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I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "I'm sorry for how you're feeling in your marriage lately. \'a0Are you and your husband able to talk directly about your feelings? \'a0The way two people connect is usually by talking with each other to understand what each one cares about and thinks.Your current emotional suffering is the natural result of being marri... | "Absolutely. Your question shows that you are going through a lot of pain and I'm sorry for that. Many couples go through this disconnect and hope to come to reconnect before things get to a breaking point. What I think can help is the following:\'a01.) Understand what his primary concern is2.) Understand what your pri... |
I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "I'm sorry for how you're feeling in your marriage lately. \'a0Are you and your husband able to talk directly about your feelings? \'a0The way two people connect is usually by talking with each other to understand what each one cares about and thinks.Your current emotional suffering is the natural result of being marri... | "What you are describing is something I often refer to as ""living with your roommate"" phenomenon. This is the idea that you feel like you are living with a roommate and no your partner or spouse . It is not uncommon for members of a couple to report to feel both physical and/or emotional distance. When we don't feel ... |
I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "I'm sorry for how you're feeling in your marriage lately. \'a0Are you and your husband able to talk directly about your feelings? \'a0The way two people connect is usually by talking with each other to understand what each one cares about and thinks.Your current emotional suffering is the natural result of being marri... | "I can think of several things that may help you to reconnect. I don't know how much time you actually spend together, but one thing you could try is to spend 15 minutes a week together talking about common interests or other things that make you feel connected.Have you considered a date night or anything (doesn't have... |
I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "Feeling alone in your marriage is one of the most painful feelings. Wanting connection with your spouse yet feeling the all too familiar distance that's keeping you apart can be so hurtful. But, change is possible. You might be able to move closer toward each other on your own but since there has been two years of dis... | "Communication opens up what is called ""cognitive space"" for your partner, and allows them to do the same for you. The more you know about each other, especially your everyday lives, creates a bond between the two of you. Much like the saying goes in the military, the same is true for a couple; ""Complacency Kills"".... |
I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "Absolutely. Your question shows that you are going through a lot of pain and I'm sorry for that. Many couples go through this disconnect and hope to come to reconnect before things get to a breaking point. What I think can help is the following:\'a01.) Understand what his primary concern is2.) Understand what your pri... | "Communication opens up what is called ""cognitive space"" for your partner, and allows them to do the same for you. The more you know about each other, especially your everyday lives, creates a bond between the two of you. Much like the saying goes in the military, the same is true for a couple; ""Complacency Kills"".... |
I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "What you are describing is something I often refer to as ""living with your roommate"" phenomenon. This is the idea that you feel like you are living with a roommate and no your partner or spouse . It is not uncommon for members of a couple to report to feel both physical and/or emotional distance. When we don't feel ... | "Communication opens up what is called ""cognitive space"" for your partner, and allows them to do the same for you. The more you know about each other, especially your everyday lives, creates a bond between the two of you. Much like the saying goes in the military, the same is true for a couple; ""Complacency Kills"".... |
I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "Communication opens up what is called ""cognitive space"" for your partner, and allows them to do the same for you. The more you know about each other, especially your everyday lives, creates a bond between the two of you. Much like the saying goes in the military, the same is true for a couple; ""Complacency Kills"".... | "I can think of several things that may help you to reconnect. I don't know how much time you actually spend together, but one thing you could try is to spend 15 minutes a week together talking about common interests or other things that make you feel connected.Have you considered a date night or anything (doesn't have... |
I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "Absolutely. Your question shows that you are going through a lot of pain and I'm sorry for that. Many couples go through this disconnect and hope to come to reconnect before things get to a breaking point. What I think can help is the following:\'a01.) Understand what his primary concern is2.) Understand what your pri... | "Feeling alone in your marriage is one of the most painful feelings. Wanting connection with your spouse yet feeling the all too familiar distance that's keeping you apart can be so hurtful. But, change is possible. You might be able to move closer toward each other on your own but since there has been two years of dis... |
I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "Feeling alone in your marriage is one of the most painful feelings. Wanting connection with your spouse yet feeling the all too familiar distance that's keeping you apart can be so hurtful. But, change is possible. You might be able to move closer toward each other on your own but since there has been two years of dis... | "What you are describing is something I often refer to as ""living with your roommate"" phenomenon. This is the idea that you feel like you are living with a roommate and no your partner or spouse . It is not uncommon for members of a couple to report to feel both physical and/or emotional distance. When we don't feel ... |
I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "Feeling alone in your marriage is one of the most painful feelings. Wanting connection with your spouse yet feeling the all too familiar distance that's keeping you apart can be so hurtful. But, change is possible. You might be able to move closer toward each other on your own but since there has been two years of dis... | "I can think of several things that may help you to reconnect. I don't know how much time you actually spend together, but one thing you could try is to spend 15 minutes a week together talking about common interests or other things that make you feel connected.Have you considered a date night or anything (doesn't have... |
I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "Absolutely. Your question shows that you are going through a lot of pain and I'm sorry for that. Many couples go through this disconnect and hope to come to reconnect before things get to a breaking point. What I think can help is the following:\'a01.) Understand what his primary concern is2.) Understand what your pri... | "What you are describing is something I often refer to as ""living with your roommate"" phenomenon. This is the idea that you feel like you are living with a roommate and no your partner or spouse . It is not uncommon for members of a couple to report to feel both physical and/or emotional distance. When we don't feel ... |
I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "Absolutely. Your question shows that you are going through a lot of pain and I'm sorry for that. Many couples go through this disconnect and hope to come to reconnect before things get to a breaking point. What I think can help is the following:\'a01.) Understand what his primary concern is2.) Understand what your pri... | "I can think of several things that may help you to reconnect. I don't know how much time you actually spend together, but one thing you could try is to spend 15 minutes a week together talking about common interests or other things that make you feel connected.Have you considered a date night or anything (doesn't have... |
I feel completely alone in my marriage"I have been married for years. Within the past years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has ""friends"" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and... | "What you are describing is something I often refer to as ""living with your roommate"" phenomenon. This is the idea that you feel like you are living with a roommate and no your partner or spouse . It is not uncommon for members of a couple to report to feel both physical and/or emotional distance. When we don't feel ... | "I can think of several things that may help you to reconnect. I don't know how much time you actually spend together, but one thing you could try is to spend 15 minutes a week together talking about common interests or other things that make you feel connected.Have you considered a date night or anything (doesn't have... |
"I want to have a threesome with my husband and another girl but I feel really nervous""My husband and I had our first threesome recently. Everyone was drinking and he was on her more then me. He and I talked about it afterwards and it made me feel better and now I'm craving more of it. But before it gets close to h... | "You need to have an honest conversation with each other about WHY you both want a threesome. Evaluate the status of your relationship with each other. Are you having issues? Fighting? Not feeling satisfied with each other? How has your sex life been with each other? \'a0If there are any problems, insecurities, issues,... | "Because the acrobatics and excitement of sex has nothing to do with the meaning of deeper emotional attachment to another person with whom we are in a relationship.Try to distinguish between your feelings of excitement from the novel sexual arrangement and what you feel is necessary in order to feel emotionally close ... |
"I want to have a threesome with my husband and another girl but I feel really nervous""My husband and I had our first threesome recently. Everyone was drinking and he was on her more then me. He and I talked about it afterwards and it made me feel better and now I'm craving more of it. But before it gets close to h... | "Hello there.\'a0 As you have courageously explained your soulful dilemma. I can appreciate the complexity of this situation.\'a0 You have identified some key factors that may be contributing to your sense of feeling ""empty"".\'a0 One, is the ultimate goal here able to be acquired from this arrangement?\'a0 Are you tr... | "Because the acrobatics and excitement of sex has nothing to do with the meaning of deeper emotional attachment to another person with whom we are in a relationship.Try to distinguish between your feelings of excitement from the novel sexual arrangement and what you feel is necessary in order to feel emotionally close ... |
"I want to have a threesome with my husband and another girl but I feel really nervous""My husband and I had our first threesome recently. Everyone was drinking and he was on her more then me. He and I talked about it afterwards and it made me feel better and now I'm craving more of it. But before it gets close to h... | "Because the acrobatics and excitement of sex has nothing to do with the meaning of deeper emotional attachment to another person with whom we are in a relationship.Try to distinguish between your feelings of excitement from the novel sexual arrangement and what you feel is necessary in order to feel emotionally close ... | "Hello, and thank you for your question. Nervousness, when doing something new, especially something sexual that can feel so personal, is very common. Indeed, despite the fact that nervousness can be uncomfortable, it is also part of the excitement of trying something new. Many people who engage in open, polyamorous, a... |
"I want to have a threesome with my husband and another girl but I feel really nervous""My husband and I had our first threesome recently. Everyone was drinking and he was on her more then me. He and I talked about it afterwards and it made me feel better and now I'm craving more of it. But before it gets close to h... | "Hello there.\'a0 As you have courageously explained your soulful dilemma. I can appreciate the complexity of this situation.\'a0 You have identified some key factors that may be contributing to your sense of feeling ""empty"".\'a0 One, is the ultimate goal here able to be acquired from this arrangement?\'a0 Are you tr... | "You need to have an honest conversation with each other about WHY you both want a threesome. Evaluate the status of your relationship with each other. Are you having issues? Fighting? Not feeling satisfied with each other? How has your sex life been with each other? \'a0If there are any problems, insecurities, issues,... |
"I want to have a threesome with my husband and another girl but I feel really nervous""My husband and I had our first threesome recently. Everyone was drinking and he was on her more then me. He and I talked about it afterwards and it made me feel better and now I'm craving more of it. But before it gets close to h... | "You need to have an honest conversation with each other about WHY you both want a threesome. Evaluate the status of your relationship with each other. Are you having issues? Fighting? Not feeling satisfied with each other? How has your sex life been with each other? \'a0If there are any problems, insecurities, issues,... | "Hello, and thank you for your question. Nervousness, when doing something new, especially something sexual that can feel so personal, is very common. Indeed, despite the fact that nervousness can be uncomfortable, it is also part of the excitement of trying something new. Many people who engage in open, polyamorous, a... |
"I want to have a threesome with my husband and another girl but I feel really nervous""My husband and I had our first threesome recently. Everyone was drinking and he was on her more then me. He and I talked about it afterwards and it made me feel better and now I'm craving more of it. But before it gets close to h... | "Hello there.\'a0 As you have courageously explained your soulful dilemma. I can appreciate the complexity of this situation.\'a0 You have identified some key factors that may be contributing to your sense of feeling ""empty"".\'a0 One, is the ultimate goal here able to be acquired from this arrangement?\'a0 Are you tr... | "Hello, and thank you for your question. Nervousness, when doing something new, especially something sexual that can feel so personal, is very common. Indeed, despite the fact that nervousness can be uncomfortable, it is also part of the excitement of trying something new. Many people who engage in open, polyamorous, a... |
Should I get a divorce?"I have cheated on my husband of five years roughly ten times. I pretend we aren't married at my work. Recently he has caught on but I lie to cover it. He use to talk to girls online but I have caught myself constantly having a affair." | "It may be helpful to have this emotionally impactful conversation in the context of couples therapy.Whether or not you should get a divorce is not the first question that comes to mind for me, but more along the lines of do you want to be together and what kind of relationship do you want to create?For some people, po... | "Clearly you seem interested in\'a0being other people, and you are also concerned about your husband being unfaithful online.\'a0 But it seems like there is something that keeps you with your husband.\'a0\'a0 And I have so many questions for you: What are you looking for outside of your marriage?\'a0 Are you willing to... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "It's encouraging that you say you want ""to be better connected with [your] husband,"" and since he hasn't left you, he must care about you and the relationship more than he does about just having sex. You don't say whether he complains or not, but even if he doesn't it seems there's a sense of something important mis... | "The numbers you write are low compared to how much sex many other people would be satisfied having.The key is your and your husband's satisfaction with the amount of sex you are having.And, know if there are reasons besides low sex drive that possibly explain this.Knowing the other possibilities matter because a low s... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "It's encouraging that you say you want ""to be better connected with [your] husband,"" and since he hasn't left you, he must care about you and the relationship more than he does about just having sex. You don't say whether he complains or not, but even if he doesn't it seems there's a sense of something important mis... | "There are a lot of different things that could be playing a role here.First, different people have unique levels of sex drive, and sometimes there is a hormonal imbalance.Because you say both that there is a possibility that neither one of you ""actually knows what you're doing,"" and you want to be better connected w... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "It's encouraging that you say you want ""to be better connected with [your] husband,"" and since he hasn't left you, he must care about you and the relationship more than he does about just having sex. You don't say whether he complains or not, but even if he doesn't it seems there's a sense of something important mis... | "When it comes to sex drive, we are talking adrenal function, and a little bit of kidney;The endocrine glands require a bit of pumping up to improve one's sense of desire, motivation, and joy;Consider herbal formulas centering around woman's reproductive function to improve desire;To improve his, there are herbs for th... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "It's encouraging that you say you want ""to be better connected with [your] husband,"" and since he hasn't left you, he must care about you and the relationship more than he does about just having sex. You don't say whether he complains or not, but even if he doesn't it seems there's a sense of something important mis... | "In order to develop a better intimate connection with your husband, it's important to first cultivate a strong connection with yourself. \'a0I would take some time to explore your own body, notice what feels pleasurable, and play with different ways to achieve orgasm on your own. \'a0Explore your own willingness to be... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "It's encouraging that you say you want ""to be better connected with [your] husband,"" and since he hasn't left you, he must care about you and the relationship more than he does about just having sex. You don't say whether he complains or not, but even if he doesn't it seems there's a sense of something important mis... | "Hi there,\'a0Thank you for your openness about the challenge you are experiencing in your relationship. Sexual intimacy is an important part of many people's life, but how much importance is placed on it varies from couple to couple.\'a0The first step would be to have an open conversation with your husband. It's impor... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "It's encouraging that you say you want ""to be better connected with [your] husband,"" and since he hasn't left you, he must care about you and the relationship more than he does about just having sex. You don't say whether he complains or not, but even if he doesn't it seems there's a sense of something important mis... | "I work with many couples that experience a wide range of sexual and relationship challenges. The one aspect I tell many folks that I work with, is this: Every person and relationship is different. There really isn't a ""normal"" amount of sex a person should have or want to have. If having sex 4 to 5 times in the cour... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "The numbers you write are low compared to how much sex many other people would be satisfied having.The key is your and your husband's satisfaction with the amount of sex you are having.And, know if there are reasons besides low sex drive that possibly explain this.Knowing the other possibilities matter because a low s... | "There are a lot of different things that could be playing a role here.First, different people have unique levels of sex drive, and sometimes there is a hormonal imbalance.Because you say both that there is a possibility that neither one of you ""actually knows what you're doing,"" and you want to be better connected w... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "The numbers you write are low compared to how much sex many other people would be satisfied having.The key is your and your husband's satisfaction with the amount of sex you are having.And, know if there are reasons besides low sex drive that possibly explain this.Knowing the other possibilities matter because a low s... | "When it comes to sex drive, we are talking adrenal function, and a little bit of kidney;The endocrine glands require a bit of pumping up to improve one's sense of desire, motivation, and joy;Consider herbal formulas centering around woman's reproductive function to improve desire;To improve his, there are herbs for th... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "The numbers you write are low compared to how much sex many other people would be satisfied having.The key is your and your husband's satisfaction with the amount of sex you are having.And, know if there are reasons besides low sex drive that possibly explain this.Knowing the other possibilities matter because a low s... | "In order to develop a better intimate connection with your husband, it's important to first cultivate a strong connection with yourself. \'a0I would take some time to explore your own body, notice what feels pleasurable, and play with different ways to achieve orgasm on your own. \'a0Explore your own willingness to be... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "The numbers you write are low compared to how much sex many other people would be satisfied having.The key is your and your husband's satisfaction with the amount of sex you are having.And, know if there are reasons besides low sex drive that possibly explain this.Knowing the other possibilities matter because a low s... | "Hi there,\'a0Thank you for your openness about the challenge you are experiencing in your relationship. Sexual intimacy is an important part of many people's life, but how much importance is placed on it varies from couple to couple.\'a0The first step would be to have an open conversation with your husband. It's impor... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "The numbers you write are low compared to how much sex many other people would be satisfied having.The key is your and your husband's satisfaction with the amount of sex you are having.And, know if there are reasons besides low sex drive that possibly explain this.Knowing the other possibilities matter because a low s... | "I work with many couples that experience a wide range of sexual and relationship challenges. The one aspect I tell many folks that I work with, is this: Every person and relationship is different. There really isn't a ""normal"" amount of sex a person should have or want to have. If having sex 4 to 5 times in the cour... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "There are a lot of different things that could be playing a role here.First, different people have unique levels of sex drive, and sometimes there is a hormonal imbalance.Because you say both that there is a possibility that neither one of you ""actually knows what you're doing,"" and you want to be better connected w... | "When it comes to sex drive, we are talking adrenal function, and a little bit of kidney;The endocrine glands require a bit of pumping up to improve one's sense of desire, motivation, and joy;Consider herbal formulas centering around woman's reproductive function to improve desire;To improve his, there are herbs for th... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "There are a lot of different things that could be playing a role here.First, different people have unique levels of sex drive, and sometimes there is a hormonal imbalance.Because you say both that there is a possibility that neither one of you ""actually knows what you're doing,"" and you want to be better connected w... | "In order to develop a better intimate connection with your husband, it's important to first cultivate a strong connection with yourself. \'a0I would take some time to explore your own body, notice what feels pleasurable, and play with different ways to achieve orgasm on your own. \'a0Explore your own willingness to be... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "There are a lot of different things that could be playing a role here.First, different people have unique levels of sex drive, and sometimes there is a hormonal imbalance.Because you say both that there is a possibility that neither one of you ""actually knows what you're doing,"" and you want to be better connected w... | "Hi there,\'a0Thank you for your openness about the challenge you are experiencing in your relationship. Sexual intimacy is an important part of many people's life, but how much importance is placed on it varies from couple to couple.\'a0The first step would be to have an open conversation with your husband. It's impor... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "There are a lot of different things that could be playing a role here.First, different people have unique levels of sex drive, and sometimes there is a hormonal imbalance.Because you say both that there is a possibility that neither one of you ""actually knows what you're doing,"" and you want to be better connected w... | "I work with many couples that experience a wide range of sexual and relationship challenges. The one aspect I tell many folks that I work with, is this: Every person and relationship is different. There really isn't a ""normal"" amount of sex a person should have or want to have. If having sex 4 to 5 times in the cour... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "When it comes to sex drive, we are talking adrenal function, and a little bit of kidney;The endocrine glands require a bit of pumping up to improve one's sense of desire, motivation, and joy;Consider herbal formulas centering around woman's reproductive function to improve desire;To improve his, there are herbs for th... | "In order to develop a better intimate connection with your husband, it's important to first cultivate a strong connection with yourself. \'a0I would take some time to explore your own body, notice what feels pleasurable, and play with different ways to achieve orgasm on your own. \'a0Explore your own willingness to be... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "When it comes to sex drive, we are talking adrenal function, and a little bit of kidney;The endocrine glands require a bit of pumping up to improve one's sense of desire, motivation, and joy;Consider herbal formulas centering around woman's reproductive function to improve desire;To improve his, there are herbs for th... | "Hi there,\'a0Thank you for your openness about the challenge you are experiencing in your relationship. Sexual intimacy is an important part of many people's life, but how much importance is placed on it varies from couple to couple.\'a0The first step would be to have an open conversation with your husband. It's impor... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "When it comes to sex drive, we are talking adrenal function, and a little bit of kidney;The endocrine glands require a bit of pumping up to improve one's sense of desire, motivation, and joy;Consider herbal formulas centering around woman's reproductive function to improve desire;To improve his, there are herbs for th... | "I work with many couples that experience a wide range of sexual and relationship challenges. The one aspect I tell many folks that I work with, is this: Every person and relationship is different. There really isn't a ""normal"" amount of sex a person should have or want to have. If having sex 4 to 5 times in the cour... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "In order to develop a better intimate connection with your husband, it's important to first cultivate a strong connection with yourself. \'a0I would take some time to explore your own body, notice what feels pleasurable, and play with different ways to achieve orgasm on your own. \'a0Explore your own willingness to be... | "Hi there,\'a0Thank you for your openness about the challenge you are experiencing in your relationship. Sexual intimacy is an important part of many people's life, but how much importance is placed on it varies from couple to couple.\'a0The first step would be to have an open conversation with your husband. It's impor... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "In order to develop a better intimate connection with your husband, it's important to first cultivate a strong connection with yourself. \'a0I would take some time to explore your own body, notice what feels pleasurable, and play with different ways to achieve orgasm on your own. \'a0Explore your own willingness to be... | "I work with many couples that experience a wide range of sexual and relationship challenges. The one aspect I tell many folks that I work with, is this: Every person and relationship is different. There really isn't a ""normal"" amount of sex a person should have or want to have. If having sex 4 to 5 times in the cour... |
How can I have a better sex life when I don't like sex?"My husband and I have been married for seven years and in that time we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing.... | "Hi there,\'a0Thank you for your openness about the challenge you are experiencing in your relationship. Sexual intimacy is an important part of many people's life, but how much importance is placed on it varies from couple to couple.\'a0The first step would be to have an open conversation with your husband. It's impor... | "I work with many couples that experience a wide range of sexual and relationship challenges. The one aspect I tell many folks that I work with, is this: Every person and relationship is different. There really isn't a ""normal"" amount of sex a person should have or want to have. If having sex 4 to 5 times in the cour... |
How can I tell if my spouse had sex with a prostitute?"My spouse visited the red light district a couple of years back in Amsterdam. After he got back from the trip he got me tested for stds. In the aftermath he has provided multiple versions of what happened from having a total blackout to being touched by a prostitut... | "I've been in this situation before and have some insight to share with you.\'a0 In my experience, he was lying and trying to cover it up. By pushing you to std testing, he's distracting you so he can shift the guilt he feels and blame it on you. In a guilty man's mind I believe he's thinking-...if I cheated...you must... | "It sounds like you've been living with this uncertainty for those couple years since this happened.\'a0\'a0The reality is you won't ever ""know"" - mostly because of the various versions your husband has provided you.\'a0\'a0Infidelity, though painful, does not have to kill a marriage.\'a0 Secrecy and dishonesty certa... |
How can I tell if my spouse had sex with a prostitute?"My spouse visited the red light district a couple of years back in Amsterdam. After he got back from the trip he got me tested for stds. In the aftermath he has provided multiple versions of what happened from having a total blackout to being touched by a prostitut... | "Hello, The truth is that you will never know unless your husband decides to be upfront about the details to gain your trust.\'a0 One thing is for sure though, not knowing and having this uncertainty in your heart will push your husband and you further away from being able to repair the marriage.\'a0 The best thing you... | "I've been in this situation before and have some insight to share with you.\'a0 In my experience, he was lying and trying to cover it up. By pushing you to std testing, he's distracting you so he can shift the guilt he feels and blame it on you. In a guilty man's mind I believe he's thinking-...if I cheated...you must... |
How can I tell if my spouse had sex with a prostitute?"My spouse visited the red light district a couple of years back in Amsterdam. After he got back from the trip he got me tested for stds. In the aftermath he has provided multiple versions of what happened from having a total blackout to being touched by a prostitut... | "The only two people who know the answer to your question are your husband and the prostitute.The question you did and can answer is the reason you would doubt your husband, which is bc of his multiple stories.Ideally your husband cares to restore your sense of confidence in the stories he tells you.If you state your d... | "I've been in this situation before and have some insight to share with you.\'a0 In my experience, he was lying and trying to cover it up. By pushing you to std testing, he's distracting you so he can shift the guilt he feels and blame it on you. In a guilty man's mind I believe he's thinking-...if I cheated...you must... |
How can I tell if my spouse had sex with a prostitute?"My spouse visited the red light district a couple of years back in Amsterdam. After he got back from the trip he got me tested for stds. In the aftermath he has provided multiple versions of what happened from having a total blackout to being touched by a prostitut... | "I've been in this situation before and have some insight to share with you.\'a0 In my experience, he was lying and trying to cover it up. By pushing you to std testing, he's distracting you so he can shift the guilt he feels and blame it on you. In a guilty man's mind I believe he's thinking-...if I cheated...you must... | "The answer lies in what the outcome will be. How will things end if you find out he had sex with a prostitute? Will you leave? Will you try to work things out?\'a0The multiple versions are concerning. He seems unable to be truthful and this is damaging your relationship.\'a0Before considering marital therapy, please f... |
How can I tell if my spouse had sex with a prostitute?"My spouse visited the red light district a couple of years back in Amsterdam. After he got back from the trip he got me tested for stds. In the aftermath he has provided multiple versions of what happened from having a total blackout to being touched by a prostitut... | "Hello, The truth is that you will never know unless your husband decides to be upfront about the details to gain your trust.\'a0 One thing is for sure though, not knowing and having this uncertainty in your heart will push your husband and you further away from being able to repair the marriage.\'a0 The best thing you... | "It sounds like you've been living with this uncertainty for those couple years since this happened.\'a0\'a0The reality is you won't ever ""know"" - mostly because of the various versions your husband has provided you.\'a0\'a0Infidelity, though painful, does not have to kill a marriage.\'a0 Secrecy and dishonesty certa... |
How can I tell if my spouse had sex with a prostitute?"My spouse visited the red light district a couple of years back in Amsterdam. After he got back from the trip he got me tested for stds. In the aftermath he has provided multiple versions of what happened from having a total blackout to being touched by a prostitut... | "The only two people who know the answer to your question are your husband and the prostitute.The question you did and can answer is the reason you would doubt your husband, which is bc of his multiple stories.Ideally your husband cares to restore your sense of confidence in the stories he tells you.If you state your d... | "It sounds like you've been living with this uncertainty for those couple years since this happened.\'a0\'a0The reality is you won't ever ""know"" - mostly because of the various versions your husband has provided you.\'a0\'a0Infidelity, though painful, does not have to kill a marriage.\'a0 Secrecy and dishonesty certa... |
How can I tell if my spouse had sex with a prostitute?"My spouse visited the red light district a couple of years back in Amsterdam. After he got back from the trip he got me tested for stds. In the aftermath he has provided multiple versions of what happened from having a total blackout to being touched by a prostitut... | "It sounds like you've been living with this uncertainty for those couple years since this happened.\'a0\'a0The reality is you won't ever ""know"" - mostly because of the various versions your husband has provided you.\'a0\'a0Infidelity, though painful, does not have to kill a marriage.\'a0 Secrecy and dishonesty certa... | "The answer lies in what the outcome will be. How will things end if you find out he had sex with a prostitute? Will you leave? Will you try to work things out?\'a0The multiple versions are concerning. He seems unable to be truthful and this is damaging your relationship.\'a0Before considering marital therapy, please f... |
How can I tell if my spouse had sex with a prostitute?"My spouse visited the red light district a couple of years back in Amsterdam. After he got back from the trip he got me tested for stds. In the aftermath he has provided multiple versions of what happened from having a total blackout to being touched by a prostitut... | "The only two people who know the answer to your question are your husband and the prostitute.The question you did and can answer is the reason you would doubt your husband, which is bc of his multiple stories.Ideally your husband cares to restore your sense of confidence in the stories he tells you.If you state your d... | "Hello, The truth is that you will never know unless your husband decides to be upfront about the details to gain your trust.\'a0 One thing is for sure though, not knowing and having this uncertainty in your heart will push your husband and you further away from being able to repair the marriage.\'a0 The best thing you... |
How can I tell if my spouse had sex with a prostitute?"My spouse visited the red light district a couple of years back in Amsterdam. After he got back from the trip he got me tested for stds. In the aftermath he has provided multiple versions of what happened from having a total blackout to being touched by a prostitut... | "Hello, The truth is that you will never know unless your husband decides to be upfront about the details to gain your trust.\'a0 One thing is for sure though, not knowing and having this uncertainty in your heart will push your husband and you further away from being able to repair the marriage.\'a0 The best thing you... | "The answer lies in what the outcome will be. How will things end if you find out he had sex with a prostitute? Will you leave? Will you try to work things out?\'a0The multiple versions are concerning. He seems unable to be truthful and this is damaging your relationship.\'a0Before considering marital therapy, please f... |
How can I tell if my spouse had sex with a prostitute?"My spouse visited the red light district a couple of years back in Amsterdam. After he got back from the trip he got me tested for stds. In the aftermath he has provided multiple versions of what happened from having a total blackout to being touched by a prostitut... | "The only two people who know the answer to your question are your husband and the prostitute.The question you did and can answer is the reason you would doubt your husband, which is bc of his multiple stories.Ideally your husband cares to restore your sense of confidence in the stories he tells you.If you state your d... | "The answer lies in what the outcome will be. How will things end if you find out he had sex with a prostitute? Will you leave? Will you try to work things out?\'a0The multiple versions are concerning. He seems unable to be truthful and this is damaging your relationship.\'a0Before considering marital therapy, please f... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. Thank you for your question. Many couples that experience infidelity in their relationship face this important question - ""is it possible for us to get past the cheating, or should I just move on?""\'a0Deciding to stay or leave is such a personal decision, one that only you can make.When an affair is disclosed... | "HelloYes many couples have survived infidelity. How sincere is he with wanting to work it out?That means alot in recovery. The key is to understand that cheating is a choice. Please don't take the betrayal personal.Look at the foundation of the relationship.\'a0 Is there cracks that can be healed? How do you feel abou... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "HelloYes many couples have survived infidelity. How sincere is he with wanting to work it out?That means alot in recovery. The key is to understand that cheating is a choice. Please don't take the betrayal personal.Look at the foundation of the relationship.\'a0 Is there cracks that can be healed? How do you feel abou... | "Hello. I'm sorry that this happened to you, and that you are struggling with making a decision about this. In my experience, a couple can absolutely overcome cheating and get back to the relationship they once had. Hopefully, the other relationship is over, and you can work on rebuilding the trust that has been broken... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "HelloYes many couples have survived infidelity. How sincere is he with wanting to work it out?That means alot in recovery. The key is to understand that cheating is a choice. Please don't take the betrayal personal.Look at the foundation of the relationship.\'a0 Is there cracks that can be healed? How do you feel abou... | "Definitely yes, it is possible for a couple to trust each other again and become close with each other.Since your trust was broken, your fianc\'e9 would need to earn back your belief that he is faithful to you.Do you feel he empathizes with how you felt to find out about his cheating?Before you have this question answ... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "HelloYes many couples have survived infidelity. How sincere is he with wanting to work it out?That means alot in recovery. The key is to understand that cheating is a choice. Please don't take the betrayal personal.Look at the foundation of the relationship.\'a0 Is there cracks that can be healed? How do you feel abou... | "As a relationship therapist I work with couples all the time that are in the repair phase of their relationship after infidelity. The short answer to this, is not only is it possible to have a satisfying and fullfilling relationship after infidelity, it happens more often that we may know. The current rate of infideli... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "HelloYes many couples have survived infidelity. How sincere is he with wanting to work it out?That means alot in recovery. The key is to understand that cheating is a choice. Please don't take the betrayal personal.Look at the foundation of the relationship.\'a0 Is there cracks that can be healed? How do you feel abou... | "Betrayal in a relationship can be one of the most difficult things a relationship can sustain. Sometimes feelings about the betrayal may also trigger past wounds. The fact that ""it only happened once"" may not make it any easier to move forward. I highly recommend working with a mental health professional who has exp... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "HelloYes many couples have survived infidelity. How sincere is he with wanting to work it out?That means alot in recovery. The key is to understand that cheating is a choice. Please don't take the betrayal personal.Look at the foundation of the relationship.\'a0 Is there cracks that can be healed? How do you feel abou... | "Finding out about an affair is quite an emotional experience. It's usually jarring. I encourage you to give yourself some compassion about emotions that you have.You asked whether it is possible to get past the cheating and the answer is that it can be. It depends on many factors.I would recommend that you see a thera... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "HelloYes many couples have survived infidelity. How sincere is he with wanting to work it out?That means alot in recovery. The key is to understand that cheating is a choice. Please don't take the betrayal personal.Look at the foundation of the relationship.\'a0 Is there cracks that can be healed? How do you feel abou... | "It's possible but challenging. Both partners need to be feel motivated enough to repair the relationship and dedicated to the work needed to address whatever underlying issues led to the serious breach of trust. For some people, cheating is an absolute deal breaker\'97for others, the context of the cheating allows the... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "HelloYes many couples have survived infidelity. How sincere is he with wanting to work it out?That means alot in recovery. The key is to understand that cheating is a choice. Please don't take the betrayal personal.Look at the foundation of the relationship.\'a0 Is there cracks that can be healed? How do you feel abou... | "I think there are many different directions we could go as far as answering your question. \'a0I think the first and most important question you need to ask yourself is do you truly believe in your heart that you can forgive him and trust him again? \'a0Once you answer that question honestly then you can move in one o... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "HelloYes many couples have survived infidelity. How sincere is he with wanting to work it out?That means alot in recovery. The key is to understand that cheating is a choice. Please don't take the betrayal personal.Look at the foundation of the relationship.\'a0 Is there cracks that can be healed? How do you feel abou... | "First off, let's start with really\
validating the potential emotional pain you are feeling right now. There is\
generally no lack of uncertainty, anxiety, fear, sadness, and anger. These are\
all normal emotions and being allowed to feel them is the beginning of the\
healing process. It might be helpful to talk about... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. Thank you for your question. Many couples that experience infidelity in their relationship face this important question - ""is it possible for us to get past the cheating, or should I just move on?""\'a0Deciding to stay or leave is such a personal decision, one that only you can make.When an affair is disclosed... | "Hello. I'm sorry that this happened to you, and that you are struggling with making a decision about this. In my experience, a couple can absolutely overcome cheating and get back to the relationship they once had. Hopefully, the other relationship is over, and you can work on rebuilding the trust that has been broken... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. Thank you for your question. Many couples that experience infidelity in their relationship face this important question - ""is it possible for us to get past the cheating, or should I just move on?""\'a0Deciding to stay or leave is such a personal decision, one that only you can make.When an affair is disclosed... | "Definitely yes, it is possible for a couple to trust each other again and become close with each other.Since your trust was broken, your fianc\'e9 would need to earn back your belief that he is faithful to you.Do you feel he empathizes with how you felt to find out about his cheating?Before you have this question answ... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. Thank you for your question. Many couples that experience infidelity in their relationship face this important question - ""is it possible for us to get past the cheating, or should I just move on?""\'a0Deciding to stay or leave is such a personal decision, one that only you can make.When an affair is disclosed... | "As a relationship therapist I work with couples all the time that are in the repair phase of their relationship after infidelity. The short answer to this, is not only is it possible to have a satisfying and fullfilling relationship after infidelity, it happens more often that we may know. The current rate of infideli... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. Thank you for your question. Many couples that experience infidelity in their relationship face this important question - ""is it possible for us to get past the cheating, or should I just move on?""\'a0Deciding to stay or leave is such a personal decision, one that only you can make.When an affair is disclosed... | "Betrayal in a relationship can be one of the most difficult things a relationship can sustain. Sometimes feelings about the betrayal may also trigger past wounds. The fact that ""it only happened once"" may not make it any easier to move forward. I highly recommend working with a mental health professional who has exp... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. Thank you for your question. Many couples that experience infidelity in their relationship face this important question - ""is it possible for us to get past the cheating, or should I just move on?""\'a0Deciding to stay or leave is such a personal decision, one that only you can make.When an affair is disclosed... | "Finding out about an affair is quite an emotional experience. It's usually jarring. I encourage you to give yourself some compassion about emotions that you have.You asked whether it is possible to get past the cheating and the answer is that it can be. It depends on many factors.I would recommend that you see a thera... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. Thank you for your question. Many couples that experience infidelity in their relationship face this important question - ""is it possible for us to get past the cheating, or should I just move on?""\'a0Deciding to stay or leave is such a personal decision, one that only you can make.When an affair is disclosed... | "It's possible but challenging. Both partners need to be feel motivated enough to repair the relationship and dedicated to the work needed to address whatever underlying issues led to the serious breach of trust. For some people, cheating is an absolute deal breaker\'97for others, the context of the cheating allows the... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. Thank you for your question. Many couples that experience infidelity in their relationship face this important question - ""is it possible for us to get past the cheating, or should I just move on?""\'a0Deciding to stay or leave is such a personal decision, one that only you can make.When an affair is disclosed... | "I think there are many different directions we could go as far as answering your question. \'a0I think the first and most important question you need to ask yourself is do you truly believe in your heart that you can forgive him and trust him again? \'a0Once you answer that question honestly then you can move in one o... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. Thank you for your question. Many couples that experience infidelity in their relationship face this important question - ""is it possible for us to get past the cheating, or should I just move on?""\'a0Deciding to stay or leave is such a personal decision, one that only you can make.When an affair is disclosed... | "First off, let's start with really\
validating the potential emotional pain you are feeling right now. There is\
generally no lack of uncertainty, anxiety, fear, sadness, and anger. These are\
all normal emotions and being allowed to feel them is the beginning of the\
healing process. It might be helpful to talk about... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. I'm sorry that this happened to you, and that you are struggling with making a decision about this. In my experience, a couple can absolutely overcome cheating and get back to the relationship they once had. Hopefully, the other relationship is over, and you can work on rebuilding the trust that has been broken... | "Definitely yes, it is possible for a couple to trust each other again and become close with each other.Since your trust was broken, your fianc\'e9 would need to earn back your belief that he is faithful to you.Do you feel he empathizes with how you felt to find out about his cheating?Before you have this question answ... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. I'm sorry that this happened to you, and that you are struggling with making a decision about this. In my experience, a couple can absolutely overcome cheating and get back to the relationship they once had. Hopefully, the other relationship is over, and you can work on rebuilding the trust that has been broken... | "As a relationship therapist I work with couples all the time that are in the repair phase of their relationship after infidelity. The short answer to this, is not only is it possible to have a satisfying and fullfilling relationship after infidelity, it happens more often that we may know. The current rate of infideli... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. I'm sorry that this happened to you, and that you are struggling with making a decision about this. In my experience, a couple can absolutely overcome cheating and get back to the relationship they once had. Hopefully, the other relationship is over, and you can work on rebuilding the trust that has been broken... | "Betrayal in a relationship can be one of the most difficult things a relationship can sustain. Sometimes feelings about the betrayal may also trigger past wounds. The fact that ""it only happened once"" may not make it any easier to move forward. I highly recommend working with a mental health professional who has exp... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. I'm sorry that this happened to you, and that you are struggling with making a decision about this. In my experience, a couple can absolutely overcome cheating and get back to the relationship they once had. Hopefully, the other relationship is over, and you can work on rebuilding the trust that has been broken... | "Finding out about an affair is quite an emotional experience. It's usually jarring. I encourage you to give yourself some compassion about emotions that you have.You asked whether it is possible to get past the cheating and the answer is that it can be. It depends on many factors.I would recommend that you see a thera... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. I'm sorry that this happened to you, and that you are struggling with making a decision about this. In my experience, a couple can absolutely overcome cheating and get back to the relationship they once had. Hopefully, the other relationship is over, and you can work on rebuilding the trust that has been broken... | "It's possible but challenging. Both partners need to be feel motivated enough to repair the relationship and dedicated to the work needed to address whatever underlying issues led to the serious breach of trust. For some people, cheating is an absolute deal breaker\'97for others, the context of the cheating allows the... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. I'm sorry that this happened to you, and that you are struggling with making a decision about this. In my experience, a couple can absolutely overcome cheating and get back to the relationship they once had. Hopefully, the other relationship is over, and you can work on rebuilding the trust that has been broken... | "I think there are many different directions we could go as far as answering your question. \'a0I think the first and most important question you need to ask yourself is do you truly believe in your heart that you can forgive him and trust him again? \'a0Once you answer that question honestly then you can move in one o... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Hello. I'm sorry that this happened to you, and that you are struggling with making a decision about this. In my experience, a couple can absolutely overcome cheating and get back to the relationship they once had. Hopefully, the other relationship is over, and you can work on rebuilding the trust that has been broken... | "First off, let's start with really\
validating the potential emotional pain you are feeling right now. There is\
generally no lack of uncertainty, anxiety, fear, sadness, and anger. These are\
all normal emotions and being allowed to feel them is the beginning of the\
healing process. It might be helpful to talk about... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "As a relationship therapist I work with couples all the time that are in the repair phase of their relationship after infidelity. The short answer to this, is not only is it possible to have a satisfying and fullfilling relationship after infidelity, it happens more often that we may know. The current rate of infideli... | "Definitely yes, it is possible for a couple to trust each other again and become close with each other.Since your trust was broken, your fianc\'e9 would need to earn back your belief that he is faithful to you.Do you feel he empathizes with how you felt to find out about his cheating?Before you have this question answ... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Definitely yes, it is possible for a couple to trust each other again and become close with each other.Since your trust was broken, your fianc\'e9 would need to earn back your belief that he is faithful to you.Do you feel he empathizes with how you felt to find out about his cheating?Before you have this question answ... | "Betrayal in a relationship can be one of the most difficult things a relationship can sustain. Sometimes feelings about the betrayal may also trigger past wounds. The fact that ""it only happened once"" may not make it any easier to move forward. I highly recommend working with a mental health professional who has exp... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Definitely yes, it is possible for a couple to trust each other again and become close with each other.Since your trust was broken, your fianc\'e9 would need to earn back your belief that he is faithful to you.Do you feel he empathizes with how you felt to find out about his cheating?Before you have this question answ... | "Finding out about an affair is quite an emotional experience. It's usually jarring. I encourage you to give yourself some compassion about emotions that you have.You asked whether it is possible to get past the cheating and the answer is that it can be. It depends on many factors.I would recommend that you see a thera... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Definitely yes, it is possible for a couple to trust each other again and become close with each other.Since your trust was broken, your fianc\'e9 would need to earn back your belief that he is faithful to you.Do you feel he empathizes with how you felt to find out about his cheating?Before you have this question answ... | "It's possible but challenging. Both partners need to be feel motivated enough to repair the relationship and dedicated to the work needed to address whatever underlying issues led to the serious breach of trust. For some people, cheating is an absolute deal breaker\'97for others, the context of the cheating allows the... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Definitely yes, it is possible for a couple to trust each other again and become close with each other.Since your trust was broken, your fianc\'e9 would need to earn back your belief that he is faithful to you.Do you feel he empathizes with how you felt to find out about his cheating?Before you have this question answ... | "I think there are many different directions we could go as far as answering your question. \'a0I think the first and most important question you need to ask yourself is do you truly believe in your heart that you can forgive him and trust him again? \'a0Once you answer that question honestly then you can move in one o... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Definitely yes, it is possible for a couple to trust each other again and become close with each other.Since your trust was broken, your fianc\'e9 would need to earn back your belief that he is faithful to you.Do you feel he empathizes with how you felt to find out about his cheating?Before you have this question answ... | "First off, let's start with really\
validating the potential emotional pain you are feeling right now. There is\
generally no lack of uncertainty, anxiety, fear, sadness, and anger. These are\
all normal emotions and being allowed to feel them is the beginning of the\
healing process. It might be helpful to talk about... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "As a relationship therapist I work with couples all the time that are in the repair phase of their relationship after infidelity. The short answer to this, is not only is it possible to have a satisfying and fullfilling relationship after infidelity, it happens more often that we may know. The current rate of infideli... | "Betrayal in a relationship can be one of the most difficult things a relationship can sustain. Sometimes feelings about the betrayal may also trigger past wounds. The fact that ""it only happened once"" may not make it any easier to move forward. I highly recommend working with a mental health professional who has exp... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "As a relationship therapist I work with couples all the time that are in the repair phase of their relationship after infidelity. The short answer to this, is not only is it possible to have a satisfying and fullfilling relationship after infidelity, it happens more often that we may know. The current rate of infideli... | "Finding out about an affair is quite an emotional experience. It's usually jarring. I encourage you to give yourself some compassion about emotions that you have.You asked whether it is possible to get past the cheating and the answer is that it can be. It depends on many factors.I would recommend that you see a thera... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "As a relationship therapist I work with couples all the time that are in the repair phase of their relationship after infidelity. The short answer to this, is not only is it possible to have a satisfying and fullfilling relationship after infidelity, it happens more often that we may know. The current rate of infideli... | "It's possible but challenging. Both partners need to be feel motivated enough to repair the relationship and dedicated to the work needed to address whatever underlying issues led to the serious breach of trust. For some people, cheating is an absolute deal breaker\'97for others, the context of the cheating allows the... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "As a relationship therapist I work with couples all the time that are in the repair phase of their relationship after infidelity. The short answer to this, is not only is it possible to have a satisfying and fullfilling relationship after infidelity, it happens more often that we may know. The current rate of infideli... | "I think there are many different directions we could go as far as answering your question. \'a0I think the first and most important question you need to ask yourself is do you truly believe in your heart that you can forgive him and trust him again? \'a0Once you answer that question honestly then you can move in one o... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "As a relationship therapist I work with couples all the time that are in the repair phase of their relationship after infidelity. The short answer to this, is not only is it possible to have a satisfying and fullfilling relationship after infidelity, it happens more often that we may know. The current rate of infideli... | "First off, let's start with really\
validating the potential emotional pain you are feeling right now. There is\
generally no lack of uncertainty, anxiety, fear, sadness, and anger. These are\
all normal emotions and being allowed to feel them is the beginning of the\
healing process. It might be helpful to talk about... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Betrayal in a relationship can be one of the most difficult things a relationship can sustain. Sometimes feelings about the betrayal may also trigger past wounds. The fact that ""it only happened once"" may not make it any easier to move forward. I highly recommend working with a mental health professional who has exp... | "Finding out about an affair is quite an emotional experience. It's usually jarring. I encourage you to give yourself some compassion about emotions that you have.You asked whether it is possible to get past the cheating and the answer is that it can be. It depends on many factors.I would recommend that you see a thera... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Betrayal in a relationship can be one of the most difficult things a relationship can sustain. Sometimes feelings about the betrayal may also trigger past wounds. The fact that ""it only happened once"" may not make it any easier to move forward. I highly recommend working with a mental health professional who has exp... | "It's possible but challenging. Both partners need to be feel motivated enough to repair the relationship and dedicated to the work needed to address whatever underlying issues led to the serious breach of trust. For some people, cheating is an absolute deal breaker\'97for others, the context of the cheating allows the... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Betrayal in a relationship can be one of the most difficult things a relationship can sustain. Sometimes feelings about the betrayal may also trigger past wounds. The fact that ""it only happened once"" may not make it any easier to move forward. I highly recommend working with a mental health professional who has exp... | "I think there are many different directions we could go as far as answering your question. \'a0I think the first and most important question you need to ask yourself is do you truly believe in your heart that you can forgive him and trust him again? \'a0Once you answer that question honestly then you can move in one o... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Betrayal in a relationship can be one of the most difficult things a relationship can sustain. Sometimes feelings about the betrayal may also trigger past wounds. The fact that ""it only happened once"" may not make it any easier to move forward. I highly recommend working with a mental health professional who has exp... | "First off, let's start with really\
validating the potential emotional pain you are feeling right now. There is\
generally no lack of uncertainty, anxiety, fear, sadness, and anger. These are\
all normal emotions and being allowed to feel them is the beginning of the\
healing process. It might be helpful to talk about... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "It's possible but challenging. Both partners need to be feel motivated enough to repair the relationship and dedicated to the work needed to address whatever underlying issues led to the serious breach of trust. For some people, cheating is an absolute deal breaker\'97for others, the context of the cheating allows the... | "Finding out about an affair is quite an emotional experience. It's usually jarring. I encourage you to give yourself some compassion about emotions that you have.You asked whether it is possible to get past the cheating and the answer is that it can be. It depends on many factors.I would recommend that you see a thera... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Finding out about an affair is quite an emotional experience. It's usually jarring. I encourage you to give yourself some compassion about emotions that you have.You asked whether it is possible to get past the cheating and the answer is that it can be. It depends on many factors.I would recommend that you see a thera... | "I think there are many different directions we could go as far as answering your question. \'a0I think the first and most important question you need to ask yourself is do you truly believe in your heart that you can forgive him and trust him again? \'a0Once you answer that question honestly then you can move in one o... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "Finding out about an affair is quite an emotional experience. It's usually jarring. I encourage you to give yourself some compassion about emotions that you have.You asked whether it is possible to get past the cheating and the answer is that it can be. It depends on many factors.I would recommend that you see a thera... | "First off, let's start with really\
validating the potential emotional pain you are feeling right now. There is\
generally no lack of uncertainty, anxiety, fear, sadness, and anger. These are\
all normal emotions and being allowed to feel them is the beginning of the\
healing process. It might be helpful to talk about... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "It's possible but challenging. Both partners need to be feel motivated enough to repair the relationship and dedicated to the work needed to address whatever underlying issues led to the serious breach of trust. For some people, cheating is an absolute deal breaker\'97for others, the context of the cheating allows the... | "I think there are many different directions we could go as far as answering your question. \'a0I think the first and most important question you need to ask yourself is do you truly believe in your heart that you can forgive him and trust him again? \'a0Once you answer that question honestly then you can move in one o... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "It's possible but challenging. Both partners need to be feel motivated enough to repair the relationship and dedicated to the work needed to address whatever underlying issues led to the serious breach of trust. For some people, cheating is an absolute deal breaker\'97for others, the context of the cheating allows the... | "First off, let's start with really\
validating the potential emotional pain you are feeling right now. There is\
generally no lack of uncertainty, anxiety, fear, sadness, and anger. These are\
all normal emotions and being allowed to feel them is the beginning of the\
healing process. It might be helpful to talk about... |
Is it possible for a couple to overcome cheating if it only happened once?"My fianc\'e and I have been together for years and our relationship has always been good. The only issue we had was that he felt like he wasn't getting enough sexual attention from me. I recently found out he cheated on me with another women... | "I think there are many different directions we could go as far as answering your question. \'a0I think the first and most important question you need to ask yourself is do you truly believe in your heart that you can forgive him and trust him again? \'a0Once you answer that question honestly then you can move in one o... | "First off, let's start with really\
validating the potential emotional pain you are feeling right now. There is\
generally no lack of uncertainty, anxiety, fear, sadness, and anger. These are\
all normal emotions and being allowed to feel them is the beginning of the\
healing process. It might be helpful to talk about... |
"I'm soon to be married and I've been messing around with others""I\'m a man and I\'m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing but it\'s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do." | "It took a lot of courage to share what must be so shameful to you and to ask for help. Regardless of your sexual attraction/orientation, I'd encourage you to get honest with yourself and your partner/fiancee and put a temporary hold on your wedding plans -- getting married will NOT resolve your acting out. It seems to... | "Good for you to bring up this situation for addressing, especially \'a0before you and your partner are married and have all the legal responsibilities of married life.You gave yourself the biggest clue as to where to start solving this problem.Since you don't know what to do, then for right now postpone your wedding d... |
"I'm soon to be married and I've been messing around with others""I\'m a man and I\'m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing but it\'s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do." | "It took a lot of courage to share what must be so shameful to you and to ask for help. Regardless of your sexual attraction/orientation, I'd encourage you to get honest with yourself and your partner/fiancee and put a temporary hold on your wedding plans -- getting married will NOT resolve your acting out. It seems to... | "I would start by examining the reasons for seeking out other relationships. Are you getting something from the other men that you do not currently receive from your current partner? Such as,\'a0is it\'a0more exciting with others and that excitement is lacking in your current relationship?", |
"I'm soon to be married and I've been messing around with others""I\'m a man and I\'m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing but it\'s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do." | "It took a lot of courage to share what must be so shameful to you and to ask for help. Regardless of your sexual attraction/orientation, I'd encourage you to get honest with yourself and your partner/fiancee and put a temporary hold on your wedding plans -- getting married will NOT resolve your acting out. It seems to... | "Divorce is expensive emotionally and financially. If your fiance is not ok with an open marriage, it would be a good idea to seek the help of a counselor before you get married.", |
"I'm soon to be married and I've been messing around with others""I\'m a man and I\'m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing but it\'s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do." | "It took a lot of courage to share what must be so shameful to you and to ask for help. Regardless of your sexual attraction/orientation, I'd encourage you to get honest with yourself and your partner/fiancee and put a temporary hold on your wedding plans -- getting married will NOT resolve your acting out. It seems to... | "If you are happy with the person that you are about to be married to and are also enjoying time with other men, it could be possible that you are attracted to people of more than one gender.Having said that, some people have feelings toward people of more than one gender that are not really related to romance or attra... |
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