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10z55k8 | My wife (28f) and I (30m) have been married for 6 years. I’ve always been the breadwinner while she hasn’t worked in 3 years. The company she worked at went bankrupt and then COVID made it hard for her to get a job in her field so she became housewife, then a SAHM since our first kid 1 year ago. She’s a great SAHM and... | AITA for wanting to buy something for myself but not my wife? | NTA |
10z51qj | So me and my best girlfriend are in the same friend-group. she asked me today if i wanted to go out and just walk in circles in the city, like we always do. i said i didn't want to. we do this everyday and this was my first time declining hanging out with her. she didn't get mad.After a few hours another girlfriend fro... | AITA for declining on my best girlfriend but wanting to hang out with our whole friend-group? | NTA |
10z50mn | It has happened three times now that my mother(F49) said I should stop trying to help and that I "only make things worse".Let me give a bit more context; my father has recently done a medical procedure and has run my mother absolutely ragged with taking care of him. She hasn't been getting much sleep and is, in genera... | AITA for not wanting to forgive my mother after she said something in the heat of the moment | YTA |
10z4w9t | So I (22F) and my best friend (24f) have always wanted to do youtube together. We’ve talked about it for years but have never done it. Ive also always wanted my own channel. At the end of last year, we decided to finally start. We planned our content, did practice videos to get a feel for the editing process, and we we... | WIBTA for starting my own Youtube channel? | NTA |
10z4u0q | So I live in the upper mid west where snowfall is expected during the winter. Yesterday we had a winter weather advisory where we got around 5 inches of wet snow. This morning I woke up and was walking to class and over half the sidewalks in front of peoples houses were essentially pure ice with no sand. I then wanted ... | AITA for posting/complaining about icy sidewalks the morning after a big snowfall? | YTA |
10z4ng8 | For some context, I (F16) and seven of my other close friends (all F15-16) had a sleepover the other week. As you might imagine, fitting 8 people into a bedroom was quite hard, we had 3 people on the double bed (will be relevant later), 3 people on air mattresses on the floor, 1 person on an armchair and 1 person on a ... | AITA for making a joke about ableism? | NTA |
10z4lud | Context: my father's mother is the one in the hospital right now. Last Christmas I cut contact with my father so the tension is already highHere's the people involved:My mom - Mom, F56My father - Dad, M53My brother - Bro, M31Father's mother - Kay, F72and me, NB21Mom and I booked a cruise for this weekend a few weeks ag... | AITA for not going on a cruise when my grandma might be dying? | NTA |
10z4cn2 | I think IATA, but I also want to get the internet‘s opinion. I (25F) have been living with my roommate (27M) for about a year. We knew each other before moving in together and it seemed like a compatible match. My roommate talks a lot about wanting to live in a clean apartment, but he has a hard time initiating cleani... | AITA for complaining about my roommate? | NTA |
10z45co | So my (13F) friend (13F) asked me to hang out with her today. ( She also asked me a few times before but i never felt like it so i never agreed) This time we had a big argument about it. I again said no because i just didnt want to and she got really mad at me. She wanted me to give her a reason why i dont want to han... | AITA for not wanting to hang out with one of my friends? | NTA |
10z44nw | So, my boyfriend is a femboy. I love him and support his decision to dress this way. I find him very attractive and compliment him whenever I can. He often wears shorter skirts and revealing shirts, which I dont mind in general. However, this was a different case. My sister recently recovered from a hospital visit, so... | AITA for asking my bf to dress differently? | NTA |
10z41mm | throwaway accountI (20nb), live with my boyfriend (21m) and his roommate (25m). The roommate has a girlfriend (23f) who moved in not too long ago after a fight with her sister (who she lived with before).As soon as she moved in, there were problems. She had an issue with the bedroom arrangement (she wanted the master b... | WIBTA for kicking out my roommate’s girlfriend? | NTA |
10z3wr8 | I (f18) have a friend that I'll call Jenna. Jenna (F17) is kind of new to our friend group and makes it quite obvious and is kind of vocal about how she likes my twin brother who I'll call Josh (M18). That's fine, I've had plenty of friends try and get me to set them and my brother up just like his friends with me. We ... | AITA for telling a girl how i see it? | NTA |
10z3ud9 | I am a (white female) magician hired to do magic at a Mardi Gras party for a New Orleans themed bar. My immediate idea was to do tarot/voodoo themed magic and outfit. Like a tailored coat, skulls, that kind of thing. Like Dr Facilier from Princess and a Frog. Now I’m worried this may be cultural appropriation, but I’m ... | WIBTA if I dress as a witch doctor for a Mardi Gras magic show? | YWBTA |
10z3h0s | So, I live in a very everyone-knows-everyone place, and I know a lot of people and I go out a lot. Being such, I hear about a lot of "drama" - things people have done or said, who they did or said it to, things about people's pasts, etc. My problem is that I find so much out that I end up forgetting most of it. There h... | WIBTA if I kept secret notes on local goings-on? | YTA |
10z3beo | I will use my most recent date as an example, and as banale as it sounds, it turned into the topic of strippers. And it came to her attention that in my opinion, there is a difference between strippers who dance for money from men and strippers who dance for fun, I conveyed my opinion that the strippers who dance for m... | AITA and the reason for not getting anywhere with my first dates? | YTA |
10z36de | Hi there,I came home for a short period of time and wanted to catch up with my close family. I was given a short notice by my sister for the diner I asked her to organise (for which I had to make a couple of changes to my schedule to make this easier for her) and out of the blue she has invited someone else that I don’... | AITA? Sister invited a friend for a very small family diner organised for me but didn’t consulted me first. | YTA |
10z3642 | So basically it was very bad where i used too live sometimes we didnt get fed and i was getting the most hate from my family. It did get too the point where i ran away from my home one day after school, i was walking on the highway and was really into it. but after some hours my mother came after me and it was the firs... | AITA for running away from home? | NTA |
10z35ab | Bf wants to start smoking/vaping. I freaked out because he hasn’t used in five months and at the tail end of it he was obsessed. He used his pen/edibles before work, drive to work, on his break, on his lunch, during work, after work, and up until bedtime. He told me he wouldn’t get to that again because that was a diff... | AITA for setting bf boundaries around his marijuana usage? | NTA |
10z31cy | So for context, me and this person (I’ll call him Jake) have known each other for 2/3 years but known we existed for 5 (we got into this big dispute when we were younger). Our families are very different even thought we are both from Jamaican parents (he was born there, I wasn’t). Now you may be asking, why does this m... | AITA for taking a 6 day break from my ‘friend’ after explicitly asking them if I could? | NTA |
10z2w1f | First of all english is not my native language so sorry for any mistakes. All names are obviously fake. I (20F) have known my best friend, Taylor(20F) since we were 6 months old, however we are currently study in different cities and have different friend circles, so we barely hangout anymore. But when we do we take ... | AITA for ignoring my friend’s girlfriend | YTA |
10z24cm | Seems small but this issue has been building for me.My roommate and I have been living together for about 6 months now. We’ve known each other for 10 years.I was the first to arrive in our suite and I furnished most of the bathroom, including toilet paper, soap, body wash, shower rugs/mats, shelves, etc.Since then I ha... | WIBTA is I didn’t pay my roommate 5 dollars | YWNBTA |
10z1v50 | Context before the story I moved 8 hours away from home to start fresh. I only had a handful of close friends. The closest friend I have to this day is Drew. Drew is trans (biologically female, identifies as a man). He strictly likes biological females, and has never dated men, whether cis, or trans. Also extremely mas... | AITA for letting a female jump into my arms in front of my gf? | NTA |
10z1mur | Hi everyone, recently I was able to receive two job offers. One is a government job and the other is for a counseling service. After making taking a few days to make my decision, I decided to go with the counseling job because it fits more align to what I wanted to do. As a result, my family was upset with me that I di... | AITA for choosing another career path than what other people want? | NTA |
10z1d9t | I was in college and had a group of 3 friends, Anna(me), Bella and Cinderella. One more classmate Debby, was an introvert, overly sensitive and entitled girl.normally ABC do everything together because,they lived in the same dorm. When we went out for anything, three of us would go together and Debby never cared about ... | AITA for leaving 1 friend to hang out with other 2? | NAH |
10z2e0e | Y’all IK I’m TA for asking him out but am I wrong for tell B after I wasn’t paid?My best friend offered me $20 to ask this boy , B, to our winter dance. I did but didn’t put much effort into convincing him to go with me because I didn’t actually want to go, and he said no (thank god). My friend refused to pay me, ig sh... | AITA for telling a boy that I was paid to ask him out? | ESH |
10z7vuq | Hello Reddit, long time no see. You helped me last time so I’m back again.I (mid 20’s F) lost my best friend a little over a year ago. Since then, I adopted a senior dog from the shelter named Benton. He’s a almost 9yo German Shepard. He was an owner surrender and is dog reactive.Anyways, this happened yesterday mornin... | AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? | YTA |
10zbm20 | I (23M) know I am only doing wrong on myself for asking someone to basically rewrite my papers, but I have a lot on my plate and I might be an AH.I have been friends with Emma (21F) for a few years, she has always been generous and caring, and she likes me, at least that's what I think. If I ask her for help she is usu... | AITA for asking my friend to edit my papers and rewrite my assignments for me. | YTA |
10z96pk | My gf (28F) and I (32M) have been living together for 4 years now.She works from home since covid most of the time but sometimes does go into the office, I go to my office every day.My girlfriend has always done our laundry together and never had a problem with it for all these years. Since she works from home, she tak... | AITA for asking my girlfriend to continue doing my laundry if she wants me to buy groceries. | YTA |
10zbrga | I (30)F have been married to my husband who is also 30 for 5 years and been together for 8.My husband became interested in motorcycles about 3 years ago.It is something I have never liked as I feel motorcycles are very dangerous .He bought one against my wishes which was fair enough because he is an adult and it would ... | AITA for telling my husband he may need to reconsider riding a motorcycle once our first child is born | NTA |
10z6rua | Background:My husband (35m) and I (34f) bought our house in a small town almost 2 years ago and have an extra guest room in the basement. My husband has been mostly estranged from his family for most of his adult life and rightfully so I have learned because they expect him to solve all their problems and blame him for... | WIBTA if I refused to let my niece and her bf move into my and my husband's house and instead let them become homeless? | NTA |
10z7w4l | I (15M) have two sisters: Emily (17F) and Leah (9F). Me and Emily’s parents adopted Leah almost two years ago. Since she has joined our family, I have taken the role of big brother very seriously. She is genuinely the sweetest kid.Emily, though, absolutely despises Leah. She’s hated Leah since our parents told us about... | AITA for protecting my little sister? | NTA |
10zcvj4 | I work in the finance department of my company. A couple of people in my company went across the country on a business trip. They get a per diem for meals, but there are certain rules to being reimbursed (the meal could only be for one person, so each person has to have their own receipt; no alcohol). One woman submitt... | AITA for repeatedly asking an employee to verify that the food she is expensing was only for herself? | YTA |
10zcn93 | I’m a 19 year old female and I have two tattoos (one matching with my stepmom and the other I got as a present.) My ten year old stepbrother is autistic (so am I but he is on a more extreme level aka nonverbal etc) and almost everyone in my family has a tattoo of puzzle pieces (symbol for autism) and it has his name on... | AITA for not wanting to get a tattoo for my autistic stepbrother? | NTA |
10ze4n1 | Couple nights ago I was out with my girlfriend and other friends. There’s a guy my girlfriend and her friends know but I barley know him. Actually I don’t know him at all and he’s never been very nice to me. Always standoffish and unfriendly.I was pretty drunk and at some point this guy came up to my girlfriend and put... | AITA for not liking other guys putting hands on my girlfriend? | YTA |
10zdixs | I live in a small 2-story apartment complex, two buildings with about 20 units each, each building shares 1 parking lot. My 4 year old son is special needs and is at a special needs preschool that sends a bus to pick him up and drop him off every weekday at 7:15am and 3:15pm. How it works is basically the driver pulls ... | AITA for not stopping my child’s bus driver from honking at pick up and drop off? | YTA |
10zfmnk | I (f25) have a daughter ( f8) that’s in the second grade and was recently invited to sleepover by a classmate.. my daughter handed me the invitation from her classmate that we will call her lily and I was on board for her to go..but my daughter told me she’s sad because she can’t tell her best friend she’s going becau... | AITA for organizing a sleepover for my daughter on the same exact day as another kids sleepover in her class? | NTA |
10zegju | I35f live with my husband35 and our 2 children Madison14, Katie11. My sister Amanda29 also lives with us. We have an agreement, she doesn’t have to pay rent, but help with groceries and watch the girls when needed or get them to or from school. Our daughter Madison is a lot of work. She skips school, and sneaks out. I’... | AITA for screaming at my sister for keeping secrets about my kid from me | YTA |
10z8cht | I (18F) am in University and I have a job. During high school when i was working, i gave my mom half my paycheques to save for my future. Anyways, gas prices are really high right now and I asked for my savings just in case i needed gas because it is very expensive. She got mad at me and told me i couldn’t have them. i... | AITA for asking my mom for my savings? | NTA |
10z8g9d | I (28M) have a wife (married for 2 years), Marie (38F). Marie has a son, Sam (17M). His father is not part of his life.I met Marie when I was 23 and we started dating shortly after.When I met Sam, he was 13 and he was pretty clear that he would never see me as a father figure ( which was ok. I had both a step-father an... | AITA for becoming my stepson's confidant and "stealing" my wife's spot? | NTA |
10zab9i | I 42m have been with my wife 39m for 18 years. We have 3 children together Nya16, Alex12, and Jesse9. Nya is to say the least obese. She’s 5 ft and between 215-225lb. Alex and Jesse make fun of her, despite our punishments for it. Kids at school make fun of her. We have brought this up to the school, but they do nothin... | AITA for talking to my daughter about losing weight? | YTA |
10z5x20 | Background knowledge: My dad is an Afro-Latino man my mom is a latina with lighter skinToday I was in class and we were talking about Afro-Latinos and my teacher said we were going to be talking about an Afro-Latino person so we began talking about Celia Cruz. My friend told me I thought it was going to be you which I ... | WIBTA if I contradicted my teacher about my cultural roots? | NTA |
10z7yeh | Well, here we go again. More bs sister drama. Anyway's, recently I saw a movie by myself as I got a cinema pass for Christmas from my aunt. For those who don't know what it is, it's a cinema membership that let's you see movies for free as many times as you like any day.Anyway's, I saw the new Puss In Boots film last w... | AITA for refusing to take my niece to the cinema? | NTA |
10za39x | I’m 14 and in 8th grade. I have a bully named Bella (also 14 I think) who is constantly bothering me. I’ll just be minding my own business and then Bella will start insulting my clothes/appearance. She also calls me a sped and other ableist words because I have hearing problems and have to sit in the front.I tell my sc... | AITA For revealing that my bully doesn’t have a father in front of her friends, which has caused rumors to be spread about her at school? | NTA |
10zc3kf | Long time lurker, first time posterI (33f) and my husband (35m) have always split our chores. I do most of the house work: sweep, mop, laundry, and basic tidying up; while he does dishes and yard work. We both cook, but I cook majority of the nights because I'm home 2 hours before him and I like to have it ready for hi... | AITA for not wanting to do "my chore"? | NTA |
10zfvic | I'm currently 19(F) and I don't know how to drive at all, I've never been in the drivers seat and I've never been in a car much at all, unless it's a taxi.I live with my disabled mother and younger sister who don't know how to drive. My dad, who lives with his wife and children, doesn't know how to drive either. So whe... | AITA for not learning how to drive? | NTA |
10zaqqj | Background: I (25m) have been married to my husband for one year now. He was born in Ethiopia and her family moved here when she was 17. My family, excluding my father (47m) and I, is very religious and sticks to what they call “old values” and disapproved of the fact that I was not only marrying a man, but also a blac... | AITA for getting my aunt and uncle evicted? | NTA |
10zf02d | I’ve been with my boyfriend for 13 years. He has always had some sort of excuse for why he doesn’t want to get married. The first 3 years it was statistics of divorce and his own parents failed marriage. I understood that and pushed it out of my head and just enjoyed the time together. The next few years it was my debt... | AITA for needing a better reason to get married than to make you happy? | NTA |
10zaqas | My sister (32F) is getting married this summer, and she asked me (27AFAB) to be her one and only bridesmaid. We have a good relationship, so initially I was excited. But my mood soured once it came time to pick my outfit.I asked if I could wear a jumpsuit instead of a dress, since I feel more comfortable wearing pants.... | AITA for being upset about the bridesmaid dress that was chosen for me? | NTA |
10zei6w | For some background info me(18M) and my girlfriend(19F) have been dating for a bit over 3 years now. We have a long distance relationship and see each other around 4 times each year. As a result of this we tend to spend our time together FaceTiming,playing games and watching shows together most days. Tonight we had pla... | AITA for being mad at my(18M) gf (19F) and asking for some space this weekend | NTA |
10zfb66 | To give some background, my friend and I have been friends since we were in high school. Then, as we got accepted to college, I went to the west-coast to pursue my degree and she stayed in our home-state to pursue a degree at the state college.While we tried to stay in contact, we quickly lost touch with each other and... | AITA for kicking my friend out of my house due to her tattoos? | NTA |
10zgea6 | I'm twenty. I know i can no longer constantly depend on my mother. however, I was diagnosed with cancer and desperately needed money for treatment. even though i promised her i would pay it back, she refused to help me out. today, I learned that she impulsively bought my 2 year old sister a ball pit that cost 250 dolla... | AITA for no longer allowing my mom back in my life after she refused to help me pay for my chemo? | NTA |
10z5mdw | My wife (24F) and I (24M) have been together since 8th grade. I love this woman to death and she is honestly such a beautiful soul to spend life with if you leave her mother out of the picture. In 2020 we got married and purchased our first home shortly after. Everything was all downhill after that. My wife and her mot... | AITA for telling my wife to cut the umbilical cord from her mother? | NTA |
10zey2k | I (16F) have been friends with ‘Amelia’ (16F) for 5 years. We both live in South Korea. I’m Korean, she is white.My mom is from Washington and my dad is from Seoul so I spend every other summer in America and I speak English, but I’ve never actually lived in there. Because of this I’ve never really experienced racism ... | AITA for telling me friend she hasn’t experienced racism | NTA |
10zed2h | Married my wife and her 3 girls 14 yrs ago. Bio dad has been non-existent. We have tried to be consistent with strict rules and discipline, but when it comes down to following through with punishment, the wife is soft.The twins are 18 and the youngest is about to turn 16. They are good kids. Empathetic and kind to othe... | AITA Frustrated Step Dad | NTA |
10zaucm | Me and my mom were shopping at a local thriftstore when I noticed a large man following me, I immediately walked back to where my mom was and informed her about what was happening. I ended up sticking by her side for a while until eventually the man approached me. He did not say a single word and was carrying childrens... | AITA for running away from a possibly mentally ill person in public | NTA |
10zdpte | Sorry for the long text/ spelling issues, on mobile. Also throwaway. Important: This timeline happened over the course of four days. Tuesday - triggering incident. Wednesday - email. Thursday - meeting Friday - mental health day. / Coworkers telling me I'm an asshole. Recently I accidentally triggered someone at work... | AITA for not wanting to spend time outside of work with someone who feels unsafe around me at work? | NTA |
10zbudr | With Valentine’s Day coming up next week, my girlfriend decided to do something nice and ordered a box of very expensive chocolates to give me. This box of candy was delivered today, but unfortunately in the time that it sat outside on the front stoop, a raccoon or some other wild animal managed to tear its way through... | AITA for throwing out chocolates a raccoon had gotten into? | NTA |
10zelck | Hi everyone.I (21f) have been friends with "Sarah" (21f) for the past three years. We are in the same program at university together. Sarah has ADHD, and because of it, she struggles to keep on top of her responsibilities, including schoolwork. Now, I'm always down to help a friend out when asked, but as time has gone ... | AITA for refusing to help my friend with her schoolwork? | NTA |
10zel4j | I (56M) have a wife (48F) and two daughters (12F and 14F)I moved from Saudi Arabia with my family to a country in the west 3 years ago. I really like the country and have learned a lot and met a lot of good people here. However I am finding it impossible to get a job in my field or find a way to start a business here. ... | WIBTA for taking my family back to Saudi Arabia? | YTA |
10z9z38 | Long time viewer, first time poster. Sorry for mobile formatting! I (19F) have always have always had trouble with my weight. I was never skinny, but also not huge looking. I am considered obese with my weight and height but I never really looked it because of my proportions (overweight yes I can admit that I look fat ... | AITA for lying to my parents about my weight | NTA |
10zgwbc | I had a boomer great aunt that was a wonderful and loving woman. She just grew up in Eastern Europe right after WWII. One of the weird things about her was that she would give her old belongings as gifts for weddings and important birthdays. I still have the music box she gave me for my First Communion. When we saw... | AITA for not telling my brother how much something was worth until he regifted it to me. | NTA |
10zf5uu | Trying not to go over the 3000 character limit so I'll have to condense a lot. Feel free to ask questions in the comments.To start, me and my ex dated for multiple years. We started out dating in high school until my senior year of college. Over the course of the relationship, we transitioned from in-person to long dis... | WIBTA if I didn't give my ex their stuff back? | NTA |
10zeauf | Told my friend that I needed new toilets. He offered to help. I didn't ask. He offered. We agreed to doing it today. So this morning I ask when he'll be over. He said after 5. Then, I don't hear from him till 6, when he asks what I'm doing, I replied....and waited an hour for a response. At 7, still no response I text... | WIBTAH for refusing his help? | NTA |
10ze4cz | Ever since a young age, my dad’s been on his phone while driving, including texting. I’ve told him it’s illegal, but he:A. Said it’s only a few thingsB. He’s had more experience driving than me.C. Gotten mad because someone younger than him is telling him what to do.Thing is: there are signs all over the roads saying i... | AITA for calling my dad out for texting and driving? | NTA |
10zg8f6 | So I have been cooking more recently and we finally fixed our fridge so we have a large freezer, most foods I make are made fresh (not fully fresh but few if any ingredients are frozen) and I was just looking in the freezer for the chips (there is a chip shortage here so it has been a while lol) and when I found them t... | WIBTA for chucking out my sisters "belongings" | NTA |
10z6rbe | Before I start, I would like to say that English is not my first language, so I apologize beforehand if there are any grammatical mistakes.My uncle (my mom's brother, who we will call Fred) was... not a nice person at all. He was by, far, one of the worst people to have ever walked on this earth. He was the devil incar... | AITA for saying that I'm glad my uncle's dead? | NTA |
10z8fat | I bought my friend flights to Sydney, just for a weekend away as a Christmas present. The reason I picked Sydney was because we have good friends that live there and I knew that we could stay with them and I wouldn’t have to pay for accommodation. I was happy to pay for flights knowing this. My Sydney friends have now ... | AITA for booking a weekend away as a gift for my friend and then asking for accommodation money? | NTA |
10zfuo9 | I bought a brand new house in East Tampa (just north of Ybor City) back in 2019. My house was just being finished as the neighbor in question moved in. She (Erika) moved in directly next door and invites people to her house regularly to hang out on her front porch. There, she either blasts music from her bright colorfu... | WIBTA - for walking next door and telling my neighbor to turn the music down during another one of her parties that last til 3AM randomly throughout the week? | NTA |
10zce36 | I hired a company to repair the interior of my bedroom after a tree branch fell on my roof during a storm. The branch caused a leak that destroyed the attic space and ceiling in my primary bedroom. The ceiling and attic were tore out, lights, insulation, baseboards and crown molding were removed and mold remediation wa... | AITA for thinking a contractor did me wrong because I'm a woman? | YTA |
10z676y | Okay so since I was young, my mom has always favored my other siblings- for example my parents wouldn’t go to my school or sporting events but always went to my siblings, I had to buy my own car/ school clothes/ sports gear etc but my siblings didn’t have to. So fast forward I’m an adult and have a family, married and ... | AITA for telling my family to F off | NTA |
10zf8bc | I know the title is bad but let me explain. My mom is currently undergoing a divorce from my biological father (absolute asshole) and celebrated her birthday tonight with friends. Amongst these friends is “Brad”. “Brad” formerly worked for my biological father before and during the divorce process before getting fired ... | AITAH threatening my mothers friend? | NTA |
10zg47h | My roommate used to be some sort of executive or something in NYC, and now she works as a cashier at a religious store. She absolutely will not shut up about her job, and I do not care to hear about it because her voice is basically a trigger at this point. But she has obvious NPD and needs to talk about her day for wh... | AITA for telling my roommate that being a cashier does not make her a gift to the world? | YTA |
10zc6fq | I (25 F) have always been the therapy friend. Normally it doesn’t bother me if people come and complain to me every once and a while, need to vent, or need advice. I’m happy to try and help others when they need it. However, lately it’s been harder and harder for me to do so. I’m getting burnt out being the therapy f... | WIBTA For telling my friend to stop constantly talking to me about their living situation? | NTA |
10zcyu0 | Just to complicate things a bit. we're both obviously in love with each other, but have reasons on both our ends to just stay platonic (nobody's cheating, just our own situations). So we just enjoy being best friends and giving each other a lot of positive attention. I have told him a lot about my parents and he's ver... | AITA for leading my best friend to believe he will one day meet my father when I have zero intention of introducing them? | NTA |
10zdsla | Let me start out by saying, he completely is. This guy is literal human scum. My (28F) best friend (28F) has been with this guy (31M) for about two and a half years. He’s cheated on her with at least three different women last year. He had two one night stands and he paid a masseuse to give him a **** job. Here we go... | AITA for telling my friend her boyfriend is a liar and a cheater? | NTA |
10zc2u6 | I have a dog that I consider to be a part of my family. He's been with me for years and brings me joy every day. My in-laws, who are wealthy circus owners, have offered to take my dog for a year to train him to be a performing dog in their circus.My partner, who has always been supportive of my love for my dog, is now ... | AITA for Refusing to Give Up My Dog to a Circus? | NTA |
10zfio1 | I (18F) joined an interschool japanese dance competition with two of my bfs. Teacher in charge was stereotypical and arguing with her didn't work so we just went along with her horrible ideas. It was a 3 mins dance and no one would know us anyway (we were going to another school to perform). When we recieved our cost... | AITA for ruining my friends' performance? | NTA |
10zcchn | Im 25M and my ex "Connor" (26M) were together 2 years and it was the best time of my life honestly it felt like the world was perfect but like all good things it came to an end. My sister "Eliza" has autism and really stays to herself and doesn't like to hugged and generally yells when she gets gets hugged. Eliza adore... | AITA for what I said to my sibling? | YTA |
10zfbmm | I (35M) have a brother in law (32M) for whom I'm paying to attend college for the last 1.5 years. The deal is that as long as he passes each of his classes, I'll continue to pay for the next semester. I didn't care about his major because that's ultimately his choice in what he wants to do with his life, but I wanted h... | AITA for telling my BIL he's not going to be real Scientist? | NTA |
10zc63h | I'm currently pregnant and have a 1 year old at home with me. I have had a horrible tooth ache for the past 3 days, I have an appointment for Sunday to get the pain resolved. My partner has been working all week and usually comes home right away. Today he needed a extra worker so he picked up a family member and was su... | AITA for expecting my partner to come home asap from work today? | NTA |
10z6s3q | My dad got me a dog when I was 7 and he told me I would be responsible for her. I grew up with her and I loved her very much. She used to sleep with me etc. When I graduated from high school (16yo) I moved to Japan to try to have a better life and I’ve been here since then (24yo now) and I had to leave her with my dad.... | AITA for not paying back my dad for my dog’s cancer treatment? | NTA |
10z98ul | I (26F) and my sister (32F) have never had a close relationship and recently got into a huge fight because of me coming out of the closet and having a girlfriend. She is against it and basically very embarrassed because she thinks I’m bringing my family’s name to ruin by this (I’m from latin america and everyone’s usua... | AITA for not visiting my nephew | NTA |
10zf35f | I am a white American which is what I identify as. I always knew that a couple of my long-deceased ancestors were from Puerto Rico. After delving into genealogy more and linking up with distant relatives who have done a lot of research, I learned that branch of the family has records going back to the 1600's in Puerto ... | AITA for being extremely proud of being 1% Native American? | YTA |
10zghxr | When my fiancé went into labour we rushed her to the hospital and when she was being taken in I was told to wait outside and then was told to go home as they thought the birth was going to take hours it ended up only taking minutes. I was not covid positive neither was my fiancé I was then called back for the birth and... | AITA for going home during the birth of our first born daughter | NTA |
10zb0nk | Hi,My mother has been trying to be apart of my life 9 years after leaving it.To make a long story of what initially started this all as short as possible she came down one weekend to visit my grandparents and asked that I come see them. The first night of that weekend before I even got to see them first I was driving h... | AITA for not being so accepting of my biological mothers efforts to come back in my life and not wanting to invite her to my graduation even after she helped me receive a full ride scholarship? | NTA |
10zgc3k | So I moved in with my boyfriend a month ago. I met his aunt on her birthday and have heard many things about her. I am not one to judge someone till I know them. His grandparents have been sick so I offered my number to them if they needed help or anything. His aunt we will call her Tina. Tina called and found out that... | AITA for telling my boyfriends at to mind her business? | NTA |
10z8tdj | I drove 1 hour with my husband to our daughters indoor track meet. It was our first time at this college and finding the location was bit tricky as it’s dark and a large campus. Finally we found it and I parked the car. Husband was being snarky while I was driving on campus (you’re hitting brakes too much you’re brakin... | AITA for taking 60 seconds to get out of the car? | NTA |
10zcbt4 | EDIT: I'm not gonna talk to the boss. It was silly to even consider the thought!For context, I (27F) used to work with my husband "David" (28M) under the same boss and had a good acquaintanceship with him before I switched jobs. David is a seafood department specialist in a grocery store and has three higher ups: the m... | WIBTA if I talked to my husband's boss for him? | YWBTA |
10zfbop | My bday was coming up and I had shown great interest in a piece of electronic equipment. It costs about $200. I got my girlfriend a gift of $270 for Christmas. My girlfriend told me not to buy myself anything before my bday. She told me that about 7 weeks before. She told me several times. One day we talked about our h... | AITA for getting myself this? | YTA |
10zh30h | At the beginning of the week, the English teacher got upset because we interact (answering her questions or asking questions) with little to nothing during class, and when she asked why we don't interact no one answered. The next day she gave us a pop quiz where she asked us to say what we think a discussion is, why i... | AITA for answering to my teacher truthfully? | NTA |
10zc5rp | I was playing drawing and guessing pictionary game the other day with my friends. I got the word "Skin" and tried my best to draw a human figure which happens to have a lighter skin tone. I also added lots of arrows to points to various parts of the human figure to indicate that it's not just a specific body part, like... | AITA for only drawing one kind of skin color in scribble? | NTA |
10zeu6e | My long distant bf(now husband we’ll call H) was best friends with his roommate in college(J). Although J had different beliefs/morals we all got along and enjoyed each others company (when they came to my home town to visit).His roommate eventually got a girlfriend(K) but I soon found out that she was different and di... | WIBTAH? My husband and best friend from college are barely acquaintances now, and I feel responsible. | NTA |
10zgtgs | My friend had texted me earlier tonight and it seemed she kinda got into some bad argument with her mom. When I asked her what happened she didn’t tell me any details and just said “idk.” So I really didn’t know what had gone down between them other than had to have been pretty badShe later texts me asking if I finishe... | AITA for snapping at my friend | NTA |
10z5sgu | My(15F) aunt (58F) always wants me to stay at her house for girls nights, I used to stay there a lot but as of recently do not want to attend as she has a severe drinking problem and tends to get argumentative and harasses everybody in the house when she is intoxicated. The last time I stayed over was last Halloween al... | AITA For not wanting to stay at my aunts | NTA |
10z7qn8 | So my fiancé and I have been planning our wedding for over a year now, and we decided we didn’t want our wedding to have a ton of kids in attendance because we are having an open bar. We haven’t openly said “no kids,” but we let each guest know the number of people they could bring by saying “____ seats reserved in you... | AITA for not allowing all wedding guests to bring as many kids as they want? | NTA |
10z5i4x | I’ll keep it short. I (27f) live with another f (30) and two guys (36 & 37). Me and the other girl are single, the two guys are in relationships. We all get on really well but things have always been very platonic. No sexual vibes etc. So just before Christmas the older guy, I’ll call him Tom, started seeing a girl... | AITA for wanting to tell my flatmate his girlfriend shouldn’t be here 5 nights a week? | NTA |
10zckx9 | Hey everyone- first and foremost, I (32M) have not brought this up with my partner Fiona (27F) yet. My partner and I are married, and have been together for 4 years. She has expressed at times that she is bi-sexual, and other times saying that she’s not, but falls somewhere on a sliding scale of queer sexuality. I’m ha... | AITA for feeling threatened by my partner’s bi-sexual friend? | NAH |
10ze50n | So my friend can be a little oblivious( let’s call her Mindy) and I usually don’t let it bug me, but this time it went to far. There’s this guy I’m good friends with (let’s call him mark) who my friends think likes me (I don’t like him). Mindy goes up to mark and asks him do you like random-human-1 and he just kind of ... | AITAH for not forgiving my friend | NTA |
10zfqsl | Howdy, this stories a bit long so bear w me….. Around September of last year I had plans to leave for army basic training. My ship out date was rapidly approaching and I begun having second thoughts about the whole thing. I called my grandfather who I had always looked up too from when I was young who also just so happ... | AITA for wanting to confront my Grandfather who gave me really bad advice? | INFO |
10z9bu6 | I (15M) am Indian. This incident has kept me up, and I need to know whether what I did was wrong.This started a few days ago. Some students were outside a classroom, waiting for a teacher, and I was one of them. A person I will call Tom (15M) was also outside. Note that Tom is a prefect. Tom is also friends with Harry ... | AITA for misinterpreting (I think) a racist remark? | NTA |
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