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[S1] If I needed this, would it occur to me that I already had one? Because I didn't have a place where I would look for it first, which means I would not have even gone looking for it. Instead, I would have done without, you know, we would have said, "Hey, here's six sweatshirts," kid who forgot your coat, right? [S2]...
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[S1] If I didn't get rid of this item and I wouldn't have looked for it if I needed it, it's just sitting in my house and I'm adding more to it as I go and grab what I need because it doesn't occur to me that I already have one. [S2] Yeah. [S1] Okay? [S2] Yeah. [S1] So, so that right there is, is me saying,
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[S1] In that moment, because I think that's also the reality. The reality of the decluttering process, if I'm tracking, is not that you go, "Okay, this Sunday, I'm doing this in the mud room." It's that you walk out of your bedroom and you're like, "What the fuck?" Okay, it's like throwing all this stuff down. It's 7:1...
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[S1] If I needed this item, would it ever occur to me that I already had one? [S2] If I needed this item, would it occur to me that I already had one? And the answer is yes, 'cause I have the exact same size in a jacket for me. I buy the same company. So yes, I have one. [S1] Would you, would it occur to you that you h...
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[S1] ... that you had your son's jacket? Because if it would, then it's, it's fine to go take it with the place where you would look for it first because we're also gonna address the reality of that space as we get into the last step of the process. But- [S2] Got it. [S1] So let's- [S2] Yeah.
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[S1] step in this process. [S2] Okay. So, let's say, and this is gonna apply to any space, all those spaces where you're taking things, but we're talking about the space that you are working on, okay? [S1] Okay, the mod room. [S2] So at this point, you have removed trash
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[S1] It's the container. [S2] Wow. [S1] I don't have the space for it. [S2] Wow. [S1] And that is very freeing. [S2] Jessie, could you go grab me those two Mason jars in the back with the pencils on them, on our little caddy full of shit in the office? [S1] [LAUGHS] I hope not.
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[S1] ... often makes you hold on tighter to your stuff when you're like, you're just criticizing or whatever. So not saying that that's what she's doing at all. But here are the things to remember that we've talked about. Clutter threshold, okay? [S2] Mm-hmm. [S1] Your husband has a different clutter threshold than you...
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[S1] If you just create an elaborate system that would work for you, and then try to push him into that system. Instead, remember the value of decluttering. If something does not exist in your home, it cannot end up all over the place. [S2] Mm-hmm. [S1] Right? Okay? [S2] Mm-hmm. [S1] Now, along with that, I'm not sayin...
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[S1] But he didn't really do anything with it, and so it was just kind of there, and it would just get shifted all around. So I'm like, "This is the space for this." Uh, and he was like, "Oh. Oh. Wow, okay." You know, I mean, because I was saying, it's not, I'm not gonna have this argument over why do you have that stu...
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[S1] ... they get to put it in their container or whatever. 'Cause you can keep anything, but you can't keep everything. And then you let the container be the bad guy. So it's like, you know, as, as that- [S2] So that's, so just so I'm clear- [S1] Yeah. [S2] So, so, 'cause I really relate to this question. [S1] Mm-hmm....
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[S1] Clutter threshold is the amount of stuff that you can handle. So- [S2] He can handle- [S1] [LAUGHS] [S2] ... a lot less. [S1] It's possible his clutter threshold is higher than yours.
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[S1] Oh, that's what I meant. Higher. [S2] Yes. Okay, okay, okay. [S1] Higher. I meant lower, meaning- [S2] Yes. [S1] ... he's gotta have less stuff around. So his clutter threshold is higher than mine, and if he sees something out of place, he is immediately drawn to go put it in its place. [S2] Mm-hmm. [S1] And like ...
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[S1] Okay. [S2] ... to make that clear. Right. Okay. [S1] [LAUGHS] [S2] [LAUGHS] So it's not easy. And this is literally the number one question, okay? But I am gonna talk to you as the person asking me this question. [S1] Okay. [S2] All right? Because you are the only person that you can control, right? So we can't co...
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[S1] ... I feel bad. [S2] ... Yeah, it's a, it's a frustration in this. Um, what I'll say on that is the five minute pickup is the answer to your tendency to randomly put things down. Okay? [S1] What is the five minute pickup?
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[S1] And so it's, I'm going to set the timer for five actual minutes. [S2] Okay. [S1] Not trying to trick myself into working for longer, but I'm going to set the timer for five minutes at whatever point in the day where it crosses my mind.
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[S1] Okay. So that's my answer to you in this scenario. My answer to him, if he was asking me this question- [S2] Yes. [S1] ... the first thing I would do is tell a little story about, uh, my husband. And, uh, we do this thing where, like, on our anniversary, we'll kinda like, you know, write in a journal and- [S2] Yea...
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[S1] Do better in these types of things by organizing. You're going to help them by decluttering. Even some of your own, like stuff in that common area where we both use this space, it's better for us to have less stuff in here so that there's less stuff to get out of control. [S2] So do you recommend that a couple do ...
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[S1] Uh, for anybody listening that's going to go straight to a visible space- [S2] Yeah. [S1] ... and start this process, can you just let them know a little bit about the emotional aspect of trying to let go of stuff and going through the process of decluttering?
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[S1] I'm not going to ask you to change how you feel about things, but start with the trash. Okay? Because the beauty of that is as you start with these things and you make visible progress, before you've ever even dealt with anything that has emotion attached to it, is you see the progress that you're making. [S2] Mm-...
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[S1] ... less stuff changes my house. It changes how this space looks. And then by the time you get to more emotional stuff, it looks different to you, right? [S2] Oh, that's great. [S1] Or you have created the space to be able to keep that item. Where when we're like, "That's gonna be emotional, and so I'm not gonna d...
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[S1] Phenomenal. I have three final questions to ask you. [S2] Okay. [S1] You've been sensational, by the way. Just sensational. [S2] Thank you. [S1] Um, you distinguish between routines and to-do lists. Can you explain that?
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[S1] focused in on that and would take about seven days is what I found, to be like, "Okay, now I get it. Now it's starting to feel natural." And then I would move on to another thing. And so I was adding daily habits and that is what changed my house. That plus decluttering. [S2] Gotcha. [S1] Not organizing, not decor...
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[S1] ... two very basic habits, okay? Really, there are four that I talk about in how to manage your home without losing your mind. But if you can't do those, you just do these two. And if you can't do both, you just do one. And the first one is do the dishes. [S2] Right. [S1] So it's like, even when I start to feel co...
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[S1] ... to get started. [S2] Yep. [S1] Uh, then the next thing is the five minute pickup. Okay? [S2] Yep. [S1] If I will do that, even if my house is a disaster right now, I'm not gonna get it perfect first and then start doing five minute pickups. I'm just gonna do a five minute pickup every day at the least. [S2] Ri...
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[S1] Yes. Uh, checking the bathrooms for clutter. [S2] Yep. [S1] Is another one. I'm not even talking about, like, cleaning it. I'm not talking about cleaning it. I'm just talking about checking it for clutter. Make sure that, you know, when it's time to clean it, all I have to do is clean it. It's not, like, covered, ...
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[S1] Wow. [S2] Okay. [S1] I love this. I love this 'cause I can do this. This is awesome. And how, here's a big one. Now that we're getting into the routine of these four things, and we have five minute pick ups that help us with our relationship because we're kind of on a daily basis decluttering, and we have the five...
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[S1] Thank you. [S2] Thank you. [S1] You've been so kind. [S2] Much for being here on the Mel Robbins podcast. I can't wait to have you back. [S1] I'll come back anytime. [S2] Is there anything else that you, that we didn't get to, that you just wanted to share? [S1] Yeah, I did want to be clear with the five step proc...
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[S1] Dana, thank you so much. We have loved having you on the podcast. We will absolutely have you back. I cannot wait to, to talk to you. We'll have to do cleaning next. [S2] Let's do it. [S1] Done. All right. Thank you. You're the best. [S2] Thank you. [S1] You're the best. [S2] This was fun. [S1] You're so good.
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[S1] ... that it's almost hard to make it go silent. It's much easier to put a new playlist in there. [S2] Right. [S1] And so there are two things that, uh, two tricks I'm gonna give you. [S2] Okay. [S1] So, number one, well, before I get into the tricks, I just wanna acknowledge something. Great job recognizing that t...
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[S1] So it says that, you know, whenever I put myself first and don't put, you know, other people first, I'm selfish. Or if I want to do something for myself, it's never gonna succeed. [S2] Now did some- [S1] Yeah. [S2] Did somebody tell you that? [S1] Yes, my parents, actually. [S2] Okay.
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[S1] ... that makes you feel terrible. [S2] Right. [S1] And so, when you can recognize who the programming comes from, it also helps because then you can separate yourself from that voice because it's not your voice, it's your parents' voice, and you have a chance to break this chain. You have the chance to be the one ...
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[S1] Mm-hmm. [S2] If you could program a different belief, what would the belief be? [S1] That, you know, um, um, b- b- worth it, basically. It's okay for me to take care of myself. It's okay for me to have emotions. It's okay for me to just be me. Yeah.
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[S1] And that's why you're scared to put yourself first. This goes way deeper. And so you're doing fantastic on behalf of all of us by recognizing that your own thinking is holding yourself back. And I can, I can tell you're just sick of it. And so here's what you have to start to do. Number one, I want you to name the...
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[S1] Sally, Sue, Jaco, Raul, uh, Michael. We gotta name this thing. [S2] Oh, boy. Um, Vicky, I guess. [S1] Vicky. Okay. So when this default programming comes up, you're going to talk back to Vicky.
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[S1] Yeah, but if you, uh, don't make your boss happy, nobody's gonna love you. [S2] Mm. [S1] Tell her, "Shut up." [S2] Shut up. [S1] If you, uh, don't do exactly what your parents want, they're gonna be disappointed. [S2] Shut up. [S1] Say it louder. I don't believe you. [S2] Shut up. [S1] Say her name.
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[S1] Okay. [S2] I mean it. [S1] Right. [S2] I really mean it. If you believed in yourself, what's one change you would make that would improve your life? [S1] I would be less intense, I would say. [S2] Why are you intense?
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[S1] Because, um, well, just a little story for you. Like, I'm an immigrant. [S2] Mm-hmm. [S1] And so are my parents. And they are very tough on me. They're very toxic because of, you know, culture. And they feel the need to raise me a certain way. [S2] Mm-hmm. [S1] But in terms of, you know, living in America, what th...
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[S1] So I'm just like always living on the edge, basically. [S2] Yeah. [S1] And if I could just, you know, embrace myself, I think I would be a more relaxed person. [S2] Yes. So are you open to some coaching?
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[S1] Because it has held you hostage for far too long, and you have the chance to not only heal yourself, but to heal this pattern that's been passed down through your family. [S2] Yeah. [S1] What are you thinking? [S2] Um, so for right now, we're not really on speaking terms. Yes, they have abused me physically, emoti...
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[S1] strong enough, confident enough, secure enough, and safe enough to reconnect with them if that's what you choose to do. And if you choose to never do that, that's okay too. Because you deserve to be happy. You do. [S2] Okay. [S1] What did you get from this conversation?
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[S1] And when you start to change the way that you speak to yourself, again, your whole mindset's gonna change. And that will be what empowers you to create a new relationship if that's what you decide to do in the future. But what you're doing right now is you're actually working on the most important relationship on ...
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[S1] Thank you. [S2] And thank you for telling me what you told me because you actually saying, "Wait a minute. I can hear what you're saying, but there was physical abuse here, Mel." That's you putting yourself first. That's another example of how strong you are. Claim that stuff, baby. [S1] [LAUGHS] Thank you. [S2] Y...
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[S1] Hi. [S2] How you doing? [S1] I'm great. How are you? [S2] [LAUGHS] Doing all right, doing all right. Do have a question for you. I mean, wonderful information from Poppy. My question comes more of what about when this kind of programming and voices are from spouses, friends, employers, you know, and they're just b...
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[S1] Great question. So the question is, what if you've got programming from childhood that now is basically being reinforced by colleagues, bosses, spouses, friend group, blah, bitty, blah, bitty, blah. [S2] Yes. [S1] What is the kind of default negative thing that you say to yourself?
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[S1] It's definitely not good enough, and who the heck do you think you are? [S2] Ooh, the who the heck do you think you are, that has a real bite to it. Um- [S1] Is it the- [S2] Yeah, it does. So, um, I don't know why I'm gonna ask you this, but I'm gonna ask you this. Were either of your parents on the narcissism per...
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[S1] ... that somebody else trained you to think this way. And it is a level of being deliberate. As if I said, "You're gonna move to Russia and you gotta speak fluent Russian." I realize you've spoken, how old are you? [S2] 65. [S1] You've sp- spoken English for 65 years. [S2] [LAUGHS] [S1] But for the rest of your li...
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[S1] But we've also got to start to do the work of catching the filter in your brain. So yes, your boss may be, uh, an erratic douche who calls out the things that are negative or is always in a grouchy mood. [S2] Mm-hmm. [S1] But that doesn't mean anything about you.
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[S1] ... the scene. This morning, sitting in the front seat of my husband's pickup truck, I am unpacking in real time for you the shit that went down on the drive there. [S2] [LAUGHS] [S1] And will you just give me some grace? This is not my finest hour.
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[S1] And you know that podcast, the Mel Robbins podcast? She did this episode about evening routines and how evening routines help you set up a morning routine. Well, guess what? I didn't listen to that fucking bitch. [S2] [LAUGHS] [S1] And I did not set myself up last night. Nope, not at all.
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[S1] That's what happened. I immediately started to feel that way. Oh my God. You know, the venting is not making me feel better. I thought it would make me feel better, and I'm wondering if it's because I can't hear you responding. So I'm putting my hand in my heart. [S2] Mm-hmm. [S1] It's okay, Mel. It's okay. It's o...
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[S1] Okay. [S2] Did you experience that? Like when- [S1] Yeah, a little bit. But I was more, I was more aware of just your ADHD or whatever you were doing. You were distracted by something. [S2] Well, I was freaked out when Oakley called. [S1] You mean while we were driving over here?
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[S1] Uh-huh. You were your typical stressed out self, so why don't we just take a drive home and deal with it when we get home? [S2] All right, you'll talk to me about it when we get home? [S1] Yeah. [S2] Okay, cool. So, uh, it is several hours after all of that that you just heard, and I am now upstairs above the gara...
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[S1] Hey, so how was your nap? I know you, you, uh, slept off the procedure. [S2] It was good. [S1] Awesome. Um, thank you for agreeing to come up here and unpack this with me. [S2] Sure. [S1] I would love to ask you, what is it like when I become like a tornado in those stressful situations?
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[S1] ... reaction. You and I have been trapped in a dynamic since we've met each other, so that's 29 years. [S2] [LAUGHS] I guess it keeps getting, yeah, it keeps getting more. [S1] Where I do this. I trample all over you when the alarm inside me rings. When the alarm inside you rings, you go in and you start to proces...
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[S1] So what do you wish? [S2] Well, a couple things about that though. [S1] Yeah. [S2] What's interesting is that the resentment cuts both ways. [S1] Oh. [S2] You know, you, you might resent me for not fighting fire with fire or responding how you would, but when I feel bulldozed or that you're not giving me the space...
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[S1] And so, instead of me- [S2] Not my trip leader, the trip leader. [S1] Whoa. The trip leader has arrived, people. Well, you're kind of my trip leader. I mean, I- [S2] [LAUGHS] [S1] ... like to think of you as my trip leader, but you are the trip leader, especially when you're leading your retreats for soul degree- ...
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[S1] hard thinking and problem solving and worrying that you are doing. I'm sorry for that. [S2] Thanks for saying that. I hadn't really spent much time thinking about that, but I think you're actually right, so I accept your apology. [S1] Thank you. I love you. [S2] [LAUGHS] I love you too.
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