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{ "description": "sending an inappropriate masochistic 9/11 joke to a sensitive friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for sending an inappropriate masochistic 9/11 joke to a sensitive friend?
Ok.. to be clear I obviously think 9/11 is a horrible horrible event where thousands of innocent people died and I don’t think that’s funny...HOWEVER I am a fan of masochistic humour and I share this with several friends. So on 9/11 I sent out a shockingly inappropriate message that was clearly a masochistic joke, ess...
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{ "description": "inviting my friend to a concert", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for inviting my friend to a concert?
So this is pretty long so I’ll get right into it. ​ In summer of 2017, a famous korean singer was coming to a major city near me. Me and my best friend were huge fans of this singer (I was a bigger fan of this singer) but we both loved the genre and it’s how we became best friends when we were around 10 (b...
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{ "description": "not opening the gym door for a kid", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not opening the gym door for a kid
Right then: first the setting. My condo has all the activities area stacked together. So there’s the pool, behind which is the gym next to which is huge open area for barbecue and hosting parties and finally the kids playground. The gym has glass windows, so everything outside inside can be seen. I like to workout in ...
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{ "description": "eating pork", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for eating pork?
Got into an argument with my dad about eating pork, wondering if I was being insensitive or if he's overreacting. I'm a 19 year old girl who's not religious. My dad is Muslim. We never eat pork at home and I would never buy a product containing pork and store it at home, because it just feels wrong. No one in my famil...
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{ "description": "asking her not to smoke", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking her not to smoke
My partner smokes, although I’m honestly not bothered about that. Long story short, we were on a 2 hour car journey during which time she had 2 cigarettes, opening the window to smoke them which caused me to be really cold. She wanted her 3rd, about 5 minutes from our destination. I asked her if she wouldn’t mind waiti...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my dad for leaving the country", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my dad for leaving the country
Ok so, last year my dad and I got kicked out from our old house, I spent the first 2 months sleeping on my moms couch while he kept saying he was finding a house, we ended up moving in with his friends who also have to move out of their house in a couple months my dad just told me that he’s going to go back to his home...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay my roommate back if I get scammed from a security deposit", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA If I refused to pay my roommate back if I get scammed from a security deposit?
TL;DR: My roommate agreed to keep a security deposit in exchange for my portion of the rent, but now that he’s realized getting the deposit will be difficult, he’s claiming he never agreed and I owe him regardless of what happens with the deposit. I’m moving out of a 2BR apartment, but my roommate is staying and re...
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{ "description": "being angry that my mom woke me up early", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being angry that my mom woke me up early
Background: My dad was in the middle of renovating the house when my dad suddenly August. His friends have offered to help us do the rest. My Mom is a very emotional person and easily gets stressed out. My brother is a dick to me all the time. He critiques and shames me for everything. He goes out of his way to annoy p...
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{ "description": "watching a nature video", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for watching a nature video
for refference, im 15. i live with my mom, and she usually sleeps downstairs on the couch but as its gotten colder shes graduated upstairs to her bedroom. Unbeknownst to her every night i watch a nature/calming video to help me sleep since my mind often races a billion miles an hour. When she came up it was 11 and she ...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to return the money £100 I gave him for the house we were meant to move into together", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my friend to return the money £100 I gave him for the house we were meant to move into together.
So the context is my two friends and two other people were looking for a four-person house to move into next year. They found a nice six person house and needed two other people to fill up the two remaining spaces. They went ahead and paid £600 (£150 each) to reserve the house and then asked me if I wanted to join them...
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{ "description": "not adjusting my schedule for my ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not adjusting my schedule for my ex?
I've been divorced for about a year but we are still friends and co parents I'm staying with my ex for a couple weeks while waiting for my new place to be ready. He has primary custody but I am with them every day. I work graveyards with floating days off. I really like my job. I'm an unsocial night person so just wor...
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{ "description": "not letting my boyfriend take a trip with his female friend/possibly her friends too", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my boyfriend take a trip with his female friend/possibly her friends too
I honestly think Im crazy and he made it seem like im psycho. Last few days have been a total mess because of it. So here is the story. My boyfriend (22) and I (21) started dating when we were 18 and we were serious from the beginning. Those years are young to be engaged or anything else so we just decided to make i...
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{ "description": "not attending any future family (religious) events", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not attending any future family (religious) events ?
I'm an atheist living in a deeply religious country. Half my family is catholic and half is evangelical christian. And of course they have weddings, baptisms, christmas, funerals, etc. But I just can't bring myself to go to these events anymore. It's draining and makes me feel uncomfortable to basically support their b...
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{ "description": "telling someone who recently had something stolen from them to have some trust", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling someone who recently had something stolen from them to have some trust
I genuinely feel like the asshole in this situation. To give some context I was selling a phone I had refinished on eBay, and said I would post it today, due to unexpected personal circumstances I was unable to post it. I notified the seller but I got sent a response saying "You've failed to post it today as you have ...
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AITA?
AITA? So I’d honestly like to know what y’all think about my situation and what I can do to help it. I can say that I probably haven’t handled it the best but I’d like to see where other people’s opinions lay. As a a background I am Bi-sexual, that will make more sense as you read. When I was almost 11 I was molested...
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{ "description": "throwing away my flatmates food", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for throwing away my flatmates food?
Hello Reddit! I apologize in advance for bad english, it's not my first language. ​ ​ I'm really fucking pissed off right now and I need you to talk some sense into me. So, I currently live in a flat with two friends. In the past 2 months, every time I've been away for the weekend, I've come h...
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{ "description": "not having sex with my husband", "pronormative_score": 56, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not having sex with my husband?
On mobile, sorry about any formatting issues. So, one year ago I had to have emergency surgery and ended up with a colostomy bag. Two more surgeries later and it's still here. My husband (Dear Husband) has been somewhat decent about helping with household and childcare. It's been a struggle. I'm about a month f...
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{ "description": "staying 15 minutes longer to talk", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for staying 15 minutes longer to talk?
Hey, So I cheated on my boyfriend, with a coworker during the launch. It was a mistake and I am an asshole for that. My boyfriend has always been controlling and asking me about what I'm doing, but since that it's been really rising up. I'm not blaming him for wanting to know what I do etc, it's understandable and...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed at my gf for doing coke", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting annoyed at my GF for doing coke
Hello all Am very confused with feelings atm so I'm wondering if any of you could help me rationalise. I've been going out with this girl for 4 months, and are in our first year at university (college) so 19. I've known she's a bit wild and does drugs from time to time however her use has only started to worry me thi...
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{ "description": "not closing after my manager sent home a closer for a stupid reason", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not closing after my manager sent home a closer for a stupid reason?
For context, I work at a fast food place that closes at 10 pm. We typically have 4 closers. We have one manager who is specifically known for being a hardass and kind of an asshole. There’s also a very reasonable suspicion of homophobia considering how he treats some of our gay employees. The other night, we were alr...
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{ "description": "breaking guy code", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking guy code?
AITA for talking to my wife about a friend's bachelor (stag) party?   So I read a AITA about a guy who didn't tell his wife details of his bachelor weekend and got in trouble for it and it reminded me of this situation from a few years ago (tldr at the end):   My best friend since junior high was getting married.  He...
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AITA groom wanted me to pay $$$ for groomsmen suit.
Background: I was good friends with this guy in highschool and the beginning of university. However i went through a really really hard time during my honours (master equivalent). During this time he was consistently a terrible friend and I ended up not speaking to him for a few years. Eventually i started speaking to ...
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{ "description": "embarrassing my cousin for masturbating in my bed", "pronormative_score": 171, "contranormative_score": 13 }
WIBTA for embarrassing my cousin for masturbating in my bed
Sometimes my(15f) cousins come over to visit , and they stay at our house. I let my male cousin(15m) take my bed and I sleep downstairs on the couch with my female cousin. One time i had forgotten my charger and walked into my room without knocking to get and caught him touching him self. Whatever I dont care. It’s n...
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{ "description": "wanting to run for president of my college club", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to run for president of my college club?
Sorry for the clickbait-y title. I'm a part of the club at my college dedicated to a semi-niche hobby that I'm really passionate about. Last year (I had been in the club for 2 years technically, but had only really been attending meetings & active for 1 year), during elections for the following year (this one), th...
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{ "description": "being frustrated at family member exposing my 3 month child to the flu", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being frustrated at family member exposing my 3 month child to the flu?
We recently visited family for Christmas, and everything was fine except my niece caught the flu a few days before Christmas. Her parents still came around, and sister in law insisted on holding my child. I did not want that, but was told to "not worry" and that "shes too small to get the flu". So the SIL still held t...
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{ "description": "crashing my roommates party by blasting death metal", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for crashing my roommates party by blasting death metal?
I recently moved into a place with two random roommates. I get along great with one roommate, the other not so much. A little info on him- very spoiled, parents pay for rent, groceries, etc. never does dishes/cleans/lets stuff mold, etc. just generally gross roommate stuff. Also, he is an Alcoholic/cokehead- I was warn...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend a week after we moved in together", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend a week after we moved in together?
Posted this over on another sub but I'd like your feedback as well. We were very close friends from middle school, high school, and college. Then after 5 years living in different states we started a long distance relationship. We've been planning to move in together for years untl we finally did it just recently. I s...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at employer for donating our Christmas party budget to charity", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed at employer for donating our Christmas party budget to charity?
So basically I work for an international company who decided to donate the entire companies christmas parties budget to charity. There were reasons I won't go into for fear of identification. Myself and coworkers feel like this is a bit of a dick-move... not the charity donations obviously, but which pot of money they...
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{ "description": "telling my step-mom I'm no longer comfortable calling her \"mom\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA for telling my step-mom I’m no longer comfortable calling her “mom”?
Obligatory long time lurker, I’m on mobile, etc. There’s a lot of context to this. To start, when I was three months old, my mother passed away from horrible lung cancer. No one knows how she developed it, and she was taken from the world far too soon. I have only a few pictures and don’t know much about her. A year ...
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{ "description": "taking my sons video games for vaping", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for taking my sons video games for vaping?
Throwaway because my family knows my main. So my son is 17. He’s a fairly good kid. Always had good grades, never really got into trouble, etc.. it’s also worth mentioning that he’s been playing a lot of video games at his sisters house recently, more than my husband and I would like. this year starting out he got ca...
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{ "description": "not letting my dad kiss my son/his only grandchild", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not letting my dad kiss my son/his only grandchild?
A little long. My dad is 65 and has been smoking cigarettes since he was 13, I believe. He has worked for delivery companies (think FedEx, UPS) his entire adult life. Played hockey growing up and has always been a "mans man." Then my spouse and I had our son, and all that melts away and he is a huge softey around the k...
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{ "description": "being fed up with my sick partner", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being fed up with my sick partner?
My partner is sick. Fever and cough. Seems like a flu. I have immune system issues and can become sick very easily. I made them soup and they refused to eat it because they said they were nauseous, but then ate a bunch of junk food while I was at work. They call me into the room every 30 minutes to “feel their forehead...
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{ "description": "talking to two coworkers", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking to two coworkers?
Long one: I work in a corporate office and have two female coworkers who are both my age and pretty attractive. One of the girls and I started at the same time and the third was hired a month later. I kinda talked to them individually because our cubes were spread out and it seemed more natural because of the timing. W...
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{ "description": "putting a \"tip jar\" up when I drive Lyft", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for putting a “tip jar” up when I drive Lyft
Info: I’m a 22yr old college student trying to earn money for books, food, and some occasional fun. I tried working a regular job only to have my grades fall. So I’ve been driving Lyft for a few months, and it didn’t take me very long to notice that MOST people don’t tip after their ride. No matter how great the ride...
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AITA wife and female friend think I’m a perv.
So a little bit about me. I love consumer technology. Build my own PCs, I’m old enough to think smartphones are black magic, and I just got a google home mini in a dirty Santa with my friends. I always say I’m going to start streaming but I’m just not good at games and I’m not good at hosting streams. I’ve given it a ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hold hands with a guy who has deformed arms", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hold hands with a guy who has deformed arms?
Alright alright hear me out becuase the title makes it sound worse than it is. So I was on a dating app and matched up with a guy with some sort of arm deformity (is that the polite way to say it?). No big deal. I'm all about personality and how someone treats others. So we start chatting and ge asks if i ever kissed...
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AITA for this in occurrence in a movie theater
Hi AITA, Roommate has been praising this sub to me all week so I figured "I know how this may go, but I want the fine folks of reddit to nail it down for me." He was there and can back up the truthiness (Hi roommate probably reading this) I was in an IMAX viewing of the film First Man with my roommate, both of us ar...
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{ "description": "hiding my brother's Xbox because of his crazy fortnite addiction", "pronormative_score": 46, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for hiding my brother’s Xbox because of his crazy Fortnite addiction?
For context, my brother is in middle school. Ever since Fortnite came out he’s got more and more addicted, to the point where he’ll easily put 10+ hours a day on Friday and the weekend. My parent’s rules are he can only play on weekends, but he sneaks weekday playtime too when they’re not home. His behavior has become ...
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{ "description": "confronting a friend about my feelings of abandonment", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for confronting a friend about my feelings of abandonment?
TL;DR at bottom. Also I’m typing this on reddit mobile so sorry about formatting. So for some background, I have been friends with this person ever since I was 12 years old, we are both now 20. I’ve also always been a little bit in love with them and they are aware of this, but it’s never been an issue within the frie...
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{ "description": "telling my gf not to call our black friend \"boy\"", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for telling my gf not to call our black friend "boy"?
My girlfriend calls people "boy/girl" sometimes the way I would say "dude" or whatever. Several times when hanging out with a black male friend of ours, she's called him boy in the "damn boiii" kind of way. He's never said anything about it, or even visibly reacted to it, but I can't help cringing every time it happens...
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{ "description": "sleeping with someone else while separated from my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Sleeping with someone else while separated from my girlfriend
A bit of background info. This is an old problem but has been bothering me in the few years since her and I broke up (Dated from the end of 2015 to late 2016). This girl, she has a unique name so im gonna call her ana, we had dated for around a year, but near the six month mark, we had a fight and split up. I struggle ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my games with my best friend", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to share my games with my best friend?
I've always loved video games and only recently I've started spending on them, I'm really proud to own a decent enough library by now, my enthusiasm kind of made few of my friends and Co-workers actually buy games than just pirate them. My best friend bought a PlayStation few weeks after me, with one game, but I've bou...
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{ "description": "excommunicating my cousin? aita for not letting my father meet his grandson", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for excommunicating my cousin? AITA for not letting my father meet his grandson?
Some backstory: my father isn't a part of my life at all. He divorced my mom when I was 16 but even then I was indifferent. I was indignant for a while because it was particularly hard on my mom but it didn't affect me personally that much because he was largely absent to begin with. One further step removed didn't cha...
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{ "description": "not chasing her around anymore", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA , i dont chase her around anymore.
This is my first time post on Reddit , English is not my native language and I'm on mobile, so sorry. I have a friend (we have been hanging out for about 2 years , she is at the same age as me(both f25) and I should say from the start that she is very spoiled. Anyway we used to work together so we were seeing each oth...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with someone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone
Basically, there's a kid in my school that I don't like at all but he thinks im his mate. would I be the asshole for saying I don't want to be his friend? I don't want to come across that way.
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{ "description": "confronting my gf about her weight", "pronormative_score": 91, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA - I confronted my gf about her weight...
I casually brought up how we should start working out together or have meal plans... and holy fuck did it ever escalate. She started screaming that I’m calling her fat and I stupidly said “well I’m concerned for your health I don’t care how much you weight... but chips for breakfast is not healthy.” Yup.. big fuck up. ...
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{ "description": "mentioning to my boyfriend that I like the idea of a threesome", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for mentioning to my boyfriend that I like the idea of a threesome?
My boyfriend (22 M) and I (20 F) have been together for 2 years. We're extremely emotionally intimate and very commited to each other. Yesterday we were casually discussing random porn concepts, and I said that I like the fantasy of a threesome, being dominated by 2 men, etc, etc. He asked "how is that practical?", ref...
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{ "description": "asking my brother what my 78 yo Dad's issue is", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA For asking my brother what my 78 yo Dad's issue is?
My dad comes from a very long line of sexist idiots. If a girl is born in the family, you have nothing to do with them. In short, girls are only good for reproduction and cleaning. This means he can't stand me. Now aside from his distaste of me, he has been a complete douche of a person let alone a dad. He cheated...
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{ "description": "leeching off of my friends science project", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA if i leech off of my friends science project
Nearly a month ago we were assigned to do a science project, it is due tomorrow and i haven't done anything. Previously my friend and i had agreed that we would do our separate projects but now i think i could just plug my name into his project and say we did it as a group. Though this does seem like a bit of an dick m...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick my 94 year old grandmother out of my home", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to kick my 94 year old grandmother out of my home?
this is going to be a long one. most likely there will be a tldr at the bottom. so, i live with my great grandmother. ever since i was young, this is all i remember. she moved in on an odd circumstance. my parents personally funded her home for a while, until they figured it would be alright for her to move in on the ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a friend who told her sister I'm pregnant", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at a friend who told her sister I'm pregnant
Throw away account. Let me just start off with the obligatory formatting apology because I'm using mobile. I recently told my friend I was pregnant, at the time I was nearly 7 weeks, so I asked if she could please not tell anyone as we still were yet to have a scan. She said she was happy for me and reassured me she w...
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AITA when a girl I liked complemented on my shirt, but I responded in a weird way.
So there's this girl when I was in middle school and I can't stop thinking about the situation if I was an asshole or not. I was wearing a Nintendo t-shirt and I usually wear jackets on top of my t-shirts and no one really sees what's under my jacket. This is one of the first times I took off my jacket. One of my frien...
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{ "description": "refusing to let someone's child in front of me at a parade", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for refusing to let someone's child in front of me at a parade?
So last year I was fortunate enough to be able to visit Europe, and we stayed in Paris for a little while. We happened to be around on Bastille Day, which is equivalent to the 4th of July for Parisians. It's a huge day, and one of the coolest things about it is the Bastille Day parade. It's a military parade with tons ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my girlfriends sisters volleyball game", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my girlfriends sisters volleyball game?
So today my girlfriends mom asked my girlfriend if I could bring my girlfriends sister to her volleyball game. That’s fine, I’m happy to drop her off and pick her up, but here’s the kicker, she wants us to stay there and watch the volleyball game to give support. Personally I don’t want to do that, I already do a lot o...
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{ "description": "canceling plans last minute with girl for being upset at miscommunication", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for canceling plans last minute with girl for being upset at miscommunication?
I (27m) was out to dinner with ex girlfriend (23f) and at the end of dinner we talked about possibly going back to my place for sex and to hang out and spend the night. Only caveat was that she's an Au Pair from Brazil and her host family might not let her stay over since she had to drive the kids somewhere early in th...
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{ "description": "rejecting someone who wanted more from a \"hookup\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for rejecting someone who wanted more from a "hookup"
So this happened a really long time ago. I must have been 17 at the time, and I'm 29 now, but sometimes when I try to go to sleep this situation still bothers me. Flashback to when I was about 17, a friend I knew middle school sent me a message on Myspace, or something like that. She had moved about 8 hours away, but...
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{ "description": "not greeting my family who came from Colorado for 1 week to see us in New Jersey", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not greeting my family who came from Colorado for 1 week to see us in New Jersey?
I have social anxiety disorder and this family is super sweet. Husband, wife and 4 kids (one girl 14, one girl 16, one boy 18 and one girl 23). I miss them so much, but on the first day they came, I couldn’t get myself out of my room to speak with them. My room door was closed. I’m so shy and timid and they probably se...
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{ "description": "not forgiving my husband for being stuck in an airport during our wedding anniversary", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not forgiving my husband for being stuck in an airport during our wedding anniversary?
Sorry for the formatting TDLR:My husband missed our anniversary because he decided to delay his flight and take some money instead. My husband is a successful business man who regularly travels for work. He left me for a business trip last week and was supposed to be back for our anniversary (Monday). Over the weekend...
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{ "description": "blocking my \"friend\" on everything", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For blocking my "friend" on everything?
Throwaway account because I wouldn't be surprised if he's looking at my Reddit. A couple months ago me and my friend were hanging out in person when I saw him get a notification on a tweet I just sent, I'm confused as I am one of the people who separate my online life and real life. I asked him why he had notification...
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{ "description": "not doing an activity with a friend because he is better than me at it", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not doing an activity with a friend because he is better than me at it
My best friend “Greg” and I used to be indoor rock climbing partners. He started before I did and has certain advantages from being male and taller (I am female and shorter) that make him better than me. In the last few months, I moved a bit farther and we are no longer climbing partners, but I boulder (individual cli...
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AITA if a friend called me their best friend and I called them my dear friend?
A close friend of mine told me the other day, "I know I'm not your best friend but you're my best friend." I responded with, "Thank you. That means so much to me because you're an incredibly dear friend to me." Since then she has distanced herself from me and apologized for being a disappointment. AITA for not call...
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{ "description": "reporting a friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Reporting a friend?
My friend owns a small discord with several members and the owner and I know each other somewhat well. I was playing games in a call with several members and the co-owner was removing roles as a joke. He started by removing a purely visual role for me and giving me a "gay" role and then proceeded to give back my visual...
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{ "description": "snapping at my co-worker", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for snapping at my Co-worker?
Obligatory on mobile, so formatting yatta yatta. First, a little backstory is in order. I am chronically ill and have several conditions that mean I have to see a lot of doctors. Yesterday I went to see my primary care (I haven't seen her in over a year, as I've been seeing specialists instead). She says its not long...
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{ "description": "suddenly moving out and leaving my mom with an unexpected $850 more rent", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I suddenly move out and leave my mom with an unexpected $850 more rent?
In the beginning of August, me (20), my boyfriend, and my mom all moved into an apartment together to be closer to our school/her work. I had been living with just my mom before this and I didn't pay rent and she bought me clothes/groceries/anything else. I did a lot of chores whenever I was told because of course she ...
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AITA told my girlfriend she should consider getting help for self esteem issues?
Bit of a backstory, we often get into discussions which turn to debates and then arguments about how she looks. I think shes gorgeous and wouldn't change her for the world, however if she wishes to improve herself I am fully supportive. She knows this. I tell her every day I think shes beautiful, because I genuinely ...
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{ "description": "not treating sensitive people differently", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not treating sensitive people differently?
So I'm a bit "rough around the edges", but definitely not mean. If I have a good idea for a comeback or there's just an easy hit at someone (that someone is always my friend or at the very least someone I know pretty damn well), then I'll take it. Most people just laugh, say "omg savagee" and then go about their day. ...
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{ "description": "leaving my family to struggle when I move away", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for leaving my family to struggle when I move away?
Hey, sorry if this looks awful.. I’m currently on mobile reddit plus I’m pretty inexperienced on posting. Title looks bad but I’ll try my best to explain the situation. This is kind of a long one, so TL;DR at the bottom. Here’s a little background information: I’m 20 years old living with 2 brothers (18/21, I mention...
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{ "description": "splitting the Uber costs 50/50 even though there were 3 of us", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 94 }
AITA for splitting the Uber costs 50/50 even though there were 3 of us?
Pretty short story. This happened back around Christmas. My girlfriend and I (we live together) had a flight out of LAX during the holiday week. As you can guess, this can get expensive especially during peak hours and living 45-60 minutes away from the airport. Thankfully, we have a friend who also needed to go to the...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend to buy me a Valentines Day present", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend(33M) to buy me (26f) a Valentines Day present?
AITA for wanting gifts on major holidays from my BF? I (26f) got very blunt with my boyfriend (33M) recently and told him I wanted to do something for Valentine’s Day and expected a gift. I already have his gift ready and waiting (Call off Duty, he has wanted it for a few months). Y’all we have been together over ...
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{ "description": "dismissing gifts from my fiancee before she gives them to me", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For dismissing gifts from my fiancee before she gives them to me?
I'm outspoken, opinionated, and sometimes this gets me in hot water. My fiancee wants to get me cool, thoughtful gifts. I often state that I'm happy with generic gifts well within my taste preferences and interests. I'm also not a jerk though and am polite when anyone goes to the trouble to get me a gift. A few years ...
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{ "description": "being upset my bf saved fb pics of a mutual friend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset my bf saved fb pics of a mutual friend?
So my boyfriend was letting me use his computer to write my paper since his laptop is a little better. I saved it on his computer and was going to send it out when I found a few pics of a mutual friend saved from fb in his downloads. They were pics of her at the beach and in a bikini and also one with her in a fancy dr...
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{ "description": "not pumping my lady friend's gas for her", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not pumping my lady friend’s gas for her??
Okay, a little background. This girl and I have been seeing each other only for a couple weeks, but we’ve known each other for over a year. Over the weekend she was staying at my place and we have been having a great time. Like we’ve been making each other laugh, cooking together, did a little shopping together, it’s b...
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{ "description": "not talking to someone who repeatedly refutes nearly everything I say", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not talking to someone who repeatedly refutes nearly everything I say?
Doesn’t matter what it’s about; just a “that’s not the same thing” or “no it isn’t like that” or “that makes no sense”... blah blah blah. It’s fucking *exhausting* to deal with every damn day.
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{ "description": "not inviting my girlfriend out with my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Inviting My Girlfriend Out With My Friends
Title says as it is. I'm high school age, and keep pretty busy, so I don't get much free time. This translates to seeing most of my friends two to three times a month max, so when we get the opportunity to hang out I solely spend my time with them. This is not the case with my girlfriend of two years. I spend most of m...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend that hes not a badass", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling my best friend that hes not a badass?
This is one of those seemingly harmless yet annoying things that will always eat at you but you dont say anything. Well, i said something. I have a best friend. Good guy, nice, generous, in general hes always there to help. But hes also really insecure imo. Hes short, like 5'7, and overweight. Yet he also has a crazy ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my mum for going to an expensive vacation alone", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad at my mum for going to an expensive vacation alone?
I'll add some background information so that you may know where I'm coming from. My mum (38) separated from my dad (49) 2 years ago. The thing is that he married her when she was really young (18), so she never got the chance to travel alone. I'm not mad at her for travelling alone, I encouraged her to do it. The pr...
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{ "description": "not caring about Christmas", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not caring about Christmas?
Obviously this happened a couple months ago, but I only just found the sub, so here goes. This was Christmas 2018. I'm somewhat depressed but still reasonable as far as I'm aware. My Mum flies an hour or so to be with me and my brother since the rest of our family is pretty dysfunctional. Anyway, my Mum cooks this nic...
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Aita Found dogs but they kept escaping so I left the gate open
I found two dogs outside I wanted to keep them overnight to get themscannaedtonsee if they have owners or leave them at the shelter. I have three dogs and no room for two more. They weren't getting along so I set up a cozy place on my porch 100% surround from bottom to top and a path to the back yard with food and wate...
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{ "description": "complaining about my sister behind her back and getting caught", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for complaining about my sister behind her back and getting caught
My mom invited my sister (19) from out of state to stay with us in our home since my sister is unemployed and my mom pays her rent, but now my mom is running out of money and my sister refuses to either move somewhere cheaper or move in with us. So my mom thought that by flying her down for a week, we could convince he...
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{ "description": "buying an item absurdly cheap because the person doesn't understand it's value", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I buy an item absurdly cheap because the person doesn't understand it's value
I live in a fairly rural area but we have a 4 town joint facebook group for buying, selling, and trading items-similar to a widespread online yard sale or a local craigslist. When buying items you meet up in personal in public places and trade the cash for the item. Tonight a woman, let's call her Sherry, hosted a sal...
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{ "description": "blackmailing guys who send me unsolicited dick pics", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 40 }
WIBTA for blackmailing guys who send me unsolicited dick pics?
I was reading a post on legal advice earlier about some guys "friend" who was getting blackmailed by a foreign girl saying she'd make his dick pic go viral if he didn't send X amount of dollars. He was freaking out and I find that absolutely hilarious, hopefully it will make him think twice about sending his wrinkly mo...
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{ "description": "talking to a girl who I used to like, and now I'm married to someone else", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for talking to a girl who I used to like, and now I'm married to someone else?
I (28M) have known both women, we'll call them Amy(25) and Betty (25) for about six years. I used to have a thing for Amy when we first met, but nothing ever really came of it and we became really good friends. Betty and I dated for about half a year about four years ago, and separated due to her moving away to anoth...
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AITA? Was She Using Me?
AITA. Please forgive me as this is literally my first reddit post, ever. Back in high school, I never really had any girlfriends. I was starting to exhibit some incel “nice guy” traits that I’ve since been really embarrassed about, and it was a very awkward time for me. After having had crushes on a lot of gir...
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{ "description": "not going to competition while my grandpa is in the hospital", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not going to competition while my grandpa is in the hospital?
Hey, first time posting in this subreddit. Bear with me if I do anything wrong! ​ So I'm in colorguard/ winterguard, which is a team activity that requires us to perform at competitions every Saturday against others in our division. Because it's so performance-based, every teammate plays a role in the show...
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{ "description": "beating my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for beating my girlfriend?
So I don't have many talents, but gaming happens to be one of them. Video games, board games, even trivia games I'm all above average at. My girlfriend also enjoys games, particularly video games, but isn't as skilled with them as I am. This is truly not a brag, it's relevant. My girlfriend is also the competitive sor...
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{ "description": "stopping talking to my friends", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stopped talking to my friends?
So on Snapchat you can see where your friends are at the moment. For the past 2 years I consistantly see all of them together at someone's house without mentioning anything to me. At the beginning I just assumed they forgot about me, but obviously not after 2 years. Whenever I join the discord and they are talking abou...
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{ "description": "lying about what I had said about my Ex", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for lying about what i had said about my Ex?
So I was in a relationship with a girl for about 6-7 months. It was great, until she had broke up with me in front of a bunch of friends. (Happened during school). She then proceeds to date one of my best friends and breaks up with him in about three months. Then she starts dating my bestest friend. And during lunch on...
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{ "description": "not coming to the birth of my niece because I had a date", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not coming to the birth of my niece because I had a date
This happened a while ago but I keep thinking about it. Pretty sure I am one but everyone says it's fine. Basically my brother's wife was gonna have their first kid so my other brother, sister, and mom all went to the hospital in the city they lived in to see them the day my niece was born. I didn't go cause I had a da...
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{ "description": "asking out my waitress", "pronormative_score": 60, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for asking out my waitress?
This just happened a few hours ago, and I'm just now realizing I may have pulled an obvious and dickish move. So I'm here for judgement. Had a dinner date; date cancelled on me. No worries, I just ordered and had a fine meal on my lonesome. The waitress who served me was quite cute; I chatted her up a bit and found h...
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{ "description": "making my mom pay for either Netflix or Hulu if her new bf is using them", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making my mom pay for either Netflix or Hulu if her new bf is using them?
Back story: love my mom (I'm F early 20's). She's a great person, maybe not a great mom. She's an alcoholic, but is so positive and upbeat. My step dad passed away June 2018 from cancer. He's been in my life for more than half of it, Idk my bio dad irl. My mom went through some rough shit with that. They had JUST moved...
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AITA: Stolen Cigarettes and a Drunken Rant
AITA: Okay, so my last weekend in town before I leave for job training, my best friend of a decade and some of her friends go out for drinks. I will admit I’m a feisty, but jolly drunk. Anyways I grab a smoke from a pack that I had opened in her car on the way to the bar. An hour goes by, and I grab a smoke and leave m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to complain but obviously annoyed with the situation", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to complain but obviously annoyed with the situation?
Bf (M/35) talks me (F/33) into taking our daughter to Circus Circus in Vegas for 2 nights. He tells me we’ll be fine money wise. On the way, we park in the free parking(Further walking) and walk along the Hoover Dam. We get to Vegas, of course there is a lot of walking. Surprisingly, my feet don't hurt, only my calve...
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{ "description": "taking back a present that I'd gifted to a friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking back a present that I’d gifted to a friend?
It’s my best friends birthday today, we also live together. It’s a milestone birthday and so I went all out in getting her a number of gifts, all wrapped separately and thrown into a large gift bag. There were two main gifts: Top quality wrist guards for skating and a very expensive mascara that she’s wanted for some...
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{ "description": "wanting to move back to my old room in residence", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to move back to my old room in residence?
This is kind of a long one so buckle up. I live in residence at my university. 2 days ago my room mate approached me and asked if I would be willing to switch rooms with one of his friends down the hall. My room mate would get up at 7 each morning for class, and 2 nights out of the week I would come home late due to u...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girlfriend for buying me candy", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend for buying me candy?
[M 18] I’m a compulsive eater when it comes to junk food, chips, chocolate, literally anything that’s bad for you I eat way to much of. My girlfriend [F 18] and I have been together for a year and no matter how many times I ask her to not give me junk she won’t stop. She’s obsessed with Pinterest and once she sees a gi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to this college", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for not wanting to go to this college?
Okay so i’m a high school senior. Today i got an email from a small liberal arts college i’ve applied to saying that i’m being considered for a scholarship program that’s worth up to 34k a year. which i know is a lot of money for a college student to be making. thing is, there’s a lot about this school that i don’t rea...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that he needs to stop going after girls that are out of his leauge", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for telling my friend that he needs to stop going after girls that are out of his leauge?
Listen I'm all for guys having confidence in themselves and going after girls that they are attracted to. But after so much rejection and everything else, isn't it a saying that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result? Couple things going against my friend: He just turned...
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{ "description": "telling someone my expenses aren't their business", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling someone my expenses aren't their business?
so i was sitting in class and there's this dude who sits next to me who's always trying to chat. we were talking about work and stuff and i told him that i work part time (about 15 hours a week) and he was like "oh okay cool". then about 20 minutes later, he asked what my expenses are (like car, phone, etc) and i just...
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{ "description": "stepping on a man's foot, then yelling at him", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for stepping on a man's foot, then yelling at him?
It goes like this, we're on the bus and I'm on my way out, I accidentally step on a man's foot and immediately say "oh, I'm sorry", I sit near the door facing the man for about 2 minutes until the bus stops: man: (angry) you stepped at me I: I know, it was an accident, I'm sorry man: Pfff an accident, you have to lo...
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{ "description": "not wanting my date to pick up an extra shift at work", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting my date to pick up an extra shift at work?
This girl and I planned on going on a date last Sunday. Her boss asked her to cover someone's shift. She took the shift. I understood. She had just asked her boss for more hours, and it would be awkward if she denied a shift the next day. We rescheduled the date for tonight. Today, she tells me that her boss asked he...
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