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10w3hvc | i’m in high school and there is a special ed kid (i’m not sure what he has, he is very loud, paces back and forth, fights sometimes, panics) i was always very nice even when he told me he was in love with me after i said hi after i walked by him. ever since he literally sees me and just lurches at me and hugs me. i usu... | AITA for not letting a special ed kid hug me | NTA |
10won4j | My husband and I ended up having an argument today, and now I'm having second thoughts about if I was being unreasonable and truly the asshole in the situation. This afternoon while we were together my husband tells me that he got a new video game for us to play together. I respond cool what game is it? He proceeds to ... | AITA for getting frustrated with my husband when he wouldn't tell me the name of the video game he got us? | NTA |
10wk0ph | My wife (32F) and I (38M) will be closing on our first house this Friday. She has worked in animal welfare practically her whole adult life. She's worked at numerous places and had built enough skills, knowledge and ideas in her 15 years in her career, that she just landed her dream job about 6 months ago and she could... | AITA for not letting my wife quit her job? | NAH |
10wdhsr | My boyfriend (M19) and I (F19) have been together for about a year and a half, and I absolutely love him, but some things I just can't overlook anymore is the way that he eats. It's honestly embarrassing and disgusting because he eats so fast and shovels in large amounts of food, chews with his mouth open, makes loud ... | AITA for telling my boyfriend that the way he eats is disgusting and embarrasses me? | NTA |
10woh16 | My ex broke up with me after nearly 16 years. I worked my ass off for the last 10 years to provide for her and our daughter. She was never a contributing member of the relationship and it's probably best that things ended. But she took my daughter away from me, i gave up multiple opportunities because of her, i am phys... | AITA for thinking about reporting my ex and her family for lying for years to get section 8? | NTA |
10wafkn | I (34/f) recently had a miscarriage and underwent a D&C for it this past Friday. I was out of the surgical ward within a few hours, and my bf (35/m) who I live with was there with me at the hospital.He usually works a lot (including the weekends), but had said before the procedure that he was taking the weekend off... | AITA: Had a miscarriage, BF left me alone after | NTA |
10woo9i | My husband (30M) and I (28F) have 11 total nieces and nephews. My husband has two brothers who each have two children. Then I have two older sisters who have 5 kids and 2 kids. I am currently pregnant and starting to rethink family traditions and take finances a lot more seriously. Over the last few years, as the famil... | WIBTA if my husband and I stop buying our nieces and nephews birthday and Christmas gifts? | NTA |
10wl5a3 | My husband is away Mon, Tue, Wed and I’m home alone with a 20 month old and a 6yo dog. On Thu and Fri I remain the caretaker though my husband is involved in the eves.Our son tends to be clingy with me in most situations, but especially when stressed/sick. I think this is to be expected right now, my husband sees it as... | AITA and taking away my husband’s ability to bond with his son? | YTA |
10wh6yq | I (34M) am the father to my son (11M) and also have a wife (32F). A few weeks ago I got a massive opportunity from a big film company in the US but I rejected it for a number of reasons. My family disagrees with me.I received an offer to travel to the US and work with this company completely free of cost due to them s... | AITA for turning down a job that could've saved my family? | YTA |
10wqph8 | EDIT: Added paragraphs lolNew account because I don't want to use my own. So I (24f) work as a secretary for a university, basically what we do is help people enroll, transfer or quit, we are in charge of printing their degrees and we also help them with tax support and such: as you can see, it's not a very physically ... | WIBTA if I reported my pregnant co-worker? | NTA |
10wb61d | So this is my first time hosting a birthday party for one of my children since my wife has passed away. I'll admit I have in the past let my wife do most of the planning for these types of events as well handle as playdates, so I'm not the most experienced dealing with kid drama. All the kids here are 8-9 years old.Any... | AITA for not inviting neighbor's son to my son's birthday party | NTA |
10wqdoi | I [19F] lashed out on male friend [21M] while drunk…Some background. I am a 19 year old. I have not been drinking long really since I’ve been to college but I have been noticing a trend… I notice the i get extremely angry when I drink. Especially towards men… This is even true when I’m black out drunk, even when I have... | AITA for being rude to my friend while I was drunk? | YTA |
10woi0b | My (34) boyfriend (30) of 5 years is a very passionate eater. He engulfs his food, chomping, lip smacking, inhaling air mid-bite and making pleasurable moaning sounds as he demolishes his dinner plate like a beast. (on the plus side he is also a fantastic lover :)Overall we're quite bonded, share core values and have a... | AITA kicking my bf out of my house over obnoxious chewing | NTA |
10wi2hp | My sister and I are a few year apart in age and we Tend butt heads a lot none the less were pretty close give or take. I graduated high school when I was 15 (yes I skipped 3 grade levels) and I got admitted to my dream university and again I’m graduating early (in august) with my B.S in neurobiology. When I graduated ... | AITAH for not wanting to share my graduation party with my sister | NTA |
10w7655 | A week ago my mom (64) and I (24 F) got into a fight about something small but then the built up years of her criticisms came into my mind and I yelled at her. Everyday she criticizes everyone in the house for something. (Not making enough money, turning the heat too high, staying out late, etc) I yelled that how come ... | AITA for making my mom run away? | NTA |
10wq8uv | My roommate wastes a ton of food. When he goes food shopping, he often buys vegetables and fruits in bulk but 90% of the time, there would be about 1/4th left in the bag that he'd toss away because he replaces them with new bulk items. He would often throw away perfectly good food such as:* Onions* Ripened Bananas* Day... | AITA for using food that my roommate throws away? | NTA |
10wpfbn | I 28m and my fiancee 28f just celebrated 10 years together. We have 2 beautiful and smart children a house together life is absolutely wonderful. But despite having that long of a relationship I still have difficulty telling her things that bother me. Sometimes I just don't want to cause a fight or I feel like I can ju... | AITA for telling my fiancee I think she should lose weight? | YTA |
10waz2a | Me (M23) and my sister (F16) live with our parents. For a few months now, there has been some work done on the street and they have removed the street lights so in the morning and evening it is really dark.My sister takes the bus in the morning to go to school but she is afraid to go to the bus stop when it is dark (6-... | AITA for not wanting to drop my sister off at school in the morning? | YTA |
10wob0m | A couple of weeks ago my friend invited me to join her and her family at a timeshare rental that she booked pretty close to both our homes. She said that she was selling that timeshare and trying to use up the points on her account and said that it would be great if we could come along. We spent a lot of time talking a... | WIBTAH if I didn’t pay my friend back for a weekend trip. | NTA |
10wff8d | I got a new phone with a new number a few years ago. For the first few months I had it, I would receive multiple texts a day from random numbers. I would just block the numbers and delete the texts because it seemed like a lot of work to respond to them all and tell them they had the wrong number. The texts eventually ... | AITA for responding to text messages sent to the deceased previous owner of my phone number? | NTA |
10wg5zn | Our daughter (my step daughter) has talked with her school counselor about joining group therapy during school to help with her anxiety. The counselor emailed me notifying me of her interest in the group as it required permission from a parent to participate. I was a little confused as to why my husband wasn’t included... | AITA for mentioning my husbands therapy to our daughter when she was talking with us about her personal anxiety? | NTA |
10wd8r2 | So I (F53) love to travel and I take many trips with two close friends (F 57 and F 59). Recently on a beach trip, I caught one of them taking what was possibly the most unflattering picture of me I have ever seen. She was sheepish and surprised when I badgered her into finally showing me the picture. It was such a ho... | AITA for confronting my friends for taking VERY unflattering pictures of me without my knowledge? | NTA |
10whg3l | I (22f) have multiple mental health issues, and developing health issues. My mental health issues prevent me from living on my own or getting a job, meaning I get a disability check every month. (I don't feel comfortable saying what my issues are). The check I get is used for bills, and half the time I only get $100 ou... | AITA for upsetting my mom's boyfriend? | NTA |
10wk6bd | I got married a year and a half ago. My family tends to be stuffy and traditional about gender and children's roles. My husband's family is very family and kid oriented. He has 16 neices and nephews, and I love all of the kids!We decided to make our wedding reception kid and pup friendly. It was outdoors at a lake so ... | AITA wedding reception | NTA |
10wqn48 | I am M(15) and my friend, Forrester is M(15). Recently, we were having a small talk about video games and life, when he suddenly mentioned about his Religion. Being curious, I was keen to know more about it, and I asked him what it was about. He then proceeded to tell me about it, and halfway through the conversation, ... | AITA My friend said my religion was inferior to his | NTA |
10wnmn3 | I (19 M) am taking a course where we work in groups both in lecture and our lab. The professor is very strict about cheating, especially when we’re working with other people (ie use your own words). I make sure to be extra careful about that since I almost got in trouble last semester for being in a groupme where peopl... | AITA For reporting a groupmate | NTA |
10wdbkr | I am an artist who makes their living off of the crafts I make. I recently made a piece that took me forever to figure out and someone commented asking how I did it. I explained to them that I went through a lot of trial and error but didn’t feel comfortable sharing the process at this time because it’s how I make ends... | AITA for not wanting to explain my artistic process? | NTA |
10wg58d | Very straight forward. The power in our old house was in my name. When i moved out back in November, i informed him that I was removing my name from the utilities so i wouldn't be held responsible for them in the future. This was just to protect myself. It was like pulling teeth to get him to change it out because i wa... | AITA for not reminding my ex-husband that I took the power out of my name? | NTA |
10worn3 | I’ve been with my wife for a few years. She’s a very generous and kind person. I consider myself lucky to be with her.She was a social worker for five years, but I encouraged her to quit and transition either to a different social worker job or to a whole new career path because her administrators were very toxic. She ... | AITA for not supporting my wife the way she wants to be during her career transition? | NTA |
10wl1vt | I struggle to have my food delivered to my door by Uber eats and doordash. I live in a giant building with 5 entrances. No matter how specific I make the instructions, they usually leave my food at a random door.Normally, not a problem. Slight annoyances happen when I pay someone to do something I'm too lazy to do. How... | AITA asking for door delivery | NTA |
10wbm3j | I know this may sound incredibly childish but I genuinely need to know if I am the AH and will accept my judgement if I am.To start off I (F) have a phobia to dogs. I don't care how cute your dogs are, how nice they are ect. I am terrified of dogs and have had people in the past try and force me to get over my fear. Ho... | AITA for backing away from a dog that was trying to sniff me | NTA |
10wntey | So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now, about 4 months. We’ve known each other for about 14 years. I’m from another country, and he’s English. He moved to my country 14 years ago and we met at school, and our parents became friends because we were neighbours. We got back in touch a little bit after I f... | AITA for being touchy with my boyfriend? | NTA |
10w5rvm | Me ,43 single mom, her 32ish married mom of 3. We’ve worked at a small family owned company for 7 years. We have always gotten along great. About a year ago she had a baby. Without asking our VERY passive boss about maternity leave she just decided that she was going to work from home. She didn’t want to put her ki... | AITA for resenting my coworker and holding her accountable and calling her out in a group message. | NTA |
10w83cs | Very long story short, my husband 35 recently reconnected with his friend Monique (40s). Monique does not live in our country but visited since they have reconnected. Anyway Monique on her visit and for Christmas bought our girls clothes and other toys etc. I did let him know to tell her thanks. During her initial visi... | AITA for asking my husband to refrain from speaking to his friend | NTA |
10wqfiu | my cousin (20f) & aunt have moved in with my family a couple of months ago. My aunt has her own room but my cousin moved into my room. We share a bed & basically everything els in the room. I enjoy having her here but I have 0 privacy now & am slowly getting irritated by all the little things she leaves aro... | AITAH for telling my cousin to buy her own things? | NTA |
10wh195 | To give context, I (49M) suffered a toxic and abusive relationship with a man, I left after 7 years of aggression, I became proud and strong after that. I have a wonderful gay son (23M) so life couldn't be better, my son's friends and I go out regularly and plan a lunch and sleepover with one of my son's friendsWe made... | AITA for standing up for my son's ex bully? | YTA |
10wd0j5 | I am 20, work in retail at minimum wage with no college life (too poor) and no drivers license (too poor to start driver's ed as a minor, no car as an adult and no one to teach me), and live in a 5 person household with lower class/lower middle class wage in the family. With the money I get from my minimum wage job I p... | AITA for depriving my family of money? | NTA |
10wh1c2 | This is mostly silly, but I need to know!My fiance is a bit of a pack rat. I am a recovering pack rat so I don't judge. When I first moved in his place was very messy. I cleaned almost the whole house (there are a couple places I leave alone so that he can have areas he feels are his and I don't touch them). But I di... | AITA for using all my fiance's old pens | NTA |
10wj83d | *on mobile*Today, my son (11yo) brought home a permission slip for a field trip but told me he doesn't want to on the field trip. The place he's going to is an Urban Green Space, so most if not, all of the trip will be outside, and there's lots of wildlife (I remember going as a kid and loving it) His reason for not wa... | WIBTA if I forced my son to go on a field trip? | NTA |
10wouvy | TWs: mentions of death and abuse I am fresh out of highschool living away from my dads house for the first time. He was very abusive to me mentally and physically for the entirety of my time living with him. I have spent the last 7 months living elsewhere and working through the trauma he had caused. My father recently... | AITA for not attending my fathers funeral? | NTA |
10wnxg8 | Hey. My (28F) sister (31F) is getting married on Saturday. We RSVP'd yes, and we're fully intending on travelling the 3-4 hours to stay close to the venue. I recently had a baby (3 months F) and we were 100% on board with her coming to the wedding, since everyone's kids are coming. The issue is, my husband has become r... | WIBTA for not going to my sisters wedding? | NTA |
10wli5n | I (28F) have been living with my mother as of about 1 year ago, have a job but it doesn’t really pay well; think slightly above minimum wage. I’ve been living in an apartment that I’m renting from my mom at 50-75% below market so I could feel like an adult and have a place to call my own without going broke. The rent i... | AITA for not letting my brother borrow money | NTA |
10wm4td | I got prety pricey VIP tickets for a weekend con in my area. I invited my best friend since my fiance could not come even though she’s not really into the thing it’s for. She agrees, though a bit reluctantly.I thought Friday was a lot of fun together, on Saturday around 5, she told me she’d asked her husband to pick he... | AITA for not thanking my friend? | YTA |
10wpo8r | Hey y’all, so my girlfriend of a few months is a member of a sorority at our local college. We’ve known each other since middle school, but never really got close close until a few months ago. Before we started dating she decided to rush due to one of her teammates for color guard being in a sorority and hoped to get i... | AITA for being creeped out by sororities? | NTA |
10w9zki | My (M25) brother (M32) has 4 children. He is also a tattoo fan, although he is still not kinked to the neck, he is really trying. A few weeks ago he talked to me about tattooing the names of his children, the one that matters here is Enrique, but nobody calls him Enrique, in the family we call him Kike (and pronounced ... | AITA for not warning my brother about the meaning of his Tattoo? | NTA |
10wdxzv | My (23F) stepfather passed away 10 years ago in a car accident. He was a good man. My stepbrother (18M) “Joe” has remained with us ever since. His mother passed away in 2007. We are his only living family at this point.Shortly after he died, my mother shared a “secret” with my sisters and I when we were 12-16: years be... | AITA for not telling my stepbrother that his dead dad likely wasn’t his biological dad? | YTA |
10wohlp | AITAH? My best friend isn’t using my husband as her realtor. My husband has years of experience, is licensed in multiple states and has given my friend and her husband his time and advise multiple times when they’ve had real estate questions in the past.I knew my friend was considering a move and I’ve tried to talk t... | AITA? Best friend not using husband as realtor | YTA |
10w949u | My mom recently started dating a man a few months ago (we'll call him Joe). About a month into their relationship, my mom asked if Joe could come to our wedding, and even though I hadn't met him yet (my mom lives in another state), I begrudgingly said yes because my mom seemed to really want him there, and I wanted my ... | AITA for disinviting my mom's new boyfriend from my wedding? | YTA |
10we3md | As per title. My friend is having a joint bachelorette with her partner and is allowing everyone to bring their spouse. I am the only single person in the group.If the party was local and didn't have a big price tag, I wouldn't be debating this. But instead it will be in another city and will be for several nights. The... | AITA for wanting to skip my best friend's bachelorette because I'll be the only single person? | NTA |
10wdy99 | I'm almost 40, have no kids, and am not married. I own no property. Not a lot stapling me to where I am.I'm close to my nieces & nephews & was close to my parents before they passed away, each from long cancer battles.For 6 years, I lived in a house my parents owned they had intended to give my brother, but my ... | WIBTA if I used money left to me intended for another purpose to fund a move across country to pursue a lifelong dream? | NTA |
10wfdfp | This was a few years ago but I think about it every now and then. I'm out with my wife and daughter (5 at the time) at a restaurant. At the end of the meal, after paying the check, my wife and daughter leave to go to the restroom. I decide to go browse the bookstore across the street from the restaurant while I wait fo... | AITA for leaving my family at a restaurant? | YTA |
10wg30c | My brother got married to a childhood friend of mine almost 5 yrs ago who has a child from a previous relationship but she didn't gain custody of him until about 2 yrs later. He's been in the army the whole time so my family doesn't see them much. They lived here in town for the better part a year but hardly came to an... | AITA for not caring about my brother having a baby | NTA |
10wdyxj | I'm 23, university graduate, and I work from home in my own place. My parents live about 15 mins away, and my sister lives 5 mins away (along with her husband and her 2 young kids).After I got my own place, I bought a car last summer so that I can travel on my own to wherever I wanted. But having my own (new) car has b... | AITA for not wanting to drive my dad 6 hours both ways to see his family for funerals? | NTA |
10woyh5 | I, 20(f) told my friend 21(f) that she should stop calling out of work. For context, we went to high school together and i know her very well. She was looking for a new job and because I was leaving mine I recommend her and got her my old role at work. She has worked there for approx 2 months and has called out at leas... | AITA: I told my best friend to stop calling out over her anxiety | NTA |
10wcni5 | My BILs wife recently reached out to my wife for some financial help since my BIL is currently unemployed. My wife said that she would need to discuss it with me first, and that we'd figure out what we could afford. When my wife said this, BIL's wife asked her why she needed to run everything by me, and if I "allowed... | AITA for "controlling the purse strings" | NTA |
10wfqgh | In August 2022, my (M27) best friend (Sam M29) of over a decade got engaged to his partner (Jane F30) (not real names) while away on a holiday. I was periodically house sitting to check on their animals, and scheduled my last visit for when they were due home. When they got home, Sam asked me to be his best man. I was ... | WIBTA for not being the best man at my friend's wedding, even though I've already accepting the position? | NTA |
10wpzqy | I (16F) was abused by my mom my entire childhood (ref. previous posts), we’ve had such fights before with some level of closure achieved but it was never enough. today when i woke up my zipper wasn't properly closed and it went a little deep but i hadn’t noticed and she started yelling at me about it so I said you coul... | AITA for calling my dad a bad parent? | NTA |
10wpym9 | Hopefully I explain this well. If not feel free to ask questions…I live in a decent townhouse apartment community. Recently a group of kids 10 and under have been playing ding dong ditch. Usually they stay to the end they live in but this afternoon they were knocking on doors at my building. The lady who lives on the e... | AITA for telling the neighborhood kids off for ding dong ditching my elderly neighbor with cancer? | NTA |
10wpw5b | Ok so I missed a week of work in Oct and took 2 days off in Nov. My boss would call or text just to check in to see if I was okay. Our job also has weekly meetings and one on one's. One day I confessed that one of my days off on in Nov was due to being hungover/personal issues during our one on one. Anyway, my absence ... | AITA for writing the report? | NTA |
10wr7un | I (15f) and my partner (14f) have been together for over a year now. My partner was never the social type, but theyre more of a deep, long conversation type person whilst I am a “ ohh look at this thing I found today, or, guess what happened today “ kind of person. Our personalities do clash, but not in a bad way. We ... | WIBTA for confronting my partner about her personality change? | YWNBTA |
10wr76m | So yesterday i noticed something "Which i was obviously oblivious to" ... My girlfriend NEVER asks anyone, anything!? Let me try to explain!Quick breakdown of our relationship::Been together for 16 years, and we are absolutely in love. Never had kids and live together. Shes 38 im 35. Gonna call her Jane. Lets take my m... | WIBTA For telling my Girlfriend shes SELFISH!? | YTA |
10wjloz | Today I got into a fight with my mom because I (19) decided to teach my sister (10) how to cook bacon instead of doing it for her.For context: My sister is picky with food, she didn't want to eat the pork ribs we had in our fridge, so she decided that she wants a salad with a side of bacon. She is also lazy and never w... | AITA for letting my sister cook bacon ? | NTA |
10wr54p | My older sister, Ally (22f) is getting married to Sam (21m). Our parents don’t agree with dating. And they want us with someone from our culture. Sam is nice though. Intelligent, very handsome lol, a little awkward but kind. He does have autism and BPD. Sam isn’t very open and is quite embarrassed about these things. B... | AITA for being hypocritical and threatening my mom? | ESH |
10wpkcb | Posting for my husband as he’s conflicted with this and wanted an outsiders perspective. Husband is a self employed contractor for an in-demand trade. A friend of his is in the same trade with his own business as well. Friend hooked up husband with a company that works as a third party business— basically what they do ... | AITA for “stealing a client”? | NTA |
10whkdj | I work in a office with two age groups of people the 30- 50 group and the 18-26 age group I am 24f and I tent to gravitate towards the 18-26 group more when it comes to socialist at work. Our office is pretty busy so the socialist in the office is much but normally when we are slow. I specifically talk to my coworkers ... | AITA for never wanting to hang with my co workers | NTA |
10wo1jt | Throwaway for privacySo to start off im 19f and bf is 19m. We've been together for 4 years and overall our relationship is good.We are currently ldr because I'm a few hours away at college see each other when we can, so usually a few days together every month or every other excluding breaks when it's much more frequent... | WIBTA if I asked about my bfs rent? | NTA |
10wpc3a | I’m going to keep this as short and sweet as possible. Throwaway. My gf and I have been together for about 5 years. She is in her residency so she doesn’t have a lot of time to go out and have fun. My job is pretty demanding as well so I don’t go out as much as I used to but I try to go to a restaurant some nights or s... | AITA for letting my (24m) gf (27f) drive home? | YTA |
10wqwcz | The other day I (16 M) was getting ready to go to school and because I don’t have a car I get driven by my brother (17 M). My brother always has had a problem with waking up in the morning sometimes you have to wake him up 4 times just for him to actually get up cause normally he just goes back to bed. Also I have to a... | AITA for screaming at my brother that he’s a slob | NTA |
10wawp0 | So first a little background. I've (F21) been wearing a heart monitor patch for the past week and got to take it off today. I was prescribed the patch because I drank a single cup of normal watered-down coffee and then proceeded to get minorly spooked/anxious after someone I wasn't expecting (workers) arrived at the ho... | AITA For Not Intentionally Causing Myself To Have Tachycardia | NTA |
10wns1m | My friend went to a blockage to save the rainforest with her children all under 10 years of age. The police helicopters where now circling the sky.After living in the forest for 3 months with her boys she asked me to pick her boys up. It took me 3 days to get them and I had to borrow a car, it was a mission( but would ... | AITA for venting about my friend via text messege? | NTA |
10wqokl | I (female) recently had eye surgery. About a month ago, to correct the alignment of my eyes. Unfortunately, due to unpredictable circumstances, it did not go well, and the muscle in my brain attached to the wrong part of the eye. This has caused severe double vision, blurriness and extreme fatigue and pain. As well as... | AITA for complaining to bf about my eye surgery? | NTA |
10w8dy8 | Last year, I moved in with my friend. It has been a full year of planning for it, and she had assured me that she had a savings before we signed the lease just in case of emergencies so she could still cover her half. This was important to me because my last roommate (my ex) screwed me over by not paying any rent becau... | AITA for telling my roommate she’s using her hospitalization as an excuse to not pay me rent? | NTA |
10wmf2e | I am a disabled adult woman in my 20's currently living with my mother. I'm not yet at the point where I can go back to living on my own. We have a complicated relationship. A few days ago my pizza fell behind the freezer shelf while we argued about how to put it in the freezer. She told me to get down on the floor and... | AITA for calling my mother abusive? | NTA |
10wke8q | I (33F) left my family’s restaurant in December after things were getting toxic. As soon as I left, my mom (52f and owner), started being really nice to my assistant/friend “Sara.” After a couple of weeks, things went back to normal and my mom started getting nasty with Sara. Sara calls me often to talk about what is g... | AITA for helping my friend leave after quitting her job at my family’s restaurant? | NTA |
10w9tc9 | Throwaway accHi there, I just wanted to get some opinions here: My bf just showed me what he ordered for valentine's day. It's a black Teddy bear statue made out of plastic roses. It's kinda cute but he knows that I don't like useless gifts or clutter that just takes up space. I know it sounds really ungrateful. But it... | WIBTA if I asked my boyfriend to cancel his order for my valentines day gift | NTA |
10wm04p | My brothers (bro) kid (BS) need a place to stay and I just had a roommate move out. So after some promises of help in other way (fixing the roof and other stuff) i kept the rent the same at 500$ / month USD. even tho i could get a lot more its family and w/e. before moving in i go over the rules of the house (i live he... | AITA or is would u be mad too? | NTA |
10wq9iy | Please note that the prices reflect local price of labour but the currency's been changed. Also, English isn't my first language. Now, to the story.My bro (a cousin) and I rented a place where the front door's knob lock was in bad shape. After some time the lock became totally nonfunctional.So we went to a store and bo... | AITA for bringing someone along for a job but not hiring due to price? | NTA |
10wcfpp | So, I was at work and one of my coworkers was making an insensitive comment about the recent event in Turkey saying “ah what happened in Turkey was so great right!?”. In the heat of the moment I made a remark, saying "with God's help, it should happen to you too". He got very upset and told me I shouldn't speak up when... | AITA for making a insensitive comment at work? | NTA |
10wania | Hi everyone. First time poster and on mobile so please ignore small mistakes. I’m a high functioning Aspy so I’m hoping I’m not missing some obvious social cues here 👀​I’m a Senior Postdoc in a university biology lab. I have been here for just over 3 years now. Everyone in our lab works as a team regardless... | AITA for asking my coworkers not to use my space without asking? | NTA |
10wg59w | My manager is retiring. The job listing for his position is on the HR "Job Listings" page. I'm sure it's on Indeed or ZipRecruiter as well. I'd like to take the position. The company has to make the job listing public for a certain amount of time for whatever legal reasons. My manager thinks I'll be great for the job.... | AITA for not pointing out the mangled job listing on my employer's website because I want the job? | NTA |
10wlrt7 | I (16F) have a rocky relationship with my parents. They both come from bad homes so we're sort of learning as they parented me. I mostly raised myself and went through the process of learning to drive and getting my first job completely on my own. I've always provided for myself beyond my basic needs, and have bought a... | AITA For Arguing With My Dad? | YTA |
10wlqaj | My dad and I have been arguing/fighting a lot. I’m 17F and a senior in high school. Our relationship which is normally very good has been rocky because of the fights. They’re over stupid stuff usually like college apps and hanging out with my friends. I honestly don’t know why we keep fighting so much but ever since I ... | AITA for “thumbs-upping” my dad as a reply to his text? | YTA |
10wpp6r | I just made a post like 22 hours ago and I’m making another one because I feel guilty over a lot of things that may not be on me and I need an opinion that isn’t biased against me or with me.Like in my previous post I’m 14F. I have had a very difficult past 3 years like most kids but definitely amplified as I was deali... | AITA for trying to vent my feelings to my mom | NTA |
10wnua8 | My husband (31M) and me (30F) have been married for 7 years and honestly really enjoy each other and rarely fight. We have a grand vision of how we want to build our lives and both know it will take hard work to get there. But... his lack of work ethic (or our mismatch of work ethic?) is driving me bananas...I currentl... | AITA for being frustrated with my husband's lack of work ethic? | YTA |
10wnpsd | I am dropping off my daughter(5yo) at gymnastics, parking lot is full but people are leaving as it’s between classes. I park in the first spot which is directly across from the entrance to gymnastics. I get my daughter out and start to walk across the parking lot, a truck pulls up behind me and the guy in the truck say... | AITA, Dropping off my daughter at gymnastics | YTA |
10wrhcx | Some backstory: I (28F) met me boyfriend, Draco (29M) about a year and a half ago when we met a a job we worked at in different departments. I no longer work there but he still does and I'm close with the people who work in the department I worked in, even the new people. He lives with me now, and has his own key to ou... | AITA for not wanting my house guest to do whatever they want? | NTA |
10wp8yi | Long story short, May said she was "done wrong " by her friends husband the morning after they hung out and drank (she slept over). She said she woke up to some aggressive behavior while May was outside smoking. May told her friend (Bay) what happened, who talked to her husband. May got a text from the husband saying h... | AITA for telling my friend to NC with that friendship | INFO |
10wp27m | I(21m) met a girl(21f) at my work. For some context, I've never been in a relationship or even had a girlfriend, so I may not be the best at picking up non verbal communications in that regard but am far from being socially inept or disconnected. After a couple days of seeing and talking with her, I asked her for... | AITA for hanging out with girl who has a bf, but really wants to hang out with me? | NTA |
10wc1hb | My (26F) husband (26M) has a 7-5 job and works out of the house M-F, I am a SAHM to a 2.5yo and a 6mo. Tonight my husband and I got into an argument because I “snapped” at him. The argument occurred because my 2.5yo has created a habit of getting out of her bed when she’s put down for naps or bed. Before when she would... | AITA for snapping at my husband? | YTA |
10woqkm | My ex-friend (let’s call her Tara) has 2 children, a *now* 7-year old daughter and a 4 year old daughter. I have been very present in their lives and cultivated a beautiful relationship with them as their auntie. Tara & I had been friends (on&off) for 15 years. Her selfish attitude never sat right with me, and ... | AITA for not calling my ex-friend’s daughter back on her birthday? | NTA |
10w7rco | So my mums dryer hasn't been working properly for a while now, yesterday I was told this guy would come around to fix it around 7 to 11am now my whole family was gone by 8.30 maybe 9 ish ,I figured setting my alarm to 9 am would be enough , nope this guy shows up at 8.50 am ten minutes later I would of been up and te... | AITA because I wasn't awake when they handyman showed up? | YTA |
10w7bwt | I (17m) have never been one to want to go to church (although I am a Christian). Recently, old family friends reached out to me on social media, and we talked for a little bit. They said I should come with them to church sometime, and when I told them “No thank you, church isn’t my thing. I appreciate the invitation,”.... | AITA for telling old family friends to shut up about me not going to church? | NTA |
10wfb83 | So I (22m) was going with three of my buddies (also all my age) to “Jen’s” (22f) apartment. For context I don’t know Jen’s but she’s one of my good friends’ close friends and she told him he could bring us over. Jen lives alone. So in our city there’s a popular day for day drinking and me and my two buddies headed to h... | AITA for not specifying I wear briefs before taking my pants off? | NTA |
10wohad | For context it will be my brother’s 16th birthday in a few days and what he wanted for his gift is a paid trip to Disneyland for him and his gf. My dad agreed to pay for the whole thing for him and his gf, tickets, food and other stuff. My dad asked me if I can give them a ride to Disneyland on a Monday but I said no b... | AITA for not giving my brother a ride to Disneyland? | NTA |
10w6odt | I have a couple of friends that are self-proclamed foodies. Everything that they consume must be the very best, with locally sources ingredients, high-cost materials, etc. You get the picture.I am a cook/baker, but I've never claimed to be good at it. I've cooked for them a few times, and always, they critique it as th... | AITA It's not a cooking show!? | NTA |
10whfhs | Backstory: I've been with my gf for 10+ years, we have a son (3) and another on the way soon.We have a 8 year old dog that has been with us since pup and recently (2ish years ago) we adopted an older (5ish) cat.My GF was a big advocate for getting the cat shortly after we got our son.First year everything was alright, ... | AITA for calling my pregnant girlfriend cynical? | NTA |
10wqjfu | Thought I had already made up my mind in this but can't sleep and keep thinking about it and thought I should ask the internet. am I the asshole for abandoning my father? Growing up he always had this "violence is never the answer" mindset and I always admired that up until the point I became an adult and realized he d... | AITA for "abandoning" my father? | NTA |
10wqjb9 | AITA for refusing to sign "company policy" update forms when they clearly change the terms of my employment duties?So (M38) I've been working for this company for ten years, and they've done this kind of thing a few times now. Early in my career I was more willing to let things slide (late paychecks, manager overreach/... | AITA Boss Changes their Mind | NTA |
10wo24z | I (f29) am a fully functional potty trained adult (with ADHD). I am living with my wonderful fiancé(m28) and we are getting married this year after living and dating for many years prior.I have a problem where once or twice a month I forget to flush after I go #1. He is always great about putting the seat down, so it’s... | AITA for leaving pee in the toilet | NAH |
10wm5vu | For context me and my fiance are staying at her mom's house. They have 3 dogs who all only eat human food. I don't agree with this, but there is no changing their mind... Tonight after a long days work I made a sandwich for myself for dinner. That's it, just one sandwich nothing else to go with it. The rest of the fami... | AITA For not wanting to share my sandwich with the dog? | NTA |
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