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{ "description": "never eating any food given as a gift", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for never eating any food given as a gift?
I work in a medical setting and both patients and coworkers regularly bring in baked goods or cooked snacks for the holidays. I accept anything given to me, say thank you, and never eat it. If they expect me to eat it then and there, I take it and sneak off and flush it. If I can take it home, I toss it as soon as I am...
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{ "description": "not letting my BF sleep with another girl outside of our agreed arrangement", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not letting my BF sleep with another girl outside of our agreed arrangement?
So to make sense of the title, let me give some brief background. My boyfriend (26m) and I (24f) have been together for close to 4 years. Early on we both expressed a desire to try opening up our relationship at some point, but we decided not to rush things to give ourselves more time to grow in the relationship and co...
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{ "description": "refusing to help my school with an investigation into a leaked naked video", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for refusing to help my school with an investigation into a leaked naked video?
Some girl at my school was recently filmed naked in the shower. The video has begun being shared online. I am quite good with phones and computer and the headmistress of the school has asked me if I can help. Although I (male) am normally in favour of helping, I think I am going to refuse. I think a witchhunt might h...
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{ "description": "asking my sister to stop playing her Jesus songs so loud", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For asking my sister to stop playing her Jesus songs so loud?
I live in a Christian family that isn’t huge on religion. However, every once and a while my sister will get super religious for some reason and will either blast or sing random gospel and Jesus songs. I have literally memorized certain ones because they are **all I hear.** She won’t use earbuds or headphones. She’ll j...
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{ "description": "ghosting a girl after she sent me pictures of her feet", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting a girl after she sent me pictures of her feet?
So I started talking to this girl from Reddit and after a few weeks of talking on and off on discord (not voice chat) she sent me pictures of her feet at 1 or 2 am. After that I told her that I didn't really appreciate those pictures and I didn't write anything to her after that. She sent me a message a while back sayi...
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{ "description": "thinking I should received some of my dad's life insurance payout", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I think I should received some of my dad's life insurance payout?
Context: My (34f) mom and dad have been divorced for 25 years. My mom remarried fairly quickly. My dad also remarried but after his second wife died unexpectedly, he spent the last ten years of his life depressed, suicidal, suffering from substance issues and homeless. He died unexpectedly from sepsis after an unknown...
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{ "description": "being frustrated with my husband constantly changing opinions", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being frustrated with my husband constantly changing opinions.
On mobile so sorry for any formatting issues. So my husband and I have been together for two years. And I am starting to get very frustrated with him constantly changing his mind, he also always denies he ever had a different opinion. Now he doesn’t waver on big things (career, our relationship, children ect) but on a...
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{ "description": "confronting a dad and his loud annoying kid at a movie premiere", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for confronting a dad and his loud annoying kid at a movie premiere?
So this happened at Spiderman: Homecoming on opening night back in 2017. Me my friend and his sister got really good seats pre booked and so we were all set. A quarter the way into the movie I notice this child in the family behind us is constantly talking every time something happens. The Vulture and his constructio...
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{ "description": "snapping at my boyfriend for joking about being with other girls", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Snapping at my boyfriend for joking about being with other girls
So my boyfriend came back from uni, we are long distance so today was going to be the day that we could spend most of the day together, since we both don't have school tomorrow. So, we called each other, and I asked him about his day and how it was, and he replied he was with some girls, and I snapped at him to stop...
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{ "description": "going out with a girl my friend was trying to date", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going out with a girl my friend was trying to date?
This is all just high school, so a warning that it'll have been handled immaturely and overly dramatically. So a very good friend of mine, call him Paul, helped a girl, call her Bella, when her friend group kind of imploded, and integrated her into ours, which is a bunch of chill dudes who play cards at lunch. For a f...
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{ "description": "shutting off the WiFi", "pronormative_score": 113, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for shutting off the WiFi.
Our kids are good kids but don’t do enough around the house, particularly on housework day. Wifey & I are often still finishing after dark. Son (18) is also addicted to league of legends. He is 2nd year university and lives at home without paying for anything except his clothes, bus money & spending. I (M49) g...
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{ "description": "siding with my mom and cornering my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for siding with my mom and cornering my boyfriend?
My (F24) boyfriend (M24) has been talking about going into the military since we met over a year ago. I asked him multiple times why this was his career choice in the first place, and the only reply I’ve gotten more frequently is that it was his only option (i.e. college isn’t for me, I don’t have other skills, can’t m...
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{ "description": "not watching my sister", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not watching my sister?
So, today I wake up, mom is gone and my little sister "Jenny" is being watched by "Ben" our stepfather. Hours go by, I mostly do my thing in my room, but I notice Ben's getting a bit irritated. I guess he's a bit tired of babysitting Jenny. I consider offering to watch her, but he's turned me down in the past in simil...
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{ "description": "shouting and nagging to my girlfriend's step-sister (she's 5 years old) because she was trying so hard to kiss me in the mouth", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for shouting and nagging to my girlfriend's step-sister (she's 5 years old) because she was trying so hard to kiss me in the mouth?
She was telling everyone that we were a couple and that we were getting married, then she began trying to kiss me and the more i took her off, the more she insisted and began making a tantrum. i got fed up and yelled at her, scolded her and pushed her away without violence. she cried so bad. she was putting me in a...
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{ "description": "wanting the bills paid on time and in full", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting the bills paid on time and in full?
I am always told by family that I am just being "fussy" when I ask my roommate to pay his share of the rent on time and in full. He always pays it late, and often late by several days, if not several weeks. The lease and the bills are in MY name, so this looks bad on ME when it is late. I am also poor, so I cannot just...
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{ "description": "making a joke on my colleagues behalf", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for making a joke on my colleagues behalf?
background: I work in a profession where different departments are in close contact with each other, for the benefit of all parties involved. colleague B and I hang out in our free time, away from work. we've done so for a couple of years. while in private, B and myself sometimes have a...harsh way of speaking about c...
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{ "description": "not answering my door", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not answering my door
It's after 10pm here and a friend of mine showed up at my house without warning. He was ringing my bell and I didn't get up to answer it cause I wasn't expecting anyone. So he called me and told me to open the door, he knows I'm home because it's after my kids bedtimes so I have to be home to put them to sleep. And I s...
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{ "description": "using the 'first class' lavatory to change my son since the aft lavatory was blocked by the trolley", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for using the 'first class' lavatory to change my son since the aft lavatory was blocked by the trolley?
My wife and I selected the very back row in the plane since we were flying with our 1yr old son and would need to change him. During the booking process nothing indicated this was a problem. When we were checking our bags they informed us they couldn't legally sit a baby in the back, so they'd moved us to like row 7 i...
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{ "description": "telling my stepdad my mom goes through his phone", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my stepdad my mom goes through his phone
So yesterday I was walking through the hall and I saw my mom going through my stepdad's phone I tried to ask her why she was doing that and she just told me to mind my own business . When he woke up I told him and my mother was upset and said I had no business to tell him and said I was an asshole and won't talk to me...
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{ "description": "being friends with someone my other two friends hate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being friends with someone my other two friends hate?
I’ve been posting on here a lot recently, but I’ve been going through a lot with my friend group. For this story, I will use A, B, and C to describe my three best friends. Friends A and B both very much dislike C. C tries her best to be kind to them even though they basically hate her. I have told A and B many times t...
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{ "description": "not dating an omnivore", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for not dating an omnivore?
For context, I’m a very strong believer in animal rights, I participate in animal activism, and I adhere to a vegan diet and lifestyle. Among friends, I don’t discriminate. Of course, if someone hunts for fun or races greyhounds, I probably *really* hate them and don’t want to be their friend, but I separate overt abu...
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{ "description": "moving in on my Bestfriend's crush", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA For Moving in on my Bestfriend’s Crush
To clarify before I begin all names have been changed. Also, my apologies for the length of this post. Ok so I am in my 4th but not final year of college (took a year “off”) and absolutely adore one of my best friends since freshman year, we’ll call him Dan. Dan and I have been tight for four years and although ...
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{ "description": "watching a show without my gf first and then pretending it was my first time watching with her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I watched a show without my gf first and then pretended it was my first time watching with her?
Gf and I got into Game of Thrones last year. We watch it together. It’s quickly become my all time favorite show. She likes it, but I don’t think cares nearly enough as me about it. I say that because she will also be on her phone during the show. With this show you have to pay really close attention or you will...
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{ "description": "not answering a coworker's call at 1:30 in the morning even though I was awake", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not answering a coworker's call at 1:30 in the morning even though I was awake?
I work a strange job. It's 12 hour shifts 3-4 days a week, and it's a boring job. It's not REALLY "security" but for simplicity's sake let's call it a security job. It's easy. So I get a call at 1:30 in the morning. I'm laying in bed awake talking with my wife. I know who it is and we both look at each other about the...
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{ "description": "getting angry about my mother making plans for me to babysit other people's kids without my consent", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry about my mother making plans for me to babysit other people’s kids without my consent?
I (20F) babysit my 5 year old autistic sister for my parents. My mom is pregnant and is due to give birth to another baby girl in the beginning of May, who I will also babysit once she is done with maternity leave. I pick my sister up from school at 3pm 4/5 days out of the week, and watch her until around 8pm. When I...
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{ "description": "not wanting my husbands to be BFF with his ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my husbands to be BFF with his ex
My husband and I have been together for 9 years and this past year he has decided to become best friends with his ex. She has always been in our lives here and there but nothing like this. I should note they didn’t go out for long. Anyways recently he is constantly hiding his phone and I finally got sick of it and did ...
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{ "description": "expecting my wife to do more of the housework because I bring in more income", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 160 }
AITA for expecting my wife to do more of the housework because I bring in more income?
The title is essentially it in a nutshell. My wife and I have been married for 4 years and have 1 kid and this is a constant disagreement. I make almost 4x what she does. I'm not saying she has to do 4x the chores, but am I an asshole for expecting her to at least be the "management" and keep track of everything, as w...
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{ "description": "not spending time with my family overseas", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not spending time with my family overseas?
Just a short briefing of the situation. So my girlfriend just graduated college recently, and for her present I got us tickets to the Philippines. It just so happens that my mom and sister are down there at this time as well. Now we will be spending 2 or 3 days with them but will be shortly leaving for other locations....
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{ "description": "not inviting my friend to play a game", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not inviting my friend to play a game?
So a little context for this post: MF for male friend FF for female friend I have a classmate who plays PUBG and we make a really good team together when we play. But recently i noticed he's been a bit sad in school and whenever i invite him for a quick game he just replies "not now" or "maybe later". So me being the...
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AITA here?
so i’m homeschooled and my mom wanted me to not be on her pc anymore so she offered to buy me my own and she herself said; ‘i will buy you a pc that can run games like fortnite / borderlands / games with relative ease’ i agreed to this. tonight i woke up to a HP Laptop on my desk, i’m pissed and want my mother to immed...
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{ "description": "asking my flatmate to pay for something he asked me to get him", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my flatmate to pay for something he asked me to get him
Apologies for the length of this. Disclaimer, this does involve cannabis. This story is an issue that arose between me and my flatmate I recently travelled to Amsterdam for a holiday with a friend. While there, my flatmate asked me to buy some hash, pop it into the post and send it back to him. He stated in text t...
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{ "description": "wearing a thong on the beach even though I'm a \"bigger\" girl...it caused a fight that's lasted over a month among my family", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for wearing a thong on the beach even though I'm a "bigger" girl...it caused a fight that's lasted over a month among my family.
**warning...warning...** THIS IS NOT A VALIDATION POST. I KNOW WHO I AM. I do not need validation from strangers. I want to know if I SHOULD have done something different and as such IF I should do something different the next time this type of thing comes up. **preface:** Some background is in order. I am one of fo...
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{ "description": "being too honest with people and calling them out when its none of my business", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being too honest with people and calling them out when its none of my business?
I’ve got a compulsion to offer my opinions/predictions whenever I feel the need (often)- to anyone and everyone, whether my opinion is asked for or not (almost never). Its not always negative and I'm just as liberal with honest praising, I reckon, but naturally, the critical comments are what people remember. I don't...
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{ "description": "wanting a stupid pun name for the team", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting a stupid pun name for the team?
So this is more of a question of if we are the assholes, since there are multiple people on my side. If we sound like dumb college kids with a shit sense of humor, it's because we totally are. No reason to deny it. We have a small group that goes to trivia at a local bar every week, and we like to change our team name...
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{ "description": "not wanting a second date", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting a second date?
English isn't my first language. I'm a regular at my local bar and spend a lot of time drinking with familiar faces and watching the game there with friends. The other day a woman approached me there and started making small talk and we got to chatting fairly well. She was clearly flirting and I was interested at firs...
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{ "description": "telling my doctor to stop talking", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my doctor to stop talking?
For context, this was my first appointment with him and this happened a few hours ago. Lately my eyesight's been going blurry on-and-off and I've been getting some nasty headaches here and there. He thought my eyesight is fine but instead I just suffer from migraines in general. He started listing off certain things th...
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{ "description": "eating my friend's girlfriend's chips from moes", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for eating my friend’s girlfriend’s chips from moes.
My roommates went to moes for dinner last night. Fast forward 7 hours i’m high at 3am, I see an opened bag of moes chips on the table and I eat them. Morning comes, friend is furious I ate his girlfriend’s chips. I said I was sorry, offered some different chips I had in my room to her, but he claims I need to be punish...
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{ "description": "arguing with my mom over shaving my arms", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for arguing with my mom over shaving my arms?
To start off, I am not old enough to move out so I am currently dependent on my mom. I love my mom. She’s very hardworking and she does care for me. While we usually get along okay, we are both sometimes very stubborn people. I know from experience that my mom will absolutely not back down on even the smallest disagre...
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{ "description": "not going to a surprise party for a friend if its held on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for not going to a surprise party for a friend if its held on my birthday?
WIBTA? For clarity, I am kind of a people pleaser. I have struggled with self love for a while and I don't know if this would make me a bad person. There's a girl named Sydnie. She hasn't been friends with me for a while for a few reasons. I stood up for an ex she was constantly talking bad about, and she even had peop...
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{ "description": "pushing my depressed friend away", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pushing my depressed friend away?
So this is a situation that has been going on for years and I really don't know what to do about it anymore or if I have been handling it well or not, some people have told me I'm a bad friend and some people have told me I should just walk away but that's why I want to ask you guys what you think. So I met this guy o...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my mum for telling my dad's personal business", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my mum for telling my dad's personal business
AITA Backstory: my mum and dad divorced when I was one. My dad got married to a new woman about 5 years ago. So basically my dad confided in me that him and his wife have separated and will he going through divorce soon. He didn't want his parents knowing or anyone close to them as they are going through some issues...
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AITA uFor not doing my co-workers job while she smokes?
Some background, I (19m) just graduated high school and I work at a local restaurant as a cook. I have been there for a little under a year. For the most part I enjoy my job except for a few of my co-workers who don’t enjoy me much either. One of our managers has hired 3 of his kids to do various jobs at the restaura...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my Matchmaker MIL", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my Matchmaker MIL?
I recently posted about this is in a relationship advice subreddit but the post was seen by someone who recognized some of the details so I took it down. What are the odds? Anon for privacy sake. Fiance and I been together for 2 years, engaged for a few months. I love his family and they all seem to return the affecti...
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{ "description": "getting after my boyfriend about his driving", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting after my boyfriend about his driving?
We’ve been together for two months and hang out almost every day just because we get along so well - but his driving honestly freaks me out. He’s not the worst and I’m not one to talk because still I have to get my license, but the only time I really snap at him is when he is on the freeway or tailgating other people. ...
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{ "description": "making my friend pay for a school computer I had thathe broke", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making my friend pay for a school computer I had thathe broke?
My friend and i were fooling around during a break at school, and we were having a bit too much fun. Long story short he ended up tackling me and i landed on the ground facing up. My backpack was on my back at this time, and i didnt notice the broken computer untio my next class. When i arrived and opened my computer, ...
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AITA: paid friend to clean house with certain requirements. Requirements not met. Flipped out.
To provide some important backstory: I own a farm in the country. I have 21 dogs, and a few of them are human aggressive. People who come onto my property are under very strict instructions on which dogs to interact with. I have a breeding pair of dogs whose puppies are worth 2500 a pup. I have a friend who I offer...
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{ "description": "refusing to give spoilers", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to give spoilers?
So my sister usually puts on some TV shows as background noise when she's doing other stuff in the same room, and one particular show she tends to put on it one that I watch ahead of time through... other means. Occasionally I'll make some kind of noise at a line of dialogue, which makes her curious. When she'd ask why...
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{ "description": "not letting homeless friend stay over anymore", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting homeless friend stay over anymore?
For a bit of context and back story, I'm a single bisexual guy and live in a studio apartment on the third floor of my apartment complex, rent is cheap, or at least low enough to allow me a significant amount of disposable income. I share my place with my two dogs, whom I walk often when I'm there and whenever they nee...
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{ "description": "calling a student a brat", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling a student a brat
Throwaway because the last thing I need is a student finding my account. We're 6months into the school year and I see these kids practically everyday. I'm a pretty young teacher but try to keep it very professional. I have a reputation of being a really sweet teacher but with high expectations and strict with cussing ...
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{ "description": "telling my friends about leaving boxing", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friends about leaving boxing?
So basically I stopped being a competitive boxer after 6 years of training because I didn't like it, and I asked my closest boxer friends for support. (they live in different cities) After telling my coach on monday that I wanted to train for myself, yesterday, he told me to sit down and straight up scolded me because ...
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{ "description": "getting angry and yelling at my wife for secretly giving me laxatives", "pronormative_score": 78, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting angry and yelling at my wife for secretly giving me laxatives?
So I've been on the keto diet for the past couple of months and it has been great. More energy and weight loss. The only downside so far is I have been getting constipated fairly regularly. I told my wife about this a week or so ago and yesterday I had violent diarrhea. I started taking fiber supplements to make me go ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my boyfriend constantly making comments on any women we watch on tv", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being annoyed at my boyfriend constantly making comments on any women we watch on tv.
AITA for getting annoyed/being offended by my boyfriends comments. Context - whenever we watch a show or movie, if there is an average or above girl he ALWAYS has to comment on their looks. At times he will make even more dramatic comments such as “if you were dating someone that good looking you must know if you brok...
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{ "description": "telling my personal trainer I didn't want to work out with older women", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my personal trainer I didn't want to work out with older women?
This is on mobile so please forgive formatting issues. A few months ago I went from a very active job to a desk job and put on a little weight. I haven't been really happy with this so a few weeks ago I started going to a gym and meeting with a personal trainer. It was going great until the gym changed its rules on h...
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{ "description": "being 'racist' to my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being 'racist' to my girlfriend?
I was talking to my GF last night (I'm white, she's black) and we were playfully roasting each other. She was going on about my hair, etc, and grilling me for not responding and roasting her. I said "what's up with your flat ass nose, then?" and she laughed. Then she said "it's because I'm black, right?" (still laughin...
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{ "description": "not taking a dog that I was lied to about into my home", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not taking a dog that I was lied to about into my home?
I know this sounds much more simple in the title than it really is, but me and my girl friend feel like we’re going crazy. I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year and her, her mom, and her family have literally helped me out of such a deep situation. I love these people more than anything and I would do anything for t...
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{ "description": "telling my family that my condom slipped off during sex with my gf", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling my family that my condom slipped off during sex with my gf?
Me and my girlfriend were having sex in her car and I noticed the condom slipped off midway through. I put on another one and finished up but we were both worried that maybe precum could get her pregnant since I wasn't exactly sure when it fell off, so we discussed briefly the options for pregnancy before she dropped m...
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{ "description": "calling my friend out for continuing to talk trash about me in front of my other friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my friend out for continuing to talk trash about me in front of my other friend?
Before I go into the story, here's a little context. I found a group of people on my PS4 that I've started to play with a lot recently, and I had invited a friend I knew in real life, let's call him Josh, to our group. I've known Josh for a few years, and he's been an alright guy, but could get very negative at time...
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{ "description": "hating his fiance's favorite cologne and asking him not wear it", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating his fiance's favorite cologne and asking him not wear it?
Okay, so my fiance recently picked up a bottle Aeropostale Maximum (because apparently I'm marrying a high school jock?) He knows I can't stand it because he always over-applies (No Aeropostale cologne needs three spritzes, what is this, a boy's locker room?) and it gives me a headache and makes me feel like I'm suffoc...
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{ "description": "refusing to chip in gas money for a road trip", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA if I refuse to chip in gas money for a road trip?
A few weeks ago my roommate and I drove to Chicago for St. Patrick's Day. Usually for these trips, I would split the cost of gas with him, because he uses his car and it wouldn't be fair to ask him to front the cost of gas. We try to split everything and be as fair as possible. During the day, he told me that a friend ...
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{ "description": "not wanting friendship after she left me", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting friendship after she left me?
Ok, so this is my first post here and really my first major post of any kind on Reddit. Here goes.... At the beginning of February I started seeing this lovely lady that I had met on a dating website. We talked for a few days and we got along great and had plenty to talk about. We spent time with each other several ti...
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{ "description": "not playing games with a friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not playing games with a friend?
For context, we've been friends for nearly 2 years and have a great relationship, but we don't get to play video games together every day because he has a very terrible PC and not much free time. We have a small list of games that his PC can run and we switch between those to spice things up, but there's some times wh...
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{ "description": "asking her out while she's going through something", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking her out while she's going through something?
Ok so I've been talking to this girl on and off for a while. But recently in the last couple months we've been talking a lot and started hanging out and I started to really like her. I've asked her out on dates jokingly a bunch of times I just wanted to do the actual asking out in person. But then after almost 2 months...
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{ "description": "not sharing someone else's personal stories with my so", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not sharing someone else's personal stories with my SO
I was doing homework with my girlfriend one evening, we had separate subjects to focus on so it was mostly silent between us. I got a text from a friend of mine about something personal to them. I'm typically their only outlet for stress and advice, and this time happened to be more serious than incidents in the past. ...
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{ "description": "not telling a girl I was dating my age", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not telling a girl I was dating my age?
I’m on mobile just FYI. I’m a M (28) and I had just gotten into a relationship with a F (21) and I thought things were great but apparently I’m an asshole for hiding my age. Backstory: I’m 28 and decided to go back to school to finish my degree. One of my classes required a group paper to be turned in at the end o...
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{ "description": "calling out my friends because they always have a degrading insult about my lack of sports knowledge", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out my friends because they always have a degrading insult about my lack of sports knowledge.
A little background, I was never really into sports until my 30's. My friends have been their whole lives, so there's a stigma of me not knowing anything. I'm in a group chat, friend A text a pic of his parlay for nfl playoffs. Friend B says "I'm not big on the rams". Friend C says "cuz it's gonna rain"? I type "lol y...
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{ "description": "standing up at a concert while the people behind us keep asking us to sit down", "pronormative_score": 118, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA For standing up at a concert while the people behind us keep asking us to sit down?
So this happened last week and I’m still bewildered by it. We went to the Elton John concert at Madison Square Garden. It was a pretty large concert, and we were able to get seats on the floor. We were in one of the back sections on the floor, which consisted of chairs set up on risers to create a sloped seating arra...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my GF's coworker rides home from work with us", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to give my GF's coworker rides home from work with us?
GF works an evening shift and gets off work at 10pm. We only have one car, which I use for commuting. GF takes transit to work, but since I'm a 9-5 job I can always pick her up at 10. Recently one of her coworkers, a lady in her 50's, has starting asking for rides home with us. She lives fairly close to us, about 5 min...
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{ "description": "having a good time with my \"ex's\" friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having a good time with my "ex's" friend?
I'm guessing your immediate answer would be YTA but I'll give you the full story anyway. So me and this girl were friends and had a good night of fun before she went out of town for a few months. We kept in touch in hopes we could keep it going when she was back but when she returned she decided otherwise and we split...
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{ "description": "stopping breastfeeding", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stop breastfeeding?
This is probably a weird one lol but I actually got some really helpful feedback last time I posted here, so I wanted to try it again. I just had a baby on Feb 8th. She came via a scheduled c section and was a little over 3 weeks early. I always planned to breastfeed for at least a month because of the medicine I'm o...
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{ "description": "not visiting my mother in the hospital", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not visiting my mother in the hospital?
My mother verbally and physically abused me and my twin brother for 12 years, and because of this he specifically was traumatized, and has attachment issues, it also caused me to become depressed. We made a Mutual agreement with eachother to not visit her in the hospital. In the family groupchat we both announced this ...
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{ "description": "complaining about my husband's travel job", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for complaining about my husband's travel job?
TLDR: My husband's job should've been 30% travel, is really 70% and he won't commit to quitting if his boss keeps scheduling crappy travel. We live far away from everyone we know, I'm tired of being alone all the time with our kid. His work also prevents me from traveling for MY job. He tells me I'm a nag and to suck i...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend she's lying to herself", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend she's lying to herself?
Hi all, a little backstory; We are both 18, her family are quite close knit and share home-cooked family meals every night. I started seriously going to the gym and eating right after being tired of being skinny for the past year or so and wanted to change. My girlfriend did the same although she said she wanted to lo...
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AITA for not wanting to go to Thanksgiving after being called a Pedophile.
I (19M) still havn't decided if I'm going to go to Thanksgiving tonight or not. So a bit of back story is this. The day I turned 18yo I moved away for a job I had lined up. A few months back I moved back to my home town after a little over a year of not seeing my family at all only phone calls with my mom and aunt. W...
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{ "description": "ghosting a girl who has \"feelings\" for me because she is seeing other people", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I ghosted a girl who has "feelings" for me because she is seeing other people
First off I'm in High School, we are both 17 and are seniors at the same school we'll call her Taylor. We became friends about a year ago when we were in the same friend group. We connected over mental illness as we both have depression and we made a commitment early on to be there for each other if anything happens. ...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship because he's madly in love with me", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending a friendship because he's madly in love with me?
Obligatory mobile and non native english speaker disclaimer. I [18, F] used to be friends with this guy [19, M] from a city cca 5 hours away from mine for about 6 years. Most of that time our friendship was fine, up until he left for Thailand for a few months three years ago. When he came back he was really depresse...
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{ "description": "hating my roommate", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my roommate?
On mobile, apologies for formatting issues. Also, tldr at bottom. I've lived with her for five months on residence at school. There's three of us living together. In our suite we each have our own bedrooms and share a kitchen, living room, and bathroom. I'll state right off the bat that she's an international studen...
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{ "description": "not wanting a relationship with a girl after she broke up with her long distance boyfriend because she was cheating on him", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting a relationship with a girl after she broke up with her long distance boyfriend because she was cheating on him (with me)?
Title says it all. I was in my last year at school and what started as a hook up with a girl turned into something that last an entire year. We were inseparable and definitely loved each other. But the entire time she had a long distance boyfriend which she justified keeping because at the end of the year, I was gradua...
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{ "description": "making plans with friend then canceling after a possible snowstorm", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making plans with friend then canceling after a possible snowstorm
Okay so here it is. About a month ago I saw my favorite hockey team was playing in Detroit on Feb 17th. My best friend, Brad, who live 3 hours from me and 3 hours from Detroit had the idea to go to the game with my fiancee and me, as she is as big a hockey fan as I am. I agree and we make plans to go. After some time...
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{ "description": "outing someone but", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I outed someone but..
I will refer to my friend as A. Basically what happened is my friend came out to me as non binary a while ago. A put their new name in thier bio on thier art and vent account on Instagram (which was the main way I talked to them). They even made a post saying 'the next person who calls me (dead name) gets fucking shot....
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{ "description": "telling my wife she could lose a few pounds", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for telling my wife she could lose a few pounds?
She was trying on dresses for an upcoming wedding. She’s not as slim as she used to be, she’s actually gained maybe 30-40 lbs? It’s gotten to a point where I’d like her to lose some weight, although she isn’t obese I need her to lose the weight or atleast make an effort. She was trying to fit into smaller size dresse...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "cheating on someone who doesn't like \"affection\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 44 }
AITA for cheating on someone who doesn't like "affection"
So I've been dating this person for ages, and I mean ages, since high school. Since then they've always expressed disgust in kissing and an absolute off limits on sex or anything of that kind. I never cheated before then and I was underage when we first started dating so I've never actually had sex and it kind of wor...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "eating my boyfriends chocolate bar", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 13 }
WIBTA If I ate my boyfriends chocolate bar?
Obligatory on mobile, sorry for formatting. Background: my boyfriend bought two chocolate bars last week and put them in the freezer. Today was a bad day at work for me. I have bad cramps, I’m bloated, and it’s been two years to the day since I found out he was cheating on me. We’ve worked things out but today is st...
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{ "description": "spending the night at a friends house because it was so late", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: Spending the night at a friends house because it was so late
Sorry for any problems with formatting, this is my first time posting on this reddit and I'm on mobile. This has all happened within the last 24 hours, and I need to get it off my chest. I'm a 19 year old girl who still lives with her parents and has no curfew. Yesterday I spent the evening out with my friends. At ar...
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{ "description": "threatening to move to my grandparents if my mom doesn't find a new home for our cats", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for threatening to move to my Grandparents if my mom doesn't find a new home for our cats?
Grammar gonna be shitty its like 3 am. For further context Im 16 and live a few houses away from my grandparents. Im allergic to cats and we have like 6, their fur makes my eyes swell and messes with my eczema (i do get used to them after a month or two) . We've had cats for 4ish years and Ive always said that I hate t...
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AITA for not trust my gf when she stays at my friends house for uni
So for some context I've been with this girl for about 4 years (I'm 21 she's 22) and the relationship has been going pretty bloody well, I've been the happiest I've ever been and she isn't sick of me yet so I think I got keeper. For the past year and half she has been staying at my friends house wed - fri so rants she...
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{ "description": "taking a picture of a man on the train", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for taking a picture of a man on the train?
Long story short, I take the train to commute to work in the morning. Every morning there is this man who is sleeping in the same seat. For the last few months, every day I take a picture of him sleeping before I find my seat. This morning, the flash on my camera was on and he woke up and was upset that I was taking a...
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{ "description": "cursing my Co-Worker out", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cursing my Co-Worker out?
So I work at a 7/11 3rd shift we aren't suppose to let people in the restroom from 10pm and 6am except officers and for our use. I keep getting written up multiple times for letting people use the restroom even though I dont give anyone a key and it's my co worker who does it. I've told my manager countless times who i...
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{ "description": "triggering my sister", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for triggering my sister?
Basically, we were arguing about where to go shopping. I wanted to go to a big city, and it would involve public transport, while she wanted to go to our city, wich meant we would go walking. At one point she told me that we should go where she wanted if only in order for me to exercise, as I'm putting on weight and I'...
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{ "description": "not going to friends houses who's parents don't agree with my lifestyle choices", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to friends houses who’s parents don’t agree with my lifestyle choices?
My friends always want me to come over and stay the night and/or hang out. I love my friends, but it just so happens that all three of my best friends parents hate/disagree with lesbians and vegans. Only one of the families is religious, but I don’t feel comfortable going over to any of their houses. Friends A’s pare...
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{ "description": "telling a woman's husband about her infidelity via an anonymous letter", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for telling a woman’s husband about her infidelity via an anonymous letter ?
I was having an affair with woman #1 who is married for about 6 months when I met woman #2 and began dating her. After a few dates I knew I wanted to make this work and told woman #1 it was over. She said she was happy for me but I know she was hurt and jealous (hard to believe she’s jealous when she’s married right)? ...
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EVERYBODY
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 10 }
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{ "description": "cutting my mother-in-law out of my sons life? t", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for cutting my mother-in-law out of my sons life? T
My MIL is a horrible beast. She is the epitome of “pity party, poor me, the world revolves around me” type of person. She literally lives 4 minutes away from us, but has seen her grandson once in the last 6 months. She’s also the type to post on Facebook those dumb-ass “I love being a grandma, my grandchild is my life”...
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{ "description": "reporting my brother to the police", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reporting my brother to the police?
I was sexually abused by my older brother (4.5 years older) for nearly 5 years when I was a kid. I only told my parents about it when I was 12, and they just swept it all under the rug. Like, they didn't involve the police or CPS, they didn't separate us or put us in counseling- nothing. They were extremely religious a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to live with my parents after they decide to shift to the same city as mine", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to live with my parents after they decide to shift to the same city as mine?
So, I am a 31 year old Indian man working in a well established metro city with decent pay. My parents decided to move to the same city I work in because of their financial troubles. Unlike Western and European countries, it's fairly common for adults to stay with their parents in India. We believe in staying with the ...
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{ "description": "sharing someone else's sheet music", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I shared someone else’s sheet music?
There’s a particular piano piece I love so very, very much that has one particularly good transcription, but the author isn’t offering the sheet music for sale or otherwise. They did, however, post a synthesia (scrolling piano notes) video on YouTube for the entire piece, without including a MIDI, even though the title...
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{ "description": "not listening to my roommate", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not listening to my roommate?
For context, my roommate has been going under a lot of stress? I guess lately. Her young nephew that she sees a lot has gotten sick, and she's pretty worried for him. She also has to babysit her other autistic nephew on weekends, so she doesn't get much free time in between caring for them, cooking, cleaning, and study...
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{ "description": "stopping contact", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for stopping contact
I ended my friendship with someone I thought to be very well with. The whole story took place at the beginning of september and I'd love to pretend I am over it, but since I am still thinking about it occaisonally, I can safely assume I do regret at least a tiny bit. We know each other for 3 years and have been toget...
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{ "description": "wanting to have an affair with a married woman", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for wanting to have an affair with a married woman?
So there's this girl I've known for a long time. She is married to a guy I know, who I'm not that close with or fond of. She doesn't look very happy and I strongly believe that she's into me. Now, usually I wouldn't count these as enough reason to ask someone to cheat on their husband over, but in this case since her h...
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{ "description": "retightening my wife's screws", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for retightening my wife's screws?
Last week my wife and I moved apartments, and a large part of that was going to IKEA and buying a bunch of new stuff. Over the weekend, while she unpacked, I put together a bed, two nightstands, a shelving unit and a shoe cabinet. The last thing I had to put together was a new desk for myself, and the only chance I had...
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{ "description": "allowing my boyfriend's son to cuddle/fall asleep with me", "pronormative_score": 173, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for allowing my boyfriend's son to cuddle/fall asleep with me
My boyfriend and I live together and we have his son every other week. We've only lived together for a few months but I've been present in his life for the last 2 years. My boyfriend was out for a few hours and his son and I were watching TV. I was lying on the couch and his son was sitting on the floor, but after a b...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at my family for not being supportive of my weight loss", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting pissed at my family for not being supportive of my weight loss?
*Mobile, sorry in advance Background: I’m a 16 y/o male whose been chubby my entire life. My family never seemed to judge me about it, but they were all for me trying to lose weight. My entire family is overweight. I started my weight loss on December 2nd, with an initial BMI percentile of 94. (0-5 Malnourished, 5-15 ...
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OTHER
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