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10ychdb | I have a young year old son and his mother has primary custody of. I am a recovering heroin addict and I have been clean for 3 years. Because of my history, I have not been able to get joint custody mainly thanks to her not wanting to split her time with our son. My baby mother also has 2 other children whom I am not t... | AITA for “one upping” my sons mother with a Disney trip for his birthday? | ESH |
10y8nvc | Title sounds really bad, can’t change that. But it’s more along the lines of AITA for not taking care of Ty after my sister (a part time caretaker) got homeI (20Nb) was in my room relaxing with my boyfriend and Hades, when my mom called because she completely forgot she had to take my Mimaw to an appointment. She calle... | AITA for not taking care of my disabled brother when my mom left to take my grandmother to an oncology appointment? | YTA |
10yhqxk | I’m 29 (F) and recently moved to SC with my fiancé. We have been together over a decade now and have grown up in Maryland our entire lives. We decided it was time to move. We don’t have children yet, but one day. We plan to get married soon. My mom has not let up on me about how “selfish” I am for “leaving my family”. ... | AITA for moving from MD to SC | NTA |
10ye0fz | I (34F) am loosely helping a friend to plan and throw a party for her son who’s turning 4 this weekend.While I love my friend and her son and her family who have always made me feel welcome, I really dislike her husband and his family, to the point where they’ve made me so uncomfortable in the past that I’d prefer to n... | WIBTA if I backed out of my friend’s son’s birthday party? | NTA |
10y8pmx | I (19f) have a dad who has played golf every Saturday for at least the last 25 years. He goes almost every weekend and sometimes in the weekdays after work. Myself, my mum and my sister (17f) have to work our schedules around him, for example: I’m going to have to get 3 trains (a 3 hour journey) to come home from unive... | AITA for asking my dad to prioritise me over his golf? | NTA |
10ygniq | This situation happened earlier today and I can’t go to sleep because of it. So basically I was in history class and I was with my friends working on a project and these group of girls who are friends with my one friend (I’ll call her Max) started talking shit about Max with my friends. I was trying not to get involved... | AITA for telling my friend her other friends were talking shit behind her back | NTA |
10yihy0 | To give some background, I am an interior-designer and my husband is a lawyer. With that knowledge in tow, my husband, since before our marriage, had owned this old-recliner. Upon asking, he said that he picked it up in-college off the side of the roadAs such, when we were designing our new house, my husband brought th... | AITA for throwing-out my husband's recliner out of the house? | YTA |
10ye69g | Am I the asshole for telling my boyfriend he can't watch videos when we are supposed to be going to sleep? My boyfriend(29M) and I(28F) have been together a little over two years. I am an extremely light sleeper and have a really hard time going to sleep. It has to be pitch black and kind of quiet (white noise is okay)... | AITA For Telling My Boyfriend He Can't Watch Videos in Bed? | NTA |
10yjcx5 | I (19F) and my best friend (20M) let’s call him mark, me and mark have known each other for about 2 years, when me and him first met i was more shy around people and in a bad state of depression, now I’m more confident and happier than before. I started dating his brother a few months ago (19M) and that’s when he start... | AITA for yelling at my best friend? | NTA |
10y8hb4 | I want to start by kindly reminding everyone that this is not a debate sub.I (23f) am a practicing Christian with a degree in Biblical Studies. My friend Beth (22f) is preparing for her grandfather's death. Her grandfather is a practicing Christian and is gay. He is expected to die by the end of this month. The family ... | AITA for Sharing my Religious Beliefs in this Way? | NTA |
10yh0a5 | writing on my phone at 2am, sorry if it looks a bit messyi (f19) used to play guitar and sing during my entire childhood. ever since i was a kid i knew i wanted to do music for a living, thing that my parents hated and always made sure to tell me it was a waste of time. that made me really self conscious about it and s... | AITA for wanting to start playing guitar at the same time that my sister? | NTA |
10ycgxz | My (32F) bachelorette party is this weekend. My MOH had done an amazing job of organising a wonderful weekend away with my friends, been flexible about attendees only making it to part of the weekend, having to work for a couple of hours, and understanding about budgets. Frankly, she has done a miracle to coordinate th... | WIBTA for uninviting my sister from my bachelorette party? | NTA |
10ygkm2 | I (34 F) am the MOH for my bestie (36 F). It's been a few weeks of back and forth re: the bridesmaids dresses. I am more conservative than the 9 other girls and it shows in the way that I dress. I am a bigger girl and have more curves both top and bottom. The other girls are taller and more slender. I do not wear s... | WIBTA if I back out of being my bestie's MOH over a dress? | NTA |
10yb773 | I (white-23F) have been dating my fiancé (black-24M)(Race is relevant)Growing up my parents never really wanted me to date anyone who wasn't White, I have two older siblings and both of them happily got married in their twenties, my parents have no issue with their significant other, only mine.They try to say that he a... | AITA for yelling at my parents? | NTA |
10yb6qt | My best friend constantly says he’s right when we both know that he is not. It was funny at first because he would not admit he was wrong over the most unimportant things. However, lately I have been getting annoyed because every small amount of normal bickering, he insists hes right. In class whenever the teacher asks... | AITA for shutting down my best friend with a slight god complex? | NTA |
10yhd0t | So I (22f) live with my Dad to help him out with rent, one of my friends (22f) who I’ve known since preschool has moved in too as she needed a place to crash with cheap rent - we’ll call her Lola to keep it anonymous. Lola and I have a bumpy friendship, we always have each others back even when we’ve stopped being frie... | AITA for not supporting my friend anymore? | NTA |
10yf17j | So I moved out for the first time and I'm living with a girl I know. When I moved in she had already been living there for 3 years. It's a small place, and I agreed to move into the smaller bedroom, leaving me with literally only enough room for my bed and a mirror, while hers had plenty of space for shelving, dressers... | AITA for moving my roommates stuff | ESH |
10yes0g | Ok so I have a fest in my college on the first weekend of March and my long-distance girlfriend wants me to come over on that particular weekend. I could come a weekend later or prior but she wants me to come on that specific weekend. She wants me to "choose" between a fest and her. Of course, I would choose her but if... | AITA for not meeting my long-distance girlfriend for a specific weekend? | NTA |
10yfn1e | My (39 M) roommate and best friend Horace (40 M) used to play D&D with a friend Claus (40 M) that we have known since grade school. When he learned that we were playing D&D regularly, he showed interest in joining us. So, we made room for him at the table so he could enjoy our games with us.Sadly, problems be... | AITA For No Longer Playing D&D With a Friend? | NTA |
10yhsqz | My girlfriend, me, and two of her friends that I now consider friends spontaneously went out to eat. My gf has strict parents and told her she must be home, so she left and I offered to take our two friends home. One of them asked if we could spontaneously just go on a long drive and talk about some kind of deep shit, ... | AITA For this argument I had with my gf? | NTA |
10yj78s | My (28F) bf (30M) recently got a new leadership job that requires him to spend two hours driving every day. His work schedule is 9.30-16.00. Before he took the job, I said that I’ll make dinners for us because he’ll be home at 17.00 and I’ll be home around 16.00-17.00. The thing is, since then I got a new part time job... | AITA for not making dinner? Career vs. dinners. | NTA |
10yd03w | I (27m) have a girlfriend (26f) we’ve been together since high school, we broke up in college since we went to two different colleges but then got back together after we graduated. Growing up I was always on the bigger side, and I was bigger than most kids my age. It gotten so bad to the point where I was almost 500 po... | AITA for wanting to girlfriend to lose weight | NTA |
10yhb4m | Went to a restaurant went to the sed robster and wanted to order an appetizer. Asked the server does this have cilantro or chipolte he said no I don't think so I asked him to check he did not and brought is anyway well all the green stuff all over the plate is cilantro and he had to put t on after it came through the ... | AITA if told you Cilantro and Chipolte taste like dirty dishwater and you served it anyway? | NTA |
10ydif4 | I fucked up. It was me. It doesn't matter that I wasn't in control. It doesn't matter if I don't remember. I'm still responsible for myself. I dropped the ball at work due to mental illness and alcohol abuse.​I don't know how much they know, but I know that I'm not scheduled next week. I'm sure the cameras s... | WIBTA If I blocked my ex boss after quitting due to a manic episode? | NTA |
10ygq1k | We've been together for 3 years and I've always had difficulty making friends. Last year he had introduced me to some of his friends that I have grown close too however he grew distant from that group and gained new friends. This is my first friend group in 4/5 years that I genuinely feel connected and accepted into. R... | AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to be friends with my friends? | NTA |
10y9qw2 | Hello everyone. I am a total mess rn but i really do need some advice on this. I am so so sorry but this is going to be a little long.It all started like half a year ago. Me and my boyfriend have a sweet little cat and she lives her best live here. However, i always felt she was a little lonely when we were away all da... | AITA for getting upset over my bf making plans over an event i had planned 3 months prior? | NTA |
10yckhf | In highschool, final year. My teacher allows us to eat in her class if we didnt have enough time at break to finish our lunch.I walk to my desk to sit with my friend and had my wrap in my hand, and my classmate immediately see's this and proceeds to basically stare me down until I leave. I could tell too, so I kind of ... | AITA for "bothering" classmate's sensory issues? | NTA |
10yere0 | I know this sounds silly but please bear with me. I 35F) recently got divorced and had to move with my sons into my grandparents place temporarily. They are renting but the landlord was ok with it. Anyways, we live in the city on a very busy and overcrowded street so parking is really hard to find. If I work a late shi... | AITA for parking in the yard? | NTA |
10yk7a0 | My (25F) mother in law has recently started copying me in everything I do. She has taken over the things I enjoy as she Googles them and constantly claims I know nothing and she is the expert on my hobbies, interests and anything I enjoy. I told my (25M) boyfriend that’s it’s really frustrating me but he says I’m an as... | AITA for feeling frustrated towards my MIL | NTA |
10yho8v | So I (18 f) and my best friend (17 m) have had a pretty good friendship up until now. We met each other in a school program in high school and immediately hit it off, we became super close in the spam of 2 months.When we met each other I was a senior and he was a sophomore. Now I’m a freshman in college and he is a jun... | AITA for not being with my best friend on our 1 year anniversary | NAH |
10ydpfi | For my birthday, I had 6 girls over. 2 didn't stay the night. I had 2 girls over I had never had over before. I liked them a lot but not anymore. So, first off, no one wished me a happy birthday, which I get is a not a big deal I guess, but it was just one thing out of a lot. Second, they are a lot of food and kept ask... | AITA for ignoring my guests on my birthday? | NTA |
10y8bwt | Me (34F) and my ex (35M) have a child (11M). This was a surprise and completely unplanned. We tried to make it work but when our son was about 3 we parted ways. We didn't work as a couple and we made each other miserable. So instead of exposing our young child to daily screaming matches, we decided to separate.I've alw... | AITA for giving up on my son's dad | NTA |
10yc7rp | Me (25m) and my girlfriend (20f) have been together for nearly 2 years and it’s been great.However, her friend Jack(17m) is constantly over at her place meaning me and my girlfriend can’t do anything. He always ridicules me about what I should be doing in the relationship.At first I ignored it since I barely knew her b... | AITA for questioning my girlfriends relationship with her friend | YTA |
10ygmdn | I’ve been stressed/extremely unhappy at my job for several months. The stress isn’t going away and every time I take a day off, my coworkers guilt trip me. The expectations are set so high that I can’t reach them, and my boss blames me for not reaching those expectations. Doesn’t provide me with any support either. I f... | AITA for taking a 50% pay cut to leave a toxic work environment? | NTA |
10ygmbe | I (24) moved in with my grandma (60) from my parents house a few months ago because my work changed locations to her city and it just made sense accommodation wise. She is planning on selling her current house and buying a new one out of the city. She offered me to move in with her, in which we’d split the payments. I ... | AITA for not wanting to move in with my grandmother? | NTA |
10y9vjn | I (28f) am expecting our second child next month. My mom (62) and dad (63) offered to watch my son (16mon) while I deliver and recover from the birth. We live a 12-hour drive away from one another so they’d be staying at my house for the duration of their time here. The issue I’m having is that my mom insists on bringi... | AITA for telling my mom she needs to medicate her dog or he can’t be at my house? | NTA |
10yg7if | I (18f) recently started dating my first girlfriend (16f). We’re both in high school still and have liked each other for years. We were on FaceTime together and were texting almost everyone we knew to tell them the news. She even carried the phone around her house as she told her siblings and parents about us. However,... | AITA for not telling my parents about my relationship? | NTA |
10yg4w0 | I am 25y and my sister is 21y. My sister is battling an eating disorder and she waited MONTHS to finally get accepted Into this specialized program and she is finding the help she needs there. There are alot of rules for the patients. I don't know very many but I do know they are not allowed to leave the ward unless ac... | AITA for not sneaking my sister's vape into the hospital | NTA |
10ya6f1 | So, my guy and I are living together for almost a year. When we first move together, he didn't have a job and I was OK with that.He got a job 2 months ago and I told him that we needed to split bills because he could help us now with some money. I know he's not making as much as me and that I could bear our expenses, b... | AITA for asking my guy to help me pay bills? | NTA |
10yfyih | Hello, I’m 30M and my mother is 60F. To start the story, my family is not financially stable all around. My mother who born in Korea back in 60’s had living in poverty and situations were not better even her adulthood. Even after divorce with my father when I was 13. She did not abandon us and be there for my sister an... | AITA for telling my mother about current financial situation? | NTA |
10y9u3z | So the basic run down of the situation is as follows. I live with my wife, her brother, and his girlfriend. I work 35 to 45 hours a week most weeks, monday to friday in the afternoon into the evening. Typically everyone else stays home to handle housework, up until recently when my brother-in-law's girlfriend got a job... | WIBTA for simply wanting some "me time"? | NTA |
10yflj3 | I (36f) recently had seriously bad dip in my health, that has, unfortunately, resulted on me in hospital on palliative care (doctors even said could be 6 months, may not be able to leave hospital to spend last days at home - DNR to be signed because my heart and lungs are too weak even if I was resected would probably ... | AITA for posting on Facebook begging my Uncle to see my Grandfather | NTA |
10yf0ty | I (19 F, about to be 20) got my license at age 18 during my first year at university. I actually got my license a couple days before my chem final and my grades definitely suffered as a result ( due to all the extra driving practice). I only did the drivers test b/c of all the implied pressure my parents, in particula... | AITA for wanting a car? | YTA |
10yd10l | Hi everyone, my girlfriend is absolutely convinced I'm in the wrong and I was wondering if there was something I was missing?Myself (20F) and my girlfriend Cara (also 20F) went shopping a few days ago - she has an upcoming trip and I need some formal clothes for a job interview coming up. It was getting late and we bar... | AITA for buying the same trousers as my girlfriend? | NTA |
10yheiw | I feel bad. So my brother and I both live with our parents (we’re both in college, he has a break and i have an internship) anyways my bed is right above the Laundry room and the noise is awful. I heard the laundry starting at 12:15am yesterday and went down and turned it off. Then I heard it back on again, I went out ... | AITA for turning off the laundry at 12:30am? | NTA |
10yharr | My, (35f) best friend is currently living with me(30f) and my husband (30M). She recently just got to this city and of course I told her she could live with us, she was going through a financial situation and we covered for her food and expenses for a month while she got herself together and was able to pay for her stu... | AITA for checking my best fiend's phone chats without her knowing? | YTA |
10yctaj | AITA So (24F)Lily got into with a coworker (34?)Priscilla(she a new hire) we work as front desk agent as a hotel my first shift with her I thought she was alright until evening happened she decided to be rude and snarking to me for 2 hrs I will admit I got upset and try to talk with her about it (like hey can you pleas... | AITA for not wanting to work a shift with a coworker? | NTA |
10ygrm2 | my (M15) friend (F17) was on a call with a few friends. Her boyfriend happened to be in the call with us. For privacy reasons we will him, Red. I have been in calls with them before along with my friend, Chad (M14). We are all friends. Today, I realized Red sounded awfully familiar. After a few hours of being on call, ... | AITA for saying my friends boyfriend sounds like Dream. | YTA |
10ye1hk | English is not my first language, sorry for the mistakes.EDIT: I made a mistake. She asked me to take care of them on Saturday two days ago (it's Wednesday rn and I answered today). Some think it's a 3 hour travel. It's not. It's a 1 hour travel.She has borderline personality disorder. I'm trying to find the way to tal... | AITA for not taking care of my sister's cats | NTA |
10ydx3q | I'll try to keep it concise. On mobile. Went to a friend's for a get together. Chatted up with a girl. We ended up hooking up in the basement on the couch.During the dead, when she climaxed she squirted. A lot. All over the couch.The next morning we told the host what happened and they understood, but asked that we pai... | AITA NSFW couch cleaning | NTA |
10ydv4w | I’m at work and my coworker is taking an order on front counter. Part of the order is “Caramel Frappe” which was worded as “Caramel Frappuccino”. [My coworker] hears it as “Caramel Cappuccino”. I read those words sensing something suspicious. I had to step in to confirm whether it was a frappe or a cappuccino. It indee... | AITA for intervening just to be sure I gave my customer what she wanted? | NTA |
10ygdlg | So I'm in a Facebook group for historical information about my hometown. It's awesome to see cool old photos of buildings, stores, schools, etc alongside current photos of the town. I haven't been there in ages, it's awesome to see that stuff.There are folks who post current photos of the city, especially in a juxtapos... | AITA for not wanting a bicycle in every photo? | YTA |
10ybe14 | my younger brother (11) misbehaves and does sneaky thing (stealing soda, snacks, not doing homework etc. he is also diabetic) anyways, my mothers husband (they have only been together 2 years) takes control, shuts my mother down etc and when he does he favorites me and constantly adds me into every conversation and i f... | AITA? mothers husband favorites me over my brother. | NTA |
10yk3pq | This is my first reddit post and I'm on mobile, so I apologize for any mistakes. Like the title says, I told my wife I don't want her or I to drive to my in-laws to visit because they never make any effort to visit us at our home. I've lived with my wife for about 7 years and we've been married 5. We have 4 kids (the o... | AITA for telling my wife I don't want our family driving to my in-laws, if they won't drive to us? | NTA |
10y9p1w | I (f19) live with my parents. I work a full time job so that I will be able to pay for schooling come the fall. Around Christmas, my work gave us dinner from a restaurant and along with that a coupon to the same restaurant. (It was a spend a certain amount and get $10 off coupon)Fast forward, I told my parents that the... | AITA for being upset with my parents? | NTA |
10yde6c | I live in an apartment and my neighbors units and mine are connected through bathroom vents. My neighbor smokes weed in her apartment almost every night and I can smell it in my bathroom and bedroom. I’ve lived here for two years and haven’t said anything but recently her use has gotten very intense and the whole floor... | WIBTA if I reported my apartment neighbor for continued marijuana use | YTA |
10y907v | I have a Dell laptop from 2016/2017. It works perfectly well, except for the battery, which stopped working a couple years ago (now I have to use the computer plugged in). A few months ago, the battery swelled (and messed up my keyboard) so I needed to buy a replacement. Where I live, technology is pretty expensive, an... | WIBTA If I ask to watch an employee work on my computer? | NTA |
10yj4sr | I was taking a online class (masters degree in environmental sciences ) while I was talking to my brother which I haven’t seen in a long time. His gf came by, I started to talk to her and I accidentally muted myself by pressing on my AirPods I think. I talked to her about the class and I told her “ I like the class but... | AITA accidentally unmuted myself on a zoom class and called my professor boring? | YTA |
10ycc7b | recently my girlfriend and i saved up our money to have a tree cut down, with logs being cut to firewood size. her sister's husband calls the tree service (who later called me to make sure i knew who was asking for it) to ask if he could have wood, and I let the guy know to tell him I said "sure you can have SOME of th... | AITA for putting up a sign on my property? | NTA |
10yix4h | Backstory:so I have the “friend” she is quite a new friend to me but we hang out for a bit then one day we went to the toilet stalls in our school bathroom and saw vape packaging. The friend (new) went go tell the teacher on duty on the day and dragged two of my old friends with her to tell the teacher. One day later o... | AITA? My friend thing about my new “friend” | YTA |
10yc4kq | Me and my bf got into an argument about his reaction to me having a nightmare he cheated. There were other issues on other nights that all kind of led to this.Id like to start off by saying, I was not mad at my bf because of the nightmare, it wasnt real and he didnt cheat. I am however hurt by his reaction.We had a nic... | AITA (F25)for being hurt and saying my bf(M30) disrespected me when I told him I had a nightmare he cheated + he asked "what'd she look like" | NTA |
10yeqhu | Sometimes my girlfriend doesn’t want to talk about something right away that’s bothering her, and usually out of the blue brings it up later, so I am usually expecting her to communicate something, and try and see it from her point of view.So we had a good day, I was at work, she was at school, we texted a lot, but whe... | AITA for hanging up on my (21M) girlfriend (18F) | NTA |
10yhzwp | My dad and I work in different cities. He is around 60 and has hypertension, diabetes, etc. I feel so overprotective of my mom that I asked her to stay with me in the city I am working in. My dad is also ok with that arrangement. But now I am worried about his health. | AITA for wanting mom to stay with me away from dad? | NAH |
10ydfv2 | Some backstory - one of my family friends does adult content. Not an issue. My issue was I found out she does very risky exhibitionism. At this point I'm a little iffy - I could be on the background of a porno on my happiest day. Then I keep scrolling and see she does unsolicited exhibitionism with online games. This w... | AITA for not inviting my friends to my wedding to avoid one person? | NTA |
10yhigf | I am a 2nd year university student with 3 friends who are all Mexican. I am not Mexican. I do speak a very good amount of Spanish but because I did not grow up with the culture conversation can be hard for me. My friends are bilingual. Their English is very good as they have been living in the states for several years.... | AITA for thinking my friends are talking ab me in another language? | NTA |
10yh272 | Some background :I (30f) decided the new year I was going to start a vending machine business. The first week of January we acquired our first machine and immediately after we were ready for our 2nd machine. We came across a website that we could easily buy another refurbished machine, so we decided to go ahead and jum... | AITA for cancelling an order the day before it shipped ? | NTA |
10yccit | Mom told me to wash dishes. I haven't been productive yesterday and rejected two social events just to stay at home and do work today. I said I will be using the dishwasher I bought. My mom tells me to wash the dishes with my hands because she doesn't the water and electricity to be wasted. My parents plan on only usin... | AITA for not washing dishes? | ESH |
10ygiuf | I (16 non-binary) have a dad (39 m) that is christian while I am wiccan. A rule in the house is I and my brother (18 m) have to go to church every Wednesday in a previous conversation I have told him I am uncomfortable in going as going makes me feel as Though I man going against the religion. Fast forward to today I a... | AITA for not conforming to my dad’s religion? | NTA |
10yb5xu | My sister (20) recently got into an accident by scraping the side of the car against a tree, and the insurance company deemed it totaled. It used to be my parent's car, but she bought it from them at a discounted price with insurance covered. The car still works, although it has cosmetic defects because of the accident... | AITA for telling my mom not to help my sister buy a car even though she helped me buy one? | YTA |
10yaark | To start this off I have two teddy’s that i am a little attached too, i have grizzly a pug, and pretzel one of those octopuses that can flip inside outI bring them to school every single day (I’m in secondary school) and as you could probably imagine i get bullied because of itI don’t care since I get bullied anyway, t... | AITA for getting mad at my friend for throwing one of my teddy’s down the stairs | NTA |
10y9vnk | Me (16M) and my 3 other friends (17F) have a group for about 6 months. we met at school, as we were newbies and didn't have a lot of people to talk to. All 3 have many childhood traumas from having terrible parents and consider me as a support. A few months ago, two of my friends Ammy and Ashley and I noticed strange b... | AITA for taking me away from my friend? | NTA |
10yeqj6 | I started a new account and since I spent a certain amount of money in the first few months I’m getting $200 back. We are ordering a microwave as the final purchase and my boyfriend is ordering a desk(which he wanted for a while and He will pay for it) we are buying these now because I needed to spend the last amount t... | AITA for wanting my bf to pay for part of the microwave even though I’m getting cash back for my credit card? | YTA |
10ydxgl | Sorry for lousy English since this language is not my native tongue but I’m still keep improving my proficiency. This incident happened yesterday. My friend invited me to an event that gathering all the foreigners with different nationalities for language exchange. So, I agreed to attend and back to my home first for c... | AITA Angry with the way my friend treated me. | NTA |
10yddb0 | About 5 years ago, my parents bought a bulldog. I absolutely love him. Before I went to college, I would always play with him, take him on walks, etc. He grew pretty attached to me, especially when I moved away to college. I would come home on weekends and he'd just go ballistic with excitement. I eventually moved back... | AITA for wanting to rehome my dog? | NTA |
10ydag8 | Dear Reddit folks, I apologize in avance for any grammar mistakes in this as english is my secund lenguage and the predictive text on my Phone corrects everything to my Mother tonge (also Im a rambler). So my GF (33F) and I (26M) have been having some frequent dissagrements lately. As a little of background, we have be... | AITA for beggining to losse my patience with my GF? | NAH |
10yd2iv | I (20Nb) was in my room relaxing with my boyfriend and Hades, when my mom called because she completely forgot she had to take my Mimaw to an oncology appointment. She called and asked me to stay home until my sister Lex (31) got home from work. **My oldest brother Ty(34) is mentally and physically disabled, my mom is ... | AITA for not taking care of my disabled brother after my sister (a pt caretaker) got home | NTA |
10yceog | Hello.I (28) am planning to enter an art competition where a coworker Z (18-19ish?) entered. I need to state that while I do plan to join, it is only because I like competition, plus I want to add more things in my portfolio and making myself more visible. I found out about the competition from their entry posted onlin... | WIBTA if I joined a competition my co-worker needed to win? | NTA |
10ycdrz | I used to be in a friend group of 3 and this group wasn't the most in touch with talking about our feeling. (I know kind of toxic already) we all knew that some of us didn't know how to approach or give advice to each other so we would just keep it to ourselves or talk to our therapists. my one friend got sober and we ... | WIBTA, just flat out am I? | NTA |
10yc87k | Hello AITA!So tonight I (36M) arrived at work, after getting changed and settled down I received a chain of screenshots from my wife (4XF) of text messages between the builder doing a job in our house (details in a bit), I phoned my wife to make sure she was okay (she's very upset) then sent a long message to the build... | AITA Snapped at builder | YTA |
10yc6hx | I’m currently in the interns dormroom, in the middle of my night emergency department shift. I get at most 2h of sleep and my coworker (in the same room) is snoring like a bull and I can’t for the life of me fall asleep. I tried moving around in my bed and the good ol’ « light whistle to make her stop » (doesn’t work).... | WIBTA for waking up my roommate | YWBTA |
10ybx2e | I (21M) love my GF, Keira (20F). We get along quite well, share many hobbies and have fun together and we supported each other in some of the most horrible moments of our lives.We have only one major difference: she is a night animal, I'm not.To me, "being up late" means going to sleep at 2-3AM. To her, being up late m... | AITA for leaving the club night early alone? | NTA |
10y9ci6 | Idk this is something small but I have Reddit open rn so might as well ask a question I’ve been thinking about for a bit:Basically, for the past few years my aunt (actually, two of them have been doing this, but they’re from different sides of the family so it’s not really relevant to group them together) have been giv... | WIBTA if I told my aunt to stop giving me gift cards I don’t like? | NTA |
10yc8n7 | This literally happened today (all fake names for privacy) I'll try and make this short.So me (14m) and "friend" Ally(14f) were in our 6th period I finished my work and wanted to draw I thought it would be funny to draw me, her and our other friends Wade and Jaiden all weird and squiggly after class I showed her and s... | AITA for drawing my "friends" insecurity? | YTA |
10ybfbu | My (34m) wife (31f) believes my parents are racist, which I know for a fact they are not. They have ALWAYS been republican. They voted for Trump because of part loyalty mostly. My wife hates that, but they’re not racist. Just republicans. They know I voted for Biden and they don’t care. My wife is mixed race, but look... | AITA for knowing my parents aren't bad people? | NTA |
10ya40o | Gamer question. So I went to there house and I was completely chill no rudeness and was as friendly as possible. But, some of the people kept on saying that me only playing dedede was annoying them. I didn't wanna switch because I like that character and he is the only one I have experience playing. I don't know how se... | AITA for only playing king dedede in smash ultimate with people I’m acquainted with? | NTA |
10yot8y | My hsuband and I have 2 kids my stepdaughter(F14) and our son(M6)My husband's family and I don't get along. Honestly I think we are all at fault for that. When I first met them I thought they are a bunch of snob assholes so I didn't act very friendly towards them and they are, in fact a bunch of snob assholes so they w... | AITA for not allowing in laws to see my stepdaughter anymore? | YTA |
10yrja3 | There's a small bar in my town I recently started going to. They have trivia night Friday night. I started going a few weeks ago, and after my second week there one of the regulars at trivia told me that trivia was something he had set up with the bar owner and I wasn't welcome. He doesn't work for the bar, so I told h... | AITA for ruining a guy's favorite spot? | NTA |
10yq6s4 | If this post comes off as blunt, I'm not trying to be. I'm just trying to get to the point and keep it as short as I can.My cousin passed in an accident a last week, which is devastating. What's going on now is that me and my fiance have our engagement party coming up soon. My mom is telling us to postpone it because e... | AITA for not postponing my engagement party? | YTA |
10ysqq6 | My kid's class is having a pizza party today and for the last week her teacher has been asking for parents to send in $5 for it. My kid has disordered eating do to mental health issues I won't be getting into. (She is currently in therapy for this and other issues.) So she doesn't like pizza. She will eat bread sticks ... | AITA for not sending money in for my kid's class pizza party? | NTA |
10ytkyh | My husband and I (f48) had good jobs so we got the opportunity to save and buy a house when we got married. Then, as my husband loved to fish, we saved money again to buy a house in a lake near our city. We have two kids Theo (m29) and Lindsey (f26). We used to have family vacations in the lake house quite often as it ... | AITA for selling my house to my son without telling my daughter? | YTA |
10ysgsy | My mom lives in our old house and since my father passed away she expects me to help her take care of it. Not a problem. I have a great job and they paid for my education. If it wasn't for them I wouldn't be where I am. But I am not a handy person. What I have is a group of friends who include several useful trade... | AITA for drawing d**k graffiti around a pothole. | NTA |
10yqnoa | me and two of my best friends are supposedly going to our girls trip in another three months. One of my girlfriends (Sarah) is going to get married this year, so we thought its gon be a nice and cute girls trip only three of us (another one is Tammy) They mean a lot to me and we have been besties since we were kids in ... | AITA for not goin to girls trip bc their partners goin to tag along? | NTA |
10ym281 | Sorry for my english, it’s not my first language.Okay, so me (20F) and my bf (24M) have anniversary 2 weeks after Valentine’s. A few months ago, we decided to just chill at home on Valentine’s and on the day of our anniversary visit a famous burger restaurant nearby, we haven’t been there yet because it’s expensive and... | AITA for refusing to spend Valentine’s with my friend who’s after a breakup and telling her I’m not responsible for her relationship? | NTA |
10ytanq | We're separated and share custody. Every year around his birthday, he gets his "medical maintenance" like dental exams, physicals, shots. He's turning 9 and my ex said she'd schedule his physical. For stuff like that, I usually take him because obviously he does not want his mom in the room when he has to pull his pant... | AITA for canceling a doctor's appointment that my son's mom made for him? | NTA |
10ykdfp | So me and my partner have been together for around a year and a half, and of course she’s getting antsy about marriage and kids.A long time ago her dad mentioned to her that if we were to get married, he’d put in £4000 towards it. Holy shit that’s amazing.This got us budgeting and we decided we could both take out a £7... | AITA for wanting to split her dads wedding money? | NTA |
10yp5x5 | My husband's older sister has two daughters with her ex-husband. SIL named the oldest, while her ex-husband named the youngest. The oldest has never been fond of her name and has outright hated it since she turned 6. She went by a nickname her grandmother used for a couple of years but then outside the family, with the... | AITA for telling my niece she can always change her name in the future? | NTA |
10yqgx3 | So 40 years ago my mother in law used to occasionally clean houses for people for a little extra cash. Two years ago when my daughter was a newborn (around 2 months old) my husband and I decided to move 5 hours away from where we were living at the time. Keep in mind, I was a first time mom to a newborn, my husband was... | WIBTA if I declined my MIL’s “big baby gift”? | NTA |
10ypykx | For context my partners sister can’t have kids, so they have to inject her with eggs and so on. This cost around 10.000 dollars to do in my country. Now this is a lot of money. Here were we live we have like two free try before it costs money. They succeeded the first time and now have a child who is 1years old. They n... | AITA for not giving my partners sister money? | NTA |
10yryep | I (29M) am an individual on the spectrum, and am very firmly an introvert. I have a limited tolerance for socializing, and once that limit is hit, I like to be by myself. My mother (61F) and I...don't see eye to eye. She has very opiniated views of what a fulfilling life should look like, and tries to impress them on m... | AITA for telling my mother to go be sorry for me somewhere else? | NTA |
10yrrn5 | So I'm out of work atm and having a hard time, my dad asked me if I wanted to give him a hand with a couple of jobs (he's an engineer) I say yeah that would be great and he picks me up in the morning to go to the job. On the way he picks up his mate (we will call him Phil for now). So I've known Phil all my life he's b... | AITA for asking my dad to defend me from his creepy friend? | NTA |
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