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{ "description": "getting upset with my boyfriend when he didn't wake me up", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for getting upset with my boyfriend when he didn't wake me up?
Hey guys, It's a long one. TLDR at the bottom. Ok for some background we are both college students and have classes on Monday through Thursday at 11 a.m. Also, last night my boyfriend's cousin was in a car accident (they're ok) and we didn't leave the hospital until about 3 a.m. and went to sleep at about 5 a.m. Las...
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{ "description": "criticizing my wife for questioning a guy about his dreads and then touching them", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for criticizing my wife for questioning a guy about his dreads and then touching them?
Last night I was on a double date with my wife and another couple at a bar. There was a black dude playing that had a Jamaican style hat on with dreadlocks. My fairly drunk wife went up to him and asked if they were real or if it was once of those "hats with the fake dreds attached". I admonished her for this and sa...
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{ "description": "removing my friend off of our clubs group me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For removing my friend off of our clubs group me?
So i have known this friend for a few months now, completely casual relationship outside of a few text here and there, until it turned into something more. We ended up hanging out, sleeping together, which turned into a 3 day weekend thing and we discussed being together. The problem arose with the fact she was in a se...
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{ "description": "not letting my 3 legged cat go outside", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my 3 legged cat go outside?
My husband and I adopted Junkrat at a shelter about a year and a half ago. He was already a tripod, hence the name. The shelter assumes he was ran over by a car, so the fear was instilled in me on the get go. My vet friend and family members are telling me its cruel to not get him some fresh air and "cat time" I'm ...
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{ "description": "being an asshole to my friends asshole", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being an asshole to my friends asshole?
I fingered his butt and didn't give her a reach around. AITA?
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{ "description": "not wanting to drink expired medication", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to drink expired medication
So this is my first pose and I’m really sick so this might be a little messy I have a really bad cold rn .I’m Talking Tonsilloliths (tonsle stones ) runny nose , sore throat , coughing and Fever also pain in my ears . I’ve spent the whole day on the couch covered in layers of blankets. My mom is one of those Facebook...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend her long-term plan, if her current plan fails", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking my girlfriend her long-term plan, if her current plan fails?
Some back story, sorry if this is too long... My girlfriend and I have been together for five years, the first four of those long-distance (she was in Boston, I was in New York). We're both in our early thirties. About a year ago, she left her job and moved in with me, planning to find a new job ASAP. She left her job...
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{ "description": "being upset at my fiancé being petty over video games", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at my fiancé being petty over video games?
hey there. in mobile so forgive any mistakes. my (25F) fiancé, lets call him Jon (24m) takes video games way too seriously. my fiancé is very into Overwatch. he’s a diamond/masters player, and always feels the need to insert that fact into every argument we have regarding the game. i also play Overwatch as a gold p...
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AITA Husband is restricting my budget
I am a SAHM. I quit working on hightech to take care of my first born. We are pretty well off. We agreed that we would use his salary to live and whatever is left after all the mutual expenses would be divided between both of us. We have 3 accounts, a shared one, and each has their personal one so that we can each spen...
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{ "description": "bringing my girlfriend to my sister's wedding", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I brought my girlfriend to my sister's wedding?
TL;DR at the bottom. I (F) and my girlfriend have been dating for about 6 months now. My sisters and my parents know that I am bi and they have all met and approved of Girlfriend. However before the holidays, Mom made it clear that she did not want me to talk about Girlfriend during the holidays with any of my extende...
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{ "description": "not immediately leaving the room when my roommate came in his his gf", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not immediately leaving the room when my roommate came in his his gf?
So I'm in the middle of finals week and wasn't pleased with my first exam grade, so I've been spending extra time studying for my upcoming exams. Last night while I was studying, my roommate came in with his girlfriend and they started watching Netflix very loudly. My roommate texted me saying "leave", but I still want...
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{ "description": "stepping down from my friend's wedding 2 days prior", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 19 }
WIBTA If I stepped down from my friend's wedding 2 days prior?
A good friend of mine got engaged last July and asked me to be her maid of honor. I've had my reservations about the whole thing from the start seeing as they had only been dating for a month when he proposed. And there seem to be a lot of red flags with the guy. I tried to be supportive and help her plan it last summe...
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{ "description": "not introducing my boyfriend in the middle of a really intense conversation", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not introducing my boyfriend in the middle of a really intense conversation
Okay, so there's a bigger backstory here but I'll give you the basic gist. I am a seamstress, and I do quick mending jobs on the side. A girl contacted me about fixing her winter coat, so I let her hang out while I stitched it. We got to talking, and realized we had met before under very dubious circumstances. Turns ou...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my ex
I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago because he just wanted to keep it a secret because we’re gay and I just couldn’t take it so we broke up. Am I an asshole for not wanting to talk to him?
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{ "description": "asking my friend to not play certain songs", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my friend to not play certain songs?
Something that I’ve honestly stewed on for a few months and I’d love to finally get some resolve to this question. Context: My friend (Josh) and I play music together in a band. Josh is a fantastic guitarist and singer, and he’s really had to work on it but it’s definitely paid off. I’ve always fancied trying to sing ...
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{ "description": "turning down a job", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Turning Down A Job?
This has been on my mind, and I need to hear the internet's judgement to see if I'm in the wrong. I have been job hunting a lot. A few months back, against my better wishes, I gave my information to a recruiting agency. I'm not a fan of them, as you end up with a lot of "please pass this information along", but I fi...
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{ "description": "cancelling the exam-appointment", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for cancelling the exam-appointment?
I'm 26F, have quite damaged teeth from a disease and visit the Dental clinic here quite often. Some treatments are more expensive, my budget tight, so i got offered a place in the student courses. Nice girl there treted me amazingly well, but there still was stuff to do, so she asked me if i wanted to be her friends pa...
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{ "description": "leaving a bad review on AirBnb", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving a bad review on AirBnb?
Recently my mom was on a trip with her sister, and I arranged for her to stay at an apartment I found on AirBnB. My mother initially told me they would leave the apartment at 10:00 am, so that's what I told the host. Apparently though, they asked the day they arrived if they could leave at 11:00 am instead, and they we...
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{ "description": "not picking up my coworkers shift", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not picking up my coworkers shift?
So let me preface by saying most of coworkers are really shitty workers, they half ass everything and leave extra work for the people who do their job as it's expected. They also call off constantly, I probably get 1-3 last minute calls a week asking if I can come in for so and so's shift. I pretty much always say no, ...
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{ "description": "wanting to take 3 days vacation to spend with friends", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to take 3 days vacation to spend with friends?
Okay so backstory - I've been together with my girlfriend for 2 years and it's a bit difficult for us to match our vacations together. Last year we managed to squeeze 2 weeks together (out of 4). However, this year I managed to book 3 weeks (15 working days) on the dates that she was able to get vacations (In other wor...
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{ "description": "being slightly mad at a caregiver", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being slightly mad at a caregiver?
This will probably be a long one, but here it is: We have a caregiver living with us since last year. She used to be really nice, then she took a vacation and seems like a totally different person since she came back. Our agreement was that she would take care of an elder family member and have the weekends off, but ...
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{ "description": "insisting that my boyfriend pay me back even though he's sick", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for insisting that my boyfriend pay me back even though he’s sick?
I lent my boyfriend $200 a couple months ago, and he was supposed to pay me back a couple of weeks ago. He said that he had a check coming in and it would get done (it didn’t) and then yesterday he said he tried to Western Union it but it got fucked up and he’d try again this morning. We are in a LDR by the way. He no...
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{ "description": "wanting my hair fixed, for free, by the hairdresser", "pronormative_score": 46, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA because I want my hair fixed, for free, by the hairdresser?
[What I showed her](http://imgur.com/KmuiLRL) [What I got](http://imgur.com/gEiWAi4) I asked my stylist to do a light brown rose gold, and emphasized that I wanted it a light brown, warm color. I showed her the picture more than a week in advance of the appointment so she had time to get any colors she didn’t have...
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{ "description": "telling my dad I only have an hour of time to work on his logo for his organization", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my dad I only have an hour of time to work on his logo for his organization?
I'm 17yo and my dad recently started his own judo club. Yesterday, told me he had to get a logo to represent them. Since he doesn't want to pay a graphic designer (we aren't poor, money really isn't an issue for us), he asked me to do it for him. I do know some basic image editing, but I can't compose or design for shi...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my mother-in-law and making the family visit awkward", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for getting mad at my mother-in-law and making the family visit awkward?
My mother-in-law was baiting my four year old daughter into saying things she didn't want her to say and then threatening to go home when my daughter gave her the answer she knew she would get to the question. That's the TL:DR version. The longer version is that my niece is going through a biting stage right now and b...
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{ "description": "not doing school work during Spring Break", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not doing school work during Spring Break?
Throwaway account. I am in college and one of the things I've learned in school is that I need to take breaks when I can. This year I booked a trip for spring break that would keep me away from any areas with reliable cell or internet service. I made sure to book it so I didn't miss any classes. I would leave for my s...
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{ "description": "calling a local business out for unfollowing me on Instagram", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for calling a local business out for unfollowing me on Instagram
This is every bit as petty as it sounds but I really want your opinion on it. This past summer a local beauty company opened in town. Everything they sold was rather pricey but since they boasted about the exceptional quality (I believe it's all organic) and I wanted to support small business I would often visit and sp...
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{ "description": "not taking one of my player's complaints about being uncomfortable seriously", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not taking one of my player's complaints about being uncomfortable seriously?
I DM for a group of 5 people: Will, Lorraine, Ben, Issac and Holly. I met the latter three at uni, while Will and Lorraine (a couple) are friends of a friend. I'm not am experienced DM but I really like this group as there's always a fun atmosphere around the table. As an additional advantage, the group doesn't have an...
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{ "description": "lying about liking somebody in a relationship when explicitly asked", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: Lying about liking somebody in a relationship when explicitly asked?
So I’m bi and male and have recently become really close friends with another bi guy who’s in a relationship with a girl. Their relationship has been rather rocky lately and she is insecure about he and I being friends. He came over to my apartment to hang out the other night (completely platonic) and she got upset and...
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{ "description": "not telling my family I moved out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not telling my family I moved out?
I signed a lease and got an apartment but I didn’t tell anyone. I just sort of left? Now my sister is upset and telling me how I ruined Christmas how could I go behind her back without telling anyone. My dad is upset and my younger sister is crying because she thinks I abandoned everyone. I didn’t leave the family,...
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AITA So I broke up with my GF though text and I don't know if I'm the asshole or not please read
Alright so I know that dumping though text is the worst thing to do but let me explain myself. I'm in 9th grade and just broke up with this girl, she put up multiple red flags and that ended up being the reasons I broke up with her. Those red flags were always and I mean ALWAYS saying I love you even though I told her...
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{ "description": "telling my pastor that I don't want to be drowned in oil during prayer because of acne issues", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my pastor that I don't want to be drowned in oil during prayer because of acne issues?
So recently, I've started to get quite annoyed with my pastor. I've had this issue for awhile now but I decided last Sunday that I would let my pastor know about it. Just so you guys know, I'm actually an atheist but because of my family I am forced to attend a baptist church. They have this tradition they do every Su...
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{ "description": "letting one of my close friends (who has a girlfriend) get with girls while extremely intoxicated and not tell her", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for letting one of my close friends (who has a girlfriend) get with girls while extremely intoxicated and not tell her?
Okay, before the pitchforks come out, let me explain. * on mobile please excuse poor formatting We are both in college, and both in the same fraternity. His girlfriend is hundreds of miles away back home, and my friend (let’s call him Baker) is one of my best friends. Out of everyone I have ever met in college, he ...
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{ "description": "restraining a 13 year old from hitting me with his football any longer", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for restraining a 13 year old from hitting me with his football any longer?
So, I know the title sounds like a shitpost but I actually do feel bad. I’m a 15 year old male who is kinda overweight and fairly tall, 5’11. To reduce my weight, I have started cycling in my neighbourhood. I put on my headphones and start making laps around my neighbourhood. There are usually a bunch of kids out playi...
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{ "description": "cutting off a \"friend\"", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off a "friend"?
I'm using a throwaway just in case the person in question has one as well, but I'm highly doubtful. Better safe than sorry. Also, apologies for the length. I want to add as much detail as possible for anyone reading. I've lurked on here before slightly, but I'm not sure if this is considered AMIA worthy. Apologies x2 ...
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{ "description": "calling the police on a suicidal friend", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the police on a suicidal friend?
Okay so this a throwaway account because this is not a fun thing to talk about. So a little back story, I have this friend that I've known for about 5 years. And in all the time I've known them, they have been extremely depressed and suicidal. They have made several attempts to end it and I have been the one to talk t...
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{ "description": "being mad at my parents for putting my sister over me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being mad at my parents for putting my sister over me.
Let me explain, my mother and father are divorced and I live with my mother as well as my sister. My mother is a single working mother and she regularly travels outside of the country because she is invited to company trips where she does nothing but have fun. My sister is a spoiled girl, she never interacts properly w...
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{ "description": "bumping into a car that has rolled to a stop in the crosswalk", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA (as a pedestrian) for bumping into a car that has rolled to a stop in the crosswalk?
Look, I get that threre are some cities where you might be killed for touching someone’s car, people are assholes in general, and I know that a ped can easily walk around the car (in front or behind). I don’t think the drivers of cars are (or should be) allowed to do so.
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{ "description": "wanting locks on my doors", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting locks on my doors?
Hi all, so to start off here is some background information. I am 16 years old and living with my parents. One of my doors has no lock, and the other has a lock that doesn’t work, for reasons I will get into shortly. Whenever I am doing anything, my parents burst in without knocking. This is normally fine, but my dad d...
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{ "description": "wanting to know about my pregnant sister", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to know about my pregnant sister?
My sister was due a few days ago. She is older than me by 3 years and we have never been very close. She basically has estranged herself from our parents and myself for the most part for years now. We have been keeping in touch with her ofc and have been asking how she has been and if she needs anything. I have even ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to match with trans peeps on my dating app", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting to match with trans peeps on my dating app?
I recently rejoined the dating app world, and things have definitely changed. I consider myself a true-blue lefty and have always supported the LGBT community (one of my nephews is trans). That being said. I’m straight and interested in dating people of the opposite sex. I also want a 1-on1, monogamous relationship. ...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to a Concert Wthout my husband", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Wanting To Go To A Concert Wthout My Husband?
Back story, meet my husband whom ive known for 7 years (married last year) who's quite a bit older than me. Hes in his mid 60s and im about to turn 40. I work part time and do ecommerce on the side (ebay etsy etc) so I am always working. My husband is retired and he drinks more often than not. On an average month, he...
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{ "description": "not doing something I wasn't asked to do", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not doing something I wasn’t asked to do?
On mobile, yadda yadda, formatting, all that, you know the drill. Also throw away account because people I personally know know of my real account. Anyway this happened just an hour or so before posting and although I feel guilty I still don’t think I’m in the wrong *entirely*. But that’s not for me to decide. Basi...
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{ "description": "blocking my grandma's phone number", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for blocking my grandma's phone number?
My mom's mom is suffering from early dementia/Alzheimer's that seems to be progressing at an alarming rate. Having witnessed my step-mom's father succumb to this disease years ago I am very sympathetic and understanding of the pain and heart break this disease inflicts to everyone surrounding the afflicted loved one. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hangout late with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to hangout late with my girlfriend
So my girlfriend can’t stay up late for shit. When I’m with her and make plans I don’t plan on going to bed by 10pm. So instead I tell her I’d like to see her during the day instead of night so I don’t get frustrated over driving couple hours just to leave again. Lately she’s been upset with me because I’ve been hangin...
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{ "description": "not texting a group chat for a few days", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not texting a group chat for a few days?
A group of my friends and I are in an Instagram group chat together. There’s only about six of us, and we all go to different schools, so it’s almost our only way of communicating with each other. Well, lately (as in this past week or so) I’ve had a lot to do. I’ve had a lot of homework and band/play rehearsals, plus I...
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{ "description": "planning for our trip to Europe", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for planning for our trip to Europe ?
So my boyfriend (25M) and I (24F) are from the states and are currently traveling through Europe for a few weeks. We have been wanting to come for years and planning this trip for months. We are a little over halfway through and all of a sudden my boyfriend gets angry because he says I have been controlling every aspec...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut off one of my best friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting to cut off one of my best friends?
I have a friend of more than 20 years. She was a bridesmaid at my wedding, and we have been close for so long. When we were around 18 or 19, she was there for me when I fell in love with somebody who didn’t feel the same way. I was heartbroken, and completely devastated. We used to “fool around” when we got drunk toget...
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{ "description": "adding someone on facebook, lying to my gf about it when she asked and getting mad that she used my phone to check it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for adding someone on facebook, lying to my GF about it when she asked and getting mad that she used my phone to check it?
Pretty much the title. A few weeks ago, I met and spoke to a girl at a party with my gf who, in all honesty, I found very attractive so I added her to FB just so I could ogle at her pics. She's also an old friend of my sister's (a detail unknown to me and told so by my GF) so I figured there was no big deal. FF a coupl...
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{ "description": "going on a weekend while my dad is spending all his time renovating my house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going on a weekend while my dad is spending all his time renovating my house.
So I bought a house that required a thorough renovation. My dad is retired and an extremely handy guy. He already helped building my brother and sister’s houses but was a bit reluctant to help me with mine as he can get quite stressed about it. But eventually he agreed to help me. However as I have a full-time job I ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to stay home for my best friend at new years", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For not wanting to stay home for my best friend at New Years?
So first of all I feel guilty really quickly. So a week back or so I promised my best friend that I would stay home on New Year’s Eve so we could do something. She promised her family that she would stay home until at least 00:00 And I then said sure I’ll wait for you But now my bf invited me to a party that star...
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{ "description": "not letting my gf sleep over with her best guy friend, who she claims to be just friends with", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my (m19) gf(17) sleep over with her best guy friend, who she claims to be just friends with?
so we have been dating for 6 months now and im really into her, but she has a lot of guy friends which in and of itself isnt an issue to me at all. however, theres this one guy she used to always hang out with and sleep over at, but there was never anything beyond friendship according to her. she has admitted that whe...
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{ "description": "looking at other drivers I pass", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for looking at other drivers I pass?
So my BF and I disagree on this. I usually trust his advice since he is the safest driver I know... But. I am paranoid on the road. The reason for my paranoia is that I have been in three accidents over my 6 years of driving. Once I was rear-ended, not at fault, the other two... involved hitting a christmas tree in t...
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{ "description": "telling my housemate she's coughing too much", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if I tell my housemate she's coughing too much
One of my housemates coughs really really loud, it wakes me up and is just really distracting as I work from home. She doesn't cover her mouth and it just generally doesn't sound healthy, should I at least tell her she should have some medicine?
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WIBTA If you texted another girl behind this girls back.
So I'm a college student who hasn't had much success with girls it's not that I'm afraid to ask them out its just I don't get many yes answers. So superbowl night my dad had a party in the basement and these two girls who were friends woth my nieces came upstairs. The point is my dad set me up with one of them. I haven...
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{ "description": "telling my friends I'm dating my partner", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my friends I’m dating my partner?
I have been dating my SO for a little under a 2 months now. We agreed to keep it to ourselves for a bit at first, and that was fine. Now that’s it’s been a couple months, my friends have obviously noticed we spend a lot of time together. He has been around me and my friends before, and it’s clear that something is goin...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with my friends", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with my friends?
My closest friends are all in relationships (except one, but her fwb is almost always with her) and I honestly do like most of their SOs, but whenever I make plans with my friends singularly, they make no mention of it being the three of us, but it almost always is. My job is male dominated and I just want to have some...
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{ "description": "getting my classmates to skip class for a test", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting my classmates to skip class for a test?
First time posting here. I hope my grammar and spelling errors won't make it a pain to read, as I am a french student. So it all happened two days ago. We were about to be tested for our german oral expression. The problem is that about 90% of the school loathes german, but still take it over spanish because it may be...
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{ "description": "breaking up with GF because my friends and family are racist", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 132 }
AITA for breaking up with GF because my friends and family are racist?
Well i finally decided i will share my story, this happenend couple weeks ago. Iam from Poland but i work and study in Berlin along with my older brother and several friends. We were quite a close group but recently i started new job in restaurant as i do want to became a chef one day so we were meeting each other les...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to make plans to hangout instead of assuming I'm always ready to", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Asking my friend to make plans to hangout instead of assuming I’m always ready to?
For context I am a college student (20f lesbian) and my friend and I were roommates freshmen year so we used to hangout all the time. This year, however has been harder for me to be free because I started a demanding job and got into a committed relationship. My friend does not like my girlfriend for what I think is...
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{ "description": "driving away after \"hitting\" a car", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for driving away after “hitting” a car?
So earlier today I went to a coffee shop and the parking spaces are very tight there. It didnt help that there was a car that was parked too far out (who was preventing multiple customers in the lot to move around) that was making it extra tight. Anyways when I left due to the fact that the car was making it difficult ...
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{ "description": "skipping part of my responsibilities", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for skipping part of my responsibilities? (UPDATED)
I posted on here earlier but some things have changed. The situation is this: I go to a small private school. Seniors, instead of senior privilege, are forced to do work such as washing dishes, sweeping floors, managing concessions etc in order to raise money to go on a class trip. Here's the catch- the trip is NOT o...
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{ "description": "dating my friends ex who she still hates", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA if I date my friends ex who she still hates?
My friend and him broke up over a year ago. He cheated on her and just wasn’t very nice to her. He’s changed though and regrets the way he treated her, he has matured since then and me and him have a few classes together and get along really well. We’ve been texting a lot and he’s told me he really likes me and asked m...
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{ "description": "ghosting a guy from Tinder because he kept asking for selfies", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ghosting a guy from Tinder because he kept asking for selfies?
I matched with a guy on tinder and we started chatting. He seemed pleasant enough so we arranged a date, exchanged phone numbers and moved over to whatsapp. ​ And then he asked me to send him a selfie, he also specified he meant a "normal selfie, not a naked one or anything". I thought it was a bit weird ...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay utilities", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to pay utilities?
I recently moved out of an apartment living with three other roommates. One of them, an older man who was on disability for chronic fatigue, was always home and made me feel incredibly uncomfortable (I struggle with social anxiety and depression). He often slept in the common areas and had a very uncoordinated sleeping...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that Michael Scott from the Office gets assassinated at the end", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend that Michael Scott from the Office gets assassinated at the end?
My friend/roomie has never seen the office before. I decided that it would be funny to convince him that someone murdered Micheal at the end We are on season 4 right now and he’s believing everything I say lol. Am I an asshole for wanting to do this? I’ve seen the office at least 7-8 times now and I just thought it ...
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{ "description": "having a hard time respecting my parents when they don't want to show me respect", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for having a hard time respecting my parents when they don’t want to show me respect?
My parents are always after me for not being disrespectful to them, but when I say that I have a hard time because I don’t feel like they respect me or my ideas, and then get upset about “if you want us to start showing you respect, you gotta start acting worthy of respect?” To me shouldn’t they start being respectful ...
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{ "description": "yelling at two people in my class group to stfu", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for yelling at two people in my class group to stfu?
This happened about two hours ago but yeah. We were playing kahoot in class with our groups. I felt I knew all the vocab very well so I decided I’ll be in charge of answering it as I was confident. So I pulled out my phone and got in the game made a team name and yeah. My group has five people in total including me. Tw...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with someone with BPD", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone with BPD
I’ve been this girls friend for years and years (I’m 21 and we’ve been friends since I can remember) let’s call her Claire. So when Claire and I went to high school we went to different high schools, so we kinda lost touch until I was in grade 11. The reason we really started hanging out again was because she tried to...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do anal", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to do anal?
My boyfriend (21M) and I (21F) have been together for 3 years and been living together for that long as well. Just as some background info, he was interested in doing anal when we first started dating and I have tried it when we were first together. However, I really hated it as it hurts and just have no pleasure at ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my wifes aunt to live with us for a month", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting my wifes aunt to live with us for a month?
Her aunt (from AZ) is moving to a city near us in WI. She has family in both locations. Aunt has been staying at our place for the past week while looking for an appartment. She found one, but cant move in for a month. Aunt told us she will stay with us until then and her family in AZ will ship her belongings to her ...
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{ "description": "warning a friend not to live with my current housemate", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for warning a friend not to live with my current housemate?
The issue is that my current housemate (A) is planning on moving in with one of my friends (B) who is currently living with someone else (C). We're all university students, they're doing another year while this is my last so I'm not part of the equation. A is planning on moving in with B and C, but as a current house...
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{ "description": "defending my fiancee", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for defending my fiancee?
I don't have the best relationship with my parents. I've been working on that since I got engaged, as I want my fiancee to have a relationship with them if she wants. To help with this, we've tried including my mom in aspects of the wedding planning. My mom offered to cover parts of the wedding, and after considering ...
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{ "description": "asking out a girl I know my friend likes", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I asked out a girl I know my friend likes?
This is going to sound super childish but I do need advice. So there is this girl that I gave known all year (10th) and I introduced them to each other about 2 months ago. I could kinda tell that he liked her just based on how he looked at her and so I asked him yesterday. He said that “it was pretty obvious at this po...
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{ "description": "suing someone nice", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for suing someone nice?
Not gonna get into all the details... But my doctor is really a genuinely nice guy who has been an awesome doctor, has delivered my newborn son, and helped me get resources for post partum depression. However he also recommended and implanted a device that perforated through an internal organ and was floating around in...
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AITA been in a break up and decided to unfollow my ex when she was confused about getting back together post break?
So I am 27 and I am a male and my girlfriend is 24. We been together for about 3 months and in a program together. Well we got into a fight and she broke up with me. Fast forward before christmas break we decided to meet up and talk about it. She said she was just confused on getting back and will use the christmas bre...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut ties with my abusive mother, even though she has cancer", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to cut ties with my abusive mother, even though she has cancer?
I’ll try to make this as short as possible without giving you my life story. My mother was emotionally (and slightly physically) abusive towards me (25f) growing up. She’d call me names (loser, bitch, c*nt) and yell “f*ck you” to me for making small mistakes, even after I made an effort to fix them. She also ignored m...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfreind's mother to butt out of our relationship", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my girlfreind's mother to butt out of our relationship?
​ We starting dating when she was already 16, which is legal in my state, but the mother still won't butt out and keeps calling me a creep and threatens to have me arrested for statutory r\*pe, but like I said my GF is of legal age. She also keeps telling my GF to break up with me, and it's really getting o...
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{ "description": "using someone's Hulu account", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for using someone's Hulu account?
My friend offed me free Hulu access, saying I could get tons of shows and movies for free on demand, and live TV, and save $43/mo using it. So he gave me the Email and password to a Hulu account, but I realized it wasn't his account. He told me that he sent a lady on Facebook he knew a keylogger, and managed to get he...
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{ "description": "being a hypocrite about junk food and calling my spouse fat", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being a hypocrite about junk food and calling my spouse fat?
Cut a lot to reach 3K, hope it still makes sense. Sorry, on mobile. So, I've seen quite a few posts by men who want their girlfriends to lose weight. They tend to end up the asshole, usually because there's some element of "lose weight to get hot." This makes me wonder if I'm also an asshole. As long as I've known ...
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{ "description": "ignoring my friend's cry for help", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for ignoring my friend's cry for help
So for my 16th birthday we went to Wisconsin Dells (which is a water park for those who are unaware) with a small group of friends. Everything was fine but one day (stayed for the weekend) we were having fun in the hot tub chatting it up breath holding contests and all that but while we were having a nice lighthearted ...
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{ "description": "expecting my coworkers to know my name", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting my coworkers to know my name?
I started a new job on December 10th. It’s an office job in the healthcare field. I sit at a desk in a small, dark room with three other people. I’m on the phone for most of the day, but my job regularly requires me to get up and speak in person with doctors, medical assistants, and X-ray technicians. Sending emails to...
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{ "description": "refusing to workout with my dad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to workout with my dad?
I’m 16, baseball tryouts are in 2 weeks. My dad tried to force me to workout tonight but I refused, one reason was because of homework, and the second is, I’m gonna start running tomorrow to get some cardio and I really don’t like the workout routines my dad makes. Now he’s threatening to ground me because I refused. A...
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{ "description": "calling out my gf for not paying back any money she's borrowed", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out my (23F) gf for not paying back any money she's borrowed?
As a rule of thumb, my dad always told me to never lend money that you received expect to see again. Anyhow, my gf has borrowed about $1200 from me (26M) accumulated over about 4-6 months. She's paid back $250 of that about two weeks after what she initially borrowed. Of course she promised to pay me back. That showe...
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AITA in this cycling incident - video linked in text
I always rude around town with my GoPro recording (I ride around NYC, crazy busy and dangerous), was I in the seeing here? I feel like I wasn’t, and got kicked for no reason. https://youtu.be/GCamT_K1OF4
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend if I could visit an escort", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for asking my girlfriend if I could visit an escort?
My relationship with my girlfriend (2 years, both 22 years old) is great. One thing though. I have a huge foot fetish and she isn't into it. At all. Our sex life and life together in general is great, so I don't see it as something to break up with her over. I've thought of bringing up seeing an escort before, but wou...
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{ "description": "expecting MY BROTHER to accomodate MY sister and I when booking his wedding on a date we already have plans", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA FOR EXPECTING MY BROTHER TO ACCOMODATE MY SISTER AND I WHEN BOOKING HIS WEDDING ON A DATE WE ALREADY HAVE PLANS?
For a little background, I am in my last year of high school so performing in my last school musical, I have been cast as the main character as well as my sister having a speaking role and the dates of the production have already been set. My brother has been engaged for a couple of months and his fiancee is pregnant...
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{ "description": "being upset and having a few beers with my buddies", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset and having a few beers with my buddies
So burner account. I was denied my time with my daughter this weekend by her mom and there is more I can go into about but basically that's what upset me as it's court ordered and I have not idea where they are do there isn't much I can do about it atm. That all aside I told my gf (25f) that I (24m) was going to a fri...
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{ "description": "wanting my husband to shut up for a while every day", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my husband to shut up for a while every day?
My husband and I have been married 10 years and have four kids. I love the whole lot of em, but I'm a stay at home parent and therefore from the minute I crack my eyes open in the morning, someone is talking to me. Much of which is essentially monologuing, not a real conversation. In the evenings, my husband talks al...
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{ "description": "using a Stock Photo to sell something on FB Marketplace", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For Using A Stock Photo To Sell Something On FB Marketplace?
Context: 2 years ago I threw my best friend an Alice In Wonderland themed bridal shower. I spent a lot of time and money going around to thrift stores and estate sales, purchasing mismatched teacups/ saucers. We let the guests each take a cup home but we had about 15 left over. We had the bridal shower at my parents ho...
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{ "description": "cutting contact with my parents", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cut contact with my parents?
I have always kind of suspected my parents weren't the best parents. I gave them the benefit of the doubt because they had 4 kids before age 26 so things were hard financially (then again it's entirely there own decision to have 4 kids they couldn't provide for). I just recently had a child born in November and I have...
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{ "description": "not allowing my children to eat junk food, watch tv, or play video games", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 40 }
AITA for not allowing my children to eat junk food, watch tv, or play video games?
I have two children a 7 year old son and a 9 year old girl. We don’t allow our children to eat junk food, they will sometimes have it if they go to a friends house or on special occasions like Christmas, but we have zero junk food in our house normally. They sometimes beg me to buy it but normally they’re fine with wh...
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{ "description": "never tipping", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA if I never tip?
I don’t have much money right now so when I eat at restaurants with my friends I don’t tip. I’m already paying for the food, the restaurant doesn’t need any more of my money.
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{ "description": "taking the parking spot a lady was standing in", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for taking the parking spot a lady was standing in?
I (38F) was driving around with my husband (37M), looking for parallel parking in a busy area of town. I saw a parking spot that a lady (45ishF) was standing in. She's a human, not a car, so I start backing into the spot. She kind of waves at me like I didn't see her, but she moves out of the way. As I open my door to...
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{ "description": "being introverted and having a abusive father", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being introverted and having a abusive father?
I am 23 currently live with my GF, her mom, her brother, and every other week I have my son. I moved into their house to get myself and my son away from my abusive father. I was unable to sleep or relax while living with him, and I wasn't financially or mentally ready to live on my own yet. About 2 weeks after we moved...
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{ "description": "appealing a grade on a paper, but changing the paper for the second professor", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA for appealing a grade on a paper, but changing the paper for the second professor?
Sorry for the long post but tl;dr near the bottom. I enrolled in a project course at my college back in May. The timeframe is flexible: you decide with your professor how long the course should be (up to 1 year), and that determines how much work must be in it, how harsh it's marked, etc. It's expected to at least be ...
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{ "description": "setting off a road rage situation", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for setting off a road rage situation?
I had a bad day at work and set home just as rush hour was starting. Before i started out, i put on my "stress relief" playlist and started singing to the steering wheel at the top of my lungs. When i leave work there is a intersection where if you don't get to the light, you will be stuck waiting an additional long ...
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AITA For where I parked to get coffee
This morning I stopped off to grab some coffee like I do every day. It's raining pretty hard so I try to park as close to the door as possible. My lucky day! There's a parking spot right by the door. I pull in to the spot, but it's tight (I'm driving a minivan). The reason it's so tight is because some guy pulled his p...
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{ "description": "blocking my friend for sending an unsolicited dick pic", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for blocking my friend for sending an unsolicited dick pic? [NSFW]
So, I want to keep this short. I met this guy last semester and hit it off. We were in a relationship with for a few weeks till we ended things on okay terms. It was tough at first emotionally but a bit later I proposed we be FWBs. He disagreed saying the emotions are too raw. Few weeks later he said hes up to be FWB...
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{ "description": "calling someone out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling someone out
So i was in the gym today on the stepper when this girl comes by next to me. She cant start the other stepper so she just starts banging on it, which is superrr annoying. So i said can you please stop banging on that?! Then she gives me a dirty look and I told her its disrespectful. Later she ended up finding my keys...
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