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{ "description": "being disappointed with my girlfriend offering sex as a birthday present", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for being disappointed with my girlfriend offering sex as a birthday present
Me (19/m) and my girlfriend (21/f) have been together for nearly a year now. Before our relationship I have been in one relationship and had handful of one-night stand, where has my girlfriend has been in none and is a virgin. She told me at the start of the relationship that she wants to wait for the right person and...
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{ "description": "not applying to rehire for my old job", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not applying to rehire for my old job?
3 years ago when I was fresh out of college I was walking around the city trying to find a job (back then, I never considered applying through online). After 3 months, still unemployed, my father wanted to hire me in the box company (where he worked at for over 38 years) before he retired. He was the manager of the ope...
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{ "description": "reporting my family members to the IRS", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 14 }
WIBTA for reporting my family members to the IRS?
My family used to be large and close, until quite a few members died. Although we all try our best to stay close, naturally it became difficult. But my one aunt and uncle in particular have been horrible. Without going into too much of a backstory, a huge fight broke out between my one aunt (C), my mom (M), and my oth...
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{ "description": "being frustrated with my roommate who can't give me a straight answer about when to pay the Comcast bill", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being frustrated with my roommate who can't give me a straight answer about when to pay the Comcast bill?
She claims that her son is going to pay it possibly but the thing about her son is that he goes into depressive episodes and will disappear for weeks or months at a time. She claims that he said he would help with her Comcast bill. Personally, if it was in my name I would just have the service shut off because $184 a m...
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{ "description": "refusing to contribute to a bridal shower", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to contribute to a bridal shower
I was asked to be part of a wedding party for a close friend who lives on the other side of the country (I obviously said yes). I was informed a few days ago the bridal party is contributing (financially) to the bridal shower which location has already been picked and date. I told the bridal party I am not contributing...
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{ "description": "sending this text to my entire family, and following through with it", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I send this text to my entire family, and follow through with it?
Context: My family have 2 dogs and one cat. My family enjoys doing favors for other families so much that we have a dog, called Hunter, over frequently, and he constantly tries to harm the family cat. He comes from a well-to-do family that can afford a very nice kennel for 3 days easily. We had to put the cat on Prozac...
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{ "description": "not wanting my dad at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my dad at my wedding
I'm only 16, but I am thinking of my wedding as most teens do. I've been told by my mother, brother, and his girlfriend that my father should be invited and come to my wedding. But I really don't want him to. First off, he's married to a woman who emotionally abused me and my brother until both of us moved out. He m...
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{ "description": "arguing over a parking spot", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for arguing over a parking spot?
Didn't want to use my main cause family knows my user. Let me start this off like something off of /r/relationships. I (22m) recently moved back in with my father (54) to try and save money to leave again soon. My father recently got engaged and us 2 moved into a bigger house with my father's fiance (54f) and daughte...
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{ "description": "asking my ex if she had feelings for me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my ex if she had feelings for me?
In August last year, I ended m relationship with my ex because of the distance and the fact that neither of us were putting in the effort to make it work. Since then, we have remained friends, but rarely talk to each other. One thing we used to do regularly, when we were dating, was call each online, and talk throughou...
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{ "description": "talking to girls", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for talking to girls?
Continuation from my last post I made. During the time she did this I was really down, and I have many friends from across the world, I love learning languages and travelling, admittedly I got flirtatious, such as saying "Hey beautiful" to a reply, but nothing more. Just random compliments then months of not talking...
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AITA Customer Wearing A Barcode
I was at work yesterday and a customer came through my register. I finished scanning his items when I look up and notice the jacket he is wearing has a barcode and price tag hanging on it. So I ask him if he wants to buy the jacket. He immediately gets offended and gives me this look like I'm being racist (note: this g...
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{ "description": "being creeped out by my mom checking my location", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being creeped out by my mom checking my location?
This happened a few months ago but I'm still curious about it. My parents installed an app on my (16m) phone that, among other things, let them see my location. I should note that I've never snuck out of the house or anything like that. I grudgingly agreed to it. After a while, my mom started checking my location often...
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{ "description": "destroying the guys house who trashed my wife's apartment", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 37 }
AITA for destroying the guys house who trashed my wife's apartment?
So my wife has an apartment in canary wharf near where she works; in case either of us have projects or deals close to deadlines and we have to work absurd hours, usually we live out in Surrey in the countryside outside of the big city. So one day after work, she goes to the apartment and the key snaps in the lock of...
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{ "description": "upsetting my mom", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for upsetting my mom
Backstory. My mom has always been great, but has never picked the best men. After a 20+ year marriage, she caught my stepdad cheating and they divorced. Infidelity aside, he was a world class prick. Misogynistic, racist, narcissistic, manipulative, etc. The divorce was nasty, but my mother made it out and had a new out...
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{ "description": "enabling my sister's mistreatment of our elderly, abusive father until his death", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for enabling my sister's mistreatment of our elderly, abusive father until his death
I'm the middle of three children, the only son of our parents. Our dad was in his 50s when he had us and his 70s when he recently passed away. Our parents split ten years ago and our mum (she is much younger, only in her 20s when they married) had nothing to do with him and is married to someone else now. When we were ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a girl on the same day she asked me out", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with a girl on the same day she asked me out?
Context: I got out of a long-distance relationship about six or so months ago. Ex was *extremely* abusive, and left me really mentally scarred, to the point where I have flashback semi-regularly. Fast forward to yesterday, talking to a girl who I’d met online as well and known for a couple weeks, and she says she wants...
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{ "description": "not helping my brother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my brother?
I bike to school and home most of the time, and my brother is supposed to, too- except he decided to walk today. When I caught up to him, he had fallen over and scraped his ankle. ​ I was in a horrible mood, because I had two huge tests today (that I probably have failed lol) and told him (not too gently)...
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AITA that deserves getting cut out of the friend group?
TL;DR at the bottom Disclaimer: Since I have aspergers, pls take any emotional analysis with care Okay, so this is not a short story and it started around mid December but it still bugs me a lot and I need some outside opinions. So back in college, I had this pretty defined friend group of mostly girls (m/21 myself) ...
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{ "description": "preferring my daughter do track & field instead of sideline cheer", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for preferring my daughter do track & field instead of sideline cheer?
(I am posting this on behalf of my mother from my account. The rest of the post will be written as if it's from her perspective. I am not the daughter in question in this post.) ​ This upcoming fall, my (42 F) daughter (11 F) will be entering middle school and will have opportunity to do school sports fo...
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{ "description": "not returning an elderly lady's 10 dollars", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA if i didnt return an elderly lady's 10 dollars?
So this happened about 5 or 6 years ago. My mother, sister and I always went to this park that was close to the close to the school we went to. We always went to the park after school and my mom would talk to her friend and my sister and I would just go on the playground. One day as I was playing tag with some other k...
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{ "description": "choosing to go to my friends birthday party on valentines", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for choosing to go to my friends birthday party on valentines?
So here’s the deal my group of friends, 2 with which I’m living with, came up with a date to celebrate the birthdays of another 2 close friends on the 14th. I’ve been stressed with uni exams lately and when they suggested that date I didn’t remember it was valentines. We are a group of about 10 people and the only date...
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{ "description": "not wanting a group of guys to play poker at my restaurant passed close", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting a group of guys to play poker at my restaurant passed close?
Not for me, but for my SO. She is working the close shift at a very small restaurant and it closes at 10pm. A group of 10 guys are playing poker and have ordered last call, and doubled up on drinks. They have just split into smaller groups to play the final hands, which could take hours. It's already closing time, and ...
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{ "description": "disliking my girlfriend's best friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disliking my girlfriend's best friend?
I've (21M) been dating my girlfriend (21F) for about a year now. We have a great relationship - this isn't an issue about us. Her friend (21F) (let's call her Megan) annoys the hell out of me. Megan has had a few rough times in college. She's not as healthy as she once was/wants to be and she often feels lonely becau...
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{ "description": "not being happy my girlfriend is pregnant", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being happy my girlfriend is pregnant?
M27, girlfriend is also 27. We've been together for 4y and I had figured we would probably get engaged soon. She told me last week that she's pregnant, and I didn't react super well. I basically said "shit" and freaked out a bunch. She's on the pill and obviously it's not 100% but I was still taken very off guard. We ...
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{ "description": "being upset at my players", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at my players?
A few things to preface: I am the DM for a small and fairly tight group of DND players. Our sessions are quite often arranged very informally and on the fly. Yesterday, however, I needed to know if they were available as I was being asked if I might be available for somebody else's plans. So, naturally, I make a p...
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{ "description": "using the fact that my ex-friend beat someone to death to get leverage at school", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for using the fact that my ex-friend beat someone to death to get leverage at school?
Earlier this year my friend (now ex obviously as he is in prison now) and I were at a service station when he got in a confrontation with someone from another school. I went to the bathroom as I didn't want to get into any drama and when I came back I saw that my friend was beating the fuck out of the kid who was on th...
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AITA my ex told my kids she's gay
My ex and I split ten years ago. Won't get into the details, but I fucked up and the divorce was nasty and long. We don't get along well but we try for the (3) kids. My ex hasn't dated much since the split, while I have had 2 long term girlfriends. Anyways, as the title says, my ex decided to "come out" to our kids an...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go on a family trip", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to go on a family trip?
My family wants me to go with them on a week-long vacation, even though I have told them previously that I hate traveling and would have no interest in going (there are other reasons to not go as well, but they're not worth specifying). They've been really persistent in getting me to go with them and seemed really exci...
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{ "description": "telling my stepson to calm down", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling my stepson to calm down?
Background: Me - 34f; SO- 44m, my son- 5m; stepson- 15m. My SO annoys me because he’s a lot harder on my kid, who is only 5, than his own. They both do similar things because my son looks up to him, yet the 15 yr old doesn’t get in trouble for being loud, leaving his garbage everywhere, and being rude. My son gets in...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my mentally and emotionally unstable, poor, trans boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I broke up with my mentally and emotionally unstable, poor, trans boyfriend?
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months. But he wasn't always my boyfriend. When we started, *he* was actually *she.* I knew she was a bit tomboyish and had some dysphoria, but I didn't know it would be so far as to change their name and identity. I'm just not as attracted to this guy anymore. (for the record, I am b...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend she has a deadline to start telling her friends we're dating", "pronormative_score": 60, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA For telling my girlfriend she has a deadline to start telling her friends we’re dating?
I feel I’m not the ass hole, but I’m open to have my mind changed. I ask because she seemed taken aback by my requirement got short/frustrated and didn’t say “I love you too” etc for the rest of our conversation before bed. #SayItback🔫 I told her that if she can’t tell her friends by a certain date i don’t think it’...
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{ "description": "revealing my dad's infidelity and potentially breaking up my parents' marriage", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I reveal my dad’s infidelity and potentially break up my parents’ marriage
My parents (64M, 62F) have been married for 35 years. I (32M) am their only child. Dad has anger issues and some narcissistic tendencies. He can become upset over even minor things. When he’s upset, he tends to verbally attack, gaslight and manipulate those around him. Mom is passive and tends to try to smooth thi...
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{ "description": "banning my boyfriend's friend from our house", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I banned my boyfriend’s friend from our house?
We’re all 25. My boyfriend and I have been living together for approx. 7 months, together for 2.5 years. My boyfriend has a friend from college, “Mark”, who has been causing issues in our relationship since the beginning. I’ve posted about him before: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/a96xx6/i_have_an_i...
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{ "description": "not really liking an autistic girl in my class", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn't really like an autistic girl in my class?
There's an girl in my class that's autistic. She's an kind girl and I try to be nice to her. The only thing I don't like about her is that she's quite loud at times and I don't really like loud noises. I don't do anything to her, I just ignore her. AITA? I feel really bad because it's because she's born this way.
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{ "description": "not getting rid of my cat even though I'm badly allergic", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not getting rid of my cat even though I’m badly allergic
First time poster, I’m on mobile I’m currently sitting at a doctors office getting chest X-rays and a breathing treatment and who knows what else. See I’m allergic to my cat. She’s my best friend and I love her to death. I had a cat as a child but haven’t had once since so we got her in December as a Christmas pres...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my potentially-dying uncle in the hospital", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my potentially-dying uncle in the hospital?
Two weeks ago, my (22f) uncle (mom’s brother) lands himself in the hospital. He can’t walk right, he’s slurring his speech, and giving more classical signs of a stroke. Also, my uncle is 60-years-old and has been morbidly obese for at least 30 of those years. Since he’s been in the hospital, they still don’t know what ...
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{ "description": "not \"supporting the developers\" of a free game", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not "supporting the developers" of a free game
I play fortnite with some friends and occasionally random people. I play the game almost everyday and am pretty decent at it. My friends/random internet people are always astounded by the fact that I don't have the battle pass ($10). People always tell me that I'm being an ass for taking advantage of a free game and no...
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AITA? SO and I had a very quiet fancy dinner.
I'll try not to let this be terribly long. My (24M) girlfriend (21F) and I have been together almost five years. Despite my age, my hair is male pattern baldness-ing pretty hard. I'm not bald, but it's pretty damn thin. This is a huge confidence issue for me. I try my hardest to comb it in such a way that it isn't too ...
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{ "description": "telling a woman shes a liar", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a woman shes a liar?
Im gonna have to be vauge about my job in this post so im sorry if its confusing. So at work I run a department and im new to the whole "your in charge" thing, its been open for a week and shes been in there to help a couple of times. Today she was requested to go help out her department so I sent her, I then get a me...
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{ "description": "confronting a \"friend\" for talking badly about me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for confronting a “friend” for talking badly about me?
So earlier today I (F18) was talking to my buddy P (M18) and he suggested me and him go for a smoke after school. Usually P’s buddy J (M18) tags along and we’ve always gotten along really well. I say of course, but then he says, “Just me and you, I don’t want you hanging around J because the last time we all chilled h...
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{ "description": "getting a teacher fired", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for getting a teacher fired?
I have a teacher who is a complete asshole, she doesn’t take criticism, she’s bitchy and an overall cunt. One time she talked about count and mass nouns as a segway into our lesson, she talked about sugar being a mass noun and said that “it’s literally impossible to count” but i know for a fact that you can count sugar...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to a college my dad can't afford", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting to go to a college my dad can't afford?
I love my dad to pieces, I really do. Before 2008, my parents had a very successful jewelry resale business (AB) that made enough to buy a $900,000 house. When he got laid off as a salesman, my family was okay when my mom went to work for a bank and he took over the business. After the recession, we made ends meet, b...
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{ "description": "skipping queue at the supermarket", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for skipping queue at the supermarket?
Yesterday I was doing my usual mid-week shop. When I was ready to check out, I had a choice between two cashiers about 2m (6.5 feet) apart. One lane was moving clearly faster than the other. However in the middle of the two lanes was stood this lady, obviously waiting to see which line is best, obstructing everyone el...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a girl who brought a Knife into our sex life", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Breaking Up With A Girl Who Brought A Knife Into Our Sex Life?
So for some context me and blood girl (BG) had a normal sex life, pretty vanilla at that, she was a nice girl and kept to herself a lot, we would have sex on a daily basis (Around three times a day) I had gone the few months that we were dating thinking that she was the vanilla type, she showed no signs of having any M...
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{ "description": "starting a relationship with my friend's ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for starting a relationship with my friend's ex?
So back in November 2016 a buddy of mine and his girlfriend (let's call her Emily) broke up they'd drifted apart the breakup wasn't a suprise to many regardless of them having been together for quite some time. I've been friends with them both ever since school same classes group of friends so on so forth and I didn't ...
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{ "description": "not sitting back down at a public event when asked", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not sitting back down at a public event when asked
In short, my wife and I were sitting down at a public event. It started to get crowded (open seating) so we stood back up. Mind you, we were early to the event and got our place “reserved” early. Later, a couple of older ladies come in right behind us when we were sitting down. This is the point when it was crowded so...
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{ "description": "expecting the rules to apply in a community building tournament", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for expecting the rules to apply in a community building tournament?
TLDR: I joined a slow grow league for a niche game run by a store. There's an entry cost that I paid. The format isn't being followed and I'm unhappy with it. ​ Hey all, throwaway due to uncertainty and limited Reddit interaction. There are a lot of generalizations to make this post (hopefully) comprehensi...
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{ "description": "Canceling Plans because of cold sores", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for Canceling Plans Because of Cold Sores?
To start I have suffered from cold sore outbreaks since I was 4. It's not due to an STD. But I have had crippling confidence issues when they arise. This particular breakout was one of my worst. I don't get the cute ones they use for Abreva commercials. They are to, put it mildly, horrendous, lip scaring monsters. I ha...
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{ "description": "kicking my friend out of my house", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking my friend out of my house.
TLDR: At the bottom So, a little backstory between me and my friend, we have known each other for years about 4-5 at this point we are both recently out of high school and I got off on a good foot. I got a good job, and was able to go to school to go and start working on my associates. Now my friend also got a fairly ...
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{ "description": "suing my landlord over unearthed property", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for suing my landlord over unearthed property?
I moved into my current property when I was nineteen along with my baby, I am now twenty four and my daughter is five and recently I have discovered we've been living in a house that isn't earthed. The electrics had been messing up for a long time, to the point I had to stop buying bulbs for most of the rooms because...
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{ "description": "profiling a user", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for profiling a user?
Hello everyone! ​ I've posted here before and it's given me great insight on how to handle situations and has shown me different ways to look at scenarios so I come to all of you once again. ​ Cutting to the chase, I moderate for a fairly popular anime/game discord that has about 200 active ...
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{ "description": "taking my x to small claims court", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for taking my x to small claims court?
Long story short we broke up and she let me know at the end of the month shes moving out that day. I own the house and we discussed breaking up in the beginning of the month and agreed to plan it out to not make it hard for either of us financially but decided at that point to work things out. Everything went super s...
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{ "description": "not getting my nieces/nephew Xmas gifts", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not getting my nieces/nephew Xmas gifts?
My boyfriend and I have been really generous in the past for any occasion (e.g. bdays, graduations, Xmas). We finally have enough finances to move out into our own place. Because of this, we’d like to continue to save as much as possible. Are we assholes for not getting them gifts for Xmas?
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{ "description": "not seeking help", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not seeking help?
sorry for the throwaway. i've been struggling with some less, some more serious mental health issues which are causing me to have severe moodswings, hallucinations, paranoia and more. i've been having these problems for over four years now, been on and off medication, was sent to a mental health clinic four times, be...
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{ "description": "refusing to let my so pay for my meal", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For Refusing to let my SO Pay for my Meal?
My girlfriend and I go to universities that are fairly far apart but come from the same home town. Because of this we are only able to see each other on breaks and during the summer. A few weeks ago we were home for reading week. A new restaurant opened up in town and my girlfriend really really wanted to go. However, ...
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{ "description": "getting upset after my best friend basically said she wouldn't support me if I ever had to get an abortion", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting upset after my best friend basically said she wouldn’t support me if I ever had to get an abortion?
So my best friend and I (both nearly 17) were with a group of friends and we were playing cards against humanity and drinking (we were probably a bit tipsy) and a card came up about a coat hanger abortion which led to this exchange Friend 1: I think it’s so sad that some people feel the need to do that, that they can’...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf after she forced me into a lifestyle that I hate", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with my gf after she forced me into a lifestyle that i hate?
First of all, i'm brazillian and my english isn't the very best, please understand... I am an extremely introverted person who likes to stay at home while she was a party girl and liked to do dumb shit for fun. Basically we lived one respecting the style of the other when she started to take me to the parties and ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girlfriend for talking to her ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend for talking to her ex
I've been with my girlfriend for about a year. She's more outgoing than I am: I have a few friends that I've known since I was a child that I still keep in close contact, and she has a much wider net of friends that she's relatively not that close with. I'm a very direct and open person, and she's similar, so we haven'...
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{ "description": "driving safely", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for driving safely.
So a few weeks ago my family was going home at around 10 PM. Were stuck in traffic, and one car is blaring the horns behind us. I think they were drunk college students. In about 3 minutes traffic starts moving again. They drive past us, then one rolls down their window and gives us the finger (you know which one). The...
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{ "description": "fact checking my bosses false claims of inadequate productivty", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for fact checking my bosses false claims of inadequate productivty?
Title says it all my boss decided to go on a tirade the other day we use a group chat service to speak with each other remotely. He used the chat which had all employees in it to berate other employees and myself using mad up figures claiming we are overspending on labour time and that projects are stalled because we a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to someone", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to talk to someone?
I’m on mobile so you know the deal... I’ve met this girl awhile back on the internet and we connected really well. We had a lot of shared interests and that stuff. Everything went well but then the chats we had stopped from being about things we were or would be doing or about our days it would only be about her and ...
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{ "description": "applying and getting accepted to the university my ex-best friend planned going to who didn't get accepted", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for applying and getting accepted to the university my ex-best friend planned going to who didn't get accepted?
Backstory: Me and my (ex-) best friend in high school, she shares plans to study at a specific university, she talks very confident about it, almost like she already ensured herself a seat. I ask her whether we should study together and she is cool with it. I personally was not too fond of the subject (but now I feel v...
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{ "description": "waiting to break up with my gf", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for waiting to break up with my GF?
Hey so I’m (20M) dating my girlfriend (19F) and we have been dating for almost 2 years now. Just under a year ago we moved in together (yes I know bad on my part for being so young but we all learn somehow lol) anyways things haven’t been great lately and I’m definitely not happy or where I want to be in the relations...
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{ "description": "using a Groupon on the first date", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for using a Groupon on the first date?
This was about 6 months ago when I (M19) first met my girlfriend (F19). Me and her laugh about it now, but I want to get Reddit's opinion on this. We met on Tinder and I took her out on a date to a pizza place I go to frequently. We never met in person before this point. I tell her to order a pizza and an appetizer if...
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AITA Text exchange with a partner,
User is in **bold**, partners reply is in *italics* **You going home to bed tonight or did you want to get together?** **2:30 PM** *Hey! This just came through....* *You going home to bed tonight or did you want to get together?* *Can we have a chat about " date nights"? I only saw this now but I feel it cam...
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{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "being mad at my grandmother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For being mad at my grandmother?
Sorry if this is formatted wrong Anyways, let me explain the situation. About two days ago, my grandmother invited her friend and their family over (a total of about 6 people), and served them food. The problem with this is that the food wasn't JUST hers. My mother had made it (a large pot of soup) to feed the 10-11...
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{ "AUTHOR": 2, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
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{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "leaving my friend who was extremely tired and hungry, stranded in the city and (maybe) with no money to get back", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my friend who was extremely tired and hungry, stranded in the city and (maybe) with no money to get back?
I was in my car and got to texting a friend who said she had just went gym which is around a 15 minutes drive from where I was. She said she hadn’t eaten properly (eating disorder), didn’t have money (not sure how true this is) and was too tired to even move. I called and she was already angry but I remained calm and i...
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{ "description": "asking my wife to stop using HER inheritance as her personal slush fund", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ask my wife to stop using HER inheritance as her personal slush fund?
Throwaway coz reasons. So my wife recently received a not insignificant amount of money after her parent passed away. For background we have always pooled our money together to pay bills and expenses and split the remainder IF there was anything left. Over the years my contributions have been higher 99% of the time a...
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{ "description": "ignoring my friend after conflict", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my friend after conflict?
Okay so this happened while I was in school, and in one of my classes we were just having a work day and I pull out my phone and ya know doing whatever, minding my own business. My friend is sitting next to me and doing the same. Then they begin to film a video, and smack my face. They were doing it as a joke and found...
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{ "description": "calling out a coworker for wasting plastic", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling out a coworker for wasting plastic?
I work in a medical setting that has stacks of liter sized reusable plastic containers for patients drinks. This lady I work with started talking about her “revelation” of taking a few of the plastic jugs home, preparing her lunch salads in the jugs, taking them to work, and simply throwing them away when she’s done, t...
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{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
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{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "being upset parents took a baby to a touring production of the Sound of Music", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being upset parents took a baby to a touring production of the Sound of Music?
Last week I went to see the touring production of the Sound of Music with a few friends. I’m a huge fan of musicals and I try to see as many as I can. Since I’m still a student, I can purchase tickets at a discounted price ($20 instead of $200 for similar seats). Twice during the first act and again during the second...
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{ "AUTHOR": 3, "OTHER": 24, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 1 }
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{ "RIGHT": 24, "WRONG": 4 }
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{ "description": "telling my friends girlfriend he talks about her in demeaning ways", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friends girlfriend he talks about her in demeaning ways?
Hi, I’ll keep this short and sweet. I have a friend, not a very good one, who tends to be an asshole with people including me and the rest of our friend group. He’s just an overall very unfriendly and abrasive guy. His girlfriend of two years broke up with him about a month ago, and he did not SEEM affected by it, of ...
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{ "description": "not waiting for my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not waiting for my friend?
My friend and I have our first 2 classes together, so we usually wait for each other and walk to our next class together. She got mad at me not long ago because I didn’t wait for her after 1st period. I told her that I didn’t always have to wait for her, and that it wasn’t like that she’d always wait for me before. She...
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AITA for wanting to override my brother's desire to not adopt a cat if the rest of the family wants one?
Hello all. I’ve got a weird one today. Posted on r/relationships as well because I both want to know what should be done and also want to know if I’m the asshole here. I'll refer to my little brother as John. Long, sorry. See the bottom for a TL;DR Background: me [F 22] and my little brother [M 19] live at home wit...
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AITA SO wants to go for lunch with guy from the office. AITA for saying it not appropriate and I'm not comfortable with it.
Been with my SO for a few years. Started as an office romance and we now live as well as work together. There is a guy from our work who i feel is a bit of a creep and I know he has made inappropriate comments to my SO in the past in front of his guy friends (minor locker room talk). I also have been told by a mutual f...
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{ "description": "clipping my nails in public", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for clipping my nails in public
I had some free time in a small fairly secluded woody park and received more than one dirty look for clipping my nails. Is said activity rude?
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{ "description": "refusing to waste my break on a preparing for work moral events", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for refusing to waste my break on a preparing for work moral events?
Wasn't sure how to title this. Basically, I've worked for the same company for several years. The previous campus I worked at was a very toxic place so things like "spirit week" wasn't a thing. I transferred to a new campus last spring, the the people here are SUPER friendly and always doing moral building activities. ...
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{ "description": "refusing to stay with my parents for an extra month over someone else's anxiety attack", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to stay with my parents for an extra month over someone else's anxiety attack?
So these whole events have just happened and I feel like a dick but I also feel like I wasn't treated or consulted fairly in the first place and it's become a bigger deal than it needed to be. Cliff notes: I'm moving in with my SO in April as that's when her lease ends. My lease ends in January so for a few months I...
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{ "description": "not wanting emotional incest", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting emotional incest?
I (26 M) grew up as an only child. My parents divorced when I was 5yo and I lived with my mother after it happened. My dad was still in the picture but I lived with my mom. She's been remarried once, but then divorced again as I was entering high school. Since then, she's only been able to hold a relationship for a cou...
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{ "description": "requesting a welfare check on my neighbours", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for requesting a welfare check on my neighbours?
For a bit of backstory, I live in a condo and underneath me is a mom living with her grown son. These two have caused me problems for years. I work full time and sleep early so I’m never really home and I NEVER throw parties or act loud in absolutely any way other maybe dropping something here or there which is to be e...
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{ "description": "not helping my dad", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my Dad?
My parents are divorcing, they separated three years ago when my Dad developed a drug addiction, cheated continuously, had another baby, then pretended he wanted to change but continued to cheat and lie and string her along for another year. I also saw him gaslighting my Mum and being quite cruel to her. This really da...
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{ "description": "trying to dictate my housemates appliance usage", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA if i try to dictate my housemates appliance usage
Ive lived here a month now, been no issues. We got out first electricity bill in... (Tldr i want to ask to limit usage of the vaccuum, dishwasher and washing machine because the electricity bill is more than im willing to live with) Only one person in this house works. Thats D. Shes the only one who works, T is on di...
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{ "description": "putting parental control on the family router's for my sister's phone because she talks on the phone loudly at night", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for putting parental control on the family router's for my sister's phone because she talks on the phone loudly at night?
Context: I'm 21M, sister's 18F, we both live at my parents', and they own/pay the internet; I'm the only one who has the password to access the router's GUI. I'm also epileptic, and while I'm not sensitive to light, I'm sensitive to fatigue. I go to sleep at 10 and browse reddit until 10:30 (gotta be honest here); I ...
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{ "description": "requesting my doctor's office set up guest WiFi", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for requesting my doctor’s office set up guest WiFi?
I recently started seeing a new doctor for allergy shots. The thing with allergy shots is that you have to stay in the office for half an hour for them to observe you in case you go into anaphylactic shock. My doctor’s shot clinic hours are also pretty inconveniently in the middle of work hours (9:30 to noon) so I hav...
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{ "description": "standing firm on my choice of name", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for standing firm on my choice of name?
To be short: I came out as transgender to my parents. I chose a new name that is important to me, and one I settled on after a very long period of consideration. It's the one I'm comfortable with. My parents are supportive, but my mother is very against my chosen name. She hasn't said why, and I only know about this b...
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{ "description": "not caring that my wife is the only person going to work today", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not caring that my wife is the only person going to work today?
On my actual account... A little background She is a teachers assistant at a local primary school that is 5 minutes up the road. I am a student nurse that can work 8-12 hours a day +/- an hours drive. Her parents are both retired and don’t work. Her sister is going into labour today and her husband, also a teache...
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AITA boyfriend always on his phone
o I've been dating my boyfriend for two years now, we are both busy with our jobs and getting ready to graduate this may. Lately, every time we are together he is on his phone on Reddit or talking to his friends. I feel like he doesn't listen to me or wants to do anything. I just want to connect without technology. Whe...
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{ "description": "wanting to not want work as hard as I do", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to not want work as hard as I do?
Throwaway account for reasons.. I've been at my job for a little over four years and I love it. But I feel like I do way more than some of my coworkers. I work 3 jobs within my job they only work one. But for that one job I am the main person to come to when they need information for it (it is computer based, and I kn...
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{ "description": "changing my living plans with someone who wanted to room with me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for changing my living plans with someone who wanted to room with me
My friend's dad is going through a divorce and needs to move out sometime within the spring or summer. It's a particularly bad divorce so his now ex wife will probably be getting over half of his income. (If I had to guess he probably makes 70-80k a year) I am a 19 y/o college student and I will also be moving around t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to continue to play musical tablets with my sister", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to continue to play musical tablets with my sister?
On mobile blah blah blah, TL;DR on bottom I bought my sister the newest Amazon Fire Tablet. She really wanted it, because she liked mine (my parents got it for me), but mine was an older generation. When I gave it to her, she was very unhappy. Apparently the older generation tablets had some kind games built in that ...
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{ "description": "screening calls from delivery drivers", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for screening calls from delivery drivers?
I get a ton of spam calls and am also have trouble hearing/understanding people on the phone, and so I make heavy use of Google's call screening tool for numbers I don't know, even if I'm expecting a call - it plays a clear message that asks the person to state why they are calling, Google transcribes it in real time a...
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{ "description": "insulting a drunk charged with burglary on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for insulting a drunk charged with burglary on Facebook?
So for context, my brother linked my name to another person's post sharing an article from a local news website about 'Local man charged with burglary' as I knew who this person was. It was someone I used to work with when I was working at Wal-Mart back 4-5 years ago. The news article reported that he attempted to brea...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my mother ir not covering her mouth", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset with my mother ir not covering her mouth
I posted about this on a different sub, but I'm not sure if I should keep it there. Theres a lot that causes conflicts regarding my mother and I recently. But this is honestly bothers me and has impacted my health. Recently she has started to not cover her mouth when coughing. I've asked her and even begged her to cove...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for not being feminine enough", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I broke up with my girlfriend for not being feminine enough?
I really love my girlfriend Alex, but to be frank, she feels more like one of my buddies that I also happen to put my penis in. It's gotten weird. At first, I loved this about Alex. She was so chill and laid back, we had similar interests and hobbies. It was awesome. She is a straight up tomboy and that's okay. I've al...
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{ "description": "inviting other friends onto a project I originally created with someone else", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for inviting other friends onto a project I originally created with someone else?
Genuinely conflicted here. I have a good friend who is flaky as all fuck. We came up with a drunken idea over Skype (she’s in a different country) for a podcast. Since then, I’ve been seriously working on it and have a solid idea and plan in place. Predictably, she hasn’t responded to any of my messages and probably wo...
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{ "description": "not liking my autistic sister who I only found out recently has autism", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not liking my autistic sister who I only found out recently has autism?
Ever since I was young my sister (11) has always had all of the attention. She's also gotten all the awards and one-uped me. She always knew she was smart but she treated me like an idiot even though she's 2 1/2 years younger (I'm 14). Every time she'd say some fact and I'd say I knew it or I said some interesting fact...
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{ "description": "skipping some of my bf's kids activities", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for skipping some of my bf's kids activities?
TL;DR at bottom. I'm a childless female in my early thirties, dating a man in his late twenties. His daughter is 8. During the school year, he has her every other weekend and one evening a week. He comes from a very close knit family. They are very active and involved in their children's lives. His daughter is in ma...
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{ "description": "not giving gifts to my sister like I do for my friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving gifts to my sister like I do for my friends?
So me (18) and my sister (21) (living at parent's for a bit, both have jobs) have never been that close (several Incidents Of Fighting but although that is a bit relevant I don't think it's fair to her to disclose details). Mostly we just sit at home and ignore each other, never talking unless we need the other's help ...
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{ "description": "blocking a girl who was mean to me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking a girl who was mean to me?
Ok so here’s some backstory: I was on greed 4 or 5 and this girl was new let’s call her “Lia” Lia was really nice at first and I introduced her to my friends she pulled me aside after I introduced her and asked if they were Christian or had any beliefs cause she didn’t want to offend them, which I thought was really ni...
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{ "description": "being mad at my fwb", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being mad at my FWB
So this is exactly as the title states. I've had a falling out with my FWB. Sorry for bad formatting and whatever. I'm posting from my phone. This all started when we kissed. It was not intended as he was just a friend, but we just happened to click. He got out of a relationship a bit before and wasn't ready for a new...
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