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10w9r63 | I 19(f) is currently living with my parents and well safe to say it's hell. The constant manipulation and degradation is lowering my self esteem in the worst ways possible. I confronted my mother about it and now my family thinks that I'm the asshole that made her sad.For the context.Having my mom tell me I'm not beaut... | AITA for wanting to leave my home after i get a job? | NTA |
10wbklk | Brief background to begin with. I am 34, been married to my wife for 8 years and we have a son who is 2. My wife has had a dog all her life and we have a dog now too, we see it as the family dog but it is on her initiative that we have a dog.Last summer, my parents invited all their children, with families, to a lar... | AITA for leaving my wife at home with our sick dog to see my family? | NTA |
10wdprw | Repost Im a pretty independent introverted person but I have a good handful of friends I enjoy spending time with. I moved to another state and one of my good friends happened to be moving an hr away from me for work too. His church is located 15 minutes from me so he regularly "invites" himself to visit me on the wee... | AITA for being mad at my friend for eating my food | NTA |
10wb86k | I have been working a food service job since September, and I have learned a lot as this is my first job ever, I have made many friends and get along with all of my coworkers except 1, She is about my age but she treats me like I'm way younger then I am, When I started this job I was very slow and in all honesty not a ... | AITA: Coworker Seems to be pissed at everything and everything I do | NTA |
10wgg04 | So we've been friends basically all our lives. We did EVERYTHING together. Like connected to the hips connected. But the older we got..the less we talked and after 10 years of being by eachother's side. he broke our promise and left me. We recently got re-united after years of not speaking and I called him some names ... | AITA for making my bestfriend cry because he abandoned me for school and girls? | YTA |
10wd1py | We work very close to each other, she knows I'm writing this. I'm 29(F) "Dual income, no kids" (DINK), but I was raised in a four kid house hold with immigrants parents who would do doubles and worked nightshifts. The coworker is 31(F) separated from her husband in April and has the custody of her three kids 1(F), 2(M)... | AITA for constantly bring up that my coworker has three kids? | YTA |
10wlb8d | I, 15 F, have friends 14 F (We'll call her Vicky), 15 F (She'll be Bella), and 14 F (Let's call her Amy) all are very close friends. Bella s my best friend whom I tell everything.So Vicky and I just got in a fight about her hanging out with Bella without inviting Amy and I.Background knowledge- Vicky is very manipulati... | AITA: I Lashed Out At My Manipulative Friend | ESH |
10wafdi | Throw away since my siblings know my reg account. I am on a mobile sorry for formatting.I (26f) have 6 younger siblings. I got married and moved out. My cousin and her baby twins moved Into my old room. When she moved in my parents told her she needed to drive my sister (15f) to school Wednesday-Friday. It made sense b... | WIBTA for refusing to drive my sister to school? | NAH |
10w8hh3 | Back story: I am one of 5 daughters to my father. We all share the same mother/father. My father raised all 5 of us on his own (reasons mother left belong in a different category & not important to this topic). While he was not even close to a perfect parent (does that even exist?), he has always & still to thi... | WIBTA for telling my sisters they suck for not attending my Aunt's funeral? | YWBTA |
10wchgw | For context yesterday at school one of my friends I’ll call H told me she started dating this guy called J who was B cousin ( b is the girl who is mad). She told me not to tell anyone so I didn’t cause it wasn’t my business. But the next day when I got to my last class she was crying and would only talk to M i though s... | AITA for not telling my friend that someone was dating her cousin | NTA |
10w98wc | EDIT: My mom is 44, not 22I (20f) dropped out last Spring to work full time because I was unhappy in school. I see working more as a means to an end. I work so that I can partake in my hobbies, pay off my useless student loans, take care of my bunny, live in the apartment I love. At work, I just want to put my headphon... | AITA for telling my mother I am content with my place in life right now? | NTA |
10wk4sc | I really don’t understand this situation at all, it’s super confusing and I already struggle understanding tone. I replied to a reply on a comment about a character (Spider; Avatar: Way Of The Water,) in an edit. The reply was about his hair, since it looks like locs. I said “it’s matted,” as that’s what it looks like ... | AITA for commenting on a fictional character’s hair? | NTA |
10wafjt | I have 3 nephews: a 14yo boy and a 10yo girl who are my sister A' children; and a 9yo boy who's my sister B son.​My 14yo nephew and I are very close and we have an almost brotherly relationship, as our age gap is relatively small (10 years). My 10yo niece adores me, and since her father and paternal grandfat... | AITA for not paying much attention to my youngest nephew? | NTA |
10w7jdx | My husband (31m) and I (31f) recently started playing an exercise game on switch. It's a single player game so we usually take turns in the evening. This incident happened last week. I had a tough week at work, and was still reeling from a fight with my husband few days ago. I played for a while, then decided to start ... | AITA for yelling at my husband when he got upset at me for quitting a game mid-round? | NTA |
10w9mgo | F-30)My dad (60) brother (28) fiancé (26) and I (29) have a trip planned at the beginning of next month, which also happens to be my 30th birthday. This is a tradition for us to go to this particular location down south, as I’m from Canada where it’s freezing this time of year. We go specifically to watch baseball, get... | AITA for telling my dad I’m not happy with his lack of consideration | NTA |
10wig11 | Just when I thought I can take a breath and calm down from one trauma, another one comes along. My (F23) parents (M52, F43) after years of fighting and allowing toxic relatives take control of our homelife (mom is mostly to blame for that), they finally decided to get divorced. I'm not upset about this, this needed to ... | AITA for wanting my dog to be with me and being upset that I'm given limits to when I can see her? | YTA |
10whzbx | My first language is not English so there may be mistakes.I (F18) called out my fake friend in front of the entire class and I feel kinda bad. So I’m “friends” with this girl in my class let’s call her Ramona, Ramona was always kind of a bitch to a lot of people but was also pretty popular in school. She acted like she... | AITA for calling out my fake friend in front of the entire class | NTA |
10w8u8h | My friends and I (M 28) work in different cities. We usually go out once a year to catch up. It's a crew of two gents and a lady. We were supposed to meet last week but I did't pitch. Reason being I can't stand one member of our crew (M 29). We used to text all the time like mad mad (Me and M 29). Over the past few mon... | AITA, I didn't show up to date out with friends because I hate one of my 'friends' | YTA |
10wgnea | So this is probably going to be a long rant so I’ll put a TL,DR at the bottom. Anyways this started 3ish weeks ago where 2 of my friends (17f&18f) which we will call Sarah and Lia, who are dating, started ignoring me(17f) and my close friend (17f) who we will call Eve, gradually at first but then it got to they poi... | AITA for ignoring friends because they ignored me? | NTA |
10wg500 | My gf (20f) and I (19f) were having a casual conversation where we were discussing different pets she had throughout her childhood. She then told me about a pet that passed away. She asked whether I knew what a axolotl was. I had no idea so she showed me pictures from google. I was shocked and said that it looked like ... | AITA for making fun of my gf's dead pet? | YTA |
10wfx36 | To keep this short, my friend Jaquelyn is always walking around with a stank attitude as if she's better than somebody. What makes it so unfair is she gets the most attention just cuz she has a pretty face and knows a lot of people. Most of the time she's bragging about how boys can't keep they eyes off her and how gir... | AITA I told my friend to get butt injections out of jealousy | ESH |
10w8qs5 | Hopefully(?) this doesn't sound as bad as the title makes it out to be.I (25M) work at a public library. 95% of my work is either (1) sorting books in an area downstairs where patrons can only see in through a window (which people rarely ever do for extended periods of time) OR (2) shelving books in the library stacks.... | AITA for pretending to be hard of hearing | YTA |
10w2bv2 | Throwaway for privacy reasons. Also, obligatory "on mobile" comment.I (16) was diagnosed about a year ago with both depression and generalized anxiety disorder. My parents tended to react by me telling them about any problems with those struggles by essentially saying that I needed to get over it (for example, when I t... | AITA for snapping at my parents and telling them I don't trust them? | NTA |
10wc2kq | My friend and I both had our fair share of terrible relationships, but for context, this ex of theirs has done it all. Used them, ignored them, pushed them down, broke them to pieces, made them feel like garbage ect. They even got back with their ex just to spite my friend. This person wasn't abusive but they were just... | AITA for getting mad at my friend for getting back w/ her ex? | NTA |
10vyuew | I (16F) have a friend (17F) who I'm quite close to, especially since we're in 7 out of 8 classes together in high school. I learn 5 AP classes and she learns 6, so we understandably have a lot of tests and serious assignments nearly every day in school. Here's the thing. Most days, she has allergies in the morning, esp... | WIBTA if I told my classmate to stop sniffling for god's sake? | YTA |
10w8a6i | I (16f) is turning 17 this month and I always wanted to ask money instead of celebrating my birthday every year since I was 12 but was always rejected. We're not well-off but we're not struggling either. We could buy what we need and sometimes, our wants if we saved our allowance for some time.Every year, my sister(18,... | AITA for asking for money instead of celebrating my birthday? | NTA |
10w7996 | Backstory: I (23F) have a coworker (25f) who’ve I known for a couple of years due to us meeting in college. I started this job a few months and reconnected with her because she’s been at this job for a few years. Everything seemed to be going really good at the beginning but slowly started getting worse with a lot of p... | WIBTA if I went to my manager about a coworker? | NTA |
10vxtlv | Hi I’m a 15f with a history of severe mental health problems and trauma I am also autistic I have a mother 35f who has been on my side through social care and fought for me however she has recently been severely guilt tripping me for my problems and says that they are ruining her life and making her depressed I recentl... | AITA for making my mums life so much worse? | YTA |
10xg6kr | My (31M) son is five years old. About a year ago, my brother (34M) reassured my son that he could be the ring bearer at his wedding. This conversation occurred after he heard us talking about mine and his dad's wedding and was very offended he wasn't invited despite the fact that wouldn't be conceived for another three... | AITA for insisting my brother explain to his nephew why he can't attend his child-free wedding? | NTA |
10xb499 | I (25F) have been married to my husband (27M) for 2 years. When we first got married, we moved to a different city for his job (in tech - he's a software engineer). In our new city, I quickly found an entry-level job in the field I thought I wanted to work in (publishing). However, I hated it - hated the office politic... | AITA for taking a particular job even though my husband disapproves? | NTA |
10x3ggn | This is an ongoing issue going on in my home. I 33F am currently pregnant with my first child. I live in a two bedroom home with my husband and step-daughter (23F). Step-daughter and I get along fine no big issues but we also are not super close.Now that the baby is coming we need more space unfortunately we can't affo... | AITA for asking Step- daughter to move out. | YTA |
10x4t3v | My sister's taken to adopting a very Brain Dead Stoner Surfer Dude way of speakingInstead of saying hello she says "Sup?"Goodbye is "Latz" or "Later Much"Things she doesn't like are "harsh" or "a beat scene" Suspicious things are "bogus" or "sketch"Unique things are "spesh"Good things are "sweet" or "radical" or "the t... | AITA for asking my sister to please not address me in "dudespeak?" | YTA |
10xjwyy | OK. So.Back in November I was walking my dog around my neighborhood. I saw a woman putting up a sign on a street corner stop sign. She had a black and white dog with her. My dog ran up to say 'hello' and the woman and I got to talking. The black and white dog had been found a few days earlier, and she had been spe... | AITA for not returning a family's dog? | YTA |
10xclxz | [Link to the original post from about a year ago](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/tjk47t/aita_for_refusing_to_give_my_therapists_name_and/?amp%3Butm_medium=ios_app&amp%3Butm_name=iossmf)So I’ve been seeing some follow ups being posted and I figured I’d share this one in case anyone was curious.So ob... | Update: AITA for Refusing to Give my Therapist’s Name and Number? | INFO |
10wyz00 | When my wife and I decided to start a family she expressed she wanted to be a stay-at-home mom so we made a plan and set everything up so that she could stay home during the early years. We had our first kid but she didn't do too well being the stay-home and had a hard time with it. We still wanted our kids to have a p... | AITA for not lying for my wife in front of her friends regarding me being a stay-at-home parent? | NTA |
10x6z4c | My stepsister F21 crashed my F18 new car after I told her she couldn’t use it again. My stepsister name her Paula had two cars both she got from her dad and my mum and she destroyed both of them within months after she got them. My mum and her dad got married when I was 11 after my dad died three years prior. I had a h... | AITA fir not forgiving my stepsister for crashing my car | NTA |
10x3y2e | A lot of emotions are overwhelming me right now so I'll try to keep it simple and to the point.My(m27) cousin(f29), lets call her “Sue” is an ‘artist’. By that I mean she has a Bachelor in Fine Arts. Ever since high school her dream has been to become a world renowned artist akin to Picasso, Dali and whatnot. Honestly... | AITA for letting my cousin ‘starve’? | NTA |
10wtfx2 | I'm in Canada. It is perfectly legal. My stepson, Sean, is 18 and he is in university. He lives with his dad and I so he can go to school in our city. His mom lives on an acreage about 40 km north if town so that would be quite the commute. I didn't really want him in my house but my husband insisted and promised m... | AITA for kicking my stepson out of the house for smoking weed? | YTA |
10wv4dx | I've never been particularly close with my daughter. After me and her mom divorced when she was 13 I saw her maybe once every 2-3 months and on birthdays/holidays. I do blame myself for that, after the divorce I went into a sort of mid life crisis (although I was only in my early 30s). Over the last few years I've date... | AITA for not inviting my daughter to dinner after she called my girlfriend a gold digger? | YTA |
10xa0pl | My son's 4th grade class had a field trip to the science museum yesterday I was asked to chaperone by his teacher. Sure! My nephew Alex is in the other 4th grade class and he has ASD. He does require a "shadow" and unfortunately he couldn't come because he was ill. I'm sure it was no coincidence that Alex was put in th... | AITA for telling a teacher to go take a hike? | NTA |
10xegam | My husband’s name is Nicholas and he doesn’t like it when most people shorten his name and barely even agreed to let me call him Nico. My brother-in-law will sometimes call him Nick to act like they’re closer than they are and this has evolved into my niece calling him “Uncle Nicky”.He absolutely hates it and the only ... | AITA for supposedly encouraging my niece to call my husband “Uncle Nicky” when I know he hates it? | YTA |
10xbgys | For context I 20f work in a warehouse making $20 per hour. I live in a high cost of living and have a car payment. I live with my parents still because rent in my area is almost 2k for a 1-bedroom apartment. I can't afford to move out and can't even afford to have a roommate. I pay rent $500 a month and my parents don'... | WIBTA for moving across the country in the middle of the night and not telling anyone | NTA |
10xb4k2 | It was technically one cookie. Here's what happened. My husband's mother baked cookies and gave us five more to take home. My son ate 2 of the 5, leaving 3 cookies left. My husband ate a lot at my MIL's house before we left the same day.Now I've been trying to lose baby weight from our most recent baby and as such w... | AITA for throwing away cookies given to us by my MIL | NTA |
10wtqjc | I’m (20F) at Uni in the UK. I have a classmate / friend Izzy who is on the same course as me. She was raised up North in a village where everyone is white (although she admits that she went to school and college in the nearby cities so it’s not like she’s never encountered someone from an ethnic minority before.)I’m fr... | AITA for not wanting to explain to a friend why the word she used is a slur? | NTA |
10xnrhh | My husband and I have 3 children (25f)(16m)(13f). Our oldest moved out 3 years ago with her boyfriend, and got an appartment. They were together 4 years before that, so it wasn't like she ran off with some guy she just met. We supported her decision, she was old enough and working full time. The issue is rent in our ar... | AITA for not letting our daughter move back home? | YTA |
10xdapp | I'd just like to say my brother is 14 and he came out this year, I've always tried to be as supportive as I can especially since our parents are really trans phobic. I brought him a binder and a flag, I also yelled at our parents multiple times for stuff they've said too our family members about him. Now on to the prob... | AITA for telling my trans brother to change his name. | NTA |
10wuipu | So my wife and I are expecting our daughter in about a month (she’s 35 weeks now) and yesterday she started a conversation about me being present in the delivery room. She said it’s important for her that I’m there for support and comfort and that she would feel vulnerable and abandoned and alone if I weren’t. Now, I d... | AITA for refusing to be with my wife while she’s giving birth to our daughter? | YTA |
10wxtgd | My (22F) friend (24F) recently got married, and this situation has been playing in my head ever since.I have quite a handful of tattoos, my chest is done, I have a full back piece, and I have my arms done (not fully but enough for it to be pretty hard to cover), none of my tattoos have offensive things, they're flowers... | AITA for wearing a short sleeve dress to a wedding? | NTA |
10xd30m | I24f asked my sister Susan to housesit my house for 2 days and basically make sure my cats fed. Long story short, Susan claimed my cat ran out the door under her feet and got hit. I grieved and was so depressed for a good week after, I’ve had my cat for 4 years. The weird thing was though that my cat was usually scared... | AITA for threatening to take my sister to court over assumptions of her taking my cat | NTA |
10xern5 | My son's dad and I have gotten to the point of total communication breakdown. He also lies about me nonstop. I decided to keep him honest the only way I know how by publishing screenshots of all our conversations (which I take immediately, before he can delete) as well as relevant paperwork (with addresses and importan... | AITA for publishing receipts always? | NTA |
10x4lj2 | I (24M) am estranged from my brother (20M) for reasons that are my fault (extended bullying on my end when we were kids). He went no-contact with me when I moved out for college, and in those years without contact I realized how wrong my behavior was and started therapy. I’ve since expressed my remorse and desire to ma... | WIBTA if I went to my mom’s wedding knowing it means my brother won’t attend? | NAH |
10x50i0 | I (f20) am acquaintances with Layla (f21). We are in the same major and our university is small so we know basically everyone in our program.We enjoy going to this Chinese restaurant every two weeks with friends and last week I remarked while we were there that I wish I could read Chinese because the English translatio... | AITA for saying Chinese instead of Mandarin? | NTA |
10xgka1 | My BF and I bought our first home from an elderly couple in January of 2022. Initially, I kept in contact with one of them (lets call her Barb) in the event that we might receive some of their mail or something. Contact was very occasional and was always something along the lines of asking if I received a package of he... | AITA for no longer accepting calls from the previous owner of my house? | YTA |
10wwrd1 | While I don't think it's a big deal, I feel it may be asked. So I will state first and foremost that I have never liked dogs and especially dog nutters. I'm not talking about dog lovers. I'm talking about the individuals who would spit in a kids face for looking at their animal because they are "such a protective mama/... | AITA for making my wedding dog free? | NTA |
10x6s0q | I (f16) am always cooking dinner for my family, even though I have a lot of extracurricular activities and AP (advanced placement) classes that take up a lot of time. I enjoy cooking and know I'm good at it, so I don't really mind and sometimes offer to cook. This past week I cooked dinner every night (5 nights&5 ... | AITA For being angry my 8yo nephew ate my food? | NTA |
10wygm3 | ive (18F) had a very rocky school life. in the 2nd grade i was moved from an English school to an Afrikaans school after moving in with my mother, as it was cheaper and next to our flat. the language change was hardi would walk my brother to his nursery school a couple blocks away, and then my sister and i would walk t... | AITA for telling my mother she's the reason i struggle at school? | NTA |
10x8ccr | An acquaintance who I've only met in person for a few days, who I'll name Bob for the sake of AITA; and I were participating in a gaming competition. He jokingly said that if he won 1st place, he would give me 10% of the winnings. I jokingly responded that if I got 77th place, I would give him $1. We were both clearly ... | AITA for not sharing my prize? | NTA |
10xkfcx | To make a long story a little shorter, towards the end of my grandmas life she was deceived by a family friend and wrote 50% of her estate to this woman, my mom got 6%, 2 cousins got 14%, and I got 30%. The total estate is worth between 400-450kThey had a 6 month court battle and the family friend settled on 75k and my... | AITA for refusing to sign off my grandmas inheritance to my mom? | NTA |
10x7oir | From the day we met, one of my husband's primary goals was to bring his daughter Lidia to live with him here in America so she could have a better life and have an actual family with some level of stability and structure. Lidia wanted to come live with us when she was little, but once she was about 15, her tune changed... | AITA for telling my husband that bringing his daughter to live here was a mistake? | NTA |
10xcoqg | I38f have a younger sister with a pretty big age gap- Laura25 I have 3 kids all practically grown up ages 16, 14 and 12. I’ve raised my kids and their perfectly happy and healthy. Laura has one child, she’s a first time mom, but I felt as if she was babying her son to much. He’s 3 and still only on baby food and breast... | AITA for feeding my nephew new food? | NTA |
10xdj2z | I (22F) have been working at a restaurant as a hostess for just about a year. In October we got a new hire, I'll call her Sadie. I was responsible for training her. On her first day, she told me she was 18 and still in high school. I gave her advice on colleges and applying to them and such. On her next shift working w... | AITA for exposing my coworker which caused her to quit. | NTA |
10xcyzj | When I (29) was 6, my father threatened both my mother and I.He constantly calls her a dunce and selfish when she doesn't cook for him. He insulted her mother (my grandmother) in front of the entire neighbourhood and sulks whenever my gran comes around. He has forced my mother to take out credit card loans (which he pa... | AITA for letting my little sister (17) live with me and leave my disabled mother (53) alone? | NTA |
10x8a09 | My husband (M42) and I (F42) have 6 kids (F15, M13, F13, and M9, F7 and M7). Our oldest has always been closest to our 13 y/o daughter, our 13 y/o son isn’t that close to any of his siblings because none like sports like he does. Our kids normally get along pretty well though. Recently, there has been trouble with our ... | AITA for telling my daughter she can't uninvite her brother from her sweet 16? | NTA |
10xcwai | I (25F) share an office space with two men, "Rob" (36), and "Bill" (50?). I have worked here just over a year, but Rob has worked here for 7 years, and Bill around 13 years. While Bill is incredibly nice and respectful, I've had problems with Rob being way too handsy and making comments/jokes that make me uncomfortable... | AITA for getting my coworker fired? | NTA |
10wyese | So I F(31) met Lisa F(36) in my accounting class and we started to bond because we are both adult students. She is severely behind on her homework because she said her pipes broke and she has to shower at a hotel every weekend with her 2 daughters. During the week, she has to take wash ups in her sink. She is taking 7 ... | AITA for not feeding my colleagues kids? | NTA |
10xmudq | My husband (26 M) died in December and left me with a life insurance policy. I was only expecting a couple thousand dollars but the payout turned out to be substantial. My husband was sick for a very long time and toward the end I needed help and my parents offered to help me and allowed us to move into their home. Now... | WIBTA if I refuse to pay off my parents mortgage? | NTA |
10xkekk | Me and my “wife” (29F), Taylor, have known each other for a long time. If you know me, I’m kind of guy who is a joker, but would of given you the shirt off my back. You’re probably wondering why “wife” is in quotatian marks.Well, I had an old buddy from the military who wrote on the bottom of his shoes in Magic marker ... | AITA for playing a prank on my wife (29F) at my (31M) wedding? | YTA |
10x1oe4 | So the backstory, my parents weren't the most responsible people so I ended up spending alot of time with my grandparents, as I grew up I felt a closer connect to them then my parents. Skip forward when I graduated, I moved out of my parents and in with my grandparents at first it was just to find a job and apartment, ... | AITA for selling my house and moving? | NTA |
10x9dwz | Hey! So this happened a couple months ago when I (F25) flew to New York. I bought myself a window seat on the plane because I like the window, not really any other reason. So we board the plane and I sit on my designated seat. After a bit this mom and her kid, less than 10 years old sit down on my row, the mom in the c... | AITA for not switching seats? | NTA |
10xnl9n | I am from the UK and my family has been there for generations. I am a black British person. I am doing an exchange semester in the United States and have a roommate here. We get along alright as in we are cordial but he is not the type of person I would be friends with.Recently, I was hanging with him and some other ma... | AITA for calling my flatmate an AH-American after he insisted I am an African American | NTA |
10xlb8i | My 43F daughter 17F was dating a girl for two years who recently passed away due to reasons I won’t be disclosing. After the fact, my intelligent, popular, and successful daughter became completely a shell of herself and even wore clothes that used to belong to said girl for comfort. Obviously I tried to give her spac... | AITA for Telling my Daughter Not to Make an AI of Her Dead Girlfriend? | YTA |
10xh3qa | My wife and I have been having some marital difficulties of late. Part of this stems from my work travel schedule, and the demands of my job, and has resulted in us going to therapy. That hasn't worked out because our therapist was... less than competent. He actually made things infinitely worse by creating communicati... | AITA for telling my wife not to come on vacation | NTA |
10x8dyj | Sorry I posted this on the throwaway account before by mistake so reposting now on actual account Hi everyoneSo a little context, I (25f) have a strange family dynamic- I come from a very big family. There are eight of us altogether, but I only have one full sister. The rest are all half siblings from both my mum’s and... | AITA for not letting my brother stay with me if he brings his girlfriend? | NTA |
10xffaq | My (36f) and husband (41m) 5th anniversary is coming up but I don’t want to celebrate it at all. 7 months I found my husband’s active dating profile, after he couldn’t lie his way around it he told me that he had been cheating off and on for most of our marriage. we did a few sessions of couples therapy but stopped bec... | AITA for not wanting to celebrate my anniversary? | NTA |
10xfug8 | I have had a new boss for the past 1.5 years we just can’t understand each other.I am the kind of person who needs an execution plan with exact deliverables, names, and a timeline. That's how I work best. My boss, on the other hand, is allergic to specific plans. She talks in generic statements and refuses to ever put ... | AITA for telling my boss she is wasting my and company time and resources? | NTA |
10xey3x | I want insight into if me and my partner are assholes in this situation.My partners cousin had a baby with a man old enough to be her father, as soon as she was pregnant they split up. She couldn't cope when the baby was born and was going to give her up for adoption. My partner and I offered to have her baby until she... | AITA for voicing concerns over my cousin having another baby, after she struggled with the first? | NTA |
10wx50c | My bf is mad at me because he feels like I’m not very empathetic about the issues he faced as a child.I genuinely don’t see them as horrible as he says they were.So here’s the situation My bf grew up in a very rich family(top 1% club) and mostly had a good relationship with both his parents.However he resents his fathe... | AITA for not being very empathetic about my boyfriend’s situation | YTA |
10xmyzy | I (m25) am one of my nephew’s emergency contacts since I work from home. His mom is not in the picture and my brother works super long hours. So usually I pick him up and take care of him till my brother picks him up. Today he had a bad fever and my brother didn’t respond to the call. So I picked my nephew up and took ... | AITA for having a drink while my nephew was sick? | NTA |
10wwwp2 | So a little background info to set the scene, basically - meet woman with kid from another relationship, had a brief relationship where i got her pregnant, we break up few months after kid is born, i now visit regularly to see my kid.We get on better as friends and have a reasonably healthy relationship, but throughout... | AITA For not wanting my ex's kid to call me Dad. | NTA |
10xke2t | I have a group of ten friends who like to experiment with food from around the world. We take turns hosting meals in our homes and making dishes from around the world. I will give a few examples so you understand how varied we getCarlos made face tacos. The meat came from the cheeks and tongue of a cowA couple of we... | AITA for serving a traditional meat to my guests. | NTA |
10x2bh2 | Throwaway bc idk if she's on reddit or notMy dorm roommate has IBS. She was upfront with me about this right away because we share a restroom and didn't want me to be surprised if she spends a long time in there.A key aspect of this situation is that I have pretty distinctive garbage bags that I use. They're bright pin... | AITA for telling people my roommate pooped her pants | NTA |
10x0sqz | I (34m) agreed a month ago to let my son (8m) spend four weeks with my mother (58f) in South Carolina this summer.My son and I visited my mother recently. My mom lives 4 hours away. It’s a different state, so not close, but not too far. Although I grew up religious (Evangelical Christian) I am no longer. I'm open abo... | AITA For Changing My Mind and Not Allowing My Kid to Spend a Month With My Mom? | NTA |
10xixny | Some back story. My husband was laid off April 2022. His base pay was 125k, mine is 114k. He was recently offered a job but significant pay cut. While he was laid off I sold my car for extra money and to get rid of the payment (609/mo) and lower insurance. He has an SUV and a motorcycle ($1100/mo). We don't have much f... | AITA: I told my husband I feel like I am lowest priority | NTA |
10xeyyl | I(32F) own a house with my husband (35M) and our two small children. My husband’s youngest brother (26M) and his girlfriend (26F) live in our basement apartment and pay a minimalamount of rent. Generally, things have been fine the last three years they have lived with us—no complaints. We love them and all keep to ours... | AITA for asking for basement renters to adapt to our preferences? | NTA |
10x4dgb | Names changed for privacy. I (35F) am coming out of a 15 year relationship/marriage. It's been a rough year as my STBX dragged this out as long as possible. I have been living with my dad, but I have finally been granted the ability to buy my own house. This is mostly relevant because I was really looking forward to ha... | WIBTA if I don't let my brother and nephew move in with me? | NTA |
10x4s89 | I (23F) have suffered from severe hyperpigmentation my entire life. I’m a WOC so after things like an acne flare up or a sunburn, I’m left with severe dark spots/pigmentation for months. About six months ago I decided I was fed up and began looking up more intensive treatments to tackle the issue. I found a treatment t... | AITA for ‘knowingly’ bleaching my friends skin? | NTA |
10ww4h2 | I (m 60+) am getting married soon. It's going to be a very small affair with just a handful of people in attendance. Later in the year, we plan to have a big celebration and will be inviting everyone. My closest friend (55m), 'Phil' doesn't know when enough is enough. He's under the impression that he's hilarious, qui... | AITA for not inviting my closest friend to my wedding? | NTA |
10xc67n | This happened a while ago, but my brain won't stop obsessing about it, so... My child (4) was recently diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder. One of the traits is that he is ALWAYS moving. Running, jumping, climbing, flailing, etc. The only time he's not hyperactive is when he's asleep or watching TV (and even then, ... | AITA for having a hyperactive ASD child on the second floor? | YTA |
10xj89g | My boyfriend has a very messy financial history. He is just plain bad with money even. He has a credit card, but it's maxed out and he only puts enough for the minimum payment on it so there's never any actual credit room to use it.​My boyfriend regularly asks me to do things for him via my credit card and h... | AITA for refusing to allow my boyfriend to continue using my credit card (even though he immediately sends me the money)? | NTA |
10xedsb | I(18M) have a morning routine, which is basically waking up at 5:30, making my bed, working out, and working on my businesses for half an hour before heading to class. The problem is, my roommate has class much later than me so he sleeps in a lot. He gets mad at me for waking up earlier than he does since the walls are... | AITA for waking up roommate with my morning routine? | NTA |
10xoph7 | I (36f) am getting married to G (40m) our wedding is coming up in 9 months (We have been dating for 24 months) and I am having 6 brides maids my friends and my sister. However when I told G and future stepdaughter (16f I have known future step daughter for 18 months but we have never really got on well even though I ha... | AITA for refusing to have my future step daughter as my bridesmaid? | NTA |
10wwf37 | Hello asshole enthusiasts. My parents recently shared their last will and testament plans with us. The only asset they have of serious value is the house in London that they own with a mortgage on it (more on this later), rough estimates put value at about £600k. The will states that the house is to be split between th... | AITA for telling my sister we would need to evict her to pay inheritance tax? | NTA |
10xflbf | I'm nearly 19, and I've been growing my hair out for nine months now. Personally, I prefer it this way. It's curly, it's fluffy, and I look a lot better overall. I also take good care of it by brushing it and applying shampoos/conditioner and whatnot. Well, I wish my mom shared the same sentiment, because earlier she m... | AITA for refusing to get a haircut even though my mom wants me to? | NTA |
10xectx | This is choppy sorryWhen we met gf was running her own restaurant & worked most of the day. I work in a factory. It pays way better than owning a business & after we were together for a year she moved into my house. My ex has our daughters most of the time but they spend weekends & some of their breaks with... | AITA for changing the locks? | NTA |
10xmjot | My (F22) boyfriend (M22) is a gamer. I occasionally play a few games but not to extent that he does. As most gamers do, he rages a lot. Especially during League of Legends. I absolutely hate it. We’ve been together nearly 4 years and are currently long distance for school so we sit in Discord calls during our free time... | AITA for muting and removing my headphones? | NTA |
10xmviq | So my boyfriend and I live with his brother and his brothers girlfriend. We alternate days to cook dinner for everyone, so my boyfriend will cook, his brother, me, then his girlfriend. Then on weekends it’s a free for all and we all will make food for ourselves or eat out or what not. We like this because we are all ve... | AITA for buying a nonorganic chicken for my brother in law? | NTA |
10xnzd3 | I (28F) used to live in the same town as my brother, let's call him Sam (26M). About two years ago, he got back together with his gf from college, let's call her Jenny (26F). Jenny was pregnant at the time, and has since had adorable baby Josie who is 18 months old now. Sam has been in Josie's life from the start, init... | AITA for not intervening in my brother's relationship with my parents | NTA |
10xgq2s | I live with two other women in a on campus college apartment. We share a living room, kitchen, one large bedroom and the bathroom. I lived with (let's call her Jamie) Jamie last year in a small dorm with communal bathrooms.We recently met a new roommate this year by campus random roommate enrollment and let's call her ... | AITA for shaming my roommate in our shared Instagram group? | NTA |
10xjevr | Kind of a silly one. I (36F) bought myself my favorite ice cream today as I’ve had a rough week. Someone hacked my debit card and took roughly $900, plus I’m having a period from hell. My Bf Kevin (39 M) and I live together, he has 2 kids that live with us half the time. Kevin came home and saw my ice cream and exclaim... | AITA for wanting to asked permission before my BF takes my food? | NTA |
10x4af5 | Apologies for the list of dates..My former roommate moved out in August of 2022, and I gave her until the end of the year to get the rest of her stuff. She came up in October and grabbed some clothes and her bathroom toiletries along with one of her favorite mugs.She then texted me in October that her grandma had passe... | WIBTA if I sold/donated my former roommates stuff? | NTA |
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