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{ "description": "dropping a friend who was unintentionally hurting me at the time", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dropping a friend who was unintentionally hurting me at the time?
So, I've been friends with this dude for a while. We would message a lot, He's like an older brother to me. Mid last year my mental health was deteriorating *fast.* And it still is pretty downhill. The dude would frequently ignore my messages despite being online (which is a big trigger for my anxiety and can cause ba...
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{ "description": "taking breath of the wild out of a broken switch I recieved from a random person", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 18 }
Aita for taking breath of the wild out of a broken switch I recieved from a random person.
I work at a hospital and we were having this toy drive and i was at the desk by myself when this guy comes in with a switch and says hes trying to get it sent to the hospital for kids. I take the switch and I'm about to place it in the toy drive but they had removed the box a few days earlier. So i turn in on and the s...
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{ "description": "being upset at my boyfriend for not being honest about his date in an open relationship", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset at my boyfriend for not being honest about his date in an open relationship?
Throwaway account for reasons. ​ So my (27F) boyfriend (28 M) and I have been in an open relationship ever since we met and are getting married in a couple months. We both do not believe in monogamy and are cool with each other having fwbs and casual dates. Trust, honesty and openness has been a major part...
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{ "description": "sharing breakup thoughts with my girlfriend right when she gave me a Valentine's gift", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 87 }
AITA for sharing breakup thoughts with my girlfriend right when she gave me a Valentine's gift?
Basically what happened is that my girlfriend texted me at the campus that she wants to see me, we met and she surprised me with a Valentine's gift. I decided to open it later on my own and just sit and talk to her. I don't know why but I shared some "what if" thoughts with her about breaking up and how our relationsh...
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{ "description": "wishing that my girlfriend were into dancing", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wishing that my girlfriend were into dancing?
Throwaway because people here know my original. ​ I've been a dancer for several years. I love dancing. It is not only a hobby to me, but a way of life. My girlfriend loves me and supports me in every way possible. She willingly accompanies me to dance events. She doesn't like dancing, though. I feel rea...
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{ "description": "being irritated with my boy crazy friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being irritated with my boy crazy friend?
A little background. Me and this girl (let’s call her Julia) have been friends since our childhood. We call each other sisters. I would do anything for her! Anyways, so Julia now goes to a different high school , but I invited her to go to Six Flags or some things with my new friends( girls and guys). But I started t...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at my friend and his family in their house", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting pissed at my friend and his family in their house?
A few important things first, I live on my friend's couch right now because it was that or end up homeless. He was kind enough to allow me to sleep on his couch rent free until I'm able to afford an apartment myself. I'm extremely grateful for it, and plan on paying him back when able. The rules laid down for me were ...
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{ "description": "refusing to associate with my cousin because he won't denounce his gang or get a legal job", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - For refusing to associate with my cousin because he won't denounce his gang or get a legal job?
Requesting that only people who have been in similar situations respond (obviously for those who have no gang affiliated family the answer would likely be NTA). **Background:** I (F25) love my cousin (M26). We're extremely close and he's basically a brother. He grew up with a hard life. He had a single mother who has ...
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{ "description": "having a big party for our 10th anniversary", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I had a big party for our 10th anniversary?
We had a very small wedding (court house, only our parents were there) and only a slightly bigger reception a month later. I figured after 10 years we'd do more of a bigger friend's and family, re do our vows, dance party, etc. The hubs thinks this is an a-hole move and no one should come. I think i's a nice way ...
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{ "description": "sticking to my guns that an artist twerking on stage instead of performing is hoe sh", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for sticking to my guns that an artist twerking on stage instead of performing is hoe sh**?
Was talking with the wife how I enjoy this artist for focusing music instead of looks or sex, and went on to say I feel an artist who during her set, stopped mixing and twerked was "doing hoe shit". Now I'm all for women (and men) to act however they want. But when you act a way, things come along with it. I made it ...
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{ "description": "being upset about my sisters venue choice for her rehearsal dinner", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset about my sisters venue choice for her rehearsal dinner?
(Typing this on mobile and also first time poster, so sorry about any formatting issues!) So my sister is getting married soon and I’m the youngest person both in the bridal party and at the wedding. I’m 20 and she is in her 30s. She picked the rehearsal dinner venue to be in a bar, and when I found that out I looke...
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{ "description": "overreacting to grinding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for overreacting to grinding
So, this is my first post and I'm kinda nervous. I'm currently 17 and there is this thing that has been bothering me recently because I saw the person who did this to me. When I was about 13, I was on the school cafeteria and it was pretty crowded and I was in the middle of it. This dude started to grind on me whil...
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{ "description": "ratting my sister out to my mom", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ratting my sister out to my mom?
One of my little sisters (14F) has sort of gone off the rails— sneaking out to smoke weed and have sex with much older guys, juuling constantly to the point of addiction, being a total bitch to my parents, etc. I’m currently in college so I can’t be at home to talk to her or deal with her behavior directly, and my othe...
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AITA for what I said about a kid's temper tantrums?
I (26M) do not have kids. I do not particularly like kids. I am pretty up front about this. A close friend (28F) has a 4 year old son. As four year olds are wont to do, he sometimes throws temper tantrums when he doesn't get his way. Most recently, he was told that he couldn't have tacos for dinner, so he threw himse...
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{ "description": "being depressed and not immediately telling my now Ex-friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being depressed and not immediately telling my now Ex-friends
I had a falling out with my now Ex-friends a few months ago but it still bugs me . ​ The story is: ​ Last Summer i became severly depressed. There was no traumatic event or anything leading up to this but i just couldn't function anymore. So i didn't notice it immediately because i told mys...
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{ "description": "not letting her save 8 seats", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting her save 8 seats
(Mobile apologize) So this happened a little bit ago at my school. We had a speaker and so we all went in to the multi purpose center, witch was set up with chairs. There were only enough chairs for about half of us to sit. One girl had gotten in early, and was trying to save a full row, the front row no less. The row...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed with my boyfriend for leaving without saying goodbye", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting annoyed with my boyfriend for leaving without saying goodbye
My boyfriend (M22) is going away tomorrow for a holiday and I (F21) was suppose to be going out with him tonight. I got a message from him today saying that he has gone a day early to go and get high with his housemates friends from home and he left without saying goodbye. AITA for being annoyed with him?
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{ "description": "blocking and moving on from a friend of 7 years", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA to block and move on from a friend of 7 years?
So this Is a little complicated, but it’s been playing on my mind so I thought I’d ask the expanse of the internet. A friend of mine Allie* (21F) has been my (21F) best friend since we were 14 at high school. She’s always been a little competetive with me for whatever reason, and thankfully competing with me for a guy...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my mom over banana bread", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting angry at my mom over banana bread?
First of all, I'm 25, and I live with my mother. We're not American, and culturally, it's the appropriate/expected living arrangement. Just to clear up any potential misunderstanding that I'm some kind of lazy freeloader. So basically, I'm on a diet. This morning, I asked my mother, who was running some errands, to pi...
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{ "description": "not paying my mom's water bill", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not paying my mom's water bill?
So on Thursday my mother calls me asking me to do her a favor and pay the water bill on her house because the township has put a lien on the property. She wasn't able to go to the municipal building and do it that day before it closed. I have no idea why she didn't do it earlier (We live with my step-dad but she still ...
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{ "description": "not seeing my sisters new dog", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not seeing my sisters new dog?
My sister got a new dog today and called the family out to see him. I chose not to meet him. The issue i am having is my sister is never home, her 3 kids are at our mothers house after school till bed time and weekends. She already has my 2 cats (I had to move in with mom) and is not taking care of them and another ...
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{ "description": "wanting to come along to a concert", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to come along to a concert
Hello Reddit, just thought I'd run this by you all. ​ So there's a concert to one of my favorite bands, (not all-time but still incredible group) and they're coming to my city in 4 months. ​ My boyfriend wants to go, and he talked to a friend of his/ours (40's) (my boyfriend is 19, I'm 20) an...
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{ "description": "starting parking on two spots at this new mall with very narrow parking spaces", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
WIBTA if I started parking on two spots at this new mall with very narrow parking spaces?
Hello everyone, a few months ago a new mall opened in my city and it has very narrow parking spots. Even if you park perfectly you can barely get out of your car. Just for the record i have a Audi A4 from 2008 so its not a big car. Almost every time i went there i could barely get in my car when i wanted to leave, I w...
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{ "description": "telling this guy that he handled our situation immaturely", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told this guy that he handled our situation immaturely
I’ve been dating this guy for a couple weeks and started having some symptoms, so I went to the doctor and was diagnosed with chlamydia. I haven’t had sex with anyone else in almost a year and was tested 6 months ago, so I know it came from him. I let him know and things were fine for a few days. He got tested and was...
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{ "description": "flirting with and sexting a bunch of girls", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for flirting with and sexting a bunch of girls?
So, for most of my adolescence, I've been really fat, and kind of a creep. I had no idea how to express myself or talk to girls or anything, and they sure as hell wouldn't approach me. Since I turned 18 though, I've really turned my life around. I've lost 20 pounds, and learned to take care of myself and dress nice. Th...
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{ "description": "not hugging my female co-workers", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not hugging my female co-workers
I am being accused of being sexist at work for hugging my male co-workers and not my female co-workers. This has been ongoing problem since I started work a year ago, and people are accusing me of being sexist for not wanting to hug my female co-workers. I don’t treat them differently, I engage in handshakes and conver...
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{ "description": "not wanting to attend my estranged sister's wedding", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to attend my estranged sister's wedding?
I don't want to give out many personal details, and this drama has spanned so many years that a full retelling would take hours to type, so I'll try and summarize as best I can. Suffice it to say, I'm the eldest of three siblings, and we have never been close. I haven't spoken to my sister since 2014 when she said she...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend around my friends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriend around my friends?
Now, I realize how it sounds - and it's really not good. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, however we've been friends for nearly 3 years before any romance started. He knows who I'm friends with, he's met them, and even was in a groupchat with all of us for a while. Initially, I was really excited t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for a concert ticket", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for a concert ticket?
I have a friend that was going to buy four concert tickets for a group of us. She was supposed to buy them several weeks before the event. Everytime I followed up with her (did you buy them yet? How much do I owe you?) She had not purchased them and just kept saying she would get to it. The day before the event she m...
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{ "description": "being upset with my girlfriend that she's rarely on time", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset with my girlfriend that she's rarely on time?
I'm annoyed that my girlfriend is rarely on time for things, especially if we decide to go somewhere together (we live together). She'll tell me that she will be ready in ten minutes but she can take anywhere from 15 minutes to an hour to actually be ready, this usually means that I'm sitting around waiting for us to ...
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{ "description": "cheating on most of my college exams", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for cheating on most of my college exams?
First of all, let me excuse myself for all the mistakes in this text, English is not my first language. I\[20f\] am studying Business Administration and for the past 2 years and a half I have cheated on 80% of my exams. I'm doing pretty well in finance and mathematics and those are topics i never cheat in because the...
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{ "description": "asking people where they're from", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for asking people where they’re from?
I live in the US but was born in Poland, and came here when I was still pretty young so I don’t have an accent. Sometimes when I’m out and about I’ll run into people with thick or slight Eastern European accents and I’ll ask, “so.... where are you from?” In hopes of meeting a fellow Pole abroad. I feel like a majority...
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{ "description": "yelling at my housekeeper", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for yelling at my housekeeper?
I have always been so kind to my housekeeper - who helps clean the house and prepare dinner for my parents. I come home almost every weekend to see my parents or even just to have one dinner with them. So as my housekeeper was preparing tonight’s dinner, I was combing my dog’s hair, squatting on the floor near the din...
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AITA here? Girlfriend's ex sent her a dick pic and I sent it to his gf.
So... yeah. LOL. Title says it all but I will elaborate. I am 26M, girlfirend is 24F and her ex is 24M. ​ Girlfriend broke up with her ex a year ago and started dating me shortly after (two months later). He was incredibly bitter about it all which is understandable, but she cut of all contact with him as ...
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{ "description": "not moving into an emtpy plane seat", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not moving into an emtpy plane seat?
I'm sitting in one of the middle seats of a plane with a 3-4-3 layout, so a seat in row F. The guy to the right of me, next to the aisle, got to move seats to somewhere else in the plane. Later on, the flight attendant came back to ask me if I wanted to move to the free seat next to the aisle. I said no, because I hate...
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{ "description": "not always putting kitchen utensils in the exact same spot", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for not always putting kitchen utensils in the exact same spot?
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{ "description": "refusing to go on vacation", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to go on vacation ?
So....me and DH have a 15-month old. Prior to having her, we were avid travelers, used to take multiple vacations every year. She has some developmental delays, isn't walking yet, eats only a few solid foods, and nurses 4-5 times during the night. As a result, I haven't really slept in a looooong time, and I make som...
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{ "description": "subjecting 3 unwitting \"friends\" to the world's hottest chocolate bar", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for subjecting 3 unwitting "friends" to the world's hottest chocolate bar?
This was a few months ago, for context, I’m a student in high school, attending a boarding school here in my hometown. I didn't connect with anyone, everyone just kinda steered clear of me, and I did the same. The exception being three girls, let's call them Louise, Victoria, and Danielle. It was lunch one day when th...
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{ "description": "drinking out of my coworker's \"World's Greatest Dad Mug\"", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 142 }
AITA for drinking out of my coworker's "World's Greatest Dad Mug"?
There is a random collection of mugs in the breakroom at my office. They mostly say stupid stuff like "This is Totally Wine," "Live Laugh Love," and "Strategic Planning Seminar '16." I have never heard or seen any rules about mug usage. For as long as I have worked here, mugs have been taken on a first-come, first-s...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go my bf's family christmas party", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting to go my bf's family christmas party?
My bf and i have been together for almost 8 years. His family is very important to him. Every holiday his entire family (like 60 people) get together. I am loud, curse, overall HUGE personality. I do get along with most people and can make most laugh. I am deff the type of person that doesn't care what others think o...
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{ "description": "being harsh about ending a friendship with a coworker", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being harsh about ending a friendship with a coworker?
As always, there’s more to the story than the title. Throwaway ti protect my main Reddit but I could give two fucks if someone I know reads this. Some background info: I’ve listened to this coworker bitch and moan endlessly for months. She always wants to bitch to me about something and even times when I felt like he...
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{ "description": "not giving my friends free food after I payed for it", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not giving my friends free food after I payed for it
Im at my friends house when some girls show up. Im fine w them being there but i know that when my dominos comes they gon be all over that shit. They always show up at peoples houses and expect free food. When the dominos came they all huddled around the food, after previously being on the other side of the room. Thi...
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{ "description": "using someone else's trashcan", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for using someone else's trashcan?
So I usually take my dog for hour long walks/runs throughout the week. Sometimes while we are out, the dog needs to releave herself in a random yard. I always carry poop bags, and always make sure to pick up after her. The issue is, if we are only 20 minutes into an hour walk, I will throw the poop bag into a trashcan....
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{ "description": "refusing to give money to someone who potentially really needed it", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing to give money to someone who potentially really needed it?
I was at the grocery store earlier and a man approached me. He was of Asian descent and spoke with what sounded like a thick Vietnamese accent. He looked like he was in his forties. The man stared at me with a "Have we met?" face before the following conversation ensued. Note that I do not recall our encounter word-for...
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{ "description": "saying my mom eats a shit diet after she threw out my elk", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for saying my mom eats a shit diet after she threw out my elk?
I don't support factory farming so I hunt my own meat. I gave my mom pounds of elk at Christmas. I went over to her house today for the first time since Christmas and she said she threw it all out because she didn't like it while she is serving is some antibiotic steroid diseased cow from the grocery store. I flipped ...
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{ "description": "making my friends get off their phones", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making my friends get off their phones?
So, for context. A few friends and I are in a D&D campaign that my boyfriend is the DM for. We've been playing off and on for about three years, and since we're all full-time students it's very hard to get us all free and in the same location for any amount of time. As anyone does, sometimes we'll check our phones ...
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{ "description": "making my boyfriend stop a Snapchat streak with his ex", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making my boyfriend stop a Snapchat streak with his ex?
This happened over a year ago, but it is still brought up to me by my friends and by my boyfriend sometimes so I thought I would ask here. My boyfriend (I'll just call him Cole) had a 300+ day streak with his ex girlfriend (I'll call her Allie). It continued after they broke up because they were friends and I was fine ...
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{ "description": "leaving my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my friend
Okay so first some backstory when my friend (let's just call him Jake) and I were still in the same school. He would slap my ass real hard everytime I had his back faced to him. In the toilet. Refilling my water. Even walking up the stairs. Not only that sometimes he would just jab my asshole real hard for no reason an...
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{ "description": "denying my GF sex because we were behind on cleaning", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for denying my GF sex because we were behind on cleaning?
So I (20M) stay in my GF's (21F) house most nights. Recently, between 2 warm bodies living in her small house, and her depression, the house has gotten very messy. Of course, this hasn't helped her depression at all. I've made it a top priority of mine to clean up her house to make her feel better. She knows this, and...
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{ "description": "calling someone else an asshole", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling someone else an asshole
This story just happened today. Also, I'm on mobile so please excuse any errors I make. So I'm a freshman in high school and I just got done with my phys Ed class. We're near the end of class and everyone is just ready to leave. I'm wearing a hat which is important soon. These Seniors are next to me and one of them, I...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to the same gay night club as my brother when he is asking me not to", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to go to the same gay night club as my brother when he is asking me not to.
I had planned to go with a couple of friends and I asked him if he wanted to join us, he told me I couldn't go because he had already planned to go the same night and if I went he won't be able to be "him self". We are fraternal twins,18, both M, both gay. we have Been to many parties and clubs together and it was n...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to stop texting me \"K\"", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I asked my girlfriend to stop texting me "K"?
I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months now and it's become pretty clear she's not a great texter. As in, a lot of her texting feels robotic; less like a conversation between two friends (or in this case, a couple) and more like a conversation between business partners who organize meetings from time to time...
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{ "description": "being angry at my wife cause she got wasted when we have ao old", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for being angry at my wife cause she got wasted when we have a 2mo old..
Okay, first post here.. so I'll try to get right to the point. Am I the asshole for being angry with my wife because she went out and got wasted with friends? I understand as new parents we both will need our own space sometimes which is fine. I told her to go out and have fun, which she replied she wouldn't be out t...
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{ "description": "wanting to distance myself from my best friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to distance myself from my best friend?
This is going to be a bit of a long story because I'm fairly anxious about the whole thing and probably rambling on for a lot of it, so sorry in advance. Okay SO just a few things for context. Me (22F) and my friend (25F, let's call her Mary) have been friends for years. We lived together during college and know eve...
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{ "description": "breaking things off the day after we had sex", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA If I Broke Things Off The Day After We Had Sex?
So I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, super bubbly, weird and scatterbrained but in a cute way. We started talking this past weekend, really hit it off, and ended up having sex tonight. There's a lot of baggage that comes with her which I don't usually have a problem with, but she also kept saying how she really do...
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{ "description": "feeling like a wailing wall and demanding superfluous whining to stop", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling like a wailing wall and demanding superfluous whining to stop?
When an SO or family gets very agitated at one of life's grievances I usually first acknowledge this by saying something like "it's ok, yes i understand", etc. But when it then extends into ranting and whatever happened is out of our control, is it wrong to feel like a punching bag and having a problem with this? Do I ...
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{ "description": "pulling ahead in the right lane", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pulling ahead in the right lane
My commute home use to be through rush hour traffic. Everyday cars would line up like lemmings in the left lane three intersections away because two lanes would merge into one and no one wanted to be the "asshole". This would drive me nuts. The right lane would be completely empty THREE intersections away because every...
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Aita? Aita for being annoyed husband masturbated to instead of having sex with me? [NSFW]
Sorry for formatting on mobile & throwaway for embarrassment. After dinner, my husband and I went to bed. I tried coming onto him and he said "can we after a nap? I'm very tired." I said sure. While I did not expect to also fall asleep, I did. I forgot to set an alarm for myself and woke up a couple of hours later...
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{ "description": "not being there for my ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being there for my ex
Alright so some context for our relationship and why we broke up. I am a fairly depressed individual and so was she, however she was also fairly abusive and the only reason, towards the last third of the relationship, of me sticking around was to try to make sure she didn't hurt herself. So when I left it was because I...
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{ "description": "leaving a meeting when the conversation derails into banter", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving a meeting when the conversation derails into banter ?
Can’t do it. I feel like it’s a waste of my time but it’s still a “ meeting “ ???
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{ "description": "having sex with my late wife's younger sister", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for having sex with my late wife's younger sister?
I (36M) was married to my wife (same age) for 6 years until she passed away in March 2016. Quick backstory - we met while I was deployed to Iraq in 2008 (former USMC, she was with an NGO), and it just sort of happened. It was a pretty intense time in both our lives, and we didn't intend to stay together after all was s...
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{ "description": "having a problem with the real reason my best friend doesn't use the n word", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for having a problem with the real reason my best friend doesn't use the N word?
Here's some background info- Im Black, and my best friend is Mexican. She and I are very close, been friends for years. She's met my extended family (all Black) and has always been welcome in my family's home. She gets invited to family activities and dinners and things like that. We basically consider her family and ...
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{ "description": "kicking my roommate out and putting all his shit to the street while he is in the hospital", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for kicking my roommate out and putting all his shit to the street while he is in the hospital?
My roommate moved in my house with my husband and I. My husband was the manager of a pizza restaurant and he was one of the employees. He was living with his girlfriend's parents so they kicked him out when they broke up. In November of 2018. In December my husband passed away so now it is just the two of us. I agreed...
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{ "description": "wanting natural disasters to happen to my town", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For wanting natural disasters to happen to my town?
A bit of backstory I’ve always loved natural disasters. When the tsunami in japan happened I watched all the YouTube videos of the tsunami devouring the city’s and country areas. During hurricane katrina I watched the news coverage as much as possible. I’ve always wanted to see a tsunami like that, a hurricane like tha...
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{ "description": "not liking my gift", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not liking my gift?
(For some clarification, yes, this is very similar to the post from u/fullpilot . They reminded me of this event and I didn't know where to post it until now.) So my 18th birthday was last Thursday, January 31st. And I come from a somewhat well-off family. For my sister's 16th birthday a few years back, she got a $1...
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{ "description": "insisting that the dinner table of ten guest speak the common language of the region so I dont feel left out of the conversation", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for insisting that the dinner table of ten guest speak the common language of the region so I dont feel left out of the conversation?
The context here is that all the guests speak their native tongue, a foreign language. I dont speak it. I know that they speak the local language too. It appears rude they they have an opportunity to include me in their conversation, but have chosen not to, by speaking only in their native tongue. AITA for insisti...
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{ "description": "arguing for equality or atleast I hope", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA arguing for equality or atleast i hope. (Double whammy)
- On Instagram i generally get into a lot of debates in my spare time for some fun and to help my english and stat work since theres usually alot of homework involved - i go onto Tessas post, its a comic panel conveying equality between both men and women. Seems good enough, its a movement i am involved in -- egalitar...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my best friends ex gf", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for sleeping with my best friends ex gf?
So my bestfriend/roomate was dating this girl that he met from our job (we both work at the same UPS hub). He works the evening shift, while I work the graveyard shift and there's this girl I saw that I was really attracted to. I was reluctant to approach her because I am her indirect supervisor ( She wasn't my dedicat...
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{ "description": "causing tension with my friends boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for causing tension with my friends Boyfriend?
Forgive formatting and spelling, I'm on mobile. Obviously most quotes will be slightly paraphrased, but display the truth as I perceived it. To make a long story short, I've had a co-worker that has also been a good friend for about a year now. We'll call her Bee. She's been dating a man for about 6-8 months now, and ...
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{ "description": "denying for FWB sexual advances", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for denying for FWB sexual advances?
So heads up i know consent is always key and I have the absolute trust my FWB(29m) believes in consent. With that said he’s been pressuring me a lot lately saying how he doesn’t want our relationship to be only sex based. Today he hits me up telling me his penis will be out of commission tonight (he has a medical con...
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{ "description": "hitting on my best friend's gf shortly before their soon-to-be breakup", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for hitting on my best friend's gf shortly before their soon-to-be breakup?
TL;DR: Best friend's gf plans to break up with him and tells me so over a phone call. I'm lonely and have a nice chat with her. Says she may like me very much. Me is mostly thinking about sex, for the sake of friendship (?), no relationship. AITA for technically flirting with a girl in a failed relationship? On mob...
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{ "description": "not wanting my gf to be on my troupe", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting my GF to be on my troupe?
Hi guys so quick background My GF and I have been dating for 2.5 years now, and everything is going great, we're happy together, love each other all that good stuff. We're both at the Same University and both 3rd years. My 1st year I got together with some friends of mine and started a comedy improv team, and we've gro...
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{ "description": "hating watching movies with my wife", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating watching movies with my wife?
I love movies. Always have - all types of movies. My wife cannot stop talking during movies whether in the theater or at home. Who’s that guy? Is that the same lady from Harry Potter? Oh I love his shirt. She’s so pretty. That’s mean - why did he do that? Is he going to die? The music is so pretty! On, and on, and ...
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{ "description": "wanting to go somewhere with my gf", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go somewhere with my GF
I’ve been with my GF for 7 years, we started dating in High school grade 12. Along the road since we come from conservative cultures her parents found out that she was texting me late at night when we were 17 and her parents basically told her to dump and never talk to me again. But we continued to do so in secret. Ev...
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{ "description": "expecting my boyfriend to accompany me to a research hospital for my rare health condition", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting my boyfriend to accompany me to a research hospital for my rare health condition?
Hey guys, I apologize in advance for the wall of text but I'm quite lost and hurt at the moment. My boyfriend \[28\] and I \[27\] have been dating for 1.5 years and for the most part he has been a kind and supportive boyfriend, although he hasn't taken much of an interest in my ongoing rare health condition. Without ...
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{ "description": "not siding with my girlfriend when her dad wouldn't buy her ice cream", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not siding with my girlfriend when her dad wouldn’t buy her ice cream?
Mobile So I’m on spring break with my girlfriend and her dad, and we drove by an ice cream place where my girlfriend said she wanted some ice cream. Her dad said maybe later, and the subject was dropped. Later at dinner she asked about the ice cream, and her dad responded with “ive paid for everything this week, we’re...
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{ "description": "snitching on my brother-in-law to his mother", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for snitching on my brother-in-law to his mother?
So I realise the title reads like something you would expect in a school playground but hear me out. Due to certain circumstances during the holidays when my fiancée and I are home from University, we both stay at her family's house with her brother and mother. Her brother is, to put it simply, a bit of a dick. He wa...
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{ "description": "booking a flight without agreeing on said date with my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I book a flight without agreeing on said date with my friends.
So about a month ago I asked on of my friends, let’s call her M, if she wanted to come with me on a trip to a different state (like a 2 and a bit hour flight), and we thought of asking another friend of ours, let’s call her C, if she wanted to come with us because she has gone before and she could give us a tour or som...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend not to surprise me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend not to surprise me?
So this literally just happened/is happening. For context, we're both males if that makes any difference. My boyfriend is the type of guy who likes to do surprises. Now I've no issue with being bought a surprise gift or having a surprise dinner made for me or anything like that, but I do have an issue when it comes ...
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{ "description": "telling my nephew if he hurts my daughter he'll be arrested", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my nephew if he hurts my daughter he’ll be arrested?
He (five) was running around and JUMPING OVER my daughter and almost hurt her. So his sister (nine) and I told him to stop and he kept saying he didn’t get close to her (which is a lie) and I said if he hurts her doing that Pa (my dad) will tell his stepdad who’s a cop and he would arrest him for hurting the baby. My ...
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AITAH for say that if I was ever mostly paralyzed that to kill me.
Earlier today I was talking with my friend and we got on if one of us were to get fully paralyzed or high symptoms of memory loss / inability to function. When we got on this I mentioned how if that was to ever happen to me I would make sure that in my will I would have a clause to say if anything like that happened ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend time with my mother's husband because we have nothing in common", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend time with my mother's husband because we have nothing in common?
My mother remarried when I was 18 after being a single mother for years. I'm 32 now. Recently my mother decided that my choice of spouse and my spouse's religion did not align with her expectations, so she cut me out of her life last winter. Fwiw, she's sent a few texts saying she loves me, but also refuses to apolog...
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{ "description": "telling my bf to lay off the porn", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my bf to lay off the porn?
Mobile so pls excuse my formatting. I strongly believe my boyfriend is addicted to porn. He has thousands of pictures of hentai in his gallery and always has at least 20 pornhub, brazzers, or other porn tabs open on his phone for him to come back to. Sometimes he saves porn he finds aesthetically pleasing or well draw...
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{ "description": "wanting to Break-up with my consistently Sad [depressed?] GF", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For Wanting to Break-Up With My Consistently Sad [Depressed?] GF?
TLDR at the bottom. ​ I've been dating this girl for three years. In the beginning it was cute she had a lot of problems and I was her "savior." I admit I may have made her more reliant on me than was necessary. She hated the school she was going to and complained that her life sucked and "nothing ever wo...
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{ "description": "requesting my undergraduate office to keep me a make up exam for a failed course", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for requesting my Undergraduate office to keep me a make up exam for a failed course?
I am in my 5th year. I got a good enough job when I completed 4th year in an investemnt bank, a completely unrelated field. I got that job because I pursued for it independently outside the famous selections. But later I found out that I still did not complete necessary credits to obtain the degree. So I informed my Jo...
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{ "description": "choosing to not speak to one of my best friends/ roommates for ongoing behavior", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing to not speak to one of my best friends/ roommates for ongoing behavior?
So my friend and I have been super close for like five years now, but living together for only a year. In that one year though I've grown to not like his behavior. We run with a very tight knit group that all know who the type of person he is, and when you don't see him as much, is a great guy. But he's had a histor...
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{ "description": "telling my opinion and getting 6 girls (some of the most popular, most likely will tell others) to hate me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling my opinion and getting 6 girls (Some of the most popular, most likely will tell others) to hate me?
None of the names in this post are real. So here is how it goes. It starts off by Brenna messaging me on instagram saying “Hey” and I say Hi back. We talk normally and then I ask if I can rant. She says sure and I rant about another situation and I say I am done. I then tell her to rant about something. She then say...
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{ "description": "falling out with my partner because they made me cancel my plans", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for falling out with my partner because they made me cancel my plans?
Today I was supposed to meet friends for a meal and a few drinks. They don't come through to my area often as they live quite far away. My partner requested that we cancel our plans as she wanted to take it easy and take a break from alcohol as she over indulged during the festive period. I agreed and cancelled my pl...
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{ "description": "not helping my ex through our breakup", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my ex through our breakup?
Okay so there is a lot of backstory and nuance to this, but I'll try to explain it as easy as possible. A few details are changed or excluded for anonymity purposes. I dated a guy for about a year and a half and throughout the relationship, he became more and more emotionally abusive. It had a really negative toll on...
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{ "description": "not paying for somebodies meal", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying for somebodies meal?
So I work at a subway and I made this guys sandwich. It was not busy at the time and only one person was in line. When we got to the till he tried to use apple pay but it was not working and he had no other form of payment. He looked really sad and embarrassed. I totally get it, I would feel the same way too. I turned ...
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{ "description": "telling a girl to shut up", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a girl to shut up?
Excuse my grammar faults, english is my second language. Also, I'm on mobile. It happened this week, I was in Québec history class and the teacher changed some people's place. I was one of those person and I know sit besides this girl I hate and two of my friends are close, there's one in front of the girl and the oth...
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{ "description": "using the same gym machine as another guy", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for using the same gym machine as another guy?
I'm kinda angry, and I do feel like I am in the right side of the story, but I'd like to hear other perceptions and write what happened down so I can stress down a bit. ​ I go to a very small gym and always make sure to go in early hours so that it's not full. Today I arrived and there was just one guy in...
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{ "description": "not wanting to offer my car for a club retreat", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to offer my car for a club retreat?
Basically, I am at a rather large university and there's this club retreat that I go on every semester. The retreat tends be be at locations 2+ hrs away. ​ I have driven and offered my car for the last two retreats, but got into a small accident into the last one, leading me into some car insurance trouble...
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{ "description": "not telling my uncle to quit smoking", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my uncle to quit smoking?
I was at a funeral the other day and afterwards my uncle who said he would quit smoking a few years ago was smoking. I was sitting in the car with my father and he told me to text him and say “Stop smoking!!!”. I declined and told my father that he wouldn’t just stop because of me texting him. My father kept pestering ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go pray for my dead cousin", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for not wanting to go pray for my dead cousin?
Throwaway. Mobile, sorry for formatting. Around a year ago, a cousin of mine went missing. I have a huge family so when my mom and dad found out and told me and my siblings, I didn’t even know who they were talking about. Even when I saw pictures of him, he just did not look familiar at all. It’s the case with a lot of...
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{ "description": "trying to get what's mine in the will", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to get what's mine in the will?
Am I the asshole So to give some context my parents before meeting and having me had kids. My mom had two daughters and my dad had three sons then they got divorced met each other and had me. My father passed away when I was nine he fought with an illness for a long time. My mother was physically disabled, she was i...
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{ "description": "flipping out on my dad and brother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for flipping out on my dad and brother?
So a little history, My brother and I were both born in the same year, him in January and I in December. We grew up doing the whole best buds thing, but during middle school we started to fight and argue more and more. After high school tho, i don't think of him as a brother, he was more worried about himself and how h...
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{ "description": "not driving my brother around", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Driving My Brother Around?
I apologize as this may be a long one. So this past year I (24M) moved in with my brother (26M) and things have been slightly rocky. For context his previous roommate bailed on him after his 1 year lease was up, and he had no one to live with him. I was living in some tough conditions and figured that with my new job ...
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{ "description": "not letting my girlfriend join my discord chat", "pronormative_score": 166, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my girlfriend join my discord chat?
My friends and I have had a small discord chat for almost 2 years now. For the past 2 months my girlfriend has been asking me to let her join because she said that she's interested in what goes on in our chat. I told her no and she got annoyed and somewhat mad that I'm not being open with her and that I don't want to ...
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{ "description": "playing along with a suggestive joke", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for playing along with a suggestive joke?
My best friend text me on Christmas Eve to see what I was up to. I was out of town at my uncles pretty nice house with a lot of my family, so I took a quick video to send him. It happened to have my cousin in it and my friend cracked a joke about her. For a little context, my friend is married. It was kind of an awkwar...
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