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10x8lw6 | I (32 f) just got done defending my cousin (34 f) from her dead beat baby daddy. She got pregnant 10 months ago and he blocked her on all social media, made her go through the pregnancy completely alone, and when the baby was born 1 month ago, he did not come to the hospital and has yet to see his child, yet had no pro... | AITA for calling my family enablers? | NTA |
10x73co | Me and my siblings families went on a little road trip to visit our parents during the kids winter break. My sister and her husband had to leave a day early. Her older son wanted to stay longer, so she asked if he could ride back with me since I live right by them.As we were leaving the next day my brother's daughter, ... | AITA for not letting my niece ride in my car because she gets carsick? | NTA |
10xnb8l | I've owned and operated my own Cinema for nearly 10 years, like many people who operate their own businesses i've faced issues the last few years especially during the pandemic but thankfully we've survived so far. As our 10th anniversary is coming up i've decided to host a special charity event with a Video Game Tourn... | AITA for refusing to host my Cinema's charity event on a different day? | NTA |
10xlo8p | I work as a nanny on Mondays from 8-5, and in a medical office Tuesday through Friday, from about 6:30-4:30. I have a fiancé who lives with me. He doesn’t work. He plays video games a lot, likes to go for walks and makes dinner for when I get home. I have mentioned a few times that I could really use some more help aro... | AITA for asking my non-working fiancé to tackle household chores while I’m at work? | NTA |
10xcahf | I've (25F) been with my girlfriend (23F) for two years. I am on the autism spectrum, she is neurotypical. Due to being autistic, my brain doesn't learn or do stuff as fast as others. I have a harder time picking up on social cues. If someone gives me a list of verbal directions all at once, I'm not going to remember al... | AITA for snapping at my girlfriend? | NTA |
10xou71 | One night I turned on the dryer at 1am and found a note on my door the next day saying not to run the dryer at night because it makes a lot of noise. I got management to take a look at the dryer but they said nothing they could do noise wise, it was fine. So I just avoided running it at night. 11 MONTHS later, I had co... | AITA for not turning off the dryer? | YTA |
10xlzz6 | I (F32) work for a large multinational. I manage the local team who perform the core business functions, but periphery employees work alongside my team despite their reporting line going outside of the country. It is quite a complicated setup, but it basically means I only have hiring and firing power over my core team... | AITA for trying to be diplomatic and not being transparent? | NTA |
10xltr3 | AITA for not inviting my nephew to my wedding?I’m (33f) marrying my fiancé (33m) this spring, and we decided to have a child-free wedding. My uncle asked me to let him bring his son, but I was clear that it’s a child-free wedding and allowing him to bring his son wouldn’t be fair to our other guests with children. It t... | AITA for not inviting my nephew to my wedding? | NTA |
10xngxw | I'll preface by saying this, my parents are genuinely good people, good for each other? Probably not.I21M), come from a family where every kind of hardship you can imagine, we've faced. I'm not poor by any means, but in my childhood, we kind of were. Now onto the issue, my parents each have trauma of their, and I'm tal... | AITA for not visiting parents more often? | NTA |
10xibao | My wife has handled our finances for our whole marriage. We both have great jobs, but always seem to struggle financially. I always attributed this to the cost of raising children, but recently, due to some digging I had done when I found out she had been talking to another guy daily, I found out she has taken out nume... | AITA For not trusting my wife | NTA |
10xjcbu | So our housecleaner has been coming since mid-December, almost every week, but sometimes every other week. We live in a rural area. Housekeeper wanted (and we paid him) $25/hr plus tip, usually an additional $25-$50. They would stay between three to five hours, depending on what was getting cleaned. Never had a singl... | AITA house cleaner left | NTA |
10xlilc | My husband has ADHD. He’s a lengthy talker and often cuts people off in conversation. The other thing he does frequently is repeat himself, the combination of these three things really bother me somedays.
We’re in the beginning phases of getting a pool installed and are getting bids from multiple companies. We’ve tal... | AITA for telling my husband (who has untreated ADHD) my frustration with the way he communicates? | NTA |
10ximsg | Hi everyone! My best friend, Anthony is getting married next year. He has asked me to be his best man few days ago as he does not have a brother. Of course I accepted it gracefully, and I wanted to be there for him. His Fiancee, Melissa has a disabled brother, Caleb who is special needs. Caleb is going to be the grooms... | WIBTA if I asked the groom to change his best man? | YTA |
10xo8ds | My family and I live in a small island community, much like a small town. Everyone knows and helps each other, no one keeps their doors locked, etc. My husband and I moved here when our children were just 1 & 3, so this is the only community they’ve ever really known. We’re pretty remote, and so we rarely get touri... | AITA for not making my son wear a swimsuit? | YTA |
10xhobo | I’m supposed to attend a wedding in Asia (14 hour flight) next week. It’s my girlfriends best friend- she’s the maid of honor. My elderly father unexpectedly needs to have heart surgery while I’ll be away and I don’t feel comfortable leaving him. AITA for dropping out and asking my GF to go alone? She doesn’t feel tota... | AITA- Can’t attend destination wedding with girlfriend, elderly father needs surgery | NTA |
10xk97d | Since maybe two weeks ago my (27m) long distance girlfriend (23F) has been sending me tiktoks and memes about how "Even though we are dating, you still need to ask me to be your valentine" or "Who's your valentine? I don't know I haven't been asked yet" things along those lines. After the first video I replied jokingl... | AITA for not asking my girlfriend to be my valentine even though it's not yet valentine's day? | NTA |
10xeg3f | I (25 f) met my good friend (25 f) and her fiancé a little over a year ago. When the four of us first started hanging out I was already engaged to my current husband (25 m). We got along great and seemed to agree on everything. We shared similar interests, and spent the summer having bonfires in their backyard. After s... | AITA for not wanting to be a bridesmaid in my friend’s wedding? | NTA |
10xif72 | So as it says I was spending Christmas at my sister's house in Rochester NY flew in from Toronto nice big house, and when I arrived we did not discuss sleeping arraignments. Her in-laws drove up from Texas in a big RV, so getting late we start talking about sleeping arrangements I told my sister don't worry about me go... | AITA for staying in a Hotel | NTA |
10xmfhh | My partner and I went into a small zero waste store where they sell bulk liquids. They state you can bring your own container or buy one of their reusable containers. They also had a bin full of free (previously used) containers with a sign saying ‘free’.My partner asked if they could take a couple jars. The person run... | AITA for stopping my partner from taking free jars | NTA |
10xmdlb | I’m a senior in high school attending a small private school of roughly 200 kids Kindergarten to 12th grade. My own class is made up of only 15 students. I am used to being the butt of most jokes my class can formulate, and I have learned to embrace it through my high school years. There is one girl in particular who m... | AITA for being fed up with this girl?? | NTA |
10xlcjp | I’m getting married in a few months to my fiancé. We’ve always agreed that we never wanted small children at our wedding. Mostly out of fear of them causing trouble, crying during the ceremony, etc. My sister had my niece almost a year ago now. I love her to death - she’s the sweetest. She’ll be about a year and a half... | AITA for excluding my young niece from my child-free wedding? | NTA |
10xgbmj | I (16f) know I am incredibly lucky and I really don't want to seem ungrateful. I was in the foster care system for a few years when I was younger and then I got adopted into a great family that has been nothing but supportive and so nice to me. I call them my mom and dad, and my sister (16 f). We'll call her Lucy. I've... | AITA for telling my adoptive parents I've never really felt like part of the family? | NTA |
10xk6h1 | I (29f) got married September of ‘22 after about a year and a couple months of dating my, now husband (27m). A couple months before we got married he brought up wanting to his parents (60m &62f) to move in with us once his dad retires. I wasn’t super thrilled about it, but conceded with the very clear statement tha... | AITA for not wanting in laws to live in with us | NTA |
10xkqfm | I (26F) have been living in a 5 bedroom, 2 bathroom apartment since April 2021. Everyone pays for their own rooms and then we spilt the internet and electric bills 5 ways. I became in charge of the electric bill in February 2021 then the internet bill in April 2022. Every month when I get a bill I put it in the group... | AITA for asking my roommates to pay their parts of the electric and internet bills? | NTA |
10xgnxj | I recently posted this in a different sub and got a comment basically stating that I’m irrational and need to be more tolerant of my neighbors. Weird NeighborsI recently moved into a new apartment. It is on the first floor of a beautiful 2 family house and it is a huge upgrade from the place I moved from. With that, I ... | AITA for feeling fed up and frustrated with my upstairs neighbors? | NTA |
10x7l0t | Some back info: Me (30F) and husband. (31M) live four hours from my BIL (34M) and his wife (32F). We see each other three or four times a year and our relationship has been that way since I began dating my husband when I was 22. We have been married for 6 years. MIL and FIL live in the same city as we do. SIL and I do ... | WIBTA for joining my SIL’s line of work? | NTA |
10xcp4g | ​So I work full time, go to school full time and last year I started a small online reselling business.Two years ago, I started doing house/petsitting as a side hustle to make more money. My fiance and I consider this our money because he comes with me to help house/petsit. Last October I also started a smal... | AITA for offering to pay my fiancé hourly instead of splitting the profits from my side hustles? | YTA |
10xlb2k | I (19m) live with my parents. I have a 1 year old daughter who lives with me as well. I live in the city and can’t really move far due to custody agreements so it has been impossible to afford a city apartment/duplex as well as my daughter and insurance all that fun stuff. It’s just not possible. I make 2200 a month. I... | AITA for arguing with my parents for waking me up in their house? | YTA |
10xpafx | So long story short I 35m and basically been no contact with my dad since I was like 22, he will text every now and then which I will normally just ignore.He has been seeing his new “girlfriend” about a year and a half now and for whatever reason decides to show up for once to his grandsons first birthday (my sisters k... | AITA the first telling my dads GF why we don’t talk, causing them to break up? | NTA |
10xmcvv | Friend came out for our other friend’s bachelor party but refused to do the main events. The bachelor requested only two events (golf and fishing) that he would like to do and our friend refused to do them. He said he gets seasick easily and doesn’t play golf. But we had plenty of other people who get seasick (they tak... | AITA for calling my friend out for ditching bachelor party events? | ESH |
10xk1ff | I 21F don't want to live with any of my family members anymore, mom, brother, stepdad. I have some things I strongly dislike about living with my brother or stepdad, I don't really care what they would say in case they had any opinion about it. But my mom is like my best friend, and I do care about her, but she is also... | WIBTA if I move out and "abandon my family" | NTA |
10x49hp | I (20M) currently live with my parents and commute to university, because it's not too far. Even though I don't pay rent, I pitch in very often for bills and the like.My mum has wanted to do fostering for a very long time, which me and my twin sister were absolutely fine with. When my sister left to study abroad (she i... | AITA for not wanting to switch rooms? | YTA |
10xe3s9 | "Joe" (27M) and I (25F) have been in a relationship for almost two years and have been living together for six months. Joe is a natural extrovert and makes friends very easily while I am an introvert and prefer small groups, we have never had a problem with it since we respect our spaces and although he goes out to par... | AITA for asking my boyfriend to not talk to me about his boss? | NTA |
10xn2fl | My gran 71F (on my mums side) is currently staying with us from overseas. Yesterday she got upset with my mum 52F and myself 19F because she believed we were both ignoring her over a rude comment she made about our cat. She started screaming at the both of us and becoming extremely aggressive. she told us to "fuck off... | AITA for being resentful towards my parents for not holding my gran accountable after she was verbally abusive? | NTA |
10xe2zs | I have some blood problems, one of which is low iron and folic acid. I do take supplements and am careful with my diet, but if I've had a busy day and haven't eaten enough, or I'm on my period, sometimes my levels will drop quite drastically. This leads to pica cravings, sometimes clay but mostly chalk. I watch a lot o... | AITA for buying chalk? | NTA |
10x3fue | I (16) have been harassed by my sister (31) and mother (53) for the past few weeks to help her write a 10 page essay.I am in my last year of high school with 5 of my own assignments with deadlines this month. I agreed to help her correct her grammar since she never got proper education (she was expelled at 13 and nowhe... | AITA for not helping my sister with her college assignment | NTA |
10wtw1p | So I (M) spent Christmas Eve at my boyfriend's aunt's house (hereafter, "hostess"). There's lot of food, buffet style. I got some salmon, sat down on a couch with bf. Took a bite, and see while the top is cooked, the bottom is raw. Bf said it was probably catered and that one salmon was just bad.I'm very nervous even b... | AITA for refusing to eat my bf's family member's food on Christmas Eve? | NTA |
10xca9z | For several months my sibling and I leased an apartment together, and we were supposed to split the bills 50/50. Early on the both of us ended up losing our jobs for different reasons, at the same time. After that we both got new jobs, but my sibling decided that this was their sign to move out of state. They asked if ... | AITA for refusing to check on my siblings storage unit after they moved out | NTA |
10xi3ui | Ok so the title may be a little confusing but basically I was in class and one of the boys decided it would be a ‘fun prank’ to steal my unlocked phone which I thought was funny at first. But then he gave it to a whole bunch of his friends to look through. After that whole ordeal I couldn’t find it after a good 5 minu... | AITA for asking the teacher where my phone was | NTA |
10xi27t | Abby and I are both mid 30s and live together. Abby has what she refers to as severe social anxiety and generally does not leave the house, and certainly does not go to the store. She depends on me pretty much entirely for this these days.I went shopping and got myself some milk, two tv dinners for quick lunches, and s... | AITA for being inconsiderate | NTA |
10xla9f | So my "partner" and I have been together for about 9 years. He used to vape pretty constantly but has been smoking cigarettes for about 2 years now. I've always hated him smoking/vaping, to the point where the sound his vape made when he inhaled made me physically cringe. I dislike him smoking cigarettes for a number o... | AITA for asking my "partner" not to smoke before bed | NTA |
10xfimt | Context: I love my husband more than anything. He's my highschool sweetheart. This year we'll have been together for 20 years. He is VERY mild mannered and never feels confident self-advocating, not even to me. I have to be careful when he just goes along with whatever I want that I don't allow myself to take advantage... | AITA for being angry thet my husband won't stand up for himself at work? | YTA |
10xl445 | First, me and my in-laws doesn't have a good relationship, I was emotionally and verbally abused by them when me and my husband live in their house for the first three years of our married life.FIL is abusive towards his wife, he is narcissistic, while MIL is enabler of the abuser. My husband grew up in a dysfunctional... | AITA - For not inviting my Husband's family on his birthday | NTA |
10xmh7y | Am I the asshole for not wanting to give my younger sister a role in my wedding?I (17F) am getting married in September later this year, and am currently trying to plan out the wedding. My fiancé has his best man and groomsmen chosen, I chose my best friend as my maid of honor and one other friend to be a bridesmaid. M... | AITA for not wanting to give my sister a role in my wedding | NTA |
10x9cla | My family is very visibly white including my brother in question but we grew up in a predominantly low income African American community, and as such sound like it. I moved out years ago to go to college and had a major culture shock as I experienced problems related to the fact that, I, a very white man sounded "extre... | AITA for telling my brother to "fix his accent" | NTA |
10xo517 | \*This is a throwaway accountI (16F) have a very strained relationship with my parents, they pressure me and yell at me all the time. My parents keep a fairly strict household meaning that as soon as school ends I am to come home immediately, and if I am late to the pick up area I will have to walk home myself. They be... | AITA for yelling at my family? | NTA |
10xikyr | Okay, so I (18F) am adopted. I don’t have a real mother or father. I live with friends of my bio mother and I call them by familial names (for instance, I have a mother, grandma, and two sisters in my adoptive family). But I feel close to them like they are my real family. To make this short and sweet and cut out any u... | AITA for not feeding my nephew? | YTA |
10x2myb | This morning I took the bus to work like I normally do. When I got off, I realized my phone (with my ID and credit card) was still on my seat. It was too late and the bus had already started moving. I chased it for two blocks waving and trying to get the driver's attention to no avail. I honestly thought they may be in... | AITA for chasing a bus and banging on the window when I forgot my phone inside? | NTA |
10xkxm7 | I and my friend let’s call her sid have known each other for years. We are on our third year living together at college and things have been mostly smooth sailing until the last couple of months. For context we are both full time students and have jobs so we are on different schedules and frequently coming and going. S... | AITA Me (20F)and my roommate (20F) have been fighting over use of the common space in our apartment | NTA |
10xecdf | I (20F) am on a college campus that had a pipe break causing a town wide contamination emergency. Our campus was distributing cases of water for students to drink until the water is fixed. We got an emergency email telling us cases of water would be available for the taking. I grabbed one of the cases, planning to take... | AITA for Taking a Free Case of Water during a water emergency? | NTA |
10xkuub | There’s a guy (20M) that had a crush on me (23F) and had been trying with me for 6 months but I had rejected him because of personal reasons I had. We were friends I’d say, we talked nearly everyday. Anyways my friend (26F) told him that I slept with my ex recently and that I had also started seeing someone new. Both w... | AITA for being angry that my friend told someone about my personal life | NTA |
10xnz2x | Hello Reddit I need your judgment ​Background, my cousin 12-year-old female attends a public school. About twice a year they hold a catalog fundraiser to help raise funds for after school activities. For those of you who aren't familiar on how a catalog fundraiser works, here's a overview. The school contrac... | AITA For wanting my cousin school to refund my donation? | NTA |
10xfpe7 | For context I (30M) and my fiance (25F) just had our second baby 3 months ago. We also have a 1 year old daughter. My fiance's grandmother does come over now that I'm back at work during the day to help her with the kids. She did have some postpartum depression while I was on leave, but as soon as I went back to work i... | AITA for not taking new orders for my fiance's baking business? | YTA |
10xm6kk | Hi Im posting cause I think I might be for feeling this way but I thought it couldn’t hurt to check. So me and my sister both took a history a test, I got an A and she got a B. My parents were all happy over her B but my A was only an after thought. The reason I feel like an A hole is because she worked hard (? Maybe n... | AITA for feeling kinda bummed for not getting any praise? | NTA |
10xlrqw | I (18f) have 4 siblings, (T 29 M, C 26M, D 24 M, and R 19 M) R was adopted when he was 13. His biological parents decided they didn’t want a baby. The rest of us are biologically siblings. All 5 of us go/went to an arts school. The older boys for music, me for art and R is going for dance. I found out through some fri... | AITA for telling my adopted brother he’s overreacting? | YTA |
10xgpr0 | I (29f) have a 10 year old daughter with my (32m) ex whom I share custody with. My daughter and I have always had a close bond until the age 6 when I noticed signs of ADHD. When I brought it up to my ex about seeking treatment for it he was hesitant but ultimately agreed. My suspicions were correct but her father didn... | AITA for considering boarding school? | NTA |
10wummt | I have a 16 year old daughter. My mother passed away 2 years ago, leaving our daughter a great sum of money since she is the only grandchild. We were reluctant and to let her dig into it before she was 18 in fear she would not be responsible, but she convinced us after taking her drivers test to allow her to get a car.... | AITA for taking my daughters key | NTA |
10xiqok | I am in college and currently in a core, capstone class for my program. (So it's a pretty important class.) We are doing a group project that's worth about 75% of our grade, and the first day of class me and 5 other people put a group together. The assignment isn't due until mid-April, but because its fairly large and ... | AITA for not letting someone rejoin the group project? | NTA |
10xcgtt | Okay I go to a school for people with autism , I'm obviously not gonna say where . But there's this boy who shall not be named. Anyway so today we had a class called zoo life and naturally i went into the classroom and sat down in my usual seat . All is well and good until he walks in.So he sees a Waterbottle on the t... | AITA for telling my autistic classmate that he didn't make sense and tattling on him to a teacher ? | NTA |
10wurzh | My boyfriend (M39) and I (F27) are living together and have a toddler. He never did his part as a father and never "helped" around the kid. After we started living together (Europe/Balkan) his mother came from the US to live with us. At first I thought she came to be with her grandson but it turned out she came to trai... | AITA for setting boundaries with boyfriend's family since he didn't | NTA |
10wv5w9 | My (21F) brother (19M) entered my room this morning at 7am and asked if he could borrow my airpods to take to work with him for the day because he doesnt have his own (not sure if he would have even asked had I not woken up, but he did ask nicely - at first). His reasoning was that he will be working in a factory all d... | AITA for yelling at my brother in the early morning over Airpods? | NTA |
10xmzsp | My (26F) BFF (26F) and I have been friends for 14 years…she means the world to me. I just don’t know who she is anymore. She’s genuinely someone I don’t recognize. She has NEVER agreed with any relationship I’ve ever been in, male or female, she has always picked them apart to the point I felt I could NEVER share with ... | AITAH for giving up? | NTA |
10xp9u8 | So I'm an artist (selling on etsy and at conventions like furry/anime/comic). I started my art business in 2016 and after many years of struggling and "learning the ropes". Not everything you do sells and it takes time to develop a storefront.My business started as handmade plushies. These kind of plushies usually sell... | AITA for insisting I stay "on brand" with my art? | NTA |
10xmxxz | I'm in my 30s and haven't been doing great financially or emotionally. I've been crashing with my aging mother for the last almost 3 years. We don't have the best relationship. In fact she's always been rather smothering, and I felt that getting her approval and not being able to get independence until well into my 30s... | AITA My mom lost my inheritance. Am I the asshole for telling her I'm upset? | YTA |
10xl3iv | Hi everyone,I (22F) could use some help figuring out if I'm the asshole in a situation with my sister (25F). My sister and I are roommates and friends, but we can also act like catty sisters at times. This weekend is the WMO and Superbowl (We live in Phoenix). My sister asked me if I could pick her up from her friend'... | AITA for suggesting my sister take an Uber or stay overnight with her friend during a busy weekend in town? | NTA |
10xp6xs | I am 17 in college (UK so not university) doing b tec psychology and law. the law coursework is a lot longer and has a deadline of may whereas my psychology has a deadline of friday this week. the assignment started a month ago and after teaching finished, we had 9 lessons to do the coursework.there are 2 people next t... | AITA for not wanting to share my coursework with people who insulted me and my cats 3 days before the deadline? | NTA |
10xl2jg | I (22f) have two little sisters who I’ll call Lucy (20f) and Charlotte (17f). Lucy and I are both in university at different schools, while Charlotte’s in high school. I am currently studying in one of the top universities in my country in a well-known city, so it’s easy to get a bus there. My boyfriend (24m, we’ll cal... | AITA For not driving my sister back? | NTA |
10xgx9z | Sorry guys, it’s a long post! TL;DR ~ our landlord and his wife are careless and disregarded tenants’ rights. My partner (F20), myself (M21) and a mutual friend moved into our current house 9 months ago. We were able to rent it for much less than it should have been due to our friend being the landlords niece. We’ve ha... | WIBTA for reporting our landlord? | NTA |
10xexcu | my girlfriend (19F) and i (18F) are longtime close friends with another couple (19F & 19M) who moved to another state a little over a year ago. in november, i bought my girlfriend and i tickets to go visit our friends, as we hadn’t seen them since this time last year when we also went up to stay with them. i triple... | AITA for overreacting when friends forgot we were coming to visit them? | NTA |
10xkrku | Couple months ago my grandma passed away of old age, we were close and this was the first funeral I attended. After which in her will she gave her house and possessions to me, which I am grateful for. Also worth mentioning that my 2 aunts and cousin have been living there for a 2 years now. Now cut to present time, du... | AITA for wanting to get rid of most of my dead grandma things. | NTA |
10xgp24 | This is my very first post on reddit. So pardon me.I'm from India (27f)My very close friend gave promise to his friend (Sia) that she could come to our city to look for job. And he would arrange her accommodation for few days. He couldn't manage it till last minute so he asked me if Sia could stay with me for 5-6 days?... | AITA to kick my friend's friend out of my house? | NTA |
10x1f0a | For context: my bf (27M) has been having money spending issues since before the start of our relationship, we have been together for almost 13 months. I have been trying to get him to safe money and stop spending it so carelessly, but to no avail. This resulted in him having little to no money every week. I (23F) work ... | AITA for not wanting to pay for my boyfriends birthday? | NTA |
10x1993 | I'm traveling, so use coin operated launderettes to do laundry. I came back just before the washing machine finished to find all the dryers are full, but ones got 10 minutes left. No one else around After browsing Reddit for 20 minutes still no sign of anyone coming to take their clothes, so I take them out and put the... | AITA for taking someone's laundry out of the dryer | NTA |
10xkc60 | So my friend has this wired thing where if you ever speak in a criticizing way to him or negatively he will go mute and cease all communication for a few days before coming to his senses. I love this guy but it’s very frustrating when he does this or other things like call him out for backing out of plans without telli... | AITA for confronting my friend? | YTA |
10xbpf4 | Currently residing in my hometown, where my wife doesn’t want to be, but she also doesn’t want to live in her hometown. I’m not steadfast in staying here but need to move in a career direction that is appropriate (compensation, role, responsibility, etc). My wife has never worked (inside of our relationship, but she d... | AITA Forcing a relo for work … aita? | YTA |
10xcbge | Background info: my car has been in the shop for the last three weeks because the part that’s needed to fix it isn’t made anymore, and the shop owner can’t find a used one under the mileage of my car. So my family and me have reached the same conclusion that my current car is a lost cause and we’ve been trying to find ... | AITA for not wanting to accept my “birthday gift” from my boss? | YTA |
10xm2d7 | English is not my first languange so sorry for any grammar mistakes. My mom (43) planned a trip with the family (her sister, me and my girlfriend) out of the country. We were very excited to come since it has been awhile since we last travelled together but suddenly my mom wanted my sister (6) to come which is diagnos... | AITA if i don’t come to our trip if my autistic sister goes with us | NTA |
10xiiqh | I know the title sounds a bit shitty but hear me put. So I 14f have a little brother 7m just little over a year ago my mother got him a turle for his birthday. Now let me just say since then my brother has barely done anything for it. He doesn't feed it change its water or even checks on it. I do all of that and someti... | AITA FOR WANTING TO GIVE AWAY MY BROTHER'S TURTLE? | NTA |
10wvm1y | Personally I don’t like the idea of “matching” tattoos, whether it’s family or friends because it may set a bad omen as I’ve heard matching tattoos could potentially be the starting point before they eventually split or fallout. The other day my sister and my mum ‘suggested’ we (all 4 of us) get a family tattoo, in whi... | AITA for telling my family that I don’t want a matching tattoo? | NTA |
10xoc3c | My wife and I (26f, 29m) recently moved into a new home. For the past few years that we've been married we lived in an apartment but we were recently able to buy a nice but modest home.Here's the issue. In our old apartment our bedroom door was to the left side of our bed. I don't remember what prompted this decision b... | AITA for refusing to switch the sides of the bed with my wife? | NTA |
10xlwa6 | My roommate has moderate dust and pollen allergies and recently placed an air purifier into our room to try to alleviate her allergy symptoms. The problem is that the air purifier constantly emits a high-pitched white noise. It's relatively quiet, so I don't really notice it during the day due to other background sound... | AITA for suggesting a roommate compromise? | NTA |
10xjwl3 | Just for a little bit of background, her and I used to be really close and I was close with her kids (my nieces) but my husband and I split up and the family naturally took his side and his parents blocked me on social media the day after I left. Our child is very close with her children so for the sake of the kids, I ... | AITA for not removing photos of my sister-in-laws kids? | YTA |
10xjtwl | WIBTA if i chose to live with my dad instead of my mom?Okay, a little bit of history first. My parents split up in 2018, and got divorced a couple of years later. I’ve been domicile with my mom since it all began, visiting my dad every other weekend and such. My oldest sibling (20) lives with him, while me (16) and my ... | WIBTA if i chose to live with my mom instead of my dad? | NTA |
10xfiqj | Hello everyone. I am 25M with a disability. I always get really happy and excited when I see a non-disabled person interact with a disabled or a special needs person in the most positive and in a beautiful way or include them in stuff. It warms my heart because I feel happy that the others get to be surrounded by lovin... | AITA for thanking my brother's friend for a positive interaction. | NTA |
10xo37f | So me (38m) and Gina (40f) have a daughter of 9 months, Julia. She is the sweetest and happiest little human being.We live in different households, me alone and her with Julia and Claire (9y). Claires father takes her 1,5 days a week. Claire is very close with Gina, we do come along but it's clear that for her emotiona... | AITA for not doing enough housework? | NTA |
10x5yb0 | I (20MtF) dont want my parents to go to my therapy session, my dad thinks I’m selfish because of it. For context I can’t drive. Because of where I live, that basically means I’m not capable of leaving the house because town is just too far away to walk to. My college classes are online, but beyond that there’s just not... | AITA for not wanting my parents to go to therapy with me | NTA |
10wvmnl | *Necessary premise:* *I'm not mothertongue so please forgive any mistake, and obviously throaway with some details modified/concelaed for privacy reasons.*​So, I met this person while volunteering for a local association.We were more or less the same age, we were the only ones with kis, and we volunteered in... | AITA for leaving a friend in need because until now I didn't believe they are an extremist? | NTA |
10xgg4f | My husband and I have been living for almost 2 years together. This includes saving up money together.We have already saved atleast $2500 in the total for 2 years of living together. We are now on our way to our first $3000.He is born with a family that can afford most of their wants and needs. My own family doesn't li... | AITA I don't want to spend too much on my husband's bday | NTA |
10xf3y0 | I’m best friends with who I’ll call E. We’ve been best friends for a couple years now and act like we’ve known each other for all our lives. We call often and hang out every Monday after school because that’s the only time I can really hang out for long with anyone. Recently, she got a boyfriend who I’ll call DJ. They ... | AITA for ignoring my best friend? | YTA |
10xnnje | Hey!! This isn't an interesting post and mostly fueled by my own anxiety, so I'll try and keep it brief. Not a throwaway because my boss doesn't use reddit (or so I hope). I (19F) work an overnight shift at a 24 hour gym. Part of the reason I got my job in the first place was because I have a lot of mental health issue... | WIBTA for saying no to my boss? | NTA |
10x6w4i | I (21F) have been dealing with my boyfriend (24M) commenting on my looks a lot. I am a bigger girl (tall and sturdy) and I have dealt with eating disorders in the past, as well as body dysmorphia. I do not like people commenting on the way I look in a negative manner. I have told my partner this before, and he tells me... | AITA for not wanting my partner to comment on the way I look? | NTA |
10xbpx9 | I (16m) just started driving a car. My dad used to drive a 2002 silver Toyota Land-cruiser with almost 200,000 miles on it. He got a new car a couple months ago and gave the landcruiser to me. it’s in a pretty bad shape and i’m not even allowed to drive out of city with it bc my parents are afraid of something breaking... | AITA for trying to afford a new car as a highschooler | YTA |
10xkt1x | My sister (23f) lives in our parents house and has a job of her own. She pays nothing in the house except for some of her own expenses like shampoo and clothes and sometimes her own food (which she has yelled at us for eating), but she does not (and has never since she got a job two years ago) contribute at all to anyt... | AITA for calling my sister selfish? | NTA |
10xc7ir | My exgirlfriend (F25) and I (M23) broke up days before our three year anniversary. We had mutually come to the conclusion after going over all of our issues. Our roommate (25F) had been one of these issues. My ex had issues with the way me and my roommate would chat about the dogs or work. My ex would claim there were ... | AITA for Hanging out with my Ex’s Ex-Friend? | NTA |
10xh06j | For context I live with my dad and sister neither of which seem to care about me. My dad has anger issues to the point of where I am afraid to talk to him. He makes comments about my weight ALOT and my sister does nothing to help me and even says hes just frustrated because he has a problem with his leg I've said that ... | WIBTA if I move away? | NTA |
10xn3rw | Back in 2018 my neighbours were moving to UK and asked if we could take care of their 2 pet rabbits.I bonded with the rabbits and i had it for 5 years , when the neighbours moved back here a few months ago they didnt ask their pets back as i had it way longer than they had. when i told others about this , many were sa... | AITA for not returning my Neighbours pet? | NTA |
10xifkb | My fiancé and I recently got engaged and are starting to plan the wedding. For some background, we have been dating for 4 years. In the first year we were dating, my fiancé lost her dad unexpectedly. My fiancé and her family became very private and worried since then which I understand. her side of the family is also v... | AITA for not wanting my fiancé’s cousin to be my groomsman? | NTA |
10xadn2 | I'm in serious need of outside views on this as it's starting to ruin my relationship.I (25F) did not know my biological father until last year when I found him via ancestry DNA. I have made really close connections with him and his sister. We live in the UK and I have a great nan, aunts and cousins who are in Germany.... | AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to come with me to meet my family for the first time. | NTA |
10xjyvu | I (19 F) have a friend (19 F) who had a very serious relationship with this dude (20 M). For background information they had been together for a year and he broke up with her. Two days after the breakup my friend (for privacy reasons i’ll call her Sam) calls me and tells me that she’s not in a great state of mind and q... | AITA for saying my “friend” is obsessed with her ex bf | NTA |
10x85m4 | My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. He and his ex had a bad break up and were basically strangers till about a year and half ago when she became a devout Christian and somehow they reconciled and became "friends". Somehow my boyfriend knows about her new relationships, break ups, and also knows that ... | AITA for telling my boyfriend his joke was offensive | NTA |
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