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10yyf24 | I (31M) recently made a new friend (29F). We met 5 months ago at a birdwatching festival, and had very similar interests and careers, so we became friends. FYI, this is completely platonic and my wife is very friendly with her as well.Me and my new friend often text each other about work and hobbies, and she drops by o... | AITA for limiting my interactions with a new friend, who during our monthly catch-up, ran into her friends and immediately decided to hang out with them instead? | YTA |
10yy2kq | It's a longish story. The basics are that she divorced my extremely abusive father about 23 years ago and immediately got picked up by her current husband who has systematically gotten her to hate her entire extended family over a very long period of time. She has 6 brothers and sisters. He has always tried to peck awa... | AITA I was blocked by my own mother | NTA |
10yxhrm | I 32F used to live with my sister and her family in the same house for many years. We agreed to split the Bills. She had no job and only relies on her husband's salary to support her and her kids. I am older, single and have an steady job so most of the time I pay for more than I owe and it's okay until I realized that... | AITA for not wanting to be in the same workplace with my sister? | NTA |
10yzoum | There’s a grocery store that I sometimes go to that offers garage parking (but no surface parking). To get to the garage, you have to first turn in to a narrow drive.Without fail, there is always at least one, and usually multiple cars parked in the Fire Lane (where there are multiple signs that say No Parking or Stand... | AITA for yelling at someone who parked in the Fire Lane? | NTA |
10yz5jk | So, a Little background. I am Ukrainian, and of course, the first thing when you think of when you hear it - war. I live in suburbs near a big city, where my brother and dad lives. I live with my mom, my brother is renting an apartment with his friend, my dad is working in the city, living at work, going home only at w... | AITA for not supporting my mom during a mental breakdown? | NAH |
10yyqig | I (F21) have a group of friends, including my best friend, R(F22). This group of friends and I go to a comic-con whenever it's there, with an exception to last con, in November 2022, because three of us couldn't afford it. But we were all planning on the next con, which is happening this April. ​3 days ago, ... | AITA for buying comic-con tickets for my friends? | YTA |
10ywfro | Before I begin... I apologize if there are any mistakes, English is not my first language.I (26F) Moved out of my parents house a year ago bc my fiancé (26M) and I got an apartment together. We still live in the same city so we visit at least once a month to both my and his parents. Ever since I moved out my brother (2... | AITA for asking my brother to choose me over his friends? | YTA |
10ywckj | I have a friend from highschool that I've known for about 20 years. We're great buddies. When we were in high school, he always talked about owning one of those legacy arcade box machines for his favorite game, Marvel vs Capcom 2. It because a talking point here and there the last ten years or so. By luck, the company ... | AITA For Confronting a friend about not using an expensive gift? | YTA |
10yyh5z | My husband (39M) and I (40F) have a 3-year-old son. We both work full-time so our son is in daycare during the week. Like any toddler in daycare, he gets sick, especially this time of year. My husband and I try to rotate who stays home with him when he's sick, but my job tends to be more strict schedule-wise and the... | AITA For not waking my husband up in the morning after our son was sick | NTA |
10yybvm | Background: I \[26F\] live with 4 other girls \[24-26F\]. We have been living together for nearly 2 years. We have had our disagreements but I was involved in nothing major with any of them. Kate, our landlady's daughter, occupies one of the rooms but mostly lives with her parents in a bigger house, which is 5 minutes ... | AITA for telling my housemate to not blame me for the broken washing machine and to zip it? | NTA |
10yy909 | I was talking with my sister, and I told her I hate working, and If I could I would never work another day in my life, I would rather be bored sitting at home. She called me entitled for saying it and started crying because she was so stressed from work that she had to do to keep her house and etc. I go to school full-... | AITA for saying that I don't want to work | NTA |
10yy3a6 | So help me, God. I never thought I'd have to post here. Throwaway because he knows my Reddit and I don't want him to see this.My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Two months ago, he started jokingly calling me "Queen", and over time it's escalated to the point where he constantly refers to me as "Queen." F... | AITA for getting upset when my boyfriend (23M) CONSTANTLY refers to me as Queen (26F)? | NTA |
10yxt12 | I (F25)have been with my boyfriend (M33) for 3+ years and has met my daughter and loves her very much. I have solo custody of her (F6). She treats my boyfriend with respect and adores him. Last night he visited for dinner and he slept over, which we do at least once a week. We stayed up quite late such that I'd only sl... | AITA for taking a 2hr nap when my boyfriend was visiting? | NTA |
10yxlos | Oh you're going to like this one:So yesterday was my aunts birthday and she had a big do like she normally does, I obviously love to go and visit my aunt. I went with my family and a family friend who are rightfully bad but my uncle, my aunts husband, is possibly the worst person I've ever met.We often butt heads over ... | AITA For "ruining" a birthday? | YTA |
10z0gfa | Every year my family has a tradition of going up North to our shared cottage with my extended family. My great aunt makes an amazing strawberry rhubarb jam. It’s unlike no other I’ve ever had. No store bought jam can even compare to this, that’s how good it is. But I only get it when I go up north, once a year. For my ... | AITA for giving the silent treatment to my parents over jam? | NTA |
10yx80x | Please forgive my mistakes, its my first post and english isn't my first language.I (29f) have a difficult relationchip with my mum. She is an alcoholic since I can remember, that includes mentally and phisically abusing me and my dad in her "worst-mood-phases" ( 2-3h a day till she has fallen asleep on the couch) most... | WIBTA for not caring for my ill mum | NTA |
10z0e31 | I 20f have been with my bf 23m for 2 years. We have talked about our life goals, kids, marriage etc and we're compatible, except for one thing.When we first got together my boyfriend said I would be waiting until at least 2023-2024 for an engagement, which at the time I thought I was fine with. Now after we've been tog... | AITA for buying a ring for my ring finger after my bf said I would have to wait 2 years for a proposal? | YTA |
10yztfb | For background, my husband (47M) and I (45F) have five kids between us. My two (16F and 13 M) live with us full time. One of his (17F) lives with her mom and we get her every other weekend. His other two (23 F and 25M) are grown and live on their own. My daughter recently had a birthday. As usual, we had one party with... | AITA for not giving all kids the same birthday experience? | NTA |
10yzna4 | So my partner and I separated recently and we have been trying to do shared custody of the dog we got together. My partner was the one that signed her up for pet insurance and had the adoption papers under her name but the day to day stuff (walking, training,…etc) was the majority my responsibility. My ex partner rec... | AITA for wanting sole custody of my dog? | NTA |
10yzg7r | So I (25f) came from a rough up bringing, both my mom and step father are addicts, so I stepped up even as a kid to take care of the younger ones. Most of my little siblings still to this day accidentally call me mom. I was particularly closer with my little sister (E). Well E (16f) recently moved in with our oldest ... | AITA for trying to get my younger sibling to keep in touch? | NAH |
10yz9iu | So recently my girlfriend (21F) and I (25M) got new jobs, but our working times were directly opposite of each other. She works from 8am-6pm and I work from 4pm-1am. This has put quite a strain on our relationship as we live around an hour away from each other. Additionally, while she gets the weekends off, I only get ... | AITA for asking my girlfriend to leave some time aside for me? | NTA |
10yz4og | My roommates (both F, 20s) love my cat and gladly watch him once a month for me (F, 20s). They've rejected my compensation, and just genuinely like spending time with him. However, I inevitably worry when I go out of town every month considering neither of them have ever had a cat. He's a low maintenance cat but I can'... | AITA for worrying about my roommates watching my cat? | NTA |
10yytmu | My classmate was checking our math test when I noticed some mistakes in his checking. He just told me to recheck it myself. Two of the papers that got their scores deducted were my close friends. My male friend got 1 point deducted, and he got 19 out of 20, while my female friend got 2 points deducted and got 18 out of... | AITA for not considering my friend's score when I was helping our classmate check our tests. | NTA |
10yvpst | Me and my partner have been living together for over two years now. I have ADHD and thus barely manage to do any housework and my partner struggles to keep our apartment tidy and clean as well, so it has always been pretty messy at our home. Most of the time I don't care much about the stacks of dirty dishes, the empty... | AITA for yelling at my partner because dinner isn't cooked and the apartment isn't cleaned when I come home from work? | YTA |
10yygnx | This happened a few weeks ago when we got a new sst teacher . She was a very sweet and innocent teacher who always helped us .She did not have good English pronunciation as she was from a rural region. She was made fun of because of it .It became so bad the she had several emotional breakdowns during the class . She ... | AITA for allowing my classmates to force a teacher into quitting ? | YTA |
10yyf8r | To start, we practice ethical non-monogamy. I'm not sure if I need to explain that here, but just know, that just because we see other people doesn't mean that we don't have rules and expectations. The other day, I found out my gf was invited to go hottubbing with someone. Usually we do things together, so it was odd ... | AITAH for asking my girlfriend about a hottub? | NTA |
10z0pg8 | I think I know I’m going to report her but I want to get some other people’s opinions. So my friend is going through a really rough time at the moment. I don’t think there’s any one specific reason why but more just a multitude of reasons. Every time she walks into the room, she’s either sad or angry about something. E... | WIBTA for reporting my friend to the uni | NTA |
10z0o50 | So quick backgrounds me(33M), my boyfriend (32M), he is a local Asian man. Me a caucasian male from Western country and we live in a reasonably English Asian state. We have been dating for about 6 months, but lately I have said I no longer want to spend time with his friends.:Reason being that when we end up spending ... | AITA for not wanting to spend time with BF's friends | NTA |
10z0kkg | I am recovering from an injury sustained in a bike accident. My wife and I had planned to do a big (for her) ride together last year (London to Brighton) but I had to miss it due to surgery. She did it herself and did well (sub 4hrs). We have re-entered again this year and the plan was to do it together, but it is clea... | AITA for wanting to ride at a different pace to my wife? | YTA |
10z0djt | My younger brother (20) and I are “roommates”About 1 year ago, him and his GF broke up which was weird but I was happy cuz she was kinda annoying We moved into our apartment during their break upIt was the 1st or 2nd week in the apartment when she shows up at 2am trying to open the front door and then banging on the wi... | AITA for not allowing brother’s girlfriend to come over? | YTA |
10z0d7h | My friend (29F) says that I (29M) can’t fetishize gay men and aren’t an interloper in MLM spaces because I am a gay man. I had a stint of writing M/M fanfiction even before I came out as a man and should not have done that because I thought I was a cishet woman at the time. Past Me did fetishize and sexualize gay men/M... | AITA for fetishizing gay men? | NTA |
10z091w | Forgive the format I'm writing from my phone and also English is not my first language. So for a little background, my(22F) cousin(23M) made plans to get away with our partners one weekend where we split the costs equally so as to be able to afford it. For accommodation we decided on a self catering place and to confir... | AITA FOR MAKING MY COUSIN PAY ME BACK THE MONEY I SPENT | YTA |
10yzx44 | Throwaway account. I (25F) will be attending my friend Sarah's (26F) bachelorette party soon. We met in uni years ago, but are not very close. Still, I believe I know her and her temperament quite well after spending time with each other daily for those 3 years. She's comfortable around people she knows well, but is no... | WIBTA if I told my friend about the surprise stripper at her bachelorette party? | NTA |
10yz01n | I have two roommates, A and B. We have a 3 bed 2 bath apartment, and B has their own bathroom while A and I share one. A and I have both had girlfriends for 3-4 months respectively. Our rent recently went up $200 as we are on a month-to-month contract until we find housing. We play a flat rate per month on water and W... | WIBTA if I asked my roommate to have their GF start paying rent? | NTA |
10yylxr | I (19F) have two friends Mia 18F and Jessica 22F. I wasn't able to contact them for a while since I was very ill, I let them know that I would not be communicating much due to the fact that is just not possible for me plus I had a lot else happening irl. I only communicated with them online since they moved away but I ... | WIBTA if I confronted my friends? | NTA |
10yyint | We had a group project to do for uni and I naturally ended up taking the lead. I had done most of the research and left the final compilation to the rest of the group. We had several group meetings where we discussed ideas and decided on a plan. The day before the due date, my best friend told me she didn't agree with ... | AITA for leaving the WhatsApp group? | NTA |
10yy188 | I'm thinking of an April's Fools joke where I switch my partner's stuff in her office with child play stuff (fake laptop, kid's chair, fake keyboard) and putting fake food and utensils out at breakfast?I would put it in front of her actual laptops and have real food ready too. I am not looking to imply she is childish.... | WIBTA if I replaced all my partner's stuff with child play items? | INFO |
10yx7mg | AITA for wanting to rehome the cats in our house?My family recently moved into a new town as we got lucky enough to secure a decent but cheap house. The last owners obviously fed the stray cats in our neighborhood as I was greeted by a small colony of them after moving in. At that point, we had 2 cats ourselves (stric... | AITA for wanting to rehome the cats in our house? | NTA |
10ywu22 | I met my online friend 8 years ago. We have been very close and over the years I caught feelings for him, and initially, he felt the same. We had a strong relationship and talked everyday. However, I happened to start lying about personal things I didn't wanna share with him. He caught my lies and gave me another chanc... | AITA for faking things to keep talking to my online friend? | ESH |
10z2fod | I (24M) and my wife recently had our 5 year anniversary. We had planned to go to a nice restaurant, then ride In a hot airballon and then go to a lake and relax. I was going to buy her flowers and all.Then out of the blue, one day before my anniversary, I get a text from my mom demanding me to babysit my sister for a w... | AITA for wanting to spend time with ny wife, instead of babysitting my little sister? | NTA |
10z39dl | I (M30s) live with my wife (F30s). We both work full-time jobs and have three kids, ages 3, 6 and 7.I used to work from home with flexible hours but I've been offered a promotion which requires me to go to work in person. The pay increase is really significant so my wife and I agreed I should take the promotion and hir... | AITA for arguing with my wife and refusing to fire the nanny? | ESH |
10z13sj | This happened during December. So basically, I, 55F have 4 children, William 25M, Alexa 16F and Gabriel 14M. My daughter has autism which means she can get a bit moody seometimes. For example, she broke my son's laptop when he did not share the laptop he got for Christmas. My adult son is a stem major and is pretty wea... | AITA for wanting to keep the peace. | YTA |
10z274l | Me (29F) and my fiancé (30M) are getting married this coming December, two years to the day after we got engaged. We are having a very small wedding (50 people) and majority of the guests are friends as we only have three family members from each side attending. Or so I thought...Since we got engaged a year and almost ... | AITA for wanting to cancel our wedding? | YTA |
10z20cb | To preface this I’m (21M) a soldier and currently doing long distance with my fiancé (20F) who is in college in our hometown. My fiancé and I were discussing our marriage timeline and when we could do it and I mentioned the army has programs to help with moving costs which i thought was cool! Well she said she doesn’t ... | AITA for telling my fiancé I won’t live apart for 2 years? | NAH |
10z1vdp | Obligatied this happened last night right before midnight. I'm 19F.I instructed my driver to leave my order outside of the dorm building on the wall by the entrance doors. It was less than a minute when she finished delivering it and to the point I was down on the first floor outside looking for my order. It was gone b... | AITA for asking the front desk of my college to give me my Uber Eats order? | NTA |
10z1g1i | My (19F) brother (22M) is dating this girl (23F) who resembles a lot our mom (47F). They both have the same hair and eye colour, around the same height and even similar interests such as cooking, yoga and even favourite TV shows. She could easily pass off as our mom's daughter (heck, probably even better than me) and t... | AITA for being creeped out by how similar my mom and brother's gf are ? | YTA |
10z4o8v | First world problems alert. Our daughter recently turned 16. For her birthday, she was getting a vehicle. She had been learning to drive with my 2010 Nissan Titan while she held her permit. I was gifting her the truck, it was twofold actually. I had been wanting to get a Silverado, she needed a vehicle. The day before ... | AITA? I gave my daughter a McDonald’s application when she was behaving like a brat. | NTA |
10z4r9d | At my condo my boyfriend and I have two assigned parking spots. One under cover and one out in the open. The one under cover has a charging station for an electric car. Until recently neither of us had an electric car. I however have a beat to hell Jeep Wrangler that I love. We use it for going almost everywhere.... | AITA for "parking like an asshole" | NTA |
10z47ni | So where I work, there has been a homeless couple living in a car in our parking lot for several months. The car doesn't belong to them, had a smashed in window, and was from out-of-state. We never bothered them, until over the course of a few weeks, they came in, drank hand sanitizer, and started asking customers for ... | AITA for towing a homeless person's "borrowed" car? | NTA |
10z263r | So to add to context, my ex and I are on the other side of a 13 year relationship which ended with a 5 year restraining order where he nor anyone on his behalf can contact me, or reference me in anything on any social media platform, he cannot come near me or reside in any community near me. The only contact that can b... | AITA for not encouraging kids to see their dad? | NTA |
10z3wog | A few friends and I have been meeting up after work once a week on Fridays to play Dungeons and Dragons (DnD) for the past 3 months (though we took a break over Christmas and new years, and have skipped an additional week here and there). I have a wife who is a stay at home mom taking care of our one and a half year ol... | AITA for going out to play Dungeons and Dragons with friends while leaving my wife and daughter at home? | NTA |
10z38fv | 2 weeks ago, my best friend and his fiancé got into an argument where the phrase, “the wedding is off” was thrown around, so he messaged his side of the party to inform us that there wasn’t going to be a wedding. Secretly released, I told him if he needed anything I would help and support him. Later in the week, I call... | AITA for not wanting to go to my best friends wedding? | NTA |
10z099m | Let's get the context out of the way. I am several years into sobriety from opiates and have also not had a drink in many years. I choose not to drink because of many years observing my parents relationship with alcohol. I, who am not an expert by any means, would consider them both to be highly functional alcoholics. ... | AITA for asking my parents not to serve booze at my kids bday party? | NTA |
10z214d | **Sorry for the bad english**My boyfriend (26M) and I (24F) have been dating for about eight months and we have connected quite well. He has a fairly well-paying job but he lives with his parents, so he doesn't mind spending his money on things for me. I always allowed them to be only romantic details or dates, since a... | AITA for denying gifts from my boyfriend if they have conditions? | NTA |
10z0jrp | **TL;DR** at bottom.GF \[F30\] has never liked the relationship I \[M30\] have with my best friend \[F27\] let's call her Luna, she has never done anything to my GF but she swears it's because I trust her so much, from the beginning of the relationship with GF Luna knew the situation and she came to me saying "I know y... | AITA not asking an extra invitation for my SO for the wedding of my best friend? | NTA |
10z3k5a | First off I wanna apologize if there’s any mistakes, english is not my first language.So I (25F) was supposed to go to my friend’s (24M) birthday weekend getaway last weekend.The week prior to this getaway I traveled to see my dad and my grandparents out of the city to the countryside and my original plan was to comeba... | AITA for not attending a friend’s birthday weekend? | NTA |
10z1qbu | My (32F) nephew just turned 1 and I helped my sister (32F) and brother in law (32M) plan and host the party at their place. We have some friends in common and they were invited to attend. One of these mutual friends, Sally (32F), has not been a good friend to me through some pretty shitty things, violated boundaries, b... | AITA for avoiding a friend at a child's birthday party | NTA |
10z2cdl | Me and my old man fancied going down the pub after work. We’re both tradesmen and graft our asses off at our jobs, plus I hadn’t seen my dad in 2 weeks or so since I live with mates.My sister and her fiancé usually come down the pub with us as they live with my parents, and we enjoy their company don’t get me wrong. Th... | AITA for not inviting my sister and fiancé to the pub? | NTA |
10z2axe | My boyfriend has had a hard life. An abusive childhood and trials and tribulations has contributed to him having a drinking problem. Once he starts drinking he is unable to stop. Admittedly, I’ve had a much cushier life. Family that I know would do anything for me and an easy upbringing. I’ve never struggled with addic... | AITA for being mad my [32 F] boyfriend [38 M] for hanging out with a [43 F] behind my back? | NTA |
10z39l5 | My sister in law has 2 kids a 3 year old boy and a 6 year old girl. Since my sister in law works 50 hours a week, my mother in law (58f) watches the kids. I (21F) watch the toddler at their house while the girl is at school sometimes to give my mother in law a break, today was one of those days.While watching the toddl... | AITA for putting my mother in law in her place for being a hypocrite after we got locked out of her house? | NTA |
10z4c16 | I, 37F, have been living with my boyfriend 40M, for 5 months now. He openly admits that he’s a bit grotty sometimes. He told me openly on one of our early dates that he’s ‘tidy, but dirty’ - he can’t be bothered with cleaning and sanitising, but likes things to look ‘in place’. I laughed and said we were a good match a... | AITA for asking my boyfriend to wash his hands after using the bathroom? | NTA |
10z2162 | Gonna try to keep it simple, my dad's side of the family are not close. He wasn't there much when i(37M) was a kid and none of them really reached out to me when i was growing up. I spent several months in foster care because my mom left me with my maternal grandmother, who ended up becoming to sick to care for me for... | AITA for not attending my aunt's funeral? | NTA |
10z1es8 | My husband (39M) and I (36F) have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids (9, 7, & 5). As you can imagine, with 3 kids it can be incredibly hard for my husband and I to get away and have extended personal time. I like to think we do a good job of giving each other small amounts of alone time when it's needed, b... | WIBTA For taking another trip before my husband has a chance to take some time away | YWBTA |
10z4wgf | So yesterday my boyfriend (39M) nags me for 5 hours while I’m (34F) working about how we need to make the punishments for our kids fair. His daughter throws massive fits about not going to school and ends up late. My son stole a Lego sword from her and tried to trade it with his friend. Both kids are in the wrong yes. ... | AITA: Boyfriend does mushrooms late at night while I’m pregnant taking care of the kids | NTA |
10z3f21 | Hi People! I need some opinions on this. I don’t think I’m in the wrong, but no one I’m this thread ever does right 😂So my (31F) sister (37) has a car she loves more than people (not kidding). Every other month she gets it detailed inside and out. This is a mobile service and the guy just requires a driveway and power... | AITA for being annoyed at my sister for not giving me notice of her plans? | ESH |
10z3cqp | I (17M) and my friend (18M) have been friends for over 2 years now. Recently, my friend has been complaining to me and our other friend about his social anxiety, shyness, and being anti-social. Whenever he messages us feeling anxious, we try to comfort him or try to take his mind off of it.A few hours ago, he said, "I ... | AITA my friend complains about having social anxiety but never takes his meds, AITA for bringing it up? | NTA |
10z4kof | About 10 years ago my(35f) parents(66/67) were experiencing housing instability, so with the help of my husband(40m) we bought them a house. The conditions were they would pay rent in the amount of the mortgage. I bought at a really good time and the payments were significantly lower than rent prices. They kept up on r... | WIBTA if I sold the home my mom and I both live in? | NTA |
10z1oz7 | I'm selling a phone on Facebook marketplace and many people messaged me. One person offered a deposit, so I gladly accepted it. They have since changed their mind and want their money back. They wasted my time from finding a legit buyer, so I feel like keeping the deposit is fair compensation. | AITA for keeping the deposit? | NTA |
10z53bn | My (28) girlfriend (26) is on a long weekend girls trip in a popular night-time town. Last night was the first night she was there, so I was expecting some crazy story when I woke up this morning.I woke up this morning with a text from her at 6AM saying “Just getting into bed! What a crazy night…..”, which had me looki... | AITA for being uncomfortable about my girlfriend being at a celebrities house | YTA |
10z1wp7 | I think this entire situation was mostly miscommunication, but I wanted to ask someone impartial.This Sunday, My older sibling -who had been staying the weekend with their partner- called me around 11 pm to ask about my mom’s whereabouts, since she didn’t pick up. My Ma recently joined a hiking group, and a few hours b... | AITA for telling my sibling to “call home in case of emergencies”?? | NAH |
10z4grj | My wife and I have been together over 8 years, been married for less than 1 year.In 2018 she confessed to cheating on me with a coworker, expressed her feelings on how she felt and why she had to confess, and moved to another job within the same month of telling me.This has affected our relationship, mainly me. I knew ... | AITA for telling my wife who cheated once to not have male coworkers on her social media? | NTA |
10z4j9h | I own a business (95%) with my business partner (5%). We are opening a second location, and he has taken lead on painting/frontage. We’ve both been putting in a lot of work to open it, but I trust him very much and he pitched an idea for how the second location should look (outwardly) and I said it sounds great, go f... | AITA for “going around” my business partner? | YTA |
10z4902 | I currently have 2 job offers. Job 1 is a fairly decent job with a fairly decent salary in line with current market rates, but they want me to start late spring/early summer. The other (Job 2) isn’t as good - they’re offering less than market rate for the position and are unwilling to budge at all despite me showing th... | WIBTA for accepting a job that I know I will quit in 3 months? | NTA |
10z44qf | For context, my partner and I live an hour apart so we don’t get to see each other often. Today I asked my partner to do something special for me for Valentines. I said I don’t want anything specific I just want him to do something nice for me and he suggested a picnic. Thing is, I have a concert the night of Valentine... | AITA for asking my partner to adjust our Valentines day plans? | YTA |
10z1n60 | So my friend and I were at a tennis court at a small park playing when he stops and tells me he has to go for a whizz. I'm used to this since he has a small bladder and in the past at other courts that were not in the middle of a park he would just go in the bushes to the side which wasn't a big deal. However at this l... | AITA for getting angry at my friend for trying to take a piss in public | NTA |
10z3xe6 | So I’ve made friends with the new kid recently and she’s really kind. Her English isn’t really good since she recently only moved to the UK but she’s one of the funniest people I know. I’ve also recently joined a new friendgroup willingly after they’d asked me to since I didnt have a set group of people to hang with du... | AITA for lashing out on a girl in my school | NTA |
10z3hfr | Me(30F) and my husband(30M) live on one continent and the rest of our main group of friends live on another continent:\- Jane(30F) and Tom(32M) in country A\- Amy(28F) and Jack(31M) in country B ​Me and my husband went to visit them. We agreed that we would go to Country A first, meet with Jane and Tom and t... | AITA for telling a friend I didn't want to spend time with her friends? | NTA |
10z534d | Am I the asshole when I didn’t give my sister $200 to borrow? For context I’m an high schooler and I don’t have a lot of money, but I have enough to give $200. She asked to borrow $200 and I asked her what she needed it for and she didn’t respond well saying “did I need a contract.” She said I was horrible and didn’t w... | AITA for not giving $200 to my sister even though she said she would give it back later? | NTA |
10z52cf | I 25f have a 14 month old daughter. My husband and I work during the day so she goes to daycare. She has two teachers through out the day. One comes in early and leaves at 4, the other is there from 4-630(pick up)My daughter recently got a new 4-6 teacher. She’s rather young, pretty sure she’s a teenager. My daughter h... | AITA for yelling at a daycare worker? | YTA |
10z4xux | I live in an area where there is a daycare a few blocks away. Every morning myself and others have to pass by the backstreet of this daycare to go to work. Here is the kicker, all of the moms and dads are using the backstreet to park their cars and taking their kids to daycare (because it’s faster and more convenient) ... | WIBTA for snitching on the moms at daycare? | NTA |
10z4wup | AITA for calling out my mom? She and I had a massive argument about a few things. My mother (61f) and I (32m) have been butting heads for years.She is racist towards most races aside from hers and HATES my race. My father was (rip dad) Indian. And Sri Lankan. I remember asking my mom when I was a kid what race he was c... | AITA FOR CALLING OUT MY MOTHER FOR HER MESSED UP COMMENTS AND WAYS OF THINKING? | NTA |
10z4kf0 | For background: I’m renting a mobile home that was manufactured in the late 70’s and has had almost no updates done. most everything is original and honestly ran down looking. But with rent being so high where we live it’s all we could afford and still pay 1300 + utilities each month. The cabinets in the kitchen are or... | AITA for misleading my landlord | YTA |
10z4dcf | So I, 17F, recently made the decision to switch to a meat restricted type diet for ethical reasons. The thought came to me while being hungover and unable to stomach bacon. IMO meat doesn't taste good. It's the seasonings, sauce, fat, and oil that makes it taste good. And then, after watching the Dominion documentary o... | AITA for refusing to eat the dinner my mom cooked last night after telling her I'm switching to a different diet? | NTA |
10z48ww | I am a freshman in college, and I live in a triple room with two other guys we’ll call Joe and Sam. They’re both freshmen; only a bus ride away from their homes; able-bodied/minded; from decently affluent families. Me, on the other hand, am across the country from everyone I know (PA->WA); disabled physically (MS); ... | AITA for asking my RA to switch rooms? | NTA |
10z418h | my(24F) fiancée(24F) has really only seen the planning process of one wedding, that being her older sister's, almost a decade ago. She was a bridesmaid in that wedding, and from what she tells me, everything about that day was perfect.Now, l'Il admit, I’m not particular about anything when it comes to wedding stuff, be... | AITA for not wanting to redo my SIL’s wedding? | NTA |
10z3rpm | I'm 18, but still in high school. Overall I think my parents are okay, I'm kind of a problem child and there's some major issues and resentments but I know they do their best given that my mom was raised under even stricter conditions. Since I might show this to my parents, I'll try my best to show my mom's point of vi... | AITA for not wanting to pay back the money my parents let me "borrow"? | NTA |
10z3euy | My father had custody of me for about three years in high-school since my mom gave hers up for some complicated reasons I don't want to get into. Apart from that I have rarely heard from him. Since I moved out for college he's mostly been NC with me, hasn't helped me out at all. Last year when I graduated with my bache... | AITA for asking my (mostly absent) father to do something I enjoy for graduation instead of walking/what he wants? | NTA |
10z2nu8 | I don't think I'm the asshole, but the owner and one of my employees seem to think so, so I figured I would ask! I am also autistic, so maybe the context just doesn't make sense to me. So for some context before we begin, I, (23 NB) am an assistant manager at a hotel. I have an employee who has been giving me some trou... | AITA for not sharing information about myself at work? | NTA |
10z275i | My timing offended her as she had just asked me to wash something of mine so that she could use it later (dishes usually all get washed after dinner). While I agreed to wash the item she requested, I thought it was a good time to once again ask her to stop leaving her dishes in the sink and to put them in the dishwash... | AITA for asking my adult daughter to put her plates in the dishwasher? | NTA |
10z24va | backstory, I have a lifelong friend (M14) call him A, A is one of my friends that I’ve known for the longest and we are really close, we met through my brother who is basically my best friend (M14) and we all hang out ever since we first met. Now I’m a girl 13F and so occasionally they like to make sexist jokes about m... | AITA for getting mad at my friends for making sexist remarks | NTA |
10z1t5u | **To Preface a little bit:** We moved out back in November 2020, a rental with 2 roommates + my GF&I. We lived there for half of 2021, as they raised our rent from $1900 to $2300. Long story, but ultimately we couldn't justify that rent increase and moved in with my GF's parents. **This was a mistake.**Since moving... | AITA for denying my in-laws ask of house sitting while the whole family vacations | INFO |
10z1k5f | My (25f) twin sister (25f) and I live near eachother in our city. Our family always has a Superbowl get together each year at our parents. This year, my sister was able to get free tickets to our city's NBA team and it landed on Superbowl. She can make both as the basketball game is earlier, but it would be a bit hecti... | AITA for not wanting to drive my roommates car? | NTA |
10z1e73 | I will be the first to admit I have it good: a good paying job out of school, I can occasionally work from home, and I don’t have to pay any rent because my grandma lets me stay here for free. I can’t even lie that I probably take it for granted a bit.But good lord, it’s like every time my grandmother speaks to me it’... | AITA for not running errands for my grandma as soon as she wants them done? | NTA |
10z16lu | Before school I was getting ready but my sister came to ask me for a hoodie since she wanted one even though she has a few sweatshirts. I gave her this grey one out of my closet and said that it was good enough and I drove her to school with me. But in the middle of the day my phone is getting blown up by my sister who... | AITA for not giving my sister my hoodie | NTA |
10z5ieg | Background: my family has always been well-off. And by that, I mean like we would take family vacations two to three times per year. It's still like that now, but I've noticed a difference in how my family acts now that my (F27) wife (F24) and I are married. About three weeks ago, my dad booked a trip to Italy. Everyon... | AITA for going on a vacation with my wife's family instead of my own? | NTA |
10z5fky | I (21F) and my boyfriend (26M) were having a conversation about marriage and he said it's easy for women coz all they do after getting married is enjoy and you might say women give birth which is painful but technology has made everything easy you get a c-section done and you're good to go, painless delivery. We've bee... | AITA for screaming at my boyfriend because he said all women do is enjoy | NTA |
10z5e5o | I have plans to see a lady tonight. This convo follows after I send her a pic of me in the shower as I was looking forward to seeing her.Her: Will you shower with me later?Me: Again?.. you can shower here at my place or at home before I pick you up if you’d like?Her: angry face. Fine nevermind Me: sorry, it’s a funny t... | AITA? Need another perspective. | NTA |
10z5cah | I (15f) have a boyfriend (14M) who has a female friend (14F) that has been getting very close to him for some time. I want to ask my boyfriend to drop this friend for the following reasons:- She flirtatiously touches his arm when joking with him- They both did VERY inappropriate head motions to each other- One close fr... | AITA for making my boyfriend drop a friend? | YTA |
10z5adm | Every Friday night, a group of friends and I get together for movie night. It's always been something I look forward to, except for recently. There's a new person attending (new to me....not to my other friends) that rubs me the wrong way, let's call him Bob.I've been informed Bob has extreme social anxiety issues. Whe... | AITA for not attending movie night due to the guest list? | NTA |
10z58fe | I (16,M) am a bit of a picky eater. I just hate pretty much all fruits except oranges. I don't like meat or chicken but I do like vegetables and eggs. Most of the time, my mom makes food which has chicken or meat in it so I decide not to eat. I also don't really feel like having rice or soup sometimes.When that happens... | AITA for refusing to eat my mom's food? | YTA |
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