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{ "description": "being stubborn about a school project", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being stubborn about a school project?
Background: So I’m in theatre class and our class (Theatre 1) is putting on a cut of Antigone. Half of the kids are acting and half are teching for the show. I’m usually an actor but I wanted to try something new so I did tech. Our class is really small (14 kids) so I’m in a group of 3 kids and we’re doing set, costu...
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{ "description": "shooting my friend's dog with a airsoft gun", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for shooting my friend’s dog with a airsoft gun?
So my friend John and I were in his back yard messing around with a air soft pistol. His dog was also with us but we made sure to watch out for him. We were having fun shooting some handmade targets when he started talking about my girlfriend. So for context, John has been upset at me for not hanging out with him as m...
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{ "description": "not fixing my friends floor", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not fixing my friends floor?
So about a year (maybe even two years) ago I was casually seeing this guy when out of nowhere he asks if anyone would want to take his three exotic lizards in hopes that when he moved out of his parents house he would get them back. Well I asked around and my four friends that lived together said they would take/watch ...
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{ "description": "calling out my boyfriends friends racist jokes", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for calling out my boyfriends friends racist jokes?
Really really really don’t want this to become a political beat down in the comments, so please just try to view this in an objective context. Also very long because I’m wordy & can never get right to the point, & formatting bc I’m on mobile. Little background (actually a lot of background IM SORRY): I am mix...
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{ "description": "forgetting about texting my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for forgetting about texting my friend?
First time posting here This happened a while ago, but it has left me wondering since. A Monday during a normal week in college, I texted my friend whom I haven’t seen in a while asking to hang out that weekend. He seemed pretty excited with the idea, and accepted(although we didn’t specify a place or time) Through...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friends to put my bf in their game of MASH", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting my friends to put my bf in their game of MASH?
Its like 2 am and my friend snaps me saying shes gonna marry my boyfriend and have 5 kids with him. When I asked what she was talking about, she said her and my other best friend were playing that MASH game and that my boyfriend was on their lists. Normally I wouldn't be that bothered by it but my boyfriend and I have ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boyfriend for not really getting me a Christmas present", "pronormative_score": 307, "contranormative_score": 101 }
AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for not really getting me a Christmas present?
My boyfriend and I exchanged presents early because he’s leaving to spend the next two weeks with his family. He’s struggling financially right now and looking for a new job, so I really wasn’t expecting much. Something small and thoughtful would have been fine. But his present was promising to buy me tickets to a ga...
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{ "description": "going to the college to study while my mom cleans the house", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going to the college to study while my mom cleans the house
Backstory: I use this did mostly to get some perspective of what battles I should fight and to not over step since I'm a bit of a pushover trying to grow a spine. Story: so my mom started spring cleaning just before finals at my college meaning she wants me home most of the time and any spare second seems to be spent c...
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{ "description": "wanting to start a YouTube channel/show as a SIDE gig; when that's my girlfriends' main gig", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to start a YouTube channel/show as a SIDE gig; when that's my girlfriends' MAIN gig?
Put simply, I got this really good idea for a YouTube channel that I'm pretty excited about going for this summer and I shared this idea with my girlfriend. She responded with "K" and "Oh you know, that's MY thing... but whatever, have fun." I apologize I know relationship advice posts are getting a little out of han...
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{ "description": "asking my sister to dye her hair a \"normal\" color", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 47 }
AITA for asking my sister to dye her hair a “normal” color?
I’m getting married, beautiful white dress and venue. Expensive photos. Everything I wish for, but...My sister (who is in my bridal party) has BRIGHT blue hair. I don’t want that to be where people’s eyes go when they are at my ceremony nor in all of my photos. I’m spending so much time and money on a beautiful neutral...
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{ "description": "stopping covering for my co-workers", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stopped covering for my co-workers?
So, before getting into everything, there are just a few things that I need to note about my job/situation. ​ **1.** Currently, I work in the building I live in - I'm the person you call if you're locked out of the building at three in the morning or evacuating the building if there's a fire. My usu...
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{ "description": "asking someone to stop contacting me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking someone to stop contacting me?
First off I'm on mobile so sorry for bad grammer and formatting. Last year I was royally screwed over by someone with a higher power. That stuff really messed me up and I've separated myself from that, and my only ties are some friends who still work there. One year I'm doing good and out of the blue the person who s...
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{ "description": "offering something to someone after they declined it the first time", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for offering something to someone after they declined it the first time?
To set the context: I am an Indian American (first generation American) and my boyfriend is an American. My parents immigrated to the U.S. in the 80’s and we visit them often. We spent the night at my parents’ house last night. My boyfriend said that he was cold and wished he had sweatpants. I told him that I could c...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend time with my family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend time with my family.
There has been no confrontation about this with my family yet (other than from my oldest sister) but it has been weighing on my conscious for a bit so I want to know what you guys think. (TL;DR at bottom) Today my mom had almost my whole immediate family over, except for my youngest (still a lot older than me) sister ...
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{ "description": "calling out my boyfriend's rudeness at a restaurant", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For calling out my boyfriend’s rudeness at a restaurant?
So we’re out to eat and my bf calls the waitress over with his hand, even though she was an audible distance away, and without saying “excuse me.” He called her “missy” and asked how much she wanted for a tip. He actually said “hey missy, how much tip do you want?” Later, he and I were on the phone, and I told him I th...
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{ "description": "throwing a drink in my racist aunt's face", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for throwing a drink in my racist aunt’s face?
Alright so quick story here - I’m French-Canadian, my boyfriend is Ethopian. Most of my family doesn’t really give two shits about his race, so they don’t comment about it at all. When I say most, I mean my jackass, “I’m not racist but....” aunt is the only one who gives me shit for dating him. In the past she jokingly...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to be friends with his ex", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to be friends with his ex?
My current boyfriend of 8 months and best friend of 2+ years broke up with his ex 2 years ago after they dated for 2+ years. Everything was fine until she came to the same college that we attend. At first they didn't talk much, but now they live near each other and have been talking and hanging out often (I'd say hangi...
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{ "description": "wanting a break from the baby even though I'm a stay at home mom", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting a break from the baby even though I’m a stay at home mom?
My husband works from home and I stay and take care of our 4mo. I have done 99% of the care. When I ask for help he seems like he is doing me a favor even after he is done working. He told me the other night that he feels like he doesn’t get a break and basically said it’s my job to care for the baby at all times Bc he...
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{ "description": "calling out of work because of bad weather", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling out of work because of bad weather?
Where I live in PA the weather is supposed to be very bad tomorrow. Basically the temperature is hovering between 32-33 degrees which means freezing rain, and definite ice once the sun sets and everything freezes. It’s not going to be much of an accumulation of snow just a possible couple inches so the retail store I’m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to walk my elderly neighbor's severely overweight dog", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to walk my elderly neighbor’s severely overweight dog?
My neighbor has a black Labrador retriever that is very overweight (113) lbs. The reason she’s this overweight is because my neighbor went through a family tragedy and just began to over feed the dog human food and never took her out for walks. She eventually realized what she was doing was wrong and put her on a stric...
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{ "description": "stopping mid-sex because my girlfriend said something that pissed me off", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for stopping mid-sex because my girlfriend said something that pissed me off?
As the title states, I stopped mid-sex due to something my girlfriend said. Without going into a heap of information I’ll give you guys a little context. We’ve been arguing recently, and the main basis of that is that my girlfriend has a few selfish and entitled tendencies, we’re both women and have been together for e...
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{ "description": "wanting an equal chance to stay in my parent's guest rooms", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting an equal chance to stay in my parent’s guest rooms?
My parents own a 3br 2bath home with an unfinished basement. When my siblings and I moved out/got married my parents changed the remaining 2 bedrooms into a children’s nursery/playroom, and a guest bedroom. My brother is single, and owns a house 5 minutes away from my parents so he has no need for the guest bedroom. My...
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{ "description": "not being happy about being volunteered to watch someones pet", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being happy about being volunteered to watch someones pet?
Backstory: My wife car pools with a classmate to uni (an hour and a half away from our house, and 2-2.5 hours from the classmates house, they meet up and ride together) ​ So, last night, I had it dropped on me that the classmate mentioned above would be bringing her dog to my house for me to watch while th...
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{ "description": "not proposing to my fiancé in the same place both sets of her grandparents and parents got engaged", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 74 }
AITA for not proposing to my fiancé in the same place both sets of her grandparents and parents got engaged?
I'll get this out of the way, I feel like an incredible asshole here, but maybe it's one of those things where she's overreacting a bit. I honestly don't know and maybe it doesn't matter because we have to move on one way or another. So backstory on this, fiancé grew up in smallish mountain town north of Albuquerque...
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{ "description": "ruining a night", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ruining a night?
I had a big breakdown Friday night. This may seem like I’m begging for validation but I promise you, I’m not. Friday night our school had this event, and loud sounds don’t mix well with me. I still wanted to go, of course, assuming I would be fine and all. It wasn’t fine at all. I ended up crying, a lot. Sobbing in ...
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{ "description": "getting my cousin a $750 ticket", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for getting my cousin a $750 ticket?
So to start this off I don't think I'm in the wrong at all. My cousin has a bit of an ego and blames others for his own problems. Anyways, my cousin for whatever reason can not license a car under his name. I believe it must be because he owes money to the license issuer but I can't be sure. So, he comes to ask his o...
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{ "description": "wanting to confront non-residents for using our fitness center", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For wanting to confront non-residents for using our fitness center?
We live in an apartment complex that has a fitness center on the property. Lately, I've noticed an increase in non-residents driving into the complex, parking their car outside the gym, using it, getting back in their car and taking off back home. One side of me is "whatever", they're not hurting me or getting in my w...
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{ "description": "cancelling plans with my sister", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cancelling plans with my sister?
My sister is a huge Panic at the Disco fan, and a few months ago we went to their concert. We had some pretty shitty seats and were both unimpressed with the overall experience. Well, they are coming back to town in January and for X-mas I told her I would buy us tickets to go together. She was super excited and I was ...
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{ "description": "not helping a friend with class", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping a friend with class
I am taking a college course with an old high school friend which always ask for clarification on assignments. However many of their questions are answered in lecture which they rarely show up to. They message me around every week only for homework questions. As the course went by I'm beginning to become more reluctant...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a gf of 4 years who recently moved in", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for breaking up with a GF of 4 years who recently moved in?
I'll start with some background: We met through a mutual friend 4 years ago when she was visiting with other friends for our University's football game and Halloween. Mutual friend said she thought I was cute and so I decided to go to the club with her and she stayed over that night(nothing happened). She lived and wen...
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{ "description": "holding a grudge against my grandfather for abusing my mother, even though hes changed", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For holding a grudge against my grandfather for abusing my mother, even though hes changed?
My grandfather is almost 80, and in many ways theres a lot to respect and admire about him. Hes one of the hardest workers I know, he came up with nothing and made something of himself, he supported a family of with six kids. Now hes extremely religious, he runs a bus ministry where he goes to low income areas and ge...
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{ "description": "not playing with my best friend whenever he's wants", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not playing with my best friend whenever he’s wants?
Background: My best friend and I are really close and we hang out a lot on Discord and play different types of games together. Sometimes these games are good to me and not really that great for him and vice versa. Most of the time, though, we play shooter games. When he’s on and I’m on at the same time, we’ll usually ...
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{ "description": "having a massive go against someone I once called my best friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having a massive go against someone I once called my best friend
Basically, I’ve been friends on and off with this guy for about 4 years. We’re only 15, so that’s like forever for teenagers. The on and off part is due to many major arguments. We’ve always managed to get past it and forgive each other though. As for what happened, he bought a set of fairy tail keys off of me for £25...
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{ "description": "wanting to join Civil Air Patrol when my girlfriend is already in it", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to join Civil Air Patrol when my girlfriend is already in it
Context: Me and my girlfriend, let's call her Kate, have been together for 10 months. We are both 17. I had thought about a career in aviation but never really seriously considered it until she told me that's what she wants to do. I researched it and decided I want to be a pilot in the Air Force. ​ She jo...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that her cat's head is too big for its body", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend that her cat’s head is too big for its body?
I have watched my friends kitty grow up from kitten to cat. I haven’t seen it in a long time and I commented that her head looked too small for its body 👀 My friend was very offended and took it as me calling her cat fat. She’s not really very fat at all though? I am very close with this cat. She lived with me for...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my girlfriend's Christmas party", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my girlfriend's Christmas party?
This situation won't make sense without some background information. I've been with my girlfriend for about 5 years, and we've never had many issues. Ever since I met her, another guy, we will call him X, has been around her and was previously interested in her. Cool, fine, people have past interests and that's not a b...
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AITA Uncle vs Me. Happening for a Year and a Half
No idea how to format on this sub just knew it existed and want to get this out ​ ​ I live in a large house with me, my mom, and my grandma ​ ​ in July of 2017 my uncle moved in to help take care of my grandma ​ ​ I have Asperger and emotional p...
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{ "description": "upsetting my mother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for upsetting my mother?
Using a throwaway because I know he lurks on Reddit. So, when I was younger I'd always get teased by my bother. My sisters never said or did things as harsh as he did but being the only boy I thought it was just something boys did. I'd also like to mention there is a 7 year age gap. One day he'd say or do something th...
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{ "description": "being friends with a girl my girlfriend hates", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for being friends with a girl my girlfriend hates.
I’ve been friends with this girl M for nearly 2 years and been with my girlfriend, E for also nearly 2 years. Originally E and M we’re friends and got along but about a year down the line they started to dislike each other and not get along. During this year period of them disliking each other M and I have still been f...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my friend money for drugs", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
Aita for not wanting to give my friend money for drugs?
I’ve got this friends that loves xanax bars, and he got mad at me for not wanting to spend $35 when I got $260 to live for, for the next two weeks. His excuse is that he pays for alot of my marijuana use. The thing is his gf is paying for the weed. And she’s on his side. Feel like an asshole but I’m not sure..
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{ "description": "lying to the autistic clients of the group home I used to work about the ingredients of the meals I cooked for them", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 89 }
AITA for lying to the autistic clients of the group home I used to work about the ingredients of the meals I cooked for them?
So I worked on a group home for autistic people, and many of them were ridiculously picky eaters. It was my task to feed them and prepare their meals. Well, they'd feed themselves but I prepared it. Anyway... there were some of them who hated mushrooms. But fuck it, the pre-cut vegetables I bought in the store tended t...
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{ "description": "pouring a pitcher of ice water on a 4 year olds head", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For pouring a pitcher of ice water on a 4 year olds head.
This happened years ago and my anxiety forces me to stay up worrying about it all of the time. I was 8 and high functioning autistic. That being said this was before I took classes on facial expressions, body language, and tone of voice to help me interpret other people’s feeling in a situation. Let’s get right into i...
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{ "description": "asking one of my best friends at work why he excluding me from a work party", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking one of my best friends at work why he excluding me from a work party?
Some context: I'm a female in my 20s. Everyone I refer to is a male in their 20s. I've been working for a place for over 2 years now, and get along great with pretty much everyone. Naturally I've become close with a couple people and consider them my best friends, and the feeling seems mutual. Last Thursday, a coworke...
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{ "description": "giving my boyfriend attitude", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for giving my boyfriend attitude?
So I made this throwaway account to ask this since my bf uses reddit sometimes. I'll try to make it short. This morning we made plans to meal prep and then workout so I got to his place before stores opened to avoid rush hour traffic. We talk for a few minutes in his bedroom about me leaving in the afternoon and we m...
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{ "description": "not appreciating a family vacation", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not appreciating a family vacation?
Today my parents asked for my (24/F) input on where to vacation next year. They haven't taken me on a family vacation in a while because of my school schedule, but they've taken my other siblings on trips, and they say it's my turn now. After throwing out some suggestions, I ask who's going. They say it might just be...
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{ "description": "reporting my co-worker to the police", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I reported my co-worker to the police?
Ok, so some context here. This guy I work with is part-time; he has another job during the day. He is allowed to use the staff lockerroom facility, and he was vaping (from a mod, which is known for fatty clouds) in the bathroom. He ends up setting off the fire alarms for the entire building, which is a hospital. I on...
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{ "description": "getting angry when my mom very seriously told me I should go to addicts anonymous meetings because I smoke marijuana", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry when my mom very seriously told me I should go to addicts anonymous meetings because I smoke marijuana?
I’m almost 26, and I’ve been smoking weed since I was a teenager. I’ve never chosen weed over bills or rent, I’ve never done the stereotypical “I missed the big meeting/important job interview/etc because I was busy getting high!” Nonsense. I’ve easily been able to stop smoking for months at a time at the drop of a ha...
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{ "description": "causing a scene at a restaurant with my immature neighbor", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for causing a scene at a restaurant with my immature neighbor.
I (m27) was at a bar/restaurant with my wife (f26) and our neighbor (m42). Me and my wife have been married for 2 years but together for 10. I have known the neighbor for just over a year. Although we have been friendly - I never quite liked him. He is 42 years old and as immature as a 16 year old. Always making joke...
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{ "description": "banning my sister from our Thanksgiving activities", "pronormative_score": 46, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for banning my sister from our Thanksgiving activities?
We have a big family. Every year, the whole tribe comes to my house, since I have the most room, and I make the best turkey (spatchcocked and smoked). There are usually upwards of 30 children at my house for this event. My sister has gone down the YouTube rabbit hole, and is now an avid anti-vaxxer. Last year, she ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my housemates partner around", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my housemates partner around?
I’m on mobile, so I’m sorry if the formatting is terrible. When I moved in with my friend, I said they can have their partner around for multiple days at a time if they pitched in with fuel money, bought us dinner, just did something to contribute to the house while he used our resources and (limited) kitchen cupboard...
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{ "description": "liking the \"perks\" that come with being friends with a rich girl", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For liking the “perks” that come with being friends with a rich girl?
So at the start of the year I made a friend at uni, we found common interests and slowly became pretty close. However, said friend, which we shall call “RG (rich gal) is blessed with attorney mum and investment banker dad - as a result, VERY affluent life. I’m talking house on the water overlooking their YACHT type of...
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{ "description": "refusing to buy my roommate chicken", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for refusing to buy my roommate chicken?
So I’m vegan (yeah, yeah, but it’s relevant). My roommate is on disability (fixed income since she cannot work). She’s bad at managing money so she always runs out in a week, but that’s besides the point. She was talking about wanting to make some chicken so she asked me if I could go pick her up some chicken and I sai...
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{ "description": "ghosting my parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For ghosting my parents?
My father has been an alcoholic for longer than I have been alive. He and my mother had a dramatic and stressful marriage, but aside from a few affairs and passive-aggressive fights, was stable enough through most of my childhood. However, as soon as my younger brother was in his senior year of high school, my father d...
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{ "description": "not speaking a language", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not speaking a language
Title is quite vague, but didn't want to go into much detail. Recently, I remembered a family vacation to the south of France we had about 3 years ago, and during that vacation, naturally, we went to experience French cuisine. Now at the time I was somewhat decent in French speaking, but not enough to be fluent in it,...
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{ "description": "not really wanting specific plans on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not really wanting specific plans on my birthday?
I (21, F) wouldn’t be happy to call the other person, we’ll call her Jan (23, F) in this scenario “the asshole” or the person in the wrong, bc I truly believe she isn’t. I just don’t know if my behavior makes me an asshole. I recently moved in with a dear friend of mine (my best friend, really. All that lame girl shi...
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{ "description": "having my music to loud", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having my music to loud?
So basically I'm not talking about the shit move of having a speaker or just playing music from my phone. No from my earbuds I'm hard of hearing [i know its not good to put it on full blast so I don't do it all the time]. And so yea I turn it to max volume and well I guess you can hear the music when I have my earbud...
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{ "description": "asking a girl to change her trip", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 12 }
WIBTA if I asked a girl to change her trip?
Sorry for any formatting, I’m on mobile. I’m graduating high school this year, and booked a 5 week trip for this summer. It’s with a volunteer company, and I’m at an animal shelter for 4 weeks. I’ve been planning it forever, and it’s been booked (flights and accommodation) for more than three months. Also, I mentione...
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{ "description": "telling my dad hes too old to find a job he really wants to do", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA I(21M) told my dad(40) hes too old to find a job he really wants to do.
My dad(now 40) got his master's in history when he was 24. Soon afterwards he got a job as a cable man and abandoned hope for ever finding where him having his master's would be applicable. 12 years later he works for a slightly better wage, but hates his job, everyone is telling him he should look a better job, but he...
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{ "description": "making the chaplain move his car because he was parked in the wrong spot", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for making the chaplain move his car because he was parked in the wrong spot?
This is a long story, it initially started when the chaplain saw me driving the company car out of its parking bay which has an old old sign which states it is a chaplaincy/doctors car bay - they are never on site enough and we needed a parking spot for the car but just never got around to taking the sign down. Anyway,...
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{ "description": "bullying an old lady who stole my avocados", "pronormative_score": 69, "contranormative_score": 62 }
AITA for bullying an old lady who stole my avocados?
Last year we bought a house with an avocado tree in the front yard. The tree was dried up, almost dead, and only gave hard, black, tiny avocados. After a year of watering and trimming and love and care it started producing good avocados. Like, alot. Maybe 300-400. I picked them all the time, gave them to neighbors, the...
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{ "description": "adopting more cats", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I adopt more cats
I'm a person who lives alone in a pretty sizeable apartment. I currently own 2 cats and have 2 fosters who are close to being my foster failures. I love my cats dearly. They're the highlight of my day when I get off work. I sometimes struggle with depression and suicidal ideations. Though it sounds dumb, I wouldn't g...
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{ "description": "being honest about not wanting to be friends anymore", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being honest about not wanting to be friends anymore?
Sorry if the formatting is bad. I'm on mobile. Also, sorry if this is too long. I feel like I need to get this all out. So, I've been lurking on Reddit for a few years but I haven't had an account until now. I'm a 17 year old female turning 18 next month, if that changes anything. I've been friends with this girl (I'...
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{ "description": "not giving my dad his Christmas gift", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not giving my dad his Christmas gift?
I bought him a 17 dollar gift on amazon which is a lot of fucking money for me, and he takes the goddamn lock off my door handle because apparently I stay up too late...??? I don’t even. So right now I’m just gonna sell the gift I got for him, because I honestly don’t feel like spending all that money on someone is wo...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut off ties with my best friend because she wont come to my bday", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut off ties with my best friend because she wont come to my bday?
This may be unnecessarily long. So I've been best friends with this girl since i was in 4th grade (going on 11 years now) and she was the very first friend I have ever made. We were basically inseparable for most of our lives until I decided that I wanted to go to university in the UK with my (now ex) GF. I've always f...
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{ "description": "finding a replacement for me and not my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For finding a replacement for me and not my friend
I am a first year at university who already has a house lined up for my second year with some friends. However one of my friends decided to drop out of university all together, therefor not living in the house next year. This along with other reasons I decided to drop out of the house too. However in the contract we s...
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{ "description": "calling my boyfriend my ex's name", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for calling my boyfriend my ex’s name?
My ex and I dated for 2.5 years and broke up this past summer. We broke up because we went different paths in life, but were still in love at the time of our breakup. However, I feel like I have moved on well and we haven’t talked in several months. I’ve been dating my current boyfriend since February and it’s going g...
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{ "description": "not wanting to tell my so goodnight stories anymore because she always falls asleep", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to tell my SO goodnight stories anymore because she always falls asleep?
Very often, she asks me to tell her a story when we're going to sleep. I used to do this a lot, but the thing is that she always falls asleep in the middle of the story. I feel a bit awkward when I realize that I've been talking to myself for the last couple of minutes. When we talk about the story the next day, she us...
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{ "description": "wanting to fair compensation", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to fair compensation
Boss at my work, a delivery company, was selling his old SUV as it sat it was worth around 2500. He said he was going to sell it this guy who always asked about buying it. When he said he only wanted $500 I immediately withdrew the cash and handed it to him the next day. I fixed it up, it needed a ton of cleaning, ne...
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{ "description": "putting a sign on a 12 pack of soda asking others to not drink it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for putting a sign on a 12 pack of soda asking others to not drink it?
So I live in a house with a lot of people, all family. It's my mom and dad, my brother, my sister, my friend, my grandma, and 5 kids. It's a lot of people and a lot of mouths to feed. Well, every time soda is bought for the house, everyone gets to drink it whatever whatever. So if you like a soda that no one else reall...
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{ "description": "taking back a neglected gift", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for taking back a neglected gift?
For starters, we have a very close relationship with our neighbors. We're all close friends and since we live in an apartment building a door away from eachother, it's a spoken rule that, should we need something, we can march in whenever to grab some milk, or an egg, or some sugar, or a drink, etc. Lately I've been b...
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{ "description": "wanting my roommates to park normally", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my roommates to park normally?
I live with four roommates and we have four cars. Our driveway fits three. A couple months ago, one of the roommates started picking up the habit of parking in front of the mailbox (which means our mail won't get delivered until she get re-parked). It is in the city ordinances that you should not park in front of the m...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my 8 month pregnant girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for breaking up with my 8 month pregnant girlfriend
Long time lurker, first time poster. This post has been in preparation for a long time. I started to read this subreddit as a getaway since probably last october. ​ I (22) was together with this girl, 23, for roughly 7 months, when our birth control failed. Well, I call it birth control, but she really i...
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{ "description": "not intervening here", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not intervening here?
I need some validation here because I feel terrible right now. I was eating out at a diner, and there was a father with his son and daughter at the table beside mine. I was alone and so was casually eavesdropping a little on their conversations. The boy who was around 10 or 11 told his dad that he thought he was gay, ...
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{ "description": "getting relationship advice from my friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting relationship advice from my friends
This happened a long time ago but I just realized now that I may have been an asshole. ​ I was about to get into a long distance relationship with a girl and she told me about her STD. I was shook by this and asked her if I could get some time to reconsider the relationship. Pretty standup thing for her t...
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{ "description": "ditching a friend for my grandfathers birthday", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i ditched a friend for my grandfathers birthday
little back story. im in the military. a coworker and i had signed up for some volunteer work a month or so in advance to do at a school for test proctoring. my grandfather, living 14 hours away(driving) in a different state, is having his 80s birthday. i didnt know if my family was planning on throwing him a party or ...
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{ "description": "never ever calling my mother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for never ever calling my mother?
I have trust issues with my mother. I don't normally consider myself a very private person, and am quite open with friends, but when it comes to family it's a different story. Almost everything I say to my mother she repeats to her friends & colleagues. Whenever she meets a GF she normally calls her the wrong nam...
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AITA - my mum sold my car
This is kind of an old story but I’m curious because it’s never quite date right with me! When I was 17, my mother offered to buy me a car. I was working in a supermarket outside of school at the time. The deal we made was that she would buy the car for me up to the value of $2000 and I would pay her back half ($1000) ...
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AITA : Bailed on my friends room for rent to live closer to work
I was talking to one of my old coworkers/friend about moving in with him and his girlfriend in San Jose with my girlfriend but cancelled right before I met with the rental agent for the interview. Background: Friends place with his girlfriend: San Jose, rent $1275, upstairs room with loft separated and private bathr...
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{ "description": "not helping an \"anxious\" friend research her university offers", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping an "anxious" friend research her university offers
I have this long-time friend who became a mess (like hard drugs and stuff) so after High School, she decided to live off her parents and party rather than go to university or work. Three years later, she is now searching for universities because I guess she figured she couldn't do that her whole life. She receives tw...
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{ "description": "wanting to lock my abusive but disabled sister away", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to lock my abusive but disabled sister away?
My sister (20) (who is suffering from epilepsy, autism and developmental delay) consistently has rage-filled episodes which are very easily started. In these, she abuses my mother (58) who is her primary and sole carer. Recently (the last few years as she has gotten older and my mother too has aged), she has become exc...
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{ "description": "threatening to knock out a classmate over a flashlight", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for threatening to knock out a classmate over a flashlight?
So end of class. I go to a trade school for auto tech. This kid starts flashing the light maybe 5~ feet away with one of those huge superbright LED flash lights something a security guard would have. I asked him politely in a stern tone, "could you please not shine that in my face." And he did it again with the strobe ...
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{ "description": "creating a group chat that bullies a toxic person", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for creating a group chat that bullies a toxic person?
So basically I have friends who are friends with an incredibly manipulative and horrible person. They are incredibly toxic and emotionally abusive. I’ve been trying to help my friends get away from them quietly because anything blatant the toxic person will threaten suicide. So what happened is we made a group chat to ...
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{ "description": "seeing a blind homeless man and pretending to almost kick him to see if he's actually blind", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA if I saw a blind homeless man and pretend to almost kick him to see if he’s actually blind?
Im actually curious, because if they really are blind they wouldn’t be scared at all, and if they do flinch/move/or any other natural reaction if you see someone looking like they’re about to kick you, they’re a scum bag for pretending to be blind for money. However it seems like a scum thing to do on the basis of lit...
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AITA for how I've treated this girl?
So I've known this person for about a year, we were both 17 when we met, and we've been fairly close since then. We've both expressed interest in each other, and she's stayed over at my place a few times, though I refused to do anything with her. Anyway, this fall we started really talking again, and it ended up with u...
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{ "description": "obeying traffic laws", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for obeying traffic laws?
This happened quite a while ago. Might seem like a stupid story, but I keep arguing about it with my friends. ​ So I was in a park working on a school project. Since it's far away, I went their with my bike. My friends I worked with came by train. We were going along a path in the park looking for a place...
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{ "description": "interrupting my neighbours sex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for interrupting my neighbours sex?
My neighbours were going at it, with their headboard against the wall we share. I'm fine with bed noises, springs and stuff, but she started moaning loud. It was 8am on christmas morning, and my grandma was staying. I knocked on the wall. They stopped. I do the same kinda stuff in my room, but loud feckless moans on X...
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{ "description": "inquiring about whether or not someone likes me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for inquiring about whether or not someone likes me (details inside)
I'm a high school student, and I recently broke up with my girlfriend. In order to console me in the immediate aftermath of the breakup, Friend X lets it slip that there is someone in the school who likes me, but Friend X will not reveal who it is for privacy's sake, and expresses that he does not want me to look into...
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{ "description": "going to the hoa about my neighbor's dog", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I went to the HOA about my neighbor’s dog?
Across the street from my house, there’s a small field with a walking trail running through it. There’s a few houses that have backyards the back up against the trail and the path is pretty well used. The middle house has a large German shepherd (nothing against german shepherds, they’re such sweethearts when trained) ...
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{ "description": "hosting a family dinner but making a Thai peanut dish specifically so my sister and her kids couldn't attend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 208 }
AITA for hosting a family dinner but making a Thai peanut dish specifically so my sister and her kids couldn't attend (too spicy and allergic to peanuts)?
Hello again AITA, you guys have previously weighed in on the long running battle between me and my sister so I figured I'd turn to you again to see if I really messed up. I'm always on my family's bad side so I appreciated the neutral input last time. Somehow it's become a tradition in my family that one family member...
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{ "description": "threatening to evict a tenet I manage", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for threatening to evict a tenet I manage?
The reason I made the threat is because the house is a mess. They had a three foot tall pile of dirty diapers in their kitchen. There was vomit on the counter and plates of food that had gone rotten. They built a shack in the backyard for a homeless person, and they rented out the garage as well to homeless people. The...
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{ "description": "telling my wife to go see a doctor on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For telling my wife to go see a doctor on her birthday?
Background: My wife is overweight, has feet that are dry cracked and bleeding most of the time, hasn't seena primary care physician for a regular checkup in 2-3 years, hasn't seen a gynecologist/lady bits doctor in 6 years, and has vision issues that required muscular surgery years ago. ​ Today: She didn't...
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{ "description": "wanting my son's dad's family to collect him for contact", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my son's dad's family to collect him for contact?
First of all, I'm sorry for the long post! I have a 6 year old son, who's dad I am separated with (we'll all him Tom.) He's quite difficult to talk to, so I arrange everything through Tom's mother (Kath.) We have been separated for around 5 years, and the arrangement has always been weekend visits, although now he s...
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{ "description": "walking fast like everyone in NYC and bumping into someone", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for walking fast like everyone in NYC and bumping into someone?
You guys all know how fast people in NY walk. Running here is frowned upon, unless you’re actually exercising, so everyone just power walks. So there I was power walking back to my flat with my headphones on, and when I was crossing the street, I bumped into someone. I said I’m sorry and walked on. But he calls me fro...
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{ "description": "not asking for my check", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not asking for my check
So I normally get paid on the 1st. I figured I'd get my check today since we'll be off the 1st, but it didn't happen. I forgot/was too busy to ask my bosses, and they left before I was done working so I didn't get a chance then. Now my family is annoyed since they wanted to go out for new years, but now we can't due to...
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{ "description": "wanting presents from my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting presents from my boyfriend?
Hello everyone. I’m (F, 21) currently having an argument with my boyfriend (M, 21) of over a year about how I am apparently unreasonable for wanting presents from him. It all started because he is refusing to replace the perfume he bought me (and then lost before he could give it to me) for my 21st birthday last March...
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{ "description": "harassing someone who tried to steal my netflix", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 90 }
AITA for harassing someone who tried to steal my Netflix?
My boyfriend suggested I posted here about this. So uh, here it is. Yesterday I got an email notification from Netflix stating that they were glad I was back, and a confirmation of a phone number change. I had only signed up for the 1 free month, and deactivated it after. I instantly knew something was up, especially ...
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{ "description": "not giving my in laws any money", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not giving my in laws any money?
I posted this in r/offmychest and decided to post here as well. My in laws are well off people. They both work, make $150K combined, mortgage has been paid off since 1994, no auto loans, credit card debt, etc. Just monthly bills. My wife and I are doing somewhat average financially. We have a mortgage, student loan d...
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{ "description": "not caring about their baby's sleep schedule", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not caring about their baby's sleep schedule?
A little bit of background. My wife and I moved into a duplex in October of 2017. The couple who lives below us moved in at the same time. We live on the main floor and they live in the basement. Our contracts are 1 year in length. Around this time last year, they found out they were pregnant and when it came time t...
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{ "description": "dating my cousins ex", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I dated my cousins ex?
My cousin and her ex are both 26 and had been dating for about 5 years. He recently broke up with her and me and him started messaging each other and secretly meeting up. I’m 19 but tbh ive had a crush on him since they first got together when I was like 14. We both got along really well and I’d always joke around with...
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{ "description": "making my husband come home from a party", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making my husband come home from a party?
TL;DR at the end. So it's Friday night. SO and I are playing video games when he gets a call at 9:30pm from a work friend who lives one street over, asking if we want to go over to his house to drink and hang out with some other friends. I'm really not in the mood to go over there. I take medication every night for n...
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