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"description": "wanting credit for my writing",
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} | AITA for wanting credit for my writing? | I had a friend, I'll call her K.
K (24) is a semi known, some what professional singer in our city. She doesn't do it full time; doesn't make a living from it, but makes a bit. I'm a writer.
About 6 months ago, I sent K some lyrics I was working on, because she was saying how she was in a musical rut. We met and she... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "asking my roommate to stop watching YouTube videos around me",
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} | AITA for asking my roommate to stop watching YouTube videos around me? | Some background. My roommate and I are good friends and have been since before high school. We are both 25 now.
This is obviously not the biggest deal in the world but it is irritating. What happens is that any time I’m in the living room watching TV he comes in and starts watching YouTube videos loudly on his phone.... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not caring about GF's friends",
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} | AITA for not caring about GF's friends? | So I'm 20, and in my first LTR with an amazing girl. She's fantastic tbh, but recently she's been wanting me to hang out with her and her friends, which to be honest, I don't want. I'm sure their nice people and all, but I literally have zero interest in these people, and I'm not gonna develop friendships with any of t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "going at school instead of staying home while very contagieus",
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} | AITA for going at school instead of staying home while very contagieus? | I mean, my teachers told me this was the worst thing i ever done in school, or is it?
*Vsauce music plays* | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "waking him",
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} | AITA For waking him? | I need help. Or maybe someone to vent to. I don't know. I just got my ass chewed out for no reason.
Little context before I begin. My hubby applied for a driving position at night that will bring in good money that we desperately need . Just got his permit and are waiting to hear back with a hopeful "You're hired!"
He'... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to go to Disney with my family",
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} | AITA For Not Wanting To Go To Disney With My Family | A couple of weeks ago, my parents said I'm going to Disney with them and my grandparents right after Thanksgiving. I would have been fine with this, but I miss an Accounting class and I have to cram homework on the ride to Disney. I also have a work-study that I could start this week, my first ever job that I have to p... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "yelling at my brother for scaring me",
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} | AITA for yelling at my brother for scaring me? | I’ve been having chest pain for the last few days and my brother knows this. So some time today he banged on my door to freak me out and my heart started hurting like hell. I yelled and screamed at him out of pain and told him to go away. My mom keeps calling me an asshole for yelling at him so,
Am I the Asshole? (Plea... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to do guitar lessons anymore",
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} | AITA for not wanting to do guitar lessons anymore? | So, 3 years ago my mom bought me a guitar, I never used it until about 10 months ago when she started guitar lessons for me. I went every Thursday until my teacher couldn't find time to do them anymore. A few months later my mom found online classes, I stopped doing them after about 5 weeks because I had no interest in... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "confronting my friends crush",
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} | WIBTA if i confronted my friends crush? | One of my best buddies has been having a crazy crush on this girl for a few months now. They get along really well, and laugh a lot when they are together. Me and another friend have been pushing him to just tell her about his feelings,which he eventually did. She rejected him though, which took his toll on him. Howev... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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AJFnBdHeyM1nXBhgb7bTclovmtUzt6VJ | anrnda | {
"description": "snooping through my boyfriends phone",
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} | AITA for snooping through my boyfriends phone? | So some context, my boyfriend and I have been going out for some time, i love him for bits and could never imagine being with anyone else. He is the one i want to spend the future with and we have speak about this regularly.
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A few months ago i got a DM on Instagram from this user called "Henry" and he ba... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not stepping in when my little brother was getting picked on",
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} | AITA for not stepping in when my little brother was getting picked on? | I come from a family of 5 and my little brother (the one who got picked on) is 4 years younger than me. While I must say I love my little brother deeply, I have a problem with him being way too soft. I notice it every time, every time someone makes a joke out of him or bugs him, he sits there quietly and even cries to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not inviting my parents to a mandatory courthouse wedding and asking them to wait to attend until we can have a proper wedding where both parents can attend",
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} | AITA for not inviting my parents to a mandatory courthouse wedding and asking them to wait to attend until we can have a proper wedding where both parents can attend? | I was engaged to my amazing GF last year and she recently moved to the US via the K1 Fiance Visa. For context, the K1 Fiance Visa approval timeline can vary greatly and once approved you must get legally get married within 90 days of your Fiance moving to the US. As you can imagine, it is nearly impossible to organize... | HISTORICAL | {
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U1etw8AfG11ChrVGj7OoHMEEEwTg13Dr | a3p7mu | {
"description": "sending my SO flowers",
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} | WIBTA if I sent my SO flowers? | I know that is probably isn't on the level of most of the questions asked here on this sub, but my SO and I's anniversary is coming up and I thought I might be sweet if I sent her flowers to her office.
A few months ago, someone else was sent flowers who also works in her office and she told me about it. She said tha... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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lIDF0hotJSQKjLlcZC4MwPTzyn8EL8yL | 9v9pmf | {
"description": "calling a friend out for being a slut",
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} | AITA for calling a friend out for being a slut? | Reading a lot of these AITA's for relationships has brought up some old memories and I would like peoples opinion on this. Sorry if its long. TLDR at bottom.
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At the time of this incident, I was about 23(m) and she was about 21. Lets call her Sarah. We worked together and she was dating another guy at the... | HISTORICAL | {
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KpubpT2oVuJ3YiZjgCtajlTCXS27ewxo | atoze3 | {
"description": "not telling my friends it was my birthday and then feeling salty",
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} | AITA for not telling my friends it was my birthday and then feeling salty? | It's not like I never told them. The topic comes up every so often and as recently as 2 weeks ago with some of them. It's a friend group of about 12 people and somehow *none* of them remembered. I've been friends with most of them for about 2 years which I think it's fine for some of them to not know but my roommate wh... | HISTORICAL | {
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ALoVxShXD33H0zxBJifZ5zEg4BGqUNjl | a7vqa8 | {
"description": "teasing my boyfriend",
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} | AITA for teasing my boyfriend? | Just a bit of a background, I own two lovely cats. Very sweet. When my boyfriend and I started dating I made it clear that me and my cats are a packaged deal. He said he understood. He likes my cats a lot but he really doesn't like dealing with cat fur.
We talked about the future and if we'd ever be able to move in to... | HISTORICAL | {
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nJ1rLQWmdEWgbJ3mdTMyhgf4Nro9q3LK | a542ke | {
"description": "hanging up on my friend",
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} | AITA for hanging up on my friend? | I have a friend who is schizoaffective. We’ve had a long friendship for years where an issue I’ve had is that she will talk for long periods of time about paranoia and delusions about people I literally know nothing about.
It gets to the point where I can read a book as we talk on the phone and she won’t even notice. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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6KzibavMuo8xGl7u25LvUXEix3NDTy3C | ai8rmp | {
"description": "yelling at my cousin for being unemployed",
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} | AITA for yelling at my cousin for being unemployed? | I'm 19 and she's 20. Shes never had a job and is a student in the same university as me. I told my boss that she was looking for a job and he said let her come down and he pretty much guaranteed he'd give her the job. She said she didn't want to work in a bar and didn't want to work nights. I kind of yelled at her beca... | HISTORICAL | {
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2zTQV1y3nCDGbYkXQubVgV5vTgOOM8an | b94szq | {
"description": "asking for an open relationship",
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} | AITA for asking for an open relationship? | I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. I have a much higher libido than her, which I find very frustrating. We have sex around once a week which isn't enough for me. She also doesn't like me watching porn because she sees it as being unfaithful. The other day we got into an argument about it and I ended up asking ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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gD6ORj4cALKJZwpgRD06duncwvxQ3TbI | b1sfty | {
"description": "asking someone to move their parked car out of a crosswalk",
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} | AITA for asking someone to move their parked car out of a crosswalk? | For a bit of context, I take a daily walk around my neighborhood, and in order to get out of my apartment complex I have to go across a narrow and busy street. Visibility isn't great because the street is narrow and takes a lot of twists and turns - it's often difficult to see what's around the bend. Even using a lot... | HISTORICAL | {
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2uo9pN0AkFHXWiRCq1jpMecgcSaBRrGj | ab5pq6 | {
"description": "missing out on a plan because it's too early",
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} | AITA for missing out on a plan because it’s too early? | righto, so it was my mums birthday the other day on Boxing Day. I saw her in the morning but left in the afternoon as she was busy with her fiancé and they had something planned. I told my mum we can go see a film another day and get some lunch or something and just spend time together that way. She wanted my step sist... | HISTORICAL | {
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krPS0JfwAwVsa28lXTdOywoK3KlpLhIT | a3k3dr | {
"description": "not wanting to go to Vegas for a few weeks for my sisters wedding",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to Vegas for a few weeks for my sisters wedding? | So some back story, my sister moved to Vegas a few years ago to be with her fiancé. They weren’t supposed to be getting married until 2020 or later, but they just recently moved the wedding to February of 2019. I don’t have a “real” job at the moment, and my sister has offered to buy me a ticket to come to her wedding.... | HISTORICAL | {
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CGk7AROQkvaOOAIc5gv3OghcFuauqTJl | agueso | {
"description": "not wanting my girlfriend to remain friends the the man she cheated on her ex with",
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} | AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to remain friends the the man she cheated on her ex with? | My girlfriend and I have an absolutely incredible relationship. We have been together for a year and a half, this girl is THE one, and I have every intention of asking her to marry me one day. She is definitely a "one of the guys" kind of girl, and as such she has a lot of male friendships, some of whom she has previou... | HISTORICAL | {
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hpFBB5gaGW131q4joeLoEY8JDEe3iVTl | a24hzp | null | AITA? Roomate is getting irritating. | I habe a newish roomate. Shes been here for two months. I smoke my weed with her and now she is incredibly dependant on it, and dependant on me for it. She is very desperate and low key possessive. She tried to sleep with me when she was drunk, I just brushed her off and before that shes always slightly hit on me but w... | HISTORICAL | {
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YJw2M4qXx7I8xQkkqBz7PvT255B0e9Hm | 9t7438 | {
"description": "not wanting to help my mom with her business",
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} | AITA for not wanting to help my mom with her business? | So basically, I'm an only child and I'm very close to my parents. I was living far away from home and working for a while but I ended up getting very depressed after some years and quit my job. I moved back home to live my parents for a while until I find a new job.
My mom is pretty much the breadwinner of the fam... | HISTORICAL | {
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9MTFKsTCDgOUwOvHZ5LRCwSTbWLfkKzP | b1q52e | {
"description": "immediately rebounding with a friend after my boyfriend cheats on me",
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} | AITA for immediately rebounding with a friend after my boyfriend cheats on me. | So this is going to be vague because it's a very specific situation. Also FTP, on mobile, all that jazz.
I found my (ex) boyfriend on a dating app a little bit ago. I wasnt snooping, I just moved his phone and it lit up with a bunch of notifications on his lock screen. I felt sick to my stomach and didn't look any fur... | HISTORICAL | {
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oJNWO5duaCQx0bvbIUZquAqsrWbOzKCr | aawcai | {
"description": "being annoyed with my friend for sleeping with a girl in a relationship",
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} | AITA for being annoyed with my friend for sleeping with a girl in a relationship??- | I am quite an opinionated person and my pal has told me that he likes a girl from work (who’s had a boyfriend for four years, mortgage, pets etc). They’ve talked and she feels conflicted and he confided in me recently that they slept together.
I’m actually fuming with him; my last two relationships ended because the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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RODh7m8kKO67PFWPR9v4y23XVMjN502E | akawo0 | {
"description": "setting up a go fund me for myself",
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} | WIBTA for setting up a go fund me for myself | so I am currently in first year of a degree. I went back to college last year at the age of 35. I have a serve mental breakdown in 2016 and when i finally started to feel good again, i decided to try become an engineer, as it was something i always wanted to do since childhood.
I was working a good paying job when i ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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WF3APUh5iP7asuhQLTFJWPXisoRyUfry | ake38w | {
"description": "not wanting to play with/entertain my younger cousin",
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} | AITA for not wanting to play with/entertain my younger cousin [8F] | Let me start by saying that I don't hate kids. I actually like those little tykes running around and doing their fortnite dances and having fun. I think it's really heartwarming to watch them grow up while having tons of fun along the way. That's why my current situation has me practically at my wit's end.
My family ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5jJSVwsMk6lgArpPK8imVZAuYYmkxl7H | af8fha | {
"description": "getting mad that my girlfriend wants to spend entire weekends at her family's house",
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} | AITA for getting mad that my girlfriend wants to spend entire weekends at her family's house? | For a little backstory, my gf and I have been together for almost 4 years, living together for 3. We are both 20 with full time jobs but she doesn't have her drivers license yet. For a while now she's made a habit of going up to her grandmother's house in a city that is a little more than half an hour away to see her a... | HISTORICAL | {
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k1iorlSIR0qEDRhyKU8ZMoyh8XbtBJ5l | b7qxdw | {
"description": "wanting to get a permit to work",
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} | AITA For wanting to get a permit to work? | Weird one, i know.
14y/o here. Where i live, if you're not 16, you need a permit to work. Being that teen that wants money, i want to work, but cant work for my parents, because they wont pay me for it.
My parents, always say im wasting money, if i buy anything thats on my "wants". Now, i have gotten into Guitar rec... | HISTORICAL | {
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MgAAeSfJeQ2gAPZLHwwNwVn3IqGbOFjz | b52tza | {
"description": "walking out of a restaurant with the guy I'm dating because he was in a bad mood",
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} | AITA for walking out of a restaurant with the guy I’m dating because he was in a bad mood | I’ve been dating a guy for two months. Throughout this time I’ve felt like I’m on an emotional rollercoaster. Sometimes he’s in a great mood, is affectionate and nice but others he is very cold, distant, and moody. He often rants on text message about things that are annoying him or stressing him out and I’ve always li... | HISTORICAL | {
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qAxog2VwQSTQvvDpblwUqUpMg62u0iNu | 9zwv9m | {
"description": "talking during the credits of Ralph Breaks the internet",
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} | AITA for talking during the credits of Ralph Breaks the Internet? | So tonight I went to see Ralph Breaks the Internet with my cousins. I have a lot of cousins so there was about 12 of us going to see the movie.
We watched the movie and I looked up to see if there were any post-credit scenes and there were so we decided to wait to see them. So while the credits were going (it was just... | HISTORICAL | {
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M2fyUabOxKnvP8BVQ4MdEmWdznCdt5ZH | a3f684 | {
"description": "not wanting my mom to keep his Christmas gifts at her house",
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For the past two years every Christmas and birthday she wants to buy him toys or even clothing items to keep at her h... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to walk upstairs to take a shit",
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} | AITA for not wanting to walk upstairs to take a shit? | So this all started because my girl friend one day told me that my shits stink so bad and that i should go upstairs when i have to take a shit. We live together with her parents who s mom also has a sensitive nose but we cant spray anything to cover the smells up because the air freshener gives my girl a headache. I su... | HISTORICAL | {
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2F9nLCNadigvAtGBzctZpDjJ2bRb7Nno | aiy4fc | {
"description": "being honest with my 'friend'",
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} | AITA for being honest with my ‘friend’ | So for a bit of context, my friend, let’s call her Heather, has struggled with her mental health and reduced her working hours from full time to one day a week then quitting completely as she said she couldn’t handle the responsibility of having a job in the field we both work in.
She has had a lot of support with her... | HISTORICAL | {
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lpvS41gmizJkbSvQOSqVqYhUezkFJCrD | amvn9l | {
"description": "avoiding calls from my little cousin who is quite attached to me",
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} | AITA for avoiding calls from my little cousin who is quite attached to me? | I watched my little cousins for a few weeks late last year while their parents were out of the country for a loss in the family. The older one was a teenage girl so she was mostly uninterested in whatever I was doing unless it involved food. The younger one was a 9 y/o boy and was finding it more difficult to stay away... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being to tell somebody who considers me a good friend that I don't really like them",
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} | WIBTA if I were to tell somebody who considers me a good friend that I don’t really like them? | Throwaway as a friend knows my main account, and would likely know who the person is. There’s this guy who is sort of in my friend group, but I can’t stand him. He’s very loud and often just yells in normal conversation. He’s also very unfunny, thinking random loud noises and randomly decreasing his tone is a good joke... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to attend SO's family's Christmas events",
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} | AITA for not wanting to attend SO's family's Christmas events? | SO and I are both atheists and have Saturday through Tuesday off for the holidays. His parents tends to go a little too hard for the Christian holidays and have four separate events (breakfast, lunch, and dinner) lined up between lunch on Monday and dinner on Tuesday. The events include him, his parents, and x family m... | HISTORICAL | {
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PEPI5p8HEt7k6A4OPhrMpJ715KXcgkNJ | a946m6 | {
"description": "asking my dad to not dig the food during dinner",
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} | AITA for asking my dad to not dig the food during dinner? (read post first pls) | So, a few weeks ago my mother cooked for us. There is this dish, steamed egg with soya sauce. While we were all eating, my dad was digging the egg and making it very messy, just imagine egg being like mashed potatoes. So I told him, I wasn't being rude and my tone was not disrespectful, " Dad, could u not dig the egg, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Lnpzh4aUviLF7MKUdzVAm1o4OpHDOkBV | b2z8nl | {
"description": "upsetting a friend",
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} | AITA for upsetting a friend | (before I start I just want to say I have social anxiety and for obvious reasons struggle with social situations, but it was her birthday and I didn't want to seem rude by not going)
So we were out at a restaurant with a few other friends (there were about 5 of us) and around halfway through it gets pretty loud and cro... | HISTORICAL | {
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PHh1tNubDVrVQtW1kksMXS7eB1c6rUV7 | a62lg5 | null | AITA Pregnant girlfriend left the country to give birth, and is spending a lot of time with her ex | She has been in contact with her ex the whole 2 years we've been dating, and he has even told her he loved her and missed her recently. I've tried not to be too jealous, but I've pointed out that it doesn't sit well with me.
​
She found out she was pregnant during a period in which we had broken up. I... | HISTORICAL | {
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m6nArAHTaKMc878dY9nLIegr52dCi8GJ | a1vowl | {
"description": "calling people stupid for cheating",
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} | AITA for calling people stupid for cheating? | At my school these kids got caught cheating by sharing questions to the future periods during the day.
Two days later day we have another test in a different subject where kids are talking about the questions on the test while a different teacher is behind them. They almost got caught.
I went and wrote something on ... | HISTORICAL | {
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W41FIKqUw3zcDW8exUhZ2fSJKNChIAFP | a0teja | {
"description": "not wanting to be friends with people who constantly talk about their depression",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting to be friends with people who constantly talk about their depression? | Disclaimer: Ive experienced depression, I was in a situation which most people I know haven't had to deal with, that caused me a great deal of hopelessness and stress at home. So I can empathesize strongly with people who have issues like I did, and because of this I tend to take care of people, to want to help them as... | HISTORICAL | {
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qAlZWZDUDVDAul4X6zDuibbsiCRN4hd7 | b8ptov | {
"description": "not sharing the pregnancy",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for not sharing the pregnancy? | Sorry about the rambling post.
So, about 11 weeks ago my girlfriend (22) and I (23) found out that she is pregant! Super excited. Skip to last weekend where we showed our siblings the ultrasound. We also showed my mom's side of my family because they are there for us all the time and we see them at least twice a mon... | HISTORICAL | {
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H2ygCW3gdxXVhEqghVTCMXwcCmIMofNs | b5upa5 | {
"description": "wanting a native american blessing read at my wedding",
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} | AITA for wanting a Native American blessing read at my wedding? | Okay so hear me out here. For background, I am getting married in about a month. My fiance and I are both predominantly white, his family does have some Native American but they are not particularly connected with that culture. This all started when I was looking for nonreligious readings to use at the end of our cerem... | HISTORICAL | {
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lkS0PwLOUis2dJuBXSkzaW59PjgVBIhY | ao4lsc | {
"description": "locking down my Mother-In-Law's computer",
"pronormative_score": 133,
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} | AITA For Locking Down My Mother-In-Law's Computer? | So for context, I love my mother-in-law, Marie, but she is at that age where she is just terrible with computers. As my day job is in IT I always die a little inside when I boot up her computer. Trying to make heads or tails of everything on her computer is enough to cause an aneurysm.
It's not just messy either. She ... | HISTORICAL | {
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vwehebt9PmUcnoLfea3LMv7xJzXo0v1w | ad4320 | {
"description": "delaying an internship for one day to organize my schedule with a better opportunity",
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} | AITA for delaying an internship for one day to organize my schedule with a better opportunity | I am currently on job hunt for one year. To get some experiences and have something to do, it was planned to start an internship (no money, just a favour) next monday at the company XY my FIL works, who got me the interview for the internship. Last thursday i got a call from an old boss from a job i worked at in school... | HISTORICAL | {
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7D79yh4QRwooofO0664Hi3pOM3ytlBlp | audzt9 | {
"description": "telling my dad he got me the wrong gift",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for telling my dad he got me the wrong gift? | (This happened awhile ago)
I want to start off by saying I love my parents more than anything. I'm not really one to care about gifts (unless it’s something really meaningful) and would rather just spend time with my loved ones. That being said I have noticed my parents give horrible gifts (wrong sized clothes, discou... | HISTORICAL | {
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JxWS37I4aHw9VZ256wuxmkuS1r9Nw9iU | ba2vgr | {
"description": "refusing to argue over an \"opinion\" on being transgender",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for refusing to argue over an "opinion" on being transgender? | For some background, the girl I got into a semi-fight with is not by any means someone I like, but I respect her, because everyone deserves that. She actually says things quite frequently, that make me question her grasp of common sense.
Yesterday, during biology class, my teacher brought up being transgender. I am pa... | HISTORICAL | {
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3I7FQwxuaRWwRBL7XDpy7CXlAIxbfXSn | ai4g7o | {
"description": "getting mad and ending a 10yo friendship",
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} | AITA for getting mad and ending a 10yo friendship | A lot of things led up to the argument that just now ended a 10 year long friendship.
I met my friend, we'll call Becca in 7th grade and her, I and a third friend we'll call Susie became besties. Me and Becca have a falling out after moving apart after 9th grade and we didn't talk for a year. This falling out taught m... | HISTORICAL | {
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mWvo8z2AnXra8O3FrIRE2bMUyBC3bVBM | amode6 | {
"description": "asking one of my girlfriends freinds to compliment her hair",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for asking one of my girlfriends freinds to compliment her hair? | Last night me, my girlfriend and a couple of her friends were going out to have a low-key celebration for her birthday. However as we were getting ready my girlfriend texts me saying how her hair looks horrible and she doesn't want to leave the house, she showed me her hair and I said it looked good (and I honestly tho... | HISTORICAL | {
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QJ24iI5jTYenpy4l2PQkLuiVCwtPkWBp | aqigwd | {
"description": "being upset that my girlfriend made plans with another guy on Valentine's weekend",
"pronormative_score": 44,
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} | AITA for being upset that my girlfriend made plans with another guy on Valentine’s weekend? | My girlfriend and I are long distance so we can’t be together on Valentine’s Day, but we usually do something like FaceTime. However, Valentine’s Day is on a weekday and we both work in different time zones so we won’t get that much time together this year.
Anyways, I spent about $150 on things including flowers to be... | HISTORICAL | {
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8tDebaLQYqQzzW2yredQvCwhlFtr2m8b | azd4x6 | {
"description": "cutting this friend out of my life",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for cutting this friend out of my life? | **Background**: Let's call her Susie. At the time, Susie \[F17\] and I \[F17\] met through mutual friends and she made it a point to become my friend. (Her words later, not mine). She constantly texted me after the time we met, telling me about how we should hang out. Cool enough. We become friends this way, hanging ou... | HISTORICAL | {
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pYKhkhddSeRwSuOXEXVLFFF43gPxmhy8 | aon6yg | {
"description": "demanding the rest of my money",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for demanding the rest of my money? | A family friend of about four years asked me to be a live in nanny for a week for her two kids aged 8 & 10 whilst she went on a business trip out of state; and although in order to do this for her I had to request time off from my job, I agreed. The gig was from Sunday to Friday and she agreed to pay me $1,000.
I’... | HISTORICAL | {
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LvpbKzOf3lti5ycHGLuaJpt0tADTBP3Y | b4q9od | {
"description": "ratting out a classmate for cheating on nearly every test",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | WIBTA if I ratted out a classmate for cheating on nearly every test? | So, there’s this classmate I’ll call X, so X is getting average grades from his classes, and I find that a bit unfair. I’ll state a few reasons why.
1. There are classmates here that get bad grades but I know they try, someone I’ll call Z is a good example. Z is not that good at really any classes other than PE. But h... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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3jno0E9ATKy0uuGkti6Batt9kSBhl6N4 | aatfl4 | {
"description": "ghosting my husband",
"pronormative_score": 21,
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} | WIBTA for ghosting my husband? | Long story short, I asked for a divorce. He cheated numerous times and I tried to make it work but I finally had enough. He's verbally abusive and I think he may be sociopathic.
He wants to wait until spring to actually separate so we can sell the house and move when the weather is better but within hours of our discu... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 21,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 21,
"WRONG": 3
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uTNnHyNOsjBXlosNp0PHhCUxodN3TAiD | b33f81 | {
"description": "cutting her off",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for cutting her off? | I had this friend, let’s call her Katie. We met through my husband (they went to hs together) and had become close over the last two or so years. Katie has a daughter who is almost two and I recently found out she planned the pregnancy with her bf of only two months at the time. For almost two years, it’s been her comp... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
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"RIGHT": 10,
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e5KGmBQkh8YZrT8U0RGX4tXmRED9WomR | b603v6 | null | AITA - two parties same theme? Or do I need to change my theme? | I'm trying to be as neutral as I can. Dates are real and current.
December 15: announce party (via Facebook) with a surprise theme to be announced later. Housewarming party- boyfriend and I moved into a house together! Party will be May 18 (yes long lead time). Boyfriend and I have already decided on a theme and done ... | HISTORICAL | {
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WTCydwtBQO9sIlDRxlXdJqfFgJzA1rKe | b08i22 | {
"description": "at times being two face towards a classmate",
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} | AITA for at times being two face towards a Classmate? | ​
A little background info: My classmate who we will call Daniel is to put it lightly, not liked by most pupils and teachers alike. To present a palatable example: At the end of an assembly the head of year asked whether there where any further questions Daniel raised his had and before even announcing his ... | HISTORICAL | {
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yBaQYdZK1Xt3R753xLoyQMDz2MbGcXQB | aus20d | {
"description": "feeling as if I ruined the relationship of my best friend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA- I feel as if I ruined the relationship of my best friend. | My friend was in a 3 year relationship with her BF. Things where going smoothly, until the boyfriend moved in with me and my friend. (We where roommates.)
So he moved in, and he was doing quite well. Paying bills, grocery shopping, doing chores, and all that. Then, he gradually stopped paying bills. Giving less and l... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
6e18T1nzBQWW34XFIbbO6bRnIncurqrm | b8nvuu | {
"description": "not really trying very hard",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not really trying very hard? | I've been working for the same company for 7 years now. In that time, I have held many different titles but really had 3 primary changes in what type of work I'm doing.
I would say that my over all effort is somewhere around 30%, with 100% being as hard as I could possibly work. As an aside, I think that 100% effort... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
WAxZaHyle2CkbHMzaBxXhdrLyoLqYGM5 | b2o6d0 | {
"description": "asking my GF not to share sexual details of her exes",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for asking my GF not to share sexual details of her exes | I'm copying messages text of me asking below, but I'm wondering if I'm being ridiculous asking my girlfriend to NOT share details of her sex with previous partners (examples include their dick size, how they initiate sex, when they wanted to do butt stuff, how much she enjoyed or didn't enjoy the sex and what she liked... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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PRDQEJY5BrbnpVsOOWUOypoeFAxxW1wT | abjrf4 | {
"description": "not telling my friend that her fiancé made a pass at his ex",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not telling my friend that her fiancé made a pass at his ex? | This happened several years ago, but I recall being very conflicted at the time and am curious to know what neutral strangers think. Two of my high school friends, Karen and Tyler, dated while we were all in college. When Karen and Tyler broke up, Tyler started dating Tiffany, who none of us knew beforehand.
&nbs... | HISTORICAL | {
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QnqxZGX2VdUwfaWSM1yfzjLzvwuj5Vmm | aovcyy | {
"description": "telling my ex-girlfriend's sister that she would never see my kids because she is pornstar",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 16
} | AITA for telling my ex-girlfriend’s sister that she would never see my kids because she is pornstar | ​
Me \[22\] and my ex-girlfriend \[23\] had been ‘together’ for 11 years \[together is in quotation marks because we were young, so I don’t know if you would count it has dating\]. She lives with her older sister \[25\] and her mum and we all got on very well. Her mum and her sister both loved me and I the... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 16
} | WRONG |
anepRAoLpGtnkvYTcrLEhfV2pC3AUMhd | ax6dwy | {
"description": "muting my grieving hs teacher on Facebook",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for muting my grieving hs teacher on Facebook?? | My high school history teacher, who has always been very sweet to me, recently lost her sibling to breast cancer and I feel terrible about it. However, she is also very public about her grief and whenever I get on Facebook, all I see are posts about HT and her brother’s death and it makes me very sad. AITA if I mute he... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 9,
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"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
TG9Lk3NkHU15umWD0ADwXgLlJcHGt3aA | auesga | {
"description": "wanting to hide and get rid of my daughter's scruff a luv",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 19
} | AITA if I want to hide and get rid of my daughter's scruff a luv? | My daughter got a scruff a luv toy for Christmas from her grandparents, after begging for one. For those who don't know, it's a stuffed toy that you give a bath and clean up, for 30 dollars. Overpriced junk and she has a zoo full of stuffed toys already. Anyway, she bathed it and got the ugliest cat I have ever seen. T... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 19
} | WRONG |
Z2jwm6PKw3XuaFQ4sI7onl1LKemUnJNy | axcvab | {
"description": "taking an all expence paid business trip",
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} | WIBTA if I take an all expence paid business trip? | My current employer is having a huge ”owners” meeting in an area I have never been to before. The owner of my franchise location invited me and is paying for EVERYTHING! This includes the flight, airfare(never flown before), food, and transportation. I am really looking forward to this trip, however, I'm also consideri... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
1fSgvGCKlKa7Epc6Cpg9xNuLbQbHe2c7 | azbyon | {
"description": "letting my roommates eat peanut butter from the same jar I let my dog lick out of",
"pronormative_score": 25,
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} | AITA for letting my roommates eat peanut butter from the same jar I let my dog lick out of? | I’ll keep it short and sweet. My roommates suck for a variety of reasons but one that sticks out is them eating my food without asking. I have a jar of peanut butter in my section of the pantry that I use exclusively for my dog. Sometimes I let her lick some directly out of the jar. I’ve noticed knives with pb on them ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 25,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 25,
"WRONG": 13
} | RIGHT |
vo4kdJyGLS6G1TjNagdYiqia8pvMfWm3 | an7gsd | {
"description": "moving a person's belongings without permission",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for moving a person's belongings without permission? |
This happened in my second semester in university, Majoring in chemical engineering. I had a chemistry lecture with assigned seats (this will be important later).
Me being the lazy dipshit I am I overslept and running late to my lecture, managed to get in there only 5 minutes late and luckily my seat is right next ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 1
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OYglHmT69m38hfC569bzSY6QMJVFBv1z | ao8cj2 | {
"description": "swearing at a girl which has been swearing at me",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for swearing at a girl which has been swearing at me | First of all, first post and english isnt my home language and its my first post here so sorry if written badly. short story
So im in this group in WhatsApp of all of the almost all the kids in the grade im currently in.
We have been chatting about a new movie that came out and this girl (that i actually didnt reall... | HISTORICAL | {
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k5hSjdCxp0wat6DjKW9N2EyEBG72UA1v | a5f5qa | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend to not meet and pressing my point when she said she really wanted to",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for telling my girlfriend to not meet and pressing my point when she said she really wanted to? | We both have a super important exam coming up. We used to meet almost everyday until last Sunday when I told her that we would no longer meet because we were spending almost 3 hours walking/chatting/making out everyday, and a super important test is only a couple weeks away.
She was upset, but understood. Today, she l... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
auBYQVxcIZRjKfOWE5qjwR3tvR6VgDzQ | a42xpp | {
"description": "not helping my \"friend\"/\"friends\" with their work even though one of them is 0.50% off of an f in the class",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not helping my “friend”/“friends” with their work even though one of them is 0.50% off of an F in the class | Sorry for formatting I’m on mobile
So I want to preface this by saying we’re in high school in our sophomore year. The group I hang out with aren’t necessarily my friends except for 3 of them (10 in the group). They actually have a whole separate group chat without me but my 3 friends still dm me and a group chat wer... | HISTORICAL | {
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LXtK6uKbnX3tWxeHc6eHfN5oc5WJXBIc | b47gnf | {
"description": "not wanting to move my car when I had mono",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for not wanting to move my car when I had mono? | I live in a house with a couple of other people that have cars. People’s cars get “blocked in” when we park because there are multiple cars and we have small driveway. The general consensus is that housemates will help move their own cars if they’re in the house, but if not, you’re allowed to take the keys to the other... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
3bvhHZSYLWeMcXPMzUrrprVdhocxpUMw | b2i67u | {
"description": "wanting my Mums partner to hurry up and die of cancer",
"pronormative_score": 21,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for wanting my Mums partner to hurry up and die of cancer? | (Throwaway even though none of my family are on reddit).
My (37m) parents separated about 10 years ago and my Mum has been seeing a new guy, call him Jack, since a couple of years after that. They don’t live together but nearby. They go on holidays in the caravan and hang out a bit I guess when they’re at home.
Jack... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 21,
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} | RIGHT |
6R5kXyMAS8MQA0BhfABufhKpGffleqI6 | b5r6sc | {
"description": "quitting this job on the spot",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for quitting this job on the spot? | I want to know what the internet thinks about this. I (21) was working your typical fast food grind, they had just fired a manager and shift supervisor Casey (22) was picking up the slack. I never had a problem with Casey, she was good at her job and until this whole thing went down I thought we were cool.
So one nigh... | HISTORICAL | {
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FbjdSMrnVaQ66BBRFBKGU1dx94VDlVRf | ajw15z | null | AITA GOT ENGAGED LAST WEEK AND BROTHER PROPOSES TO GF 7 DAYS LATER | Posting from my Fiancé’s account.
I might be the asshole but am opening it up for your judgment. I got engaged to my boyfriend of 10+ years on Friday while hiking in Joshua Tree. We are over the moon happy! Just 7 days later my brother texted me during business hours (I work a demanding 9-5++) and let’s me know he’s... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 24
} | WRONG |
6bCp6Gthr0QfcV2EZriPx8DV1xCi61aW | b3le6w | {
"description": "distancing myself from our sqad",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | WIBTA if I distance myself from our sqad? | This require some backstory so hear me up:
Ever since I (21F) got in the University I made a pretty solid group of friends (3 guys, another girl and I, all about the same age). We were very close and all was rainbows and unicorns and so on.
In the fall of 2017 I went to an international exchange and, while I was ther... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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YdQmvfMGjGz9NtBPX01W11kBP3xDAbiz | aveejk | {
"description": "wanting to be recognized in my girlfriend's posts",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting to be recognized in my girlfriend's posts? | So my girlfriend and I started dating long-distance about a month and a half after she broke up with her previous boyfriend of 2 years. Since it was pretty soon after that, she understandably wanted to keep things off social media for a few months to give him time. In our initial conversation, we had agreed that things... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
082nLFPps3E39SvUJA28g9vS6T7u7cYd | 9znta6 | {
"description": "cutting out a friend I'm interested in \"because I can't wait anymore\"",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for cutting out a friend I'm interested in "because I can't wait anymore"? | I told my friend that I'm interested in her a month after meeting her. I no longer remember how she responded to this. I do remember that after a month of telling her that, I decided to tell her that I want to date her, yet she responded that she doesn't want to date as of the moment. After a week, we were able to meet... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
YeagUHskCVaU7SV9EKidlumaRLEvyOAN | b31jby | {
"description": "reporting my neighbor's new building to the county",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA for reporting my neighbor's new building to the county? | Empty lot next to me for literally ever. New guy buys it and starts cutting down trees and pouring concrete pads, etc. IDK if he has permits for anything but it always seems like he and his buddies doing the work, not *real* workers. I want to call the county and give them a heads-up, so they can check if he has permi... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
NgIBrmc24ASB2nnst6MEL2Km9ELNi5RL | aw130c | {
"description": "wanting to go to a party instead of driving up to see my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to go to a party instead of driving up to see my girlfriend? | My girlfriend are long distance(Kind of, ~1hour drive). We basically only see each other on weekends as we have school and work on weekdays. We try to switch houses weekends to keep things fair.
This upcoming weekend is her weekend but a school club I recently joined is having a party on Friday night. I knew this a w... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
icZywGFSfPO1FywUCeJJUpYsSLiUu71w | a0zd6t | {
"description": "putting my sister on read cuase I didn't feel it needed a response",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for putting my(13M) sister (22f) on read cuase i didn't feel it needed a response. | My sister texted me in school saying "hey bud I'm going to pick you up from school cuase mom needs you home early so we can decorate your house" (she doesn't live with us she lives with our dad). So i did what any person would do.... Read the text. I didn't respond cuase I felt it didnt need a response. So the day ends... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
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UycTzYlkbTfvQVBuja8aY26YQyhiFLlo | b5cf1w | {
"description": "telling my friend he's being cheated on with his other friend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I told my friend he's being cheated on with his other friend? (drama packed) | WIBTA if I tell my friend that he is being cheated on?
I'll try to keep this story straight with names, it might get a little complicated. There's me, my gf (M), my gf's roommate (A), my roommate (T), and my friend (E).
Backstory: Me, E, and T all good friends two years ago, freshman year of college. We hang out all ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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onTXektpBxcFZTgUJDsOiwgJa22iwhNC | at4iin | {
"description": "discussing responsible drinking with my boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | WIBTA if I discuss responsible drinking with my boyfriend? | Here's the thing. We're both in our 20s but I'm a few years older and was never into the party/drinking thing to begin with. I don't really get the point of getting blackout drunk. He's not super into it either, but he will on average have a gaming and drinking or bar/club night with friends or roommates maybe once a w... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
P9HxfZGSYG4Z9UGYdjaTxsCA86Av6O3X | aj3o5p | {
"description": "not wanting to celebrate with friend",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to celebrate with friend? | My friend got a job that we both applied for. I did not. I congratulated them and am happy for them.
They want to celebrate together, but I am kind of in a shitty mood. As I mentioned before, I am proud of them, but I feel like this will remind me of my shortcomings. I don't want to come off as unsupportive, but it'... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
UJJM1vg4k34W9T15iV5QGkNhDwb8Zs6u | ab4gb9 | {
"description": "accidentally roasting the band Smashmouth",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA For accidentally roasting the band Smashmouth? | Okay guys I'm pretty new to reddit, so hope this story fits here. This happened about a year and a half ago.
Storytime: setting... Downtown Memphis, Music and Heritage Fest 8:30 pm. I'm at a restaurant that some of my friends newly opened. There's a table of 9 people wearing all black with tight pants looking p... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
fD8A3Wa64jyaJIYFC5xatakdVzOmkgWo | b1qnhv | {
"description": "accidentally telling my girl churchmate why she's being ghosted/ignored",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for accidentally telling my girl churchmate why she's being ghosted/ignored? | TL;DR: accidentally telling that our wife pastor talked to our pastor assistant being too close to my girl church mate and asking him to maybe stop being too close because he's gonna be a pastor 🤷♀️ (really dont know why she said that)
Im born again christian and have been that way since i was younger, growing up i... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
J6pCLYGIcNzD8sM6BN3cVUTKOlI65Tra | b7fd5k | {
"description": "refusing to give the seller more money to retrieve my stuff",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for refusing to give the seller more money to retrieve my stuff? | A few marginal things. The cards I mentioned is the Match Attax cards. The cards that represent soccer players. I'm a big fan of this thing and I have a huge collection of it.
So I got to know a MA card seller through a facebook group. I asked to buy 20 cards from his collection. He told me they would cost me 50$. I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | RIGHT |
X71SxiVFPWGNJMVHOKRIQp2ZLrq9kNd4 | am63a9 | {
"description": "not wanting to babysit a 57 year old gay man",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting to babysit a 57 year old gay man? |
So a bit of backstory. I (20M) developed a "friendly" relationship with my gay manager (57M), let's call him GM. We met 2 years ago when I was struggling to find a part-time job during HS. I applied at his store (sportswear retail) and got in. I feel like GM always wanted me either as a love interest or just as a fu... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
2YxGOhEWUVjI7i0jsH1ANZrCY7zGqVBX | awyo2n | {
"description": "refusing to clean the kitchen",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for refusing to clean the kitchen? | I live in an apartment with 7 other girls. as you can imagine, it can be pretty difficult to keep the place clean. there has already been a ton of drama the past 6 months about dishes, messy kitchen, people not cleaning up after themselves, etc.
honestly, I don’t mind living in a messy house. my kitchen growing up w... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 7,
"OTHER": 0,
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"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
Q6l0kHHjWg9w05lzAQil8beX2PRwDm3Y | b549uc | {
"description": "telling my mom not to post pictures of me on the internet",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my mom not to post pictures of me on the internet? | So I (21F) normally have a pretty good relationship with my mother (59). I moved two states away for college but we continue to talk on the phone weekly and text back and forth daily. She’s really into taking photos of her daily life and either posting them on social media or putting them in scrapbooks. Ever since I wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 8,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
jFMkIQlxVhA3vLUNNNzIbqnGK2GtBIeR | ba14ph | null | AITA My brother gets upset often and I've been rude to him | Note: Myself and my siblings are a set of 13 year old quadruplets.
My brother is a complicated person, first of all. He gets distracted easily, and has always struggled with finishing his work. He's also a sensitive person, and cries easily. He is especially insecure about his height. This has made him an easy ta... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
jgQtXSrXZWENsTYwLTWhmGOAEOv2Qjqo | 9xz795 | {
"description": "sleeping with my friend's ex",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA For sleeping with my friend’s (19F) ex (20M)? | She and I (19F) are not super close, however we’re all three heavily involved in our college’s theatre department so we all see each other often. The two of them started dating sometime around April of this year and were very much in love.
This brings us to about two or three weeks ago. They broke up, but I’m not ent... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
0iuqg6nqXXoqA4ltfmSoiKEbXEa7Qfwy | advtf2 | {
"description": "not communicating with my parents",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not communicating with my parents? | Am I the asshole son for not calling my parents or going to family gatherings/holidays?
I feel really uncomfortable talking to my family over the phone or at family gatherings. I have basically stopped doing either because my parents belittle me and my siblings by asking demeaning questions about when we are going to ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
qzi0g6tZPmpT9b5t1qyfVARNWPDkSEOc | ayiq2o | {
"description": "reporting these two to Internal Affairs",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | WIBTA For Reporting These Two to Internal Affairs? | About this story: I work as a police officer in a metro PD, before that I was in the Marines. I've been willfully single since my last long term girlfriend cheated on me during my second deployment. I also struggle with major depressive disorder. There you go, context.
​
Couple months back, a new officer, ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
KSn6ckOoHtQRwQEvHOHYtkfJEoRA9GSp | au2yvj | null | AITA or am I being spoiled for arguing with my partner about getting a new car? | Long story short, I'm a 24 year old guy living in Boston with a full time job that pays about $50K a year before taxes. Both of my parents have passed away- I lost my mom at 14 and my dad at 21 (tragically and suddenly). Through their will, they bequeathed about $1.5 mil to me. I've also inherited a perfectly good 2014... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
rdzqKVDPDzjuavrZzF6Mso5t5AX52L8d | 9xglk2 | {
"description": "taking back my exes birthday gift",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for taking back my exes birthday gift? | First time posting to reddit here so I'm sorry if I don't get the rules and stuff right. I feel the need to post that I am also on mobile.
A little background here. My ex and I dated for 10 months. I recently broke up with him because of his video game addiction. I'm talking like 12 hours of gaming a night. We haven't ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
o1nXo1gVGofI6lZDwcPOhSh8XlvHr1z8 | b2knjc | {
"description": "disagreeing with my roommate about not calling her daughter 'smart' because it would be too much pressure for her to live up to",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for disagreeing with my roommate about not calling her daughter 'smart' because it would be too much pressure for her to live up to? | clunky title, i know. this is a throwaway acct as well. TLDR at the bottom.
here goes:
been living with my roommates for over a year or so now and it's me, my 25(F) roomie with a 4 yo daughter whom i adore and cherish like a niece, my other roommates 40(F) and her husband 39(M) who have a 3 yo daughter themselves.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
g9tpKy5saeZYAmOxuVmtAhOiWaDSKSGc | awjvrv | {
"description": "crying when we fight",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA crying when we fight? | I don't often post on reddit, so forgive me for any formatting issues.
For some basics, my family immigrated to Canada when I was 8. My parents argued a lot then and still do. My mom wasn't the type to fight back or yell (until recently) so I have a lot of memories of him yelling at her while I sat terrified in bed. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
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