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"I'm soon to be married and I've been messing around with others""I\'m a man and I\'m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing but it\'s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do." | "Good for you to bring up this situation for addressing, especially \'a0before you and your partner are married and have all the legal responsibilities of married life.You gave yourself the biggest clue as to where to start solving this problem.Since you don't know what to do, then for right now postpone your wedding d... | "I would start by examining the reasons for seeking out other relationships. Are you getting something from the other men that you do not currently receive from your current partner? Such as,\'a0is it\'a0more exciting with others and that excitement is lacking in your current relationship?", |
"I'm soon to be married and I've been messing around with others""I\'m a man and I\'m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing but it\'s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do." | "Good for you to bring up this situation for addressing, especially \'a0before you and your partner are married and have all the legal responsibilities of married life.You gave yourself the biggest clue as to where to start solving this problem.Since you don't know what to do, then for right now postpone your wedding d... | "Divorce is expensive emotionally and financially. If your fiance is not ok with an open marriage, it would be a good idea to seek the help of a counselor before you get married.", |
"I'm soon to be married and I've been messing around with others""I\'m a man and I\'m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing but it\'s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do." | "Good for you to bring up this situation for addressing, especially \'a0before you and your partner are married and have all the legal responsibilities of married life.You gave yourself the biggest clue as to where to start solving this problem.Since you don't know what to do, then for right now postpone your wedding d... | "If you are happy with the person that you are about to be married to and are also enjoying time with other men, it could be possible that you are attracted to people of more than one gender.Having said that, some people have feelings toward people of more than one gender that are not really related to romance or attra... |
"I'm soon to be married and I've been messing around with others""I\'m a man and I\'m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing but it\'s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do." | "I would start by examining the reasons for seeking out other relationships. Are you getting something from the other men that you do not currently receive from your current partner? Such as,\'a0is it\'a0more exciting with others and that excitement is lacking in your current relationship?", | "Divorce is expensive emotionally and financially. If your fiance is not ok with an open marriage, it would be a good idea to seek the help of a counselor before you get married.", |
"I'm soon to be married and I've been messing around with others""I\'m a man and I\'m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing but it\'s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do." | "I would start by examining the reasons for seeking out other relationships. Are you getting something from the other men that you do not currently receive from your current partner? Such as,\'a0is it\'a0more exciting with others and that excitement is lacking in your current relationship?", | "If you are happy with the person that you are about to be married to and are also enjoying time with other men, it could be possible that you are attracted to people of more than one gender.Having said that, some people have feelings toward people of more than one gender that are not really related to romance or attra... |
"I'm soon to be married and I've been messing around with others""I\'m a man and I\'m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing but it\'s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do." | "Divorce is expensive emotionally and financially. If your fiance is not ok with an open marriage, it would be a good idea to seek the help of a counselor before you get married.", | "If you are happy with the person that you are about to be married to and are also enjoying time with other men, it could be possible that you are attracted to people of more than one gender.Having said that, some people have feelings toward people of more than one gender that are not really related to romance or attra... |
My friend had lied about every aspect of her life\'what do I do?"She has lied about every aspect of her life. She's created three fake relationships. The most recent one is concerning because she has fake photos phone calls and text messages and it\'s with a married man with kids. Her lying is becoming dangerous becaus... | "Have an honest and open conversation with her about how her behavior is negatively impacting you ( and others). \'a0You will feel good knowing you did the right thing.", | "To be honest, I think more information would be really important here because what you are asking could have a lot of different meanings. Consider making an appointment with a local therapist to discuss what you are going through.", |
How do I handle getting the silent treatment from my boyfriend?"When my boyfriend gets in a snit he gives me the silent treatment for days. When I ask what is wrong I get nothing: no reply no phone call. If he does reply it is something very sarcastic and hurtful. He never admits he is wrong and never apologizes." | "This has to be very difficult to endure.It's pretty common for members of a couple to have different ways of resolving conflict. Very often, one person wants to deal with the conflict right away or shortly thereafter and the other person wants to wait. One thing that sometimes works is to consider having a conversatio... | "As you say, if he does reply it is hurtful. But, if he doesn't reply, it sounds like it's just as hurtful (though more in my opinion in terms of the longer-range effects on the relationship). The behavior he is exhibiting would easily pass for ""passive-aggression,"" as it is manipulative and controlling through passi... |
How do I handle getting the silent treatment from my boyfriend?"When my boyfriend gets in a snit he gives me the silent treatment for days. When I ask what is wrong I get nothing: no reply no phone call. If he does reply it is something very sarcastic and hurtful. He never admits he is wrong and never apologizes." | "This has to be very difficult to endure.It's pretty common for members of a couple to have different ways of resolving conflict. Very often, one person wants to deal with the conflict right away or shortly thereafter and the other person wants to wait. One thing that sometimes works is to consider having a conversatio... | "Try during a good moment between you to tell him you'd like to talk over something about your relationship and that you'd like to set a time with him to do so.When a person shuts down and withdraws, the only choice is to withdraw yourself. \'a0 If this continues on a regular basis, after a while the two of you will be... |
How do I handle getting the silent treatment from my boyfriend?"When my boyfriend gets in a snit he gives me the silent treatment for days. When I ask what is wrong I get nothing: no reply no phone call. If he does reply it is something very sarcastic and hurtful. He never admits he is wrong and never apologizes." | "This has to be very difficult to endure.It's pretty common for members of a couple to have different ways of resolving conflict. Very often, one person wants to deal with the conflict right away or shortly thereafter and the other person wants to wait. One thing that sometimes works is to consider having a conversatio... | "This sounds very hurtful for you to be on the receiving end of this. You can ask yourself "" what am I learning from the way I am being treated? "" \'a0and consider whether or not this is in fact either (1) \'a0A message or value that you agree with and believe will strengthen your relationship and help you to grow as... |
How do I handle getting the silent treatment from my boyfriend?"When my boyfriend gets in a snit he gives me the silent treatment for days. When I ask what is wrong I get nothing: no reply no phone call. If he does reply it is something very sarcastic and hurtful. He never admits he is wrong and never apologizes." | "Try during a good moment between you to tell him you'd like to talk over something about your relationship and that you'd like to set a time with him to do so.When a person shuts down and withdraws, the only choice is to withdraw yourself. \'a0 If this continues on a regular basis, after a while the two of you will be... | "As you say, if he does reply it is hurtful. But, if he doesn't reply, it sounds like it's just as hurtful (though more in my opinion in terms of the longer-range effects on the relationship). The behavior he is exhibiting would easily pass for ""passive-aggression,"" as it is manipulative and controlling through passi... |
How do I handle getting the silent treatment from my boyfriend?"When my boyfriend gets in a snit he gives me the silent treatment for days. When I ask what is wrong I get nothing: no reply no phone call. If he does reply it is something very sarcastic and hurtful. He never admits he is wrong and never apologizes." | "As you say, if he does reply it is hurtful. But, if he doesn't reply, it sounds like it's just as hurtful (though more in my opinion in terms of the longer-range effects on the relationship). The behavior he is exhibiting would easily pass for ""passive-aggression,"" as it is manipulative and controlling through passi... | "This sounds very hurtful for you to be on the receiving end of this. You can ask yourself "" what am I learning from the way I am being treated? "" \'a0and consider whether or not this is in fact either (1) \'a0A message or value that you agree with and believe will strengthen your relationship and help you to grow as... |
How do I handle getting the silent treatment from my boyfriend?"When my boyfriend gets in a snit he gives me the silent treatment for days. When I ask what is wrong I get nothing: no reply no phone call. If he does reply it is something very sarcastic and hurtful. He never admits he is wrong and never apologizes." | "Try during a good moment between you to tell him you'd like to talk over something about your relationship and that you'd like to set a time with him to do so.When a person shuts down and withdraws, the only choice is to withdraw yourself. \'a0 If this continues on a regular basis, after a while the two of you will be... | "This sounds very hurtful for you to be on the receiving end of this. You can ask yourself "" what am I learning from the way I am being treated? "" \'a0and consider whether or not this is in fact either (1) \'a0A message or value that you agree with and believe will strengthen your relationship and help you to grow as... |
Is it wrong for me to be attracted to my girlfriend?I'm and my girlfriend is . Am I a pedophile because I'm attracted to her and she's under ? | "You wrote that each of you is under the age of 18. \'a0 A 15 year old cannot be a pedophile because you're not an adult.Also, if you mean ""girlfriend"" in a romantic way then this makes sense bc romantic relationships include physical attraction to the other person.", | "Nope! In fact you are NOT a pedophile. That term is reserved for older adolescents attracted to children, or adults who are attracted to children. I see an age difference as being one key factor in determining pedophilia if the older person is still in adolescence. You being only a year older than your girlfriend does... |
Is it wrong for me to be attracted to my girlfriend?I'm and my girlfriend is . Am I a pedophile because I'm attracted to her and she's under ? | "No. You are not a pedophile. You are both under the appropriate age where it would be seen so. Your both only a year a part so this shouldn't a worry to you. Like Frank said below, Pedophelia is a problem that won't apply to this situation.", | "Nope! In fact you are NOT a pedophile. That term is reserved for older adolescents attracted to children, or adults who are attracted to children. I see an age difference as being one key factor in determining pedophilia if the older person is still in adolescence. You being only a year older than your girlfriend does... |
Is it wrong for me to be attracted to my girlfriend?I'm and my girlfriend is . Am I a pedophile because I'm attracted to her and she's under ? | "Nope! In fact you are NOT a pedophile. That term is reserved for older adolescents attracted to children, or adults who are attracted to children. I see an age difference as being one key factor in determining pedophilia if the older person is still in adolescence. You being only a year older than your girlfriend does... | "No, that's perfectly normal. You're under 18, too. You're only a year older than she is. This is absolutely normal. What would be wrong is if you did anything to her against her will. Always remember that NO means NO, respect her, respect yourself, and be a normal teenager! Have a healthy relationship. Holding hands, ... |
Is it wrong for me to be attracted to my girlfriend?I'm and my girlfriend is . Am I a pedophile because I'm attracted to her and she's under ? | "No. You are not a pedophile. You are both under the appropriate age where it would be seen so. Your both only a year a part so this shouldn't a worry to you. Like Frank said below, Pedophelia is a problem that won't apply to this situation.", | "You wrote that each of you is under the age of 18. \'a0 A 15 year old cannot be a pedophile because you're not an adult.Also, if you mean ""girlfriend"" in a romantic way then this makes sense bc romantic relationships include physical attraction to the other person.", |
Is it wrong for me to be attracted to my girlfriend?I'm and my girlfriend is . Am I a pedophile because I'm attracted to her and she's under ? | "You wrote that each of you is under the age of 18. \'a0 A 15 year old cannot be a pedophile because you're not an adult.Also, if you mean ""girlfriend"" in a romantic way then this makes sense bc romantic relationships include physical attraction to the other person.", | "No, that's perfectly normal. You're under 18, too. You're only a year older than she is. This is absolutely normal. What would be wrong is if you did anything to her against her will. Always remember that NO means NO, respect her, respect yourself, and be a normal teenager! Have a healthy relationship. Holding hands, ... |
Is it wrong for me to be attracted to my girlfriend?I'm and my girlfriend is . Am I a pedophile because I'm attracted to her and she's under ? | "No. You are not a pedophile. You are both under the appropriate age where it would be seen so. Your both only a year a part so this shouldn't a worry to you. Like Frank said below, Pedophelia is a problem that won't apply to this situation.", | "No, that's perfectly normal. You're under 18, too. You're only a year older than she is. This is absolutely normal. What would be wrong is if you did anything to her against her will. Always remember that NO means NO, respect her, respect yourself, and be a normal teenager! Have a healthy relationship. Holding hands, ... |
How do I tell a girl that I crossdress?"I crossdress and like to be feminine but I am attracted to women but yet that seems to bother girls I date or ask out. How can I approach them about it? should I hold back and keep it a secret or should I just be up-front about it. I wonder if i should stop or if I should cont... | "Keep doing the crossdressing since you like it.Your problem sounds more a matter of timing and reason to tell the girl about it.Not keeping a secret is a good attitude regarding meaningful parts of your life. \'a0Usually our relationship partner is someone whom we trust as a safe person to know all about us.Once you f... | "It would be my professional opinion that the desire for you to keep it a secret at all, while yes I could see it as ""giving you a chance with a girl,"" is something that might be more about a discomfort for you. If you are comfortable with your kinks and fetishes (if I may call it such, not my intention to pathologiz... |
How do I tell a girl that I crossdress?"I crossdress and like to be feminine but I am attracted to women but yet that seems to bother girls I date or ask out. How can I approach them about it? should I hold back and keep it a secret or should I just be up-front about it. I wonder if i should stop or if I should cont... | "Keep doing the crossdressing since you like it.Your problem sounds more a matter of timing and reason to tell the girl about it.Not keeping a secret is a good attitude regarding meaningful parts of your life. \'a0Usually our relationship partner is someone whom we trust as a safe person to know all about us.Once you f... | "Your happiness and healthiness is key.\'a0 I would not suggest that you hold back and keep it a secret.\'a0 You should be up-front about it, but perhaps gently bring it up on a date.\'a0 When thinking about whether or not you should stop, think about how it makes you feel.\'a0 Perhaps try to be social at more acceptin... |
How do I tell a girl that I crossdress?"I crossdress and like to be feminine but I am attracted to women but yet that seems to bother girls I date or ask out. How can I approach them about it? should I hold back and keep it a secret or should I just be up-front about it. I wonder if i should stop or if I should cont... | "Keep doing the crossdressing since you like it.Your problem sounds more a matter of timing and reason to tell the girl about it.Not keeping a secret is a good attitude regarding meaningful parts of your life. \'a0Usually our relationship partner is someone whom we trust as a safe person to know all about us.Once you f... | "While this might not be the first thing you want to discuss when you meet someone, it is important for you to be yourself. \'a0It's better to weed out 10 people who can't accept you to find that one who can.", |
How do I tell a girl that I crossdress?"I crossdress and like to be feminine but I am attracted to women but yet that seems to bother girls I date or ask out. How can I approach them about it? should I hold back and keep it a secret or should I just be up-front about it. I wonder if i should stop or if I should cont... | "It would be my professional opinion that the desire for you to keep it a secret at all, while yes I could see it as ""giving you a chance with a girl,"" is something that might be more about a discomfort for you. If you are comfortable with your kinks and fetishes (if I may call it such, not my intention to pathologiz... | "Your happiness and healthiness is key.\'a0 I would not suggest that you hold back and keep it a secret.\'a0 You should be up-front about it, but perhaps gently bring it up on a date.\'a0 When thinking about whether or not you should stop, think about how it makes you feel.\'a0 Perhaps try to be social at more acceptin... |
How do I tell a girl that I crossdress?"I crossdress and like to be feminine but I am attracted to women but yet that seems to bother girls I date or ask out. How can I approach them about it? should I hold back and keep it a secret or should I just be up-front about it. I wonder if i should stop or if I should cont... | "It would be my professional opinion that the desire for you to keep it a secret at all, while yes I could see it as ""giving you a chance with a girl,"" is something that might be more about a discomfort for you. If you are comfortable with your kinks and fetishes (if I may call it such, not my intention to pathologiz... | "While this might not be the first thing you want to discuss when you meet someone, it is important for you to be yourself. \'a0It's better to weed out 10 people who can't accept you to find that one who can.", |
How do I tell a girl that I crossdress?"I crossdress and like to be feminine but I am attracted to women but yet that seems to bother girls I date or ask out. How can I approach them about it? should I hold back and keep it a secret or should I just be up-front about it. I wonder if i should stop or if I should cont... | "Your happiness and healthiness is key.\'a0 I would not suggest that you hold back and keep it a secret.\'a0 You should be up-front about it, but perhaps gently bring it up on a date.\'a0 When thinking about whether or not you should stop, think about how it makes you feel.\'a0 Perhaps try to be social at more acceptin... | "While this might not be the first thing you want to discuss when you meet someone, it is important for you to be yourself. \'a0It's better to weed out 10 people who can't accept you to find that one who can.", |
My husband was lying about drinking again"My husband has had issues with alcohol addiction in the past (he'd never admit to this). A while back ( years ago) I asked him to stop drinking so much and he agreed. I caught him one night drinking behind my back. I confronted him and he lied but I told him I knew he was lying... | "It can be very frustrating being lied to. \'a0The one thing that struck me was the sentence he had a alcohol addiction ""in the past."" \'a0Addiction is not something that comes and goes. \'a0Once you have addict tendencies they are here to stay. \'a0You may be able to fight them off for awhile but the will enviably r... | "Hi Los Angeles,So your husband is giving you mixed messages. He says he's willing to cut back on the drinking, but he drinks and hides it. His behaviour is passive aggressive and immature, which puts you into this position of having to act like a disapproving parent. It sounds more like you're talking about an out-of-... |
Why can't I get an erection with my girlfriend?I love my girlfriend so much. I get an erection even just thinking about her or seeing her. But the two times we tried to have sex I couldn't get an erection. We've only had sex once and it was a long time ago. Why this is happening and what can I do about it? | "This is something I have\
had to address with individuals often since working with couples is one of my\
practice's focuses. \'a0The answer can depend upon several reasons all which\
tend to be explored while in session. \'a0If you or your counselor utilizes\
an integral approach, in which one of the main premises mak... | "First off, I want to acknowledge the emotional pain you must be experiencing about not being able to experience an erection -- you're not alone. And, it took a lot of courage for you to post your query here. Below you will find excellent advice from skilled clinicians regarding your question and concern. If you haven'... |
Why can't I get an erection with my girlfriend?I love my girlfriend so much. I get an erection even just thinking about her or seeing her. But the two times we tried to have sex I couldn't get an erection. We've only had sex once and it was a long time ago. Why this is happening and what can I do about it? | "Sexual desire seems to be straightforward - I like someone and I become aroused at the thoughts of being intimate with them - but that idea does not always take into account other factors.\'a0Stress can have a huge effect on our body and how it performs. \'a0When we are overstressed, for example, we often find ourselv... | "First off, I want to acknowledge the emotional pain you must be experiencing about not being able to experience an erection -- you're not alone. And, it took a lot of courage for you to post your query here. Below you will find excellent advice from skilled clinicians regarding your question and concern. If you haven'... |
Why can't I get an erection with my girlfriend?I love my girlfriend so much. I get an erection even just thinking about her or seeing her. But the two times we tried to have sex I couldn't get an erection. We've only had sex once and it was a long time ago. Why this is happening and what can I do about it? | "This is something I have\
had to address with individuals often since working with couples is one of my\
practice's focuses. \'a0The answer can depend upon several reasons all which\
tend to be explored while in session. \'a0If you or your counselor utilizes\
an integral approach, in which one of the main premises mak... | "Sexual desire seems to be straightforward - I like someone and I become aroused at the thoughts of being intimate with them - but that idea does not always take into account other factors.\'a0Stress can have a huge effect on our body and how it performs. \'a0When we are overstressed, for example, we often find ourselv... |
What should I do about my marriage and my wife's behavior?"My wife and I got separated because I asked about her contact with a male friend of hers. The next day she kicked me out. She let me move back two days later. Yesterday she said she wanted a divorce then quickly changed her mind. I asked if the other guy was a ... | "Divorce is a serious, life altering decision.It is best to decide any serious matter through reflection and discussion.Start by knowing what you want from the marriage and why you are willing to move in or out of your own house because your wife tells you to do this.Each of you would benefit from more clarity of what ... | "This has to be very confusing.I wonder if the two of you would be able to have a conversation about what it is that she would like you to know about what happened yesterday and the day before so you know what message she wanted you to get out of all of that.I would also recommend seeing a local mental health professio... |
Why do I always push my boyfriend away?"My boyfriend shows affection but I just push him away. Every time my boyfriend tries to kiss hug or touch me I almost always push him away. I'm on birth control and it has killed my sex drive. I love him so much. Why do I do this?" | "There could be many reasons that you push your boyfriend away. It could be part of how you were raised, it could be because of culture, it could even be your own insecurities about yourself that are then outwardly manifested in you ""pushing"" him away.\'a0What is important in all this is that you both find a way to c... | "Are you sure it is only the birth control pills which has changed your sex drive?My guess would be that possibly due to the hormonal changes of the pill, your own awareness and understanding of yourself in this relationship, is what is actually changing.Birth control pills control ovulation. \'a0 They don't directly p... |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "Imagine your best friend just told you that her husband lied to her all the time and that he had broken every promise he ever made to her. What would you tell her? If I were her best friend I'd tell her to run the other way.\'a0You may love this man. We don't choose who we love. But the evidence is pretty clear, isn't... | "Let's look at your question and break it down. It begins with the word should. As a first reflection, it implies that there is a right and a wrong way to feel, in this case, feel upset. I think I would like to ask you the question in a different way: are you feeling upset? If you are feeling upset or if you are feelin... |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "Imagine your best friend just told you that her husband lied to her all the time and that he had broken every promise he ever made to her. What would you tell her? If I were her best friend I'd tell her to run the other way.\'a0You may love this man. We don't choose who we love. But the evidence is pretty clear, isn't... | In response to your answer. Yes because he broke a boundary of yours that he knew was important to you. The question that should be asked is are you able to go forward with your husband with his behaviors not changing for the better in regards to your feelings and emotions?, |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "Imagine your best friend just told you that her husband lied to her all the time and that he had broken every promise he ever made to her. What would you tell her? If I were her best friend I'd tell her to run the other way.\'a0You may love this man. We don't choose who we love. But the evidence is pretty clear, isn't... | "Is really difficult to tell whether he honestly forgot about someone or whether he was really lying again.I don't know whether he would be open to having a discussion with you about your concerns about this and whether you would be actually willing to listen to your thoughts about it.This might be something to discuss... |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "Imagine your best friend just told you that her husband lied to her all the time and that he had broken every promise he ever made to her. What would you tell her? If I were her best friend I'd tell her to run the other way.\'a0You may love this man. We don't choose who we love. But the evidence is pretty clear, isn't... | "I would ask you first what made you give him another chance after he repeatedly lied and broke every promise to you? \'a0I would imagine if he repeatedly lied to you that it will damage your ability to trust him now. \'a0Is he in therapy? Does he recognize that he has a problem and is he trying to repair it? \'a0Even ... |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "Imagine your best friend just told you that her husband lied to her all the time and that he had broken every promise he ever made to her. What would you tell her? If I were her best friend I'd tell her to run the other way.\'a0You may love this man. We don't choose who we love. But the evidence is pretty clear, isn't... | "Are you upset, is the more pertinent question.Everyone has their own tolerance for lies and their unique reasons for being married. \'a0Trust your own answers to the question you ask here.Also, think over the value of your marriage in your life and whether you are able to live with the unstable sense of trust that you... |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "Let's look at your question and break it down. It begins with the word should. As a first reflection, it implies that there is a right and a wrong way to feel, in this case, feel upset. I think I would like to ask you the question in a different way: are you feeling upset? If you are feeling upset or if you are feelin... | In response to your answer. Yes because he broke a boundary of yours that he knew was important to you. The question that should be asked is are you able to go forward with your husband with his behaviors not changing for the better in regards to your feelings and emotions?, |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "Let's look at your question and break it down. It begins with the word should. As a first reflection, it implies that there is a right and a wrong way to feel, in this case, feel upset. I think I would like to ask you the question in a different way: are you feeling upset? If you are feeling upset or if you are feelin... | "Is really difficult to tell whether he honestly forgot about someone or whether he was really lying again.I don't know whether he would be open to having a discussion with you about your concerns about this and whether you would be actually willing to listen to your thoughts about it.This might be something to discuss... |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "I would ask you first what made you give him another chance after he repeatedly lied and broke every promise to you? \'a0I would imagine if he repeatedly lied to you that it will damage your ability to trust him now. \'a0Is he in therapy? Does he recognize that he has a problem and is he trying to repair it? \'a0Even ... | "Let's look at your question and break it down. It begins with the word should. As a first reflection, it implies that there is a right and a wrong way to feel, in this case, feel upset. I think I would like to ask you the question in a different way: are you feeling upset? If you are feeling upset or if you are feelin... |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "Let's look at your question and break it down. It begins with the word should. As a first reflection, it implies that there is a right and a wrong way to feel, in this case, feel upset. I think I would like to ask you the question in a different way: are you feeling upset? If you are feeling upset or if you are feelin... | "Are you upset, is the more pertinent question.Everyone has their own tolerance for lies and their unique reasons for being married. \'a0Trust your own answers to the question you ask here.Also, think over the value of your marriage in your life and whether you are able to live with the unstable sense of trust that you... |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "Is really difficult to tell whether he honestly forgot about someone or whether he was really lying again.I don't know whether he would be open to having a discussion with you about your concerns about this and whether you would be actually willing to listen to your thoughts about it.This might be something to discuss... | In response to your answer. Yes because he broke a boundary of yours that he knew was important to you. The question that should be asked is are you able to go forward with your husband with his behaviors not changing for the better in regards to your feelings and emotions?, |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "I would ask you first what made you give him another chance after he repeatedly lied and broke every promise to you? \'a0I would imagine if he repeatedly lied to you that it will damage your ability to trust him now. \'a0Is he in therapy? Does he recognize that he has a problem and is he trying to repair it? \'a0Even ... | In response to your answer. Yes because he broke a boundary of yours that he knew was important to you. The question that should be asked is are you able to go forward with your husband with his behaviors not changing for the better in regards to your feelings and emotions?, |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | In response to your answer. Yes because he broke a boundary of yours that he knew was important to you. The question that should be asked is are you able to go forward with your husband with his behaviors not changing for the better in regards to your feelings and emotions?, | "Are you upset, is the more pertinent question.Everyone has their own tolerance for lies and their unique reasons for being married. \'a0Trust your own answers to the question you ask here.Also, think over the value of your marriage in your life and whether you are able to live with the unstable sense of trust that you... |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "I would ask you first what made you give him another chance after he repeatedly lied and broke every promise to you? \'a0I would imagine if he repeatedly lied to you that it will damage your ability to trust him now. \'a0Is he in therapy? Does he recognize that he has a problem and is he trying to repair it? \'a0Even ... | "Is really difficult to tell whether he honestly forgot about someone or whether he was really lying again.I don't know whether he would be open to having a discussion with you about your concerns about this and whether you would be actually willing to listen to your thoughts about it.This might be something to discuss... |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "Is really difficult to tell whether he honestly forgot about someone or whether he was really lying again.I don't know whether he would be open to having a discussion with you about your concerns about this and whether you would be actually willing to listen to your thoughts about it.This might be something to discuss... | "Are you upset, is the more pertinent question.Everyone has their own tolerance for lies and their unique reasons for being married. \'a0Trust your own answers to the question you ask here.Also, think over the value of your marriage in your life and whether you are able to live with the unstable sense of trust that you... |
Should I be upset that my husband may have lied to me again?"I\'m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month I asked what women work with him so he told me. Yesterday I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about... | "I would ask you first what made you give him another chance after he repeatedly lied and broke every promise to you? \'a0I would imagine if he repeatedly lied to you that it will damage your ability to trust him now. \'a0Is he in therapy? Does he recognize that he has a problem and is he trying to repair it? \'a0Even ... | "Are you upset, is the more pertinent question.Everyone has their own tolerance for lies and their unique reasons for being married. \'a0Trust your own answers to the question you ask here.Also, think over the value of your marriage in your life and whether you are able to live with the unstable sense of trust that you... |
How do I deal with a lack of intimacy and partner's addiction to solo sex and porn?"I believe my partner has a masturbation and porn problem. He masturbates daily even when I am lying in bed sleeping beside him. We have sex once a week. He is rough and worries about his needs. He never touches me and treats me like a p... | "There is a lot of information out there right now about how porn is harmful...to a person's brain chemistry, to a relationship and one's ability to love, and to how men see women and sex in general. Your partner demonstrates a clear disregard for your needs. There is evidence, as you suggest, that there is addiction h... | "It sounds like your in quite a rough place, my recommendation just based on what you type might warrant a visit to a psychotherapist to resolve what may be going on, I am not entirely sure but it sounds like he might have a bit of a sex addiction problem. One thing you need to ask yourself is ""Am I happy?"", ""Do I f... |
My husband only has sex with me once a month or less"I'm feeling rejected and frustrated. This is not new. The first month we were together sex was about every day. Then it slowed down to once a month right away. I love my husband but I am struggling with this." | "This could have many different origins. Have you tried asking him about it? Sometimes starting with asking whether he would be open to having an important discussion can be a good beginning. If that starts well, perhaps continuing with something like ""I've noticed that we haven't been together intimately (or whatever... | "Every area in a relationship, including intimacy,\
experiences a decline after the initial honeymoon period.\'a0 Couples have to work to maintain the spark.\'a0 Find a moment to talk to your husband about\
your concerns, and suggest ways to rekindle your sexual life, be open to listen\
to his concerns and demands as w... |
My husband only has sex with me once a month or less"I'm feeling rejected and frustrated. This is not new. The first month we were together sex was about every day. Then it slowed down to once a month right away. I love my husband but I am struggling with this." | "This could have many different origins. Have you tried asking him about it? Sometimes starting with asking whether he would be open to having an important discussion can be a good beginning. If that starts well, perhaps continuing with something like ""I've noticed that we haven't been together intimately (or whatever... | "Have you said anything to your husband about the way you're feeling?Start with this.Sex is after all, a two person enterprise.If he would like to talk about the way you're feeling, great and wonderful. \'a0The two of you already are continuing to grow trust in your communication and relationship.If he doesn't want to ... |
My husband only has sex with me once a month or less"I'm feeling rejected and frustrated. This is not new. The first month we were together sex was about every day. Then it slowed down to once a month right away. I love my husband but I am struggling with this." | "Every area in a relationship, including intimacy,\
experiences a decline after the initial honeymoon period.\'a0 Couples have to work to maintain the spark.\'a0 Find a moment to talk to your husband about\
your concerns, and suggest ways to rekindle your sexual life, be open to listen\
to his concerns and demands as w... | "Have you said anything to your husband about the way you're feeling?Start with this.Sex is after all, a two person enterprise.If he would like to talk about the way you're feeling, great and wonderful. \'a0The two of you already are continuing to grow trust in your communication and relationship.If he doesn't want to ... |
I am afraid of sex"I am a female and I am afraid of having sex. I am afraid of disappointing my partner by being inexperienced. I think he thinks I'm not a virgin. I am also scared that he will be disappointed with my naked body. I don't want my partner to think differently of me because I am afraid of having sex." | "As hard as it may be to do this, since all the media and marketing of how an ideal person looks and performs sexually, surrounds us, keep in mind that the images presented in order to sell movies and almost any product, is meant to trigger fantasies.No one is a fantasy, we are all real and unique. \'a0We can be influe... | "The greatest sex experience will be with someone who you feel connected to outside the bed.\'a0 This is something that you should feel comfortable in talking with your partner about.\'a0 The relationship needs to be strong before moving to the bed anyways. If the love is there, he will understand your fears and make y... |
"I cheated on my partner and I don't know how to feel""I am married but I had sex with my friend. I feel guilty but I feel not guilty too. Do I need to feel guilty? It's my body and I have full rights to do what I like." | "Yes, of course, it's your body and you can do what you feel like doing.Do you feel a commitment to your partner?Your guilt probably is pointing out the feeling of having done with your body what your spirit tells you is a violation of the commitment you feel toward your partner.The good news is that this is a moment f... | "My questions to you would be:\'a0 Why did you get married?\'a0 Would it bother you if your spouse did the same to you?", |
How can I get my fianc\'e to notice me again?"My fianc\'e and I have almost the best relationship every girl wants but lately it's changed. I get less attention and little to no intercourse. He works a lot and goes to the gym a lot (he's a football player for an indoor league) but he has no time for me. We live two hou... | "Your situation sounds a little painful.Have you brought up any of these topics for discussion with your fianc\'e9?Now is a good time for finding out if and how your future husband is interested and addresses the way you are feeling.Until the two of you open up what bothers you, all you or anyone who talks to you about... | "Hi Rockford, While no relationship is ""perfect"", and it's natural for the passionate beginnings of a relationship to lessen with time, because we have established the trust and love needed as a foundation and we don't have to smother each other with attention anymore, your situation sounds like something different.\... |
My wife doesn't want to have sex"My wife and I have a great relationship except for our sex lives. We are pretty transparent and honest and basically she feels bad because she never wants to have sex. She doesn't have the desire. She's also never orgasmed. She feels like a terrible wife and fears I'll cheat on her. She... | "Congrats on your upcoming baby!Its possible that the pregnancy is diminishing your wife's sex drive.From everything you describe about your wife, she sounds to not yet have become comfortable with having a wish for sex.The other side of the sex equation is you and your relative ease with having sex and whether it is f... | "I suggest seeking the support of an AASECT certified sex therapist\'a0to help work through much of the issues you address, you simply may need some really qualified support. Also, you might be interested in watching Esther Perel's ted talk on the secret to desire in a long term relationship, and/or\'a0you might want t... |
My wife doesn't want to have sex"My wife and I have a great relationship except for our sex lives. We are pretty transparent and honest and basically she feels bad because she never wants to have sex. She doesn't have the desire. She's also never orgasmed. She feels like a terrible wife and fears I'll cheat on her. She... | "Congrats on your upcoming baby!Its possible that the pregnancy is diminishing your wife's sex drive.From everything you describe about your wife, she sounds to not yet have become comfortable with having a wish for sex.The other side of the sex equation is you and your relative ease with having sex and whether it is f... | "Have you guys ruled out medical disorders. There is new data that post part depression starts in the pregnancy before baby is delivered. There maybe those factors .Please check out those arenas, firstly.\'a0Then consider marital therapy services. Relationship changes with the time passing and with the time and care de... |
My wife doesn't want to have sex"My wife and I have a great relationship except for our sex lives. We are pretty transparent and honest and basically she feels bad because she never wants to have sex. She doesn't have the desire. She's also never orgasmed. She feels like a terrible wife and fears I'll cheat on her. She... | "Congrats on your upcoming baby!Its possible that the pregnancy is diminishing your wife's sex drive.From everything you describe about your wife, she sounds to not yet have become comfortable with having a wish for sex.The other side of the sex equation is you and your relative ease with having sex and whether it is f... | "Hi Seattle,While it's normal in many relationships for there to be a difference in sex drives, I believe that your wife has a major barrier to having a healthy sexual relationship. I'd be curious about what it was like at the beginning for you both, but these things can change. Sometimes people with sexual barriers ar... |
My wife doesn't want to have sex"My wife and I have a great relationship except for our sex lives. We are pretty transparent and honest and basically she feels bad because she never wants to have sex. She doesn't have the desire. She's also never orgasmed. She feels like a terrible wife and fears I'll cheat on her. She... | "Have you guys ruled out medical disorders. There is new data that post part depression starts in the pregnancy before baby is delivered. There maybe those factors .Please check out those arenas, firstly.\'a0Then consider marital therapy services. Relationship changes with the time passing and with the time and care de... | "I suggest seeking the support of an AASECT certified sex therapist\'a0to help work through much of the issues you address, you simply may need some really qualified support. Also, you might be interested in watching Esther Perel's ted talk on the secret to desire in a long term relationship, and/or\'a0you might want t... |
My wife doesn't want to have sex"My wife and I have a great relationship except for our sex lives. We are pretty transparent and honest and basically she feels bad because she never wants to have sex. She doesn't have the desire. She's also never orgasmed. She feels like a terrible wife and fears I'll cheat on her. She... | "Hi Seattle,While it's normal in many relationships for there to be a difference in sex drives, I believe that your wife has a major barrier to having a healthy sexual relationship. I'd be curious about what it was like at the beginning for you both, but these things can change. Sometimes people with sexual barriers ar... | "I suggest seeking the support of an AASECT certified sex therapist\'a0to help work through much of the issues you address, you simply may need some really qualified support. Also, you might be interested in watching Esther Perel's ted talk on the secret to desire in a long term relationship, and/or\'a0you might want t... |
My wife doesn't want to have sex"My wife and I have a great relationship except for our sex lives. We are pretty transparent and honest and basically she feels bad because she never wants to have sex. She doesn't have the desire. She's also never orgasmed. She feels like a terrible wife and fears I'll cheat on her. She... | "Have you guys ruled out medical disorders. There is new data that post part depression starts in the pregnancy before baby is delivered. There maybe those factors .Please check out those arenas, firstly.\'a0Then consider marital therapy services. Relationship changes with the time passing and with the time and care de... | "Hi Seattle,While it's normal in many relationships for there to be a difference in sex drives, I believe that your wife has a major barrier to having a healthy sexual relationship. I'd be curious about what it was like at the beginning for you both, but these things can change. Sometimes people with sexual barriers ar... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Y'know, to see a man you've loved and care for pass on must make ya' want to cry and weep a bunch, don't it?And, may I say to you that... (as I've long since said)... if you need to mourn, take about a week or so and mourn like your life depended on it.\'a0 I mean, get to weeping, gnashing, moaning, crying, solemnness... | "I am sorry for your loss. I understand the difficulty of needing help and not having financial resources. In some areas, you can dial 211 and find resources in the area that may be free of cost or low cost. In addition, often hospitals and community centers, churches, etc. have support groups. These are often free and... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Y'know, to see a man you've loved and care for pass on must make ya' want to cry and weep a bunch, don't it?And, may I say to you that... (as I've long since said)... if you need to mourn, take about a week or so and mourn like your life depended on it.\'a0 I mean, get to weeping, gnashing, moaning, crying, solemnness... | "Losing someone you love, someone who has been there from your very first days, is really hard.\'a0 Look for a local hospice support organization in your community - grief groups and counseling are often available through these centers.\'a0 Don't just tough it out and wait for your sadness to fade.\'a0 Your grandfather... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Y'know, to see a man you've loved and care for pass on must make ya' want to cry and weep a bunch, don't it?And, may I say to you that... (as I've long since said)... if you need to mourn, take about a week or so and mourn like your life depended on it.\'a0 I mean, get to weeping, gnashing, moaning, crying, solemnness... | "Your local hospice will have grief support groups and free community counseling available with bereavement counselors who are expects with grief and loss.", |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Y'know, to see a man you've loved and care for pass on must make ya' want to cry and weep a bunch, don't it?And, may I say to you that... (as I've long since said)... if you need to mourn, take about a week or so and mourn like your life depended on it.\'a0 I mean, get to weeping, gnashing, moaning, crying, solemnness... | "Hello,I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your grandpa. My suggestion would be to look into community mental health agencies in your area. Sometimes they can offer low-fee counseling. You can also check the hospitals in your area because they may offer free or low-fee bereavement support groups, which can be very... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Y'know, to see a man you've loved and care for pass on must make ya' want to cry and weep a bunch, don't it?And, may I say to you that... (as I've long since said)... if you need to mourn, take about a week or so and mourn like your life depended on it.\'a0 I mean, get to weeping, gnashing, moaning, crying, solemnness... | "I am so sorry to hear about your loss. He must have been very special to you and it definitely makes sense that you are having a hard time with it.\'a0Counseling may be an option if you have a university near you with a graduate marriage and family therapist program. Graduate students provide counseling at a very low ... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Y'know, to see a man you've loved and care for pass on must make ya' want to cry and weep a bunch, don't it?And, may I say to you that... (as I've long since said)... if you need to mourn, take about a week or so and mourn like your life depended on it.\'a0 I mean, get to weeping, gnashing, moaning, crying, solemnness... | "I'm sorry you lost your grandpa.\'a0 Some things that may help you through this tough time are to journal or write about special memories you have of your grandpa.\'a0 You could also journal about your feelings of loss and how you miss him.\'a0 Another thing that might help is to talk with a friend or family member.\'... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Y'know, to see a man you've loved and care for pass on must make ya' want to cry and weep a bunch, don't it?And, may I say to you that... (as I've long since said)... if you need to mourn, take about a week or so and mourn like your life depended on it.\'a0 I mean, get to weeping, gnashing, moaning, crying, solemnness... | "I'm sorry your grandpa died.Good for you to write on this site about wanting help to know how best to live with this new loss.Have you looked online for blogs and forums about adjusting to a recent death? \'a0That you know you'd like another person to help you adjust, is a good sign of your own mental health stability... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I am sorry for your loss. I understand the difficulty of needing help and not having financial resources. In some areas, you can dial 211 and find resources in the area that may be free of cost or low cost. In addition, often hospitals and community centers, churches, etc. have support groups. These are often free and... | "Losing someone you love, someone who has been there from your very first days, is really hard.\'a0 Look for a local hospice support organization in your community - grief groups and counseling are often available through these centers.\'a0 Don't just tough it out and wait for your sadness to fade.\'a0 Your grandfather... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I am sorry for your loss. I understand the difficulty of needing help and not having financial resources. In some areas, you can dial 211 and find resources in the area that may be free of cost or low cost. In addition, often hospitals and community centers, churches, etc. have support groups. These are often free and... | "Your local hospice will have grief support groups and free community counseling available with bereavement counselors who are expects with grief and loss.", |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Hello,I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your grandpa. My suggestion would be to look into community mental health agencies in your area. Sometimes they can offer low-fee counseling. You can also check the hospitals in your area because they may offer free or low-fee bereavement support groups, which can be very... | "I am sorry for your loss. I understand the difficulty of needing help and not having financial resources. In some areas, you can dial 211 and find resources in the area that may be free of cost or low cost. In addition, often hospitals and community centers, churches, etc. have support groups. These are often free and... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I am so sorry to hear about your loss. He must have been very special to you and it definitely makes sense that you are having a hard time with it.\'a0Counseling may be an option if you have a university near you with a graduate marriage and family therapist program. Graduate students provide counseling at a very low ... | "I am sorry for your loss. I understand the difficulty of needing help and not having financial resources. In some areas, you can dial 211 and find resources in the area that may be free of cost or low cost. In addition, often hospitals and community centers, churches, etc. have support groups. These are often free and... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I'm sorry you lost your grandpa.\'a0 Some things that may help you through this tough time are to journal or write about special memories you have of your grandpa.\'a0 You could also journal about your feelings of loss and how you miss him.\'a0 Another thing that might help is to talk with a friend or family member.\'... | "I am sorry for your loss. I understand the difficulty of needing help and not having financial resources. In some areas, you can dial 211 and find resources in the area that may be free of cost or low cost. In addition, often hospitals and community centers, churches, etc. have support groups. These are often free and... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I'm sorry your grandpa died.Good for you to write on this site about wanting help to know how best to live with this new loss.Have you looked online for blogs and forums about adjusting to a recent death? \'a0That you know you'd like another person to help you adjust, is a good sign of your own mental health stability... | "I am sorry for your loss. I understand the difficulty of needing help and not having financial resources. In some areas, you can dial 211 and find resources in the area that may be free of cost or low cost. In addition, often hospitals and community centers, churches, etc. have support groups. These are often free and... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Your local hospice will have grief support groups and free community counseling available with bereavement counselors who are expects with grief and loss.", | "Losing someone you love, someone who has been there from your very first days, is really hard.\'a0 Look for a local hospice support organization in your community - grief groups and counseling are often available through these centers.\'a0 Don't just tough it out and wait for your sadness to fade.\'a0 Your grandfather... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Hello,I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your grandpa. My suggestion would be to look into community mental health agencies in your area. Sometimes they can offer low-fee counseling. You can also check the hospitals in your area because they may offer free or low-fee bereavement support groups, which can be very... | "Losing someone you love, someone who has been there from your very first days, is really hard.\'a0 Look for a local hospice support organization in your community - grief groups and counseling are often available through these centers.\'a0 Don't just tough it out and wait for your sadness to fade.\'a0 Your grandfather... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I am so sorry to hear about your loss. He must have been very special to you and it definitely makes sense that you are having a hard time with it.\'a0Counseling may be an option if you have a university near you with a graduate marriage and family therapist program. Graduate students provide counseling at a very low ... | "Losing someone you love, someone who has been there from your very first days, is really hard.\'a0 Look for a local hospice support organization in your community - grief groups and counseling are often available through these centers.\'a0 Don't just tough it out and wait for your sadness to fade.\'a0 Your grandfather... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I'm sorry you lost your grandpa.\'a0 Some things that may help you through this tough time are to journal or write about special memories you have of your grandpa.\'a0 You could also journal about your feelings of loss and how you miss him.\'a0 Another thing that might help is to talk with a friend or family member.\'... | "Losing someone you love, someone who has been there from your very first days, is really hard.\'a0 Look for a local hospice support organization in your community - grief groups and counseling are often available through these centers.\'a0 Don't just tough it out and wait for your sadness to fade.\'a0 Your grandfather... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I'm sorry your grandpa died.Good for you to write on this site about wanting help to know how best to live with this new loss.Have you looked online for blogs and forums about adjusting to a recent death? \'a0That you know you'd like another person to help you adjust, is a good sign of your own mental health stability... | "Losing someone you love, someone who has been there from your very first days, is really hard.\'a0 Look for a local hospice support organization in your community - grief groups and counseling are often available through these centers.\'a0 Don't just tough it out and wait for your sadness to fade.\'a0 Your grandfather... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Hello,I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your grandpa. My suggestion would be to look into community mental health agencies in your area. Sometimes they can offer low-fee counseling. You can also check the hospitals in your area because they may offer free or low-fee bereavement support groups, which can be very... | "Your local hospice will have grief support groups and free community counseling available with bereavement counselors who are expects with grief and loss.", |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I am so sorry to hear about your loss. He must have been very special to you and it definitely makes sense that you are having a hard time with it.\'a0Counseling may be an option if you have a university near you with a graduate marriage and family therapist program. Graduate students provide counseling at a very low ... | "Your local hospice will have grief support groups and free community counseling available with bereavement counselors who are expects with grief and loss.", |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I'm sorry you lost your grandpa.\'a0 Some things that may help you through this tough time are to journal or write about special memories you have of your grandpa.\'a0 You could also journal about your feelings of loss and how you miss him.\'a0 Another thing that might help is to talk with a friend or family member.\'... | "Your local hospice will have grief support groups and free community counseling available with bereavement counselors who are expects with grief and loss.", |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I'm sorry your grandpa died.Good for you to write on this site about wanting help to know how best to live with this new loss.Have you looked online for blogs and forums about adjusting to a recent death? \'a0That you know you'd like another person to help you adjust, is a good sign of your own mental health stability... | "Your local hospice will have grief support groups and free community counseling available with bereavement counselors who are expects with grief and loss.", |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Hello,I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your grandpa. My suggestion would be to look into community mental health agencies in your area. Sometimes they can offer low-fee counseling. You can also check the hospitals in your area because they may offer free or low-fee bereavement support groups, which can be very... | "I am so sorry to hear about your loss. He must have been very special to you and it definitely makes sense that you are having a hard time with it.\'a0Counseling may be an option if you have a university near you with a graduate marriage and family therapist program. Graduate students provide counseling at a very low ... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Hello,I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your grandpa. My suggestion would be to look into community mental health agencies in your area. Sometimes they can offer low-fee counseling. You can also check the hospitals in your area because they may offer free or low-fee bereavement support groups, which can be very... | "I'm sorry you lost your grandpa.\'a0 Some things that may help you through this tough time are to journal or write about special memories you have of your grandpa.\'a0 You could also journal about your feelings of loss and how you miss him.\'a0 Another thing that might help is to talk with a friend or family member.\'... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "Hello,I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your grandpa. My suggestion would be to look into community mental health agencies in your area. Sometimes they can offer low-fee counseling. You can also check the hospitals in your area because they may offer free or low-fee bereavement support groups, which can be very... | "I'm sorry your grandpa died.Good for you to write on this site about wanting help to know how best to live with this new loss.Have you looked online for blogs and forums about adjusting to a recent death? \'a0That you know you'd like another person to help you adjust, is a good sign of your own mental health stability... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I'm sorry you lost your grandpa.\'a0 Some things that may help you through this tough time are to journal or write about special memories you have of your grandpa.\'a0 You could also journal about your feelings of loss and how you miss him.\'a0 Another thing that might help is to talk with a friend or family member.\'... | "I am so sorry to hear about your loss. He must have been very special to you and it definitely makes sense that you are having a hard time with it.\'a0Counseling may be an option if you have a university near you with a graduate marriage and family therapist program. Graduate students provide counseling at a very low ... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I'm sorry your grandpa died.Good for you to write on this site about wanting help to know how best to live with this new loss.Have you looked online for blogs and forums about adjusting to a recent death? \'a0That you know you'd like another person to help you adjust, is a good sign of your own mental health stability... | "I am so sorry to hear about your loss. He must have been very special to you and it definitely makes sense that you are having a hard time with it.\'a0Counseling may be an option if you have a university near you with a graduate marriage and family therapist program. Graduate students provide counseling at a very low ... |
I just lost my grandpa"I just lost my grandpa and i'm having a rough time with it. I need some help to deal with the loss but I don\'t think I can pay for counseling. Where Can I get help?" | "I'm sorry your grandpa died.Good for you to write on this site about wanting help to know how best to live with this new loss.Have you looked online for blogs and forums about adjusting to a recent death? \'a0That you know you'd like another person to help you adjust, is a good sign of your own mental health stability... | "I'm sorry you lost your grandpa.\'a0 Some things that may help you through this tough time are to journal or write about special memories you have of your grandpa.\'a0 You could also journal about your feelings of loss and how you miss him.\'a0 Another thing that might help is to talk with a friend or family member.\'... |
I over endulge when I drink alcohol and feel extremely guilty about it the next day"I'm a female in my mid s. Lately I tend to over drink and I've become a very angry drunk. In the past I have even cheated on my boyfriend while I was under the influence of alcohol. But now even if I don't do anything wrong and do... | "The short answer is yes - if you feel 'really guilty after a night of drinking', then you probably have a problem. What you could do is visit this website by the National Institutes of Health:\'a0 | "Guilt is a narcissistic, self-indulgent focus on me, me, me; it's best not to keep it in negative light;What does that mean?\'a0 Well, it stems from mankind having an animal nature, and a spiritual nature;In most societies today, the animal nature is looked down upon, seen as egregious and something to be put away;If ... |
I over endulge when I drink alcohol and feel extremely guilty about it the next day"I'm a female in my mid s. Lately I tend to over drink and I've become a very angry drunk. In the past I have even cheated on my boyfriend while I was under the influence of alcohol. But now even if I don't do anything wrong and do... | "The short answer is yes - if you feel 'really guilty after a night of drinking', then you probably have a problem. What you could do is visit this website by the National Institutes of Health:\'a0 | I offer that getting a professional assessment is in order to look at your relationship with alcohol., |
I over endulge when I drink alcohol and feel extremely guilty about it the next day"I'm a female in my mid s. Lately I tend to over drink and I've become a very angry drunk. In the past I have even cheated on my boyfriend while I was under the influence of alcohol. But now even if I don't do anything wrong and do... | "The short answer is yes - if you feel 'really guilty after a night of drinking', then you probably have a problem. What you could do is visit this website by the National Institutes of Health:\'a0 | Speaking with a licensed therapist will help you figure out if indeed you have a problem or not. \'a0I would say the first question you should ask yourself is why you are drinking? The second would be why you feel the need to drink in excess? It may be due to a life event or the crowd you are running with. \'a0Either w... |
I over endulge when I drink alcohol and feel extremely guilty about it the next day"I'm a female in my mid s. Lately I tend to over drink and I've become a very angry drunk. In the past I have even cheated on my boyfriend while I was under the influence of alcohol. But now even if I don't do anything wrong and do... | "The short answer is yes - if you feel 'really guilty after a night of drinking', then you probably have a problem. What you could do is visit this website by the National Institutes of Health:\'a0 | "Usually when someone asks if they have a problem, they believe they do have a problem!The first step is to understand your own theory and definition as to what problem you feel you have. \'a0Some possibilities are feeling unhappy in the relationship to your boyfriend, not having enough discussion between the two of yo... |
I over endulge when I drink alcohol and feel extremely guilty about it the next day"I'm a female in my mid s. Lately I tend to over drink and I've become a very angry drunk. In the past I have even cheated on my boyfriend while I was under the influence of alcohol. But now even if I don't do anything wrong and do... | "Guilt is a narcissistic, self-indulgent focus on me, me, me; it's best not to keep it in negative light;What does that mean?\'a0 Well, it stems from mankind having an animal nature, and a spiritual nature;In most societies today, the animal nature is looked down upon, seen as egregious and something to be put away;If ... | I offer that getting a professional assessment is in order to look at your relationship with alcohol., |
I over endulge when I drink alcohol and feel extremely guilty about it the next day"I'm a female in my mid s. Lately I tend to over drink and I've become a very angry drunk. In the past I have even cheated on my boyfriend while I was under the influence of alcohol. But now even if I don't do anything wrong and do... | "Guilt is a narcissistic, self-indulgent focus on me, me, me; it's best not to keep it in negative light;What does that mean?\'a0 Well, it stems from mankind having an animal nature, and a spiritual nature;In most societies today, the animal nature is looked down upon, seen as egregious and something to be put away;If ... | Speaking with a licensed therapist will help you figure out if indeed you have a problem or not. \'a0I would say the first question you should ask yourself is why you are drinking? The second would be why you feel the need to drink in excess? It may be due to a life event or the crowd you are running with. \'a0Either w... |
I over endulge when I drink alcohol and feel extremely guilty about it the next day"I'm a female in my mid s. Lately I tend to over drink and I've become a very angry drunk. In the past I have even cheated on my boyfriend while I was under the influence of alcohol. But now even if I don't do anything wrong and do... | "Guilt is a narcissistic, self-indulgent focus on me, me, me; it's best not to keep it in negative light;What does that mean?\'a0 Well, it stems from mankind having an animal nature, and a spiritual nature;In most societies today, the animal nature is looked down upon, seen as egregious and something to be put away;If ... | "Usually when someone asks if they have a problem, they believe they do have a problem!The first step is to understand your own theory and definition as to what problem you feel you have. \'a0Some possibilities are feeling unhappy in the relationship to your boyfriend, not having enough discussion between the two of yo... |
I over endulge when I drink alcohol and feel extremely guilty about it the next day"I'm a female in my mid s. Lately I tend to over drink and I've become a very angry drunk. In the past I have even cheated on my boyfriend while I was under the influence of alcohol. But now even if I don't do anything wrong and do... | Speaking with a licensed therapist will help you figure out if indeed you have a problem or not. \'a0I would say the first question you should ask yourself is why you are drinking? The second would be why you feel the need to drink in excess? It may be due to a life event or the crowd you are running with. \'a0Either w... | I offer that getting a professional assessment is in order to look at your relationship with alcohol., |
I over endulge when I drink alcohol and feel extremely guilty about it the next day"I'm a female in my mid s. Lately I tend to over drink and I've become a very angry drunk. In the past I have even cheated on my boyfriend while I was under the influence of alcohol. But now even if I don't do anything wrong and do... | I offer that getting a professional assessment is in order to look at your relationship with alcohol., | "Usually when someone asks if they have a problem, they believe they do have a problem!The first step is to understand your own theory and definition as to what problem you feel you have. \'a0Some possibilities are feeling unhappy in the relationship to your boyfriend, not having enough discussion between the two of yo... |
I over endulge when I drink alcohol and feel extremely guilty about it the next day"I'm a female in my mid s. Lately I tend to over drink and I've become a very angry drunk. In the past I have even cheated on my boyfriend while I was under the influence of alcohol. But now even if I don't do anything wrong and do... | Speaking with a licensed therapist will help you figure out if indeed you have a problem or not. \'a0I would say the first question you should ask yourself is why you are drinking? The second would be why you feel the need to drink in excess? It may be due to a life event or the crowd you are running with. \'a0Either w... | "Usually when someone asks if they have a problem, they believe they do have a problem!The first step is to understand your own theory and definition as to what problem you feel you have. \'a0Some possibilities are feeling unhappy in the relationship to your boyfriend, not having enough discussion between the two of yo... |
I'm addicted to smoking. How can I stop?"I'm planning to have baby so I have to quit smoking - but it's hard. Sometimes it's not a physical need it's mental.\
I cannot help myself from thinking about smoking. What can I do to get rid of this addiction?" | "First off, I would like to congratulate you on making the decision to stop smoking.\'a0 The next thing I want to share is that there are so many different ways to kick the habit. Some people find solace in groups, while others prefer to see a counselor about this individually. Remember, that the crux of addiction is f... | "While smoking can be incredibly difficult to quit doing, it's not impossible, so the first thing to NOT lose is hope. And certainly planning to have a baby can be exactly the catalyst that one needs to motivate to complete this sort of task. But, as I said, it still won't be easy, even with the motivation there.There ... |
I'm addicted to smoking. How can I stop?"I'm planning to have baby so I have to quit smoking - but it's hard. Sometimes it's not a physical need it's mental.\
I cannot help myself from thinking about smoking. What can I do to get rid of this addiction?" | "First off, I would like to congratulate you on making the decision to stop smoking.\'a0 The next thing I want to share is that there are so many different ways to kick the habit. Some people find solace in groups, while others prefer to see a counselor about this individually. Remember, that the crux of addiction is f... | "It's very admirable that you are trying to stop smoking for the sake of your health and your child's health.\'a0 The mental aspect of quitting a drug can and usually is the hardest part.\'a0 First, it can be helpful to change the focus of your thinking so you are focusing on the healthy behaviors you will start/improv... |
I'm addicted to smoking. How can I stop?"I'm planning to have baby so I have to quit smoking - but it's hard. Sometimes it's not a physical need it's mental.\
I cannot help myself from thinking about smoking. What can I do to get rid of this addiction?" | "First off, I would like to congratulate you on making the decision to stop smoking.\'a0 The next thing I want to share is that there are so many different ways to kick the habit. Some people find solace in groups, while others prefer to see a counselor about this individually. Remember, that the crux of addiction is f... | "Breaking any habit is no easy feat. \'a0 Cutting down or cutting out cigarettes is very challenging, and there aren't any one size fits all solutions. \'a0Fortunately, there are a lot of tricks and tools that you can use to stop smoking. \'a01. Many habits that we have are paired habits. If we do one thing, then we wi... |
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