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10xy8ef | Hi, I (15F) have anorexia and bulimia (when I eat I puke it out again). I have been dealing with this for about 2 and a half years by myself because my mum (51F) mostly ignored this because she hoped time would heal this. It did not.Eventually I was sent to a special clinic on the 6th of January for about 8 days. I did... | AITA for not dining with my mum | NTA |
10xzl6q | So I (18 m) live with my aunt. Sometimes in the morning instead of breakfast I just have a chocolate protein shake. I was carrying one around with me the other day while I was getting ready for school and ended up knocking it over on my bedroom carpet (all of the carpet in her house is white). Of course I panicked at f... | AITA for "hiding" the fact that I spilled something on my aunt's carpet? | NTA |
10xzah5 | I (29F) and my friend (30F) were visiting NYC. My friend is really kind and friendly but also not very socially aware. She’s from a small Midwestern town and this was her first time in NYC, but she has traveled to a lot of states and Europe, so when we planned the trip I had some expectation that she knew how to stay ... | AITA for getting mad at my friend on the subway? | NTA |
10xpyg5 | Throwaway account for privacy reasons. I (29F) have been with my boyfriend (30M) for about 8months, we were friends for a year before we became a couple.Recently my mom (60) was taken to the hospital for mental health issues, thankfully she didn’t suffer any life threatening injuries but my family and I were pretty sha... | AITA for asking too much of my boyfriend | NTA |
10xysdc | I know it's been three years, but several people still asked me about it because they saw my post on tik tok or other media.So I wanted to make this post to thank everybody who gave me such kind and sensible advice three years ago. Even though I didn't reply, I read most of the replies, good or bad. And I am thankful f... | UPDATE: AITA for not forgiving my daughter | NTA |
10xv5p4 | Throwaway. I do more than my fair share around the house. I take care of all the animals. I make breakfast every morning for our child. I clean up after myself and my family every day. I stay on top of finances and household needs. Laundry is mostly me. I handle pretty much all the school stuff and Dr appts for our chi... | AITA for not going to the grocery store? | NTA |
10xqdok | Since last year I moved with my girlfriend and her minor brother. Even before then, the consensus was that her brother will go live with their parents after the end of the school year. I didn't try to push the move too much, as I felt more as a guest than "family" as they say and I couldn't request to get their son fas... | AITA for wanting my girlfriends brother to leave the house? | NTA |
10y0amr | TA for privacy​So my husband has a daughter, Marie(11), with his ex. Marie unfortunately was born with, for a lack of better words, severe mental disabilities. The way our custody agreement is set is that 1 year Marie lives with us and 1 year with her mother. She is supposed come here next week.This is where... | WIBTA if I ask my husband to not bring my step daughter over? | YTA |
10y06k9 | I (30s f) am married to DH (30s M). DH was raised by his bio mom for the first few years of his life (his bio dad has never been in the picture, never will be, may as well be a sperm donor). When DH was a young kid, bio mom married “Joe.” Joe is amazing and has always treated DH like his own. DH considers him his fathe... | WIBTA if I told my kid the truth about their dna someday? | NTA |
10xzyfu | This happened about an hour ago while I was trying to workout in my local gym. So there is only one deadlifting station in my gym and they don’t like you setting up to deadlift anywhere other than on that mat because it’s padded to stop the whole floor shaking or whatever. I’m doing my deadlifting, watching my form in ... | AITA for asking a guy to not block my view so I could check my lifting form while he was resting between sets? | NTA |
10xwcl9 | I (33m) have a very close friend from high school, Alex (32f). Alex has a kid, Jamie, who is about to turn four. We live four hours apart, so unfortunately, I don’t actually have a relationship with Jamie (that will hopefully change in the next year or two). Alex talks about me a lot and sends me videos of Jamie saying... | AITA if I send surprise gifts for my niece’s birthday | NTA |
10xwc3e | Sorry in advance for any typo, English is not my first language. Fakes names for obvious reasons.I (F,28) been dating my boyfriend Chris (M,31) for 2 years and a half, and we started living together 6 month ago. Chris is someone who can be complicated because of his disease, he has severe epilepsy and need a medication... | AITA for wanting to see my bestfriend alone, because my BF hates them? | NTA |
10xw7bx | Firstly I would like to apologize because English is not my first language.I(16f) have a friend that I will call M (15f). I would not consider M my best friend, but I think I am her only friend, and I have always been kind to her. For back Story, her brother is in the same class as me and I am aware of their family sit... | AITA for telling on my friend? | NTA |
10xw7bc | I (22m) had a dog, but because if various reasons I couldn't take care of him anymore and had to find him a new family asap. I found one, and gave him to them along with some supplies and food that I obviously didn't need anymore. I asked 100€ for this all.This was three weeks ago. They said they couldn't pay me right ... | AITA for threatening to report my dog's new owners to the cops | NTA |
10xz3p7 | I'm currently gearing up for my next job hunt and my mom said I can send my resume for her coworker, Kay, to rewrite. Now, I worked as a tutor and proofreader (including for resumes) for over a year so mine is already pretty good. But I was happy about this because I needed a more traditional version (too lazy to do it... | WIBTA for insisting on not paying someone for reworking my resume? | NTA |
10xyr24 | My friend (F40) and I (F38) haven't been seing things eye to eye ever since I started doing therapy. I've been doing my best doing the work of healing myself & working on managing my emotional triggers. My friend, on the other hand is in a "hoe phase" which is fine, but she hates it when I get mad at the men who pu... | AITA for not wanting to continue a 26 year friendship? | NAH |
10xvcz3 | So, I play handball and today we had a school competition competing against another school in the city. If you win(we did) you go to the regionals and if you win there you go to the state championship. Now, I in no way blame anyone for my poor performance, I played well in the defense but I was really awful in attack s... | AITA for thinking my teammate is the reason I performed poorly in the game? | NTA |
10xv4v7 | My gf and I got into a big spat about whether it's appropriate for her to play open (usually all men's) indoor soccer.We play in a social mix league together and I'm happy with the skill level because it is a social sport. After the game the ref asked the group if we wanted to play in the next game since they were a fe... | AITA I won't let my gf play futsal. | YTA |
10xqrvg | I, 19 neurodivergent F, received a custom Greek paddle from one of my sorority sisters as part of an exchange. As part of my neurodivergency, i have never really understood proper gift ettiquite after you received a gift. While this does not play a drastic patt or excuse my potentially shitty behavior, this is good con... | AITA for altering a gift someone gave to me? | NTA |
10xxewv | Me (18F) and my boyfriend (18M) have been dating for a year and a half we've had our ups and downs but at the moment our relationship seemed stable. This Week i had a huge fight with my parents where my dad got physical with me, thereby i'm staying at my bfs apartment for the next few days. The problem just is that my ... | AITA for wanting to go to a birthday with my boyfriend? | NTA |
10xtfmh | I (19 yrs old) just recently got home with my mom from her work and after buying bread, I got into my room to change and charge my phone to watch TV, and my mom got changed in a separate room next to mine where my sister is in. After my mom finished changing and left that room, I was just scrolling on YT on my TV when ... | AITA for telling my mom that my 23 yr old sister is talking crap and insulting me? | ESH |
10xpzli | Am I the asshole for not forgiving my grandfather for his actions? I apologize in advance for the long story, so sit back and grab some tea cause sh!t about to get real. I have lived with my grandparents for the past 8 years ( I am too young to leave on my own, so getting my own apartment is not an option yet ). For st... | AITA for not forgiving my grandfather for his actions? | NTA |
10xv4ci | Sorry for such a minor question but I'm just startled this morning.Yesterday, someone from another group in my division at work ran into a software issue and posted a message in a large Teams channel (our official in-office communication method) asking if anyone could help her figure out what's going on. The issue she ... | AITA for tagging my coworker in a conversation that wasn't her area? | NAH |
10y0f9j | i'll try and make this as short as possible. basically my mother had me when she was 18, and she was an awful parent. she was an addict and put me in all kinds of dangerous situations. despite that, i did love her and i defended her every time my grandparents confronted her, even though i didn't know what happened. she... | AITA for telling my adoptive parents that they are selfish? | NTA |
10y0dg8 | Link for original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/10uib2d/aita_for_bailing_on_a_trip_with_my_mother_because/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmfI read the rules and hope I’m not breaking any.I saw that some ppl got confused and said things about mother-daughter relationship... | UPDATE: AITA for bailing on a trip with my mother because she called my uncle to come along without telling me? | NTA |
10y0by9 | Long story short I grew up struggling financially and emotionally because of my father’s total neglect.Made through college with my mother busting her ass, loans, scholarships, grants, whatever we could get out hands on.Most of that sorted out through the years but one small amount of debt remained in a government agen... | AITA I (40M) refused to pay an old college debt and it affected my half-sister | YTA |
10y098z | This is my first time posting here, sorry for any mistakes, English isn't my first language. I (16) and Vick (16) have been friends since forever. I can't rebember a time where she wasn't in my life. Our relationship went to shit last summer. A bit of a backstory, some months before this summer, she told me she develop... | AITA for not giving my best friend my ticket to a concert? | NTA |
10y07gr | First of all sorry for the translation mistakes, Since the 6th of February Turkey is preoccupied with an ongoing earthquake disaster,There's a lot of dead and wounded people.we are all so sad about that and trying to recover.Me and my friends try our best to help As for what happened.All of the schools in Turkey decla... | AITA for being happy about holiday | YTA |
10y04lf | Forgive any mistakes as this is my first hopefully successful post as I haven't quite figured out how this machine works.I have a friend that we'll call Bob. So Bob and I are really good friends, like brothers tbh. We work in the same field and he actually got me a job when times were tough. Bob and I both drive but ea... | AITA. Taken for a ride and I'm running outta gas. | NTA |
10xzztp | I f(14) wrote something to my group Chat about how I needed more of something i collect, and one of my friends (who I'm not that close with) said "who asked?" after I sent that. I stated In my group chat and said "omg I'm shaking in my boots." and then after that I sent a message saying "it's totally not rude at all :)... | AITA for getting mad at one of my friends for saying 'who asked'? | NTA |
10xyw4r | TLDR; I am a college student with a chronic illness who is absent from class because of that condition. I have accommodations through the school and my professor is aware of them. She is still threatening to drop my grade just because of my absence, my performance has not dropped, I participate, talk in class, do homew... | AITA for telling my professor that they should retire? | YTA |
10xr7x9 | I (14M) am in the first year of highschool and we have quite a lot of books to carry to school everyday, so one of my classmates suggested that me and him share our books so that we can bring less weight. But I don't feel comfortable doing that because I am a very private person, and because since I go to school by car... | WIBTA for not sharing my book with my classmate | NTA |
10xq7ya | Was I (23F) rude to my boyfriend (32M)? Please let me know if I am TAMy boyfriend (32M) was going to cook me (24F) dinner yday. This is the convo Him: think I’ll make some pesto and steakMe: pesto and steak?Me: I may have Mayo instead xHim: wow way to shoot me down. Not great when your first immediate reaction with to ... | AITA (24F) for being rude to my bf (32M) in a comment about dinner? | NTA |
10xvrs9 | My friends are calling me a major AH, but I don't think I am.My partner is a terrible communicator.He will agree to call me at a certain time, then he will shut his phone off.Or I'll ask him a question and he won't respond for 7-8 hours.It frequently happens where he goes into DND, or just won't answer his phone, or wh... | AITA for saying "I know your manipulative games"! | NTA |
10xtp7j | two weeks ago i decided to hold a tournament for the game dead by daylight. ive loved it for years and recently got back into it. i setup a server on discord, made brackets, rules and perk bans.when i started advertising it one if the first people to join was a guy im gonna call K. now K had hosted tournaments before o... | AITA for canelling a tournament? | YTA |
10xpwbn | Alright, little backstory to start…I (17m) had a serious problem with pills 3-4 years ago and it really stirred my relationships with both family and friends. I was roughly 5’7 145 lbs at that time (still loved to eat lol) I didn’t tell anyone except my closest friend “KD”. KD (16f) was (and still is, truthfully) someo... | AITA for telling my friend off after she let her friends make fun of my weight? | NTA |
10xpmmf | My friend, Sarah and I, have been good friends since secondary school. We drifted for a while since I we went to separate unis, I dropped out and then got into a relationship with a guy who didn’t allow me to see friends. Thank god that’s over. Fast forwards to now and we’re both around 28. From 20-26 Sarah was dating ... | AITA for going on a trip with my friend’s ex girlfriend | NTA |
10xsksq | So my mum and I got into a fight tonight over my boyfriend. My mum asked me if my partner was going to stay the night. I told her we weren’t and that I would be spending the night at his place. For context we live in a 2 bedroom apartment. There is my mum her partner me my partner and my cousin. My cousin is just visit... | AITA for screaming at my mum and leaving the house ? | ESH |
10xsevo | So my mum and I got into a fight tonight over my boyfriend. I was making some food for everyone for dinner and my Partner was out buying some ingredients. My mum asked me if my partner was going to stay the night. I told her we weren’t and that I would be spending the night at his place. For context we live in a 2 bedr... | AITA for screaming at my mum and leaving the house ? | NTA |
10xvmdl | I (13m) have very long hair. My mom was out on her daily trip to the bar, and i was left with my grandma, when i walked in she said “youre not my grandson!” i was confused and asked what she meant to which she replied:” youre my granddaughter! look at your ugly hair!”i was taken aback and just gave her a dirty look an... | AITA for telling my grandma to fuck off and never talk to me again? | NTA |
10xql5w | Me and my gf planned on Friday night that we would meet up at a location to have lunch at 3pm because she had work there and because I won’t have lunch at home. it’s 20+mins from my home. On that day (sat) I got up late around 12.15pm and chatted with her till 1pm. At 1.20pm got a message from her saying she will finis... | AITA for not being at meeting location when my gf finished her errand earlier? | NTA |
10xq7ei | Some months back, a boy, let's call him Sad from my class and i dated each other. But it lasted only a day. It was because he was acting very cringey and i couldn't handle it. Even though we were in the same class, we never really talked with each other before let alone exchange greetings. He asked me out not because h... | AITA for not sending class notes to my ex anymore? | NTA |
10xpvvn | the title is weird, i know. i (13M) have struggled with my mental health for about 2 years now. my mother knows this. i had an awful day at school today as well, and when i got home i just went to bed. my mum (48F) came in and dragged me out of bed to come eat some dinner before going back to sleep. i have an eating di... | AITA for getting upset when my mum kept offering me cheese? | NTA |
10y0vp1 | Background: Me and my wife have a 3 year old Tommy. My wife has a friend "Stevie" she's known him since high school and they are very good to best friends. I have 3 brothers, my wife has one sister. Stevie means well but he's never been good with boundaries. He lives nearby so sometimes will pop in unannounced. Before ... | AITA for telling my wife's best friend to stop telling our kid he's their uncle? | YTA |
10y2aqd | My (20M) girlfriend (19F) is autistic and her special interest? (I think that’s what it’s called) are stuffed animals. She collects hundreds. But her favorites are these bunnies made to represent emotions. (Think edgy care bears)She’s told me multiple times to never hurt or take away her stuffed animals. (An ex would t... | AITA for “disappearing” my girlfriend’s stuffed animal? | NTA |
10y07ae | I live in California.Law and local ordinance says an apartment must have a kitchen sink and have no less than 250 sq feet of living space.I rented an apartment for 1.5 years that had neither of these things.I still live in the same apartment building but in a new unit that has all the state and city requirements. This ... | AITA for suing my landlord for back rent over an illegal rental? | NTA |
10y1en0 | Edit: up top I should clarify that I intended to say “acting like a scold/jerk” because I realized the usage of the word “narc” can mean both tattle tale and shorthand for narcissist, neither of which I’m going for but the intended meaning is closer to the former Okay, so I have this friend I’ll call Penelope. Penelope... | AITA for thinking my friend is acting like a narc? | NTA |
10y0ir5 | I (30F) have a college friend (29F) that I used be sort of close with. She considered me her best friend at one point, but honestly, I never felt that way about her.For context, she was that really needy friend who didn't make the best life choices. She'd sleep with the worst men, cry about it, and repeat the cycle. It... | AITA for not meeting up with a friend who had just moved back? | NTA |
10y032n | So my now ex bestfriend (we'll call her Margarot) got mad at me for not inviting HER 2 friends (we'll call them Lizzy and Pam) to MY bday party. Pam and Lizzy were not my kind of crowed, we never could see eye to eye. I always made sure to distance myself from the 2 of them cause they reminded me of the mean girls who ... | AITA For not inviting my bestfriend's friends to my Bday party and getting revenge ? | ESH |
10y1j6w | I (21f) am currently 31 weeks with my first child, its a girl. I am currently on the fence if i am the asshole in this situation. All this started when my step-dad paid for a repair on my car (I have that posted to my profile for more context) Even after I told him for the reapir not to be done and that I was going to... | AITA for Canceling a Baby Shower my Mom is Hosting? | NTA |
10y17w7 | A little background… my mother in law had a major surgery over a month ago. I work from home and help with the kids. My wife stays home watching the kids and doesn’t have a paying job. We have 3 little kids under the age of 6. Everyday for the past month, my wife has been at her mom’s house, helping with drains and ... | AITA for insisting my wife helps me instead of her mom? | NTA |
10y0sk1 | So me and my family dad, mum and brother are finding a situation really hard. In 2018 we suddenly lost my nana (dads mum) to cancer. It was awful. My grandad now has a new ‘lady friend’ which we are all very happy of. We don’t want him spending his days locked up in his house watching tv for the rest of his life (he wa... | AITA for not wanting to see my grandads new girlfriend? | YTA |
10y1rnz | Hello, I moved from my home to college dorms, it's 8 hours by train to home so I go home once a month for 3-4 days. When I was leaving I didn't know how it is in dorms and if I can move my orchids there (10 plants at that time, oncidium, dendrobiums, phalaenopsis, maxillaria, wilsonara, brassia species), so I left them... | AITA for being disappointed because of my orchid collection is dying in mother's care | YTA |
10y1xwl | My wife's dad is sick and had to spend a bunch of days at the hospital in a different country. He is an extremely wealthy man with a lot of illiquid assets (lots of property, ~~cats~~ cars, a literal mansion with a pool, etc.,) while I'm an immigrant where I've saved meticulously over years to build a decent nest egg.... | WIBTA for refusing to pay for my FIL's surgery? | NTA |
10y1bd5 | I (22f) got into a fight with 2 friends in my friend group for separate reasons.The first one who I will call Josie (21f), randomly stopped meeting up with me to study. We had similar university schedules so we met up often. One day out of the blue she just didn’t want to study with me. She said she wanted to study in ... | AITA for not reaching out and reconciling? | NTA |
10y2f40 | My husband suffers with heavy depression and lack of friends. Few months ago I saw a notification of a reddit post of something like "female looking for friends". Well he cheated me in the past and I found out in a similar way, so call me disrespectful, but I found his profile and went through his comments history. I s... | AITA for telling my husband to stop looking for female friends online? | NTA |
10y20t8 | …after he and MIL threw a tantrum the week before the wedding when I told them it was too late to add more guests to the guestlist? They threatened to not pay for the rehearsal dinner if they didn't get their way and then they threatened to not come to the wedding at all if DH and I didn't have a sitdown meeting with ... | AITA for kicking my FIL out of the wedding party | NTA |
10y12z7 | My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Within the past two years however, he's begun to listen to podcasts almost constantly. He has a right or left earbud (never both) in at least 90% of the time. It's very annoying when I try to talk to him and he doesn't notice so I say it again.. and he still doesn't ac... | AITA for becoming angry when my partner doesn't hear me? He has an earbud in one ear almost constantly. | NTA |
10y11i5 | My friend and so haven’t seen each other in over 6 months so we planned to meet up. We don’t live close so we were both going to meet in a location closer to the middle. For this I said I would travel further and even stay with family in the area so that it would work out. We have had these plans for weeks and I was su... | AITA for getting mad at my friend for canceling last minute? | NTA |
10y2qqo | I (20F) have been concerned about my brother's (17) mental health for the past year, he used to be the goofy kid of the house but since Jan last year he's gone weird. All he does now is work (he runs Instagram pages), study, workout, read and write in his little diary. Our family does movie night every Saturday he stop... | AITA for reading my brother's journal?? | YTA |
10xz9pp | Background : I'm (26 F) married to my husband (26 M) for few months now, we are together for 7 years. We adopted a puppy last year and we have been training since he was 4 months old.To the problem.Our dog now is 11 months old, weights 35 kg. He is very strong, but mostly behaves well.Last week we went for a walk and o... | AITA for wanting to use collar on my dog? | NAH |
10y2o22 | This is a bit of a weird situation, I’m not gonna lie. So I work at a daycare and I have IBS and some other digestive issues. This means that I have to go to the bathroom and sometimes it can’t wait and sometimes it takes me a little bit. The longest is twenty minutes. Whenever I have to use the restroom and I know it... | AITA for using the bathroom at work? | NTA |
10y0kck | I’m probably justified for doing what I did legally, but my brother called me an asshole Karen for yelling at the neighborhood kids when they were just being kids and having fun, so I feel conflicted.I live in Scandinavia, non-English native, on mobile and so on.Me(F29) live alone in my house about 15minutes from the c... | AITA for yelling at the neighborhood kids? | NTA |
10y1evd | edit: sorry title should say AITA, not WIBTAI went to the eye doctor in October because I needed to renew my prescription. I moved to a new city last year and decided to switch to a doctor that was closer to me. At first everything seemed fine, but after a few days I started to wonder if my prescription was wrong. I ca... | WIBTA for yelling at a doctor? | NTA |
10y1bsq | So I(32M) have been dating my girlfriend(31F) for a few years, introduced her to everyone in my friend group. We have had our ups and downs but it's been generally good. In the past year or so, it's become obvious that my friend group is partial to her and all communication now goes through her. I've been feeling left ... | WIBTA if I leave my friend groups? | NTA |
10y30rs | My husband and I are in our mid-to-late 20s. When we were first married, we lived in an apartment, and whenever something stopped working, the apartment complex would send over a maintenance guy to fix it. Now that we live in a house, we have both been a little overwhelmed about how much upkeep comes with it. (I know i... | AITA for inviting my dad over to fix things in our house? | NTA |
10y2m82 | My daughter's mother and her husband (they just got married) had planned a honeymoon trip overseas. They have a son (my daughters half-brother) who was going to be looked after by his grandmother while they were gone. On the day they were going to leave the grandmother had a major leak in her house. She couldn't leave ... | AITA for not letting my daughter babysit her brother? | NTA |
10y2lmo | Basically, as above. We were married for 10 years, 1 child. We split up for unrelated reasons about 2 years ago. Then, covid hit and I was lonely started messaging this guy who was so cool and understood everything about me. He didn’t judge or pressure me and he is still my best friend. We have been best friends for tw... | AITA for not telling my ex-wife I was now dating a man? | NTA |
10y1ju6 | I really am unsure if I’mbeing unreasonable here. I (23F) work in an office as an assistant and office manager. We’re extremely small, and rarely have visitors. When we do, I know well in advance and prepare for them. We’re the only company on our floor & the doors are locked at all times.Recently, someone from our... | WIBTA to refuse to have a security camera live-streamed to a public area? | NTA |
10y0t2a | I live in a house with three other people. Two of us work from home. I live and work on the 2nd floor and the other wfh roommate "Keith" used to live and work on the 3rd. However the last time a roommate moved out, Keith took her room because it has a big closet nextdoor that he wanted to make into his office. This roo... | AITA for asking my roommate to close his office door while we are both working from home | YTA |
10y38xb | [24F] I'm a high school teacher and due to the education system strains, we are very short staffed at our school and in our district in general. This has led to me teaching an additional class. I'm an Algebra teacher, but due to the short staff issue, I'm also taking on a Civics class.Yesterday I was called into the Vi... | AITA for quitting my job over a dress code violation? | NTA |
10y2v71 | My bf and I have been dating for 3.5 years and we’ve been taking about marriage, we touched the subject of who’d be making the chores and I said we should share them, he says that he can help but a man’s job is to provide and the woman should be the head of the household, to which I object because I will also be workin... | AITA (25F) for telling my fiancee(34M) that once we’re married we should share chores | NTA |
10y2usi | I have a cousin "Rick" that came out as ftm trans during the pandemic. I only saw Rick a couple times a year at most and hadn't seen him since he came out. There was a family gathering for relative's 90th birthday last weekend and I saw him for the first time there. We made some small talk and were catching up and m... | AITA for "deadnaming" my trans cousin? | NTA |
10y2ukw | I don’t know how to say this without sounding like a total vain jerk, but I’ll try my best. I(31m), have been told that I’m a very handsome man, plus I lift so I have a very good physique. Sorry if that sounded masturbatory, I’m just trying to paint a picture. My fiance Lila(29f) has told me that women hit on me consta... | AITA for not switching gyms? | NTA |
10y2ip0 | I’m already aware that I’m in the wrong. My fiancé and I are narrowing down our wedding guest list and his brother is not invited.In the past his brother and I have had bad interactions where I felt very disrespected with no apology after. I feel like weddings aren’t family reunions. They’re not a ceremony of obligatio... | AITA ( I can honestly answer this one. I am the asshole ) | NTA |
10y51g5 | Some may have seen my previous post. I’m not sure how to link it but feel free to look at it for more info. Basically my sister stole my cat, lied about mine dying, denied it was my cat and refused to return it. Today I went to my sisters because she worked. The sitter was home, I knocked and she recognized me and LET ... | AITA for stealing my cat back and telling my sister to never contact me again? | NTA |
10y6c0j | We were informed of a foster child in need of a home. She’s 14, has some behavioral issues, and had mild drug use. We decided to take her in since my wife knew her a bit and thought she was a decent kid who just needed a chance. The placement had its issues. She smoked weed in the house. We told her not to, she did it ... | AITA for getting rid of our foster kid after she stole medicine from our sick daughter. | NTA |
10y3swu | I (38F) have 3 kids (15F, 13M and 9M) with my husband (38F). Both my side and my husband’s side of the family live close, so we see each other all the time. On my side of the family, we get together every Friday at either my house or one of my sibling’s houses for pizza. This past weekend, I was the one hosting Pizz... | AITA for making my sister and her husband leave a family dinner? | NTA |
10y5hwm | My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years, we live together, and recently we had a fight about accessing someone else's cell phone. I always gave her complete freedom to use my cell phone, and she did the same, even though we almost never took each other's cell phones. Yesterday she was listening to music whi... | AITA for forbidding my girlfriend to use my cell phone? | NTA |
10y3zs6 | I [27F] live in a house that’s been converted into studio apartments. This is an important detail because the walls between apartments aren’t super thick. It’s mostly singles or couples living here, there have been no children, and I know the letting agency does not allow children. My next door neighbour, who I share a... | WIBTA if I asked my neighbours with a baby to keep it down? | NTA |
10y43rc | So. There's me f(27) and dad(50) then there's his wife f(58) and her daughter f(40) and her girlfriend f(30). I am made to sit around the small round kitchen table every evening to eat dinner with everyone and I HATE it. A bit of background, I have lived independently for 6 years and recently had to move in with my dad... | AITA BECAUSE I HATE FAMILY DINNER | NTA |
10y6uoe | My nephew[17m] is the only remaining link I have to my beloved sister who died years ago. So I love him like he’s one of my own kids, and am very protective of him. Our dad gifted me and her his 1967 Shelby Mustang once we got to high school, but left it to her in his will. It still burns my ass since I love that car, ... | AITA for buying my nephew a new car out of spite? | NTA |
10y6yhe | To put it simply, my mom is a restaurant Karen.She snaps her fingers at waitstaff. She asks them to change the temperature in the restaurant if she’s too hot or too cold. She regularly sends food back for very minor things. She complains to the manager if the wait is more than 20 minutes, regardless of how busy the res... | AITA for tipping behind my mom’s back? | NTA |
10y4rl2 | Context: my wife and parents don’t really get along. They remain civil, but there are still some hard feelings. It started from them hitting financial trouble around the time we got married, and them not willing to contribute to our wedding while taking a loan to finance my sister’s wedding. I sympathize with the way m... | AITA for wanting to send $1k to my parents when my wife and I are budgeting our anniversary trip? | NTA |
10y4icl | I (26 F) have a coworker (45 M) named Carl. Carl is a relatively nice guy, he’s a little pushy at times, but still pleasant to be around for the most part. For example, when my car needed new brakes, he insisted that I order the parts and have him do it at his house instead of going to a mechanic shop and being “overch... | AITA for snapping at my coworker for making comments about my diet? | NTA |
10y337l | My family is leaving town for a few days and I invited two of my friends to sleep over. We're all (20F). I have a guest bedroom that has a single bed and my own bed which is a queen. This way I would be sharing with one friend, and the other would have her own room. Last night, they both came over and we had a great ni... | AITA for being honest about why I don't want to share my bed with my friend? | NTA |
10y6yf9 | My parents are divorced, I (15F) live with my mum. She has a difficult personality to put it lightly, she cannot take any criticism from anyone without painting herself as the victim, shes very moody, hot headed and people have to REALLY watch their tone when theyre around her. Her personality was one of the main facto... | AITA for telling my mum that what I tell my father is none of her business? | NTA |
10y3cmt | I’m (14f) a bit sure how to start this so I’ll try to write a bit of a summary.My mom (44f) has been very angry about me not helping her with her business. She started it when I was around 3 or 4 and we lived in the US. She would buy just about anything from the US and sell it on Facebook or something else to her custo... | AITA for not helping my mom with her business? | NTA |
10y3180 | I was able to acquire a permit for a backpacking trip next month that is pretty hard to get. The permits are released at the beginning of the year and usually sell out instantly for the year. I have been trying to get a permit for a few years now and always been unlucky.I have a friend, we will call James, that had got... | WIBTA If I do not offer a hard to get backpacking permit to my roommate/friend | YWBTA |
10y6drm | Alright so I(F20) have this friend that will call Joe(M20). We've been friends for quite a while now and for the most part we've gotten along, which makes us great friends. That was until recently when he found out about that ChatGPT. He showed it to me and I found it somewhat interesting and cool with the AI and every... | AITA for telling my friend that he's too obsessed with something? | NTA |
10y7deo | I'm in my last year of BCs in Physics. As this is the last semester, we have a course unit that is exclusively based on lab work where we apply all the knowledge we built during our BCs. We have a lot of different lab works and we have to make a report for every single one of them that can take up to 20 pages each, wh... | AITA for telling my lab partner I can't spend more time on lab work and he also has to do the hard work, and that I'll stop making reports if nothing change ? | NTA |
10y4f5a | My (29F) boyfriend (30M) and I share a shower. We both have somewhat long hair and a history of clogging the drain. I've developed the habit of collecting all the hair surrounding the drain and pushing it to the corner to keep it from going down the drain. For many years, I'd throw away the giant hair clump when I'd ge... | AITA for creating a giant hair monster? | ESH |
10y4bxq | This happened over the summer but I'm still getting backlash for it I (28f) visited my dad (52m) and his wife (49f) for 2 weeks with my 2 young kids (both f). Me and my girls stayed in their house for the entire 2 week period. Will note this trip was my dad's wife's idea. During our stay my dad and his wife were nothin... | AITA for giving a gift card as a ‘thank you’ | NTA |
10y5wla | I’m writing this in a grocery store parking lot, so forgive any minor spelling errors.I’m a 17 year old girl with high functioning autism, anxiety and others that aren’t important to the story. In 5th period, we were watching a movie, which consent forms were given out and my mom had signed, and the first 10 minutes th... | AITA For Leaving School Early Because I Felt Awful? | NTA |
10y6q5w | I (21F) live in a college dorm with my roommate (20F). She has a group of friends that she hangs out with a lot. She is rarely in our shared room (less than an hour every day except for the couple times a week she sleeps here). She usually goes to sleep at her friend's apartment which is nearby.Multiple times per day, ... | WIBTA if I asked my roommate to stop her friends from knocking on the door? | NTA |
10y80f3 | There was this burger place that I liked and would order from regularly, as title states. It's like $12 for a burger and fries. To be honest, the food wasn't *extremely* good as the burger and even fries would often be kind of burnt, but it had convenience as the main factor that kept me going.Anyway... I'd always orde... | AITA for not tipping at a restaurant that I'd order from about once every 2 weeks? | NTA |
10y6cxm | I will start off by saying my husband and I are very lucky to have family that enjoys buying things for our kids, we are grateful that they are loved. We tend to spoil our kids a bit, so they already have more than enough clothes and toys. We just had our second child, and we are starting to outgrow our home a bit so w... | AITA for donating new clothes and toys given to my kids by family? | NTA |
10y7n3x | My brother and SIL and I used to be friends. Things changed after my bf broke up with me unexpectedly when I was pregnant and I decided to move back to my parent’s house. My parents, brother and SIL were super nice and encouraging, and reassured me they'd be there for me and the baby. My SIL had a baby before me, and l... | AITA for telling my SIL to not mail me presents anymore? | NTA |
10y3h8f | I've had this moral dilemma for months now. A friend of mine shared a secret w/ me which if her bf found out might put her in a very, if not bad, at least questionable light. There's no malice between us, we are really good friends, but ever since she told me it's been eating me up and I have been trying to find a way ... | WIBTA If I told my friend's secret to her bf? | NTA |
10y57xs | BF (35) and I (32F), live together in an apartment we bought a year ago. We usually both work from home but today I had to go to the office. At 13h I get a Teams message from him telling me our bathroom started leaking into our downstairs neighbour's apartment when he took his shower and that he cut the water supply to... | AITA for expecting my BF to sort our leaky bathroom situation | YTA |
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