS SHIT BEFORE CONCLUDING.
context: this has been the worst year of my life (school year) and between experiencing sexual violence, loss, poverty, depression and the worst anxiety ever I have felt unworthy of love, friends and a birthday. I found out an artist I really like is performing 2 days after... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | WRONG |
rnLgp3j1BzgwOyuhkL2nrEvyAXBA4LH4 | a9udb6 | {
"description": "thinking that taking emotional care of my depressed husband is going the extra mile",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for thinking that taking emotional care of my depressed husband is going the extra mile? | My severely depressed husband told me that I never put him first. I told him that being emotionally supportive (and financially, since he can only hold a part time job) demonstrates my love for him. He has depressive episodes pretty much daily, usually lasting hours, during which I hold him, kiss him, make him food, an... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
ruCWudKWhJ5k13JH89sHWNWJzwXic7Gb | aesikf | {
"description": "telling employees off for doing make up in the toilet",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling employees off for doing make up in the toilet. | I made a shit post about this in the past thinking it would sort it self out but it actually hasn't. For information these toilets only have one toilet in them so I can understand if the female is already being used. They go in there when the female isn't in use so other girls can go to the toilet.
I work in an office... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
bSSWnnOXIzKf52gHs2689Wvp6nVWwbbg | b9xfu1 | {
"description": "not helping a classmate",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for not helping a classmate? | Okay so here it goes. This girl befriends people who may be useful to her in the future in general. Not only that she won’t ever help anyone, she talks highly of herself to everyone around her but yet still pretends to be nice. So it is not possible for others to address her arrogant behaviour.
I feel like she only ta... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
SPgT0yDtpqJ63PxIXuCNumMKmnIG45Bz | b8wv1c | {
"description": "not wanting to spend 2 nights at a hotel with my parents because I would have to share a room with them",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 12
} | AITA for not wanting to spend 2 nights at a hotel with my parents because I would have to share a room with them? | I'm 14f and me and my brother (17) are just about to finish our first term back at school. My brother is in year 12 and has been working super hard in school this whole time and wants to have a party with a few friends when the term ends at our place.
My parents are totally fine with it but insist that I spend the Fr... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 10,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 12
} | WRONG |
KngoR3hbHTEIb2RBCXTuUCL4R32CRWRI | axo27y | {
"description": "not talking to someone I used to be best friends with ever again",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not talking to someone I used to be best friends with ever again? | I used to be best friends with a girl (let’s call her Bailey) up until recently. We had been best friends since 6th grade but we were friends before that in elementary school. Over the course of those years she became pretty much family to not only me but my parents as well going to family vacations with us and vice ve... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
5iroZhYCfyQoZP6mBuCSqVeJEDJpd3Gb | aqhyad | {
"description": "being pissed at my loud, troubled neighbour",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being pissed at my loud, troubled neighbour? | I live on a first year residence at university, a place where a lot of people are away from home for the first time. My neighbour has some strife with his family (or something like that) which tends to manifest as very outside-voice phone calls at midnight, oftentimes to the point of screaming.
It is unclear if this i... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
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vb3Fkxa4bNdO3v3OeDhNw7dlMc1xIFGi | ad0qod | {
"description": "getting a guy and his two kids kicked out of the dog park",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for getting a guy and his two kids kicked out of the dog park? | It's a long story so I'll give both versions.
Also warning my sense of humar can be gross so dog poop is mentioned in detail.
Short version - A guy brought his twin toddlers to the dog park and was allowing them to call dogs over. His daughter calls my corgi and my corgi gives a little jump to lick her face. Her fath... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
pcRLt8v7hY62oHt5QeIiZ4kqWCZ4HaKW | 9x175w | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend because of her mental health issues",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA for breaking up with my girlfriend because of her mental health issues? | To preface the situation, I love my girlfriend. Very much. We have been together for over a year, and that year has been one of the best years of my life. That being said, recently, there have been more and more issues with our relationship.
​
Our relationship started off on the wrong foot, as we started t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 12,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
YwhcMT55boWAxi7GUvUKGOeNbL0O7gJi | a76lzh | {
"description": "getting into an argument with a guy and I feel like I got too aggressive",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | Aita I got into an argument with a guy and i feel like i got too aggressive. | https://www.reddit.com/r/Piracy/comments/a6v8vf/comment/ebyagk9?st=JPT41U83&sh=18b94926 | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 1
} | WRONG |
AbyIzpZIG5Mhkvc1XNZA0GR5AdwDDYtn | b5v0tz | {
"description": "refusing to help my work colleagues anymore because of how cliquey they are",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for refusing to help my work colleagues anymore because of how cliquey they are? | I'm 19 btw. I'm pretty used to being the outsider by now. I have autistic spectrum disorder (ASD) so it's normal for me. I think everyone in work likes me but it's very cliquey. Most of them are new but I've been in for months. They often go out without asking me though and kinda have cliques and inside jokes stuff lik... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 2
} | WRONG |
EFlttsI3XgmPWMV8SC71Y2b7FZcx5ihk | a550rd | {
"description": "refusing to tutor a 52 year old mathematics",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for refusing to tutor a 52 year old mathematics? | Hello Reddit! I wanted to keep it short, but silly old me just couldn't do that apparently.
Little background information: I am 18 years old. Since around a year and a half I've been tutoring both chemistry and mathematics to classmates/fellow students as a part time job. I live in the Netherlands where from the ages... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 2,
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
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