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10wx7pd | So I (F19) dropped out of university last year and I’ve been living at home since. I was working full time but now I do part-time 9 am-2 pm shifts so I can do the school run for my parent. I don’t pay rent, I just do the weekly shopping.
About two weeks ago I sustained a large first-degree burn on the back of my hand... | AITA for avoiding my mum | NAH |
10x8mce | First of all, some background:Im part of a small group of friends , which are both couples who have been together for years now. In the last 2 years i ended a relationship that made me go on my own for a bit since i didn't want to be the fifth alone, and I ended up finding a new girlfriend, the new relationship is st... | AITA for waiting to not wanting to delay my trip after forgetting my friends birthday | NTA |
10wv0xd | My niece turned 15 yesterday and as her birthday gift she wanted to give away all her old clothes to someone who needs them and buy new ones. Her taste in clothes has changed a lot in the past year and there is almost nothing in her closet that she likes anymore.She approached me a few days ago and asked me if I would ... | AITA for going shopping with my niece? | NTA |
10wwrh6 | AITA for hanging up his clothesSo myself, my husband and our 2 kids just recently moved. However, the place we moved to is smaller than our last home, and thus we lost storage space (this provides context). Today, I hung up my husband’s clothes in his closet. When he came home from work I showed him. His response was t... | AITA for hanging up my husband’s clothes | NTA |
10x875p | Last year I (14f) was in a friend group with a few other girls in my class. I'm not sure what you would call them (stereotypical mean girls?), but they talked bad about everyone and practically bullied me out of the group. They dislike basically everyone outside their small circle. Anyway. There's this one girl who we ... | AITA for telling my friend our other friends hate her? | YTA |
10x443v | I (16f) am a song leader in my church. I am accompanied by a piano and a pianist (17m). For reference, we sing old hymns. This last Sunday, I sent my pianist 3 songs like usual after service. ( an opening, an offertory hymn, and an invitation ). He said we do the opening song way too much. ( I don't ever sing it, but t... | AITA for not letting my pianist change songs? | NTA |
10wun06 | for context, my best friend is my mate who i’ve been friends with for more than 8 years now, since high school, so we’re tight and we are really good together. my GF (who i’ve known and been together for just over a year now) is extremely upset at him because of some issues while they were at work (they work at the sam... | AITA for going to the gym and hanging out with my Best Friend while my GF is mad at him? | NTA |
10x2gr8 | I (27f) am originally from the United States, but I live abroad. My younger brother is graduating from college in May and graduations are really important in my family. My entire extended family is going for it and I might even be bringing my boyfriend back to meet everyone, however none of the plans are set in stone y... | WIBTA if I didn't attend my friends birthday? | YWNBTA |
10xmgwj | I (22m) was invited by my friends to go to Europe but I refused because I’m too old and I wish I was younger to get to experience traveling out of the country. I’ll never have that experience of backpacking through Europe at 16 and that must be so fun and cool. Now I’m too old and I wouldn’t even be a young traveler. ... | AITA for refusing to travel with my friends? | YTA |
10wu4mh | Names changed for obvious reasons. Jenna is my (35f) best friend and went through a divorce a couple of years ago. She struggles to be on her own and has had a string of short-lived partners since who she meets online and they often come with drama and baggage. My husband (35m) and I always support her through this and... | WIBTA if I cancelled a holiday with my friend because she wants to invite her new boyfriend? | NTA |
10wv0pu | Long story short, my wife’s parents immigrated here from another country and most of her extended family still lives in said country- I haven’t met most of them yet. We are planning to visit this country and she was telling me about her relatives there. I asked if she had any living grandparents to which she nervous la... | AITA for asking my wife of two years if she has any living grandparents (forgot that she doesn’t)? | YTA |
10xbs37 | Hello everyone. A little background info: me (23F) and my partner (22M) have been together for over 4 years, living together for over 3. We have never had any serious issues regarding our household chores, I do more cleaning etc., because I'm still a student (with part time job, therefore lower income) and he's working... | AITA for telling my boyfriend women don't have to be able to cook if they don't want to? | NTA |
10wtti9 | I (23f) have a coworker (27f) from a foreign country. We have been working together for 3 months. We are not friends as she doesnt mix with everyone only a select few. Which is fine, she is not pressured. However the everyone else is a part of a bigger friend group. All of whom hang out often and go on outings, whether... | AITA for refusing to pick up a coworker | NTA |
10x4rxi | I have a housemate who sleeps below our kitchen and common area. I used to sleep until midday because my work lets me set my own hours and I generally need some alone time either at night or in early morning. To this end I've recently switched to a 6am start. My housemate, who gets up a little later than this (... | AITA for making noise at 6am, when housemate still asleep? | NTA |
10xa5as | Well, title says, context here. (tl;dr below)I like singing, and karaoke is the only place where I can sing through mic and express the way I want while singing.Karaoke layout : 4 small rooms/limit 2 persons, two chairs and monitor in front, space's kinda like portable toilet.Important -> You can see others in each... | AITA For overexpressing singing in soundproof karaoke? | NTA |
10x4fyw | ​I (17f) am about to finish school (I dont know how it is in your country but here its called Gymnasium and you get your "Abitur" at the end of 12th or 13th grade if you pass). When we get our Abitur there will be a school party with our class, teachers and parents. We will get our final report cards and cer... | WIBTA if I wont attend a school party because I was not included in picking the location? | NTA |
10x8hjz | So me and 5 other classmates had a discord server on which we talked, it was made about 2 or 3 months ago. We've been using it ever since. We were originally 5, but another guy joined after a while. 3 of them are some of my best friends, I'm close with them and I really like talking to them. One of them(Who we'll call ... | AITA for making a group with only 4 of my friends | NTA |
10wwo3a | My friend and I have wanted to go to travelling for a month for a while but haven't had any solid plans as I have needed to save and it's difficult for me to get a month off work. About two and a half years ago I met my current bf and we fell in love etc. He has always wanted to travel too so I invited him. Now we have... | AITA for inviting my bf travelling | YTA |
10wuk41 | We have this particular “sale” at work where it requires a full Efpos/POS Machine/Till setup in an offsite location (not far away, within walking distance). I work in the warehouse, although I have my own IT Company on the side, specialising in business IT setups similar to this. We’ve had this sale before, and my boss... | AITA for refusing my bosses requests | NTA |
10xhtmp | I F13 had a bit of a fallout a few months ago because she left me for all of her cheer friends. Recently we’ve gotten closer together and she’s been wanting to hang out too, her and her ex boyfriend broke up about a year ago. Us being best friends at the time i supported her decision but I felt that her reason was very... | AITA for wanting to date my ex best friends ex boyfriend? | NTA |
10x6c6x | It was November and our friend group started making plans for New Year's eve. We still live with our parents and we needed to find a place, make food arrangements and etc. The day before I talked to my friend Mary and she told me she doesn't want anything expensive because she is short on money. Next days evening we ma... | AITA for leaving my friend out of my New Year's plans? | NTA |
10x613g | Hi! For background, I (15F) and my partner (15NB, let's call them Willow) got together due to one of our mutual friends telling Willow about my feelings for them without my knowledge and consent. I was understandably upset at this friend, and grew distant from them. Later on, me and Willow met a few new friends, includ... | AITA for insulting my friend and partner? | NTA |
10wporw | I [20F] and my bf [24M] have been together for a little over 3 years. He’s got a new job recently so we both work on average work 12 hours per shift. Since his new job, I felt like I haven’t gotten the same attention as before. I’m usually initiating intimacy and showing interest as before. Now he just comes home, asks... | AITA for being too honest | NTA |
10x5me7 | Basically I’ve been holding in for how I feel about my cousin for months. It’s been driving me insane. She is always being so condescending towards me and has a sort of a superiority complex. She always thinks she’s right about everything. I tried to ignore it and just pretend like everything is fine. But today I got f... | AITA For arguing with my cousin via text messages? | NTA |
10x55p6 | I smoke 2 cigarettes and have usually 2 cups of coffee a day. I tried quitting smoking last year and chose a really bad time, and lasted 3 weeks before picking up again. Since then my partner has told me they don't want me to smoke more than 2 cigarettes a day. However because of the way addiction works, it often leave... | AITA for wanting to continue my bad habits? | NTA |
10wshp0 | Hi! Late night thoughts have plagued me to reflect on recently learning that some of my friends have not liked my vents about work. For context, there are a few friends I work with although not directly with, that we will often joke, ask advice, and definitely bitch to each other about stuff. Lately, I noticed one part... | AITA: Venting to My Friends | NTA |
10wscsp | My (35M) good friend Abe (31M) is a professional dancer who struggles financially. He doesn't make a lot of money, and has a lot of financial responsibility: He has 3 kids (8,6,4), from 2 different women. They don't live with him. 8yo lives with his mother. The other two lost their mother last year in a car accident an... | WIBTA if I suggest to my friend that he goes back to school | YWBTA |
10x89bq | My SO recently moved to Germany and is taking an intensive language course (currently level A2.2-B1.1) which costs 500 euros. The course is 2.5 months long, 4 days a week, 4 hours per day. My SO told me multiple times since the course began a few weeks ago that the teacher often explains things in English or says the E... | AITA for writing an email to my SO's German language school because the teacher was speaking in English too often? | YTA |
10wrxt6 | My stomach hurts really bad and I’m not sure what the cause is, I just moved into a college dorm room where I share the bathroom with one other person. I’ve been out all day at work and have just come home in the late afternoon and am having really bad shits. I don’t usually take long, so this is the first time. In gen... | AITA for taking ages in a shared bathroom when I have diarrhea? | NTA |
10xa2ad | My roomamte (22Nbi) and I(22FtM) are in a theater group. A group if us were talking about role changes but admittedly I dissociated hard during this conversation, one of the younger boys (16-isk I think) noticed and thought it was hilarious that my brain "doesn't work". My roommate was laughing with him and said "Your ... | AITA for what my roomamte said while i was dissociated? | NTA |
10wy5ud | we will call ms witch (not her real name). ms witch is not a nice teacher whatsoever to any student in the class. her reputation in our class is the worst and no one likes her, everybody insults her every chance they get away from her. she has made more than 6 or more girls cry all of which are girls that I never saw c... | AITA for writing imposition in class? | NTA |
10wsknd | (For reference, there is no p3d0ph1l1a whatsoever)I, (17 Non-Binary), attend a Sixth Form in the UK (a college equivalent for the Americans) and I study History and English Language. I have multiple teachers for each part of the courses I study.For reference, in history I am learning about Religious Conflict in Tudor E... | AITA for reporting a teacher? | NTA |
10x3ok2 | I didn't know what else to put in the title but this is some classic high-school drama so here we goI, 16, in a friend group. Recently we added someone new to school named Carly. Carly is also friends w another group of friends that's your usual popular kids group so she isn't as close to us anymore.There is also Matt ... | AITA for causing problems and more drama? | YTA |
10xv5qo | my daughter who is 27 is getting married in August. She hasn't invited my wife or our children. I'm very hurt and I told her that since my family wasn't welcome, I shouldn't be welcome too. She was angry with me and has called me crying saying that I'm an ah for doing this to her since who is going to walk her down the... | AITA for telling my daughter that I won't be attending her wedding? | NTA |
10xr5u1 | I'm using a throwaway because I'm honestly embarrassed by this situation. Growing up my parents were very sex positive. Which is great for them and my siblings. For me, not so much. I'm an introvert and I prefer to keep my private live well private. Think Sheldon Cooper with less raw sex appeal. Somehow I managed ... | AITA for asking my parents to either stay at a hotel or to not have sex in my house while I'm home? | NTA |
10xvwjd | I (24F) have psoriasis, it’s all over my body and presents like vitiligo in a way, just so you can get an image in your head. I have medicated cream that helps with the itchiness, and also it helps with the dryness. The psoriasis is all over my body with it stopping right on my neck, and I do have a few spots on the si... | AITA for leaving my "friends" wedding when she told me I needed to cover up my psoriasis? | NTA |
10xx3yv | One of my husband’s best friend is getting married in a month. Both he and his ex were asked to be in the respective wedding parties. His ex and him share a child and him and I share a child. While I don’t have an issue with them being in the bridal party together, I do have an issue with them being paired to walk down... | AITA for telling my husband that if he walks his ex down the isle at a friends wedding, I won’t go? | NTA |
10xtpv6 | i (22f) dorm on campus. our rooms are assigned by the dorm admins. last semester i lived next to a girl who openly told me that she thought i was very good looking (in an admiration way, not romantic) and asked if i was on any diets. i said no, i just eat whatever i want. do i gym? nope but i wish i did since i don't h... | AITA for not clarifying my lifestyle to my roommate? | NTA |
10xqr6k | English is not my first language so sorry if there is lot wrong with my grammar. I lost my right eye to cancer in my earlier teens it was a struggle to adapt but 13 years later and I am pretty much used to it. Now I hate wearing a prosthetic eye. I have 3 prosthetic eyes I have gotten over the years but due To scar ti... | AITA for making up ridiculous stories as to how I lost my eye because I'm tried of people asking | NTA |
10xtx35 | I (m19) work in retail. A man came yesterday shortly before we closed. He started asking me for some stuff like where they were and such, nothing weird. I went to the back to do some cleaning and stuff we close, my coworker (f20) stayed there with him. After like 15 minutes I start hearing some screaming so I rushed ba... | AITA for calling the police on a customer who won't leave the store? | NTA |
10xwnmw | Possibly too petty to be an AITA but curious what others think. My wife was packing my son's lunch and she asked me to grab some crackers. As I was looking in the pantry I asked what kind of crackers and she replied in an exasperated bordering on annoyed voice "just pick any cracker". The next cracker box I saw were an... | AITA? "Just pick any cracker" she said | YTA |
10xslsp | Hi -To make a long story short, I own my condo/townhome and there is an adjoining unit on each side. For about two years, there has been an intermittent chemical smell emanating from the left unit wall. This has been anything from rubbing alcohol, to sweet peppery chemicals, to skunk, to ammonia and more. It stopped fo... | WIBTA if I called the fire department anyway? | NTA |
10xqugt | Background: I (18) am an art student. My sister (16) has a GF (16). I share a small office with Sister. I currently live at home with my parents, but am moving out before/around May of this year. A few days ago, I was drawing a new character while Sister and her GF were on video call. My sister does this via computer a... | AITA For Taking A Supposed-Compliment As An Insult? | NTA |
10xvw70 | 3 weeks ago I gave my mother a beanie I had knitten for her, last week I saw her unraveling it and knitting it again... This means she undid my gift and "did it right", it made me feel bad but I said nothing to her back then, and planned to say nothing but never knit anything for her again. Today, she was opening a bag... | AITA for saying I would never knit something for my mother again? | NTA |
10xywtv | I (52M) have a wife (46F), daughter Emily (29F) and two sons (18M and 16M). We adopted our daughter when she was 12 so we have not known her as long as my sons. We operate a small grocery store in the area and our finances are relatively OK.When my daughter turned 18, we offered her to keep staying with us and help out... | AITA for not giving my adopted daughter a down payment and a car after she already has both of these. | YTA |
10xr06v | I don't think I'm the asshole in this situation but I wanted to check. My husband and I (both men) have recently become parents to a gorgeous set of twins, a boy, and a girl. We've had a few ups and downs as normal parents do but we love the new additions to our family and have been obsessing over them. This past wee... | AITA for making an 'inappropriate' directly towards my babies? | NTA |
10xy9iu | Important context: getting married this summer. Only invited people both me and my fiancé know well, there are no plus ones, only named invitees. So some new partners aren’t invited. But long-standing ones we know well are. My male cousin took offence to this, he has been with his gf just over 6 months, we have never m... | AITA for letting my mum go nuclear on her sisters family and causing collateral damage? | NTA |
10xq0vd | I (F30) recently had surgery on my jaw after a bad accident, and have unfortunately ended up with quite a lot of nerve damage. The surgeon said my nerve was quite close to the bone and the shattered pieces pierced the nerve in places. I cannot feel my entire bottom lip, my chin, and part of my cheek. It is unlikely tha... | AITA for steaming my mom's home baking and disrespecting her craft? | NTA |
10xwhbb | My mom and i have had a very tense relationship for the past few years. We argue constantly and never seem to go more than a week without having a fight. Its gotten worse now that imabout to move away for college. Mainly the arguments are about how she treated me while i was growing up and how what she did hurt me. It ... | AITA for recording a private conversation with my mom? | NTA |
10xxwn6 | I have a couple cats and dogs, and need someone to care for them when we go out of town. Our neighbor down the street has been nice enough to do this the past 2-3 times we've been on vacation, just coming over to walk the dogs, clean the litter boxes, feed the cats, etc.A while ago she asked me to help out with her pet... | AITA for refusing to help with my neighbor's pets, even though she helps out with mine? | YTA |
10xq5id | I ordered a Jason X Über Jason mask from a guy on eBay. Somehow, there ended up being a shipping error and he sent me two of them, so he asked if I could return one. I have no problem doing so, since I only wanted one anyway, but I asked him if he could cover the price of the return shipping, since the cheapest shippin... | AITA for asking someone to cover return shipping for something that was sent to me in error? | NTA |
10xuqgx | I’m (29F) getting married in august 2023, I heard from everyone around me that I need to start wedding dress shopping as soon as possible, seeing as it could take around 5 to 7 months (sometimes longer) for a dress to arrive after being ordered. So I decided to make appointments for the weekends and the Mondays (becau... | AITA for buying a wedding dress when my mom was not able to join me ? | NTA |
10xrl9v | I live with 2 people and one of my flatmates often stays at her boyfriend’s. She asked if she could contribute less to the bills but I refused. She also went away for 2 weeks and then refused to pay for the bills for that time. We have prepayment meters for gas and electric. Water and broadband are included in the rent... | AITA for insisting my housemate pays for the bills when she’s not there? | NTA |
10xsppy | so i (19m) am asian and autistic. i don't really get social cues well and i can misunderstand things easily. since i was raised by a korean family they were mostly against me dating my black girlfriend kiara (18f). my parents eventually got over it but whenever my grandparents or aunts weren't around they wouldn't real... | AITA for giving my girlfriend skin care? | NTA |
10xtbg9 | I (24F) am 13 weeks pregnant with my first child. We currently live with my in laws while saving for a house.My BIL (30M) has an 18 month old daughter. He’s staying with my in-laws for a few days because he decided to rent out his condo for the super bowl to make extra cash. He’s in an on again off again relationship w... | AITA for refusing to help with my niece? | NTA |
10xsc72 | AITA for calling my mum selfish for suggesting we move closer to them with our new baby? Me (37m) and my wife (40f) have a difficult 4 month old baby – colicky, waking up every hour in the night etc, but fortunately no signs of serious illness. We are both exhausted and feel like we have tried everything. My parents (... | AITA for calling my mum selfish for suggesting we move closer to them with our new baby? | YTA |
10xqptl | In November, I was asked by my boss to apply for a job. It's at the same company I was already working at, but a different department/building. I applied for the job, but by the end of December had heard nothing back. I told my boss who chased it up and I was offered the job. I accepted and my new boss explained that I... | WIBTA for putting in a complaint about my HR rep? | NTA |
10xsl48 | last week my dog had to get surgery because she had a lump on her toe they thought might be cancer, the x-rays alone costed $800. the surgery itself was $2,500 and we payed $120 for them to wrap it twice. while that is a lot of money i offered to help i had some money in savings that i willingly contributed. at some po... | AITA got not letting my mom use my credit card | NTA |
10xx2r3 | My soon to be step mom and my dad are getting married soon. I have been waiting for them to get married since the day i found out they got engaged. I think my almost step mom is great and shes pretty good to my dad despite the amount of arguments and all the drama. However, my dad and i were talking and he mentioned i ... | AITA for wanting to be in my dads wedding? | NTA |
10xzfoi | I(23F) live with my fiance(23M) and my siblings(20M, 17F, and 15F). I have been taking care of my siblings since I was 8 years old, simply because we have shitty parents. Our mom is an abusive narcissist, and our dad is a passive aggressive drunk. I've been responsible for the lives of 3 children since I was a child. I... | AITA telling mom she's a terrible mother and giving her a 3 day notice to move out? | NTA |
10xwwd6 | I'll be quickIf I'm supposed to pick my sister up from school, I'm normally told half a day in advance so that I can make plans. So if she finishes at X:XX pm, I'll know I'm meant to pick her up that morning.So I assumed I'd be free this afternoon/evening, and so I made plans. My plans are for 4:30 (CAT), and so I was ... | AITA for not picking my sister up from school | NTA |
10xsktz | So last friday i was working my normal shift from 2pm until 10pm, but around 8pm my boss was telling overybody we are staying until 12So if i would do that i would be at home around 1 amWhat pissed me off is not even asking but demanding that we should stay (i work at the warehouse) so after hard working day i clocked ... | AITA for not doing overtime? | NTA |
10xvy8s | So my dad texted me and asked if I wanted to join him and stepmom (SM) on a cruise. Said I had 1 day to decide because they were ready to book. We ran the numbers and said okay! Purchased our room that day.The next day I ask him a few questions he says he doesn't know anything and SM planned it.. I ask her and she says... | WIBTA if i back out of a "family vacation?" | NTA |
10xxs3a | My dad, Tom, and his wife Linda told me they'd give me gas money for the extra 2 hours per trip it was to go to their house to spend time with my aunt. My aunt, Mabel, is 90 and is paying out of her pension to have a nurse take care of her, things like bathing and diaper changes. Tome works from home and takes extra l... | AITA for ignoring my dad's wife? | NTA |
10xxjvj | We are both elementary teachers and we have no kids so we are not in a pinch financially. Also relevant, my bf has taken 3 of his 10 contracted sick days this academic year and they don’t roll over.I woke up this morning to the sound of my boyfriend vomiting in the shower and I immediately told him he needed to take a ... | AITA for making my boyfriend take a sick day from work? | NTA |
10xy2e3 | I (41M) recently started working at a great new job. It’s a very complex job that requires a lot of training. Though we are in the office, training happens in a virtual class. There’s no direct supervision. We do some hands-on work, but for most of the day we’re observing our trainer in the virtual classroom. Since day... | AITA for getting my coworker fired? | NTA |
10xwsby | Am I the a-hole for calling the cops on my ex? So little back story here bare with me here. So 2021 I started dating a close friend. We started dating in August and hung out all summer after work. Around October I moved in with him since it was easier for work.I worked all over the place doing small jobs for farmers. A... | AITA for calling the cops on my drunk ex? | NTA |
10xu0bj | I (f15) answered the door today. There was some guy at the door selling clothes and my mom (50) is shy around men (we have a video camera door bell) so I went with the classic “habalo no inglis” even though the guy was speaking Arabic, in an Arabic speaking country. I was just my brain’s auto pilot and I just forgot he... | AITA for answering the door? | NTA |
10xyrmb | It’s my first time on Reddit so sorry if some things don’t make sense. I (17F) got into an argument with my parents yesterday. For context, a few weeks ago, my mom’s sister-in-law asked me if I could go to prom with her son because he’s shy and doesn’t have a partner. Him and I are strangers, and I was weirded out but ... | AITA for rejecting my cousin-in-law to go to prom even tho I said yes to his mom? | NTA |
10xt60l | My friend is having her birthday party at my house which I share with my 5 other roommates. It’s happening this Saturday and she wanted me to check in with her on who I wanted to invite. The theme is supposed to be red carpet fancy dressed and cocktails themed. I checked in with her and she approved everyone I listed e... | AITA for having people over when there’s a private birthday party? | YTA |
10xxp44 | My fil moved in with us over a year ago as he has suffered from a stroke, and was not living in the best circumstances. He was an addict the majority of his life and required somewhere to stay that allowed him to not be in bad situations. We moved to a larger home with a gas fireplace and he pays a base amount (fairly ... | AITA for firmly telling my fil to stop using the gas fireplace. | NTA |
10xqgkn | This evening my girlfriend and I went to a concert in a very bad part of downtown known for homelessness, drug use and etc. It was her idea to go to this concert and we both knew that this concert was in a bad part of town but she wanted to go anyway. The parking garage was unfortunately a few blocks away from the conc... | AITA for calling my girlfriend out on not being street smart | YTA |
10xurl8 | TLDR: I offered to take care of two cats for six months but it caused too much trouble (stuff being broken, arguments between me and my husband) so i aked my friend to find other accomodations. She 'forced' her mom to take them in but now is very angry and demands i apologize to her and her boyfriend.So one of my dear ... | AITA For not saying sorry for rehoming my friends cats? | YTA |
10xz5xo | F29 have 2 kids, F(1yo) and F(2mo). My sister is in her 40s and with an “man” in his 40s. He is the baby dad of her oldest. They didn’t work out due to him being an drug addict and an alcoholic. She moved on to marry her now ex husband and have an kid with him. After the split with her ex husband she went looking for t... | AITA for telling my sister I’m embarrassed for her and refusing to allow my kids around her bf? | NTA |
10xzf31 | Throwaway.I (22m) work at a sandwich shop. My coworker Chris (27m) started working there a few months ago after he was laid off from his last job. It really has sucked for him- He loved that job and after losing it he had to delay his wedding and move back in with his dad. When we hired him, my boss at the time made it... | AITA I reported a coworker and caused him to lose his promotion | NTA |
10xr5ai | So I’m (26) in a foreign country with my sister (29), we’re on our way to the airport. She lets me figure out the way there with public transport. I tell her the way and she seems okay with that. When we’re switching from one train to the other I walk in front of her to get to the right platform, I look behind me and s... | AITA: left alone in a foreign country | NTA |
10xukus | I’m currently in trouble and want to know if I was wrong. My friends said to ask Reddit so here I am.I’m 21 and my 25 y/o brother got married to his girlfriend of 4 years. I’m intrigued by my new SIL because she doesn’t culturally act in the same manner as my family or follow the same “rules” (not a culture from an eth... | AITA For Chiming In About my SIL? | NTA |
10xy5qe | I'm 26(M) my girlfriend is 22(f) We've been together for a little over a year and she has constantly told me I'm her soulmate and she's so in love with me and all that good jazz. So that's cool. However recently we've been working more and hanging out less to save for a house. We agreed on going to the gym and stopping... | AITA for “ruining” my GF’s night w/ a friend? | NTA |
10xyrlk | I (26F) have been living in a 5 bedroom, 2 bathroom apartment since April 2020. My current roommates are Jada (28F), Daniela (26F), Amaya (20F) and Jasmine (20F).Some background:I bought like 5 packs of bag clips for the apartment but they kept getting lost so I decided to keep 5 bag clips for myself in my room and l... | AITA for yelling at my roommate about bag clips? | ESH |
10xzqm7 | Last weekend, my boyfriend - who's a year older - and I were casually shopping at the mall when he told me that he has something important to mention. I looked at him with a worried expression as he brushes my forearm and says: "(His girl best friend's name) asked me to be her date for prom." I look at him even more co... | AITA for using the silent treatment towards my boyfriend? | YTA |
10xqebm | My brother is 40. He's always made some questionable decisions regarding himself and his future. He wanted to become a teacher for years but followed a girlfriend at the time to a college she wanted and they didn't offer the degree he needed/had planned to get. So he did 4 years of a few different classes and went into... | AITA for calling my brother he never thinks things through and needs to grow up? | NTA |
10xzi49 | My girlfriend uses my sister's room as an office as my sister is away. I asked her not to eat chocolates in there as we already have an ant problem in the house, and it isnt my room to mess up. When she refused to let me bring the chocolate outside to the pantry, I told her "This isnt a big ask. Stop being unreasonable... | AITA for asking my girlfriend not to eat candy in the bedroom | NTA |
10xx4r5 | My mom got a new phone yesterday which she was setting up, tones and all. My mom puts quite some thought into it... Surprisingly a lot of it.I went to sleep (or try at least as I only got to sleep until 1 am) while my mom kept setting up her phone as I helped her with some stuff.I woke up and before starting my shift (... | AITA for losing to my mom because she didn't change her message ringtone? | YTA |
10xvc34 | I (14M) have been sick the past week. I have stayed home from school every day because 1. I feel shitty, 2. I don't want to get others sick, 3. I thnk it's rude to go to school or work while sick, because not only can others get sick, they can feel uncomfortable, they have to hear you sniffling and coughing all day, st... | AITA for staying home while being sick? | NTA |
10xx1h5 | Aitah for telling my friend about my own experience about anxiety?I have a friend, s. She called me the other day telling me she was stressed/ anxious about an exams she was going to have and told me to tell me what I know about it since “I’m always stressed” (her words) I have autism and before I’ve even gotten to the... | AITA for telling my friend my own experience with anxiety after she told me Hers | NTA |
10xwzof | The other day I started having a heath issue that could be a sign of pregnancy (probably not) Edit: it is very very very unlikely that I am pregnant I didn’t want to tell my boyfriend because he has a history of letting his anxiety get the better of him but recently he has asking me to be more open with him so I told h... | AITA for refusing to deal with my boyfriends anxiety about my health issue? | NTA |
10xxz1x | I (30f) found our little over a year ago that I was blocked on Facebook by my stepmom who has been in my life since I was 8. At first I didn’t think much of it for months. I thought maybe she just deleted Facebook. I asked my siblings and come to find out I was the only one blocked. Some back story though, I came out a... | AITA for not having much to do with my Father for about a year? | NTA |
10xyy1f | Me (23F), my boyfriend (23M), and our son (3mo) were getting ready to go visit my dad and his wife for dinner. My dad calls me while my boyfriend is giving our son a bath to tell me to make sure I bundle him up because it’s cold outside. (It’s 27 degrees outside… no fucking shit I’m gonna bundle him up lol). So, I resp... | AITA for “getting smart” with my dad? | NTA |
10xwkfq | i dont typically go to mcdonalds but i think ill likely not be going to this specific one for a while after this.i parked my car and wanted to order inside and i saw it was closed and only taking drive thru orders. so i proceeded to go thru the drive thru and waited about 10 minutes to get to the speaker, then waited a... | AITA for waiting in line for 30 minutes for nothing | YTA |
10xyjlr | TLDR: My family is forcing me to let my brother and his sons move into my place for cheap even though he owes me 5000$ and broke my rules last time and he is expecting 4 hours of free childcare a day. AITA for wanting to say no?My (24M) brother (28M) has shared custody of his sons (5 & 6) with his ex, he has them o... | AITA for not wanting to help my brother anymore? | NTA |
10xw36c | My friends and I were planning a friend's bachelor party and they all decided on a date that conflicted with my holiday, which I had booked 9 months in advance. As the proposed date for the bachelor party was the date that everyone was available, except me, they decided to go ahead with it and tried to pressure me to c... | AITA for going on a pre-planned holiday over my friends bachelor party? | NTA |
10xdjfy | I (F53) am married to H (M62). We have three children, M(26), M(23) and F(21). Our oldest, Lee, lives at home with us as he is on the spectrum and cannot live on his own. Other other children are both employed and live on their own although we are still very close to them, or at least I am.The problem is my husband ha... | AITA for screaming at my husband? | NTA |
10xwr39 | I got married in July of 2018. Groom asked permission from my parents before proposing, borrowed money from them to buy the ring so I wouldn’t see it on our bank account (paid back as soon as I said yes). We dated for about a year and a half before getting married. We had a conversation before even deciding to be a “th... | AITA for telling my parents about my pregnancy on my wedding day? | NTA |
10xzb0r | Years ago I took my son over to my sister’s to have a playdate with his cousin. We were hanging out on the porch of her apartment building watching out for cars while the kids played on skateboards in the street. After a little while my sister asked me to watch her kids while she did a few errands.Eventually I notice ... | AITA for getting braces for my son and not paying for my niece's teeth? | NTA |
10xul71 | We live in an apartment with communal laundry. We needed to get a load of laundry done tonight. There are two washers and two dryers but one of the dryers doesn't work so effectively two washers and one dryer. When we went there was a load in the dryer and one in the washer being done. We let our load run and when we ... | AITA for touching somebody else's laundry? | NTA |
10xw96h | I(24f) belong to a culture where huge weddings are really overrated. If weddings are small , its assumed that there might be something wrong with the couple or their families. The events carry on for days and it gets extremely exhausting and also expensive. I have always considered these weddings as a waste of money an... | AITA for demanding a micro wedding and making everyone upset? | YTA |
10xwewd | HiContext i live with my parents as an adult, they are my carers and appointees so they have all my money (think Britney spears conservatorship) and they refused to get my cats insurance when we first got them in 2020 after my last cat which also didnt have insurance died presumably from covid or disease, not that insu... | AITA for not letting my cat outside | NTA |
10xw94r | I(28F) just had my first baby in December and had a baby shower in October. I am white and my husband(31M) (also the father) is dominican. In the culture for his side of the family, it's not necessary to send thank you cards for gifts, they just enjoy seeing you open it. I was raised to ALWAYS send thank you cards for ... | AITA for not sending thank you cards after my baby shower? | YTA |
10xz8fo | 37F who has been helping a close friend 39F through a patch in dating. I got at least a dozen calls/texts daily about this guy she went on 4 dates with. They haven’t seen each other in 6 weeks after he slow faded. It’s been 3 months since they met for the first time and it’s been constant 9:10 ratio about him. She is l... | AITA for telling a close friend I was being emotionally dumped on (she has distanced herself since)? | NTA |
10xyl4a | I (F28) and my fiance (M29) are getting married in a few months. Let me start by saying that although I am posting this, my fiance and I are on the same page and a lot of this is coming straight from him (he just doesn’t have his own Reddit and uses mine). Anyways, a good friend of ours (M32, let's call him “Brandon”) ... | AITA for telling the wedding venue not to serve one of the members of the wedding party? | NTA |
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