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ujamoFBzXApEAjv6wmfTTbzAruzHEZ2a | 9v0r2k | {
"description": "sharing paid-for leftovers",
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} | AITA For sharing paid-for leftovers? | I got paid a really nice bonus, and told my Person that we should go out to eat that night to celebrate. Person picks a place- Not one I love (or even really like), but I mean.. It's okay. We've talked about this before, but Person loves this place so I bite the bullet and offer. It's a pretty expensive place, and this... | HISTORICAL | {
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mDycdrZ3h0oEFJaGMDzsFa0s9k7ssQhk | aibasp | {
"description": "saying I didn't enjoy my birthday party",
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} | AITA for saying I didn't enjoy my birthday party? | Brief history: I have a twin sister. We recently had our birthday. I decided to host the birthday party this year. I had to postpone the first date for some sort of MLM type party my sister had organised. This bummed me out a little because I like to celebrate closer to the actual birthday.
The party was for my parents... | HISTORICAL | {
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8LpB2Td5xkRMCwxFvz0wJMeflBDJn0Ur | akgm8t | {
"description": "not wanting to date or marry someone with chronic depression",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for not wanting to date or marry someone with chronic depression? | I've (30F) struggled with clinical depression for most of my life so I know what it can entail. I don't ever want to be in a relationship with someone with clinical depression or who is prone to depression. (I'm not talking about a depressive episode brought on by an event, ex: a parent dying, I'm talking about chronic... | HISTORICAL | {
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aFPst6aSvIM3DW7P7WycTkuHBL7RInmJ | affir0 | {
"description": "getting breakfast with a girl",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA For getting breakfast with a girl? | I recently slept with a girl, but then she told me she had a long-distance boyfriend in the morning. However, I still got breakfast with her because I felt like it would be rude to just kick her out, even though she did something wrong. During breakfast, we talked a bit about her relationship, and how it was pretty ro... | HISTORICAL | {
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Csg71CQbP8SvTuTM5c3hI5te08Vl1AjU | adn8mg | {
"description": "not wanting to visit home",
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} | AITA for not wanting to visit home? | I have a very rocky relationship with my dad. When I was a kid, he was pretty abusive (which got "better" as I grew up, meaning he wasnt physical, just emotionally and mentally) and in my adulthood, hes stolen my credit card twice, taken my tax return without permission, and has insulted me heavily whenever we have dis... | HISTORICAL | {
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PlVD6G0gQxY21iqE8h91kUKsHYqBrjRI | af1l62 | {
"description": "allowing a mentally handicapped diabetic to have sugar",
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} | AITA for allowing a mentally handicapped diabetic to have sugar? | I saw a post about a McDonald's employee giving obese people sugar-free soda, and that reminded me of a thing at my previous job in fast food. I don't work there anymore, but I still find it an interesting dilemma.
I used to work as a manager at a fast food joint, and one of our regulars was a (somewhat) mentally dis... | HISTORICAL | {
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C8E8iiknOVUJWqRRojvNsUAxeFxwtare | 9v7u44 | {
"description": "turning down a date with a girl solely because she's deaf",
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} | AITA for turning down a date with a girl solely because she's deaf? | Back story: I was asked out by a friend of my neighbors, who are also deaf but can communicate with me pretty well. I turned her down respectfully saying sorry but I'm not interested solely because she is deaf and while she can read lips, I have a hard time understanding her. I feel like because of this a relationship ... | HISTORICAL | {
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9N4eaTeWJGkxpxpvnSg9B3s8zqCy9VqC | az5u1d | {
"description": "hating my Wife's dog",
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} | AITA For Hating my Wife's Dog? | When my wife and I started dating, she had a rescue dog, to which she was quite attached. She got the dog during a traumatic period in her life, and the dog was also abused, so they formed a strong trauma-based attachment. The dog was abused by males and reacted aggressively towards all males. I'm a dog lover, and emp... | HISTORICAL | {
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6KpbELOyYSNvi3S4YKe8kfUFBfkNOmvX | atwmx2 | {
"description": "not believing Jussie Smollet in an arguement with my girlfriend",
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} | AITA For Not Believing Jussie Smollet In An Arguement With My Girlfriend? | So my girlfriend and I were talking on the phone last night when the topic of Jussie Smollet came up. I watched his ABC interview and just couldnt believe the story bleach and noose at 2am by two white MAGA guys who watched empire enough to know this dude? Already a tough thing to believe and Jussies telling of the sto... | HISTORICAL | {
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7sPWQDXdqitgKaYyGTK0oISGafrWhPnS | a8xlni | {
"description": "being mad that I have to host a family gathering",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for being mad that I have to host a family gathering? | So I live with my mother for financial reasons and for the holidays she decided to invite her brother and his family over.
For some context, my uncle is in his 70s, his kids are about 15-20 years older than me and their kids are all like half my age or younger (I’m 30).
Now we normally host during the holidays beca... | HISTORICAL | {
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RK20wlMYPOxOq0obwVVxqokqxJBhzTie | 9vxroq | {
"description": "asking my aunt to come over for Thanksgiving",
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} | WIBTA for asking my aunt to come over for Thanksgiving? | So, my dad can’t really be around smoke because he had a recent surgery and can’t be around nicotine and smoke. We want to be with one of my aunts for the Thanksgiving holiday but she and my uncle both smoke a lot inside her home. We don’t want to go up there just ourselves because what’s the point of a family gatherin... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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9ebMDqfb4q4VmsLXM7fPdgcOT7aocxAN | awqxob | {
"description": "accepting a large bonus knowing I was quitting within a week",
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} | AITA for accepting a large bonus knowing i was quitting within a week? | I got a new job which will more than double my salary. Im going from 70k to 150k+. I think that my new employer may have called the company for a character reference, thus tipping off the owner. This is just speculation. The day before my boss left for a month long vacation on an island, he called me in the office and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 24,
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cokrb7lUWOWdNXWGJYL3SlqSp1zfdQsZ | b4xsnk | {
"description": "not wanting to go to a bar to hear my boyfriend practice his instrument",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to a bar to hear my boyfriend practice his instrument? | I don't drink, so bars are already boring. It would have been me drinking odouls and listening to him play (which, imagine, I do alllllll the time already--we live together). He got really upset about me being hesitant to go and called it "me time" that he needed. If I had known it was something he needed I would've go... | HISTORICAL | {
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t6yVfndpGsJvpeJ6ZPKvw3uxuEd9kBBG | anhtbt | {
"description": "not wanting to volunteer my time during work",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA For not wanting to volunteer my time during work? | For giving Tuesday this year my office got together and bagged food for needy families in my area. My company was unwilling to compensate us for this time meaning we would have to work extra to make up for the lost hour and a half of the work day. Okay, fine it's giving Tuesday. Well now it's apparently a regular event... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
gNk1Z9O9Z1mJBcKXxMhRONlvqijUXMCY | aemgtm | {
"description": "not being able to go to my cousin's wedding",
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} | AITA for not being able to go to my cousin's wedding. | Hello Everyone,
My Cousin is getting married later this month and has been inviting us to her wedding for a few months now. However, going to her wedding with is a 14hr flight (shortest flight available) seems like a very hard task for me and my family. We can't really get any day's off from work, and my dad won't get ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
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eiwFH38D77NlDSFKfKljOqRLIeDFzZF6 | a5ws51 | {
"description": "getting annoyed at my husband for going over our spending limit for Xmas gifts",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for getting annoyed at my husband for going over our spending limit for Xmas gifts? | My husband (30/M) and I (27/F) are not in the best financial shape - we’re both students with part-time jobs but we live with my parents so don’t pay rent. While we don’t have much in the way of monthly outgoings, he has a couple thousand pounds of credit card debt and I’m about to leave my part-time job to focus on my... | HISTORICAL | {
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YoHqz9z4yNryyGREhLjzdovhgwkm2B2a | aq0osi | {
"description": "being annoyed that the girl I'm dating gives money to panhandlers",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for being annoyed that the girl I’m dating gives money to panhandlers? | I recently started dating someone who I really like. I noticed though, that she ALWAYS gives money to panhandlers. We live in NYC so this isn’t exactly an infrequent occurrence. If we are on the train and someone performs, she will give them money. If we get off the train and someone is shaking a cup, she will give the... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 40
} | WRONG |
947izMOFbnYIDcpY6wzQIJwQ4WPETKLD | axeuzk | {
"description": "ghosting my friend for having a kid",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for ghosting my friend for having a kid? | I had a friend in high school and my early college years who only seemed to get worse the more I hung out with him (getting way too drunk/high, being very creepy to female friends). He chased his ex halfway across the country and ended up drunk begging for her back at her doorstep. Needless to say that didn't work, and... | HISTORICAL | {
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yPUzPBqfdpA2VXJUmS68DNOM1hW8d4mR | 9utm00 | {
"description": "disassociating from my mother",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for disassociating from my mother? | To begin, she isn't mad or anything and no one is angry with me at all. Besides myself.
I love my mother very much. She's incredibly kind and smart and helpful. She's a wonderful person and worked hard in college. She's suffered a lot in her childhood and has had injuries in her youth leaving her not completely 100%. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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rVm8De1M5PVWCIGQoZepME2qdBrJpw4x | a4kzcf | {
"description": "not wanting to date a girl cause of her looking radically different in person than she did in pics",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for not wanting to date a girl cause of her looking radically different in person than she did in Pics | Yo folks. So a few months ago I matched with this girl on tinder and we'be been chatting on and off for a few months. On the count of both of us having just a ridiculously busy schedule and some unfortunate events hitting us both we only me up for drinks this past week. Its the dead of winter here so I took her to a ni... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
gtuFapsrHv71WI0YvJVIWbJAdMJX8Lge | 9z02h7 | {
"description": "open palm slapping my dad in the face",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for open palm slapping my dad in the face? | Backstory, my day was probably the worst it has been in months.
Work is extreme stressful, recently I’ve been taking calls from stressed out people who I can’t even help because we are stretched thin as it is and can’t get more help til after the holidays.
My gf is going through some things with her family, she live... | HISTORICAL | {
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vwkrj3KOndHv3KzridyGmRCixmXXY7TD | any0ji | {
"description": "telling my brother that no one asked him to take on the responsibility of looking after our family homes furniture, art and antiques",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for telling my brother that no one asked him to take on the responsibility of looking after our family homes furniture, art and antiques? | My mother moved from our 5 bedroom family home and asked my siblings to help move out. Over the course of 2 years (over mainly weekends) my sister and I collected everything we owned/wanted to keep from the house’s contents.
My brother, on the other hand, took it upon himself to deal with storing the the rest of the h... | HISTORICAL | {
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KnF7aeYVGrCa05s37UJQm4lIAK8ETLUn | a6joo6 | {
"description": "getting upset that because the parent of our youngest child decided to come into our house without being invited",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for getting upset that because the parent of our youngest child decided to come into our house without being invited? | Background: My wife and I have a pre-teen daughter who has made a new friend via a 'social club' for lack of a better term. Both girls happen to enjoy a particular activity so my wife and I have taken them twice to said activity. Today the other child's parents decided to take them to an event and we dropped our daug... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
lH3hhkMsKuZvVwBWfcuMjuIL5vUTcRDC | b4g8b6 | {
"description": "paiding for a Switch with 125 bills",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA If I paid for a Switch with 125 bills? | I recently rediscovered a sum of money that I was saving up a few years ago, and wish to spend it on a new Switch. If I go to gamestop and pay with a ludicrous amount of bills, would I be an asshole? I would really prefer if I didnt have to deposit it into a bank but that's really the only other option.
I think they wi... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 11,
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} | RIGHT |
ijRfXERYZHKBwOknFpMUU0lOzqrvv1qb | acl8qf | {
"description": "not wanting anyone outside of my household to have access to our WiFi video baby monitor",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA For not wanting anyone outside of my household to have access to our WiFi video baby monitor? | Tl;dr at the bottom
So we have a baby monitor in our infants room. It is a video monitor that connects to WiFi, and if you have the login information, you can download the app and view a constant stream of our monitor from any mobile device through the internet (anywhere in the world, don’t need to be close).
I am th... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
mJ83yyAGLAML6DnpUDuDkhCk5TqBiT8I | aa6kpa | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with my friends while they do weed",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not wanting to hang out with my friends while they do weed? | Me and my friends have had a small New Years party planned. We were going to play Smash and exchange secret santa gifts.
All of a sudden a guy going to the party suggested that he’d bring weed brownies.
About half of my friends enthusiastically agreed. There’s about 10 people going to the party and maybe 5 people want... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
uxh5qyNKRkiKJBWd5kZuMw4qp3YWaKGf | 9wji45 | {
"description": "not wanting to stay an extra hour at work because they are short staffed",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting to stay an extra hour at work because they are short staffed? | I work as a waiter part time. Since im 17 and in full education, I only do friday and weekends depending on the rota. Well on sunday, I was to work 12pm-3pm, and mid shift the team leader of whatever its called asked me to stay and extra hour.
I didn't because since I had work friday and saturday I hadn't done my... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
3KkAydXZJQJdBwzHNj7YgTD5tP5VXDJZ | au45rf | {
"description": "going bowling without my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA For going bowling without my girlfriend | My roommates and I (3 other people) have gotten into bowling recently and we've been going pretty often. My girlfriend, who also lives with me, was okay with it for a couple weeks but now refuses to go bowling because she "doesnt like it". Shes pretty good at it and we all seem to have a good time when she goes.
Now ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nJG5fNSJrT7m7P39wVmu865fbGwEgT5r | asx2ab | {
"description": "saying that I love my family more than my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for saying that I love my family more than my girlfriend? | For context, I met my girlfriend on a dating app and absolutely adore her. I have no qualms in saying that I love her however when she once posed the question as to whether I love her more than my own family, she wasn’t pleased with the response.
I told her that whilst I definitely love her quite a lot, my family is v... | HISTORICAL | {
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thw7z3uA9h1s8ZPNVbVjgMS9qPC0n6xV | a48p9o | {
"description": "putting a note on a guy's windshield? while's he's in the car. tailgaiting",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for putting a note on a guy's windshield? While's he's in the car. Tailgaiting. | Guy's tailgaiting me on a slow (25 mph) road for quite some time. Cars are in front of me so I couldn't go faster. I did not feel the need to pull over and let him by. Presumably that was just the way he drove.
I tapped by brakes repeatedly. Didn't work. Two times I gradually slowed down, roll my window down and... | HISTORICAL | {
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xJ3TwI2N7MNhM1Z7wL3z8XNNxI7dNbrM | aon9gn | {
"description": "cutting a friend out of my life after he failed to hang out multiple times with there being an excuse every time",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA for cutting a friend out of my life after he failed to hang out multiple times with there being an excuse every time? | So I (26m) have a mate (26m) who I've been good mates with for roughly 7 years give or take, we confide in each other for a lot of things, if I was to get married he would be my best man. We used to hang out a few times a week, but obviously as we have gotten older, girlfriends, jobs. Etc, that time is significantly le... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
PCu72CHzHYuu8OsNcSx8laGnZxeX1k61 | a8vov7 | {
"description": "feeling uncomfortable around my uncle",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for feeling uncomfortable around my uncle? | I feel like an asshole for it because I can't specifically pinpoint a reason. I mean for one thing I rarely see some family members so I naturally feel a bit awkward when I do go and visit but I feel it even more with him? He's in his late fifties and has lived at my grandparents house his whole life- which I think is ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
SMEVDV7PjuYv8RtJjavAO4eJrUHpsfNf | a9l7lv | {
"description": "being pissed my SO was considering buying a nazi flag for historical purposes",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for being pissed my SO was considering buying a nazi flag for historical purposes | Went to a flea market in rural MA. One stand had a lot of war themed memorial. My SO and his son were looking at the items and already bought a deactivated grenade and a helmet. My SO was considering buying a wartime nazi flag, it was ragged and old. The lady selling said it was a “historic prince” ... I basical... | HISTORICAL | {
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tRc55QVnS0xG1XsI5zQr1lqutvX1RvUa | a9p8xi | {
"description": "trying to take-baksies a color swap",
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} | AITA for trying to take-baksies a color swap. | Basically, for christmas, my sister and I each got Bose SoundSport free earbuds (My idea). I got the color that was Very dark blue/black on the outside, and neon yellow on the inside, while she got the ones that were orange on the outside and black inside. My parents said we could swap colors if we wanted.
Today, I de... | HISTORICAL | {
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tRwDUzvldwji8l4ER93adlCXC1LiOLVa | b5z3gj | {
"description": "not brining more to the table",
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} | AITA for not brining more to the table? | AITA for not being more useful for my organization?
My organization is made out of jeans and suit people. Jeans are my types; blue-collar workers and suits are admins and project managers.
I have a Ph.D but have been called an asshole for declining projects that make use of my Ph.D. as it is not in my current work de... | HISTORICAL | {
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exVIFmvthWhH3gxqP5RlOFPjaYNPASXy | agjxkq | {
"description": "\"hitting\" my so",
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} | AITA for "hitting" my SO? | So my fiance Joe and I have a pretty good relationship. This story has a few parts to understand where it's coming from.
Tldr- I sometimes in good fun wack my fiance and he went awhal
Joe and I were messing around, I was wacking him with a sock and he was wacking me with a knitted hat. We were laughing, joking, havi... | HISTORICAL | {
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tR3H9ZyJaX7lPajpsiVC01verI1jFVSG | ax8tb6 | {
"description": "not wanting my girlfriend to go to prom with another guy",
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} | AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to go to prom with another guy? | Ok so I started dating this girl about 3 months ago after being close friends for about 5 months. Prom has always been a common topic for us because she goes to an untraditional school so they don't have their own prom. Not a big deal, my school has a prom so we would just go to that. But here is where it gets complica... | HISTORICAL | {
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ljP1rveBXxNayL46ZDTNul2XLwPd9wVI | b0u37l | {
"description": "drawing a butt on my friend's test",
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} | AITA for drawing a butt on my friend’s test? | My friend and I are both high schoolers. We had to partner-grade a test so I swapped my test with hers and I was immensely bored, so I stared doodling on her test. Before anyone says anything about how I should’ve gotten permission before messing around with other people’s belongings, yea I probably should’ve asked but... | HISTORICAL | {
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li84zmjIltsIyhS9cHbrpRCag7kuB0P7 | b00lnv | {
"description": "calling my dad a meathead",
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} | AITA for calling my dad a meathead? | I (F16) live with my parents and my half-brother (19). My dad has always badmouthed students/universities and said that they are lazy and useless and don't know how to work, so he doesn't want either of us to go to uni. Also uni isn't completely free here and from what my brother has told me especially the study materi... | HISTORICAL | {
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dOGGsWajAse4sQey7y4VInadFNLMGJPJ | anrvhi | {
"description": "telling someone Friday weddings suck",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for telling someone Friday weddings suck? | Friend is getting married and wants to do Friday wedding. I shared that I think Friday weddings are awful because it sucks to rush after work and I always have more fun on Saturday weddings. Also sucks for ppl in the wedding having to take Friday off and possibly thurs for rehearsal.
Friend and their family completel... | HISTORICAL | {
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SO18xPSGB1KERDA2nC9NZSqfYghdBxo5 | a5mdgc | {
"description": "denying this woman a seat at a hospital",
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} | AITA for denying this woman a seat at a hospital? | Preface this with a disclaimer- i do not believe in equality of the sexes. A man has to conduct himself with a certain degree of gentlemanliness, if you will. I always open doors for women, offer a hand if something they're carrying seems too heavy, seat on public transport, etc. And teach my two sons that.
That said,... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZJgX9D0HDee9n02NA9Ezb288WrIZK6NT | at6br9 | {
"description": "not waiting for this girl",
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} | AITA for not waiting for this girl? |
I had a crush on this girl in 11th grade. I asked her for notes and it all started from there. As I started getting to know her better, I started liking her even more. She was smart, thoughtful, and very pretty. We had plenty of similar interests from films and music to our careers. I believed that she was the one for... | HISTORICAL | {
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qGsQemhv9nBoOpUDkzB75eJDnuDvjoWi | 9vh7fj | {
"description": "not wanting to wake back up to help my brother with homework he knew he had all night",
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} | AITA for not wanting to wake back up to help my brother with homework he knew he had all night? | It was 10:00pm and my house knows I (17m), go to bed at 9:15pm. My mother comes and wakes me up to make me help him and I said it isn’t my problem and I shouldn’t have to worry about someone who doesn’t try on their work anyways. She snapped yelled at him, “Your brother is gonna make you fail.” Am I an asshole for bein... | HISTORICAL | {
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iNvBlwS1hfzYy7o5C7TvbyH0KnnymQUj | 9wvic9 | {
"description": "having tons of performance anxiety and kinda blaming it on my girlfriend",
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} | AITA I have tons of performance anxiety and i kinda blame it on my girlfriend. | We have been dating for let's say? A year now and I am still virgin, my girlfriend is not. But we have VERY strict parents and rarely have the opportunity to actually experiment with sex, but with the pressure of living up to the standards of my girlfriends last sexual experience (which was her first)
But once her ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5EVYdQC3KZuwHL3gqffsj9lmSUaVKgUx | b6pls9 | {
"description": "getting mad when my friend blocked me cuz she didn't want me in her life",
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} | AITA For getting mad when my friend blocked me cuz she didn't want me in her life? | Ok so basically I had this friend. We were really close until at one point where we just kinda stopped talking, and I went on about it until I decided I wanted to talk to her to try and get back in touch. So obviously I decided to try to text her, but I couldn't find her Instagram handle. So I ask a friend and she said... | HISTORICAL | {
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0fzEp8f4mi8WdX9orSvsbqtng4c4y80C | a2agpp | {
"description": "being fine with my brother's hate group",
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} | AITA for being fine with my brother's hate group. | He's in a male supremacy group that's based online but they have meetings in person. I guess our parents found out about one of these meetings. They are just freaking out. My mom was in tears. My dad nearly kicked him out. While I'm just sitting here not caring at all. My brother explained a lot to me and he made very ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
R1bfpG3f31scfGrsSOrWssYfFSXoNgtn | 9w3bq4 | {
"description": "not wanting to visit my mentally abusing step mother",
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} | AITA for not wanting to visit my mentally abusing step mother? | Ill try and make this short as possible without leaving anything out.
My biological mother passed away from cancer when i was 9 and my brother was 7. Before my mother getting sick and her passing, she divorced my father and he remarried. Now i dont know if something happened between my mother and my step mother, but s... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ajc4pp0EbO97anKDTtKguxKAYrLolA7m | 9zn2ub | {
"description": "not wanting anything to do with my step mom",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting anything to do with my step mom? | I can tell so hard that my step mom doesn't like me. Here's some context:
When we had a DCFS case on us at a point when things weren't going so good due to false accusations from another person, my step-mom blame the whole thing on me for not going to school. I and my mother, sister and step dad do not believe in sch... | HISTORICAL | {
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IAk2ngPS8foQBIyEEriN3IJlQz1rjKGL | ay3hg0 | {
"description": "making a joke with my ex-bff that went a tiny bit too far",
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} | AITA For making a joke with my ex-bff that went a tiny bit too far? (She went Super Saiyan on me) | Okay so this happened about half a year ago when Me and my ex-bff (A) were still friends. We were best friends for 2 years and I really thought that she was the best friend ever. Me an A had so much in common. But the thing is, I was really depressed and self-conscious while we were friends, and she was the last thing ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zRY5Cnbuyyffd0WwmkWv97YXAEFg9Mv9 | a9tp3r | {
"description": "not wanting to baptize my kid",
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} | AITA for not wanting to baptize my kid | TL, DR at the bottom
Sorry for spelling and editing, i am in mobile, english is my second language, and i am pretty much drunk now, but:
I am having a girlfriend for 2 years now, she is not deeply religious, but she belives in christian dogma. I, on the other hand, am completly against any kind of religion. On a day to... | HISTORICAL | {
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G8sfmLaw0EGMGd2fnABhpfO8J5RLpjNB | aym9y6 | null | AITA slept in today and gf is pissed | Hey guys, first time posting here. So just a little background info on the situation. I work midnights and have been on this schedule since later November. My shift is 11pm-7am (just recently got switched to 10pm-6am), I normally sleep when I get home from work to around 3-5pm. My girlfriend usually works 5am-1:30pm so... | HISTORICAL | {
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LFFuOYPZ2o3eAfX1rwpy3u5mgtJfhHu8 | aoygm8 | {
"description": "wanting my husband and his friend to hang out at his friend's house instead of ours",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for wanting my husband and his friend to hang out at his friend’s house instead of ours? | First off, I don’t hate the guy. We get along, but once a month, him and my husband have a bro time sleepover at our house. It’s loud, obnoxious, they drink and smoke and watch old reruns of wrestlemania and other such nonsense. They usually take both TVs (one for gaming and one for wrestlemania) leaving my with only m... | HISTORICAL | {
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HSZpJCNzH9GHNoSlF2o4fBJK0v4FEXLN | b8fuv8 | {
"description": "potentially ruining my mother's only long term relationship by interrupting her during sex",
"pronormative_score": 26,
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} | AITA for potentially ruining my mother’s only long term relationship by interrupting her during sex?- | Throwaway because a few people know this story so I’d like to keep it away from my main.
This happened a few years ago but I still feel bad about it and get mixed responses when I bring it up, so here goes.
My parents split when I was 3 so I was raised by a single mother most of my life. When I was a teenager, she ca... | HISTORICAL | {
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HowcyCf4Ht6Ai3VKiwaDkQpyQAkYNBAO | aq9s9q | {
"description": "attending my sisters wedding but not being able to afford a gift",
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} | AITA For attending my sisters wedding but not being able to afford a gift? | I recently had to consolidate with the bank and I barely have money to eat after rent and the bank get their portion of my pay. I always intended to get her a gift when I could afford one, but since the wedding both she and her wife started ignoring my texts. Am I the asshole here? Should I go hungry to get her a prese... | HISTORICAL | {
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fSiH11Ch4KXSV0ST3e2c0R7idzaONarm | b8tfm7 | {
"description": "thinking it's unfair to send really risky photos of my self to my girlfriend and get upset when she won't do the same",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for thinking it’s unfair to send really risky photos of my self to my girlfriend and get upset when she won’t do the same | Now the title I understand implies that I expect nudes out of her I don’t to be clear
So earlier today I asked my girlfriend is she was going to send nudes like she promised the night prior she said no she’s packing I ended up saying that it feels unfair she took this the wrong way and assumed that I was expecting nu... | HISTORICAL | {
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HjXL5Wd6jrELCBidO4dh50DGjUUwvhGl | avw8hc | {
"description": "being angry with make-a-wish",
"pronormative_score": 27,
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} | AITA for being angry with Make-A-Wish? | I have an incurable, life threatening illness. I was diagnosed with it when I was in elementary school. My disease has nearly killed me multiple times. It stole most of my childhood and it made me miss out on many academic opportunities.
Recently, my family and I found out that Make-A-Wish isn't just for terminally il... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
c4MELlSPxMxGR9FS4t6Y3ZhXKttJU40C | altd14 | {
"description": "telling my roommate, whose rent I'm currently paying for, that her BF can't come over anymore",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for telling my roommate, whose rent I'm currently paying for, that her BF can't come over anymore? | To start off, some context: I found my current roommate online. She's very nice and we're courteous to each other, but do not have enough common interest to be considered friends by any means. She moved into a kind of luxury apartment without first having a stable job, but by working odd jobs here and there, she was... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
IwuPTf8LoDT1tbrYs5ZUkWys7TaL8fX5 | b8i4dc | {
"description": "saying I wouldn't spend more than £1500 on an engagement ring",
"pronormative_score": 75,
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} | AITA For saying I wouldn’t spend more than £1500 on an engagement ring? | okay so I’ve (28/M) been with my GF (25/F) for nearly 4 years. We’re currently on holiday and last night we went out for a couple drinks and she was quite drunk. We had a conversation of what it’s gonna be like when we get married ( we both know it’s not for a good few years yet), it was nice discussing what we both wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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aSvwjjH6I5yo4S79T7JylVyHDGnJ3kAE | ads0xx | {
"description": "telling my friend my opinion",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for telling my friend my opinion? | On mobile, apologies in advance for spelling and format issues.
I have a friend who is a gay transgender person. He is a leftist, but not in the traditional sense (believes in political systems such as anarchy etc). I am a male, non denominational Christian, more conservative (although I'm not very political minded), ... | HISTORICAL | {
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sSaO6z9SyXBAkojJKyfaFr8wDtu4gppL | actxro | {
"description": "expecting my father to spend more time at home",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for expecting my father to spend more time at home? | So I need a bit of an outside perspective because I can't tell if I'm just being childish.
Background information: I'm 23 years old and temporarily moved back in with my dad while I'm finishing my degree; this has been the first holiday season since my parents split up; dad has been in a new relationship for 5ish mont... | HISTORICAL | {
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sbi2EegNukwkqZpfDitbB0AXZZ3NbZnE | 9z50ph | {
"description": "not wanting to be with my family on Thanksgiving or holidays",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not wanting to be with my family on Thanksgiving or holidays | This is about the holidays and life in general.
I've been through a lot with my family this year. To make it short, my mom is pretty narcissistic and my family are her followers. Lately she's been using her nice face. I've limited her visits already because she has made a huge negative impact on my older kid (4yo... | HISTORICAL | {
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t0EhjU7mkRoAdCwS1afYQl6nHW1HRfot | b3v9lz | {
"description": "asking my friends to stop talking about their diet",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | WIBTA if I ask my friends to stop talking about their diet? | I (28F) have a number of friends who are on a particular fad diet. They've had great experiences and like to talk about that with our larger friend group, myself included. I have no inclination to try this diet, but I'm happy that my friends are happy.
I am on the thicker side so I've dealt with people making passive ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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jUJfAFjuRKR1qRpWNufPrWXkQnPQg483 | aommxl | {
"description": "confronting my friend about them talking shit about me on their private twitter",
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} | WIBTA if I confronted my friend about them talking shit about me on their private twitter? | For some background, my oldest friend and I were the closest friends before college and we still keep in good contact. Despite our friendship, there have been rough times. Sometimes I acted like an ass and sometimes he has, but in general we make up. He is mentally ill and has BPD and many other mental illnesses. Befor... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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f4fttan94puqXMnDgNwjP4i8prlc8nxw | autinf | {
"description": "doing someone else's work and letting them get away with it",
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} | AITA: For doing someone else’s work and letting them get away with it (or maybe inadvertently stealing the glory) | Not sure if this is the right place, but it’s a moral dilemma.
A colleague and I are working on a client facing project together. The very first task was putting together slides to open the on site client facing workshop. It was agreed the slides would be done by the other person a week prior, and multiple follow up ... | HISTORICAL | {
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68pmuMjwDTGfkEGHiT24jk1qGlm7ZIE9 | a10ya4 | {
"description": "not waking up my roomate for class",
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} | AITA for not waking up my roomate for class? | My roomate and her boyfriend are making me out to be the bad guy for not waking her up for a shared 8am class, I normally give her a ride and she wasn't up this morning so I left without her because I didnt want to be late. I feel as if its not my responsability to get her up in the morning for classes, but they seem t... | HISTORICAL | {
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gWnLQLGYt2HNz22vbZmOZjZw6MjIplLW | aeax9v | {
"description": "sleeping around after breaking up with an ex I still care about",
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} | WIBTA if I slept around after breaking up with an ex I still care about? | I broke up with her (1 year relationship, 2 years friendship) about 2 weeks ago because I felt emotionally abused and restricted in how I lived my life (always insecure with something even though I never cheated or got even close). The breakup was not for other girls.
I still care about her and see her as my best frie... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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5XVUep57NpjG6PKrs5Lvu7bPvA089CGm | b8szu9 | {
"description": "yelling at my roommate for asking my girlfriend about her sexual preferences",
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} | AITA For yelling at my roommate for asking my girlfriend about her sexual preferences? | My roommate and I have a long-ish history of truly disliking each other, especially in regard to how he has acted toward me and my girlfriend in the past.
This evening my girlfriend walked upstairs to get a cup of water, where said roommate along with other roommates were sitting. I heard the following question “Do y... | HISTORICAL | {
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kBTXdH1PzFLj6wGkP0TujNL50h3D85qC | am9hgn | {
"description": "not wanting to meet my transexual grandmother for the first time",
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} | AITA for not wanting to meet my transexual grandmother for the first time? | Ok so a bit of backstory is necessary. My dad moved to canada from the UK when he was very young, 3 or 4 years old I think. Almost as soon as they got here his dad just vanished and nobody knew where he was for almost 10 years. One day they just show up out of the blue and surprise, they're a woman now. Cue 1-2 years o... | HISTORICAL | {
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hDcUWOIaKfO6xZgWeb6AlgW0ypgJahRq | a1bg5l | {
"description": "reporting my neighbor's dog",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for reporting my neighbor’s dog | I live in an apartment and I am currently working from home. Normally I cannot hear any of my neighbors at all, I made sure to pick a place to live with walls built well enough not to hear every movement or conversation.
My next door neighbor (couple) have a dog, dog is probably 1 year old. The dog is a lab, very cut... | HISTORICAL | {
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qv6kt9ym9GuiL6iZzoIQkzBiaxaFZSWU | aoap7z | {
"description": "confronting my brother after he and his girlfriend trashed my room",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for confronting my brother after he and his girlfriend trashed my room? | I'm 23 and I live at my parent's house for family reasons. My brother (16) started dating this girl six months ago and he found out she's always wanted to play a Nintendo 64 (don't ask me why, I literally have no idea why). I have an N64 and because of this, my brother asked if he could use it with her. I said yes. Aft... | HISTORICAL | {
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a7gAzpod8VKrt13P5SiltamzpN7OQVEl | ak8glk | {
"description": "talking to my ex I dated when I was 11",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA if I talk to my ex I dated when I was 11? | We were 11 at the time and me her dated for 3 years. I'm 21 now and have a fiance. I love her so much and want to spend the rest of my life with her. I'm curious if talking to said ex will be a wrong move even if it's just a friendly catchup chat. I'm worried she'll still consider it a proper ex even though we were so ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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rZZUeRdK4LIHidt5e2rKoOrTKCHiYSkc | azyaet | {
"description": "storing guns below my tenants against their wishes",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for storing guns below my tenants against their wishes | Right now I live with my brother and his girlfriend and they just had a baby. They live below me on the first floor of my townhome. Below them is a small basement storage area where they mostly keep all their baby things and whatnot. Earlier this year my father passed away and left me a bunch of weapons (long guns a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
INATxhbVhHP5pQq5EhfCicxw8X2gYR2z | asdc1y | {
"description": "telling my friend to kick rocks",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA for telling my friend to kick rocks? | A short backstory: I'm an 18 year old nursing student in an ADN (associate degree in nursing) program at a community college. I met another girl who was going to my school a few months before we started our program through reddit. We met up a few times and she seemed nice enough.
​
Now, onto what's been g... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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YlpC6dKQZwN2afV4RxLPgYIyej3XgJlw | amvpfd | {
"description": "being annoyed/making fun of someones proposal",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for being annoyed/making fun of someones proposal? | Posting this from mobile reddit. Some back story, Im a junior at a very small and rural highschool in america, my class is a class of about 94 people and about 400 people in my whole highschool. Im not sure if other schools do this but at my school we have something called snowcoming which is similar to homecoming but ... | HISTORICAL | {
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cfLpM2WXiaITwgMPqupWtWzsATxCQI5x | aoujha | {
"description": "wanting to pull my daughter out of preschool",
"pronormative_score": 228,
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} | AITA for wanting to pull my daughter out of preschool | My partner and I chose this preschool over the public preschool because it advertises an increase in self esteem which our kid needs (very shy).
The school was putting on a play and required all the 3-4 year olds to participate in the show. My daughter did not want to be in the play because she didn't want to be on st... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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QwfOBYbuv01hn2iW3Qy43OkGV9AJUuCM | a9l6p8 | {
"description": "not wanting to accept a refund/return on an item that the buyer admitted to damaging",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not wanting to accept a refund/return on an item that the buyer admitted to damaging? | Hey everyone, I've never used this sub before so apologies if I'm not doing this right!
I have quite a few vinyl records that I don't listen to anymore, so I casually sell them from time to time on a website called Discogs, which is essentially a site where average people can buy and sell records. I sold an album to a... | HISTORICAL | {
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74t73eNrDXfaJWtnn3LNxV8VhnqKmn43 | ai14ed | {
"description": "having the bouncer kick a girl out of the club",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for having the bouncer kick a girl out of the club? | The club I usually go to to party lets people stay in the VIP area, as long as it isn't fully booked. Once it is, those who have reserved a table get to decide who may or may not enter (will be important).
So this Friday I was at a party there and we just decided to go into the VIP area since it was free. One of my f... | HISTORICAL | {
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APagLOGAd5b7B03pRQF5j1A0LfCbyY8z | b1tudg | {
"description": "thinking my mom is a dickhead for sleeping late on weekends",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for thinking my mom is a dickhead for sleeping late on weekends | She always does it, she’s sleeps until like 3 in the afternoon and she know I will want to go out on Saturday with my friends. She always gets pissy when I come in her room at 11:30-12. We’ll in sorry but I don’t want to lay around in the bed all day.
She takes forever to wake up and I want to go out and do things. I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Z6vMx93MzWQYmNNXHDTtyA0CxaJekgFX | a79xjd | {
"description": "not wanting a dog",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for not wanting a dog? | So, I moved in with my girlfriend about 4 months ago. Last month, she was talking about getting a dog. I didn't want one. Don't get me wrong, I love dogs with all my heart and soul. My German Shepherd Apollo died just 6 months ago. I had her since she was a puppy. I got her as a gift on my 8th birthday. She was a healt... | HISTORICAL | {
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ARiYf0JkWcC3s6fxrLbG3DJcOHlhNZyl | ag77hp | {
"description": "asking for a free commissioned piece of art that that the artist him/herself advertised as free",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for asking for a free commissioned piece of art that that the artist him/herself advertised as free | I messaged an artist who advertised that he/she would make one free sketch of a character, (no mech, no detailed oc and no NSFW) I asked him if he could "memeify" my profile picture (the one I have on reddit right now) and he asked if I was blind or mentally deficient as to what a "simple sketch was". I told him/her t... | HISTORICAL | {
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4V0o6BDPyyoAvuPzcvwsovxPblDloVuI | amit9l | {
"description": "kicking my roommate",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for kicking my roommate? | For some context:
We live in a dorm, and in my country dorms are really small. It's a tiny room, big enough to only fit 3 beds, 3 desks, a wardrobe and a fridge. My roommate's desk is right in front of my bed.
So I was sitting on my bed, chilling and watching youtube when suddenly my roommate turns around from his d... | HISTORICAL | {
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Rdb2tejFl3vt5YBDnEyqKS2zcnTMljKR | b6qxtb | {
"description": "spending more time with my girl best friend than my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for spending more time with my girl best friend than my girlfriend? | My girlfriend will be called Taylor, and my friend Lydia.
So, Lydia and Taylor are pretty good friends and have known each other since freshman year since they play volleyball together. I've known Lydia since middle school since we were in the gifted class together, which was just basically chilling and talking all t... | HISTORICAL | {
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QuU2rWjAd8jZuNFbCAyA7j8lHJ7txjad | aw9sou | {
"description": "telling my mother-in-law that she can't control how I act in my home",
"pronormative_score": 1116,
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} | AITA for telling my mother-in-law that she can't control how I act in my home? | My mother-in-law moved in with us about three months ago. It's been ok. She and I are clashing personalities and cultures, and it's come up more often now that we share a similar space. She is a traditional Hispanic woman with a strong sense of decorum and family hierarchy. I am white, liberal in all ways, and agnostic... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
EPRANzY0NcEDfwYGe8TlZIZtivq0PjMO | ayt7oy | {
"description": "telling my friend she should spend with her kid",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for telling my friend she should spend with her kid? | So my friend ( I’ll call her j) suffers from bipolar and is hospitalized at least 5 times a year. She and her husband along with their 5 year old son love with her parents. They’re retired so when she ends up in the hospital the brunt of childcare falls to them. They don’t mind it and this isn’t the issue.
The proble... | HISTORICAL | {
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QJuxHss3wR5ZVJh9vmsMWfbGAyBBN4kg | b2xrwa | {
"description": "thinking my ex-husband and his wife are crossing boundaries with my family",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA: For thinking my ex-husband and his wife are crossing boundaries with my family | TLDR: Ex and his new wife are now best buds with my dad who I had a falling out with.
​
My ex husband (31m) and I (28f) finalized our divorce about two years ago. The divorce was pretty messy and now we are trying to co parent our 7 year old daughter best we can. My dad (not bio) never really liked my ex ... | HISTORICAL | {
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qygkWGNX8lBfzGS5oIC1qKLTtxv848t9 | 9z9k0y | {
"description": "putting the girlfriends cat outside",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for putting the girlfriends cat outside | My girlfriend of 9 years has a cat that keeps pissing and shitting in the house. I have had to remove the upstairs and downstairs carpet. Currently my floors are bare concrete and plywood.
She only cleans the litter boxes once a week some times longer. I keep bringing this up as the problem but it just gets brush... | HISTORICAL | {
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XHulEy8ekrjuUzTCdzBCV8C6QJRLTfrz | b7c87p | {
"description": "telling my wife she needs to get a better job",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For telling my wife she needs to get a better job | r/AmItheAsshole
I quit my dream job for nothing.
u/Onikem
So im 29(m) married to a 27(f) with a 2 year old daughter. I previously worked in the video game industry but it meant a two hour round trip commute. Being games the pay was less then I could get for the same job elsewhere but we had enough money to live and i l... | HISTORICAL | {
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Oq1ndMYtLaEWzbt6ZrI8WdRf4HcijR7U | ab6ox0 | {
"description": "mentioning its mean for my gf to throw a surprise b-day party for her friend knowing she won't show up",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for mentioning its mean for my GF to throw a surprise B-day party for her friend knowing she won’t show up? | So here’s the situation. My GF has been having trouble meeting up with her childhood best friend because, for one reason or another, her friend will either flake on my GF last minute or be busy and not available. The best friend is a very social person and has a lot of friends she needs/wants to see and it seems to me ... | HISTORICAL | {
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wLYZfZFNcWifEwOwx7TtJ4Y6Kj7PcAhq | azi1l7 | {
"description": "telling my friend there's still vomit in my car",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my friend there's still vomit in my car | Two nights ago, I went out with a group of friends to a club. I was the only one who didn't drink so I offered to drive. Half of them came in my car and the other half took an Uber because there wasn't enough space.
One of my friends got super drunk. To clarify, me and him aren't necessarily close friends because we ... | HISTORICAL | {
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NhHrkBzqj7FPHZLNqL1MsnEDmZiQCIOH | anwfi1 | {
"description": "restarting the Wi-Fi while my Nan watched her show",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for restarting the Wi-Fi while my Nan watched her show? | The TV Box that is set up in my house is directly linked to the Wi-Fi so it does have a habit of being a little slow and laggy especially when watching YouTube or just Gaming.
Tonight me & my sister were lagging terribly so I told my sister that I'd restart it so it could run smoother. Well straight after that, my... | HISTORICAL | {
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hJlJLj3l7DHvUY9ubMrD73tuyCUL8XKa | aglnsi | {
"description": "doubting that my ex was raped",
"pronormative_score": 26,
"contranormative_score": 41
} | AITA For doubting that my (M18) ex (F16) was raped? | I dated this girl December last year until October this year, I really got to love her and I am not sure if I still love her, even after we broke I still supported about her supposed rape. Long story short, she got raped at 14 in Mexico by her cousin, she and I live in the US, the reasons why I doubt it is because.
1.... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
J272l3USUUQYf3msyl5AJ0DbIV897woF | b8xy73 | {
"description": "inviting my friend to my flat even though he cheated on my flatmate",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 16
} | AITA for inviting my friend to my flat even though he cheated on my flatmate? | So I (19M) go to uni and my best friend at uni is also 19M, we'll call him Toby.
Toby dated my flatmate (19F), we'll call Amanda, for a few months from about September last year to January. Anyway towards the end of that relationship, he cheated on her when he hooked up with a girl at a nightclub (had sex with her). ... | HISTORICAL | {
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pFscBbqEsPuBO8sh7OqRBVsHh9EpTx6Y | amori1 | {
"description": "breaking my own laptop that my brother hid under a pile of pillows",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for breaking my own laptop that my brother hid under a pile of pillows? | So, here's the story. My brother uses my laptop a lot and basically " owns"" it for most of the time, I'm completely chill with it.
So when I took a nap, my brother used my laptop, as usual, and then proceeded to hide it under a huge pile of pillows so that it's "safe" when he went to the pool.
I woke up, then ... | HISTORICAL | {
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xoVwkdzcbjKorUzhpeY3XB72WZ6leZxn | alu3am | {
"description": "being annoyed my gf warned me she will be sad on the anniversary of her brothers death",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 33
} | AITA for being annoyed my gf warned me she will be sad on the anniversary of her brothers death? | My (f29) girlfriend (f35) and I have been together 6 months and just moved in together. She is an extremely thoughtful and caring partner and I'm so glad she'll be with me to celebrate my 30th birthday in February.
I don't like to set people up for failure and told her explicitly this was an important birthday and th... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 33
} | WRONG |
bfFk15x4SfJaL067NOo7KL02j7pjUeec | a9brgs | {
"description": "saying I don't want anything for our anniversary",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for saying I don’t want anything for our anniversary? | My husband and I are currently long distance. A little bit of background on this: we were long distance for 4 years before we got married with plans to move in together. I relocated to where he was living on the other side of the world. 2 months after moving there I got really sick and we were paying $$ out of pocket f... | HISTORICAL | {
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kQNj2HPE2uip1t9nuks6HZX5xBmUF0vQ | b30vnz | {
"description": "not going to my dad's wedding",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | WIBTA if I don't go to my dad's wedding? | (My first post let me know if I should fix anything.)
​
So a little backstory so you know the circumstances of the situation:
My parents split up a long time ago, when i was around 12, due to my father cheating on my mom. We lived abroad during that time so me and my mom moved back and dad continued to li... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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SSXG3QXesdD0VsZcMeF4iz6hYNYaOGFm | akwpf2 | {
"description": "not wanting to go to my dad's wedding",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For not wanting to go to my dad's wedding? | My parents have been divorced since I was a young kid and my dad has since then remarried a woman and then got divorced again. He's coming on his third marriage. The woman lives in a different state than him and has 3 young kids and I have only met her 2 or 3 times.
I call my dad to do a weekly check in and he asks m... | HISTORICAL | {
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jQ2AlugdOF99JyyPgtBbMEoLL8kAbUhs | b7adun | {
"description": "asking my girlfriend not to share what I consider to be personal information",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for asking my girlfriend not to share what I consider to be personal information. | My girlfriend likes to share stuff about our lives with her two best friends and I recently told her I'm not comfortable with what she's been sharing with them. For example, she's sharing things such as positions we due different sexual acts in (like how we'll both usually be positioned when she blows me), how i feel i... | HISTORICAL | {
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UlLCSc8hILo1jD43xSzrVSOjDpW7mL8h | b4av2z | {
"description": "not wanting to go to College against my Father's wishes",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA For Not Wanting to Go to College Against my Father's Wishes? | Some background here about my upbringing as I really want to set the stage. He and my mom have done as much as they can for the family, both emotionally and financially. They are quite well off and have corporate jobs, but they spent as much time as they could with me and my two older sisters growing up. My dad in p... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"description": "booking on a uni trip out of the country for a week (which includes my birthday) and angering my gf",
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} | AITA for booking on a uni trip out of the country for a week (which includes my birthday) and angering my gf? | Soooooo... a timeline first,
I put my deposit down around september (the start of term) for a ski trip due for the middle of December. This ski trip is for the course I’m on at uni and in my last year of uni I thought it would be nice to go, so me and my housemates have booked on.
I remember discussing this with my... | HISTORICAL | {
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