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{ "description": "no longer hanging out with my cousin", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for no longer hanging out with my cousin ?
My cousin and I have always been incredibly close. We do everything together and pretty much hang out all the time. I moved away to college and that has kind of changed our relationship as she’s still in high school. She and her boyfriend have been together for a year now. Recently, I’ve noticed that she tends to bl...
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{ "description": "not being honest about lack of sex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being honest about lack of sex?
My girl and I have been together for 10 years. I'm 32 and she's 28. We have two children together, ages 3 and 1. I realize it's hard to get a moment's peace let alone some action, but I miss it so. I bring it up from time to time and that only gets me "pity sex". The come on make it quick. I honestly liked it at first...
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{ "description": "playing more games than my friend and leveling/ranking up faster than him", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for playing more games than my friend and leveling/ranking up faster than him?
Over the years my friend and I have bought games for each other and to play with each other. The problem shows up because he has always had way less time to play video games than me. During high school he would play lots of sports all year round. I didn’t like sports and most extracurricular activities so I would be ...
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{ "description": "telling my gf we need to sleep in the same bed if we move in together", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling my GF we need to sleep in the same bed if we move in together?
My GF and I are both in our mid-twenties, and we've been dating for almost two years. We've had our ups and downs as with all relationships, but it's been mostly up, and we really enjoy the time we spend together. As our two year anniversary approaches, the topic of us moving in together has come up. We are both excite...
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{ "description": "wanting my so to stick to what time they say they'll come home", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting my SO to stick to what time they say they’ll come home?
A lot of details here I can’t get into for length but the short of it is my SO has in the past taking advantage of going out and staying out very late without keeping me in the loop. The behavior wasn’t purposely done to be inconsiderate, but there is a history in our relationship of them prioritizing their job, friend...
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{ "description": "saying my partner didnt do anything in a subtle way during the project presentation", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for saying my partner didnt do anything in a subtle way during the project presentation?
i'll make it short : the prof asked how was that workload distrubuted before i couldn't say anything, my partner said : " he did more than me " i felt that was misleading, so i corrected him, and said the plain truth : " he only did this, but it was not up to my standard, and i have evaluated that starting over woul...
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{ "description": "not letting my girlfriend move in with an obsessed boy", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my girlfriend move in with an obsessed boy?
So a bit of context, my girlfriend (of 2 years) and myself both live at home with our respective parents parents. I am at uni and working a part time job while she’s working full time. Currently for me, moving out is not financially possible meanwhile she is not happy with living at home and wants to move out. The boy ...
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{ "description": "throwing palm tree leaves from my neighbor's trees back over their fence", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for throwing palm tree leaves from my neighbor's trees back over their fence?
My neighbor has three palm trees that keep dropping fronds over to our yard. Whenever there is strong winds we always find a large amount of these large leaves in our back yard and we are tired of dealing with it. The neighbor refuses to do anything about it despite having gardeners to help her with this. The only thin...
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{ "description": "breaking up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up
Me [18M] and a university colleague [24F] were hooking up after some months of consistent chatter on text messages and in campus. We eventually started taking each other more seriously and what started as a FWB type of thing adopted a more commited nature and we kicked it off (at least in my opinion) pretty well. In ...
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{ "description": "telling my stepdad the truth about what happened to my mom's engagement ring", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I told my stepdad the truth about what happened to my mom's engagement ring?
Hi all, So this has been eating away at my conscience for years and this happened about 10 years ago when I was 8. My mom was living with my stepdad and we lived in Arizona. A year before that, my stepdad sent us away to my grandma's house for no reason at all, but my mom saw some dating sites in his cousin's compute...
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{ "description": "not having the results of a test I took sent to my mom", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not having the results of a test I took sent to my mom?
So in my state you can apply to skip and get the credit for a high school course if you take a test and pass their required standards. I applied to do this process for one of the courses offered and passed the initial exam. I show this to my parents (specifically my mom) who had previously knew of me taking the test, a...
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{ "description": "not wanting a relationship with my dad", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting a relationship with my dad?
I'm trans. This is relevant because it's the cause of 90% of the issues in this post. Anyways, my dad is really homo/transphobic, and pretty racist as well- he doesn't know I'm trans. Said if he could he'd break a gay guy's nose (the guy was on tv), calls most black teenagers "thugs", has gone on a racist rant about ...
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{ "description": "requesting to drop a class with a teacher that keeps cancelling", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for requesting to drop a class with a teacher that keeps cancelling?
I’m in school and honestly barely scraping by. So paying $1300 for each course I take is kind of tough. But I’m doing it. This semester the school places me in this course (they place you in classes and you can request to switch with the admin once the schedule is released) and honestly, it’s the biggest load of shit e...
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{ "description": "not saying \"excuse me\" out loud", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not saying "excuse me" out loud?
I work at a hookah house that has live concerts everyday it opens. When there are bands playing, it is really hard to talk normally, so we usually go for the mouth-to-ear conversation when taking requests from customers. One of the things that we do is provide an additional coffee table with a hookah if there are none ...
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{ "description": "criticising my bfs gross house", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for criticising my bfs gross house
He always complains that he spends all his time at my house but when I try to spend time at his it's just too disgusting. I can't handle it andevery time I come over I just have to say something. He says "I'm a guest and you should criticise other people's houses and I should just leave" I'm not Trying to be rude I jus...
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{ "description": "inviting my friend's ex to my birthday but not letting her bring her other ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for inviting my friend's ex to my birthday but not letting her bring her other ex?
One of my best friends and I became part of a new friend group last year. She began 'dating' one of the guys in this group halfway through last year, although I use that term loosely because they didn't really like each other, according to her it was all just a bunch of sex she did not enjoy. They broke up because they...
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{ "description": "paying to evict my brother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for paying to evict my brother?
For as long as I can remember, my brother has been a giant pain in the ass to our family. I'm not sure exactly what is wrong with him, but he is prone to emotionally abusive behavior, dramatic outbursts, and other toxic behaviors including (but not limited to) gaslighting, screaming, and property damage. He has, in ...
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{ "description": "helping a girl with school work for a blowjob", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for helping a girl with school work for a blowjob
Before anyone gets the wrong impression I’m the same age as her (both 15) Basically I was casually talking to this girl who I’m mates with and she’s been on holiday last 2 weeks and I told her we’ve got mocks for GCSEs coming up. She said she was fucked and I agreed with her. Then she asked me I could help her jokingl...
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{ "description": "telling my wife no about having another baby", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my wife no about having another baby?
I'm on mobile bla bla bla..... So a couple days ago me and my wife had a serious argument but we solved it like adults and no one left, no one slept in a different room. We've been having lots of minor arguments over the past few months and 2 nights ago my wife brought the idea of having a baby, that now it wa...
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My wife and I are separated but I still live in the house for the next few weeks. Last night we agreed that she could go out as long as she came home before 6am so that I could take the car to work. We have two vehicles, a small car and a minivan. We also have five children. She watches the kids during the day Monday t...
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{ "description": "refusing to some possessions at home", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I refused to some possessions at home?
When I was 12, I started listening to classical orchestral music and I loved it. A couple months after I turned thirteen, I started working some neighborhood jobs so that I could afford to buy (almost) every instrument of the orchestra and maybe find some online courses to learn. I want(ed) to be a composer for video g...
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{ "description": "canceling on a client", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for canceling on a client?
I have a small Petsitting, housesitting business and get some of my clients on an app called next door. Someone posted about needing an overnight dog sitter and lots of my clients recommended me which I was so happy! The people ended up contacting me and I went to meet them, only one dog which I was kind of bummed as...
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{ "description": "only spending 30$ on my Reddit Secret Santa", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for only spending 30$ on my Reddit Secret Santa?
I don't live in the US but I've participated for the fifth time in the Reddit secret santa gift exchange. This year I was matched with a girl from Michigan who indicated in her profile that she recently moved and liked baking. To save money on shipping from Europe I went on Amazon and chose baking tools for her to cr...
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{ "description": "yelling at my brother for dumping coffee that was several days old", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for yelling at my brother for dumping coffee that was several days old?
I live with my girlfriend and my brother. As we were all getting around, making our breakfast Sunday morning, my brother takes the coffee pot over to the sink to dump it because it is several days old. I'm not one to waste, and I don't mind drinking old coffee, so I say to him, "Hey don't dump that, I'll drink it." Wh...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick my father in-law out", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to kick my father in-law out
He has been living with is for less than a month but I never really even wanted him there. Because he is a drunk and sometimes doesn't even work my wife convinced me to let him in but when he asked how.much I was going to pay I said a number and she immediately said a lower number. The guys is like 50 and drinks most o...
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{ "description": "asking my gf if her increasingly busy work schedule might affect our vacation plans", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my gf if her increasingly busy work schedule might affect our vacation plans?
I (M/44) have been dating my gf (F/41) for two years. We’re each divorced with and have pre-teen children of our own. We each are gainfully employed and work fairly long hours. Lately, my gf has been spending significantly more time at work due to large projects coming due, etc. Yesterday, she and I were talking and sh...
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{ "description": "complaining about my colleague", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for complaining about my colleague
So I've been working with my colleague for 4 years now and we used to get on great but as times gone by I've become conscious that even though we are meant to be equal, I do far more of the day to day work while he tends to spend his time doing extra projects and other work (which I would also much rather be doing). It...
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{ "description": "telling an acquaintance why I'm not talking to her as much", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told an acquaintance why I'm not talking to her as much?
I met this person, let's call her Chloe, on Discord. We arranged to meet up for a game trade and it was meant to be very short. I went over and she talked a lot about her personal life and current life, which was a bit of a mess. I kind of figured she just needed someone to vent with and while I was not expecting it, I...
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{ "description": "frequently bringing up my traumatic events and unhealthy behaviour", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for frequently bringing up my traumatic events and unhealthy behaviour?
I (19F) have a few friends and, during these recent years, they noticed that I have unhealthy habits and promiscuous behaviour: basically, I have more “boyfriends” at once, I have sex with people I barely know (even if they’re single or not), I want to try drugs, I wouldn’t go very often to school, I’m vengeful and ins...
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{ "description": "fucking my best friend who just broke up with his girlfriend who I have a complicated relationship with", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for fucking my best friend who just broke up with his girlfriend who i have a complicated relationship with?
TLDR at the end. I’m a 17 year old girl, and I have been really close friends with this guy (17M) for about a year now. About a half year before we became friends, he started dating this girl who has a lot of issues, and she really isn’t particularly nice to him or me. Basically, she was controlling him, and would thr...
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{ "description": "yelling back at a woman on the train", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for yelling back at a woman on the train?
Got on the train on the way home, after rush hour, so all the seats were taken but it wasn't jam packed. I always wear a backpack and it's not that big, so I generally don't take it off. I'm standing and a woman gets on behind me. The woman was clearly irritated and kept giving me looks and grumbling, but I just ignore...
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{ "description": "making my GF's best friend cry", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my GF's best friend cry?
Long story short, my GF's best friend and I do not get along. We have clashing personalities which is fine, I'm not going to be mean to her simply because we don't get along. In the UK we have a saying "Don't dish it out if you can't take it" meaning don't make fun of someone for banters sake if you can't take it bac...
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{ "description": "asking my gf to not go on her phone when we're in bed together", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for asking my gf to not go on her phone when we're in bed together?
It's always bugged me that she goes on her phone when we're in bed whether its after we've had sex or when we're just cuddling or spending time together. Watching TV or a movie is a different story but when we're in bed I want her to be focusing on me. I've asked her to stop many times because it makes me feel like s...
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{ "description": "pranking my little sister and her friends with a scary doll", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA For pranking my little sister and her friends with a scary doll?
Aight im 16, my little sister is 11. We have sort of an adversarial sibling rivalry going on. Recently shes been walking around saying that nothing scares her, and that she could watch any horror movie. Shes saying this because i freaked out at a scene in hereditary recently and she scared me. I wanted revenge. So I ...
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{ "description": "wanting to stay home and have some me time", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to stay home and have some me time?
So a little background: gf for about a year, just now meeting dad this weekend. He’s visiting and leaving tomorrow (Sunday) I go to school and live on campus about 45 minutes away from where my gf lives. I drive down every weekend to see her and once during the school week. Her dad came into town Wednesday and she wa...
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{ "description": "going to my supervisor before going to my coworker", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I go to my supervisor before going to my coworker?
So I work at a local news station and if you have no experience or knowledge of how the production side works all of our team has headphones with a mic on it so we can communicate to each other. The main purpose is to listen to the commands of the technical director, but as well as the Producer just in case he/she chan...
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{ "description": "telling a guy he wasn't good looking", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling a guy he wasn’t good looking?
Since Valentine’s Day was coming up I decided to give Tinder another try because I was ‘in the mood for love’ (terrible, I know). Usually I just set my profile preferences to women only, but this time around I decided to give mankind another chance and set it to both men and women. I’m not picky so I match with pretty ...
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{ "description": "leaving a queue at a dining establishment if whoever at the counter doesn't so much as acknowledge that I'm standing there within 90 seconds", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA: For leaving a queue at a dining establishment if whoever at the counter doesn't so much as acknowledge that I'm standing there within 90 seconds?
I get that it's one thing to wait for your food to be cooked and served, but does it take extraneous effort to make eye contact and say "I'll be with you in just a minute"?
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{ "description": "wanting to end a friendship because she won't stop talking about her deceased father", "pronormative_score": 49, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to end a friendship because she won't stop talking about her deceased father?
Firstly I'd like to start by saying that I lost my mom 6 years ago. I understand that grief does crazy things, and is extremely hard to get over. I met "Stacy" 5 years ago through university. We bonded over losing a parent so young, and being the same age (her birthday is 3 days after mine). Her dad passed away when s...
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{ "description": "making my friend buy me a new pair of $100 shoes after she lost mine", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I make my friend buy me a new pair of $100 shoes after she lost mine?
So I had a pair of Birkenstock’s that I wore literally every day. My best friend and I often share clothes/ shoes and sometimes she would ask to borrow my birks, which I had no problem with. A few months ago, she lost one of my shoes (idk how but she did). When she lost them (about 6 months ago) , she said “I’m so sorr...
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{ "description": "leaving a poor review for a car salesman", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for leaving a poor review for a car salesman?
Background: was in a wreck and car was totaled. Husband and I are looking for a car equal to what we're getting back from insurance, but we took out an auto loan so we can get a replacement before our rental runs out. We'll pay it back when we have the payout. We found a car that met all our criteria, but it was two ho...
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{ "description": "wanting my friend to get his own gym membership", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my friend to get his own gym membership?
I’m on mobile so sorry for any formatting issues. My friend and I used to workout together, let’s call him Jim, for a few months when I first got my gym membership. I pay about 20-25$ so that I can get special privileges including bringing a guest. So Jim would come with me and we would do a workout. I went about 5...
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{ "description": "getting \"caught\" having sex by my mom several times", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For getting “caught” having sex by my mom several times (in my own “house”)
So we just got back from a week long family trip, and after saying hello to everyone, we retired to our “house” (more on that later) at which point I attempted to seduce my girlfriend for some much needed sex. Living situation side-note: My girlfriend and I live in a renovated travel trailer RV that I own 100% and I ...
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{ "description": "leaving my fiancée for another guy", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for leaving my fiancée for another guy?
Am I the asshole for leaving my (25f) fiancée (27m) for another guy? We have been together for 7 years now. To start I DID NOT cheat. I have always been extremely loyal. I met a guy at work about 6 months ago who I guess I just sorta slowly fell in love with. We have been just friends. I could tell the attraction was...
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{ "description": "cutting contact instead of forgiving a friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for cutting contact instead of forgiving a friend?
Alright so there's a lot to unpack here. About 4 years ago I (now 25F) met a guy (now 28M) we will call Gary. There were a couple times while Gary and I were both single that he and I were friends with benefits. When I would cut off sex he would usually get salty about it and try to pressure me for sex. One of the t...
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{ "description": "trying to help my pregnant best mate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to help my pregnant best mate?
Okay, so this is probably going to be quite a long post, and it's my first - so I'm sorry if I'm not doing it right! TW - abortion, mental health, domestic violence, pregnancy. This story involves six people; Me, my ex best friend - who I'll call "Claire", her 'baby daddy' - who I'll call "Pete", my SO, Claire's sis...
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{ "description": "throwing away his ratty socks and underwear", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for throwing away his ratty socks and underwear?
Bf and I live together. He can barely take care of himself. For some twisted reason though I don’t mind so much. I like taking care of him. One of my major pet peeves though is that he NEVER updates his clothes. He refuses to go shopping for new stuff. Especially his socks and underwear. They literally all hav...
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{ "description": "not showing up to a wedding because my name isn't explicitly on the invitation", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA if I didn't show up to a wedding because my name isn't explicitly on the invitation?
Boyfriend: A; ​ Groom: B; ​ Bride: C ​ Me: me/I ​ A, B, and I all went to the same school and the three of us get along fabulously (I'm a girl who naturally gets along better with men, though I always reach out to women to the same extent when socializing). A is goin...
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{ "description": "leaving my drunk friend on the side of the road", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for leaving my drunk friend on the side of the road?
I was out in town with 3 friends, I wasn't drinking (they were) so I brought my car. We all live in a rural area so public transport is pretty much not an option. I live pretty close to them so it wasn't really a problem dropping them home. Going in was fine, found a place to park and went around to a few different pu...
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{ "description": "not giving back the skin", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I don’t give back the skin?
I’ve got a friend who I have known since high school. A year or two ago he got heavily into CSGO gambling and despite my efforts to tell him to stop wasting time and money he wouldn’t stop. With the return of some CSGO gambling websites he went right back to his old ways. Yesterday he gave me a knife worth roughly $90....
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{ "description": "wanting to abondon my roommates", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to abondon my roommates?
I was a former reddit browser, but this subreddit inspired me to make an account to share my story, so bare with me if this looks shitty. My roommates and I are high school juniors at a borading school. We've been besties since frshmen year, but this is the first year a three room dorm has opened up, and the previous...
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{ "description": "demanding people money for food they didn't eat", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for demanding people money for food they didn't eat
So, I was participating in a session of the European Youth Parliament at my school and we had a party the day before. Every comitee had to set up a table with food and I got my mom to buy it since no one else could (we only had the day of the party to get the food and we would be at school all day). Three of my colleag...
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{ "description": "resenting my friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for resenting my friends?
So I (22F) have been part of a friend group since freshman year of college, where I also made close friend A. I am a junior now. I have enjoyed our time in the past. However, there has been some drama, first with A, then the friend group. Context: last semester was personally very difficult for me. I cried in class ...
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{ "description": "not paying a friend who bought me a drink", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For not paying a friend who bought me a drink?
Bit of backstory, im 17, not legally able to buy my own drinks or even drink at all Every now and then a group of friends and I have a catch up, few drinks throughout the night, etc. 18yo friend wants to have a drink, so asks to stay at mine for the night, as he can't drive home after drinking, so I say yeah sure no ...
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{ "description": "liking a tweet that upset my friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for liking a tweet that upset my friend?
For a bit of backstory, I live in the UK where the age of consent is 16. My (hopefully still) friend (18M) is dating a girl (15F). At first I had a big problem with this but eventually decided to move on and accept it as I truly love and care about my friend and would rather be his friend than lose him to this. The...
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{ "description": "asking my grandmother not to touch me as much", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my grandmother not to touch me as much?
Throwaway, long time lurker, first time poster. Please forgive formatting issues as I am on mobile. TL;DR below. My grandmother (and my sister) were basically the ones who raised me since my parents worked all the time. According to them, I was a really affectionate baby and would always hug/kiss/cling to my grandmoth...
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{ "description": "not wanting to see my ill dad", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For not wanting to see my ill dad?
So, my dad isn't just ill. He has Parkinsons disease and has had it since aged just 39 (he is now 60) so as you can imagine he has progressively and gradually declined in health and these days he isn't really my dad anymore like we used to go fishing, football and bike rides. We did everything a father and his son woul...
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{ "description": "choosing my friend over my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for choosing my friend over my girlfriend?
I am a guy but most of my friends are girls. I dated this one girl in the past but we broke up bc things didn't work out. We are now really good friends and have moved on past dating. I started dating another girl who was my girlfriend. My girlfriend talked to me about 2 weeks into our relationship about how she had co...
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{ "description": "ditching a friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ditching a friend?
A couple of years ago I didn’t really have many friends. I became really good friends with this one quiet guy. I’d stay at his house a lot and we’d play video games together every night. I spent most of my free moments at school with him and we would watch a lot of videos and films together. He kept saying that he neve...
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{ "description": "posting to social media about the colleges I've gotten into", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I posted to social media about the colleges I've gotten into?
Here's my moral dilemma: Many friends of mine, upon getting accepted to a college they're willing to attend, post to social media to celebrate and collect applause from their peers. It's completely routine, but I have some reservations. To me, posts like these seem a little self-indulgent. There's a fine line between...
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{ "description": "telling him he looks ugly with a beard", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling him he looks ugly with a beard?
My bf is growing out his beard. It’s looking pretty rough. I’m not a huge fan of them, but when they are well groomed they’re not terrible. My bf is not properly grooming his though, it’s just wild and sticks out in weird places. Now before anyone jumps on my back, my bf was actually the first to open up the hai...
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{ "description": "rejecting a friend and then ghosting our friendship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for rejecting a friend and then ghosting our friendship?
This actually happened around 7 years ago but I've never forgotten about it and have felt guilty about it for years. I want to know once and for all if I was in the right or wrong. Please bear in mind I was 16 at the time and didn't know how to react, I'd react very differently if I was the person I am now. So in high...
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{ "description": "giving unemployed roommate ultimatum to get a job before lease renewal", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA to give unemployed roommate ultimatum to get a job before lease renewal?
I have not issued this ultimatum yet, but I considering doing this soon if things do not change by the time landlord asks for lease renewal. Roommate is also a friend.... Roommate has not bothered to look for job for over half a year. I have tried to talk about it, give leads, be encouraging, asked for other friends t...
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{ "description": "changing my mind about hanging out with a Guy", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Changing my Mind About Hanging Out with a Guy?
I am a 29-year old college student and in an English class that meets 3 times a week. A guy who I have spoken to 1 other time pulled me aside after class one day and asked, “hey, would you want to come hang out at the dunes with me and some of my friends?” I agreed and told him I needed as many friends as I could get...
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{ "description": "buying my ex's concert ticket so our group of three can take a different third person to the concert", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for buying my ex's concert ticket so our group of three can take a different third person to the concert?
Some context: Our group of 3 consisted of me, Lauren, and Megan. We all bought $100 tickets in October for a concert in March. Lauren and Megan were friends before college. They're also roommates and live in a quad with two other girls. I just transferred to their college so I only knew them for a couple months at t...
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{ "description": "spreading rumors about a girl that have been spreading rumors about me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for spreading rumors about a girl that have been spreading rumors about me.
So, a little backstory. This story takes place years ago, but I still wanted to hear your opinion. so here we go. when I was in middle school, I was famous as being one of the singers in my school, my voice isn't the best, but, I love to put a twist on my "performances". Like, adding rap to a song that doesn't have any...
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{ "description": "making a friend flirt with my ex's current bf to find out that he is cheating", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA (M16) for making a friend flirt with my ex's (F16) current bf (20) to find out that he is cheating?
So long story short I already posted about this last month but here is an update, me and my ex had a nice kinda friends relationship after we agreed to brake up, in December she met a guy online that is 20, has a kid and is a single father, I told her that i don't think is correct that a guy that got a girl pregnant at...
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{ "description": "choosing to go to a good college over moving in with my bf", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing to go to a good college over moving in with my bf?
This may be a little long, I’m sorry! This is my first real post to any sub on Reddit after being a lurker for a long time. WIBTA? My bf (23) and I (22 f) have been dating for almost six years now. Two years ago, he decided to take a high-paying job with all kinds of great benefits; however, it is almost a two-hour dri...
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{ "description": "telling my friends mother that he is sniffing lighter fluid", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If i told my friends mother that he is sniffing lighter fluid?
Background Me and my friend are really close and have been for the past 6 years, but he recently started sniffing lighter fluid and i want him to stop since it is not very healthy, he also smokes but i know that is none of my business. What options do i have?
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{ "description": "preemptively blocking someone on Discord for saying \"kek\"", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for preemptively blocking someone on Discord for saying "kek"?
A little bit of context: before I really realized I was trans or that I was heavily depressed, I briefly fell into a group filled with channers and alt rights and cryptofascists. It was probably the darkest, most fucky time of my life. I was miserable, the people around me we're manipualtive and horrifying, and in gene...
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{ "description": "refusing to go to the gym with my s/o", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing to go to the gym with my S/O?
Sorry if I explain this horribly but hear me out— ​ So my girlfriend (19f) and I (19m) have been together for \~4 years now. Both of us have always been on the chunky side, but never *fat.* Our stomachs never hang over our jeans, and we're fairly conscious about what we eat. Before we lived together, when ...
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{ "description": "trashing local restaurant", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for trashing local restaurant
This morning a Facebook friend of mine shared a post from one of his friends. The friend of my friend explains that he is taking over as manager of a local Thai restaurant and is sharing the new menu and so on. I previously had an absolutely horrible experience (twice, I tried to give them another shot) at this restaur...
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AITA Shutting Out Someone Who Thinks The World Is Against Them
So I am an acquaintance with this person (Female 14) that feels as if the world conspires against her in a way, which results in people picking on her, which, in turn, strengthens that feeling. She used to regularly talk with me for hours on end, sometimes very late at night, about her problems and I always attempt to...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my wife's question", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for getting upset at my wife's question?
This happened yesterday and I wanted to see if I was being a jerk. Context/Background: * My wife and I have been married for a few years * She was previously engaged for several months but then her fiance called off the wedding, so she was never married to him * She had an engagement ring and they were in the middle ...
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{ "description": "trying to have my maid of honor date his best man", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for trying to have my maid of honor date his best man?
I’m on mobile btw My maid of honor is my best friend and has been single. My SOs best man has a girlfriend but has been flirting with my friend or kept asking me if he had a chance. I got fed up and when my friend was staying over I had them chat. My SO agrees on them trying out since he knows everything about the g...
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{ "description": "sending my husbands ex a text, asking her to stop texting HIM", "pronormative_score": 39, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for sending my husbands (M30) ex a text, asking her to stop texting HIM?
We have been together for 2 years with a newborn son. My Husband and his ex had a relationship prior to us, which she ended. Me and my husband met and started a relationship, she saw and couldn’t deal. For 6 months she CONSTANTLY texted him, asking to get back together. After she noticed that he would not go back to he...
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{ "description": "getting rid of a book my dad gave me without reading it", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for getting rid of a book my dad gave me without reading it?
To add context, I am 27F, and my dad is 54M. Tl;dr at the bottom. So my dad bought me a book as a random gift last year. I was touched because I'm a big book nerd, albeit a picky one, and my dad doesn't normally do stuff like this. Still, I was stoked because he gave me this big long spiel about how he heard about t...
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{ "description": "not helping my brother when he and our dad fight", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping my brother when he and our dad fight?
Sorry for formatting, I'm on mobile. And this is quite long, I apologise. So, my little brother is 15 and he and our dad fight a lot. Whilst my dad definitely has issues with anger, he's gotten a lot better over the years at controlling himself. My brother is super annoying, as most 15 year olds are, but he seems to ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to continue my distance relationship for another 2 years", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I dont want to continue my distance relationship for another 2 years?
I'll make this fairly short. My girlfriend (22F) and I (23M) will have been dating a year next month. We were both military, i got out before her, and moved home (around June of 2018) anticipating her early release from active duty being in September of 2018. (palace chase for those familiar) Her separation got deni...
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{ "description": "ghosting my once-best friend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ghosting my once-best friend?
Hi reddit. Need some outsider perspective. I had a mutual Best Friend and were super close. I mean, at the hip close for probably five years. Then, her husband was stationed at a military base on the opposite side of the country and literally in the middle of our lunch I had to help her pack everything they had so sh...
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{ "description": "leaving my boyfriend after he got belligerently drunk and pissed in the floor", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my boyfriend after he got belligerently drunk and pissed in the floor?
So me and this guy have only been together about 2 months and tonight he had at least 16 beers according to his friend and roommate (he had the majority before I got over to his house). He woke up and tripped twice going to the restroom so when I went over to help him he yelled at me that he was in the bathroom and con...
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{ "description": "canceling plans with my dad", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For canceling plans with my Dad
Okay some relevent facts: 1. Both my father and step mom are alcoholics 2. Dad moved across country when I was 13 and I only saw him 1-2 times a year 3. Stepmom has always created drama (especially when drunk), my dad is not allowed to breathe the same air as my mother. 4. Dad moved back into my home state (PA) a few y...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at my friend for ditching when I was an hour late", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting pissed at my friend for ditching when I was an hour late?
There's a new student at my school, whom I'll call Anne. So Anne, Sophia(my other friend), and I were going to meet up at 1 pm and hang out. I woke up late, so I texted them around twenty minutes before we were going to meet up that if we could reschedule and meet up at 2 pm instead. Sophia agreed, but Anne didn't chec...
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{ "description": "thinking it is crazy that my manager told me to sit down when speaking to coworkers because my height intimidates them", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking it is crazy that my manager told me to sit down when speaking to coworkers because my height intimidates them?
I'm not THAT tall 6ft3, and I am not anyone's manager, so I am never reprimanding people. I feel discriminated against in a way (as crazy as that sounds).
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{ "description": "posting a bad review", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For posting a bad review?
I went to try out a popular local burger joint and I took a couple bites of one of their burgers. The taste was off and when I tried to swallow it I gagged hard and almost threw up. I posted a 2 star review on Google saying as much. Because I said the fries were great (which they were) they called me a liar and backsta...
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{ "description": "calling 000 on my ex", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For calling 000 on my ex?
A little bit of an introduction, both my ex and I are 17 and we just recently broke up a few weeks ago. The breakup hasn’t been very smooth, it’s been pretty hard on both of us, I won’t get into details but essentially we just haven’t spoken much. I didn’t take the break up well because to me it was kinda out of nowher...
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{ "description": "not wanting a present my girlfriend got me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting a present my girlfriend got me?
So this happend last christmas, i wanted to have a special jacket which i liked for a long time and told my family about. I knew they would buy it, my girlfriend also knew i wanted it. It was to expensive for her (about 200$), so she bought a similiar jacket for about 60$ to suprise me. She told me in early november ...
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{ "description": "trying to teach my mother how to use technology instead of just doing it for her", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to teach my Mother how to use technology instead of just doing it for her?
My mother calls me over all the time to do computer, phone, tv stuff for her. How do I set a passcode? How do I reset it to factory settings? How do I make the font bigger? I don’t have a problem helping her, but “how do I set a passcode” quickly turns into “can you just do it” once I start explaining. Lately when...
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{ "description": "leaving my pregnant gf", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I leave my pregnant GF.
We met on tinder and have been dating for 18 months on and off like the title says, we hit it off straight away, we (or so I thought) fell in love really quickly. But there was always this nagging feeling that I couldn't shake that something wasn't right. She told me she had an abortion the summer before we met and tha...
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{ "description": "being mad at my best mate for seeing a girl he knew I liked", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being mad at my best mate for seeing a girl he knew I liked
Hi Reddit ​ I have a bit of a situation here with me and two of my mates. ​ BM - Best mate, been friends since birth MF - Mutual friend of ours, female ​ Several years ago I had a serious crush on MF. Naive me thought I was in love with her. I told her how I felt one birthday and...
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{ "description": "taking a new job", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a new job
Back story is I put in for a job where I'll be traveling alot 5days in hotel weekends at home. I have a wife, 3yr old and and a 7month old. Before I ever applied I asked my wife told her everything about it she said it sounded good (I make roughly 650 dollars more now) plus paid food and has when I'm away, so hugh sav...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my boyfriend because of his disability", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend because of his disability?
Okay, before I get shouted at, please do read what it’s about. My bf and I have been a couple for the better part of a year now. We’re both at University and have lots of mutual friends. He’s a great guy. Charismatic, kind, smart, looks after himself, and all that jazz. We get on like a house on fire, love going out ...
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{ "description": "not sharing my salad with my mom", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not sharing my salad with my Mom?
I came home with a salad and began to eat it. My mom comes in while I'm eating the salad and she says "You're going to eat all of that? That's too much!" I said yes and continued to eat. Then my mom tried to convince me that it was too much for one person to eat and told me to only eat half. I reply with "I eat th...
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{ "description": "questioning my friend after she had cancelled meetings and being harsh after her reply", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for questioning my friend after she had cancelled meetings and being harsh after her reply
Me and a girl are friends. We tried a full relationship last summer, but we didn't hit off so we decided to stay friends at least. We had lot of fun, we rode ATV, explored abandoned areas and stuff like that. Usually it was me who had to invent, what we would do. Then, she canceled to meet once. I didn't think much abo...
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{ "description": "taking pictures of dogs outside without a leash and sending them to my leasing office", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for taking pictures of dogs outside without a leash and sending them to my leasing office?
So, I live in an apartment complex that allows large breeds of dogs (+25 lbs). There's no dog park area and we don't have enclosed yards, so you *have* to walk your dog to give them exercise and to allow them to use the bathroom. The problem is that some of the residents seem to be averse to keeping their dogs on a lea...
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{ "description": "reporting my club president", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for reporting my club president?
So, little background before all this. I'm in the arts org of my senior high, and I have the position of executive assistant to president and vice president. I was tasked by the president to give updates to our org adviser because his faculty was close to my homeroom and I could reach him the soonest. The whole sheba...
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{ "description": "resigning from my restaurant job", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA if I resign from my restaurant job?
So I am a management trainee in a restaurant, there is another management trainee who is the same position as me, but without work experience of the field(food and beverage). We hold the same salary figure even though I have a lot of experience and he does not. Will I be the asshole for resigning cos I am so petty...
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{ "description": "breaking ties with a long time friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking ties with a long time friend
So, I am a sophomore in Highschool and I have had a a friend (we’ll call him John) since elementary school. We used to hang it with each other lot but around 8th grade he started being a little controlling maybe? He dared me to do stupid shit like steal a pack of gum or whatnot I would usually say no but I didn’t want ...
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{ "description": "keeping £500 of my college fund, which is meant for paying off my debt", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for keeping £500 of my college fund, which is meant for paying off my debt?
So I'm 18 and started at uni/college this year, my parents told me about a fund they started when I was born where they put in birthday cheques from relatives etc. We went to the bank to take the money out the account and transfer it to my parents account so they could keep until I'm paying off my school debts. There...
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{ "description": "not trusting SIL to watch my kid", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I don't trust SIL to watch my kid?
Long story short, my sister in law and my husband have been trying to patch up their relationship after several years of conflict related to some poor choices my sister in law made. While things are better than they have been, I myself still don't fully trust her, and she annoys the hell out of me. She has a toddler,...
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