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{ "description": "telling my dad he overreacted when he called the cops because I wasn't picking up my phone", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my dad he overreacted when he called the cops because I wasn’t picking up my phone
This happened this morning and my alarm on my phone wasn’t turned up enough and I slept through it and since my dad leaves before me I missed my first two classes which is when the school called my dad to see where I was, when he didn’t know he panicked and kept calling me but my phone was on silent so it didn’t wake m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to recommend my autistic cousin for an art position at my work", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to recommend my autistic cousin for an art position at my work?
My cousin is a pretty talented artist, but he's also autistic. I work in the animation industry and his mom is pressuring me to give him a recommendation as a character artist. Now, my cousin's autism is very high functioning. The only thing is he's incredibly emotionally sensitive, and the industry I work in is incr...
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{ "description": "not speaking to my mother for 10 years", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not speaking to my mother for 10 years?
My mother has never been a huge part of my life. She was in and out as a kid and I was raised by my dad but I would spend summers with her as a kid and always stayed in some kind of contact when she wasn't on a bender. There have been a bunch of lies and situations of her stealing from people but what made me cut off c...
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{ "description": "semi-ghosting a friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for semi-ghosting a friend?
This is long, sorry in advance. So, I grew up with my friend M. We drifted apart as we aged, but reconnected about three years ago and got fairly close. For reference, she is 25 and I am 23. Since we reconnected, she helped me through a bad breakup, only to throw it back in my face as "being annoying" and "being hung...
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{ "description": "telling a woman to buy a car", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling a woman to buy a car?
I want to keep it kinda short, this happened today. ​ I was coming back from high school, I'm hoping into a bus, and today was a hot day. The T-shirt and shorts kind of day... ​ In these places we don't have AC in the bus so we usually open a window on hot days. But there is this woman which r...
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{ "description": "snapping at my fiance's aunt", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for snapping at my fiance's aunt?
Hello! I'm gonna try and keep this short. I am a 20 year old full time college student. My fiance is 21 years old, works full time, and attends college part time. We live with his family (grandmother [70sF], bio mother(40sF), aunt(50sF), and uncle(??M)). Grandmother owns the house, and currently the entire family is...
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{ "description": "leaving to go to the military without telling my parents", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I leave to go to the military without telling my parents?
My parents are Jehovah's Witnesses. As some of you know about Jehovah's Witnesses, [they have a strict war and military neutrality.](http://www.centeronconscience.org/component/content/article/49-words-publication/225-jehovahs-witnesses.html) The reason I want to go to the military, specifically the USMC, is because I ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my ex over the phone", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking up with my ex over the phone?
To preface, this is something I've been wanting to get off my chest for a while. I carry no emotional attachment whatsoever to my ex, I just simply feel bad. ​ A little bit of context: I met my ex in college about 3 years ago. We dated for just less than a year. We had a few fights, but for the most part ...
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{ "description": "not changing how I describe disabled people", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not changing how I describe disabled people
So context to the story is several college friends of mine were eating together and one, who is a special education major, was telling us how it was offensive to refer to an epileptic person as an "epileptic person" rather than a "person with epilepsy" as the former is defining a person by their disability. I didn't th...
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{ "description": "resenting my friend for not being as good as me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for resenting my friend for not being as good as me?
Title is a little harsh. I have a close friend and roommate of 7 years (living together for 2). As time has gone on I've realized just how codependent they've become on me. They moved here under my suggestion from the west coast (we're in Atlanta) because they begged me for a change. I happily obliged and let them in...
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{ "description": "refusing to share details of my life with my best friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to share details of my life with my best friend?
I met this friend in uni about one year ago, we instantly hit it off and right now I consider her my closest friend and I often vent to her about things. However she has the tendency to be a victim blamer. I tell her a guy was behaving in a creepy fashion, she blames me for “not defending myself enough” and even occa...
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{ "description": "going through TSA pre-check well my wife had to walk through the normal security", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for going through TSA pre-check well my wife had to walk through the normal security?
I invited my wife to attend a business conference in Las Vegas with me. As I travel pretty regularly for work I have TSA pre-so I don’t have to unpack my laptop, take off my shoes and do the whole TSA dance. Wife does not have TSA pre-check and was mad that I wanted to go through TSA pre-and have her go through standa...
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{ "description": "calling in sick today", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For calling in sick today
I work at a vitamin shop where one person works the shift alone. I signed up for part time, 25 hours. In september a manager quit so my manager was put in charge of two stores. There are four of us working two stores 7 days a week so Ive been forced to do over 30 hours and have been doing 6 day work weeks with only one...
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{ "description": "being pissed that my boyfriend won't get a job", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being pissed that my boyfriend won’t get a job?
My boyfriend [19] close to 20 and I [19] both come from different financial backgrounds. He has never had to work a day in his life and my parents had me get a job at age 15. We are in college and have been dating for 3 months but friends for 3 year before that. In those 3 months he hasn’t taken me on a single date. We...
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{ "description": "handing out insanely sour candy to little children on Halloween", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for handing out insanely sour candy to little children on Halloween?
My mom thought I was a dick for doing it. She bought a bunch of reese's cups, and I wanted them for myself, so I handed out some old "toxic waste" super sour hard candies we had in the pantry. Does this make me an asshole?
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{ "description": "telling my teacher a classmate cheated on a test", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 52 }
AITA for telling my teacher a classmate cheated on a test?
So we had a test today and as far as I know most of us including me studied really hard for this test. There was this classmate sitting in front of me and when I finished my test, I saw her looking at her phone and writing down answers. For me it was pretty obvious that she had the answers on her smartphone. After the ...
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{ "description": "telling my dad not to assume", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my dad not to assume?
So basically; this kid got expelled today at my school, and some rumors are going around that it’s drugs. I told my parents this on our way home from school, and about an hour later, on our wau to a film, my dad made a joke about drugs and I responded with another joke about drugs. He told me, “Oh you better not do dru...
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{ "description": "wanting to peacefully put-down my 20 year old cat for the sake of my family", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for wanting to peacefully put-down my 20 year old cat for the sake of my family?
I will try to get to the point. Our cat recently began peeing outside it's litter box, smelling horrible despite bathing her, vet check up has been the same things - just 'elderness' which I get is obviously normal. She is deaf and I'm pretty sure she is now blind, and she howls and yelps in the mornings and late night...
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{ "description": "asking for my money back", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I asked for my money back?
Account Owner: my friend is using my account being she doesn’t have reddit. She will answer comments. Names changed for obvious reasons: So my friend Pebble messaged asking to borrow £20 in mid February which she said she will give it back the next week, month later she still hadn’t returned it. It was okay I don’t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to live with a man with a 26 year old son", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA [F22] for not wanting to live with a man with a 26 year old son?
I live with two guys. One is 25 and the other is 21. The younger guy decided that he’s moving out early and is gonna break the lease, but the other roommate and I have to both sign off on him removing himself from the lease, and he has to find someone else to take over his section. Yesterday he scheduled someone to ...
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{ "description": "not talking to my grandad before he passed away", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not talking to my grandad before he passed away?
When I was a baby, my dad passed away, and my grandad filled that place for most of my life. When I was 15, I was told that he had lung cancer, but he was fighting it. He also had dementia and he would forget a lot of things when I talked to him, ie, he’d repeat the same couple of stories every time I called him, but I...
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{ "description": "evicting my tenant when he complained about the noise my dog makes", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for evicting my tenant when he complained about the noise my dog makes?
AITA for evicting my tenant for complaining about noise? ​ I live in a 10-unit building in Miami Beach. I love it here, and me and my family own the building jointly. I have a neighbor named "J." J has been our tenant for about 5 years. J looks EXACTLY like Clint Howard and lives in a studio with his g...
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{ "description": "calling my girlfriends friend when she was about to have 30th bday sex", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling my girlfriends friend when she was about to have 30th bday sex
Will try keep this short n sweet while adding as much impartial details as possible. TL:DR at bottom My girlfriend (30) and her childhood friend (both Irish) went on long weekend to Scotland to celebrate friends 30th bday (just the two of them) As you can imagine the weekend involved copious amounts of alcohol and I w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give up my dog", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to give up my dog?
My dog is a lab and a very good dog, I love her and so does my wife and kids but she doesn't get a lot of attention. My brother and his wife had a dog, also a lab that just recently died unexpectedly and they spoiled that dog like crazy because they considered it their child because they have no real children. Needl...
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{ "description": "going to family gatherings because my husband's shitty dad", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For going to family gatherings because my husband's shitty dad.
I've been with my husband for three years now. When I first met his dad he immediately called me a spawn of satan and wanted my husband (boyfriend at the time) to leave me. For the first year of our relationship I had done everything to make him like me. Talk to him, give him a ride when his drunk ass needed beer, lend...
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{ "description": "not wanting my child baptized", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my child baptized?
Me and my wife have a baby who’s 6 weeks old. My mother in law brought up baptizing him. Now me and my wife don’t go to church. I am not religious I was very religious and went on mission trips and what not. Nowadays I don’t believe no dis to those who are. I asked my wife if she believes in heaven she said idk. A...
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{ "description": "not giving my mother my back pay", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not giving my mother my back pay
Going to try to condense this as much as possible. So I'll be leaving out a lot. I've never had a great relationship with my mother, she belongs somewhere in r/entitledparents. But that's a story for another day. Either way, my son is autistic. He'll be 6 this year. Back in Sept of 2016, I was struggling with my ow...
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{ "description": "telling my housemate to clean", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my housemate to clean?
Hey so this is a quick one. I sent this message to my roommate last Thursday: “Hey next chance you get can you please vacuum/mop downstairs and do the bins/recycling” And it is now Monday night. When I sent her the message she pretty much left for 3 days, coming back during the day a little bit to grab stuff, get mor...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help my struggling ex and feeling satisfied that she is struggling", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to help my struggling ex and feeling satisfied that she is struggling?
I dated this girl for a few years in college, she was my first real serious girlfriend. We got along great, lived together, and even talked about getting married after we were able to get our respective careers established. That is until my best friend confessed to me that he and my girlfriend had slept together while...
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{ "description": "being resentful of the opportunities that my older siblings got that I was never given a chance at", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For being resentful of the opportunities that my older siblings got that I was never given a chance at.
Some back story to this. I have 2 older brothers that went across the country to work in Los Angeles at a 5 star hotel and spent there summers living it up in LA while I was stuck at home getting fat. My parents excuse was that I can’t handle the job or control myself there which I proved them wrong. I’ve held a job at...
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{ "description": "outing my brother-in-law's felony during the wedding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for outing my brother-in-law's felony during the wedding?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. This happened over the weekend. My step-sister got engaged to this dude about a year ago and most, if not all, of the family really does not like him, at least not personally. Most of the family understands that he pays the bills as best as he can, and provides for my step-sister and th...
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{ "description": "not doing the dishes as often if they aren't mine", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not doing the dishes as often if they aren't mine?
TL:DR at bottom I share my dorm apartment with another guy. I feel morally obligated to deal with the stack of dishes that is on the kitchen counter, but they are not mine. Before I start eating my meal I will clean up and put away (either into the dishwasher or drying rack) the things I dirtied, such as the pot or p...
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{ "description": "not going to my boyfriend's sister's birthday dinner", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to my boyfriend’s sister’s birthday dinner?
My boyfriend’s older sister’s birthday is today and I didn’t go. This morning his sister let me know (my boyfriends owns the house, his sister rents from him) that she planned on going to an arcade/bar type of place and I said I might go. I consider myself introverted and all day I was pretty much psyching myself up t...
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{ "description": "telling my friend hes not ready for a baby", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend hes not ready for a baby
So I've known my buddy P the best part of 10 years . I watched him turn from a teenage apprentice to a head chef to business owner and back to sous chef after losing it all through stupid mistakes (drugs) hes now 26 this year , lives in a shithole home with his parents and 4 younger brothers (nothing wrong with the str...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my girlfriend on the phone about nothing", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my girlfriend on the phone about nothing?
She always wants to call when we’re not together. “Hey are we going to talk later?” About what? If we’ve got something to say then yes let’s talk. I don’t just want to have a telephone conversation about nothing for the sake of it. I hate the telephone... Let’s call when we have a reason to call definitely but otherwi...
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{ "description": "refusing to talk to my father about the flat earth anymore", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to talk to my father about the flat earth anymore?
My father is a devout flat-eather, he has believed in this shit for about 2 years now and I have had numerous debates ever since. A lot of them become heated at some point. I usually try to keep calm and have a civil discussion with him but he always states that I am just "too slow" for him and always ends up getting f...
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{ "description": "bringing a small meal for myself to my SIL's corned beef and cabbage dinner tonight", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for bringing a small meal for myself to my SIL’s corned beef and cabbage dinner tonight?
I can’t stand corned beef and cabbage. I’ve tried it a dozen different times, I have never enjoyed it. There’s a spice in most corned beef that causes an involuntary gag reflex, it’s not a “choke it down and shut the fuck up” situation. More power to those that love corned beef and cabbage, but I’m not looking forwar...
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{ "description": "being upset at my roommate", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at my roommate?
Lately I feel that my roommate has been behaving quite coldly to me and now I'm really upset about it. Last night she invited me to dinner with her family but because things have been weird between us (her rejecting me at every opportunity to hang out, her feeding dinner I made to the dogs after loudly proclaiming sh...
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{ "description": "telling a pregnant coworker to stop using her pregnancy as a crutch", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a pregnant coworker to stop using her pregnancy as a crutch?
Some context, I'm a manager of a warehouse floor who was just recently promoted to this position. This coworker was part of what I 'inherited'. The previous manager, let's call him J, had warned me upon my training that this particular coworker, we'll call her E, is a problem. Her job is basic desk and spreadsheet work...
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{ "description": "exposing a cheater", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA: Exposing a cheater
So a few years ago I had a long distance relationship with the person I thought was "the one". I mean it. We Skyped everyday, called each other when we weren't Skyping, sent gifts, taught her how to play a few strategy games so we could play together. Hell, we were even engaged for a while. Lets call her Tae to keep he...
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{ "description": "not really wanting sex with my girlfriend during her pregnancy because I'm not into it", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not really wanting sex with my girlfriend during her pregnancy because I’m not into it?
I’ll do it if she initiates it and really wants it but I don’t initiate it ever and I try to avoid situations where it would happen. I understand this sounds rude but I want to be brutally honest with how I say this. It’s boring, we can do like one position and it’s like both laid down, me on my side and her laid ...
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AITA fot not wanting to share my birthday?
I know this is really minor compared to a lot of stuff in this sub, but it's been really bugging me. My birthday is coming up and I want to invite some close friends to a picnic on the park. I'm also thinking of asking them to bring their dogs along because I love doggos. When I told this to my friends, one of the ...
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{ "description": "refusing to retroactively pay damages my pet made to personal property", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to retroactively pay damages my pet made to personal property?
I recently moved out of my apartment once the lease was up. My roommate elected to stay and got a new roommate to replace me. The energy bill was in my name and I warned her that the last bill will be owed after I move out. I told her when I expected to receive it and said I would contact her once I know her share. I j...
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{ "description": "telling my friends I don't have any problems and ruining the mood", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friends I don't have any problems and ruining the mood?
I have a group of friends in college and the 6 of us are spread out in three different courses but we're all really close. Like all normal friendships we vent to each other and bitch about some people (some times people are in our friend group), typical teenager drama. We all got really drunk last week and then start...
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{ "description": "wanting to stick to our original plans of staying in for a sex night tonight", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to stick to our original plans of staying in for a sex night tonight?
Its 7 PM, my husband is asleep in bed after being upset I did not want to go out...to sit at the bar at a specific restaurant only because we have a gift card. Since making New Years Eve plans we decided we were broke and could use a night at home just the two of us for wild sex. Well today he says "Why don't we go...
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{ "description": "telling my Ex's roommates they are bad friends", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my Ex's roommates they are bad friends?
Ex and I had been together 4 years. I got deployed.  Two months into the deployment Ex calls "it's not you, it's me" and suddenly we are not together anymore. Life goes 100to0 real quick. We had still been talking since the breakup. It is hard to cut out the primary person in your life for the last 4 years. During conv...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be in a relationship?
My SO and I have been dating for 9 months and a lot of recent times have been fighting. We both have our mental health issues and they seem to clash. We had a long talk and agreed that we would have strategies to work on our issues. However, that still leaves me in the place that I don't think I want to be in a rel...
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{ "description": "telling my bf I knew he talked shit about me with his best friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For telling my bf I knew he talked shit about me with his best friend?
Long story short, mi bf gave me his fb password because “he trusted me with anything” I shouldn’t have accepted it, nor should I have entered the account. I checked his conversation with his bestfriend and I found out he was talking shit about me, my parents, my friends and was pretty much a different person when talki...
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{ "description": "ending this friendship", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending this friendship?
I’ve been asking myself this for quite some time now and I thought I’d let the wise people of Reddit decide whether I am the asshole or not. It’s quite a long story, English is not my native language, bear with me please. I’ll call my former friend “Z”. Z and I became friends when we were 12 or 13. We were in th...
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{ "description": "making a tie instead of a scarf", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making a tie instead of a scarf
First off, I don't think I am the asshole here. I think my husband is acting like a child, but I want to make sure that I am not being insensitive because of how hurt I am. My kids have a banquet on Sunday and it is Harry Potter themed. He found a cool way to make robes and I was going to knit or crotchet a scarf in G...
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{ "description": "telling trainers at the gym to stop touching me", "pronormative_score": 39, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for telling trainers at the gym to stop touching me?
The title pretty much says it all. I've started going to the gym semi- regularly and doing some fitness classes, like spinning and full body workout things. During a spinning class, the instructor came up to me and, without asking me, put his hand on my back to correct my posture. I immediately shook his hand off and t...
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{ "description": "judging people who sleep their way up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for judging people who sleep their way up?
I know couple of people who have landed a job or moved up heir career, solely because they slept with someone. I used be like, you do you. But one of my close friends did the same thing. If it wasn’t for them sleeping with someone, the current job would be impossible. A little part of me has lost respect for the pe...
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{ "description": "trying to take over a new lease for my apartment without my current roommate", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for trying to take over a new lease for my apartment without my current roommate?
Hey arbiters of assholiness! I've lived with my roommate for just about two years now. His previous roommate moved out and I signed a new lease with him. That new lease expired about 10 months ago and since it expired, we've just been living month-to-month with no lease. This was my roommate's idea because the landlor...
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{ "description": "turning a soda bottle upside down on the table and unscrewing the salt shakers", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for turning a soda bottle upside down on the table and unscrewing the salt shakers.
So basically I’m on a d.c.field trip and this waiter is being rude to me, and I’ll tell you what happened leading up to me fucking up the table. So it was my first time going to this mid evil style restaurant and he asks me for my table card, I didn’t here him so he asks me again and then I give it to him, he walks awa...
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{ "description": "not accepting my dad's apology", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not accepting my dad's apology
I have a quick question for anyone active right now. I was just in a fight with my dad and his fiancee where he was calling my mom a slut because apparently, she had an abortion at 16 (They are divoriced now). He came in to my room a few minutes ago, with (what seemed to be) real tears in my eyes and he apologised to m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take my girlfriend to the cinema", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not wanting to take my girlfriend to the cinema?
Every week my friend and I go to the cinema to see the latest film, we have done this for years. Recently though whenever there is a big block buster my girlfriend insists on coming along. I've said to her that I am happy to see a film again on the weekend as it gives me a chance to catch some parts I may have missed. ...
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{ "description": "not dating a girl because of her sexual history", "pronormative_score": 121, "contranormative_score": 39 }
AITA for not dating a girl because of her sexual history
I was casually seeing this girl for about 2 months. She's a nice person and really attractive, but she had slept with at least 12 guys that are on my college football team, of which I am a part of. She recently asked if I wanted to try actually dating. I refused. My reasoning was as follows: ​ 1) I don't ...
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{ "description": "telling my mom that she should have named me something else", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for telling my mom that she should have named me something else?
So for reference, my name is Shanshan. Yea I know, weird asf. It means “blooming flower” in my native language but it hasn’t done me any favors growing up in America. I got teased so much growing up and even to this day (I’m 19) I get weird looks when introducing myself. When people see my name at work on my name tag t...
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{ "description": "ghosting someone over being late", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ghosting someone over being late?
I (25F) have a family friend Mike (49M). He was friends with my mom in high school and I've known him since birth. I only saw him rarely but used to chat with him on the phone every now and then. My mom has narcissistic tendencies and once I became a teen I used to talk to Mike for advice whenever he called. I notice...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with my friend's bf", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with my friend’s bf?
We’re a group of six girls who’ve known each other about 2 years. I also have a group of guy friends who I’m closer with who I’ve known for about 5 years. Recently two of the girls in my girl group started going out with two of the guy group. Predictably, we started hanging out as couples, and I kept doing girls only a...
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{ "description": "not commenting on my mom's Facebook post", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not commenting on my mom's Facebook post?
Okay, so here's the deal. I love my mother very much, but as a person, I can't stand her. She is very manipulative - basically an expert victim. Nothing is ever her fault. She does not ever apologize. She hit my husband - like, purposely physically struck him - a couple Christmases ago and then had the balls to tell h...
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{ "description": "tailgating someone going really slow on the highway", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for tailgating someone going really slow on the highway
Ok quick one. Background I’m 16M. Me and a couple friends were going off campus for lunch and we gotta be quick cuz we only got 30 mins and I always drive cuz I got a C43 and it’s 4 door. Anyway, 2 lane highway two cars in front of us we’re in fast lane and lady in the car is basically matching speed of car on r...
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{ "description": "getting upset at the girl I've been seeing for leading on one of my fraternity brothers and ghosting him", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset at the girl I’ve been seeing for leading on one of my fraternity brothers and ghosting him?
There’s this girl I’ve been seeing (we’ll call her K) for about 6 weeks. She’s fun, sweet, and we have a lot in common. We’ve been talking and hanging out pretty frequently, and this weekend I met her mom and sisters. K is seen as very attractive, and a lot of other brothers in my fraternity tried talking to her at fir...
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{ "description": "taking a job as a ring card girl for a local MMA show", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a job as a ring card girl for a local MMA show?
Posting from a throwaway because my real account almost certainly has references to where I live and my old job. In my "real" life I'm a student at a large university, sociology major with a minor in stats. I'm active in several volunteer service groups and am treasurer of the campus version of my chosen political par...
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{ "description": "telling my wife that she's being selfish and entitled for expecting my parents to loan us money", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my wife that she's being selfish and entitled for expecting my parents to loan us money?
Okay I have to admit, I feel like I'm NTA but my wife has gotten in my head and I need a third party opinion. My wife and I are trying to buy a house. We are already qualified and are ready to make an offer. Currently with what we have and how much we make, we will have no problem affording a house, however buying dow...
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{ "description": "having enough with my coworker", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having enough with my coworker?
Here is a little background: My coworker and I share an office that is just the two of us most days. I try my hardest to be quiet and respectful since she is technically the office manager. Our doors are always open and the walls are thin. When I started here several months back things were great. I tried to be co...
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{ "description": "telling his wife that he's having an affair", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA If I tell his wife that he’s having an affair?
My friend is having an affair with a married man. Normally I don’t get in the middle of these things...but I’ve been growing increasingly sympathetic and empathetic for his wife. I don’t know the woman, but my friend has said that this man talks highly about her and said she’s a great person but he’s not in love with h...
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{ "description": "not watching a show my sister likes", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not watching a show my sister likes
My sister has been obsessed with this one show and I'll listen to her talk about and everything but I can't watch it. It's extremely boring and annoying to me personally. I've told her several times that I don't want to watch it and she just doesn't stop trying to force me to. Most recently she took away the dip for th...
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AITA Girlfriend sharing her sex life with coworker
So my girlfriend of about 6 months started to work at a restaurant and about 3 weeks In get hit on by a coworker. The coworker then proceeds to tell my girlfriend that he has bondage rope and is into bdsm (after my girlfriend said she was too and explained what categories of BDSM she enjoyed). He then tells her that he...
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{ "description": "leaving a girl because of her sexual past", "pronormative_score": 87, "contranormative_score": 105 }
AITA for leaving a girl because of her sexual past?
My now ex and I had been together for 8 months. We never had sex. Yesterday I broke up with her after learning about her past. She was a bit of a party girl in college and ended up sleeping with a few guys. By her count it's 8 guys but could be as high as 15. I've slept with 2. She said I was slut shaming and an asshol...
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{ "description": "telling my cousin's ex-boyfriend that she had his baby without telling him", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I told my cousin’s ex-boyfriend that she had his baby without telling him?
No matter what, this situation is going to get messy. TLDR at the bottom. For context, my (23F) cousin (25f) has a lot of issues. She has always been a pathological liar, has trouble making decisions and being responsible, etc. About a year ago, my cousin was sleeping with multiple people. I have absolutely no issue...
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{ "description": "asking my ex to sext", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for asking my ex to sext?
We were serious for about 2 years, we still talk a bit on snapchat. She's always flirty and casually sends pics emphasizing her cleavage and whatnot- it turns me on. I *would* just go for it but I don't wanna play with her heart- she still asks for me back and I feel like if we did something sexual she would tie meanin...
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{ "description": "bluntly suggesting my friend switch electives", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for bluntly suggesting my friend switch electives?
Basically he seemed pretty excited to audition for the first play we did this year, then was disappointed when he landed a role as pretty much a background extra, even though he had the option to quit, he instead chose to continue through with it, complaining the whole time, and being disrespectful to the theatre teach...
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{ "description": "ditching my friend group for a new one", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ditched my friend group for a new one. (Read all, context required)
On mobile, sorry for format/spelling problems So basically I’ve been friends with this group of people (excluding one) for about 6 years. They’re kind of the weirdo group in my school rn. Now in my last school, I was exclusively part of this friend group, mostly because I didn’t get along with the rest of the class. ...
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{ "description": "being upset at bf for smoking in the bedroom", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at bf for smoking in the bedroom
This is gonna be short and probably is minor but I’m currently sleeping on the couch cause of it. My bf smokes black and milds and I hate the smell and it gives me a headache. Cigarette and black smoke both do this to me. I’ve asked him not to. He just gets frustrated and is like “this is my room just as much as it i...
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{ "description": "getting excited about traveling and getting a tattoo", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting excited about traveling and getting a tattoo?
My gf was under the impression that the first time I'll be traveling will be with her. However I recently got the chance to travel with work, and I got excited about going 2 days ahead with the guys. I feel bad because she felt bad about it, it didn't occur to me how badly and emotionally it meant for her. Another thi...
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{ "description": "going to my sister's dream school when she just got rejected", "pronormative_score": 1234, "contranormative_score": 45 }
AITA for going to my sister’s dream school when she just got rejected?
So, I got into Cornell last week. Honestly I think it was fluke. I’m not smart, at all. I got a 28 ACT, a decent GPA (because my school grade inflates considerably). I had some decent extracurriculars but nothing remotely competitive enough to get me to a school like Cornell. But anyways... My twin sister is the oppos...
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{ "description": "changing my mind about shared flat", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for changing my mind about shared flat?
It's kind of a long story. Me and my friends were planning to get a shared flat together after high school ended. One of said friends ended up asking someone else(m), if he wanted to join the flat. The guy agreed. Said friend didn't ask for permission to ask and I chickened out about voicing my discomfort about that(I...
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{ "description": "telling my introverted sister my nephew is undersocialized", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my introverted sister my nephew is undersocialized?
For reference, my sister is 29,, I'm 25M, and my nephew is 7M. So, growing up, my sister, let's call her Caroline, grew up with two extroverted, high achieving parents. And they wanted us to be just like them, putting us into sports, instrument lessons, reading groups, martial arts, etc. Personally, I enjoyed that bu...
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{ "description": "not letting my cat go outside", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my cat go outside?
Me and my cat have been together for about 14 years. She is a really sweet thing, very smart and quite lively despite her age. She has always been an indoors cat. First of all, I have to clarify that the place we live is really not safe for outdoors pets as there are a lot of strays in the streets and people drive li...
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{ "description": "joking about a customer refusing to even try to put stuff back on the shelf", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for joking about a customer refusing to even try to put stuff back on the shelf?
Stocking a shelf at work. The shelf has slots for each item and a retracting panel behind the items to automatically push them forward. They require minimal effort to push back and put an item in, but some customers refuse to do the absolute bare minimum and if the item doesn't magically push in with so little force yo...
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{ "description": "not tipping my so when he serves me at his restaurant", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not tipping my SO when he serves me at his restaurant?
For context, he works at a small ritzy place that dies out around 7:30-8pm most weekday nights. He and I are both servers for the same chain, just different locations. Some nights after class I’ll metro over and go see him, and because I’m an employee at the same chain I get 50% off. I can get a burger/fries for 4 b...
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{ "description": "outing my friends behavior in the group", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for outing my friends behavior in the group?
Beware of drama. We used to have a tight group of friends in our hometown, but since the last year it fell a little apart. One of the guys has some anger and behavior issues, and over the years has been involved in fights with individuals from the group. To distance myself from this behavior, I stopped inviting him for...
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AITA Horrible "step-mom" took my tv from someone I gifted it to without asking me (first world problem)
I want to clarify that this is a very complex and personal situation, she is basically a very bad person (and she is my brother's mother, who she abandoned when he was a kid to go enjoy her life with another guy), objectively, and my dad is careful having her in our house and basically has her because if he didn't she...
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{ "description": "not filling up some guys gas can", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not filling up some guys gas can?
I live in a fairly rural town, but our population is growing rapidly. We have one gas station, which used to be sufficient, but now it is always crowded. Particularly around 5pm when most people finish work, you could easily wait 20 minutes to fill up your car. Anyway, I waited my turn and started filling up my car. ...
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{ "description": "going against my parent's wishes", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going against my parent's wishes?
Before I dive in, I want to let it be known that I am a working adult who is a college graduate. However I'm not happy with my lifestyle and what I really want to do is live and work overseas. My parents know what I really want but are against this and want me to stay home with them or at least somewhere close by, espe...
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{ "description": "going to happy hour while my SO sat at home with a broken ankle", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for going to happy hour while my SO sat at home with a broken ankle?
We have had some pretty awful weather recently and Monday evening my boyfriend slipped on the ice right after we were involved in a minor car accident and broke his ankle. He stayed home from work yesterday so he was unaware of the road conditions. I left work an hour early to go home and take care of him, however the...
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{ "description": "sending my daughters food back", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I sent my daughters food back?
Earlier at lunch my daughter got shrimp tacos expecting standard tortilla lettuce and shrimp but it had shredded cabbage and cottage cheese or something and I thought about sending it back for the simpler version she wanted. I didn't because I didn't in case that an asshole move but it go me wondering
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{ "description": "not letting someone borrow my calculator during an exam", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting someone borrow my calculator during an exam?
I just discovered this subreddit and hope this fits here, I’ve been thinking about it for the past two days. So some context; I’m in my final semester in college and really ready to graduate. At this point I’m really frustrated with the university, the professors, and most of my fellow students. The one sitting next ...
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{ "description": "not stopping a drunk girl from making out with me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not stopping a drunk girl from making out with me?
So last night I got drunk at a friends house. It was just a small group of us, around 7 people. One of the girls there is one of my close friends now. We’ve gotten closer because we’ve realized we are just a male and female version of each other. I think she’s cute but I don’t see her as anything other than one of my b...
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{ "description": "not trying to fix a broken friendship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not trying to fix a broken friendship?
To preface this, I have severe depression, and have few friends, and of those friends there was only one I trusted with anything to do with my depression. The other day I was struggling with it, and texted him about it, and he told me that all I ever do is complain even though my life isnt so bad, and I'm always incons...
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{ "description": "keeping a package that I never paid for that I mistakenly was sent from a locally owned store", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for keeping a package that I never paid for that I mistakenly was sent from a locally owned store?
I mistakenly received a package from a locally owned business (not a corporate store think mom and pop shop) worth around $250. I did not pay for or order this item. I have ordered similar items online from them in the past and that is probably why they have my address and cause of the mixup. AITA for not returning it ...
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{ "description": "firing an employee for smoking weed", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for firing an employee for smoking weed?
I'm the founder/CIO (chief investment officer) of a prop shop (what we do is prop, or proprietary, trading, which means we're trading stocks using our own money rather than using money given by clients). I dislike bureaucracy since I think it's inefficient, so I run it with a few simple rules. Rule #3 is, no trading ...
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{ "description": "going to a track day while my girlfriend was in the hospital having her appendix out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for going to a track day while my girlfriend was in the hospital having her appendix out?
So long story short I like to end 3 day long track day events where there is circuit racing, time trials, and just open track sessions. Not I volunteer for the company that organizes and runs the events and I get comped track time in return and normally I camp out to save money, and my girlfriend comes with me to hang...
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{ "description": "not wanting my uncle of probation", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my uncle of probation.
My uncle abused me for 5 years. (7-12). He’s been on probation for 14 years. He has 15 years left. I was recently contacted by his PO saying that the judge, and him are willing to get him off probation if I’m okay with it. I don’t think I want this to happen. I originally found out through my grandma, but found out t...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that she's negative and that many of her problems are possibly her own undoing", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that she's negative and that many of her problems are possibly her own undoing?
Okay, so I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and she has always been wonderful to me. However, she is incredibly introverted and the best way to describe the situation is with the words my therapist used: "/u/DamaruisManeti, you are someone that generally likes people until they give you a reason no...
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{ "description": "not trusting my mother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not trusting my mother??
So I (17m) had gotten my mother mad at me for not telling her my problems. I did not want to talk about them at the moment but she kept insisting. ​ I had went to see a CAMH counselor earlier in the year, talking in confidence that it would be kept between only the people in the room/ However she began dro...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For ending a friendship? (A bit NSFW & long)
I haven’t talked to this person in quite a while so I’m not sure if she or her bf use Reddit. Because of this, I’m going to try to be as vague as possible while providing the important stuff still. Sorry for how long this is! Let’s call my friend Sarah. Sarah and I met in middle school when she transferred to our scho...
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{ "description": "making my roommate's boyfriend's WiFi slower", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for making my roommate's boyfriend's WiFi slower?
My roommate's boyfriend has been staying at our place regularly for the past few weeks and my other roommate and I have noticed a decrease in our wireless speed. Upon further investigation, it turns out that he has 3 devices connected to the network at all times (usually streaming music or TV shows), while everyone els...
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AITA would I be- if I have my boyfriend half the food money instead of sharing it
My boyfriend and I usually share food money but because he has a disorder surrounding food it’s extremely hard to shop and make any recipes. It’s not his fault but he basically doesn’t eat anything and apparently therapy does nothing for him. It’s very very hard to live in a cheap budget, try and cook new foods and s...
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