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{ "description": "cutting contact/not even saying hi to my best friend of 13 years", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for cutting contact/not even saying hi to my best friend of 13 years?
So me and my (ex) best friend haven't talked since September. Now, let's go wayback in 2018, as this story is quite big and complex. So I had a big crush on this girl for over a year, let's call her Maria and him John. One day, after school, me and John were on our way to grab something to eat, when we randomly bumped ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go home for winter break", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go home for winter break?
Some background info, I go to college several hours away from home and every time i go back home for break, the majority of it is ruined by arguments and conflicts with my mother or painful isolation. This has caused me to develop increased anxiety, depression, and in one case, cause self harm. I am going spend winter ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend because of white lies he kept telling", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend because of white lies he kept telling?
My now ex kept telling white lies, usually for attention or because he thought the truth would upset me. I told him to stop because I can't always tell what is true and what isn't until I found out what actually happened. He told me that he would never lie to me. Later I realised that I don't trust him and I told him t...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my depressed boyfriend for forcing me to role play his stories to make him happy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my depressed boyfriend for forcing me to role play his stories to make him happy.
Sorry for the long title and probably bad spelling and punctuation but am glad you are reading this. Ok the title alone probably puts me in a bad position for being called a monster but a bit of context. So my boyfriend and I are in a long distant relationship, have been for two years. It started off really good but ...
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{ "description": "leaving a wedding early", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for leaving a wedding early?
There's a girl I'm dating, we seem to get along and are getting pretty close. She tried to arrange having me come to her sister's wedding afterparty, but due to logistics and everything it wasn't completely guaranteed that it would happen. The day of the wedding, she messages me saying to come by. Now, this is a big de...
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{ "description": "asking to use something at the gym someone else is using", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking to use something at the gym someone else is using?
So I'm at the gym lifting the other day when this awkward situation happened. I finish up doing barbel rows and I see this girl. She's easily the hottest girl in the gym, blond hair, cute face, skinny waist and thiqq ass. She clearly doesn't skip leg day. That's all totally irrelevant though because the problem is that...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay 2/3 of the rent", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for not wanting to pay 2/3 of the rent?
When we first moved into our current place my girlfriend, my best friend/cousin and myself split our rent 3 ways. About 7 months ago my girlfriends mother came down with stage 4 pancreatic cancer and she moved to be with her mom as her caregiver about 4 months back so the house is now mostly my friends and I's responsi...
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{ "description": "not opening up to my host Mother Anymore", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Opening Up to My Host Mother Anymore?
I am in exchange I’m Brazil for a year, an opportunity I am more than grateful for. And I’ve gotten pretty close to my host family, but that has been out to a stop lately. The problem? My host mother tells everybody, I mean everybody, everything. She also puts everything on her Instagram story. We will call her Maria...
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{ "description": "blatantly ignoring my mother because I dont want to be her \"puppet\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blatantly ignoring my mother because I dont want to be her "puppet"?
Im sorry if this is really long and incomprehensible, I'm rage typing right now. First, just a little backstory: My parents are currently going through a divorce and let's just say they arent acting the most amicable towards each other. I'm already an "adult" (I'm 19) so this isnt a matter of who gets custody or that ...
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{ "description": "going off on a person who threatened me but was probably high", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going off on a person who threatened me but was probably high?
Pretty sure I'm not but it bothers me because he may not have been in the right mind state when this happened. Was catching the bus home the other day and an older gentlemen (40ishM) (I'm 28M) proceeded to light a cigarette on the bus. I was eyeing him the whole time and right before he lit it he looked at me and sai...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to pay back rent", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to pay back rent?
I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 4 years but we still keep separate finances and split rent. There was a period where she was unemployed and I was paying 100% of the rent for which I didn’t ask, nor do I want, her to pay me back. She then found a job that she started on the first of the the month. Since sh...
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{ "description": "considering calling child protective services on my parents", "pronormative_score": 48, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for considering calling child protective services on my parents?
So my parents have been pretty anti civilization for as long as I can remember, they brought up 11 children including myself and a large section of my childhood was spent in a bus traveling with them, we only moved into a house when I was seven years old. After we got internet they began to adopt anti vaxxer views and ...
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{ "description": "asking my ex-roommate for rent", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my ex-roommate for rent?
I'm on mobile, sorry for formatting, etc. Until earlier this month, myself and three other people lived together. One is my fiancé D, one is my best friend A, the last one was B, a friend of mine that was dating A for about five months. A and I both knew B from high school through friends. D and B were also good fr...
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{ "description": "nearly killing 2 14 year old boys", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA: I nearly killed 2 14 year old boys
This is my first Reddit post so im not familiar on how I should approach a title or text so sorry about that. So basically at the time it was around 6 months ago (I'm 16 btw male) and I took my girlfriend's little sister (she was 5 at the time and we'll call her M for now) to the park so I was on my phone just texting ...
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{ "description": "kicking my roommate out", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for kicking my roommate out?
So long story ahead. Me and my girlfriend dated for a few months. So I ended up moving in, someone we worked with became good friends with us and she moved in, we will call her B. So B was a lesbian and had a girlfriend that never lived here, I never had a problem with her living here and she was great to have around...
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{ "description": "being upset over a piñata", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset over a piñata?
On mobile, sorry. I’ll try to summarize this as best as I possibly can. This happened a little over a year ago, but its still something I wonder about. It was about two weeks before my sons first birthday, and I was working hard to plan it. My MIL were talking about the event and I mentioned I would like her opinio...
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{ "description": "wanting to dote on my kids", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to dote on my kids?
Not my story, but my dads girlfriends (who I really support in this story. But this is the view from an outsider) So, a few months back my dads girlfriend, who I'll call C, had her kids over (1 girl, who is a gymnast and in college, 3 sons, 1 is depressed, 1 has a wife and three kids, and another who is planning on g...
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{ "description": "lying to my girlfriend about my previous history", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for lying to my girlfriend[17F] about my previous history?
When I was 10(I’m 17 now) my parents hired a babysitter Amanda who was 17 at the time. We had “play times” where we would both take our clothes off and we would fondle each other and she would perform oral sex on me. I never told anyone about it because it felt good and I remember Amanda being nice. Amanda would tel...
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{ "description": "asking which apartment a girl lives in after she brought up the fact that we live in the same apartment building", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITAH for asking which apartment a girl lives in after she brought up the fact that we live in the same apartment building?
Sorry for the akward title, wasn't sure how to phrase this succinctly Also spoilers: compared to a lot of posts here this is probably pretty tame, but it's been bugging me so I thought I would ask. Oh my days off from school and/or when I work closing shifts I swing by the local Coffee Bean to grab coffee and breakf...
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AITA - Knife Snowball
Context: my wife gave birth to our daughter last September. She is returning to work in May. I took 2 weeks paternity and have since been at work full time. Since giving birth, she has been distant from me, which is totally understandable given the new little person in our life. Often, when I get home I clean the house...
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{ "description": "dropping out of medicine", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dropping out of medicine?
A bit of backstory first, 2 years ago i graduated from highschool and took the university entrance exam in my country (1 exam for all the unis) i wasn’t really sure what i wanted to study on higher education but my parents wanted me to study medicine and i’ve always avoided confrontation with that. So i took the exam a...
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AITA guy doesn’t like my reverse stellar driving skills in a school zone, I ignore a high ranking individual, just trying to get through life...
The new school where I am stationed was built with roads that if everyone was even a partially proficient driver, there would be room for people to park on both sides up against the curb, and a third car could squeeze between them, thus not inhibiting the flow of cars coming and going during pickup of children. I am ...
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{ "description": "struggling with mother", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for struggling with mother?
Trigger: childloss, termination I am almost 36 weeks with my "first" baby In reality this is my 6th pregnancy, with 3 early losses. I have been a complete neurotic wreck. Anyhow, my mother was quite nasty to me through my very first pregnancy, escaping an abusive relationship with sperm donor, and essentially from ev...
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anocfa
{ "description": "getting mad at a friend about STD's", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at a friend about STD's?
I have a female friend (let's call her A) with whom I've had sex with regularly and I've had sex with another girl friend (she'll be B) too, of course regarding sex things I'm way too cautious so I wear condoms with both of them. Anyways, A sent my a message today asking me if I wanted to see her and I told her no bec...
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{ "description": "being upset at my family for stealing my name", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset at my family for stealing my name?
My aunt asked my mother if her newborn son (my cousin) could "borrow" my name... As in be named the same FIRST, MIDDLE, and LAST name as me... She (without asking me) said yes and now there are two people in my family with the same exact fricking name.
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{ "description": "not covering rent", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not covering rent
This hasn't happened yet but I wanna know if I'm potentially going to be an ass. My girlfriend of 5 years just broke up with me. We had both singed a year long lease, but we ended up moving out when I got a well paying job in another province, and she moved in with a friend in her school program. She had plans to trans...
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{ "description": "not taking gf out to Dinner", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Taking GF Out To Dinner?
As of December my company went under and I got laid off from my job and haven't had any significant income coming into the house for close to 2 months now because of it. I recently decided to lower my standards a bit and take a lower level job than what I've been working the past few years just as a way to get some inc...
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{ "description": "cutting in front of someone when a new register opened", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cutting in front of someone when a new register opened?
One day I went to a big box store and only ended up with a squeegee. The lines were long but I wasn't in a rush so I waited. There were maybe 8 people in front of me. A register opens to the right and some people from the front of my line have moved over. This guy with a large cart of items in front of me hasn't move...
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{ "description": "excluding a friend from my supper parties for mocking our food", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for excluding a friend from my supper parties for mocking our food?
HELLO PROBATIVE PROCTOLOGISTS! I am poor. I recently had a small windfall of $5k, which I have saved $3.5k, spent $1k on stuff I really desperately needed (new shoes, repairs) and put aside $500 for me to spend freely on enjoyable stuff just for me. Because i am poor, and have been for some time, I have long had "sup...
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awkum3
{ "description": "breaking it off", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For breaking it off?
am i the asshole for thinking about breaking it off? ​ My girlfriend of almost 2 years is hanging out with her two friends(Jake and maria who are a couple) that stole 600+ dollars from me and both got fired from jobs i got them (one fired for missing money(300$) from register/harassing female coworkers an...
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{ "description": "trying to ghost a kid", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AItA? Trying to ghost a kid.
AItA? Ok so in high school I hung out with this kid I’m gonna call Conor. Conor and I weren’t close, barely more than acquaintances. After we graduated we didn’t see each other for a solid year or so. Every so often I’d see him when we both hung out with our home friends when we came back from college. Never alone toge...
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atiram
{ "description": "wanting to isolate from my family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Wanting to Isolate From My Family?
Background: I am twenty-three but live with my family while attending college. Our family has a rule: we can live within the house rent-free so long as we are either attending school or working. I pay for my books and classes. ​ Tuesday night, I became violently ill (TMI: nausea, diarrhea). ​...
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{ "description": "wanting my roommate to give up peanut butter", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for wanting my roommate to give up peanut butter?
So a little backstory, I've been allergic to peanuts for my entire life, but the severity of my allergy has significantly decreased. My family used to buy and use peanut butter anyways while I was younger, until I finally told them that the smell would make me nauseous and I'd prefer if they could switch to almond butt...
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{ "description": "telling my suicidal friend I didn't want to know her anymore", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my suicidal friend I didn't want to know her anymore?
My friend suffers from borderline personality disorder and depression. She was suicidal and checked herself into a psychiatric unit. I was visiting her frequently, but stopped fairly abruptly. I suffer from schizophrenia and I was slipping back into psychosis at the time. The voices (which in my crappy mental state, I...
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{ "description": "asking my sister if her 4 year old stole money", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my sister if her 4 year old stole money?
It's pretty cut and dry. Lately he's been caught taking money on a few seperate occasions, with the most so far been over a hundred pounds, he's even gone into people's pockets and taken notes without them knowing. Whenever we ask him why he does it he says he's trying to save up for a PS4. Anyway, it's my other sist...
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{ "description": "being pissed off that my new counterpart at my job asked for a day off that I wanted to take off", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being pissed off that my new counterpart at my job asked for a day off that I wanted to take off?
I’ve been in my position for 10 months now, my job is extremely demanding. I tend to work 10 hour days on average, have only taken one day off for my birthday in December. I had been asking for a counterpart for awhile and my two bosses finally were able to hire someone! She seemed really promising but she’s about 3 ...
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{ "description": "putting value in partner's social media choices", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for putting value in partner's social media choices
I've been with a guy for a year and a half. We've had our ups and downs, and in the beginning he dated someone else while I was with him, he stop dating me to date her. We got back together but I eventually found out about her through instagram, and the only way I confirmed it was by directly messaging the girl, he d...
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{ "description": "being frustrated with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being frustrated with my girlfriend?
We've been only texting because I've been away for training for a while. A lot of long day, not much time for calls. Military stuff. I've posted here once before. Anyways, she has been taking small misunderstanding on my part, and just starting and arguement like I was personally attacking her. We'd clear the air and...
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{ "description": "telling my gf not to message other men using intimate language", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my gf not to message other men using intimate language?
I read a text that my gf sent to a "friend" around the time we started dating. The message started "Hi my love!" and ended with a kissy face emoji. Months later (in the midst of our relationship) she messaged him again saying something like "our babies would be so blonde and cute" (the context of the convo was them dis...
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{ "description": "specifically requesting no children younger than 16 be at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 68, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA If I specifically request no children younger than 16 be at my wedding?
My gf and I were discussing this and its something I think about a lot. I'm not fond of kids at the best of times, but god help anyone that would bring a young child to our special day. I mostly have a problem with the parents as the kids cant really help it, but if you decide that you're too important for a babysitter...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go skiing with my father because I want to use my weekends to give my body rest", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go skiing with my father because i want to use my weekends to give my body rest
I'm 17 M and living with my father and my sister. Now i work in a kitchen from 9-2 and then from 6-10. I rarely get my 8 hours of sleep and my father wanted to go skiing. He knows that i work rly hard and i told him that u barely get the sleep i need and he says as an excuse that hes sleeping 5 hours a day bc he works ...
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{ "description": "yelling at a guy bursting firecrackers", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for yelling at a guy bursting firecrackers?
So I had taken my dog out for a walk and there was this guy bursting really loud firecrackers. They were the really loud kind, and its like 10 in the night. It pissed me off because it startled my dog who's sensitive to loud noises, so I just kind of looked at him hoping he'd stop. He didn't, he just went on bursting t...
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{ "description": "throwing out my mom's rice cake", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for throwing out my mom's rice cake?
So my mom has been sick the past few days and I just took her to the doctor's office. We come home and I bring out some of this rice cake stuff that we had from new year's. I was cutting it when I realized it had gotten a little moldy on the side. I prepare to cut off that part and then throw it in the pan just to be s...
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{ "description": "refusing to make my coworker tea", "pronormative_score": 40, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to make my coworker tea?
Myself and a coworker that I sit with in my office take it in turns to make each other tea, as is required by British social conventions/proper office etiquette. The dispute stems from the fact that he has what I would describe as a serious problem in the sense that he seemingly needs a cup of tea every ten minutes ...
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{ "description": "telling my cousin his girlfriend is crazy", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my cousin his girlfriend is crazy?
So, my cousin (M20) has been dating this girl (F18) since high school and since then she’s been VERY abusive. I’m talking hitting him, pouring bleach on things, threatening to kill him AND our family, etc etc. He was done with her for good but she’s now pregnant and he wants to be there for her. My grandmother particul...
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{ "description": "not going to my niece's wedding", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to my niece's wedding?
My niece got engaged on Valentines day, she is getting married the end of April. We are very close to their family, closer than any of her other Aunts and Uncles. Her dad is in the military, and we happened to live close to them a couple places where they were stationed, and did a lot of holidays with just our two fami...
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{ "description": "getting angry over the stuff my mum buys me even tho I tell her I dont need it but she buys it anyway", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry over the stuff my mum buys me even tho I tell her I dont need it but she buys it anyway?
Don't know how else to explain this so I ll give a quick example. Recently I asked my mum if she could go to a furniture shop with me because I would like to get another shelf for my room since it's fairly small and I slowly run out of space. I told her that I would buy it myself and that i need it bc otherwise my st...
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{ "description": "demanding professionalism from a Co-Worker", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Demanding Professionalism From A Co-Worker
Here at my job we have multiple departments under the same banner, I feel this is probably similar to many places. One of the employees under a different department has decided she wants to migrate from her current one to working in mine. I am not setting myself us the praetorian guard of professionalism, but I try ...
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{ "description": "refusing a rent increase", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing a rent increase
My partner (23f) and I (27m) have been living in our apartment for 2 years, going on 3. Our landlord has given us a letter notifying the increase of rent (2.5%), which was slightly higher than last year's (2%). We agreed on the increase during the previous year as to not create any animosity. However, this year we deci...
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{ "description": "not letting my roommate make out with their bf", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my roommate make out with their bf?
for context, i live in a dorm that’s three bedrooms connected to a central living room. i directly share a bedroom with my roommate. so my roommate started dating a guy back in october and they soon developed a habit of regularly asking me to sit out in the living room so they could have the bedroom to make out in (i ...
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{ "description": "no longer being in love with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for no longer being in love with my boyfriend?
Before him, I had never really been treated with love and respect in a relationship. He made me feel loved and cared for and now it's not doing anything for me and I feel like I need more. AITA for wanting to leave him?
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{ "description": "joking and asking my sister \"if it's her time of the month\"", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 35 }
AITA(14M) for joking and asking my sister(16F) "if it's her time of the month"
So me and my older sister are never serious with each other. So last night me and my twin sister were in the living playing on the xbox one cuase my mom makes us keep it in the living room so she can use the blu ray player on it. So were sitting there playing dark souls 3 and my older sister comes up flops on the couch...
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{ "description": "not tipping a delivery driver who was super late", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA: for not tipping a delivery driver who was super late?
AITA: We ordered pizza from the Domino's arround the corner. We used the online app. We placed our order and watched each notification on the cool pizza tracker. The guy left the store at about 6:40pm. According to Google maps we live 1 minute drive time from the store. I tested it at 29 seconds to drive. The guy did n...
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{ "description": "not taking care of my roommates dog", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not taking care of my roommates dog?
My roommate and best friend (basically brother to me) has had a german shepard for about a year now. He got her when she was about 3 weeks old and drove 2 states away and back to buy her. At first he took care of her in the best of ways. About a month in I could see him starting to lose focus of her, he had a full time...
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{ "description": "not informing my twins about their birth order", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for not informing my twins about their birth order?
I am the father of 11 yo twins. My twins don't know who the "older" brother is, because we didn't tell them. We believe the birth order of twins is completely irrelevant--they were born mere minutes apart, after all. Somewhat predictably, my sons are somewhat upset by that, and they keep asking me about it, despite our...
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{ "description": "my mate getting in trouble with his parents", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For my mate getting in trouble with his parents
So basically my mate asked me to take care of his gold fish while he went camping. I gladly decided to do so because I know how much his family means to him and that he doesn’t want to get in trouble. While he was gone I stayed over fed the fish everyday and got my self some food to eat. I would always clean up after m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my potential lottery winnings with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not wanting to share my potential lottery winnings with my boyfriend?
My boyfriend drove us to a gas station tonight to purchase Mega Millions tickets. I was joking around saying that I was going to win. He said that if I did win, he would expect me to give him a couple million dollars just for driving me to the store. I laughed and said I wouldn’t give him any money if I won. He was fla...
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{ "description": "missing my brother's wedding", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for missing my brother's wedding?
This situation is over a year old but things have still been not good between us since. To set the scene, I'm at uni right now studying in a field that requires typically 2 years work experience (usually unpaid) to gain a shot at a junior position, post graduation. My degree offered a placement work year that meant I...
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{ "description": "cold-shouldering the kid who takes out the trash at my office", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for cold-shouldering the kid who takes out the trash at my office?
So there's this kid who comes in every day to empty the trash bins at each of our desks in our office. He seems like a nice enough kid, but he's like...aggressively friendly. He sees some of the toys and collectibles around my desk and tries to engage me in conversation about them..."Oh, hey, Star Wars, cool...did you ...
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{ "description": "telling off somebody who was begging for change", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling off somebody who was begging for change?
So I was at the grocery store earlier this week just getting a few things, and this whole situation happened. ​ As I was paying for my stuff (with cash), I noticed a guy near the exit who looked homeless. As I'm walking back to my car to leave, this guy catches up to me and asks if I could spare him a few ...
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{ "description": "not coming to take MY dress and WOULDN'T pay the tailor", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA IF I WOULDN'T COME TO TAKE MY DRESS AND WOULDN'T PAY the tailor???
I came to a tailor to make my dress for my engagement. She said it would take 2 weeks, I could take it on March 01st, I MADE A DEPOSIT OF 1/3 for it (Im sure it was enough for the clothes and decorations). It was expensive but because I hoped it would be great so I didn't care much about the money. The dress must be re...
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{ "description": "ignoring someone's lifting advice", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring someone’s lifting advice?
I was exercising at the gym, doing an exercise that’s not quite as common (not goofy looking) to target specific functions of the muscle I wanted when some random guy showed up and wanted to give me advice, saying I should do a different exercise instead. He went on for a little bit about how the one he wanted me to do...
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{ "description": "going out to lunch with an old acquaintance and using a gift card to pay for myself but not offering to pay for theirs even though they know I was just gifted a large amount on the gift card", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I went out to lunch with an old acquaintance and used a gift card to pay for myself but didn’t offer to pay for theirs even though they know I was just gifted a large amount on the gift card?
I’m going to dinner with a close friend, X, who is still very close to someone who I would no longer consider a friend, but an old acquaintance, Z. Now X is kind of trying to revive my friendship with Z and suggested we all get dinner sometime because they know I just got a gift card to our formerly favorite restaurant...
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{ "description": "hanging out with someone else tonight", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I hang out with someone else tonight?
I previously made plans with someone to chill tonight, but now have found out someone I haven't seen for over a month, and likely won't see for several months after tonight, will be passing through town. Now they have asked me to hang out tonight. Person 1 I live like a 35min drive from, so I'd be able to hang out wi...
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{ "description": "asking a streamer for a tier list and letting a conversation spiral out of control", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a streamer for a tier list and letting a conversation spiral out of control.
Hi there, so I normally lurk on twitch streams, but I saw a smash youtuber (competitive player too) on today who I liked, so I decided to come check out his stream. He was talking about how character x was better than he thought, and also that character y was really good. Now he had made a prerelease tier list, but wha...
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{ "description": "not believing a friend about her depression", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not believing a friend about her depression?
We began our friendship mid-2018, and it's been good actually. But, the problem is that she is constantly lying. Her "childhood story" has changed multiple times and shes one of the people would say something along the lines of "and everyone clapped". She only recently started speaking of depression since she began ha...
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{ "description": "being annoyed that my boyfriend got drunk and slept in bed with a past crush of his", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed that my boyfriend got drunk and slept in bed with a past crush of his?
Some background information here: My boyfriend and I have been dating for around 2 years now and met as college students on the same course. Before we started dating he liked another girl who unfortunately for him, did not feel the same way. Recently I found out that while we were visiting our families at home he had...
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{ "description": "cutting ties", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting ties?
Let's get right into it. I got into the college of my dreams in November of senior year, and I was so excited. C (friend) and her sister had missed *at least* a month of school, so me and my friends S and R kinda assumed they weren't going to graduate. By some miracle they did, and while C's sister took a year off befo...
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{ "description": "keeping my phone on when my mum was talking to me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for keeping my phone on when my mum was talking to me
For context, I suffer from diagnosed depression and anxiety and have medication to help me, I also have a loving gf who keeps me going, my parents, especially my mum, don’t believe in depression and say I’m using it as an excuse. Ok so, this night was particularly bad, I’m a gifted kid but I lack effort, my parents al...
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{ "description": "wanting some private time", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA - I want some private time.
I go to my parents in CA once a year with my three kids and wife for vacation. One of my siblings decided they also want to come that week, and so last year they showed up with their seven children. Our families generally get along, but instead of being a relaxing vacation it becomes a family reunion with all the noise...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend time with my sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend time with my sister
I just moved from Arizona to California 5 months ago, and I now live about 1 hour away from my older sister (about 12 years older). I did not grow up with this person. Our family moved from Mexico to California when I was 4, and then we moved to Arizona when I was 10, and this sister stayed in California. Since I was...
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{ "description": "reminding my gf to return me x amount of money each month", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for reminding my gf to return me x amount of money each month?
Me (f) and my gf are both 20, we use parent money just to preface, and I admit we are both in wealthier families. I don’t buy expensive items a lot because I don’t think they’re that necessary + gf is high expense. Been together for almost 3 years. I pay for meals almost everyday, buy the stuff she tells me to buy wh...
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{ "description": "telling my friends they can't ride in my car anymore", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friends they can’t ride in my car anymore
For context - were all in high school and young but I’m the only one in the group who has a license and and car. Everyone else only has their instruction permit. I usually end up providing rides to my friends because I’m the only one who is able to. While I’m driving my friends love to make comments and heavily critic...
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{ "description": "getting really fed up with people parking in my assigned spot in our apartment lot", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting really fed up with people parking in my assigned spot in our apartment lot?
So for starters, I'm a partially disabled, chronically ill young woman who often but not always depends on a cane to get around. It's especially common for me to need to use it after a long shift at my somewhat physically demanding job. I don't get home until 10:30 or 11pm usually on those days. Our apartment complex ...
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{ "description": "ghosting an ex who is potentially in a manipulative or abusive relationship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for ghosting an ex who is potentially in a manipulative or abusive relationship?
This ex and I had a rough breakup. I work a job that requires me to be away for very long stretches of time, and as is common for people with this type of job, was cheated on. About six months into a year contract, she told me she was checking herself into a hospital. Worried, I tried to get more info on her condition,...
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{ "description": "leaving my current d&d group for another one if they can't agree to be more consistent with scheduling", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for leaving my current D&D group for another one if they can’t agree to be more consistent with scheduling?
Hi folks! I’m in a D&D group with a couple of folks. Our current campaign has been going for over 2 years now. I really enjoy playing and it something I look forward to. My fiance and I, host the sessions and I’ve gotten us quite a bit of things to make sure the game is engaging and fun. Miniatures, dice, trays, pr...
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{ "description": "shoving my sister down a hill", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for shoving my sister down a hill?
Okay so it just snowed like crazy, like we have 8 inches of snow. It’s insane. So anyway, we live right by this giant hill, and me and my sister decided to like, go sledding or whatever. So we goed to the very top of the hill, which was like, 10-15 feet up from the normal ground? Idk. And so my sister decided she’d sle...
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{ "description": "having evidence that says I'm right", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for having evidence that says I'm right?
Throwaway, ftp & ltl blah blah. Ok lets start Friend - L So a while back we were using L's computer and I noticed a game he has that I enjoy myself. Me - Oh you play \_\_\_ too? I love that game. Its great. L - Well I use to but I beat it and reached x rank for this, y money, and some more exaggerated claims....
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{ "description": "not backing down and getting off at my bus stop", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not backing down and getting off at my bus stop?
So when this first happened I was 100% sure I was in the right but in hindsight I may be at least partially responsible. So I was riding my bus home on Valentines. A few stops down this guy gets on the bus. The bus driver had shut the back bus doors by the time he had arrived, but left the front doors open. This guy ...
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{ "description": "cutting off all contact with a girl because she \"just wanted to be friends\"", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off all contact with a girl because she “just wanted to be friends”
[WITA] I cut off all contact with a girl because she “just wanted to be friends” Now in this case WITA is more of a “was I the asshole” rather then would I be. I hope that’s acceptable. ___ So in freshman year of college I tried my best to get out of my shell and get into things. I attended most of the WOW events (W...
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{ "description": "not letting it go", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting it go?
Hello! first of all I'm going to leave a tw for suicide mention, also you'll have to excuse me for any grammar mistake since I'm French 😔 So here's what happened: me (23f) and my boyfriend (24M) were supposed to attend a party with my bf's friends for new year's eve. I agreed since it would have made him happy, even t...
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{ "description": "making my friend pay for a holiday that they backed out on", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my friend pay for a holiday that they backed out on?
So to provide background, two friends and myself planned a trip together and decided to rent an AirBnB house for a week. We planned well in advance (6 months) and I agreed to pay for it upfront on my credit card 50% at that time and then the remaining 50% would come out before our trip. Everything was going well, eve...
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{ "description": "expecting my friend to pay for my lunch", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting my friend to pay for my lunch?
So this happened a while ago. A mutual friend (who we’ll call Nate) came up to visit my friend (who we’ll call Alex) and I in college a state away. We all went to high school together so we’re all good friends. We were all supposed to sleep at Alex’s apartment as I was still living in the dorms. A few hours into the n...
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{ "description": "not wanting to throw condoms away", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to throw condoms away
Probably something that was brought up before but there I go : I recently moved in with my SO, and since she's on the pill and we both got tested for STDs we stopped using condoms. I still have a box of (quality) condoms on my hands, and I decided to put it away in a cupboard in the bathroom. When she found out I had s...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go on vacation with the man who violated my wife", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go on vacation with the man who violated my wife?
TX raise up. Throwaway obviously. ​ So, I am pretty certain I'm not but am feeling guilt from my SO is complaining that I am being mean and selfish. This summer SO wants us to go for a family vacation with the in-laws, this would be the second time we do so. The trip would include her siblings, her paren...
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{ "description": "being mad that my girlfriend wont stay the night and take me to the airport", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for being mad that my girlfriend wont stay the night and take me to the airport?
We've been together for two years. We don't live together, but we sleep together almost every night. She is about to graduate college and relocate for a job. I am also looking to relocate. We are going to do the long distance relationship thing if needed for no longer than a year at which point we will break up or one ...
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{ "description": "being upset with my friend because of how he treats people, including me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my friend because of how he treats people, including me.
I’ve been friends with this guy (let’s call him Q) for a couple years. There has always been times where we have gotten in arguments and it seems like the friendship is over but we end up pretending it never happened. Which I’m not sure if that’s healthy. I’ll be fair, it feels like I might be overreacting but that’s ...
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{ "description": "kissing a girl with a bf", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for kissing a girl with a BF?
I (26/m) met Amanda (19/f) about a week and a half ago. While speaking with Amanda, she reveals that she is unhappy with her boyfriend (27/m) and has been for 6 of the 8 months they have been together. I told her that's ridiculous and if she has been unhappy for so long she should end it. She asks for my snapchat and w...
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{ "description": "telling my Sister's friend to stop adding so many men on snapchat", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my Sister's friend (16) to stop adding so many MEN on snapchat?
My sister has a very close friend who comes over to stay at our house for sleep overs, I am my sister's legal guardian and I think of her friend as a niece in a way. I often take them to places such as the mall or the movies. Every time I do she go up to at least one man, at least my age, which is 24 and asks them for ...
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{ "description": "\"coming off negative\" or \"attacking\" when I am straight forward with someone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for “coming off negative” or “attacking” when I am straight forward with someone?
I have a family member who in my opinion always takes things personal. Doesn’t matter what it is, but if you don’t use exact words, he takes things as if you’re attacking his character or putting him down. I am a straight forward person and I say how I feel, what I think etc. as I think honesty will only help althoug...
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{ "description": "walking out of my class as they attempted to sing happy birthday to me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for walking out of my class as they attempted to sing happy birthday to me?
My 4th hour science class is my least favorite class. I always feel like I’m an outsider from the pre established groups of students. My opinion is never taken into account when looking at things that involve me. The biggest example of this is when the entire class had an debate on how to pronounce my name and no one l...
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{ "description": "expecting my boyfriend to help me through my head injury", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting my boyfriend to help me through my head injury?
Hiya. LTL, FTC. On mobile blah blah blah. About a week ago, I sustained a severe concussion and brain contusion at work from hitting my head on marble. It's been very hard for me to be "normal"; everything is slow, especially my speech. Everyone has been helpful- my roommates, work, my parents and friends. Everyone e...
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{ "description": "resenting my great grandmother and wanting her to move out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for resenting my great grandmother [93] and wanting her to move out?
pardon the terrible formatting. much dreaded mobile user. a bit of background. trying to be vague while presenting as much information as possible here. i’m a teen. my great grandmother moved in with my family (mother, father, and i) when i was three. There was initial agreements set in place between my parents & ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with someone because they were mean while on their period", "pronormative_score": 73, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I broke up with someone because they were mean while on their period?
I (M39) have been dating someone (F25) for a few weeks now. She has recently started her period and has been in a lot of discomfort as a result. I have been trying to do everything I can to ease her pain, but through it all, she has been pretty mean to me. For instance, she was at work and complaining of cramps. I offe...
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{ "description": "thinking about divorce over lack of sex", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking about divorce over lack of sex?
Am iI the asshole for having thoughts, like vivid planning, of getting divirceddivorced over lscklack of sex? 35m with my wife 30f with two kids. Been together ten years. Up until 18 months ago our sex life had ups and downs but was over all pretty good. Then one day it stopped, all intimacy stopped. We saw counsel...
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{ "description": "narcing on my sister to our mother", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for narcing on my sister to our mother?
In my teens and early twenties I experimented with different drugs. I don’t think it’s that uncommon. My youngest sister is going through that phase I’ve tried not being a hypocrite about it and staying out of her business. The problem is I know her dealer from my own previous experiences with him. He is not a saf...
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{ "description": "friending someone on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for friending someone on Facebook?
I'm pretty liberal with friending people on FB. If I see someone I know in my suggestions, I friend them automatically, and I don't care much about whether they see/like my stuff or whether I see/like their stuff. I'm in my first year of college & have been friending lots of people at my school. So far, pretty muc...
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{ "description": "turning a guy down because he's short", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA For Turning A Guy Down Because He's short?
I was at a bookstore last week and I ended chatting with a guy and he was nice and cute and asked for my number and even though I'm like 2-3" taller than him I gave him it. We're both 22 I'm like 5'8 he's maybe 5'5, we spoke on and off for a week and he asked me out to a bar I had no plans and so I agreed and it was a ...
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{ "description": "not inviting my cousin to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I didn't invite my cousin to my wedding?
Sorry if formatting is weird, on mobile. So for some background my mother's side of the family is pretty big, each of her siblings had two kids and were spread pretty evenly apart. My brother (Alex) and I ended up growing up pretty close, proximity wise, to two cousins: Brian and James. This is for many reasons the p...
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{ "description": "helping everyone but one kid in the class with homework", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I help everyone but one kid in the class with homework?
So, I'll make the introduction quick. I am in some gifted program(we're in 10th grade, program starts in 9th), and as you canimagine, people who may be smart(er than the average guy) get in too. And some of them are "name-droppers", arrogant or whatever.. sadly, my English isn't good enough to describe it . We are not ...
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