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10y7ljm | Exactly what the title says. I’m a very quiet person and usually very nice but I am not a doormat. After class people usually hang out and talk to each other for a couple minutes or wait around in their desks. (I usually wait at my desk because I don’t have many friends in this particular class.) So the kid who sits ne... | AITA I (15F) told my classmates (15F) to stop putting their backpacks on my desk | NTA |
10y7bjd | I've been working in an office setting for a few years at a company in the midwest and have now gotten a promotion so I'm near the management team. Another manager (not mine) became friends through a project and started to talk and hang out after work (highly discouraged). Shes very attractive and has a fantastic perso... | AITA for me (25m) for making my coworker(41f) uncomfortable for not accepting her? | NTA |
10y5gw4 | So,(18F) I come home from a long day of school, stressed asf because of tests and just people in general. It was one of those days where you just wanna get home and relax. I walk in, say hi to my parents and sister before heading to the kitchen for a snack. I decide on a small sandwich before dinner, so I get to making... | AITA for being sarcastic to my sister?? | YTA |
10y7405 | Let me preface this by saying my brother (17 m) and I (15) hate each other. I’m not going to dive into that because it’s not what this story is about, but he is the reason I am in therapy.This was a couple weeks ago and it had snowed a lot the night before and everyone had been out shoveling all day. It was around 12 i... | AITA for not getting my older brother his boot dryer? | NTA |
10y2cyt | I (35F) have been with (36M) for about 5 years now. When we first started living together everything was great, but he gradually started getting angrier & told me that he was angry about the living situation (which was admittedly shitty) and it would be better once we got a house. So we got a house.Instead, it got ... | AITA for shitting on my SO's requests after therapy? | NTA |
10y4y0g | I've known this friend of mine for 5 years. He's a talented musician and has developed this new notation which could enable people to more easily transpose, improvise and so on. He's trying to spread this privately and via social media, but has trouble getting exposure. His goal is to found a music school (but he has ... | AITA for not helping my friend? | NTA |
10y8dka | I'm a powerlifter and belong to a small gym next to where I work. It's a bit underequipped, but is super convenient so I don't mind. When I went in there today, there was only one other person in the gym, a woman in her early 20s. She was doing hip thrusts with a dumbell in the corner next to the only squat rack the gy... | AITA for powerlifting next to the only girl in the whole gym? | NTA |
10y3uh1 | I(29M) have been dating my girlfriend (29F) for three years. I'm proposing soon, I've already bought the ring. We have a very healthy, communicative relationship.Over the last few weeks, my girlfriend has been snapchatting her ex (29M) pretty frequently. A bit of background, they dated ~5 years ago and ended on amicabl... | WIBTA If I Asked My Girlfriend Not To Hang Out Alone With Her Ex Boyfriend? | NTA |
10y7ul0 | I (15f) have started to refuse to do any housework that my mother has set me to do.Recently my mother (36f) has divorced my stepdad that up until their divorce has done all the housework on top of being the sole provider. This has caused a number of problems in their relationship because my mum, a stay at home wife ref... | AITA for refusing to do any work in my house? | NTA |
10y3bvs | Throwaway.My (41M) wife (41F) and I have been together for nearly 20 years. In 2019 we had our first child (3F) Evelynn who was born prematurely. The doctors told us to be careful about who we exposed her to because of a weakened immune system. Then, around her first birthday the pandemic hit. Between us both trying to... | WIBTA for telling my wife she needs to find a job soon? | NTA |
10y77zo | First post and on mobile.Me (20f) and my sister S (17f) went to a concert for my favourite artist last weekend. I’ve waited 5 years for these tickets and we had to go far. I bought them months and asked S to go as someone dropped out. Due to this, I paid for the hotel room, train tickets and concert ticket. I just want... | AITA for not wanting my sister to come with me to a concert again? | NTA |
10y6brp | We have the biggest orchestra concert coming up we will have had probably 11 rehearsals to prepare. I’ve missed 3 due to car trouble or illness. I also have a degree recital coming up. Most of the time we are taken out of the rotation to alleviate the stress and focus on our recital. My section and director are upset a... | AITA For missing some rehearsals? | YTA |
10y55se | My ex (M 39) and I (F 43) had been together for 9yrs. We have 2 children (7 & 5) and have lived together for a little over 7yrs. 4 yrs ago I bought a house and it is in my name only. He was bitter and upset about it, but we were not married and his credit was not good enough to be on the loan. So everything with th... | WIBTA for getting rid of ExBf Coy Fish? | NTA |
10y87ru | Okay, bear with me because there's a bit of backstory for this one.My (F31) sister (F42) has 4 dogs, 2 of which are not getting along at the moment. They're fine one minute and then one dog (40 lb Springer Spaniel) will jump her other dog (14 lb Chinese Crested) and they fight. The Chinese Crested has gotten injuries t... | WIBTA if I told my sister I can't watch her dog anymore after promising I would? | YWNBTA |
10y870c | so we have been knowing each other for years we are 18 and we go to gym together and we used to go to school together and... , we usually make funny jokes about eachother alot and we lauth it off but sometimes the jokes are kinda disrespectful and i dont like bieng mocked so i tell them to stop in serious tone but they... | AITA when my friends kept making fun of me and i started a fight | NTA |
10y82sl | I want to see if I'm the AH for being stubborn/unyielding on this, so I can do better for future relationships. We're both mid-20's.When he bought the house, we'd been dating for 7 months (but we both intended for it to be a serious, life-long relationship), and he didn't say that he expected us to live together in the... | AITA for refusing to live in my (now) ex's house because he bought it knowing that I hated it? | NTA |
10y4ow1 | I am due to go on a 3-day weekend trip with 4 friends in June, specifically to go to a concert of a band we love. We didn’t lock down accommodation yet, just tentatively booked an Airbnb with free cancellation. We might also have the option to stay at a friend’s family place. However, we did buy concert tickets already... | AITA for cancelling a holiday with friends to see my grandparents? | NTA |
10y80s2 | This is long ad messy. In high I had two best friends. Mark(would be 32) and May(32f). I(30m) got kicked out of the house when I turned 16. Marks family took me in and became like my adopted parents. (Im 2 years younger)Mark and May started dating when they were juniors in HS. After they graduated Mark joined the milit... | AITA for not wanting "officially" adopting my daughter? | NTA |
10y4iiu | My spouse(42M) and I(38NB) recently had our offer accepted for a home after months of searching. This is a big deal to us and huge milestone in our journey.My mom & MIL have both been kept up to date on it - they're thrilled. I haven't told my sis(43F) I was looking for a house, or that we bought one. Reason: we'v... | WIBTA if I don't tell sis I bought a house? | NTA |
10y3fuh | Ok so I’ll try to be clear. I (17f) and my friend A(17f) like to make up dumb games together like word plays or stuff we find funny. The problem is when we share this game with our friend group. most of them don’t partake but two of them we’ll say B(18f) and C (17f) just imitate us with silly voices and clearly make fu... | AITA for as long my friends to stop making fun of me ? | NTA |
10y6nt9 | You'll see I've had issues with coworkers in the past haven't we all? But I have one dude who's had a chip on his shoulder because of his superiority complex, including One day I told him to fuck off you are not my boss. Because yes he's had more time in. But his title is no higher or lower than mine.Today's escapades:... | AITA Told a coworker to call the owner! | ESH |
10y6bfe | So I (22 M) have been taking down my neighbors signs that they put on every light post and tree throughout the neighborhood. These signs are both lost dog and found dog signs as they found their dog and decided to put up posts up all over. I’m very happy for them and the fact they found their dog but that’s beside the ... | AITA for taking down signs throughout my neighborhood | NTA |
10y5zua | I (17F) am the drummer of the band, I joined 2 years ago when it only consisted of the guitarist ("Lee", 18F) and the singer ("Ginny", 17F), who's one of my closest friends (we've known each other way before the band).At first the 3 of us had lots of fun together and I loved being in the band. The problems started when... | WIBTA if I quit my band in the middle of the year ? | NTA |
10y55az | So I (19F) have a best friend of 7 years. We tell each other everything about each other’s lives and basically are family at this point. I have been feeling low lately and I kept it quiet. My friend asked me to come watch a movie with him on the weekend just passed and I said Yh. 3 days after this conversation about g... | AITA for lying to my friend about why I couldn’t meet him? | NTA |
10y4qxt | I (40F) have been with my boyfriend (43M) for just over 4 years. He works 8 months out of the year and is furloughed for 4 months. The first time this happened was during our first year together and since we didn't live together, it wasn't really an issue. The second year we now live together, he was only furloughed fo... | WIBTA is I ask my BF to move out for his furloughs? | YWBTA |
10y4bjx | I apologize for any grammar or spelling mistakes, english is my 3rd language.I've already posted this once but I felt I left out a lot of detail. It all started when I (13F) had a discord server with kids in my school/kids near me around my age that either me or my friends knew. It was fun and everyone were chill with ... | AITA for lashing out at my friend? | NTA |
10y3jls | First time post. I (27F) am a law lecturer with 2 degrees and will sit for the bar exams in my country in June. My fiancé(28M) let's call him Jake, is a lawyer. My brother OB, (19M) is an IT student at a very prestigious University. Now, this whole issue started when OB was delayed 1yr in school as a result of a mistak... | AITA for telling my fiancé I'm not condescending nor inconsiderate? | YTA |
10y2trj | To preface this, I just want to say that I am usually always letting cars go and it was just this 1 time I didn’t. I always make sure to let at least 2 cars marge in from 2 out of the 3 sub-roads. I’m a nice enough person, not some grinch.So, I was exiting the school and there is only 2 exits entirely, however 1 is alw... | AITA for not letting a car cut out in front of me? | NTA |
10y8heh | i live in a flatshare with two other 22 year olds in london. many of you may know the uk is experiencing a cost of living crisis where electricity and gas bills are excruciatingly high. when this crisis started, we as a flat (unfortunately like a lot of the country) agreed to not use the heating arbitrarily and prefera... | AITA for asking my flatmate to not use the heating | NTA |
10y8c6h | So a few weeks ago I was at the gym with my friend. We were dancing having a good time. There’s a height difference of nearly a foot between us. I put my hand up and I’m not sure if I’m the reason he was tapped in the face or he was. I started laughing because this was completely unintentional and I said “my bad”. This... | AITA for not giving a formal apology to a friend? | ESH |
10y8bu0 | My (15,F) mother (46F) has thing where she often says she is sick. What she does is that whenever she feels something she checks Google about it and starts freaking out. For example, she once saw that the small bump on her head could be a sign of a deadly disease and so she visited 3 doctors and eventually got it remov... | AITA for blowing up at my mom? | NTA |
10y881f | So am like to start by saying that no I am not worried about her cheating on me and no I have not said anything other than “ok” whenever she has brought it up.My fiance's ex-boyfriend is going out of town for a couple of weeks on a business trip that is out of state and asked my fiance if she could watch his dogs while... | AITA for being weirded out that my fiance is dogsitting for her ex? | NTA |
10y87ur | OK so my friend messaged me today as we talk a lot and see each other quite a bit. She says that she wants to see me, talk, and eat. I agree because I enjoy her company and her as a person. We set a general time in, but nothing is set in stone because I would come over only after her gaming session with her friends, th... | AITA for being mad that my friend would change our somewhat loose plans if a different plan doesn’t happen? | NTA |
10y8777 | Hi AITA fam, Long time lurker, first time poster. This AITA is not about one instance – more, does my approach make me an asshole. For some context, my partner (44M) and I (33F) have been together for 8.5 years, lived together for around 6), and are both recently diagnosed with ADHD, though our symptoms manifest in rad... | AITA for refusing to take potentially good advice? | NTA |
10y7yr9 | For context, this actually happened a year ago, but my best friend has brought this incident up on numerous occasions now, and I am wondering if I am to blame. So one night about a year ago, I was working on an essay for one of my classes, this essay was worth a decent chunk of my grade and was due at midnight. I remem... | AITA for not helping my best friend while he had a bad psychedelic trip? | NTA |
10y7ya5 | New account for obvious reasons. Let's call my friend Ashley (25F). So recently I (21M) tried to basically change my life for the better and not keep toxic people in my life and so on. It's been going great. Now, Ashley isn't toxic, but she's very meh friend. We've basically been friends for 2-3 years now? I met her th... | WIBTA if I ignored my friend while she's going through a nasty divorce? | YWNBTA |
10y7o0g | We're selling everything to put our house on the market and move out of the country (me, 40f, housemate "Fred" 39m). The last rooms to be cleaned out are all his areas. Fred also has ADHD and there are executive function issues.I offered to list the big items that need to be moved out of the garage for sale online to s... | AITA for wanting housemate's help to sell his stuff? | NTA |
10y7mhk | I got sick for the last day or so and so I was bed ridden for the entirety of it. Naturally I would play games and watch stuff just to let the time go by, but even then it was just painful to do that. Now this girl I’ve been interested in, we’ve been talking for months and we’re both very interested in each other and w... | AITA for playing games while I was sick? | NTA |
10y7icf | Burner, but I think this story is so specific she'll see it and know it's me anyway.I (31 M) was preparing dinner when my partner (30 F) came down. While I was finishing up plating everything she mentioned she had been watching celebrity makeup videos and beauty routines. After she told me a bit about them I asked how ... | AITA for ruining celebrity make up videos for my GF | YTA |
10y7e60 | I will be using fake names for this post.My friend (Shelly) and I are very good friends that attend the same university. Her boyfriend (Josh) also attends the same university. About roughly a week ago, Shelly got together with Josh. I have not actually spoken to Josh before. Today, I saw Shelly kiss Josh goodbye. She t... | WIBTA for asking my friend about some actions made by her boyfriend that I was a little worried about? | NTA |
10y6q9t | Last night, I went to the gas station down the road and as I approached the door to walk out, a lady was about to open it to come in. The doorway had two doors so I headed for the other one. The lady got to the doorway before I did and as I was approaching, I noticed she hesitated before opening it. She pulled the door... | AITA for not going out of my way to hold the door for a stranger? | NTA |
10y60vs | I'm in [Sixth Form](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sixth_form) [(Year 12)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Year_12).\~2 weeks ago, I (Black 17F, I promise race/ethnicity is fairly important for this explanation) made a joke towards a girl who I'll call Xavia (White Traveller 16(?) F) who was sitting on the table with me a... | AITA for holding a grudge against/disliking this girl? | NTA |
10y5nge | Me and my partner own 2 cars. We have one very cheap car which I use for work and one more expensive family car which she uses for work and driving around our 9mo old son. We go halves on both car expenses to avoid one of us bearing the costs of the family car. We both earn similar amounts of money.Recently the famil... | AITA for refusing to finance a car with partner? | NAH |
10y3yz2 | I (21M) live with my parents who are realtors and work very hard, so they have the opportunity to afford a gorgeous beachside house. I do not have the wealth my parents do. I’m working on moving out, but as of right now I live there. My girlfriend (19F) came over to the house for the first time and was amazed by how be... | AITA for saying that I wash my dishes by hand to keep in touch with my poor side? | NTA |
10y3s6u | A good friend of mine (call her Katie) that lives all the way across the country but is from Philly messaged me a couple weeks ago wanting to visitIt's not a good time for her to visit. I have a huge exam a few weeks from now. So I told her no. It's last minute. I am overwhelmed by my job. Passing this exam is very imp... | AITA for not hosing my friend? | NTA |
10y3mkl | I (17f) stormed out of the dining hall from my friends after talking about how we didn't like when another girl (B) does the same.Context: (B) hates (A), (B) is best friends with (E), (E) and (A) are dating B has hated A for about a year and a half now, A and E have dates for about ¾ of that year. You would think that ... | AITA storming off from the table in front of my friends | NTA |
10y39ju | I (22nb) am disabled and don’t work due to my disability. My new flatmate has lived here for a few months now, we get along pretty well and there hasn’t been any arguments before. I recently rescued a cat as an emotional support animal, she’s very timid due to her trauma, but we’re working on it together. Before I resc... | AITA for having a cat, and subsequently yelling at my flatmate? | NTA |
10y99xi | [AITA For Leaving a Vacation I Planned for my GF After Her Friends Came Along? : AmItheAsshole (reddit.com)](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/10w8kxl/aita_for_leaving_a_vacation_i_planned_for_my_gf/) From the bottom of my heart, thank you to everyone who sent me kind words and encouraging private message... | UPDATE: AITA For Leaving a Vacation I Planned for my GF After Her Friends Came Along? | NTA |
10yc8sr | I was lucky enough to get a great job after I graduated. I make pretty good money and my job is challenging but fun. Some of my friends didn't bother with college and some who did go chose less lucrative fields. I'm not rich or anything. I'm not buying a Porsche any time soon. I just have a good salary and very fe... | AITA for doing an Irish exit at a restaurant so I wasn't stuck with the bill? | NTA |
10y95kx | My (15F) family likes to have a movie night, we basically do that on Fridays when my parents don't have work and my sister (19,F) doesn't have too much work for college. It usually happens like once a month. Mom insists on doing it or just having us all play a game so we can bond and have a good time and it is really f... | AITA for wanting to exclude my sister? | YTA |
10y8sds | Throwaway AccountI (30f) have a "Mike" (4m) who was fathered by my old college boyfriend "Jason" (31m) who ghosted me before I was able to tell him that I was pregnant. When I first found out that I was pregnant it was around finals, Jason and I were in grad school, and Jason was so stressed out his exams, work, and fa... | AITA For Not Wanting The Biological Father Of My Child To Say Who He Really Is? | NTA |
10yaz05 | I \[20F\] am a college student living with four roommates in a shared off campus house. One of my four roommates is not actually a roommate on our lease, but one of my other roommate's boyfriends. I am not happy about this, but it is what it is. We'll call the boyfriend/roommate Kevin \[21M\].I had a paper due at 11... | AITA for making my roommate miss an assignment deadline | NTA |
10ybn98 | My fiancé (28M) and I (27F) are currently wedding planning. We have always said we wanted a wedding in October because we are both wh*res for fall. We found a venue and were looking at potential dates (basically choosing which Saturday), they only had openings 3 out of the 4 Saturdays in October. We were between the 2n... | WIBTA if I don’t change my wedding date after my sister in law asked me to? | NTA |
10ychov | My wife and I went to couple's counseling. When we called to book there was one counselor that had a last minute opening and the rest had long waits. There was a reason for this. If you ever need to book a therapist, don't book the one with immediate availability. Anyway, so we went this morning.First and foremost, the... | Update: Couple's counseling didn't help; an honest discussion did. | NAH |
10yf54k | I am not a chef. I am a pretty good amateur cook though. I own my own restaurant and have been on a couple of TV shows as a guest or contestant. My father in law is a welder and he has bugged me a few times about doing women's work. I just laugh it off but it does bug me. I have told my wife but she tells me that he ... | AITA for not making "good food" for my in-laws since my father in law thinks it is women's work. | NTA |
10yh4bp | So my friend of about 20 years is mad at me calling me cruel and an asshole. She got upset after I fake kidnapped her 2 young kids. Now I know it sounds harsh so far but the reason I did it was to finally get though her head the dangers of leaving her kids home alone when she goes out. On top of the dangers she just re... | AITA for Fake kidnapping my friends kids? | YTA |
10y8uek | Obligatory: throwaway account,So, I'm 22 now. 8 years ago, I came out to my parents as Bi. Should be no big deal right? Wrong. My deeply religious parents sent me to a Christian wilderness camp, where they said I would stay for 6 months. I ended up staying for a year and a half. I was understandably mad when they took... | AITA for not helping my mother | NTA |
10yexyx | My daughter "Tina" (13F) has dealt with this same bully "Megan" for 2 years. The school has done what they can to help. They're no longer in any of the same classes, their lockers aren't near each other. Megan was suspended last year for a particularly harsh incident and that's what finally got the school to take her s... | AITA for saying my child's bully didn't have any right making fun of someone's looks? | NTA |
10yd2s5 | Hi everybody! Throwaway account!I (49M) have a son, Chris, who is eleven, and refuses to grow up it seems. He's entering middle school next year and it's starting to worry me that he has not figured out that Santa, the Easter bunny, elf on the shelf, etc. aren't real. My wife, Jenna 47F, assures me that it's not a big ... | AITA for telling my son the Elf on the Shelf, Santa, Easter Bunny, etc., aren't real? | YTA |
10yidw3 | My 11yo son goes to a skate park after school with his friends who include his cousin/my nephew Jack who is also 11. I went to pick up both boys when I saw a crowd of kids by the fence. I went over and asked what was so interesting and they pointed to a snake.Not just a snake, but a rattlesnake. They had never seen one... | AITA for telling my brother that I want an apology from his wife and not him? | NTA |
10yd4gc | Sorry for making the title so long. I just don't know how better to put it.Throwaway btw.Hi, I'm 14, I have 1 brother who's 15 and my sister who's 12. My dad died in 2020.In December, my mom suprised us my brother and sister with brand new phones, and me with a gaming laptop. I was so freaking happy that I was counting... | AITA for taping my laptop battery to the wall when my mom's boyfriend broke it? | NTA |
10ydlma | Background story, I am engaged and I wanted to elope. Big weddings are expensive and anxiety inducing. We don’t have much money saved. I would rather got our shit together first. I told him this. His family is rich and his mom has been pressuring us to get married. She told him I didn’t love him because I didn’t set a ... | AITA called off wedding | NTA |
10yi0qp | Long story short, my husband Sean (39M) and I (37M) are very close to our nieces and nephews.A year ago our niece Cassie (23F) on Sean's side got engaged while attending university across the country, we were overjoyed to learn of this and were looking forward to meeting the young man she'd met but that was going to ha... | WIBTA for not attending a wedding after RSVPing after being offended by requests to be separated from my husband for the duration of the event? | NTA |
10yfsjo | Background...Me and my wife live in central Jersey. She was a NYC resident for years before we met. Her Dr was from NYU and she was adamant about wanting to have the baby delivered with a Dr she was familiar with. We're all good with that. This was never an issue even though the ride is 2 or so hours. A couple days bef... | AITA For leaving my wife at the hospital with our newborn to go have an operation | NTA |
10ygmg7 | Hi everyone. Throwaway account.I, 19F, am in college for my freshman year. My roommate is Megan, 20F, and she and I have gotten along somewhat well for the most part. Our suitemates, Adina and Cassidy, whom we share a bathroom with, are next door.I recently (over the past two weeks) started learning how to play trumpet... | AITA for playing the trumpet? | YTA |
10y8lk5 | So, I’m in college. One of my courses is an online class (the subject doesn’t really matter) so there’s a group chat with most of my other classmates which we use to help each other out, answer questions and so on. I’m fairly familiar with this subject so some topics I can understand and explain to classmates who don’t... | AITA for ignoring a classmate who constantly asks me for help? | NTA |
10yhcr6 | I 42f got married four days ago. I’m sadly writing this during my honeymoon. I have been with my husband45 for 4 years. My husband has a daughter Shianna19.I had asked Shianna to be one of my bridesmaids. Her mom passed away when she was young, and I have always tried to have a connection with her, but she was always v... | AITA for kicking stepdaughter out of my wedding | NTA |
10yaf9r | My sister and her husband have been together since they were around 18. They’re now 23 and got married last year.My BIL who I’m going to call Luke is a really good guy. But he doesn’t really get some things, mainly social cues.My dad and him... their relationship is a little complicated. My dad doesn’t hate him but it ... | AITA for calling my dad cold hearted and embarrassing? | NTA |
10yadx1 | My in-laws, especially my mother-in-law, have a habit of calling my husband at all hours and asking him to do things for them. My father-in-law called him but because he was sleeping I answered the phone. He asked me to wake him up because he needed his help but I refused to as it was late and he was tired.I told him I... | AITA for not waking my husband up so my father-in-law could speak to him? | NTA |
10yay0i | Around early October I ordered a bunch of clothing including a winter jacket that cost me around 500 cad Around 2-3 weeks later I checked the tracking number and the website said it was ready to be picked up as of a few days prior. Confused as usually the place where the package gets delivered to would call if there wa... | AITA For not returning a package? | NTA |
10yh28h | There is a woman I'm relatively friendly with at work - we're both ladies in our mid-20s, the rest of the team is in their late 40s/50s so we naturally have more to talk about, apart from work we don't really hang out though.Anyway, for staffing shortage reasons I was moved to another branch a few months ago, we still ... | AITA if I refuse to pay for a perfume a colleague got for me? | NTA |
10yfivt | Ok my son is almost 19 and this is his first girlfriend. They've been dating for like 8 months now. She quit school as a Junior in HS. Her parents are not very supportive, but my wife and I try to supplement what they lack. And my son does too. He tries to be her emotional support anchor. My son is actually very down t... | AITA who doesn't want my son to date an emotional dumpster fire? | NTA |
10yg6o0 | I am a 20F and I have been at my current job for almost a year. For some context, it is a well known country club in the states and I also go to school full time. When originally hired, I worked at the pool serving and bartending. I received no training on the bar and was not immediately required to get my RAMP certifi... | AITA for quitting my job leaving them short staffed? | NTA |
10y8w0g | Context: My boyfriend and I live together and share finances. I make significantly more money than him and we don’t have a car. We are not in a great financial spot and are living paycheck to paycheck. I take a 90 minute bus ride to and from work every day. It sucks. I’ve had some negative experiences on it with someon... | AITA for wanting my boyfriend to take the bus? | NTA |
10y9y3j | As we speak, we are on our way to the Broadway show "Wicked." On the drive, shes listening and singing to various songs, which is perfectly fine. Then, halfway there, she says "you know what, in honor of Wicked...." and summons up a Broadway playlist of showtunes. I ask her "just please don't put on anything from wicke... | AITA for asking my wife to stop playing certain music? | NTA |
10y8is2 | So i moved i to a new apartment complex a few months ago and we only have street parking, no designated spots or a parking lot/garage, which means that for 20 apartments, space is limited. About 3 weeks ago i reported a car that had multiple flat tires that had been sitting there since i moved in, and today i reported ... | AITA for wanting good parking? | NTA |
10yea9v | So, I’m having a tough time here. I’m in my last year of high school and it’s time for cap and gown purchasing and yearbook page reserving. I have been telling my mom for at least 2 years that I am not going to the graduation ceremony, and I am certainly not getting a yearbook. High school has been the shitiest 4 year... | AITA for telling my mom I’d up and disappear if she forced me to have a page in the yearbook? | NTA |
10yikf2 | I 32 (f) never really had many friends. When I married my 34 (m) husband he had a huge friend group that was very close. Obviously through dating and then marriage they kind of “adopted” me. I think a lot of them are really nice people and don’t mind being around them, though I wouldn’t classify any as “close friends” ... | AITA for being a late bloomer? | NTA |
10yigop | This past weekend was my 50th birthday. I was really excited as it was the first birthday, since my 21st, that I really wanted to celebrate. I wanted to wake up to the ocean sounds on that day so I picked Mexico to celebrate with my immediate family. My son flew in from Florida the day before and he, my parents, my dau... | AITA for being angry over alcohol and breaking house rules? | NTA |
10yfigl | My older brother (22) and I (21) had to mature pretty quickly as kids. My mom was a single mother in her 20s for a bit after leaving an abusive relationship. We had to learn to cook, clean and kinda just take care of ourselves. Now she relies on me to help out with her younger ones because she claims to be too tired. M... | AITA for telling my mom i’m tired of being a second parent to my younger siblings? | NTA |
10ybitt | I (14M) got into an argument with my mom. It started a few days ago, when my online school sent out an email about a program called cubes in space. In a simplified way, this program is 2 months long, with meetings once every week. Also, there are assignments to do after every lesson. The program is based on allowing hi... | AITA for my reaction towards my mom forcefully signing me up for a 2-month program. | NTA |
10yf1xs | I was on a particular art-sharing site (DeviantArt) that I often frequent, and came across a recent upload from somebody. I recognized the art style instantly as being that of a talented artist I admired. The only problem: the account that had posted the art was not that of the original artist but rather some random ... | AITA for calling out somebody for “stealing” artwork? | NTA |
10ybino | Yall, I can't even with this. We planned a month ago to go on a deep sea fishing trip. My husband bought a boat two years ago (5 days before I gave birth to our youngest) and I have yet to be deep sea fishing on it. I have never been. So we both had a break in work and planned for this weekend. We asked his parents (hi... | AITA for my husband forgetting his mom's birthday? | NTA |
10yhujn | Throwaway account because I don't want anyone involved to find this.I (20F) have a best friend (also 20F) that I have known for a few years. I've met her family before and always thought her parents seemed nice, but she recently told me something that concerned me. I won't go into too much detail, but my friend's paren... | AITA for telling my friend her family is emotionally abusive? | NTA |
10ygsg7 | My mom (70f) has always struggled with untreated social anxiety. She doesn’t have many friends and communicates minimally to her family. She is also very aloof when it comes to a relationship with me (38f). It’s only gotten worse after she retired two years ago.I grew up basically unable to invite friends over. I staye... | AITA for not inviting relatives to my wedding because of my mom’s social anxiety | NTA |
10ya2vu | For context, i’m 16 and my parents divorced just under a year ago after being married for 18 years.My mom waited about 8 months to start dating again (I don’t know if that’s a reasonable time to wait, but to me that seems fast considering how long they were married) and connected with the first person she happened to m... | AITA for not wanting to rush a relationship with my mom’s boyfriend? | NTA |
10yffoo | My best friend of 11 years is currently dating a guy (that happens to be my cousin) and has been dating him for 6 years. The last 4 years of their relationship her boyfriend has become emotionally abusive. I am getting married this year and she is obviously my maid of honor. So, starting last year I’ve been working wit... | AITA for telling my best friend that her relationship is coming between us? | NTA |
10yhl6o | Hiya! Been tortured enough so I need a non biased opinion. I’ll start by saying I love my in laws and I truly look forward to spending time with them. They live across the country so we are lucky to see them once or twice a year. My MIL loves to ski so she comes here quite a bit in the winter and usually there is a tri... | AITAH- in laws sleeping arrangements | NTA |
10yhkz2 | I (24F) recently attended a bachelorette party for my (25F) close friend. We are from Texas and flew to Scottsdale for the weekend. I had to budget sparingly for the trip when it came to activities and food since travel expenses were not cheap. Since there were 9 girls in total we had to get a larger air bnb which cost... | AITA for not paying my share of the bill | NTA |
10yhhlo | The other day I bought my [30m] wife [29f] a box of Valentine’s Day chocolates. We don’t usually celebrate holidays or give gifts so she seemed pretty surprised. She’s been trying to eat a bit healthier recently and said I shouldn’t have bought them because she wouldn’t be able to control herself but in a light and jok... | AITA for eating the last chocolate? | NTA |
10yjetu | I’m currently in an arguement with my partner about household chores. I work 3 x 12 midnight shifts. I do all the cooking, lunch’s for the kids, appointments, grocery shopping, meal planning, and on my days off cleaning, laundry. I wash my own clothes and my youngest child. Today when I arrived home after my 2 x 12 shi... | AITA for creating a list of chores for my husband? | NTA |
10yhp8y | I know I'm probably not the asshole, but I want to yell in the void about this, because I still feel a little guilty. I went to the 7/11 across the street from my apartment, and on my way back, I see a guy appearing to stand on my back porch, peeking through a gap in my blinds. As I walk up he gets down, and starts loo... | AITA for calling out a dude peaking in my blinds? | NTA |
10yhokd | Sorry in advance for the dissertation. I (22m), have a brother Xander (29) and a sister Olivia (30). Growing up, Xander was made the scapegoat by his peers at school. As a shy kid he never defended himself, which led to teachers believing the other kids and labelling him a problem child. As a result he was often punish... | AITA for telling my brother he’ll end up bitter and alone? | NTA |
10ygy5y | My father is in a state pchyc hospital. he has bi polar 1. he gets manic angry and asullted aneighbor, dont care why its assallt. He is being evicted for the behavior. Refuses to recognize. I ask because he has animals that even in a better state didnt care well for. I need to rehome them for them to survive. i f... | AITA my dad in an institution, getting evicted, and wont permiss my rehoming but i will anyway | NTA |
10yfqhf | Me (15m) and my (17m) brother, Jay, have alwags been very different. Jay always perferred painting or musicals with our mum while I always perferred football and car shows with our dad. We are really close generally but he is very sensitive at times.So I’m turning sixteen in about two months. My family is admittedly we... | AITA for getting a car before my older brother did? | NTA |
10ygwhc | My partner and I have been going through some rough patches. We were on a break for a while. We didn't speak to each other for weeks. During that time, I bought tickets to a concert in the summer. It's an electronic group but they *never* come to my state, so I'm going out of town.We got back together at the beginning ... | AITA for buying a concert ticket for myself and not my partner? | NTA |
10yia4k | I (18nb) have 3 roommates (all 18F). We'll call them Anna, Izzy and Kaitlin. I also have a boyfriend (19M) who we'll call Andy. Andy is in a rough spot with his parents right now. They don't like that he is bisexual, but can't move out right now for financial reasons. Because of this, Andy and I usually hang out in my... | AITA for having my bf over when I have roommates? | YTA |
10yi50u | My father passed away from his heart exploding in dec. He was up in a town he was working out of. On that day my middle sister was the only one that made it to say the goodbyes. All us other sisters could not make it in time as we all live 8+ hours away and it was a massive shock and surprise to our entire family.So as... | AITA for telling the insurance company my sister scammed them? | NTA |
10y97x0 | In the past 3 years before this one my girlfriend (both of us 28M/F) has gotten into multiple car accidents, most were just very minor things like scraping a pillar, wall, hitting the mirror, backing into someone and one was a little more moderate when she rear ended someone and got a ticket which was the only one that... | AITA for joking about my girlfriend's driving | YTA |
10yiu07 | The day I found out my dad died, I located his will but (stupidly) deemed it safer filed in the office than on me in my grief-stricken state.My brother and I spend the day at our dad’s calling people, etc.I lock the house that night, and bro and I agree we will come back the next day to continue our work at the house.U... | AITA? My dad's will disappeared after my SIL/bro sorted his paperwork. I asked if they took it. | NTA |
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