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mind wanders toward misgivings or social stressors just redirect it back to your present
experience what you are seeing hearing and feeling right now Dont even anticipate future
moments be content in the one that you are in presently This present instant is the only
PROGRAM PEACE Self Care Exercises to Reprogram Your Mind and Body
time that you will ever have for peace Keep reminding yourself to already be whole content
and happy within it
As we discussed in Exercise notice the pain you feel within your body in the present
moment Acknowledge its intensity and location nonjudgmentally and with nonresistance
Dont let the discomfort make you irritated with the present or push you out of the present
Next try to find pleasure in the present moment It is there Start training your mind to
notice the faint impressions of pleasure so that you can develop the capacity to dwell
within them
In therapeutic settings mindfulness has been shown to alleviate stress and accentuate self
efficacy and confidence Consistent mindfulness has even been shown to increase gray matter
in brain areas involved in subduing emotions including those that inhibit the amygdala Peer
reviewed articles published in a wide variety of established scientific journals have yielded data
evincing that mindfulness techniques have demonstrated substantial clinical benefits for
individuals suffering from a variety of mental and physical disorders Meditation training is used
to palliate anxiety fibromyalgia chronic pain cardiovascular disease addiction bipolar
disorder insomnia intractable depression and many others For these reasons substantial
US federal funding has been used to produce mindfulness programs and workshops in schools
prisons hospitals military bases and veterans centers
Thinking Activity What Would You Like to Think About
We are free to think about whatever we want to We only have to realize this freedom What
would you like to do with your thoughts and inner voice For the next two minutes turn your
thought to whatever you choose Dont concern yourself with worrisome inane things and
dont allow your past thoughts and default network to determine where your mind goes
next When you know you have made a contentious or unproductive association cut the
chain Go back to the last branch and pick up where you left off Take responsibility to
censure edit and rewrite the endless string of associations How can you use your thought
constructively What are some positive questions you can address Imagine what you are
going to do tomorrow to make your day more productive Continually ask yourself the
magic question How can make this better
Living in the moment is what dominant mammals do They are not bothered by past
failures or worries about the future They are not concerned that things will suddenly go wrong
They believe that they have what it takes to handle any situation or confrontation They trust
that their instincts and first reactions will solve any problem The winners mindset is
meditative in this sense As a winner approach everything in your life confidently as if you
intend to succeed before you even start
Chapter Think Peacefully
Anxiety Increases Mental Focus but Only in the Short Term
When you relax you lose a degree of mental speed and intensity This is because during stress
brain chemicals such as dopamine noradrenaline and cortisol accelerate the brains processing
speed On the order of seconds to minutes they can improve performance on a variety of
mental tasks Everyone knows this implicitly and many people are afraid to relax because
they dont want a lapse in their processing ability However on longer periods from hours to
months these same chemicals wreak havoc on mental function When stress hormone levels
remain high for several days the brain starts to remodel its architecture compromising
concentration learning and memory
As we have discussed the most potent source of stress for primates is social conflict
Mammals that are socially stressed release stress hormones that preside over a host of
negative neurobiological alterations The birth of new neurons neurogenesis is suppressed
connections between neurons dendrites atrophy neural learning synaptic plasticity is
impaired and cell death apoptosis increases As illustrated in the figure below the brain
cells of socially defeated mammals show significant deterioration
Illustration A The neuron on top is a normal neuron from a tree shrew It has expansive connections to other
neurons B The neuron on the bottom comes from a tree shrew that has been exposed to days of domination
by a member of its species The reduction in dendritic branching is quite apparent These changes can be reversed
if this shrews stress hormone levels are reduced
Two of the most pivotal brain areas for highlevel thought the prefrontal cortex and
the hippocampus are damaged the most in humans and other mammals by the stress hormone
cortisol Stress is physically destructive to the brain cells in these areas The damage reduces
learning ability problem solving creativity impulse control and long and shortterm
memory Like muscle cells brain cells perform well under acute stress but falter under
chronic stress
Anxiety and nervousness create a distracting form of mental noise People with anxiety
disorders exhibit slower reaction times in complex cognitive tasks which is thought to derive
from noise in the individuals information processing stream Stress causes attentional deficits
and instability in basic cognitive operations When you meditate try to quiet this mental noise
with proper breathing zero reactivity and nonjudgmental awareness of the pressure on your
mind to keep switching between neurotic thoughts and impulses
PROGRAM PEACE Self Care Exercises to Reprogram Your Mind and Body
Contrasting with the cell damage done to higherorder processing areas brain cells in the
amygdala and the brains fear centers are strengthened by cortisol and chronic stress This
heightens fear learning and intensifies fearful memories have written articles about how
these detrimental brain changes may be adaptive for wild mammals allowing them to switch
from a controlledattentive processing strategy to an automaticpreattentive one Becoming
disinhibited impulsive and opportunistic in an adverse prehistoric setting may have been
adaptive In modern times however the cognitive repercussions of excessive stress not only
decrease our quality of life but also impair our ability to function professionally
Mental Relaxation Leads to Mental Clarity in the Long Term
After years of stress my mind was always racing could tell that my thoughts were
fragmented became all too aware that chronic stress was causing not only problems at work
and in my relationships but also mental illness My working memory declined steeply and
began to experience perceptual aberrations It got so bad that even experienced minor
auditory hallucinations You can read more about these experiences on my blog
felt that being on constant high alert was protecting me but it was maiming me As you
allow yourself to relax you may feel in your gut that you are not vigilant enough or notice that
your response times are delayed For years was afraid of becoming too calm was worried
that wouldnt jump to the right conclusion or be able to talk fast enough to communicate
properly could tell that using adrenaline spikes helped me find words speak quickly and put
together complex sentences was afraid that being calm would make people think was dim
witted or discourteous One of the biggest steps toward becoming stressfree was realizing that
dont need fevered anxiety to keep me alert or friendly
Thinking Exercise Falling Asleep Among Friends
Take an extreme example of relaxation sleepiness Most of us dont allow ourselves to be
sleepy around others was so socially hypervigilant that was completely unable to fall
asleep or even become drowsy even in the company of friends If you work on being able to
feel tired or even fall asleep right in front of other people you will reduce your social
hypervigilance The next time you are among friends or family try to nod off It proves to