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10xegjv | Wife and I are going on a vacation for a month. She and her older brother figured, he might as well stay in our place, while we are away.He is having a hard time financially, but this is usual. Wants to move to this city, get a job here, but that requires a place to stay.The flat is mine, I lived here before we have ma... | AITA for not letting my wife's brother stay at our place, while we are away for a month? | NTA |
10x5jy8 | So my dad died 3 years ago. We only established a relationship 2 years before his death, and it kept getting stronger.My dad came to pick me up every weekend so we could spend time together. When he died, it was as if my ground had been lifted, we were finally having a wonderful relationship.I couldn't go to his funera... | AITA for not putting flowers in my dad's grave? | NTA |
10xe5ky | I told my mom I wanted to take her to a Mana concert as they are one of her favorite bands. While looking at ticket prices, I called her up and was surprised to see they were more expensive than I thought they would be. I jokingly said “wow $120 to see this band? No offense they ain’t no Harry Styles.” I said this in a... | AITA for jokingly criticizing my moms favorite band? | YTA |
10x7f6u | My 10 year old dog and I go to the public dog park often. She was pretty playful when she was younger, but in the past few years as she's gotten older, she just stays by my side. At this point, her only interest is getting pets from other people, she couldn't care less about the other dogs and rarely plays with them.... | AITA for using a laser pointer at the dog park? | YTA |
10xjama | Keep in mind we’re both teenagers (won’t disclose age but just 12-15) so basically when he comes over we setup his laptop in my room so we can play easier but basically we stay up until around 3:00-5:00 am. Due to him having a laptop and me having a desktop the heat from his laptop heats up the room quite a lot compare... | AITA for being shirtless with a friend over? | NTA |
10xlz11 | I’m 23 and live with my dad at the moment because I’ve been having trouble finding a well-paying job with my degree. I don’t do much besides sit around applying or doing small freelance jobs all day then sit around watching tv with my dad all evening most nights. I don’t really mind (aside from not having a real job), ... | AITA for staying out late without texting | NTA |
10xciyy | I (F28) enjoy paper crafting and make a lot of handmade stuff. My "specialization" are paper cards, which I hand to everybody around me with and without an occasion, ever since my early teens. It's a common knowledge so no one is weirded out if they receive card for i.e. pangolin day or coffee day, or if they seem to h... | WIBTA for giving my male friend a valentine card? | NTA |
10x7a8i | Hi, I’m a 24m and I have my parent in laws (PIL) and nieces living with my small family. They always dropped the kids off at school and rarely ever let them walk to school. The schools are not even far from the house and we live in a safe neighborhood with no sex offenders and gang activity. My youngest niece is in 5th... | AITA for refusing to drop off my nieces to school? | NTA |
10x6k6z | My family has always complained about the length of my (22F) showers… which I find ridiculous because I don’t take long every single day. what they don’t realize is that my hair is extremely thick, which is why I take longer than usual on wash days. and on the odd occasion, I see to my personal grooming which also tend... | AITA for being upset at my family for timing my showers? | NTA |
10xgtz4 | Throwaway account.I m19 and best friend m19 (let's call him J) have known each other for more than two years now. We got to know each other because he joined my media company and then developed a relationship.Over the years we had quite some arguments but they were always due to work and we would brush them off and go ... | AITA really bad week of arguments with best friend | NTA |
10xpmd6 | So I have a group of friends and we are all into anime. While I like anime, I’m a newb. I got into it from the encouragement of the friend group but mostly because I finally gave in from the pressure. We all usually hang out and do hobbies that I myself don’t normally do but I’m happy to do it because I like hanging w... | AITA for not going with friends to a convention? | YTA |
10xpkko | Rant/ mildly long post I (f17) and my sister (f25) are pretty close . We live in our parents house. My sister (let’s call her susie) she has very mild ADHD and she gets babied by my parents (mostly my mom). In high school she would always get extra extra help from my mom (to the point my mom would do all her english pa... | AITA for not putting up with my sister’s bullsh*t? | YTA |
10xinwa | this has been eating me alive, I've been thinking abt this nonstop and my birthday is next Saturday. so I've had this friend that I've been friends with since 3rd grade (we're freshman in highschool now) and we've been through alot together, but recently we've begun to drift apart, i hate admitting it since after all ... | AITA for not inviting my best friend to my birthday? | NTA |
10x6prv | I have been dating my partner for about a year now and they mentioned they want to move in together this year. I told them I was not ready and they didn’t take it well. My biggest reason for this is I would have to switch daycares for our child and all the ones I’ve found are full for a while. My other reason is they w... | AITA: I Don’t Want Roommates | NTA |
10xgg3g | For some background context I (17F) have known my friend Sam(17F) since the fourth grade and only picks up on this thing about her in the ninth grade.I liked the same guy from fourth to eight grade and he was really awkward and I was the only one that liked him so when I went to highschool with Sam I started to realize... | AITA for warning a friend about another friends tendencies? | NTA |
10xpghk | Im 18 , turning 19 in July, I've been dating a guy much older than me and im happy , he's happy , everything is fine. We are well togetherI have an instagram account that is pretty much a secret one , like 60 followers , most of them looked like bots and i just post stuff there as memories and etc. for fun , i like ed... | AITA for hiding my instagram from friends and family cuz who i date? (not hiding any info and writing it well this time, atleast ill try | NTA |
10xpg6f | I (47f) have 2 boys. 24M (stepson from 1st marriage, raised him from 3yo (bio mom,dad gone). 2nd is 21M, biological nephew, raised him from 2yo. My 24M lives w/ grandparents. We talk twice weekly, .Husband (57M) has 2 sons, 24M, 30M.Husband moved into my home. My 21M lives with me. Husband's 24M wanted to move in... | WIBTA for expecting husband to back me up? | NTA |
10xpfeg | My wife\[f32\] wants to go through with our daughter's\[f1\] baptism, even though she knows that I'm \[m35\] against all and everything religion and will not participate We've been together for about 10 years - married for four and till this day everything is pretty much perfect. We're on par with alot of core be... | WIBTA if I don't participate in the baptism of my own daughter? | NTA |
10xijwq | I’m not very good at writing so please bare with me. My ( 22f ) mother ( 48f ) have always had a very strained relationship since my father died. She basically started doing hardcore drugs and pain pills and blames it on everyone else. My dad and her brother dying, her mom dying, her ex husband, etc, etc. She’s a good ... | AITA for telling my mom I don’t wanna give her my address ? | NTA |
10xpf90 | A bit of backstory. So me (27F) and my husband (31M) have been married for about 7 months. We used to be long distance and closed the distance instantly after we got married. A fun fact is that he met this single female coworker a litte after we made things official almost 3 years ago. They have some "dirty" humor in h... | AITA for being insecure about my husband wanting to go on an outing with a 3 coworkers | NAH |
10xpbh6 | (sorry if formatting is off, writing this on mobile.) I made plans to meet my parents at 12 in the middle of the village, they said they had plans earlier in the day but would let me know closer to the time if they could meet me in the middle of the village where I was dropping off my daughter or whether they'd meet me... | AITA for asking my parents to let me know in advance if they're running late. | NTA |
10xib7n | I just had my bachelor party. My BM and 2 of the remaining 3 groomsmen planned it, and essentially came up with a plan to go on a 2-night trip in a nearby city in an AirBnB. The only things that were discussed prior was whether or not it sounded like a good idea, and whether people were available for those dates. There... | AITA for being upset about a bachelor party? | NTA |
10xbgaj | For context, I, female 20, am aware of the possibility of severe depression. However, this might not be the case. My boyfriend, male 21, seems to always be extremely tired after work, and the workload does not affect it much. He is a truck driver but does not drive long distance much.As of today, he worked the normal h... | AITA for being annoyed at my boyfriend when he sleeps alot? | NTA |
10x9am1 | Back story: I left social media because I was fed up that my family was talking to me only to complain about their problems and asking for money. They don’t care about me unless it’s when they need money. I used to help them but I don’t want anymore. I am not a bank I have feelings too.Since I left social media, my fam... | AITA for not giving my family money when they need it? | NTA |
10xl4m1 | I'm 21 and am currently taking Engineering, in my 3rd year now. I wanted to find a part-time job so I could buy the things I needed without asking my parents for money, personally, it's hard for me to ask for money because I'm already in my 20s but I'm very thankful that my mom is helping me with my tuition fees. It ha... | AITA for asking my dad 20 dollars? | NTA |
10xean5 | so, I (21) have some severe ass allergies right now, to the point where it's debilitating. sore throat, difficulties speaking and swallowing, mucus running down my throat and a massive headache. I sound like a toad when I speak because it's that bad. (not covy, not a cold, not the flu; mucus is clear, the winds are 20 ... | AITA for not going downstairs with my brother? | NTA |
10xcmtt | Today I decided to do some quick grocery shopping between appointments. I had approximately 45 minutes before I had to be at my next appointment and the grocery store was on the way, so I figured it was plenty of time to grab the 12-15 items I needed. Everything was going smoothly until I reached the checkout line. The... | AITA for leaving all my groceries at the checkout? | NTA |
10x6nkp | I have a really close friend. Their partner is a really nice person that I'm acquainted with, but they are not someone who I would consider a friend because I have not interacted much with them. I'm fully supportive of their relationship, in fact I am very happy for my friend for keeping this relationship for a long ti... | AITA for giving space for my friend to spend more time with their partner? | NAH |
10xozvl | I am a trainee in a maybe a little uncommon job. Because of that, there are only few schools around here. (i live in germany, and there are maybe i think 5 or so for this type of job) This means that I have to drive 2 1/2 hours. It is common that we have a few weeks of work, and then leave for 3-6 weeks for school and... | AITA for calling my "landlord" on my neighbours? | NTA |
10xovws | Context- this has happened around 2-3 days ago it is currently 9/02/2023So around 3 days ago I (16F) was on a train with my friends for a school excursion June \[16F\], Brianna \[16F\] and Kyanna \[16F\] we were all chatting with usual shit like who's getting with who and for context B is dating one of my friends Eli \... | AITA For telling my friend a rumor that wasn't true? | YTA |
10xaqd9 | I (22) stayed with my family and my brother, Leo (24) over the holiday season. I sprained my wrist in a sports related injury two days before and had not been able to get it checked by a doctor yet. While staying at our parents’ house we have been asked to look after household chores like cooking, cleaning and doing th... | AITA For yelling at my brother over chores | NTA |
10x9liv | I recently went to visit a friend this winter. She lives in a big city and I live in a small town.Her one bedroom was pretty cramped and had half of it set up for work, and half for living. I also noticed she had trouble finding community and I told her she can't heal without community.She eventually exploded and said ... | AITA for saying "you need more friends"? | YTA |
10xord6 | My mother (53) moved last year to start a graduate program in a new state, leaving my stepmother and myself (30) back in my hometown.I came to visit my mother a week ago for a two week visit in between two trips. She's been shady and having hushed phone calls in a voice that I know is her flirty/sexy voice. And back in... | WIBTA if I leave my mother's with no notice? | NTA |
10x59rg | I (17f) live with my brother (12m) and mother (52f). In most cases we get along but studying with my bro is a pain.My brother has driven my mother to the brink of insanity. He was left homw today to study for a test. 13 words and a few irregular prulars. He instead played games on his computer for the whole day and did... | WIBTA if I removed a cable from my brother's computer? | YWBTA |
10x85rp | My 2 uncles and a friend of theirs came to our house to fix the bathroom since the walls and ceiling were molding due to steam from the shower. I went out and tried watching them cuz I was bored, and also held my uncle’s ashtray for him. My brother (20) came over and tried aggressively pushing me away and getting me to... | AITA for watching my uncles fix the bathroom? | NTA |
10xa7b3 | She was in school, while I was at work, and called me a few times but kept it to basic conversation due to me being busy and not having a free moment to talk. Before I had left the office, I told her I'd call her and talk to her about my day when I was alone, to which she replied, "I'll probably be at work by that time... | AITA for telling my friend I don't need to vent about my problems at the end of the day to her? | NTA |
10xoghd | When I moved into my new place, my roommate, (who is also the homeowner) said there was no need to bring my own kitchen utensils/pots/pans/dishes etc. I had my own assortment of miss match items that I then decided to get rid of as I don’t have the space to store them anywhere and I will be at this new location for a l... | AITA for wanting to break the lease with my shitty roommate? #bannedfromsharedkitchen | NTA |
10xk0r1 | I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I was with my ex for 15 years. My ex was always a big part of my dad's life. My boyfriend has never made any effort to be part of my dad's life at all (for various reasons, none of which had anything to do with me or my dad). My dad was sick and living alone (with my sisters and... | AITA for giving my ex $$$ from my dad's estate and not my boyfriend? | NTA |
10xer6e | Recently, a friend of a few years decided to block me everywhere online, because of the past few days. The most recent happening before being blocked, she killed me for no reason while we were playing Project Zomboid, and I didn't stand for it. After killing me, for a while I just asked "so are we just gonna start over... | AITA for being upset at my friend? | NTA |
10xoayb | I know this post seems stupid and pointless but I really need to know if ITA. My dad got a laugh out of it and he also understood what I meant as well. Also the issue was resolved but my mom is still bringing it up.This happened a few days ago. My mom asked me to make a grocery list last minute before she left for work... | AITA for forgetting the name of Cauliflower? | NTA |
10xcsol | I'm going to keep this as brief as I can. I was at a friend, Helen's, birthday outing recently. We were all drinking, bar hopping, having a good time. At the last bar we're all pretty drunk and another friend Mary asked if she could talk to me for a sec so I said sure. She wanted to talk about her birthday party from l... | AITA for choosing to leave the birthday party? | NTA |
10xjudd | i used to be good friends with shiloh, kat, & gabriel. gabriel & shiloh are siblings. as friends do, i talked about my past relationship, shiloh didn’t like what my ex did, so she asked if she can befriend my ex to stab in the back. after months of declining i caved in and said to just keep me updated. (befrien... | AITA because i stopped talking to some friends? (long read) | ESH |
10xo6qg | I (35m) and my wife (34f) have been married for 2 years. We never lived with each other prior to marriage. What I noticed is that there are times when she would come home from work late and is too lazy to shower so she would brush her teeth and go to bed. At first, I'm usually cool about it because I understand she is ... | AITA for not wanting to sleep with my wife unless she showers? | YTA |
10xgsvt | So I (22M) just had a complete explosion and lost my temper… I never usually do. My Mum, I love her to pieces and I know she loves me too but she talks to me in an extremely condescending and patronising tone. I do everything I can around the house, I contribute towards the bills, I’m emotionally and physically support... | AITA for exploding on my Mum. | NTA |
10xeees | I (21F) usually send my sister, Liz, (19F) boxes to her dorm. She lives on her university campus and because of that she isn’t usually able to visit except for the big breaks or holidays. I decided to put together a Valentine’s Day box for her, her dormmate, and the other 2 friends whom I’ve met. They all went to high ... | AITA for calling my sister a bad friend | NTA |
10x8gza | So I (19m) was having a chat with my friend (18F) and in the conversation she says that she is thinking of "letting the intrusive thoughts win and get a tattoo" and said something along the lines of it being so funny to "let the intrusive thoughts win" I stepped in to tell her that she shouldn't be using that word to d... | AITA for not communicating with my friend after saying they were using the phrase "Intrusive thoughts wrong?" | NTA |
10xjhzi | I (17F) recently blocked a guy (28M) whom I talked to almost every day for almost a year without giving him a clear answer or explanation. However, since then I have been feeling guilty over this decision.This guy and I met in an irl friend's server and we started out with small talk and learning small things about eac... | AITA for blocking a friend with no explanation? | NTA |
10xc8t3 | Hi idk anything about Reddit but like apparently people come here to ask questions like "am I in the wrong for ___" so I wanted to aswell I guess - anyways I have 2 cats and one one of them likes to rub up against people to get what he wants and my grandma gives him treats to get him to leave her alone but the vet sa... | AITA for not listening about cat treats? | NTA |
10xe5b3 | I’m traveling from NYC to visit my friend in Ithaca. This friend just texted me and told me that another one of his friends, who is gonna be in Ithaca on those same dates visiting one of their mutual friends, wants to get lunch with him and he said yes. This makes me upset because Im only gonna be in Ithaca for a day a... | AITA for getting mad at my friend for making other plans while I’m visiting them? | YTA |
10x79ao | I didn't bring a gift or card to my brother's second wedding because I was hurt and pissed he unexpectedly uninvited me and my family several months prior.My (40) brother (42) lives on the east coast and met a woman after his divorce in the fall of 2020. They moved in and got engaged within a year and set the wedding d... | AITA for not bringing a wedding gift or card to my brother's second wedding? | NTA |
10x5n1w | I(23f) have recently had a massive family event happen. Unfortunately my (73f) grandma passed away in the week, and it's been really hard on everyone. This woman helped raise me when my dad needed help, as her daughter, my mom, passed away when I was very young. Because of this, the family wanted to gather several sta... | AITA for not waking up to my alarm for an important family matter? | YTA |
10x8357 | I (f24) come from a Spanish-speaking country, however, for the past 2.5 years I've been living somewhere where neither English nor Spanish are the official language. I can speak the country's language relatively well (B2-C1), but definitely not at a native level. Yesterday I had to go to the doctor and, of course, at t... | AITA For asking my doctor if he spoke English | NTA |
10xbpvk | I've known my friend Jasper for about 3 or 4 years now. Yesterday I was having fun making memes about me and my friend group and decided to include a couple of my other friends (A and M) who happen to be in Jasper's friend group, since they hang out with us a lot, although Jasper themself does not. I decided to post th... | AITA for not including my friend? | NTA |
10wxxdz | I've lived at my Grandma's for the past year and a half in a converted flat upstairs. This was initially converted for a different family member who lived there for a couple of years as they couldn't afford to live alone, but when they moved out I offered to move in but made it clear my dog would be with me (Grandma en... | AITA for not gifting my Grandma the furniture I was planning to sell? | NTA |
10x174m | So, for context, I am not a big fan of dogs in terms of living with them. I love them when I see them out and about or at a friends place, but I appreciate my space dog-free at home. For more context, my boyfriends dad is terminally ill, and doesn’t have much time left. My boyfriend wants to get a dog that resembles hi... | AITA for not letting my bf get a dog? | NTA |
10x4h69 | Title pretty much explains myself, but I’ll elaborate:My partner and I have been living together for about a year and some change now. Recently, we got into an argument because I said “I feel like you don’t do much of anything to help out around the apartment,” during a period of heated discussion. Context here: I am a... | AITA for asking my partner to do more around the house? | NTA |
10xn0sf | My friends and I have been going to this amazing music festival every year for the last 12 years. I was going to share an RV with 5 of my girlfriends. 2 of which are married to each other and get anxiety. We all decided no boys were allowed to stay in the RV and it would be chill. I ended up not being able to go due to... | AITA for confronting a friend for disrespecting my other friends | NTA |
10wv3j8 | I (F20) am a lesbian, and have been open about being one to my entire family. All my family is supportive (or at least looks to tolerate it), but my brother (M28) bothers me a lot. My brother makes lots of offensive, anti-LGBT jokes that the rest of my family agrees are trash but we say nothing to him because he's extr... | AITA for getting upset over jokes? | NTA |
10xmu23 | I (18M) am a senior in high school with a much older friend (23M). I had recently gone through a breakup in which I simply felt too stressed to be able to handle. After a period of being single and dealing with my stress and anxiety, I started hanging out with a friend in my class (F18) who I had previously had a crush... | AITA for not being with my friend’s girlfriend’s sister? | INFO |
10xhtfy | My (40f) boyfriend (44m) and I sleep in separate bedrooms. This morning, he woke up before me and decided to come cuddle. That would have been very sweet if while still asleep I hadn't thought that there was a burglar in my bedroom. I woke up screaming bloody murder. My boyfriend is mad at me for screaming but I don't ... | AITA for screaming at my boyfriend? | NTA |
10wuveh | My fiancé and I (both mid 30s) intend to get married this year.I did the big wedding thing the first time around and he turned out to be an abusive piece of human trash. I have no desire to do a big wedding or even a small backyard wedding. My fiancé agrees with this choice. He's not big on the showy stuff and neither ... | WIBTA if I don't want to invite my mother to my fiancé's and my elopement/courthouse marriage? | NTA |
10x76zj | So today I (29m) was chatting it up with a friend about the new Hogwarts game. He was telling me how much he enjoyed it so far and I jokingly asked him to buy it for me so I could confirm his praise. To my surprise he tells me yes but I still think he's joking. I ask if he is for real and he says yes what platform do I... | AITA for telling the truth and not putting my GF 1st. | NTA |
10x89cn | Hi everyone.To establish some backstory I’ve been working at a bank for the last 3 years and when I started it I was young, inexperienced and shy guy not good at selling products or talking to clients at all.Over the years, especially during the last year I changed a lot, I became way more assertive, good at sales and ... | AITA for breaking the workgroup set ways in doing things? | NTA |
10x41wk | This whole event happened a few weeks ago but it’s still on my mind. So I [14F] am a freshman in high school. My 2nd period class had just ended and it was time for my free period in my homeroom class. It’s important to know that my school’s library is located in the middle of the building. There is a history hallway l... | AITA for cutting through my school library as a shortcut without knowing that it was prohibited? | NTA |
10wsttm | For context my gf is catholic and was raised that way her entire life. I however was raised Christian for most of my childhood and am non-religious now. We are still young and marriage is far off but she has often said that she wants a catholic wedding and that her mom would really want us to have one. I was fine with ... | AITA for not wanting a catholic wedding? | NTA |
10xayv8 | I 38f am Continually bickering with my husband 38m. I work full time from home and still mind our 2,yr old. We have a child minder 3 afternoons a week as he didn't want to put him into creche as he doesn't believe the care is as good& doesn't want him getting sick, (I would tend to agree). On the other 2 afternoons... | AITA for saying enough is enough? | NTA |
10wveah | Sorry, English is not my first language!I think this needs context about my family. My parents got divorced when I was a toddler and both of them are very defensive about money issues. My dad did pay child support, but never wanted to pay anything more. My mom resents him for that, while my dad and his side of the fami... | AITA for selling a piece of art my parents gave me? | NTA |
10wu07z | I (27F) was visiting with 2 friends of mine Taffeta(26F) and Vanellope(28F). Taffeta is married to Turbo(36M) and they have 2 kids together. Vanellope is a single mom of a single child and I have 2 kids as well. So this was our first time all getting to hang out child free and partner free in years because Turbo hates ... | AITA for telling my friend she should leave her husband? | NTA |
10xabcv | Ok. I’m in Australia.If eligible, we can claim certain types of benefits from the government for many types of things. Not just in a “welfare” type way. We have rental assistance, Medicare, single parenting assistance, family tax benefit, job seeker payment… you get the picture.Someone asked me “hey, do you get money f... | AITA for answering an innocent question the wrong way? | NTA |
10xg4ri | Bit of a long story… Just over a year ago a family member passed away. Because of that I wasn’t at University for 3 weeks. When I returned, my friend was ignoring me and acting like I’d done something wrong. When I spoke to her about it she said “you were being too negative and pushing me away so i thought i should jus... | AITAH for not being there for my friend | ESH |
10x3hu3 | In middle school, during graduation, the class president would list the names of all the students, one by one, and they would walk on stage to receive their diploma, and, even if you had never met anyone from my middle school graduating class, you would be able to tell which students were popular based on the reactions... | AITA for not wanting to attend my own college graduation? | NTA |
10wrvse | So, there's this weird situation in my household. I (38/M) live in the same house as my sisters (36/F & 29/F) and their children (4/F & 12/M, respectively).My sisters have this arrangement where they just leave loads of laundry in the washer and dryer (sometimes for multiple days on end) and whoever needs to pu... | AITA for not wanting to finish my sisters' laundry | NTA |
10xciwk | Okay so basically ive been thinking about this for a long time well basically my grandfather was in a short term visit (waiting for them too die basically) and me and my whole family was there my hair was a complete mess near my roots i mightve accidentally bleached a ton of hair off and it looks horrible that day my g... | AITA for not taking my hood off? | YTA |
10wtkws | TL;DR - Friend - ''Jason'' (M23) was given tickets to see the Lakers play the Bucks, turns out this game gets hyped up as Lebron might break the scoring record on that night. Tickets skyrocket in price and said friend doesn't cash in at the right time. Lebron breaks the record the game before and I (22M) bear the fall ... | AITA for not pushing my friend harder to cash in on the value of his LA Lakers tickets in wake of Lebron James breaking the All-time scoring record? | NTA |
10x0aon | Basically a friend of mine, Jade often says things ignorantly. One time she asked a friend of mine ( who's a POC) if she could speak english. This friend has hanged out with us multiple times and everyone knew she understood more than she could speak but, again J doesn't thik before she talks. Jade also one time called... | AITA for spreading rumors about a close friend | NTA |
10xjyju | Context: basicly this guy trusted this girl with his elmo toy then she decided to draw on it and threw it then I told the teacher on her because the elmo toy probably costed around 25 bucks so I thought it was messed up for doing that to someone's belonging am I the asshole? | AITA for telling the teacher on this girl who drew and threw this guys elmo toy | NTA |
10xjrxm | So, I'm about to begin my last year of secondary school, and it has become like a tradition for last year students to get their own hoodie. Since my classmates had no intentions of doing anything I decided to do it myself. I presented them two options, the hardest one was the one chosen, so I had to create six diferent... | WIBTA if I tell my classmates I won't be responsible for our graduate hoodies? | NTA |
10x3vix | I (49M) have an 18 year old daughter, Selene. We didn't have the best relationship after her mother and I split up when she was ten, but she moved in with me for university because her university is in my city and she didn't want to be alone in student halls. I don't how to describe my daughter's temperament without us... | AITA for suggesting that my daughter needs to see a counsellor? | NTA |
10xasov | English is not my first language. Throwaway.I'm m19 and so is he. We're both uni students at the same major but hold kind of different lifestyles. I like to spend some time alone and do nothing while he's always involved in some different shit each day. He holds a very active lifestyle, goes to gym, stays healthy, goes... | AITA for not coming rescuing my friend when he needed my help? | NTA |
10xjbci | So for context we are both students in different education institutions. My friend is currently in the middle of handling orientation, and is an orientation leader to a group of new students. My friend texted me today about there being a bat (yes, the animal) in a box on the stage in the main hall. It was next to the b... | AITA for being upset with my friend for not doing anything about a bat in a box? | YTA |
10x38at | I (19M) have had several problems with my lungs, breathing and sinuses since I was a child. I don't know the exact details so I can only tell what I remember. I had to get surgery done once, and then I had to usually go to a hospital so they would hook me up to a machine that was supposed to help me with my issues... | AITA for asking my family not to smoke inside? | NTA |
10wubub | My (21m) ex (20f) left me as I made her unhappy and felt too responsible for my emotions. Since then, I’ve found it quite uncomfortable seeing her and hearing her. Often enough it ends up in me vomiting. Our common friend circle hangs out with her in the kitchen below my bedroom. I can hear everything through the floor... | AITA for asking my ex to not hang about where I live and telling her the specifics of why | YTA |
10xit9z | 35 years ago, I lost my older brother to cancer at the age of 16. He was my hero and only sibling. On the night before his funeral my dad let me drink alcohol with he and my uncle. After we were all drunk, my dad told me that I had to live the life of two sons for him since my brother had passed away.Today I live with ... | AITA for wanting an apology for something that was said 35 years ago? | YTA |
10x7bno | So I’ve been dating this girl for over a year and it’s been amazing! everything is fine except two problems she lives 2 hours away and I work 12 hours shifts at a factory… To elaborate I work 3-4 12 hours shifts a week and it varies from night shift to day shifts and as soon as I’m done I drive an hour and a half to go... | AITA for needing sleep? | NTA |
10xig1j | My sister (28F) and I (26F) are currently in a rocky place in our relationship, and she has been calling and texting me nonstop. She is showing up at my house yelling every couple of hours and one of my neighbors even called the cops. I was telling a friend of mine what was happening in such a short time since the inci... | WIBTA for reporting my sister for harassment? | INFO |
10wwaan | My grandfather doesn't like computers much but he loves Wikipedia. He used to go to his local library and print out Wikipedia articles to take home but was told it wasn't reasonable use so I've been letting him use my printer and printing things off for a while now.Obviously this is a terrible waste of paper and I wish... | AITA for buying my grandfather an ipad | NTA |
10wtxc9 | For context; I, 21F, live with my girlfriend, 24F, and her family.I pay rent + food, I clean the kitchen that’s my contribution.I suffer from depression and disordered eating, binge eating is common for me…for a while I lost a lot of weight and finally liked my body, turns out I am just diabetic, then I just wouldn’t t... | AITA for cooking meals only I like? | ESH |
10xcso5 | I play a fair amount of dead by daylight in my free time and it is very common to get angry comments under my steam profile when someone is salty. Most of the time it's something along the lines of "2700 hours and you still play like this? I should have known, since you're from \*place where I live\*". I used to just i... | AITA for mocking people on my steam profile? | NTA |
10xi728 | F here, I’ve been currently suffering from a dilemma with my current friends and my boyfriend. My boyfriend, let’s call him King, had a lot of drama with my friends over last summer while defending a friend of his in a group chat. She has a terrible sense of tone indication and she apologized for it many times, however... | AITA for refusing to pick sides | INFO |
10x65v0 | I (19F) recently came to university, I live in the school dorm and met my roommate (22F). She and I were completely cool with each other, no issue with each other at all, she helped me a lot when I came here. We live in a very cold country, can be up to -30 degree Celsius or more. I had so much inconvenience living wi... | AITA for telling my roommate to close the window | NTA |
10x3pgt | Edit. sorry for the grammar mistakesSo I will try to keep this as short as possible whilst having detail of all events. This is a throwaway account as i dont want anyone to know ive posted this.So im relatively young in my early teen years and my sister is 2 years younger than me. We have strict indian parents. Both me... | AITA for not picking up my sister? | NTA |
10x6vke | I (20F) am currently engaged to my fiancé (21M) of 3 years. We hope to get married in 2024. I have 2 childhood friends: Emi and Vera from 6th grade that I consider my closest even if we don’t talk to see each other a lot. And I would like my two friends to be there at my small wedding.One friend in particular, Emi some... | WIBTA if I don’t invite a childhood friend to my wedding? | NTA |
10wel7n | I’m estranged from my parents & 6 siblings. I’ve only spoken w/ a few of them rarely in recent yrs. I’ve struggled to let go as I loved them so much. My attempts to reconcile were unsuccessful. They don't care enough to rectify the situation.My story is about more than $. It’s about integrity, respect, family, &... | AITA for Getting Upset with My Estranged Mother for Photoshopping Me Into Her Christmas Card? | NTA |
10x6ftb | AITA for calling my step mom after 20 years? I had tried to keep in contact after she and my mother split. (It was a bitter break up for her I guess. Though she’d been the abusive one, physically, mentally. To both me as a child and my mother.) She moved, I had her address only and sent letters, called her parents once... | AITA for calling my stepmom | NTA |
10x9nw7 | I know usually hardcore things are posted in this subreddit but. Me and my best friend met each other 4 years ago and have been talking every day since then. We always made plans and if one couldn't make it, we would inform each other. few weeks ago my friend stopped replying on the day we made plans. I thought someth... | AITA for ignoring my best friend for weeks? | ESH |
10wugfa | My boyfriend (21M) is on the verge of a video game addiction, if he doesn’t have one already. He plays video games from around 5pm-6am almost every single day- honestly I (21F) can’t remember the last time he went one day without playing.He’s usually very sweet to me, but whenever he plays games, he pretty much ignores... | AITA for interrupting my boyfriend while he plays video games? | NTA |
10x9jr4 | I (18M) am in a co-leadership role in a club at my school with four other members, recently they have been criticizing me for not showing up as often as they'd like me to, Initially I apologized for my absence and said I would try to show up more often. The issue came when I explained to them why I wasn't really showin... | AITA for being argumentative with fellow club leaders when they criticize for not showing up often. | YTA |
10wwpvv | My wife seems to think it's ok to talk about ex boyfriends and even asked me if she was the ahole because someone who liked her was turned down because their parents were dating. So I'm asking if you think she's the ahole for continually bringing up former flames, and even wants my am I the ahole comments on past situa... | AITA when I don't want to talk about ex's and past flames | NTA |
10x615h | So, I just need to understand Am I the AH here. I know I’ m for first part. But the second? So I have (had) a very close friend - like realy close. I asked her if she and her familiy if wanted to celebrate NY together in November. She said (Lets call her Jess) - of course. We have a history of me changing plans last mi... | AITA for mistake from my side regarding NY | YTA |
10x8tqc | I (M26) have 2 very close friends (both M24) who basically grow up together and went to the same school until halfway to college. We'll call them B1 and B2. All of us were expats but they were living with their families and I was living solo. Due to this, I used to getting invited to each of their family's occasions, h... | WIBTA If my friendship implodes because I'm still hanging out with a friend who cheated another friend? | YTA |
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